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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what y'all don't
know y'all at all at all.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
So give them.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
The bus busses.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, listening to to I don't joy.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Joy you know, turn.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Love, you.

Speaker 4 (01:24):
Got turn.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 6 (01:41):
To turn the mouth turn.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
You probably got to turn mouth turn turn the water
of the moat up. Wouldn't come.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Come out, you think, huh?

Speaker 5 (02:02):
I sure will come on and everybody you are listening
to the voice, come on now. Dig me for one
and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Thank God
for it all the time too. Well, here we go today.
I want to share something with you that will help
you because it's helped me.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
You know.

Speaker 4 (02:23):
I was.

Speaker 5 (02:25):
Telling the story once that in this magazine called Rob Report,
that there was a statue I used to see for years.
I started buying Rob Report magazines years ago. So I
just wanted to see what affluent people did, you know,
just wanted to see what people with means did, what

(02:47):
type of investments they did, what they bought, you know,
where they traveled to the Rob Report. It's just like
a it's like a big boy toy magazine. You can
see what cars is out. You know, I didn't have
money for none of it. I was dreaming, though, you know,
I just wanted to see. And there was a statue
inside this magazine of this man who was coming out

(03:11):
of this bronze rock. And he was completely bronze, and
he was muscular, and you know, he didn't look nothing
like me, but he was a man coming up out
of a rock. And he had a huge hammer and
a chisel in his hand. And as his body from
the waist up was coming out of this huge piece
of stone, you could see where it was him who

(03:32):
had been chiseling in forming himself. So the name of
the statue was self made man. And for years man
I said, Man, I'm gonna get a big house one day,
and I'm gonna put that statue in the backyard in
the corner. That's gonna be my little spot where I
go chill, because I'm a self made man. Well, after

(03:53):
years of working at becoming somebody and having reached a
degree of success, I would have nothing to do with
that statue. There's nothing about that statue that appeals to
me anymore. Because on my journey and in my quest

(04:14):
to become what I thought would be this self made man,
where I could put this statue and had this statue
in the corner be kind of cold symbolizing it.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
I had made it.

Speaker 5 (04:24):
I realized on my journey there's no such thing as
a self made man. That we all need help, and
that God places people in our paths along the way
that benefit us oftentimes. And it's the most unlikely person
often times, and it's the most unlikely way that He

(04:45):
presents these people in front of you. It's crazy how
he does it.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
Man.

Speaker 5 (04:50):
And so this is a statue now that I look
at and I go, I see what the creator was saying.
And that's cool, but not for me, because I needed help.
And I've learned a lot of things like this along
the way. And the part I wanted to share with
you all about this is you've got to develop You've

(05:12):
got to develop a sense of purpose. You have to
develop a sense of purpose that's different. See, your purpose
is created for you by God because when He created
you as an individual from whatever two parents you may have,

(05:33):
that's not important here. When he created you, he had
something in mind for you, and it was a purpose.
God has not created a single soul to become a criminal.
God has never created a single soul to be a
drug dealer. This came about through some decisions we made

(05:54):
as sinners, and we stayed in that place. But see
what he created. He has a wonderful idea for us.
But God gives us human beings this thing called choice,
and we have the power to decide. So you can
decide if you're going to adhere to the purpose that
God created you and made you for, or you can

(06:16):
go ahead and make some choices on your own. So like,
if God wanted to give you a life and give
it to come to you and give you life more abundantly,
and that's his promise if you come to him, if
you choose him, then cool. But if you say, well
this ain't moving along fast enough, I'm gonna get my
own life of abundance, I'm gonna start slanging. Well, guess

(06:36):
what now, Tada, You made a decision and seek God's
decisions and choices. The one thing I learned about them,
God's decisions, choices, his voice, It has no sin in it.
And it amazing how many people it came up to
you and said, the Lord wanted me to do this
to you, and I'm doing it. That God is punishing
you and I'm doing this to you because God gonna

(06:58):
see that you get your day.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Who is this person?

Speaker 5 (07:02):
Who is this person that God all of a sudden
gave this authority and power to God didn't get at
the nobody, man, nobody, This person only had the right
to hold you to your past, the right to make
you pay. So who makes them pay when they make mistakes?
Because they all make them. So when I say you

(07:22):
have to have a sense of you have to develop
a strong sense of purpose. That means you have to
strongly get in touch with your creator to find out
what the purpose you were created for. See, it's two
things that I had to learn along the way. My
career was what I was paid for. My calling is
what I was made for. See, it's two different things, folks.

(07:46):
It took me a long time to learn it. Some
people think that they calling is to be a performer. Well,
that's what you paid for, and a big part of
your life is your performance. It's tied directly to your gift.
But what you made for, though, what you made for
is to bring about some significant change in another human

(08:07):
beings lives because we are all linked together in this chain.
That's what you are here for. Everybody has a purpose
to do something wonderful, meaningful, or impactful for another person.
You think the God that invented the airplane was merely
inventing the airplane so he could fly. Now, his purpose

(08:30):
was to become an inventor, to come up with this
invention so he could fly and we all fly.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
See.

Speaker 5 (08:36):
Sometimes God will make you successful so you can become
successful so you can turn around to teach other people
how to become successful. God save people, so you can
turn around it tell other people how wonderful it is
to be saved. You see how this thing work. That's
what we have to do as people. And it's nothing
that we have to go and discover. We have to

(08:57):
go and develop it. But if you haven't discovered your purpose,
it's simply because here's it. If you haven't discovered your purpose,
it's simply because you have not contacted the creator and
maker of your soul to ask and find out why
you were created. It's as simple as that. If you

(09:24):
buy a toyota, there's an owner's manual on the inside
that will tell you everything you know how to best
operate your toyota, how to make it work, how what
to do They got a troubleshooting section. Your faith is
the same thing as an owner's manual in your car.

(09:45):
Open up that book, man, find out how to jumpstart
your life, how to troubleshoot it and get on with
your life, and find out your purpose and develop a
strong sense of purpose.

Speaker 6 (09:56):
All right, Okay, you're listening hard morning show.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Lady. Slip me half your attention to this is the
quiet Stones, dude.

Speaker 4 (10:12):
That was it.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
That's all I wanted to do.

Speaker 5 (10:14):
I was gonna do smoking Robinson's cruising, but I didn't
have a voice for it on it because I just
worked out and I don't feel like it my train.
I don't know what's wrong with him.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
Excuse me.

Speaker 7 (10:25):
You don't have the voice of Smoky Robinson because you
worked out.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
Yeah, that's the only reason. That's the only reason.

Speaker 7 (10:31):
Called.

Speaker 5 (10:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it got it got me early. I
had it, but to workout through it, you know, yeah, yeah,
you know. And you know what right now, Like, since
I ain't never done smoke, it can't nobody to say
I ain't.

Speaker 4 (10:51):
He I do.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
When I lie, I do unverifiable lie. That's the thing
about it.

Speaker 5 (11:01):
No, hell no, you know all that's why Roscoe Wallace
wins all the time. Yes, yeah, Ladies and gentlemen, this
is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry, Calin Farrell,
Mouth of the South, Junior or government. Name is kill Space,
a man, founder of Kill's Hopes. Yes, sir, Yeah, they run, walk,

(11:26):
They do everything long as it's warm. They don't do
no cold weather activities for this foundation. No sub Ladies
and gentlemen, the legend that is Nephew Tommy. You know
what's on your mind to day?

Speaker 4 (11:43):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Man, I want to talk to you about something. Month man,
let me ask you this. Man, This is important for
man understanding man just prayer.

Speaker 8 (11:51):
Man understanding how to pray and what I'm praying for,
because sometimes we may not be praying the right prayer.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
Is it always something about Lord, let me have or
can I want? Let me say this.

Speaker 5 (12:03):
My answer is not gonna be a perfect answer. All
I know is what I have had to learn to
incorporate in my prayer. When I ask for something, I
always ask Him to guide me in his will, because
I have asked for a lot of things that really

(12:24):
wasn't good for me or really wasn't in the plan,
and I wasted a lot of prayers like that because
what he wanted and had for me, I was trying
to go in another direction. So now when I ask
for stuff, always say if it's in your will. But
then mostly now I go, Lord, fix it how you
want me to be and order my steps, you know,

(12:46):
put me in that direction. If you ask God to
order your steps, he'll do it for you as you
self received.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
I just want to try to do your will, you know.

Speaker 5 (12:57):
Now, sometimes as a human I fight against that, you know,
because it's uncomfortable sometimes, but that's it is.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Life is uncomfortable.

Speaker 5 (13:06):
You have to make uncomfortable decisions and you have to
get comfortable being uncomfortable if you ever want to be successful.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
So that's how I pray you can. Can you instead
of ordering your steps? Can you order a house or
order a cart? Can you order other things?

Speaker 5 (13:22):
Well?

Speaker 1 (13:22):
Yes, you can ask for.

Speaker 6 (13:27):
Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
I have asked for it. I have ordered get a cracking.

Speaker 9 (13:34):
Coming up a minute after the hour, we're gonna hear
once more from the nephew as he runs that prank
back right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
and this time now to start your morning off with
the Nephew and run that prank back?

Speaker 6 (13:52):
What you got, Nash?

Speaker 1 (13:54):
All right? I got time today, I got time to motivated.

Speaker 6 (13:58):
Woke up, motive date.

Speaker 1 (14:00):
Woke up motivated. H there we go.

Speaker 7 (14:02):
You sent my wife pitch. You sent my wife pitches?
God dog, let's go now speak the trouble. Hey man,
you've been sending pictures of uh are your damn stomach.

Speaker 1 (14:16):
To my wife phone? Hey? Well, hey man?

Speaker 7 (14:20):
Have yall been sending pictures of your muscles on your
stomach to my wife phone?

Speaker 4 (14:25):
Hey? What the hell is this fish?

Speaker 1 (14:28):
Right here?

Speaker 7 (14:30):
This fisher man? My name is Fisher, but they call
me fish. What I want to know from you? Have
you been sending pictures of your stomach to my wife phone?

Speaker 4 (14:39):
Man? I don't know. Did you talking about play boy?
Don't call me with this about am I?

Speaker 1 (14:44):
If I else?

Speaker 4 (14:45):
Pictures? Ain't none of you?

Speaker 1 (14:47):
It is my business, that's my wife. Then you send this.

Speaker 4 (14:51):
You knowing you must ain't got you must ain't ripped
up back me or something you worried about this? Hey man,
get you some fittiness, don't coming.

Speaker 1 (15:01):
I got some business. My business is my wife man,
And if you say.

Speaker 7 (15:05):
It, let me tell you something I'm gonna tell you
right now.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
I want to find you.

Speaker 7 (15:10):
If the same muscles that's on her phone is up
underneath your shirt, I'm whooping your.

Speaker 4 (15:18):
I ain't hard to find, play boy. You can find me.
And if I am sent pictures to your wife, you
must like it. Play boy?

Speaker 1 (15:24):
Hey man, ain't let me tell you. No, you're being disrespectful?
Is what you're doing. You understand you've been.

Speaker 4 (15:30):
You've been a little calling me on the phone.

Speaker 2 (15:32):
Which is you?

Speaker 4 (15:33):
Better check somebody else about this here? For I had
your wife brothering on my stomach?

Speaker 1 (15:38):
Hey man? Who you hey? See who you calling?

Speaker 2 (15:40):
Man?

Speaker 1 (15:41):
Who do you think you are? Hey?

Speaker 7 (15:43):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (15:44):
Who you think you talk? Let me tell you something?

Speaker 4 (15:45):
Okay, tell us take my phone about a picture?

Speaker 7 (15:50):
That's because I know them and them if I find
out them your muscles.

Speaker 4 (15:54):
On my what? What?

Speaker 7 (15:56):
I just leave?

Speaker 4 (15:56):
You found my phone number? So I guess you can
find me your own? Boy?

Speaker 1 (16:01):
Hey, how about this here? Where are you?

Speaker 4 (16:03):
Let's get hey? Ask your wife where I'm at? Where
she is?

Speaker 1 (16:07):
My wife is at work right now?

Speaker 4 (16:09):
If you think so? How you think she got on? Boy?

Speaker 1 (16:13):
Hey man? I tell you what when I find when
I find you a little disrespectful?

Speaker 4 (16:18):
Answer? Wife? Where I'm at Yeah that what's new. It's security.
You must not be ripped up like me.

Speaker 1 (16:27):
He man, Hey, hey, hey, I got I got muscles
on my stomach.

Speaker 4 (16:31):
I got right now to get these. Get this summer
right for your wife.

Speaker 7 (16:36):
Hey, man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right,
that's all right. Hey, how about this here. I know
who your wife feels now, that's all right.

Speaker 4 (16:43):
I know who she has too.

Speaker 7 (16:45):
Okay, well, that's all right, and I'll be calling her.
I'm calling her, letting her know what's going on.

Speaker 4 (16:50):
Take this out. She liked my stummer too, Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5 (16:54):
You like that.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
No, No, I'll tell you what. I tell you what
she don't like it. When I get to her, I'm
gonna let your wife know what's going on around here.

Speaker 4 (17:01):
Say, man, you don't know nothing about my wife. My
wife and your wife might be rubbing together home. White.
You don't know nothing about my business.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Ain't man, you ain't finna be disrespectful to me.

Speaker 4 (17:09):
Man, I have done told you once see don't see
me on what I will see.

Speaker 1 (17:14):
I already asked you once where are you.

Speaker 4 (17:16):
I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see
this rips up six pacts that your wife like, yeah, all.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Right, okay, okay, it's just a matter of time.

Speaker 4 (17:25):
Then you better go check your wife and don't be
calling across man.

Speaker 7 (17:31):
Okay, Well, I tell you what I'm gonna call an
That's that's what I'm gonna call a Yana baby.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Say what yeah yeah, and slows you down. Now, yeah,
I'm calling your wife.

Speaker 4 (17:42):
I'm calling up here. We can get it on the
three ways and then and then I call your wife
and get on my way.

Speaker 1 (17:48):
Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you this here right now.

Speaker 4 (17:51):
What I need is tell me whatever you want to
tell me.

Speaker 1 (17:53):
I'm telling you right now, pump, where you at?

Speaker 4 (17:56):
How much fuller? Throwing home? What's more? I'm in now?
You got my wife name? I want to know your name.
They called your fish or chicken or where they called you.
You can meet me wherever you want to home by
And we just said this ain't no fake feeling. Mean.
I deal with punk chump like you every day.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
Okay, okay, not a problem, not a problem. I'll be right.

Speaker 4 (18:19):
How long you gonna be that, I'm gonna be that
to your pump?

Speaker 7 (18:22):
It is okay you look, I want you to take
my my name down so you'll know who you're waiting on.

Speaker 4 (18:27):
You got your what uh? You said your name was
chicken or something like that.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
Do you have a pin?

Speaker 4 (18:32):
I don't need no pin?

Speaker 1 (18:33):
Punk. Okay? Do you want to know who this is?

Speaker 4 (18:36):
You gonna tell me who you was? Home boy?

Speaker 1 (18:40):
I ain't told you my full name, chump.

Speaker 4 (18:42):
I don't need to know you name. You got my number?
Calling me about a chattoo off stummach or something.

Speaker 1 (18:50):
It's muscles, it's muscles of your stomach. On my wife?

Speaker 2 (18:55):
Did the pictures?

Speaker 1 (18:57):
How many sit ups do you be doing this?

Speaker 4 (19:00):
Did you look at the other pictures?

Speaker 1 (19:01):
What other well? Okay, hey, hey man, hey man, I'm
not finna be playing with you by my wife.

Speaker 4 (19:06):
Man, I ain't playing with you. I'm playing with your wife.

Speaker 7 (19:09):
Okay, Okay, I'm gonna tell you something about your wife.
I'm gonna tell you something about your wife.

Speaker 4 (19:13):
That you don't know. If I don't know it, don't
know somebody else know it?

Speaker 1 (19:16):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (19:17):
I know it.

Speaker 5 (19:17):
Me and her know it.

Speaker 1 (19:18):
When I just got off the phone with her. You
want to know? You want me tell you what your
wife told me?

Speaker 4 (19:23):
Man, say what you have to say.

Speaker 7 (19:25):
I'm gonna say this right here, I'm gonna say this punk.
This his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Your wife a Yanna got me the prank phone? Your
ignorant man?

Speaker 1 (19:37):
How stupid are you? Hello?

Speaker 7 (19:43):
This nephew, Tommy man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Your wife got me the prank phone? Call?

Speaker 5 (19:48):
You do you?

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Damn you?

Speaker 7 (19:51):
You are more ignorant than me. This Yeah, God, hey, trouble.
I got to ask you this bag, answer this question
for me. What is what is the baddest that, I mean,

(20:12):
the baddest radio show in the lab, the only one
with nephew.

Speaker 4 (20:17):
I'll tell you that.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Oh man. Alright, trail man, you'll be easy man, go
light on, y'all.

Speaker 4 (20:26):
All right, I'm a we'll tell Steve.

Speaker 5 (20:28):
I say what.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
All like I say, is I did that? I did that?

Speaker 6 (20:39):
You met your match on that one.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Sorry?

Speaker 1 (20:41):
You're what I say at play pranking worship. It's pranking worship,
all right.

Speaker 6 (20:48):
Nephew, thank you.

Speaker 9 (20:49):
Coming up next, it is asked the c l O
Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building for your
love questions. Right after this, you're listening hard Morning show,
it is time for your favorite segment. Steve asked the
CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, Ready for your love questions?

(21:11):
This one is from Tally in Kansas. Tally writes, my
seven year old son came home and told me that
his dad has a new girlfriend and he hates her.
I told him that's not nice to say about anyone,
and he said she made two steaks for her and
his dad, and she gave him chicken tenders. I spoke
to my ex and asked if my son was telling

(21:31):
the truth, and he said that his child is fine
with chicken tenders.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
He's only seven.

Speaker 9 (21:37):
Now we've got a problem because my ex is on
board with his unequal treatment of his own child. Should
I talk to Should I have a talk with them
before this gets any worse?

Speaker 4 (21:47):
What?

Speaker 1 (21:48):
Well, we have a situation here, Tally.

Speaker 5 (21:53):
First, your question was your son hates your exes new
boyfriend real, Well, now you have her, Well you hate
her now, So we're not everybody in teleyhouse hate the
new girl. So now we do have a problem. And
you've spoken to him and the seven year old on

(22:15):
his steak. Now I can understand. I don't know why
you got these chicken tenders turned into hate for you.
I would have been more than happy when I was
seven and plus when I was seven. Back in them days,
I wasn't allowed to say I didn't want nothing. I
hate them damn chicken tenders, and shut my damn mouth.
I don't up my mouth about them damn chicken tenders.
Them chicken tenders would have got packed up in me

(22:37):
and it wouldn't have been as hard to go to.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
The bathroom next time. So that's any way it would
have happened.

Speaker 5 (22:45):
Yeah, you know what, now you just let these chicken
tenders out the next time you go. So that's what
it would have happened.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
In him. Do you have a little situation.

Speaker 5 (22:53):
I think you should just talk to him or your ex,
and he really would have been fine to chicken tenders.
I think this is an overreaction. Your boy's seven years old.
He's smart, he's manipulative. He know to come in here
with you and say the right thing. So please be
aware of how smart and cunning kids are. I'm gonna

(23:14):
come in and upset my mama. I'm gonna tell her
I hate her because they had steaks and they gave
me chicken tenders. Well, you know, you got a little
bitty ass teeth, so you know you got a little
baby teeth, little baby teeth posted to eat chicken tenders.
I don't think it's that big of a deal, and
I wouldn't let this little boy drive a wedge in
it right down. This unequal treatment is because he's not equal.

(23:38):
What you don't like is it was done by the
new girlfriend, and he made sure you knew it. Quite
a snick mood from the seven year old that loves
his mother deally tally, and he's just doing what little
boys do because he doesn't know yet that it's okay
to love two people. He does not know that yet,

(23:59):
and so he's sides and he's chosen you. But let's
not make it any harder than it can be.

Speaker 6 (24:06):
Yeah, very good.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
The chicken tenders was fine?

Speaker 6 (24:08):
Feel low, all right? Moving on to Aaron in Oklahoma.

Speaker 9 (24:12):
Aaron says, my mother's sixty four year old boyfriend makes
comments about my butt and it's making me uncomfortable. I'm
five to three and I'm a curby girl, but I
dress very conservatively. I've told my mother that he is
a dirty old man, and she said he means no harm.
It is underhanded way of giving a compliment. My husband
is about to get involved since my mom thinks it's cute.

(24:35):
I'm forty years old, so I don't need my husband's help.
How do I stop this dirty old fool?

Speaker 5 (24:40):
Uh uh no, No, I let your husband helele it.
Let your husband handle it. You gonna will be learning,
but just let him hand it. You're forty, You don't
need your husband.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
You don't.

Speaker 5 (24:53):
But the husband can talk to him a little bit
different in a man. Any more comments about my lady behind.
It's going to be a problem for you with your behind.
You just got a little man said it'll end a
lot quicker. See you then already went to yo mama
about it. It didn't work out. Now you're gonna go
to him. How you think it's gonna work out? Let
your husband talk to the man and it'll be done.

(25:16):
It's just a respectful conversation. He that's sixty four year old,
don't want it forty. He don't want that fast?

Speaker 1 (25:23):
What he won't fast?

Speaker 5 (25:25):
See I'm sixty four. I'm telling you that ain't what
we want. Look at the bright scared of it, but
we don't need that. A lot of speed moving around
in that room, and it ain't coming from him. A
lot of speed in that room, a lot of endings,
and it ain't coming from the sixty four year old.

Speaker 6 (25:47):
All right, moving, that's behind though, You're on point.

Speaker 9 (25:51):
This morning, Celo Courtney in Tampa writes that I am
recently divorced and I have a crush on my coworker.
I heard he's messing with another girl at work, so
I don't need or want any drama. He won't admit
that he's messing around, but the fact that he's sinking
around with me makes me believe it's true. We've done
everything except go all the way, and I want him badly,

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but for some reason, he's holding back. I invited him
to my house, but he won't come. Does this mean
he is with another woman and he's trying to be
faithful to her?

Speaker 1 (26:22):
Lady? Are you for real?

Speaker 5 (26:24):
Huh?

Speaker 6 (26:24):
Yep, she's for real.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
Wait are you for real? Courtney?

Speaker 5 (26:28):
You all have done everything but go all the way.
He won't go all the way. You invited him to
your house, but he won't come. You know he's dating
a coworker that he's fooling around with. You don't want
no drama, but you right on the edge of creating drama.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
I can't.

Speaker 5 (26:44):
I can't help you, Courtney, because it seems to me
like you want to do what you want to do regardless.
Now you just need Uncle Steve's permission. I'm not gonna
give it to you.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
Good, that's what she wants. You're dating this man is
dating another woman on the job. But he won't admit it.
But you know it.

Speaker 5 (27:02):
He don't admit to you either. You just got divorce.
Why would you jump into somebody that's in a relationship.
That's probably why you got divorced in the first place.
Somebody would meet somebody already in a relationship, Courtney. Let's
not be stupid here, Courtney. There are other men out there.

(27:26):
Open up your pool, get on the day, ap Quit
trying to find your man. At your job and your church.
It's the same people down there every week. Open up
your but it's the same men every week at the church.
Ain't no new men coming to the church. It's new
women coming to the church. Ain't no new men coming

(27:48):
to the church. Men sign up for church like Republicans
sign up for the vaccine.

Speaker 1 (27:57):
Damn. And we don't want it right there?

Speaker 6 (28:05):
This it leave it right there?

Speaker 3 (28:10):
Wow?

Speaker 6 (28:11):
Does this mean he is with another woman and he's
trying to be faithful to her.

Speaker 1 (28:16):
It means he don't want you. What you're trying to
put it on here? He don't want you.

Speaker 5 (28:22):
He'd have done everything with you except go all the way.
You'd invited him over the house and he won't come.
One and one is two. Yes, what you won't whatever
he doing, don't worry about that. He don't, won't you?

Speaker 6 (28:36):
Hello, will come on Courtney, Come on, Courtney girl. All right,
thank you, clo. You're listening hard Morning show. All right, Steve,
is that time and game when we need you the most.
We need you to be the judge. It's time for
right or wrong with your nephew.

Speaker 5 (29:01):
Have you ever noticed all of the worst segments we
have Tommy is you know it's amazing to be a
part of the worst segment and the best segment. Well,
he's a part of the worst and the best. The
pranks are the best segments, right, wrong.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
You just don't like the fact that I make sense.
I wish to try to gang up on me.

Speaker 8 (29:22):
You and this really shows you what the A and
M college system is doing. What this really shows me?
He got one ready?

Speaker 7 (29:33):
Okay, So let me ask you this, So I asked
him this last night. He ain't respond. Will you tell
him it is rude for a deaf person to do
sign language? Why their mouth is full of food? You
you're not supposed to talk while your mouth is full.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
So am I right? You're not supposed to sign language
while you're eating. Tell him.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
You're not gonna say just.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
So you mean to tell busy if your fingers going,
that's rude.

Speaker 5 (30:17):
But if they could chew with their mouth closed and talk,
if you can chew, if you talk without over it
in your mouth.

Speaker 7 (30:26):
I saw this at the restaurant and I was a Paul,
this is just rude. You can't be doing sign language
in your mouth.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
That rude. I haven't a spell a Paul.

Speaker 3 (30:41):
Language.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Do that one now, Then here's another one for Mr
Junior boy. Tell this boy if.

Speaker 7 (30:53):
Some simese twins, Yeah, have six with some most Siames swings?

Speaker 1 (31:00):
Ain't that swinging? Telling that dog about that last night time?
I think you're right on that. Yeah, I had two corners.
I had to get out. I can't even I'm with

(31:20):
you when you're right.

Speaker 5 (31:23):
Swing.

Speaker 8 (31:24):
If I look over my shoulder, see my partner with
the person I'm connected to.

Speaker 4 (31:30):
Swinging.

Speaker 5 (31:31):
I can't believe if you saw the twins and you
in here with this girl, it ain't a wing in hell.
I see.

Speaker 6 (31:43):
I love right or wrong.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
I'm sorry, I love it.

Speaker 6 (31:45):
I love as stupid.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Looking at me like, hey man, what is you excited
about right here?

Speaker 4 (31:59):
I am you?

Speaker 1 (32:01):
Yeah? Yeah, and you looking at us?

Speaker 4 (32:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (32:05):
You over there getting it and I know what you're
doing it, but you try to flip, y'all. I'll tell
you what better not get him.

Speaker 4 (32:22):
Just like that.

Speaker 5 (32:25):
That's it, that's true.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
He's gonna text me back. Okay, you you you kind
of got a point on it. You didn't want adn't
want a minute?

Speaker 7 (32:36):
What else? You know the reason why he picked him
a call because last week we're on the phone, I said,
you do know the devil is married?

Speaker 1 (32:44):
And then he gonna just hang up on me. What
will you tell him the devil is married? I can
tell you marriage.

Speaker 7 (33:07):
Is right?

Speaker 6 (33:08):
Come on, Johnny, right or wrong? Why why are you
saying that?

Speaker 1 (33:15):
Finish it? I know his wife and his ex wife.

Speaker 4 (33:19):
Why?

Speaker 6 (33:21):
Yeah, more than one way you can get in trouble.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
Okay, Well, I was just talking about the devil.

Speaker 7 (33:28):
I just told him the devil was mad because you know,
because you know when they when they be raining and
sunshine and at the same time, that's when they be arguing.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
That's because I know he that's my grandmama say it.
So I need to be the man are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (33:42):
No?

Speaker 5 (33:45):
No, he actually does have a wife. And would you stop.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
Stop it right now? And how much pain was you
in me?

Speaker 5 (33:59):
Boy?

Speaker 6 (34:02):
I mean we all heard that when we were little,
right when it's raining or whatever.

Speaker 5 (34:07):
I've never heard that, and this first time I'm hearing
this for Tommy.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
But I am here to confirm so far.

Speaker 6 (34:16):
And how do you know it?

Speaker 1 (34:18):
Cause I stated.

Speaker 5 (34:25):
That.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
See, I just didn't work out for you.

Speaker 6 (34:28):
Don't say that, Tommy.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
Are you doing Tommy what I love? Right or wrong?
This first time? You've ever been two out of three? Okay,
I don't want to say this from you. I'm telling
you you do it.

Speaker 5 (34:45):
The death one was the only one I didn't like,
the swinging Siamese and Lucifer's ex wife.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
I'd say you got three out of three today. Okay, yeah,
I don't.

Speaker 6 (35:00):
But you're the judge, Steve.

Speaker 1 (35:03):
No, I think he was.

Speaker 5 (35:04):
He was on fire today except for the death talking.
I think it's very gifted. If death person can talk
and chew with his mouth, I think that's a talent.
Let me tell you right now, because my my mouth.
Food fall out my mouth all the time when I'm talking.

Speaker 6 (35:20):
You're listening Morning show? All right, guys, it is time
for it. Would you rather here's the first question.

Speaker 9 (35:27):
Would you rather get a paper cut on your finger
every time you turn the page of a book or
a magazine or something, or would you rather bite your
tongue every time you eat?

Speaker 6 (35:40):
So what's worse?

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Give me that paper cut? Cut paper cuts.

Speaker 5 (35:44):
I'll take the paper book because I ain't reading no
book no way, so that ain't going to be too
much damage. I don't never read more than a page anyway.
I beat a page, bite my damn tongue.

Speaker 6 (35:58):
I think I'm rather my tongue.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
No, I know you don't. We must ain't never been
it before.

Speaker 6 (36:04):
I've been my tongue before. But I don't like paper cuts.
I hate that.

Speaker 1 (36:09):
Coming up, and you rather do that cut? I can't bite.
I hate biting my tongue, biting my jaw all.

Speaker 6 (36:32):
That is painful.

Speaker 1 (36:33):
And when the molars chopped down, look and then you
do it back to back, yes, yes, yes, yes, make
what is wrong with me and take that the heel
in there?

Speaker 6 (36:46):
Yeah a long time? All right, here's another one.

Speaker 9 (36:50):
Would you rather be a little late, just a little
bit late, or just way too early?

Speaker 6 (36:56):
Way too early?

Speaker 1 (36:57):
I'm going with the little late. Really, I'm celebrity cordially.

Speaker 6 (37:01):
Oh yeah, you're a celebrity.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
Yeah, I'm gonna be way too early, sitting up in
here for I'm sitting up in here.

Speaker 5 (37:08):
Offer like I'm thirsty, Like if y'all know this will
be Yeah, Hey, yeah, I'm sitting up here like I
ain't got no work or nothing.

Speaker 1 (37:17):
Hit me for this role. I shouldn't want to do
this show. Hey, how y'all doing this? Speaking of everybody
coming in something? That's Steve Harvey? Hi, guys, how you doing?
I'm here?

Speaker 10 (37:27):
Hey, just let that Steve Harvey. Yeah, can't just let
whoever it is. Let's let's let him over here. But
a five minutes early?

Speaker 4 (37:35):
Really need this?

Speaker 6 (37:37):
So, yeah, you're a celebrity, so you can. I hate
being late? Oh god, I hate.

Speaker 5 (37:43):
I had a guy one time though this happened in
New Orleans and me and him fell out behind this
had a meeting doing Essence Festival with this guy at
this restaurant, and uh, I had I had a driver,
and so the driver got caught up in traffic and
was waiting. And so when I got to the restaurant,
I ten minutes late. This guy was a white collar
Wall Street guy. He said, wow, you're late. I said, yeah,

(38:05):
I called you man. I was running behind him. My
driver got stuck in traffic. He said, you didn't think
to get a cab. I said, no, I didn't think
to get a cab. Well, if a cab would have
gotten you here on time, you think that would have
been better. I said no, I can't get in cabs. Dog,
I'm famous. I don't know what to do with it
to take me. I got a drive. All of a sudden,
he got Steve Harve and the cab. Now I'm in

(38:26):
the back of the French Quarter getting my ass.

Speaker 1 (38:28):
Whoop.

Speaker 6 (38:33):
You're listening hard Morning show. All right, guys, here's a
question for you.

Speaker 9 (38:38):
What old arguments do you or your significant others still
bring up to this day?

Speaker 1 (38:45):
Junior man?

Speaker 9 (38:47):
Now, well, now, wait a minute. This was the topic
on reddit dot com. A man said he complimented a
waitress on her short, bald haircut in front of his wife,
and over a year later, his wife still makes him
feel badly about it. According to the story, his wife
offers to go to the bathroom and shave her.

Speaker 6 (39:05):
Head if that will make you happy. I love it, Yes,
I love it.

Speaker 1 (39:13):
Right, it's just a nice cut.

Speaker 9 (39:17):
Well, maybe I need to go to the bathroom and
shave my head if that'll make you happy.

Speaker 6 (39:21):
Maybe that'll make you happy if I got a shaved head.
I know just how she said, you.

Speaker 1 (39:26):
Know, yes, what a compliments?

Speaker 9 (39:35):
Oh you don't like my long hair? Maybe I need
to shave my head. Maybe I'll yes. And if you compliment,
you handing out compliments and stuff.

Speaker 6 (39:45):
All right, So, Steve, I don't know why this makes
me think of you.

Speaker 9 (39:49):
Do you have any arguments in your relationship that never
go away? And you know something that comes up from
time to time?

Speaker 5 (40:00):
The thing we really are about and over some damn kids.
You know, it's some damn kids. Most my arguments is
be about some one of them kids. We have a
difference of opinion of the way we all to handle it.
That's the one that you know comes up all the time,
you know, And I'm too hard. I don't know how
to love the kids in spite of their problems and stuff.
I know kids have problems and everything, but you know,

(40:22):
I don't want to hear.

Speaker 6 (40:25):
What you're their parents are supposed to listen.

Speaker 1 (40:28):
I'm tired of parents.

Speaker 5 (40:31):
Do you jammen?

Speaker 1 (40:32):
You think you know everything?

Speaker 5 (40:33):
Go ahead, mess this little section of your life up
with your little stupid ass.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
Come in here. I don't know the man. I'm so sick. Man,
Hell go ahead. Try.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
Oh.

Speaker 5 (40:46):
She got so mad at me the other day after
one of the kids asked me if I said try,
she said, till you.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
Know that ain't gonna work.

Speaker 5 (40:51):
Well, okay, if you tell them don't do it, they're
gonna do it anyway. Okay, try it, try it.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
Let's let's go ahead owing knowing that.

Speaker 5 (41:05):
That's not knowing what's gonna happen. Because when I told
you not to do something, you do it anyway. Then
you come back in here. I should have listened to you.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
Yes you don't. She's going out here and do it
fall on your face.

Speaker 5 (41:19):
But did you?

Speaker 9 (41:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (41:22):
I did most of the time. Most of the time.

Speaker 5 (41:26):
Well, I just kept most my stuff from him. I
didn't go in there with opinion. I ain't ask some nothing.
I just went on and blew it.

Speaker 1 (41:33):
I've I did that and shut your poor ass up?
What did you do now?

Speaker 6 (41:39):
You didn't want to hear all yeah, yeah, all right,
so junior, I know you have one.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
Oh god, oh okay.

Speaker 8 (41:48):
Girl came to the store time right and after the show,
you know, they go to the bathroom and she hears
some women in there talking about me about how funny
I was and how.

Speaker 1 (41:57):
Cute of them.

Speaker 8 (41:58):
She heard that, so anytime anybody compliment me. And she said, well,
let me go in the bathroom. See what the discussion
is this time about somebody. Somebody say I like your shirt.
She says, let me get up and go to the bathroom.
It must be a conversation. She the only one in
here like this damn shirt. So he got I don't
like to talk about that every damn time we go
out there.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
I don't care if we go to pulling the drive through.
Oh I like your sunglasses.

Speaker 8 (42:20):
Women running the bathroom in MacDonald's, it must be a
conversation about the sunglass, don't matter where we go.

Speaker 1 (42:27):
We was at our cousin funeral, he said, man, I
like that suit. Old suscussion in the bathroom at the church.
Let me running the bathroom. She was saying about the
suit man. Yeah, she's so fly. Yeah, I was even
doing nothing.

Speaker 6 (42:41):
Said, I didn't ask these ladies to say nothing.

Speaker 1 (42:45):
But then I brought it. I flipped it, you know,
I said, well, you should have said something first.

Speaker 6 (42:48):
Then we had here it's no more.

Speaker 1 (42:50):
Oh that was Why did you say that, Junior? Because
I'm stupid?

Speaker 2 (42:58):
What did you say?

Speaker 1 (42:59):
What happened? She turned around on you that talking for
the day. Oh yeah, the silent treatment. All right, guys,
thank you.

Speaker 6 (43:13):
Coming up, we'll have more of the.

Speaker 9 (43:14):
Steve Harby Morning shows right after this. You're listening hard
Morning show coming up at the top of the hour.
Right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
and the subject is my mother and my ex are besties.

Speaker 6 (43:30):
My mother and my ex are besties.

Speaker 9 (43:33):
We'll get into that in just a little bit, but
right now the nephew is here with today's frank phone call.

Speaker 6 (43:38):
What you got for his neft.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Make a wish ministry? Let me hear that.

Speaker 6 (43:45):
That sounds nice.

Speaker 1 (43:47):
It sounds good, don't Yeah, it always does? Und you
best you bet.

Speaker 4 (44:00):
Cat.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Let's go New Baptist. This is Terrence may help you please,
Brother Terrence.

Speaker 4 (44:06):
Yeah, how you doing? I got your number? You you
with the over the church you with to make a
wish ministry?

Speaker 2 (44:13):
Yes, I am I may help you.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
Well listen, I'm I'm I'm actually uh, I'm I'm terminally ill, brother,
brother Terrence, And I don't you know, as far as
what the doctors tell me, it could be six months
or another year, but I know, uh, my time here
is definitely limited.

Speaker 7 (44:36):
You know.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Well, I'm sorry to hear that, but we're definitely here
to help you out with whatever you need or whatever
we can help you with.

Speaker 1 (44:43):
So what can we do for you?

Speaker 4 (44:45):
Well? You know, I truly believe that sometimes people have
you know, I've seen one of the more movies they
got with it got a bucket list or whatever they
call it. You know, people trying to do things before
they leave here. I guess I'm just sitting around trying
to figure out what I could do and what I
wanted to do before I left this world and went
on to what he asked for me next. You know,

(45:08):
I don't believe in doing anything unless is prayed on first.
Oh yeah, if you don't mind, maybe you can you know,
before I even tell you my wish, we prayed that
the wish would come true. You're not doing anything like that.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
Oh no, I don't mind praying. That's what we're here for.
Bow your head with me.

Speaker 4 (45:28):
Yes, yes, yes, sir, is your head by yes, sir, yes, sir.

Speaker 2 (45:31):
It is Brother God. We come to you in the
homeless way. We know how Lord, we asked you to
touch this young man and every which way he hurt,
and then we asked you to deliver him for whatever
is going on with him and let him know that
we the church is here to help him with whatever
his needs is in his last days. And Jesus Name, I.

Speaker 4 (45:54):
Pray say Amen with me, Amen, Amen, that's.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
Gonna do it here. Now. You a member of the
church here of Newton, Well.

Speaker 4 (46:03):
I was a member. I still consider myself a member.
It's just been quite sometimes trying to over a year
and a half, two years since I've been able to come,
you know, due to my illness. But definitely I will
remember that.

Speaker 2 (46:18):
Well, that's all right. We're not worried about all that.
We just here to take care of your last and
final wish. That's what our ministry is for, you know.
We helps people with with with anything they need, you know, like.

Speaker 4 (46:31):
What what what all of I mean when when people
call and won't things what all of you you all
what all of y'all helped them with?

Speaker 2 (46:38):
Well, we've helped them with the rent. Uh, take them
to the store, help them with a utility bill, come
out and cut the grass, anything like that that they
just can't do. Take them to the doctor's apartment. Anything
we'd like to help them with, we do exactly that.

Speaker 4 (46:56):
Okay, Well I pretty much got those things taking care.
You know. I think what I'd like to do between
you and and myself brother saying that I've never told
anyone what I'm about to tell you. I've never been
with a with a woman to I'm you know, I'm

(47:16):
thirty eight, but I've never been with a woman.

Speaker 2 (47:20):
Well, I guess that might be a blessing. You might
you might be here. That's a good thing.

Speaker 4 (47:25):
Well, you know, but sometimes you know, I guess before
I leave, I guess that's a desire that I have.
And and and uh, what I wanted to ask you
was there is a lady there at the church, and
before I leave, I think that's the woman that I
would actually like to.

Speaker 5 (47:44):
To be with.

Speaker 2 (47:47):
Well, I don't know if make a wish. Ministry can
support that kind of stuff. But go ahead, let me hear.

Speaker 4 (47:53):
Okay, the lady that I'm I'm actually interested in actually
uh she works at the church too. O real when
not see, she's kind of me tall on, she's about
five to nine and she's probably about a size D
a beautiful long league man and and and sandy type
of hair, sandy color, sandy brown man. And I mean

(48:16):
she looked like CAREMEA.

Speaker 2 (48:18):
Hold on a minute. What's her name?

Speaker 4 (48:22):
Uh? I think her name Linda?

Speaker 2 (48:24):
Now hold on, that's my wife?

Speaker 4 (48:27):
What you mean?

Speaker 2 (48:27):
Go ahead?

Speaker 5 (48:28):
See?

Speaker 4 (48:28):
Wait? Wait wait wait wait wait wait Linda is your wife?

Speaker 2 (48:31):
Yeah, that's my wife? You sorrin?

Speaker 1 (48:34):
What do you mean?

Speaker 5 (48:36):
Listen?

Speaker 4 (48:36):
Y'all are ministry now now, if y'all supposed to be
taking care of people, don't make a wish and taking
care of what they want before they leave this world.
If that's my wish, what is.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
The problem listening here? You didn't cross every line there
was about this man, so I don't give a damn
about it. The more you're talking about sleeping with my wife,
if I see you, I'm gonna do something to you.
They ain't gonna even be able to recognize you. So
what the talking about missing with my wife?

Speaker 4 (49:01):
Son of them? I'll call missus Linda myself and seeing
she don't have a problem with helping me to make
my wish come true, go right ahead and.

Speaker 2 (49:08):
Call and you won't call nobody else. That'll be the
last call you make.

Speaker 4 (49:14):
I thought y'all were here to relieve people so they
can enjoy themselves before they leave this world.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
You talking about sleeping with my wife? Are you crazy?

Speaker 4 (49:24):
But if I'm finna leave here, ain't nobody gonna know
what you want?

Speaker 2 (49:28):
I don't care if you die. I don't care. You
ain't sleeping with my wife and you fool with her,
you probably gonna go ahead and die quicker than you
need to.

Speaker 4 (49:37):
I thought this was a ministry.

Speaker 2 (49:39):
I don't tell you.

Speaker 4 (49:40):
Now you're over there telling me about dying. Y'all supposed
to be a ministry that helps people before they leave
on wonder what it is?

Speaker 2 (49:46):
But you talking about sleeping with my wife? You got
an illness? But something must be wrong with your ma.
Ain't talking about missing with my wife.

Speaker 4 (49:53):
Ain't nobody gonna even know I fen with your wife want?
I'm gone there, ain't gonna be with the two of y'all.
At least you would have helped me before.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
I no, I can't help you with nothing. And let
me tell you something. I'm not the preacher, I'm not
the past I'm not the deacon, I'm not none of them.
But if you mentioned my wife, you gonna know who
I am. I'm gonna be the hundred taker. Do you understand?

Speaker 4 (50:12):
I don't hear what you're saying. But I got one
more paint. I need to tell you about who I
who asked you to go ahead in me, nephew shop
from the Steel Harvey Morning Show, your wife Linda, y'all
me the phrase shot me.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
Now, y'all tell.

Speaker 4 (50:31):
You wont y'all ain't recording this man recording every last.

Speaker 2 (50:41):
Lord ham murs past ain't gonna hear this is.

Speaker 4 (50:47):
Oh god, I got one more thing that Lord, what
is the fastest and I mean the radio show in the.

Speaker 2 (50:54):
Land, Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 5 (50:59):
Come on, NASA, I ain't now wanted them, Blake, I'm
on you must.

Speaker 4 (51:10):
Hold on.

Speaker 1 (51:13):
Wait a minute. Let's talk about my talk talk.

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Talking about said.

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Man Sandy Holland you go that what's her name?

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Was play so much?

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Care.

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Sleeping? My wife? Stupid?

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What his?

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What?

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His prow proud? I was laughing through the plot.

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Yes he will.

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Want do it, Yes he will. He gonna do it
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He gonna do it for you, bless him in these
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Speaker 6 (52:22):
All right, thank you? Never oh lord?

Speaker 1 (52:26):
What's her name?

Speaker 2 (52:28):
Coming up?

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Strawberry letter, Linda, your stupid subject.

Speaker 6 (52:32):
My mother and my ex are besties. Will get into
it right after this.

Speaker 9 (52:37):
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(52:58):
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You never know, You never know. Buckle up and hold
on tight. We got it for you here.

Speaker 9 (53:08):
It is a strawberry letter subject my mother and my
ex are besties.

Speaker 6 (53:15):
Dear Stephen Shirley.

Speaker 9 (53:16):
I've been divorced for almost three years, and I moved
away after the divorce to start anew. My husband was
an avid cheater, and my mother finally told me after
he'd been having an affair with a woman for over
six months. My mother is employed by my ex husband
as his accountant. He has two businesses that do very

(53:37):
well in a small town they're in. My mother was
a retired accountant when he and I met, and he
fell in love with her and he hired her.

Speaker 6 (53:48):
When I say they fell in love, I mean it.

Speaker 9 (53:51):
Whenever he and I would have a disagreement, she'd always
tell me to consider his point of view.

Speaker 6 (53:57):
When he cheated.

Speaker 9 (53:58):
I think she knew it all along and only told
me because my ten year old daughter saw him with
this woman.

Speaker 6 (54:05):
Excuse me.

Speaker 9 (54:06):
My daughter kept referencing daddy's friend at work, so I
asked my mother and she spilled the teeth. Our relationship
hasn't been the same since then, and she said it's
because I divorced my husband. Her belief is that I
should have kept my family together no matter what. The
things my husband did for his girlfriend were the same

(54:28):
things he did for me, So it wasn't the cheating
that got to me. It was the time he spent
with her and the trip he took her on. I
asked my mother to reconsider working for him, and she
said that whatever we had going on should not affect
her money. Our own daughter doesn't talk to my ex
right now because she figured out who daddy's friend was.

(54:51):
My mother called recently and said she's trying to get
the family together for Thanksgiving and she wants me there.
She said, my ex, we'll be there. We'll be doing
the turkey and she would cook everything else. How can
my own mother be so ignorant and invite him to dinner?
Should I show up and curse them both out? Well,

(55:12):
you know that sounds good on paper, it really does,
but this is bad. I mean, this situation is bad,
and yes, your mom is really wrong. I don't advise
you to curse your mom out. I mean, after all,
she's all the way wrong. I agree with you one
hundred percent, but she is your mom. She's not acting

(55:32):
much like a mom, though, I will say that because
her loyalty should be to you at all times, and
not your ex. He's cheating, he's your ex husband. She
knew about it, didn't tell you. She was keeping these
secrets all because of money. Is that why she was
doing it? I think this had to hurt you, and

(55:52):
this is some kind of betrayal on your mom's part.
The best thing you could do is decline her crazy, thoughtless,
inconsiderate dinner invitation. Just don't go. Please make your own
plans for you and your baby girl, your daughter, maybe
some friends or whatever. But the main thing is to
forget what they have going on at the mom's house

(56:13):
and just let that go. Your mother is just ugh anyway.
After the holidays, I say, continue to distance yourself. This
is a toxic situation. Stay away from it and let
them do their thing. Let them do her if she
wants to stay over there with him. You know the
lines are crossed, the line in the sand. It's divided now.

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Don't let her make you feel guilty for divorcing him.
That was a while ago, and you should. You definitely
did the wrong thing. If he was doing all this
stuff that your mother said, and he obviously was, This
is just so wrong. On so many levels, Steves.

Speaker 5 (56:52):
My mother and my ex are besties, don't I don't
get this, especially from a male perspective. I just don't
understand how this operate and functions. But when you're talking
about dysfunctional people, then it's a little bit easier. You've
been divorced for three years, you moved away to start
new your husband was a big cheater, and your mother

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finally told you after having an affair with a woman
for over six months. Your mother is employed by your
ex husband as his accountant. Here's where the problem is
right here. So he's got two bus that do very
well in a small town. That my mother was a
retired accountant when he and I met, and he fell

(57:37):
in love with her, and he hired her. Now here's
a problem with the letter. When I say they fell
in love, I mean it. There's a lot in that statement, ma'am,
And I don't have the time to unpack it, but
I'll just rearrange some stuff in the luggage.

Speaker 1 (57:57):
Whatever he told me we.

Speaker 5 (58:00):
Had a disagreement, the girl's mother would always tell her
to consider his point of view. Then when the dude cheated,
the lady wrote the letter say I think she knew
it all along and only told me because my ten
year old daughter saw him with this woman. So I'm
assuming that she had the daughter before she married the man,

(58:27):
because she refers to the daughter as my ten year
old daughter. And then the daughter kept referencing daddy's friend
at work. So you asked your mother and she spilled
the tea. Our relationship has been the same since then,
and she said it was because I divorced my husband
and her belief as I should have kept my family

(58:47):
together no matter what. Now, I think, ma'am, this is
where you got a little bit going on. Maybe your
mother tried to stay out of your business, didn't have
solid proof like the daughter didn't. She just saw him somewhere,
and your husband told her this is daddy's friend from work.

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That's why the daughter was referencing her the woman as
daddy's friend. Hang on, I thank your mother's just trying
to stay out of it. But I give you a
real scoop boy to come back.

Speaker 7 (59:18):
All right.

Speaker 9 (59:19):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject
my mother and my ex are besties. We'll get back
into it right after this.

Speaker 6 (59:30):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (59:33):
All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject my mother and my ex are besties.

Speaker 5 (59:41):
This woman's been divorced for three years from her husband,
who was a big cheater on her. When she met
her husband, they introduced him to her mother. Her mother
fell in love with him, and the girl says, I
mean fell in love with him. Like I said earlier.
I think there's something behind that, but I don't have
time to unpack that because you didn't mention that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
In the letter.

Speaker 5 (01:00:02):
Your daughter, who obviously you had before you married this man,
made a reference one day to daddy's friend at work.
You inquired to your mother about who daddy's friend was.
Finally she spilled the tea. She didn't have to then,
but she said, well, and I think your mother was
trying to stay out of y'all's business because she didn't
have solid proof that the man was cheating, but she

(01:00:25):
had some inkling. So when you came to her, she
told you she think the man is cheating. And then
you all's relationship ain't been the same since because you
thought your mother should have told you right away, Well,
it ain't your mama's business, and I think that may
have something to do with it. But then your mother
says it's because you divorced your husband and her belief

(01:00:47):
that you should have kept your family together no matter what.

Speaker 1 (01:00:52):
Now here's what.

Speaker 5 (01:00:54):
You say the problem is, you say, the problem is
the things your ex husband did for his girlfriend were
the same things he did for me. So it wasn't
the cheating that got me. It was a time he
spent with her on the trip he took her on.

Speaker 1 (01:01:07):
That's the cheating. See, sisters, don't that's the action.

Speaker 5 (01:01:14):
Yeah, don't talking about No, he did the same thing
for me. How that's what cheating? Is you seeing somebody?
Why are you seeing somebody else? And what do a
dus do when they see each other? They spend time together?
How do they spend time together? They go somewhere. So

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what you sitting up there talking about this the time
he spent with her on the trip.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
What were they supposed to do?

Speaker 5 (01:01:42):
Everybody don't have an affair at lunch in the backseat
of a car. He got money, he gonna do something
a little bit different, So don't talk about it's the
same things that got you. That's what cheating is, ma'am.
You just trying to find another reason to say you
didn't keep the family together.

Speaker 4 (01:02:02):
But you don't have to.

Speaker 5 (01:02:04):
You don't want to stay with the dude because he cheated,
that's all. Now it gets a little sticky. You came
to your ask your mother to reconsider working for him,
and she said that whatever we had going on should
not affect her money. That's an interesting statement, yes, but

(01:02:26):
it gets even more interesting though. Our own daughter doesn't
talk to my ex right now. Now it's our daughter,
so I don't know when y'all had the baby skip that.
Don't talk to her my ex right now because she
figured out whose daddy freem was. My mother called recently
and says she's trying to get the family together for
Thanksgiving and she wants me there. Your mother is trying

(01:02:49):
to repair her relationship, but she's stupid, so she said
your ex will be doing the turkey and she would
cook everything. Now the now here is the thing. The
affair that the ex had is probably over. He probably

(01:03:12):
wants the best thing he ever had back. He done
went to the mother to get you back. So now
the mother says she's trying to get the family together.
Your ex is gonna be doing the turkey, and she
would cook everything else. How can my own mother be

(01:03:32):
so ignorant and invite him to dinner? Because your mama ignorant?

Speaker 1 (01:03:39):
It's okay, she's so disloyal.

Speaker 5 (01:03:42):
Some people have mama's just ignorant.

Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
You got one.

Speaker 5 (01:03:47):
But now here's the danger I see in this. Should
I show up and curse them both out?

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Of course?

Speaker 5 (01:03:51):
Now why had energy to that? Why are you getting
dressed to go over there to cuss both of them out?
First of all, if I were you, I would try
to fix the relationship with my mother. That's what I
would do. That's an important relationship. She did give you life.
Now do it sound like she wrong in this case? Absolutely?

Speaker 1 (01:04:13):
Yeah, yes.

Speaker 5 (01:04:15):
But now if your husband is not trying to get
back with you, which I think the case is, here
is the spoiler alert. You said your husband fell in
love with your mother, and I mean fell in love.

Speaker 1 (01:04:33):
Them.

Speaker 5 (01:04:33):
Let me make a statement about me and ladies in
case you want to know where you're staying with a man.
If you want to know where a man's heart is,
the holidays is where he is. If you want to
know where a man's heart is the holidays is where

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he is.

Speaker 6 (01:05:00):
He's where he loves the family, and he still loves hers.
What you're saying, because he's over, he's going to be
over at the mom's house.

Speaker 5 (01:05:08):
But Thanksgiving, Yeah, now you can take that one of
two ways. I don't think you think your mama is
seeing this man, but I do think your mother is
attracted to.

Speaker 1 (01:05:22):
His power.

Speaker 6 (01:05:24):
All the money.

Speaker 1 (01:05:25):
She said, Oh wow, the power is money show.

Speaker 5 (01:05:29):
Well, okay, he done provided her with a job. She's
told her. You should have stayed with your family to
hold your family together. Your mama old school. All right,
you get together to find out who really stuffed in there.

Speaker 9 (01:05:42):
All right, guys, we got to get out of here.
You can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's
Steve Harvey f M. And check out our Strawberry Letter
podcast on demand. Okay, our Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
You can hear today's letter.

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Okay.

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I love black people. Keep it in the tuted deodoring
just just in case, just in case. You need to
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Speaker 11 (01:09:09):
You're listening hard morning show? Well, does being scared make
you want to get busy? You know, get busy?

Speaker 6 (01:09:19):
You know what that means?

Speaker 9 (01:09:20):
A study says yes, if someone is yelling boo makes
you want to hook up with your boo, You're not alone.
Experts say shriek inducing horror film scenes can make you
feel horny. According to Leah Holmgren, a Manhattan based intimacy
and relationship coach, it's a matter of simple human instinct

(01:09:42):
to want to be close to another person when you're scared.
This phenomenon is from prehistoric times when we needed to bond,
especially in dangerous situations and increase the chances for survival. So, guys,
Junior Steve, what movie, what horror movie scared you so

(01:10:04):
much that you wanted to, you know, knock the boots,
get busy?

Speaker 1 (01:10:10):
Yeah whatever.

Speaker 8 (01:10:11):
Yeah, Nightmare on Elm Street for me because I had
to stay woke. Youre going to speak on your mind,
just keep going. Yeah, you watched all of it one time? Sure,
he watched it from one to ten.

Speaker 1 (01:10:27):
Just to stay up. That would do it for me.
It's kind of weird, I know it is.

Speaker 9 (01:10:37):
I mean, I see if you go together to a
movie and you guys, you know you're scared, so you're
you're cuddled up in the movie and everything, but after
the movie it's over.

Speaker 2 (01:10:48):
Right.

Speaker 1 (01:10:49):
Yeah, I'm gonna tell you right now.

Speaker 5 (01:10:50):
You don't get to me. Yeah, matter of fact, I don't.
I don't mean I don't. First of all, I don't
go to scared movies, so I don't know what the
hell do last scary movie I went to the exors
and that did not induce the exorsies.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
I was about sixteen.

Speaker 6 (01:11:08):
Now that's when you and your guys set.

Speaker 5 (01:11:11):
And I tell you what do make me want to
get busy? Like if I'm getting.

Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
Cold, if it gets cold outside.

Speaker 5 (01:11:17):
I want to do something. If I got the flu,
I want to do something. It's dark outside, I want
to do something.

Speaker 6 (01:11:28):
Every everything other than a scary movie.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
Sound as soon as I wake up early in the morning, Yeah,
good time.

Speaker 6 (01:11:35):
Yeah right, but can we back up to the flu?

Speaker 1 (01:11:38):
Can we back up to that? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:11:39):
If I got that energy, I don't need it. I
just want to feel better. If I'm doing something, I
forget I got the flu.

Speaker 6 (01:11:47):
Yeah, and then give it to give it to your wife.

Speaker 1 (01:11:50):
Well he probably got.

Speaker 5 (01:11:51):
It anyway, you know, when there laying around front, we'll
do something like it. For like, if I got a fever,
I want to do something, then too, I promise you.
Then I can always say this is gonna be hot.

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
You got to be comeing.

Speaker 5 (01:12:05):
I ain't got to laugh. You better come on this
to be hot. And it is just you know, you know,
just like that, you know, so you gotta know, you
gotta know what it is that turn you on. You know,
like if I make a left turn and I should
have made the right turn. I want to do, so.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Don't take much. It's scary movie. Yeah, if you want
to all right, you know, and yeah, you know how you.

Speaker 6 (01:12:40):
Give us insight into men's thinking.

Speaker 5 (01:12:42):
Yeah, you know, like if you like if I'm standing
there talking to you, and you know how you just
blow sometimes because you from a salad, but you blow.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
Your hair a little bit up and down. Yeah, you
better get that. That'll get you done too.

Speaker 5 (01:12:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
Yeah, they don't really take much of what you're saying.
That's exactly right.

Speaker 5 (01:13:05):
Like if you're outside and you playing sports or something
like volleyball and a mosquito bite you on your ass
and you slap the mosquitos, that'll probably yeah, more wanting
to do. I know you, I know you were smacking that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:21):
For me, I know a little more mosquito. I'm just
telling you how me and are I don't take much. Don't.
If I have a sign crisis and y'all call me,
I'll probably go one through something.

Speaker 5 (01:13:35):
Yeah, because he's sick.

Speaker 1 (01:13:36):
Somebody need to care about me.

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make ignorance.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
I don't see how you doing today, sweetie.

Speaker 5 (01:13:49):
That's it, that's sweetie.

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That's what you want to see Harvey Morning Show coming
up right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (01:14:01):
So, according to nutritionists, certain foods guys contain natural sleep
promoting compounds like trip to fane and turkey that makes
you sleepy after Thanksgiving dinner. Also, carbohydrates raise your blood
sugar and serotonin levels, which then converts into melotonin and
natural sleeps.

Speaker 4 (01:14:20):
Eight.

Speaker 6 (01:14:21):
Here are some foods that can add to your evening
diet that you can add to your evening diet to
help you fall asleep faster and get some quality sleep.
Before I give you the list, what do you think
they might be?

Speaker 1 (01:14:32):
Walking pie ye blue bed.

Speaker 6 (01:14:35):
Nope, not on the list because.

Speaker 5 (01:14:37):
It's a boiling ass piece of pie. It put me
to sleep great time.

Speaker 1 (01:14:40):
I try.

Speaker 6 (01:14:44):
Banana bananas on the list. You eat bananas, it will
help you get some quality sleep.

Speaker 5 (01:14:50):
Oh really, maybe I better quit eating bananas on this
damn golf course.

Speaker 6 (01:14:55):
Here because you start to get sleepy around it.

Speaker 1 (01:14:59):
No, damn.

Speaker 9 (01:15:01):
Any other sit not pumpkin pie, Almonds, Almonds, they make
you sleep, They help you get a good night's sleep.
Cherries or cherry juice. Oh I loved oh that chip?

Speaker 1 (01:15:15):
Yes one.

Speaker 6 (01:15:21):
Can the mill or lavender tea?

Speaker 1 (01:15:25):
I love that mouth wide open.

Speaker 9 (01:15:28):
Eggs, Steve, you love eggs, and those are the folks
that help you get a good night's sleep.

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
So thank you, my favorite.

Speaker 5 (01:15:35):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (01:15:37):
All right.

Speaker 9 (01:15:37):
Coming up, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show,
and at thirty three minutes after we'll play around.

Speaker 6 (01:15:41):
Of would you rather right after this? You're listening hard
morning Show? All right, guys, it is time for it.
Would you rather? Here's the first question.

Speaker 9 (01:15:51):
Would you rather get a paper cut on your finger
every time you turn the page of a book or
a magazine or something, Or would you rather bite your
tongue every time you eat?

Speaker 6 (01:16:03):
So what's worse?

Speaker 1 (01:16:05):
Give me that paper cut? Cut?

Speaker 5 (01:16:07):
Paper cuts? I take the paper hook because I ain't
reading no book, no way, so I ain't fit to
beat too much damage.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
By the time.

Speaker 5 (01:16:15):
I don't never read more than a page anyway, I
beat a page, bite my damn tongue.

Speaker 6 (01:16:22):
I think I rather bite my tongue.

Speaker 1 (01:16:25):
No, no, you don't. We must ain't never beat it before.

Speaker 6 (01:16:28):
My tongue before.

Speaker 1 (01:16:29):
But I don't like paper cuts.

Speaker 6 (01:16:30):
I hate that you rather just doing?

Speaker 1 (01:16:33):
Coming up, and you rather do that? No paper cut,
give me the cuts. I can't bite. I hate biting
my tongue, biting my jaw, all.

Speaker 6 (01:16:55):
That is painful.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
And molas when the molas chopped down? Lord, and then
you do it back to back? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
you're gonna make what is wrong with me? You a
long and take that the heel in there?

Speaker 6 (01:17:09):
Yeah a long time? All right, here's another one.

Speaker 9 (01:17:13):
Would you rather be a little late, just a little
bit late, or just way too early?

Speaker 6 (01:17:18):
Way too early?

Speaker 1 (01:17:20):
I'm going with the little late. Really, Yeah, I'm a celebrity.

Speaker 6 (01:17:23):
Cordially, Oh yeah, you're a celebrity.

Speaker 5 (01:17:25):
Yeah, I'm gonna be way too early, sitting up in
here for I'm sitting up in here off it like
I'm thirsty. Like if y'all know this will be yeah, Hey, yeah,
I'm sitting up here like I ain't got no work
or nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:17:39):
Hit this role.

Speaker 1 (01:17:41):
I shouldn't want to do this show. Hey, how y'all
doing this? Speaking of everybody coming in to something here,
let's Steve Harvey. Hi, guys, how you doing? I'm here?

Speaker 10 (01:17:50):
Hey, just let that isn't Steve Harvey. Yeah, they just
let whoever it is, let's let's not known here. But
a five minutes early.

Speaker 4 (01:17:57):
Really need this?

Speaker 6 (01:18:00):
So, yeah, you're a celebrity, so you can. I hate
being late. Oh God, I hate you.

Speaker 1 (01:18:05):
I had a guy one time though.

Speaker 5 (01:18:06):
This happened in New Orleans, and me and him fell
out behind this had a meeting doing Essence Festival with
this guy at this restaurant, and I had I had
a driver, and so the driver got caught up in
traffic and was waiting, And so when I got to
the restaurant, I got there ten minutes late. This guy
was a white collar Wall Street guy. He said, wow,
you're late. I said, yeah, I called you man. I

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was running behind up my driver got stuck in traffic.
He said, you didn't think to get a cab. I
said no, I didn't think to get a cab. Well,
if a cab would have gotten you here on time,
you think that would have been better. I said no,
I can't get in cabs. Dog, I'm famous. I don't
know what this dude fin to take me. I got
a driver. All of a sudden, he got Steve Harve
and the cab. Now I'm in the back of the

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French Quarter getting my ass whoop.

Speaker 6 (01:18:54):
Coming up.

Speaker 9 (01:18:55):
Had forty nine minutes tab to be our it's our
last break of the day, and of course we'll get
some closing remarks from the one and only, our fearless leader,
Steve Harvey.

Speaker 6 (01:19:04):
Rather be a little late right after this. You're listening
Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are our
last break of the day. Come on, Steve, you got it.

Speaker 5 (01:19:15):
I ain't even got to waste no time. These are
my closing remarks today. Here's the subject. There is no
winning in giving up none. There is no winning in
giving up. You have got to see it through. You

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have got to stick to it. You have got to finish.
That is the only option you have when it gets
dark and tough for you, you have got to see
it through. You have got to survive it. You've got
to finish. There is no other option there. There is

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no winning in giving up nothing. Let me explain something
to you. In order to get to it, you must
go through it.

Speaker 1 (01:20:13):
That's a fact.

Speaker 5 (01:20:15):
Anything you want in life is on the other side
of something you have to go through. In order to
get to it, you have to go through it. Stop
complaining about that. I'm going through it part of your life.
Because everybody got that. You're not the only one that's

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going through it. Stop complaining. Look, I know sometimes you
want to stop and go man, I'm sick of this.

Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
I get it. I do too.

Speaker 5 (01:20:49):
I know there are times you want to go, man,
this is hard, and you are absolutely right, it is hard.
I know there are days where you go, man, I
just I ain't feeling this today.

Speaker 1 (01:21:04):
I got it.

Speaker 5 (01:21:06):
But in order to get to it, you got to
go through it. I name something you want that's just
sitting right there, and you can just reach over this yours,
name it, Name what what? Now? I'm talking about something

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that's really worth having. I'm talking about something you dream about.
I'm talking about that thing that keeps you up at night.
I'm talking about that thing that burns on the inside
of you that death won't let it go. Those things
right there are on the other side of something you
got to go through. If you are unwilling to go through,

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you are not going to get to You gotta get
this in your head.

Speaker 9 (01:21:55):
Now.

Speaker 5 (01:21:56):
I know when I say stop complaining about what you're
going through, I know that's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:22:01):
But let me what does the complaining accomplish?

Speaker 5 (01:22:05):
Nothing? It accomplishes nothing. Every time I complain about how
tired I am I'm still tired. Every time I complain
about I'm sicker than people talking about me, they gonna
still be talking about you. Ain't gonna talk about you
some more. I'm tired of people talking about me that

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don't know me. What difference do it make? What they say?
I mean, really, y'all, if you think about people who
are talking about you behind your back, do you really
understand that they don't matter?

Speaker 1 (01:22:45):
I said it earlier today.

Speaker 5 (01:22:48):
People that talk about you behind your back is because
they behind you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:54):
Who in front of you.

Speaker 5 (01:22:55):
Talks about you behind your back? Name the person? No, man,
everybody that talks about you behind that your back is
behind you. You've passed them. That's what they mad about.
Everything you want is on the other side of something

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you got to go through. In order to get to it.
You got to go through it. This is the way
life is set up for every living one of us.
None of us are exempt from this. Quit trying to
figure out how you can get around that part of it.

Speaker 1 (01:23:35):
It ain't happening.

Speaker 4 (01:23:38):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:23:38):
I can't tell you the situation I'm in right now,
and all of it's predicated on some other people doing
what they supposed to do. But you know, what I did,
I prayed about it. I turned it over to God
because it was out of my hands. But see, the
majority of what I want is out of my hands.

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My dreams are so big and so illustrious that in
order for me to attain them, I absolutely have to
have God's help. I don't want nothing I can accomplish
on my own. I'm in the I need my Heavenly
Father business. I'm in the I need You Lord business.

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So what I'm going through right now is solely God
moving a lot of pieces into place to fix the
prayer request that I put in. And you know, what
it's causing me to do is causing me to go
through something. But I've learned that God is always working

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on my behalf because I'm a believer, I'm a child
of His. I honor him, I give him the glory,
the credit, and the praise. So he working on my behalf.
So as I sit here and try to I practice
the patience that I need to allow Him to move
the pieces into place. It's causing me to go through something,

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but guess what, if I want to get to it,
I got to go through it. And I believe with
everything in me He's working it out. Quot tripping, y'all.
It's happening to everybody, including you. Talk to God. He

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loved to hear from you. He's in the blessing business.
He's in the forgiving business. He's in to get your
life together business. He's in the fix it business. Those
are my closing remarks. Have a great day. Talk to God,
he loved to hear from you. See you tomorrow. God

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will it.

Speaker 4 (01:26:01):
For all.

Speaker 9 (01:26:01):
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