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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what's hame y'all
don't know y'all at all at all, So.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Don't given them amusing us. Yeah, listening to show, I

(00:38):
want to join.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Yah Yah Joy.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
They have.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
You know, turn o.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Love Origin.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Have to turn the mouth turn You probably got to
turn the mouth turn out, turn the moted. Wouldn't come.

Speaker 5 (01:58):
Come on your baby it Uh huh, I sure will.
Good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on
dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a
radio show, keep saying it can't stop. Man, oh man,
oh man, what a journey it has been. I thank
God for every single step of the way.

Speaker 6 (02:19):
I learned to thank him for the bad times too,
because it taught me something. All the bad times, all
the failures, they became valuable experiences in my life. Every
time I failed, I learned a little bit more about
getting up. Every time I was told no, it moved
me one step closer to yes. It made me stronger,
It toughened my skin. It made me learn how to

(02:41):
deal with haters. It made me learn how to deal
with people who don't have your best interest at heart. Man.
Ain't y'all all out there feeling me on this one
right here. It teaches you who is who in your life.
It shows you who you can depend on and who
you can And at the end of the day, what
is taught me most of all my hardships in my life,

(03:02):
And it's really about me and God. That is the
one factor that has been never changed in my life.
God has always been the same for me and for
you and for all of us. His word is true.
It don't waiver, it, don't shake you shape it. Readjust
it if you want to. It is really the way

(03:24):
it's written. It really is. You have your version of
it if you want to. But if you just read
it the way it is, it's real clear. Ain't no
loopholes in it. Every time you jump through a loophole,
there's something over there written that that counters that.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
So is what I want to get to today. Listen
to me.

Speaker 6 (03:42):
You got it within you, Oh it's there, Just use it.
Listen to me close. You got it within you. Oh
it's there, Just use it. If you hear me clearly,
I'm really finn to show you something this morning. You've
got it within you. Oh it's now just use it, Steve,

(04:04):
what you're talking about. See, here's what's wrong with a
lot of people. Here's what's stopping so many people. You
keep looking. We keep looking for others to save us.
We keep looking for someone else to rescue us. We
always looking for some group of people or somebody to

(04:27):
accept us. We keep looking for someone else's approval. We
always looking for some group or somebody to deliver us, somebody,
some group of people to give us credibility, somebody or
some group of people who says we matter.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
We spend so much time right there, and when.

Speaker 6 (04:51):
The cavalry don't come over the hill, when they ain't
no saving, it ain't no deliverance, And hey, you don't
get accepted. And then don't nobody really come I'm to
save you, And there't nobody vouching for you and giving
you credibility. It throw you into something, naw, you into
this little state of man. I don't know what I'm
gonna do. Oh you got it within you, Oh it's there.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
Just use it. You want to know what the real
deal is, y'all? It's you and God, and it's the
God in you.

Speaker 7 (05:23):
Man.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
I wish I could explain this right to you today.

Speaker 6 (05:26):
I want you to fill me on this right here,
and when you shake everything out the way, get rid
of all your expectations of people. The relationship you thought
was gonna last forever that didn't make it, the child
that you wanted to be, this that turned out to
be that, your friend you thought was your friend, that
stabbed you in the back.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
You found out they wouldn't.

Speaker 6 (05:46):
The job you thought was gonna keep you and you'd
retire home, they done closed down, gave you a pink
snip all of this. Man that promised that somebody told
you they was gonna loan you this money, and on
loan day they say they ain't got it. Oh man,
oh man, man, this money you thought was gonna come
through on.

Speaker 1 (06:02):
This check, The check ain't there? Oh man?

Speaker 6 (06:05):
How many disappointments in life can you get? You thought
you had enough credit. I was to graduate. You found
out two weeks before you didn't. You can't graduate. Oh
listen here, man, what's gonna happen? Man, look at the
disappointment in my life right now. But let me explain
something to you. When you get rid of all of that,
guess what you really got? You got God, that's the

(06:27):
whole anchilada. Baby, that's the ball of wax, that's the
monkeys in the barrel, that's the bag of chips.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
Listen to me.

Speaker 6 (06:33):
If you got God, do you understand that that's sufficient?

Speaker 8 (06:38):
Now?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
That say all you need? Can you feel me? Now?

Speaker 6 (06:41):
You and God and the God in you, it's really
what you need. Stop looking for all these outside sources
for approval, to gain acceptance, to get credibility, somebody to
save you. The calvari coming over the hill. Why won't
they recognize me? Why won't they give me clothure? Why
they fire me? Why they folk closing.

Speaker 9 (07:04):
On my house?

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Don't they know I'm laid off.

Speaker 6 (07:06):
When you get through it, all of that whining, it's
gonna come down to you and God and the God
in you. If God created man in his own image,
God is a part of you, that is a piece
of you that's godly.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
I don't care who you are. I don't care what
mistake you made.

Speaker 6 (07:26):
The murderer that's sitting in jail today because of a
moment in his life that he's now paying for, has
God in you?

Speaker 1 (07:35):
The biggest criminal When he.

Speaker 6 (07:37):
Gets through criminalizing or whatever you want to call it,
he's sitting there by his self, that is a piece
of God in him that lets him know thise ain't
the way.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
It's wrong. You can love his money if you want
to put you out of line, and you gonna pay.

Speaker 6 (07:52):
At the end of the day, when I get through
on this microphone, on this TV, all these articles, when
I get through it, all of that, you know what
come down to. Because see, it ain't always been this
way for me. Yeah, I've been trying to get here,
trying to get that.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Listen to me. It's been me and God, and it's
been the God in me.

Speaker 6 (08:11):
When I woke up a few years back and I
realized that's really what it was, it changed my whole life.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
It changed my whole life.

Speaker 6 (08:20):
Your whole life can get changed when you realize that
it's really you and God and the God in you.
Really man, People disappoint you, You argue with people, You
fall out with people, You break up with people, You
divorce people. You got people who you thought was free
as all of a sudden you find out they talking about.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
It's crazy how it is you been going what's going on?
What's really going on? But that's because guess what you
got all yours.

Speaker 6 (08:44):
Banked on them when you going bank it on the
one thing that you can count on.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
God's word ain't changed since we got here. It's solid.

Speaker 6 (08:53):
If you pray, believe, work hard, don't doubt you'll get
whatever you ask for. That's the fact that ain't no
rumor speaking out here doing it every day. Now, if
you ain't trying that, listen to me. You got it
within you. Oh it's there.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
You just got to use it.

Speaker 6 (09:08):
There is a weapon available to man called prayer.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
Use that.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
See.

Speaker 6 (09:13):
I look at my life, man, whenever I get a
little shaky, I look back. Oh hey, man, I ain't
really talk with him too much yesterday. Oh, tighten up.
I'm just telling you real. You got a better answer.
Oh oh oh, I know what. Oh my bad, Steve. Now, Steve,
I ain't winning costs. They ain't get me the loan
all now, Steve, I ain't winning costs.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
She left me. He left me.

Speaker 6 (09:34):
I ain't winning, Steve, because I got stuck with these kids.
I got a divorce. They fired me. They foreclothes on
my own. That's why I ain't winning. You ain't winning
because you ain't praying. You got to pray and believe
and work. That's the key. Come on, man, you got
it within you. Oh it's there. You just got to
use it. It's just you and God and it's to

(09:54):
God in you. And what y'all gonna do about that?

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Yeah? What's that? Is it fifteen? Is it twenty? I
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Speaker 3 (10:19):
The National Show launched two thousand five, two thousand, Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
When I came on board, Shirton, what year was that
two thousand and two or two thousand thousand two?

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Almost twenty five years.

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it don't a tribute on people be telling y'all that, man,
when I used when I was Ryan with my my
mama was taking me to school. I used to listen
to YO. I'll be like, what damn, you're making me

(11:04):
feel really kind of right.

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A lot of kids in LA.

Speaker 11 (11:10):
Really I grew up listening to y'all because their parents
that were in the car. They're right with their parents
and the parents were listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
And we want to thank you guys too, from that
day to this, thank you guys very much.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Time, very long time. Yeah.

Speaker 12 (11:30):
Yeah, yeah, children's ages so shared them three twenty eight now, golle, I.

Speaker 1 (11:40):
Swear that's what Trey is. Trey's twenty seven. Yeah, they're
both the same same age. And Winton I think is
the same age and Winton and yeah, wow, oh not there.

Speaker 3 (11:54):
I started radio when I was five. I'm not gonna
do it. Did you do radio in college too?

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Yes? I did. That was my major.

Speaker 3 (12:08):
You said your daughter's major is communications, right, Yeah?

Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah, yeah, that was communications. Yeah. And back when I
majored in they broke it down.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
You know, you had print journalism, radio, television, and then
it was like communications where it was like a teen
and ten and m c I. It was like that
different side of it. So Now it's like a whole
whole new world cool. When I talked to students and
all that, so.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
It's cool, it's cool.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
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time job. Yeah, yes, yeah, digital marketing. We have a director. Yes,
this is work. This is a profession. Your social media. Yeah,
that's branding. That's marketing because it's not going away.

Speaker 11 (13:04):
So it's not going away.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
It is promoting has completely changed.

Speaker 10 (13:09):
You know, remember when promoting women used to come out
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Speaker 1 (13:13):
It used to be on your wings she remember that?

Speaker 3 (13:15):
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Houston we had a group called I ten Media Boy
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Speaker 11 (13:27):
Media all right, coming up with thirty two minutes after
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Speaker 13 (13:34):
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It is time now for the nephew to run that
prank back. What you got for us, nef.

Speaker 10 (14:23):
Listen right here, shot be running it back. This right
here is Your wife gave me a disease. Okay, hey, hey, hey, hey,
hey hey, we got to talk about it, all right,
we got to talk about We got to bring it
all out here into the forefront. Your wife, her husband, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I who else he needs to know this? Your wife

(14:44):
gave me a disease, and I need we need to
have this discussion. So ket dog, if you would, if
you missed it yesterday. Here it is Agains. We're running
it back. Your wife gave me a disease.

Speaker 7 (14:53):
Come on cat, Hello, hello, I'm trying to reach out.
I'm trying to reach Yeah, this is home. Hey, how
you doing?

Speaker 8 (15:00):
Man?

Speaker 7 (15:02):
Just to be certain you don't say that's married to Tammy?

Speaker 14 (15:04):
Right yeah?

Speaker 7 (15:06):
Okay, cool cool? So listen, man, So you've heard about me,
you know, maybe I heard my name before because I
used to date tell me way before you guys got married.
Uh you know my name is, My name is Marsello.
So I just want to call and say how you
doing it?

Speaker 14 (15:20):
But I need to do Oh okay, yeah, I know
she mentioned you, mentioned you I used to be together before. Yeah, okay,
I've heard about you.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
What's what's the phone call for?

Speaker 7 (15:32):
I needed to talk to you, man, And I've been
holding this back at least four years. You know, I
haven't said anything. And you know I can't hold it
no more. Man, I'm going through so many issues right now.
I just gotta I gotta get this thing. I got
to get some grips on this thing that I'm going through.
But you know, I wanted to come to you, man,
to man, talk to you about this situation. You know,

(15:55):
I hate to bring it to you like this, but
when being Tammy work together, man, I ain't even to
say when we were together, Cammy gave me a decease man.
So you know I've been holding this, you know, And
I was like, I say, I I wanted to hit
you up. I thought about it two years ago, but.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
You like, what do you mean? Like she gave you
a disease.

Speaker 7 (16:21):
She gave me a disease about four plus years ago,
this way before y'all got married. I'm from understanding of
y'all been married about three years, right, Yeah, Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
Okay, okay, and you're calling me. You're calling me to
give me the heads up.

Speaker 7 (16:37):
Oh man, I'm calling because Sue these damn the medical
bills and all this that's just completely out of control.
I can't even you know, I can't take care of
myself no more with this, you know, And I don't
feel like I have to because she the one that
gave me the damn deceeed.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Okay, So you're calling because you want you want me
to pay you want you want us to pay.

Speaker 7 (16:59):
For medical bills. Dude, I'm like, I mean, damn, dude,
I mean, put yourself in my position. Man, I mean,
what's a brother supposed to do. You know, I'm sitting
over here with a disease somebody gave me, and.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
You know they going on with they like bro, Yeah,
but this is uh.

Speaker 14 (17:14):
So you're calling me telling me my wife gave you
a disease.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
First of all, she would have.

Speaker 7 (17:19):
Told me that.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Secondly, now you're telling me like I might have some
You gotta be kidding me, Well, what does she give you?

Speaker 1 (17:27):
What disease are you talking about? Man?

Speaker 7 (17:29):
At this point, you know, I don't even want to
discuss it. I just want to get on board. Can
we get some kind of understanding what the medical bills
that I can't out? It's out of control?

Speaker 2 (17:39):
Man, I'm not paying Okay, I'm not gonna pay for
your medical bills, especially when I don't even know what
the you mean?

Speaker 8 (17:45):
What do you mean she gave you a disease?

Speaker 7 (17:47):
Now I'm over here freaking out.

Speaker 15 (17:49):
Dude, Dude, I understand, you know, brouh.

Speaker 7 (17:52):
I hope you're good. I really you know, But I'm
just saying, man, dude, I don't know what to do
no more. Man, I really don't you know.

Speaker 15 (17:59):
Like I thought.

Speaker 7 (17:59):
Okay, yo yo, you need to tell me.

Speaker 8 (18:02):
All right? You talking in the circle.

Speaker 9 (18:04):
You're telling me something you have?

Speaker 15 (18:05):
Do you caught four or five years ago?

Speaker 8 (18:07):
Well?

Speaker 1 (18:08):
What is it's uncurable?

Speaker 7 (18:10):
What the disease are you talking about?

Speaker 8 (18:12):
Man?

Speaker 7 (18:13):
Dude, I'm I'm trying, dude with regardless of what it is,
I'm trying to handle the medical fields on it. Man,
That's what I'm trying to do.

Speaker 8 (18:21):
Due.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
What kind of medical bills could.

Speaker 15 (18:22):
You have for some you caught four years ago?

Speaker 7 (18:25):
Like four years ago, you should have been able to
six that.

Speaker 13 (18:28):
What is it?

Speaker 14 (18:29):
Dude?

Speaker 7 (18:30):
She gave me the disease and now I need somebody
to play these damn bills. That's all I'm saying to you.
All right, That's all I'm saying. Dante, Yo, I'm telling you.

Speaker 1 (18:41):
What I'm telling you, Marcello is quit playing and telling
me what the disease this is.

Speaker 7 (18:45):
It's marcellous, man, it's marcellous.

Speaker 14 (18:48):
Okay, i'n't tell what your name is.

Speaker 15 (18:50):
I'm getting malar y'all y'all want gave me dob beating?

Speaker 7 (18:54):
What do.

Speaker 8 (18:57):
Dire bees?

Speaker 7 (18:58):
The whye gave me dive beat it? Man?

Speaker 8 (19:01):
You want be coming?

Speaker 3 (19:02):
You can't?

Speaker 1 (19:03):
Can't somebody give you diabetes? What you mean she gave
you diabetes?

Speaker 14 (19:08):
Man?

Speaker 7 (19:09):
Your wife be cooking out, was cooking all them cakes
and pies and you know all that sugar you know,
and just man, you cannot bron't.

Speaker 1 (19:17):
Have anythinking my wife gave you her pies or something.

Speaker 8 (19:20):
Man.

Speaker 10 (19:20):
You just don't know how to work out, you know
how to eat?

Speaker 15 (19:23):
That's on you, Mary?

Speaker 9 (19:24):
Playing no bill for that diabet's wrong with you?

Speaker 3 (19:29):
Man?

Speaker 7 (19:29):
Oh so now nah nah now that's funny.

Speaker 11 (19:34):
Laugh.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
You're laughing at me, Dante, Yes, I'm laughing at you
call my phone talking about my wife gave you diabetes?

Speaker 7 (19:42):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (19:43):
For real?

Speaker 15 (19:45):
Is stupid?

Speaker 14 (19:46):
Brow?

Speaker 7 (19:49):
Can I say something else?

Speaker 8 (19:50):
No?

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Due, what what you want to say?

Speaker 7 (19:54):
I want to say this, Dane. You just got bright baby,
just left your time from the sea offy morning, So yo,
wife tell me got me to Frank Folko.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
Dang yo.

Speaker 7 (20:08):
Oh I got you, bag, I got you wow.

Speaker 6 (20:15):
Okay, see she told me about she told me about Marcello,
but I never heard his voice.

Speaker 14 (20:20):
Bro.

Speaker 8 (20:21):
I was on fire.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
Oh my god, you're good man, Oh my god, Oh
you have me some scary dude talking about the disease.

Speaker 7 (20:34):
Whoa oh, especially a disease that four years lingering.

Speaker 15 (20:39):
That's like whoa whoa.

Speaker 14 (20:42):
Oh my god, man, I was yo when she got home.
I was about to be so mad.

Speaker 3 (20:46):
Bro.

Speaker 7 (20:48):
And hey man, you got to tell me this man,
Come on, John Jay, what is what is the baddest?
And I'm talking about the bad radio show in the lake.

Speaker 8 (20:57):
To me?

Speaker 14 (20:58):
Y'all funny dude, this is Eve Harvey morning.

Speaker 15 (21:02):
Are you're eating right, you ain't got no dibetess.

Speaker 14 (21:06):
Now I'm worried, bron catch it like that.

Speaker 1 (21:11):
She gave me diabetes, y'all. You see what I'm saying.
She gave me diabetes, all right, crazy, thank you of you.

Speaker 11 (21:20):
Coming up next, it is asked the Riddlo the Ready
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Speaker 1 (22:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 11 (22:02):
In entertainment and headline news, there's a new ginger Ale
class action suit.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
Oh not my beloved ginger Ale.

Speaker 15 (22:08):
What you know?

Speaker 13 (22:13):
I guess that's our Drake anyway.

Speaker 11 (22:17):
List Evanderus's documentary will air on New Year's Day.

Speaker 1 (22:21):
I've had friends that have seen it already. They said
it is really good. You do not want to miss that.
That'll be on New Year's date. Gladiator two.

Speaker 11 (22:30):
Gladiator to movie director says Denzel's saying sex kiss.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
Did not happen.

Speaker 11 (22:36):
We'll talk about all these stories at the top of
the hour, but right now saying it ain't no, I'm
not understanding what's going on right now. Right now it
is time to ask the Riddlo, the ready love Officer
and junior Ready guys.

Speaker 10 (22:56):
Let's go all.

Speaker 11 (22:58):
Right, Rochelle in Tallahasse Tllahassee writes them, thirty four and
my boyfriend is forty. We met a year ago and
I've been to Georgia once to see him. He got
us a hotel suite in Atlanta, forty five miles from
his home.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
He's been to visit me three.

Speaker 11 (23:13):
Times, and on the last visit he mentioned marriage. I
haven't met his friends or his son. Does this sound
fishy to you?

Speaker 10 (23:22):
It's sound fishy to you. That's why you wrote me
in us. You already know this don't sound right. Forty
five minutes away from Atlanta. You know how fun that is?

Speaker 7 (23:30):
You?

Speaker 8 (23:31):
You?

Speaker 10 (23:31):
You and Brunswick, George, where you at? You way out
the way you damn near in Florida. You don't know
you need you need to First of all, no, we
ain't get married. Let's just get that clear right now,
So don't answer that question.

Speaker 1 (23:43):
Let him know.

Speaker 10 (23:43):
No, we need to We need a little bit more
time together. I need to meet your family, they meet
your son. I need to see how you live. And
I don't know nothing about you and see you what
can you bring me into the city.

Speaker 1 (23:52):
We can stop all this until you bring me into
the city.

Speaker 10 (23:56):
Bring me into the city. I want to get on
them peach trees. Why I ain't on them peach tree?

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Yeah? Right, And they've been dating for a year.

Speaker 10 (24:03):
They me in town, fitzplows, Why you ain't brought me all?

Speaker 8 (24:06):
Look?

Speaker 1 (24:07):
What what's today? On the way out? Forty five minutes?

Speaker 13 (24:09):
What's that about, Junior?

Speaker 16 (24:14):
I'm gonna tell him. You need to meet somebody. You
need to meet somebody you ain't meet.

Speaker 9 (24:18):
No, not a son.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
We ain't even met a friend.

Speaker 9 (24:21):
We don't know his sisters, We don't know nobody. Look,
meet somebody.

Speaker 1 (24:25):
Okay, all right, all right? Moving on to Miranda and
Baton Rouge.

Speaker 11 (24:29):
Miranda writes, one of my closest male friends try to
have sex with me during homecoming weekend. I told him no,
but it made me curious. He'll be home for Christmas
and I told him to.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
Stay with me.

Speaker 13 (24:42):
He said nothing. Did I mess up by rejecting him?

Speaker 11 (24:47):
Wow?

Speaker 10 (24:47):
I tell y'all about the HPCU home comes up and
tell y'all y'all get out there. Y'all don't know how
to act when y'all get out there, and y'all get
y'all get the feeling y'allself, y'all think y'all back on
the yard again.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
That's what's wronging with y'all. Now, Now you turned him away.

Speaker 10 (25:02):
Now you feeling like now he coming home for Christmas?
Then you want to you want to get a present.
And he's saying, now you know why because you rejected him.
You know me and don't like being rejected.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
So that really what's going on.

Speaker 10 (25:14):
We don't like being rejected. So just but listen. Tell
him one more time, Hey, I apologize for what happened. Well,
come up and stay with me if that's what you
really want, If that's the present you want for Christmas.

Speaker 16 (25:26):
Hello, hein't gonna say no the whole time. He gonna
say twice a yeah, men, ain't that whole. We're not
that lot, not at all.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
It was just one.

Speaker 16 (25:40):
It ain't take long. We ain't got the fried always
playing hard to get done, last long, don't.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
Be at Yeah, we're much better at it than you guys.

Speaker 11 (25:58):
All right, Moving on to Freddy into Peko, Freddy says,
my girlfriend knows that I have an older client that.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Flirts with me.

Speaker 13 (26:05):
For my birthday, she.

Speaker 11 (26:06):
Gave me three expensive gifts that I'm hiding from my girlfriend.
If I use the gifts, my girl will think that
I'm having sex with the lady and I am not.
What should I do?

Speaker 1 (26:18):
What is these gifts? She said, three expensive gifts. They
could be anything. Choose jewelry.

Speaker 10 (26:26):
Okay, then what you got to do? All right, this
is what you got to do. I'm gonna give you.
I'm gonna give you the play a player. Here we go.
You're gonna have to You're gonna have to buy these
or make it look like you bought these gifts for yourself.

Speaker 6 (26:39):
Wow.

Speaker 10 (26:39):
Okay, so let's just say it's a watch, all right. Yeah,
So call your he this is this is he marriages her.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
No, it's just girlfriends.

Speaker 10 (26:49):
Okay, call your girl from from from the Jerusto said,
baby show think might just watch I've just got my
own this watch up and hit my own from this.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Watch for a minute.

Speaker 10 (26:58):
You got to actually jump ahead of this, so all
three of these gifts though, and you got to go
by so then you'll be able to wear them. And
she understands, Oh, that's right. He thought that, just jump
ahead of me.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
That's all. That's that's smart.

Speaker 3 (27:11):
Okay, you agree with that the scene, Yeah, due to d.

Speaker 16 (27:18):
And then I'll stay depends on how long have they
been together, because we just been together a month. I'm
not explaining the damn pack. I'm gonna keep these gifts
coming up. You see the old lady at this job,
she loved me. Now we've been together. Now we've been
together year, I can understand.

Speaker 1 (27:35):
But month, thirty days doing this, you can't do it.
Gett gonna wear it proudly, all right, all right, thank
you guys.

Speaker 13 (27:45):
Last one is Kiara in Woodland Hills.

Speaker 11 (27:48):
Kiara says, I met a guy online and I told
him about my favorite bakery that I go to on
Saturday mornings. I went last week and the cashier told
me that a guy was there talking asking about me earlier.

Speaker 9 (28:01):
I spoke.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Now what Why has the guy mentioned it to me?
None of this feels stalky? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (28:09):
You all?

Speaker 1 (28:10):
Are you all that way?

Speaker 10 (28:11):
I buy doughnuts that I don't like this here? You
just you there fo No, that's not good. You so
quick telling everybody where you go and what you do.

Speaker 11 (28:20):
Okay, she didn't tell everybody. She just told him.

Speaker 10 (28:24):
But I don't want nobody popping up in my croissant place.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
I don't like that.

Speaker 10 (28:30):
You're talking and you and they're talking to the clerk.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
Asking by me. That sounds pretty weird. That don't sound
weird to go? Yeah? Did he didn't tell her that
he was getting over there?

Speaker 11 (28:43):
Yeah, and that's the part that makes it suspect start her.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
Yeah, yeah, that's serience.

Speaker 16 (28:53):
The fact of the matter we all know is that
with the Hills, we know that too.

Speaker 9 (28:58):
Yeah yeah thereby.

Speaker 11 (29:01):
Yeah, and she was she met him online, so you
gotta be careful.

Speaker 10 (29:06):
Yeah, you got you gotta vet that a little bit more.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Yeah, Yeah, it's that's kind of crazy. What would you guys.

Speaker 16 (29:14):
Do if I'm dating you and I meet you online
and you in that where I get my Microssan said,
getting the car and going by, I ain't.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
Coming find a news. I'm gonna get it.

Speaker 16 (29:24):
It ain't the only croissant in with it deal, it's
another place, got I know?

Speaker 10 (29:28):
And I'm blocking you online. Okay, we've done.

Speaker 13 (29:33):
Yeah, he made it weird because he didn't tell her. Oh,
I try to surprise you and meet you at the
for some place.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (29:41):
I had the least sad back he could have at
least Yeah, I agree?

Speaker 10 (29:47):
Or or could you say, Hey, is it all right
if I pop up and try to surprise you?

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Absolutely cool?

Speaker 10 (29:53):
I don't want to. I don't want to sound weird.
Is it all right ifout do that? But you're just
showing your ass up. Now you're talking to the clerk
and the people in the back, you know, and Linda
come through here.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
Well that's not good. I don't know.

Speaker 11 (30:03):
We've seen too many crazy movies, too many lifetimes.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
We didn't stop.

Speaker 11 (30:11):
All right, Thank you, rid Helo, Thank you Junior. Coming
up at the top of the hour, we'll have some
entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening Hard
Morning Show. Cerrick Doctor Pepper is on the receiving end
of a class action lawsuit for false advertising related to
Schweps and Canada Dry Ginger ale. The lawsuit of legis

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as the company falsely advertised it's ginger ale as quote
naturally flavored, when it in fact contained artificial flavors. People
on social media are upset, especially us, especially black folks.
UH culturally known for our love of ginger ale, and
we are proud of it.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
Thank you. Yes, hard man, Yes.

Speaker 11 (30:56):
Delicious called ice called.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
And it's something about when you drink.

Speaker 11 (31:03):
It's not like you're really drinking a soda.

Speaker 3 (31:06):
It's good for you, Yeah, because it's got that ginger
in it.

Speaker 11 (31:13):
Someone posted quote, we can't have nothing around this ms
we march for.

Speaker 10 (31:23):
Wow, March for Canada. Dry will too.

Speaker 11 (31:27):
A lawyer on social media claims when a product is
artificially flavored, there are both state and federal laws that
require the packaging to say artificial flavors. Another user posted quote,
if y'all bankrupt Canada dry, I'll never forgive y'all.

Speaker 9 (31:44):
We need to sign up to sign up for what lawsuit?

Speaker 1 (31:48):
You want to get paid? We won't get paid about
fifty a class action lawsuit.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
Yeah, but this happened before, so this is a new
laws so.

Speaker 11 (32:05):
I don't recall, but yeah, this is serious. They're they're right,
we can't have anything.

Speaker 16 (32:11):
My MoMA house should run out of the water first
before she run out of ginger ale.

Speaker 10 (32:14):
Yeah you hear me.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Yeah, we keep a twelve pack of ginger Real. Go
ahead that you can me too, me too. What about
when people come over your house? I got some ginger Real. Yes, yes,
they're gonna Thursday. Next Thursday's gonna be.

Speaker 9 (32:33):
Asking for black people still to get upset and go
get a ginger air.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
We have to do, yes, But Junior, we drink ginger
real for everything everything.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
I got shot drinks some gingeration. Yes, we love us
some ginger rell. That is the truth right there. Grew
up on it.

Speaker 10 (32:57):
Okay, let me ask you this. Speaking of growing up,
write or sell them up?

Speaker 1 (33:01):
Seven up?

Speaker 9 (33:02):
Seven up?

Speaker 3 (33:03):
Yeah, let me tell you something about sprite. You lived
until you had a sprite. You got to tell somebody
until you've had a sprite from McDonald's.

Speaker 1 (33:11):
When you drink that, you've got to you got touch
the side of your throat.

Speaker 9 (33:15):
It's so good.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
I don't know what they do with McDonald's, but their sprites.

Speaker 10 (33:21):
Yeah, yes, they focusing on because they ain't focusing on
the on the ice cream machine, because it's all ways broke.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
You go to McDonald's for ice cream? Really?

Speaker 10 (33:33):
What you ain't never had an ice cream high for
a Sunday from McDonald's.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
No machine is always raised up on it. I don't
know why you ain't.

Speaker 15 (33:44):
I do.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Eat the Chick fil a ice cream though. That's that's good.
That's good.

Speaker 10 (33:52):
They ain't better than that lemonade though. Got to have
that lemonade. And you got to have the pollen and
sauce for your nuggets, don't. You can't polynesi yourself, okay.
And they got just the best attitudes that child. Yeah
it's so nice.

Speaker 1 (34:12):
Yeah point yeah, yep.

Speaker 16 (34:17):
There sometimes don't Eve buy food. I didn't want to
feel bad about myself.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
Yeah, well okay.

Speaker 11 (34:29):
And other entertainment news, after Gladiator Too, director Ridley Scott
said Denzel Washington's same sex kiss in the film did
not happen. Denzel seemingly walked back his claim that that
scene was cut.

Speaker 13 (34:41):
Uh no, that's bull.

Speaker 11 (34:43):
Ridley Scott said he told that to Variety Magazine.

Speaker 13 (34:46):
They acted the moment, it didn't happen.

Speaker 11 (34:49):
Ridley's comments came after Denzel said that he actually kissed
a man in Gladiator Too, but they took it out
of the final cut from the film because they quote
got Chicken and Well recently clarified as comments at Monday
Nights or did he clarify at Monday Night's Gladiator Choose premiere.
He said, it really is much to do about nothing.

(35:10):
Denzel said, they're making more of it than it was.
I kissed him on his hands, I gave him a pack,
and I killed him.

Speaker 1 (35:16):
Okay, that's what happened in the now, Denzel, you know
we ride with you. Come on. Now, this is when
people say, somebody go by the house and check on it.

Speaker 3 (35:28):
Just go.

Speaker 10 (35:30):
And let's make sure he all right, y'all. Just somebody
go out there and call us and let us know
he all right.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
But you know what, we love him so much. We
don't care. We don't care.

Speaker 10 (35:43):
I need one more equalizer, though, I just need one
more equalized.

Speaker 11 (35:46):
We kind of get one more equalized before he retires.
You're saying, yeah, all right, yeah, finally, we love you,
Denzel finally. In entertainment news, Luther Vandross documentary Luthor Never
Too Much will debut on c NN on.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
New Year's Day at eight p m.

Speaker 11 (36:02):
Eastern Time, in addition to archival clips that traces his
career from his years at the Apollo. It's going to
talk about It's gonna have interviews with Mariah Carey, Dean Warwick,
all of that. Tommy, we know you've worked with Luther,
you love him, and I know of some people who've
seen it.

Speaker 13 (36:19):
They said it's great.

Speaker 11 (36:20):
Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll talk
about Texas Democratic Representative Jasmine Crockett.

Speaker 13 (36:26):
Right after this and what she said. And right after
this is.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
Steve Robert martinshaw Man.

Speaker 10 (36:36):
Uncle comes from a niece or a nephew.

Speaker 1 (36:40):
That's when you say uncle.

Speaker 10 (36:41):
If it's not your uncle, guess what it's not yoursdale uncle,
get your own uncle?

Speaker 9 (36:49):
Hold off time.

Speaker 1 (36:50):
Why is you so possessed? He is because this is
my uncle. I'm the one that was born rich. And
if you what, you just didn't get one?

Speaker 9 (36:58):
Okay, but wash this ste.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
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a family in need right in your local community. Your
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(37:23):
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through the holidays and beyond.

Speaker 7 (37:39):
Well.

Speaker 11 (37:39):
Yesterday, during a House Oversight Committee hearing about the dismantling
the DEEI Act, which seeks to weaken diversity, equity and
Inclusion initiatives, Texas Democratic Representative Jasmine Crockett responded to white
male Republican Clay Higgins championing the bill as a strong
response to the oppression of our rights, liberties, and freedoms.

Speaker 1 (38:02):
Take a listen to this.

Speaker 13 (38:03):
It's like oppression.

Speaker 17 (38:04):
There has been no oppression for the white man in
this country. You'll tell me which white men were dragged
out of their homes.

Speaker 4 (38:12):
You will tell me which one of them.

Speaker 17 (38:15):
Got dragged all the way across an ocean and told
that you are gonna go at work.

Speaker 4 (38:20):
We are gonna seal your wives, We are gonna rape
your wives. That didn't happen. That is oppression. We didn't
ask to be here.

Speaker 17 (38:28):
We're not the same migrants did y'all constantly come up against.

Speaker 4 (38:33):
We didn't run away from home.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
We were stolen.

Speaker 17 (38:36):
So yeah, we are gonna sit here and be offended
when you want to sit here and act like and
don't let it escape you that it is white men
on this side of the aisle telling us people of
color on this side of the aisle, that y'all are
the ones being oppressed, that y'all are the ones that
are being harmed.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
That's not the definition of oppression.

Speaker 9 (38:59):
Who all right, okay.

Speaker 11 (39:04):
Representative Crockett went on to say, in part quote, we
need to recognize that racism is real in this country,
and until we stop pretending that it's not, we will
not solve the problems that we are consistently facing.

Speaker 9 (39:17):
Amen.

Speaker 10 (39:18):
I love the way she speaks up, man. I love
the way that she is not scared, she is fearless.
He comes out and says exactly what's on her mind,
and she and there's nothing. I have not heard her
not tell the truth the entire time, right on points,
right on point.

Speaker 1 (39:34):
To hear her. They need to see her, and they
need to hear her.

Speaker 16 (39:37):
They really do what white man been on pressure, what
tired is struggling, what Trevor.

Speaker 1 (39:45):
Is having a problem.

Speaker 3 (39:51):
Yes, when she talked about Marjorie Taylor.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
Green another very woman. I mean, and I.

Speaker 3 (39:57):
Think too, until this country, until we address and like
she said, talk about racism and talk about white supremacy. See,
these are uncomfortable we conversations that people don't want to have.

Speaker 11 (40:07):
So well that's what we gotta have, no we and
every generation says that it never happens, and every generation
we get further and further away from the truth, the
real truth.

Speaker 13 (40:19):
It just had.

Speaker 11 (40:19):
They keep sweeping it under the drug. They don't want
to talk about it, they don't know what they want.

Speaker 10 (40:24):
You're taking it out the books. Now you even have
to discuss it, right.

Speaker 3 (40:28):
Well, that was her point. That's why she bought up oppression.
That's how it all started, because she said, you're misusing
the word because you want to take all of our
history out of school. So you're just saying something you
don't even know what oppression means. Right, So yes, yes, right, oh,
my sister, Yeah, keep it coming all right, coming up
at thirty four minutes after the hour, switching gears here,

(40:50):
we'll discuss the rudest things, the rudest things you can
do at the Thanksgiving table.

Speaker 11 (40:56):
Right after this, you're listening one morning show, you know,
having good manners is always important, and just in time
for Thanksgiving next week, it came quickly. Etiquette experts are
naming the rudest things, the most rude things that people
can do at the dinner table.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
Let's see if we agree.

Speaker 11 (41:19):
First of all, at the dinner table, don't use your
cell phone. That's rude. Okay. Our phones are part of
daily life, but this is Yeah, this is the time
you're spending family. Yeah, they don't belong at the table,
especially on Thanksgiving. You know, the whole point of the
occasion is to be thankful for being together, for being
a family, and a phone.

Speaker 13 (41:40):
Is just a distraction from that.

Speaker 1 (41:42):
We're going to put you at the kids table. Okay,
keep on here.

Speaker 11 (41:45):
Okay, I like that, I like you, all right, all right,
here's another thing that's rude. Bringing uninvited guests guests, yes, yeah,
well bring.

Speaker 10 (41:58):
Them and want to show them around in a house
that ain't choice. That's what amazing is me. Let me
show you upstanding. How you touring my house? That doesn't
make no sense?

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Oh so this has happened to you uninvited? Carl. I'm
ready for us to get to the ends. I can
get you all some more.

Speaker 11 (42:18):
Keep going saun the food, salting the food before tasting it.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
That's a big one. That is that's a big Okay,
that's that's a bad that's a bad habit period. Yeah,
that's yeah. You don't know, you don't know what it's
gonna taste. Yeah, all right.

Speaker 13 (42:36):
Arriving late, arriving late, come.

Speaker 10 (42:38):
On now, and arriving late with the food if we're
doing pot Look, yes, you got the damn greens with you,
and then we got two hours late with the greens.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
Go here call the arriving late with the late greens
with the uninvited guests on your cell phone.

Speaker 10 (42:57):
That's enough to get put back in your cars sent
back home.

Speaker 1 (43:02):
So so what what is what?

Speaker 11 (43:04):
What is one of the rudest things you think people
can do if they come to Thanksgiving dinner?

Speaker 10 (43:10):
Surely this is one that has happened. And I'm probably
gonna get in trouble for bringing this up. I jack
at Listen, one of the relatives took her seeth out,
took her teeth out at the table, Wrap it in
a napkin. Listen to wrap it in a napkin? Right,
had dinner? Somebody came picking up something, cleaning up. Yes,

(43:35):
everybody in five different trash cans trying to find this
that it was a mess, a mess, a hot mess.
And then when then somebody came in. What y'all looking for?
You don't want to know you already We're looking for
a rower teeth right now. They were teething, not brass wainer. Yeah, yeah,

(44:06):
you're talking about a little snappy and plastic.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
God, he gonna old school baby, he talking drift an that.

Speaker 11 (44:20):
Wow, your I love your family, I know you well.

Speaker 16 (44:24):
If you can't now with Thanksgiving everything on this list,
but you're gonna see that happen.

Speaker 9 (44:28):
Everything everything, Oh y'all ain't miss nothing all this.

Speaker 16 (44:33):
Well, here's the thing that I need to let my
family know this year Thanksgiving. If you have anything medically
wrong with you, bring all your support because I'm not
doing it. I'm telling your mama gonna be in the car.
I'm not pushing nobody.

Speaker 9 (44:44):
Up in these wheelchairs up to the driveway.

Speaker 16 (44:46):
That's your mama. You need to get out there and
get your mama. All the plugs in the house. You're
not gonna power up your defibilator over here.

Speaker 9 (44:54):
You're not doing that.

Speaker 16 (44:56):
Your take keep you fill it up before you get
here because if it runs, we're not We're not using.

Speaker 9 (45:01):
This too much. Bring your healthcare provider with you. We
don't know what's wrong.

Speaker 1 (45:05):
With you too much.

Speaker 9 (45:07):
Oh my god, We're not doing this this year. I'm
not doing it.

Speaker 13 (45:10):
Here's a question, guys, what about pets?

Speaker 1 (45:13):
What about don't bring Yeah.

Speaker 10 (45:18):
I'm sorry, you need to know. You need to get
a set up, you need to put you need to
board it for a day.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
You can't bring your dog.

Speaker 3 (45:24):
Monica has saying she's over here now I'm bringing my dog.

Speaker 1 (45:29):
No, you know, Monica, we don't want you to home.

Speaker 11 (45:33):
She came.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
That's what she said.

Speaker 10 (45:36):
You can't show up with no cat.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
Question. That's completely People do it, Yeah, people do it well.
Happy Thanksgiving?

Speaker 11 (45:48):
Coming up next to the nephew and today's prank phone call.
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter and the subject
today is why did he really leave me?

Speaker 1 (46:06):
Okay, we'll find out what that's all about. We'll get
into that.

Speaker 11 (46:12):
You know, some people just have to have that closure.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Yep, it's your.

Speaker 11 (46:19):
Turn now, new what's today's prank phone call all about.

Speaker 10 (46:23):
Listen right here? Is we about to turn your lights off?
About to turn your lights off? I think everybody here
has had their lights turned off at one time or another.
I have all right, you get the phone call they
outside the house.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
You know how it go about to turn your lights off?
You get a warning for it?

Speaker 10 (46:44):
Yeah, right here we do you know, cause we'll take
a check of money on the right now if you
if you hear the house, we'll do that.

Speaker 1 (46:51):
Yeah. Yeah, let's go get off in the house. What
it has just been dark? And it's surprise candle.

Speaker 9 (47:01):
You followed by a statement like every.

Speaker 1 (47:03):
Dawn right in the mail. I don't read that part. No,
here we go. We're about to turn your lights off.
Let's go get off.

Speaker 8 (47:17):
Hello, Hello, I'm trying to find Girod. Please get hey Gerrod.

Speaker 7 (47:21):
How you doing?

Speaker 8 (47:21):
This? Is the Mason man. I'm the guy that turns
the lights on and off if you haven't paid your bill,
and I'm over there at your house. I'm actually getting
ready to turn the lights off, but I'm trying to
h it's a courage to call. We're supposed to give
that people can pay their bill before we turn them off,
then we collect and we keep moving, he said.

Speaker 15 (47:38):
He said, who are you getting.

Speaker 14 (47:40):
I'm Mason exactly, so you say you got to do what.

Speaker 8 (47:43):
I'm getting ready to turn the lights off because the
bill hasn't been paid. I'm getting ready to turn the
power off. Are you here at the house?

Speaker 3 (47:50):
No?

Speaker 14 (47:51):
At work?

Speaker 8 (47:51):
Okay, Well, listen, is there anyone at the house that
can make a payment?

Speaker 15 (47:55):
Make a payment?

Speaker 8 (47:56):
The payment right now that I have is tur undred
twenty one dollars and thirty six cents. Is that right?

Speaker 14 (48:00):
For what the less?

Speaker 8 (48:02):
For the electric bill? Yes, sir?

Speaker 14 (48:03):
No, no, sir, no, sir no, no, there's nobody at
the house, and I don't think I owe that much.

Speaker 8 (48:07):
Well, that's what I have right now. It's two hundred
and twenty one dollars and thirty six cent.

Speaker 14 (48:11):
See my wife she already painted that.

Speaker 7 (48:13):
See.

Speaker 8 (48:14):
Okay, well they don't have a record of that. I'm
in your driveway right now. I'm getting ready to turn
this thing off until the payment has been made.

Speaker 14 (48:21):
Well, he has certain is nobody home right now?

Speaker 8 (48:23):
Okay? Well, if no one is here, then I have
to follow through and continue and go ahead and and
turn the power off until everything is rectified.

Speaker 14 (48:30):
Oh oh, you and my driveway, I mean your driveway.

Speaker 8 (48:33):
So is there anyone here? How far are you from here?

Speaker 14 (48:36):
I'm at work. I can't get off right now. But
you got to get out my driveway.

Speaker 8 (48:40):
No, no, sir, I'm not gonna be able to leave
you driveway until I actually turn the power off.

Speaker 14 (48:44):
Can't turn my power off. I got food and refrigerator.
So my kids got fish that you know?

Speaker 8 (48:49):
Come on, man, what do you mean you got fish?
What does that mean?

Speaker 15 (48:53):
I can be there in thirty minutes.

Speaker 14 (48:54):
Need you a cast right now?

Speaker 8 (48:55):
Sir? What do you mean when you say you got fish?

Speaker 14 (48:58):
Fish tank?

Speaker 15 (48:59):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (48:59):
Fish? You have a fish? Take? Okay, well, sir, I
understand that.

Speaker 15 (49:04):
But uh, I'll be there in thirty minutes.

Speaker 14 (49:07):
You stay right there and don't touch nothing, okay, So
I can't.

Speaker 8 (49:10):
I can't be here thirty minutes. I can't wait that long.

Speaker 14 (49:13):
Thirty minutes. I'll be there with cash and I'll pay
you with a two hundred.

Speaker 8 (49:16):
What we don't we don't accept cash, sir. We're gonna
need a money or I'll have time to go to
I'll be there with the cash thirty minutes. I can't
take cat, are you listening to me, sir, are you
listening to me, I'm listening to you. I can't take cash.
I need a money order.

Speaker 15 (49:30):
I'll be there thirty minutes.

Speaker 8 (49:31):
Okay, sir, I have to cut I have to turn
your power off. If you're not here. I give everybody
ten minutes, ten minutes where they can pay it or
we can actually turn it off. Now, you tell me
what you want me to do.

Speaker 15 (49:42):
I'ma call my wife real quick, all right, real quick.

Speaker 8 (49:45):
So I don't have time to call you. I don't.
I don't have time for that.

Speaker 14 (49:48):
First of all, sir, I'll get me up. I'll wait
for a mess up bills, okay, first of all, okay, okay.

Speaker 8 (49:53):
If she doesn't mess up bills, then what the hell
is going on?

Speaker 7 (49:56):
I don't know.

Speaker 15 (49:56):
I'm gonna call her real quick, okay.

Speaker 8 (49:59):
Okay, Well, sir, I don't have a real quick time.
What we have to do right now is I have
to do this. I have to see to turn your
power off. You get it turned off now, listen. I
can come back and turn this thing right back on
next week. It's been one hundred and fifty dollars pen connected.

Speaker 14 (50:14):
First of morning, you need to get the.

Speaker 15 (50:16):
Out of my yard. First of all, So I call y'all.

Speaker 8 (50:19):
I'm here because I'm supposed to be here. I'm here
because you haven't paid.

Speaker 15 (50:23):
I'm gonna call my ways. Look at this thing right now.

Speaker 8 (50:26):
I'm here because you haven't paid your bill.

Speaker 15 (50:28):
I'm telling you my pays my bill.

Speaker 8 (50:31):
Well, how do you even know she paid it? Because
you don't know it. Damn you don't know anything.

Speaker 15 (50:35):
Hold, sir, trust me or White paid the bill. It's
a mistake in your system. Get out of my yard.

Speaker 8 (50:42):
Now. Are you at Avenue?

Speaker 15 (50:44):
Yeah, that's correct.

Speaker 8 (50:45):
But I'm in. I'm in the that I'm in the
right place, sir, And you haven't paid your bill, and
I've been ordered to turn it off.

Speaker 14 (50:51):
I'll tell you what, tell you what, tell you what
I'm gonna do. I'm gonna be there at thirty minutes.

Speaker 8 (50:55):
I'm nota that here. I'm not gonna be here in
thirty minutes. Okay, you you are you listening? I'm turning
this off in the next five minutes and not.

Speaker 14 (51:02):
Touch my A.

Speaker 15 (51:04):
White paid the bill.

Speaker 14 (51:05):
Leave my lesson.

Speaker 8 (51:06):
My wife hasn't paid the bill. Now, maybe your wife
is out rally gaggers doing something else. On Hold, whoa
hold hood, whoa whah hold hold?

Speaker 15 (51:12):
First of all, you keep her, keep her out of this,
all right, okay.

Speaker 8 (51:15):
You don't want that brought it in. That's the one
that keeps telling me what she has done, what she happens.

Speaker 15 (51:19):
Done less and listen, keep my hey, that's why I
draw the line. I'll be there thirty minutes.

Speaker 14 (51:24):
Men, you can try it.

Speaker 8 (51:25):
I ain't gonna continue to go back and forth with
your sir. I don't have thirty minutes, dude, I got
ten minutes, you understand me.

Speaker 7 (51:31):
I gotta I'm gonna leave right now.

Speaker 14 (51:32):
I'm gonna get the car right now. Okay, I'll be
there thirty minutes.

Speaker 8 (51:36):
So I don't have thirty minutes. I'm turning it off.
You can call downtown and get headquarters to turn it
back on and we'll come back out here and it
to reconnect me for one hundred and fifty dollars.

Speaker 14 (51:46):
So I gotta come up with three hundreds of Hell sorry,
your bill is.

Speaker 8 (51:49):
Two hundred and something dollars, and that it's gonna be
one hundred and fifty dollars reconnects me?

Speaker 14 (51:55):
No, hell no, that hey, I'll be had ten minutes, just.

Speaker 8 (51:59):
Okay, what's so? And I've told you before. You have
five minutes to get here.

Speaker 15 (52:04):
No, listen, listen, let me call my neighbor real quick, old,
let me call hold up, let me.

Speaker 8 (52:08):
Call I don't have time for you to colleck over
and call other people. Sir, is there's somebody that can
give me a money or that right now? Yeah?

Speaker 15 (52:16):
Yeah, right now?

Speaker 14 (52:16):
Get your money order in five minutes?

Speaker 8 (52:19):
Okay, Now, who's gonna do that.

Speaker 15 (52:20):
I don't know how to call my wife.

Speaker 8 (52:22):
I told you your wife is the reason why you're
in this situation.

Speaker 15 (52:25):
I'm gonna report you to your suit.

Speaker 8 (52:28):
You gonna recrut me when I'm out doing my job.
You should report your wife but not doing what she
was supposed Let's care what you say if do you
want your lights on or off when you get here?
Your lights are getting turned off in the next two
minutes because your wife didn't pay the damn bill. I
wanna tell y'all, excuse.

Speaker 15 (52:49):
Me, I'm gonna tell y'all. Listen, eat my wife's name
out your.

Speaker 8 (52:56):
I tell you what you know what my supervisor would
tell you.

Speaker 15 (52:59):
I don't know what about it. Tell me tell you.

Speaker 8 (53:02):
That you have been talking to nephew Tommy from the
Harvey Morning Show. You just got Bike.

Speaker 15 (53:14):
I was on my wedding.

Speaker 8 (53:15):
Your coworker got Joseph. We got you.

Speaker 14 (53:18):
I'm gonna get into man. Don't no more of that
man you had?

Speaker 8 (53:24):
Hey, I got one more thing to ask you, Man,
what is the baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 14 (53:30):
Come on, man, Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (53:32):
What y'all think it's pretty good?

Speaker 8 (53:37):
King?

Speaker 1 (53:37):
Here we go, There we go, There we go?

Speaker 3 (53:40):
King?

Speaker 1 (53:40):
All right, all right, all right.

Speaker 10 (53:42):
I could go on and talk about you know, gonna
beat me and Cheryl Underwood, Froness Mitchell and Dominique, gonna
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MLK weekend at the Emperor. I could talk about that,
you know, but you know, let's talk about something else.

Speaker 1 (54:04):
Did anybody want to talk about something?

Speaker 14 (54:06):
Well?

Speaker 3 (54:06):
I wanted to ask you, you know, because yesterday on
our because on our group text, you know, we were
talking about did you make your decision about Mike Tyson
and you're gonna do the song.

Speaker 10 (54:14):
And they go on and do the jockey strap.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
I do nj Pat.

Speaker 10 (54:23):
I just don't know who I want to interview me
in the dressing room while I'm doing it.

Speaker 13 (54:27):
Well, he had his son.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
That was his son that interviewed him. That'll send my
son into total shocks.

Speaker 11 (54:35):
People therapy because the interviews he didn't see his but
until he walked away, they were face to face.

Speaker 1 (54:46):
So it's still up in the air.

Speaker 10 (54:48):
It's still up in the air. It's still up in
the air. I'm thinking about it. I think that's a possibility.

Speaker 11 (54:52):
Yeah, maybe the underwear well change from warning the people.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Thank you, I wore jock and the yield. So night, get.

Speaker 13 (55:01):
Long, all right, nephew, thank you.

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Thank you and nephew. Subject, why did he really leave me?

Speaker 1 (56:23):
Here?

Speaker 11 (56:23):
Stephen Shirley, I've been married seven years and we have
two children. I was basically taking care of the children
because my husband worked long hours and he liked to
hang out and drink after work. I was in school too,
but I was determined to take care of my family.
I overlooked a lot because I believe in my husband
and I had hopes that he would get himself together

(56:45):
one day. I was completely blindsided when he moved out,
and I want to know why he really left me.
When I started working from home, that's when he started
staying out late. He also stayed out all night a
couple of times. One time he went to get his
hair braided, and he said he fell asleep in his
car outside his hair braider's house because he was drunk.

(57:07):
The other time was because he was out late with
friends at the club, so he slept outside his dad's
house in his car because he couldn't make it home.
I got on his case really bad, and he left
the house and went to stay with his daddy.

Speaker 1 (57:22):
I called his daddy.

Speaker 11 (57:23):
To see if he would talk to my husband about drinking,
and he said that my husband has not had a
drink since he'd been there. I talked to my husband's
best friend and he said, my husband might have one
or two drinks when they're at the club. It seems
like he used alcohol as an excuse to stay out.
He found out that I called his dad and his

(57:45):
best friend, and he said he would be staying somewhere
else and I will never find him. After two weeks,
the street started talking and I heard that he was
staying with a woman that he works with. I confronted
him and he said that he is asleeping with her
at all. If that's true, then why did he leave
me to go stay at her house. This is the cold,

(58:06):
hard truth right here. He does not want to be there,
He does not want to be in that house with you,
and he doesn't want to be married to you. I mean,
this is pretty obvious. He just walked out. I'm really sorry.
I really am from my heart that this has happened
to you, but you got to face it. At this point,
it is over. He has abandoned you and your children.

(58:27):
He's been lying to you this entire time about his
drinking and all of that, and staying outside in his car.
There's just no other way to put it. He's been lying.
Plus he told you you would never find him. You
need to file for child support and try to pick
up the pieces and move on. Any man that can
walk away from his kids and his wife with no

(58:49):
remorse is not a man at all. Don't believe what
he tells you. After all his lives how could you
believe him anyway. Now is the time to collect yourself.
You've got to be strong for those kids. So let
him go and move on. He left his family and
has not looked back. He did that.

Speaker 13 (59:06):
Forget about closure, forget all of that.

Speaker 11 (59:09):
Just deal with what is. He's gone. He left you
and the kids. There's no reason for that, nephew.

Speaker 10 (59:16):
He does not like you at all. He's clothes. He
does not like you. It is something about you that
you don't know, but he don't like you. Ain't figured
out what it is about yourself that he don't like.
There's something about you that he just don't like. I

(59:37):
don't know if it's your If it's sex, could be terrible.
But that might be the case. Wait, it might be
the case. You might just be getting on his dog
on nerves. I don't know what it is, but there's
something about you he don't like.

Speaker 1 (59:51):
Let's go down and line when you start working from home.

Speaker 10 (59:54):
He was out. He wanted to get away from you.
That's the first thing. What's the second one? He lined
by drinking. He lined by drinking to stay out. Okay,
I slept in my daddy drive away. I slept my
side over here. Whatever he can say to not come
home to you, he's willing to say it. He does

(01:00:17):
not like you. Now you find out. And this is
what people always kill me with the streets. That's talking.
Who is the streets? Where did you get this information from?
Who told you this?

Speaker 8 (01:00:28):
You?

Speaker 10 (01:00:28):
You're putting you into the street. Now how you find out?
Now he's staying at some woman house. And what he
say to you, we ain't doing that. We ain't doing that.
He's trying to make you feel a little better.

Speaker 1 (01:00:38):
He's trying.

Speaker 10 (01:00:38):
Now you don't want to hurt your feeling too bad.
But guess what he's done with you? For some reason,
he does not want to have anything to do with you.
And it amazes me and I and I even see
this on on on my TV show, some of these
a lot of ladies gotta know why they want that
type of clothes. Sure, they can't go on until they

(01:01:01):
find till they know what what went wrong here. And
I understand you want to know when we're wrong because
you want to you want to make sure maybe it
doesn't happen again. But yeah, you want to try and
fix it. Sometimes it's not fixable. Sometimes it's not even you.
Sometimes it's just, hey, he just don't want this relationship
no more. So I'm not you know, I don't like

(01:01:22):
it when men do this, especially when children are involved.
That's just that's when it's just really really bad because
now you got you got kids that are taking the
hit from this and now their dad is not in
the house. And we've seen too much of that in
our in the African American community.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
We hate that part.

Speaker 10 (01:01:36):
But I just I'm just telling you straight up, there's
something about you this man don't like.

Speaker 1 (01:01:41):
And he's done. He just done.

Speaker 10 (01:01:44):
And sometimes when men are done, you're trying to figure
out why is he done?

Speaker 1 (01:01:47):
And you might not ever get that.

Speaker 10 (01:01:49):
You may not ever find out why, and then you're
gonna go to the next relationship, and the problem is
going to be, now you're gonna take that baggage over there,
and you think that the next man gonna do the
same thing, And that's where the problem comes. Boy that
boy ready to love today? Ain't that boy that boy
talking today?

Speaker 11 (01:02:08):
But we're not and we're not trying to say that
it's her fault, that she's herself.

Speaker 10 (01:02:16):
People are just done and it's not your fault. I
get that part. The problem is you're trying to figure
it all out when there's nothing to figure out.

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Yeah, all right, we have another We have part two
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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All right, we're going to recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject
it is why did he really leave me?

Speaker 1 (01:03:24):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:03:25):
This young lady wrote in she's been married for seven years.
They have two children. She's been basically taking care of
the children. Her husband worked long hours. He liked to
hang out and drink after work. She was in school,
but her family was her priority. As she said, she
overlooked a lot in her husband. She thought that he
would get it together one day. Well, she started working

(01:03:45):
from home. Evidently he didn't like that, and he just
decided one day that he would move out. And her
issue is she wants to know why he really left her.
That's when things started getting bad. He started staying out late.
He stayed out all night. He said, he was outside
of the hair braider's house and he got drunk and

(01:04:07):
fell asleep. Then he went over to his daddy's house
in state. His daddy said that he didn't really drink
like that. His friend said it too, So she still
wants to know why did he really leave her. Now
he's living with a woman that he works with, he claims,
and he told his wife that she will never find him.

Speaker 13 (01:04:27):
So he left her, and he left the kids and
he's done.

Speaker 11 (01:04:29):
She wants closure, And she says, if it's really true
that he's staying with this woman, why did he leave her?
Why did he leave her? That's what she wants to know. Tommy,
and I said, you know, he's just done he's really
done this with this marriage, and I need her to know.
We need her to know that it's over so she
can go on with her life and take care of

(01:04:50):
those kids.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
Junior, you say.

Speaker 16 (01:04:51):
What I'm telling you right now, I'm gonna leave her too.
I'm tired of her too. What blaining you doing? I
know this way he leaves it. He got to believe
he's tired of your mouth all this core, Well, he
just say he gonna fake drink it and fall asleep anywhere.

Speaker 1 (01:05:08):
He'll sleep anywhere. He don't care.

Speaker 16 (01:05:12):
Bravey, his house, his daddy. He find a driveway and
his keys. He gone.

Speaker 9 (01:05:17):
Every time he's seeing you. It's just where the hell
is my car?

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
Keys?

Speaker 16 (01:05:20):
I'm going. He don't have time for you. This man
wants to leave. He don't care where he stay at.
It just can't be with you. We don't know why
he left you, but I think complaining got a lot
to do with it. I ain't never seen no man
want to run for a woman this much. He is
on a run I'm talking about. He keep a full
tak of gas and he got to go.

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
He got to go.

Speaker 9 (01:05:39):
He keep a full take a game. Every time he's
seeing you.

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
He is out.

Speaker 16 (01:05:42):
He don't even stay long. He just said, forget it,
I ain't coming back. He stay out all night everywhere.

Speaker 11 (01:05:47):
And she said, Junior, she said that it seems like
he used alcohol as an excuse to stay out, right.

Speaker 13 (01:05:54):
He don't drink like that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:56):
Yeah, don't drink like that. You know what?

Speaker 9 (01:05:58):
You know what?

Speaker 16 (01:05:59):
I never knew they had all them park lasts at
the back of Walmart. But I know why they got
them parking spots in the back of Walmart now, the one.

Speaker 1 (01:06:05):
Way back there, because that's what he ad.

Speaker 9 (01:06:07):
He'll just go park. I just gotta go park somewhere.

Speaker 11 (01:06:10):
I'm very, very disappointed in this man, because not only
did you leave your wife, you left your kids. And
you told you that, Yeah, you told you that she
will she will never find you. And and what about
these kids? What about these kids? You know that's terrible.
You're not a man.

Speaker 16 (01:06:28):
You know what he is is a He can he's
a driver. He can get his car and drive going somewhere.
I'll scare with you. He got to be a man.
He damn suo can drive swept everywhere. Who was that
sleeping driving him?

Speaker 1 (01:06:43):
Your whole life? He don't care.

Speaker 9 (01:06:47):
I just in some place. He just seems somewhere with
some lights on and just.

Speaker 1 (01:06:51):
Park He just parked the car wash, the car wash close.

Speaker 9 (01:06:55):
He's just sitting in the middle of the car wash,
just in there.

Speaker 8 (01:06:58):
Ain't even.

Speaker 1 (01:07:01):
Just in there, just somewhere. He doesn't want to go home.

Speaker 9 (01:07:05):
He ain't going home.

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
He don't want that.

Speaker 16 (01:07:09):
He want you pump to the car dealership and late
at night he wants still locked in.

Speaker 9 (01:07:13):
The parking lot.

Speaker 1 (01:07:14):
He can't wait. He can't get out till morning. Doug's barking.
He playing it though, he's playing.

Speaker 16 (01:07:19):
Yeah, he better not to get a parking ticket. A
parking garage. He parking it there, he going a parking
garage be turning him? Man, boy just sitting outside of Dennis,
who is there?

Speaker 1 (01:07:34):
He don't want to go How can we just stand
his Dan's house? He went over there. She called and
she called over there this friend.

Speaker 10 (01:07:44):
I think she's sleeping with the hair braider, that's what
I think.

Speaker 11 (01:07:47):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because he made up that he fell
asleep because he was drunk, and so he just sat
outside of her house.

Speaker 1 (01:07:58):
Boy.

Speaker 13 (01:07:59):
Yeah, yeah, you're a man with children.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
The streets, you know, that's what they say. The street
in the streets and talking.

Speaker 9 (01:08:06):
But I tell you one thing. If he's the assigned
tot's see the emerging room and it's red.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
He turned it in there.

Speaker 9 (01:08:12):
He's parking.

Speaker 1 (01:08:13):
He going to that merchaning room.

Speaker 9 (01:08:15):
He's gonna park right out there.

Speaker 1 (01:08:17):
He's not even sick. He won't do her anything. Who
is that in that Chick fil A line on Sunday?

Speaker 9 (01:08:25):
Knowing that's him?

Speaker 16 (01:08:30):
Wait, they be open on Monday, but I'm sitting here
all day.

Speaker 9 (01:08:34):
I don't be customer number one, my ticket number gonna
say one.

Speaker 16 (01:08:39):
I want the football games on my phone. I got YouTube.
He's not doing he's not doing. I don't care what
you're not doing it.

Speaker 9 (01:08:48):
He just prew up in a little league football games
and park.

Speaker 1 (01:08:50):
He don't care.

Speaker 3 (01:08:51):
This kid don't even play, don't even play. I'm just
going to police or him. He's not he's not doing it.

Speaker 11 (01:09:00):
She needs to rid herself of him because he's bad news.
And anytime you can do this, leave your children. Yeah,
you know, come on yourself, girl. Yeah, who was parked
outside the high school?

Speaker 1 (01:09:12):
Who is that? Let's sitting there? Dure Thanksgiving break? Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:09:17):
Ok, Thanksgiving?

Speaker 6 (01:09:19):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:09:19):
You guys post your comments in today's Strawberry Letter at
Steve Harvey FM and on Instagram and Facebook. And check
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now coming up at forty six minutes after the hour.

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
He's in the house, Junior and sports Talk.

Speaker 11 (01:09:37):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (01:09:42):
Holidays are here, and it's essential to recognize that personal
safety is a year round priority.

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It's mine and why I have the burn Up Launcher.

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Speaker 11 (01:10:12):
It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What
you got Juniors? Okay, we all saw the Tyson Jake
Paul fight. Yeah, now they're saying it's possibly that it
was d do y'all believe that whole fight with stage?

Speaker 3 (01:10:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:10:26):
Yeah, Junior, it was impossibility, it really is. It was
it was horrible.

Speaker 10 (01:10:30):
I mean, we got Mike's ass out at the beginning,
we got we got the glitches going on with with Netflix.
It's a hot mess. It wasn't good.

Speaker 9 (01:10:39):
It was just would you watch another fight on Netflix?

Speaker 1 (01:10:42):
I'm watching Mike Tyson do anything. I'm a Mike Dyson fans.
He's coming back.

Speaker 10 (01:10:47):
Yeah, Mike coming I watched Mike on PBS anything whatever, Mike.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
Oh, and I'm watching I got that.

Speaker 9 (01:10:55):
Let's give you this to you?

Speaker 1 (01:10:56):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 16 (01:10:57):
They're saying now that if it's possible, if Deon Sanders
could get the job as a Cowboys head coach, if
they draft to darn Sanders, how would how would Mike
Tyson do with Jerry Jones? I mean, not Deon Sander
do with Jerry.

Speaker 10 (01:11:15):
Jones Oftenna say, now, Mike on the team, we really
got an issue.

Speaker 1 (01:11:19):
What is going on him and the games of the
net Flix?

Speaker 9 (01:11:27):
I mean Deon Sanders being the head coach?

Speaker 16 (01:11:29):
How would that work with Jerry Jones because they both
they both gonna have to fight for this.

Speaker 10 (01:11:33):
Yeah, but you got to give him, Jerry got to
give him complete control.

Speaker 1 (01:11:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:11:38):
I'm not gonna coach like that. Prime, I'm not gonna
coach like that. You got to give him complete control
and let him do the thing.

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
I think so.

Speaker 3 (01:11:44):
I mean Dion used to play for the Cowboys, so
the environment he knows, the city, he loves, Dallas. I think, Jerry,
if he hires Deon, you gotta let Prime do his thing.
I gotta let him know he can't control him so well,
can I guess he needs.

Speaker 1 (01:12:01):
That's what Jerry Jones needs.

Speaker 9 (01:12:02):
Somebody can't control.

Speaker 11 (01:12:04):
Can I just say this though Jerry Jones for the
fight when he was talking and said was also on
the panel, said didn't get a word in edge wise,
when Jerry Jones is talking, I.

Speaker 9 (01:12:14):
Saw that saying yeah, I saw that, like what I
did for.

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
Y the Princess and Monda the moondun.

Speaker 16 (01:12:23):
All right, tell me if you gotta gain the night,
I'm gonna let you pick it this week. Since Uncle's
out come on, it's gonna be a good one. The
Steelers and the Browns tell me.

Speaker 10 (01:12:30):
Oh, that's easy, that's the Steers, come on us. Even
pick your uncle t No, I'm not picking his team. No,
And if he was here, he probably wasn't picking me,
you know. Damn well, Cleveland, that's.

Speaker 16 (01:12:45):
Out at least Coni you have to answer that fat
you can at least consider it.

Speaker 10 (01:12:49):
You know what, he tried to go so hard at
our team and then Cleveland ain't doing a dog one thing.
That's that's amazing as me nothing. They doing nothing. Well,
the Texas got we got a shot.

Speaker 9 (01:12:59):
We good.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
He's a long shot, but we got a shot. We
actually changed.

Speaker 16 (01:13:04):
But I'm gonna tell him you picked the Steve with them.

Speaker 1 (01:13:12):
All right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top
of the hour, woman needs some help.

Speaker 11 (01:13:16):
She needs some advice about her boyfriend and how he
refuses to use navigation.

Speaker 13 (01:13:21):
We'll talk about it right after this.

Speaker 1 (01:13:23):
He just driving around.

Speaker 11 (01:13:25):
Oh I got this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. All right, guys, This is from Bianca on Facebook.
She says, my boyfriend insists on finding his way without
maps or GPS, even on long road trips. We've gotten
lost more than once, but he won't admit he needs help.
It makes me anxious because he insists he's just taking

(01:13:46):
the scenic route and it's an adventure. But to me,
it's just dumb. Should I keep pushing for him to
be reasonable and use navigation or.

Speaker 1 (01:13:55):
Just let him do what he does. Oh okay, this
is simple.

Speaker 10 (01:14:01):
There's you want to argue up the whole time where y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
Trying to go somewhere. I want to waste time.

Speaker 10 (01:14:07):
I know you don't waste your time because if you
don't have if you don't have GPS, you really might
as well add another hour and a half to whatever
y'all doing, because you're gonna get you're gonna get thrown off.
I can't do without it. I'm a I'm a I'm
a GP I'm a Google GPS. Though waves be throwing
me at a different leap. Jackie loved wave.

Speaker 3 (01:14:26):
That's her thing, and it's waves wa waves waves wave like.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
It was waves, because that's what it'll be doing to me. Figure,
show your waves up. I go back.

Speaker 10 (01:14:47):
I go back to ride in the truck with my
daddy with a Thomas Key map that on. Yeah, yeah, yes,
I had to learn how to reuse that thing that was.
That was like real the first navigation for me.

Speaker 13 (01:14:59):
But real, rich, if you don't know where you're going,
are you going to find it?

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
That's crazy in some direction. I know where I'm going.

Speaker 9 (01:15:07):
I still turn my GPS on.

Speaker 11 (01:15:09):
Yeah, that's just crazy, all right?

Speaker 1 (01:15:13):
Thank you. That was You're right, that was simple. Problem solved. Okay,
we have a time for another one. This is from.

Speaker 13 (01:15:18):
Jared on Facebook.

Speaker 11 (01:15:20):
Jared says, my mom's health has been declining and she
needs some help with daily tasks.

Speaker 1 (01:15:26):
My siblings think she should move in with me since.

Speaker 11 (01:15:28):
I have an extra room, but I worry that it'll
turn into more than I can handle and I don't
want to burden my wife and kids. I don't want
to seem selfish, but I don't know what to do here.

Speaker 13 (01:15:39):
Should I have her come.

Speaker 11 (01:15:40):
Live with us or would she be better with some professional support?

Speaker 6 (01:15:45):
Hard?

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
Yeah, and you have to check with your wife. That's hard.
You've got to have a conversation with your wife. Yeah,
you do.

Speaker 10 (01:15:52):
I'm me personally, I'm I'm doing whatever take for my mom.

Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
For your mom, y'all already know me of times.

Speaker 3 (01:16:01):
I don't think that if you're getting professional help and
putting your loved one if you can't handle it, and
if you're putting your loved one, I don't think assistant
living and getting that kind of help is as bad
the label like you know, like it used to be
back and I had.

Speaker 11 (01:16:16):
It for my mom in her you know, in the
final stages. I had it for my mom, and yeah,
I don't. You don't live in the same shape.

Speaker 10 (01:16:24):
Yeah, yeah, but even if your mother's at your home,
even if your mother's at your home, that doesn't mean
that you have the time to take care of You
still need Yeah, you're still don't need some help because
if everybody's you know, most household, everybody going to work, right,
you know, who's.

Speaker 1 (01:16:41):
Taking care of mom?

Speaker 11 (01:16:42):
Somebody got to take care of and see we're here,
of course, he would say, and who's gonna wash wash,
you know, he would say that.

Speaker 3 (01:16:52):
But that's why I said, you can still get help,
get help.

Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
If you right.

Speaker 3 (01:16:57):
Yeah, that's so tough aging taking care of your parents
and role reversal.

Speaker 10 (01:17:04):
Yeah, but that's something that siblings got to come together
and really make a rational decision.

Speaker 1 (01:17:09):
They have to.

Speaker 11 (01:17:10):
But a lot of times they joke though, Tommy, a
lot oftimes they don't like, you know, the single ones
in the family. You know, they want them to take
it over and and have that complete responsibility.

Speaker 13 (01:17:23):
It's a lot to go on.

Speaker 1 (01:17:25):
Whoever's doing well, whoever has the money. You got that
big old house. You need to be you got thro
that you.

Speaker 3 (01:17:32):
Hear that that's what he's hearing in this left.

Speaker 12 (01:17:35):
Yeah, it's the guilt, it's the trip and right.

Speaker 10 (01:17:40):
Yeah, yeah, So how about compromise. I'll take mama in,
y'all pay for the support that we need to help
her on.

Speaker 1 (01:17:49):
A daily basis.

Speaker 11 (01:17:50):
That sounds I mean, it sounds good, but it doesn't
always work out there.

Speaker 1 (01:17:57):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:17:59):
With that, yeah, I mean, all right, guys middle somewhere.

Speaker 1 (01:18:04):
Yeah, well, MoMA bully, they can work it out. Yeah,
all right.

Speaker 11 (01:18:08):
We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
up at twenty minutes after right after this, you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, this story
is dumb to me. Okay, listen to this. That looks
how you really feel.

Speaker 1 (01:18:23):
Dumb?

Speaker 8 (01:18:24):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:18:25):
Ordering takeout could be why you're still single. Okay, If
it's because you don't know how to cook, that's why
I say it's dumb if you don't.

Speaker 13 (01:18:33):
Know how to cook.

Speaker 11 (01:18:34):
According to a new survey, seventy five percent of Americans
find someone more attractive when they know how to cook,
and forty seven percent say it's quote very important for
a partner to have cooking skills. Cooking together is even
better as ninety percent of responding say that that can
improve their relationship. So here is a question. Is it important,

(01:18:58):
guys to you that your partner knows how to cook?
And if so, what what's your favorite thing they cook
for you?

Speaker 1 (01:19:05):
What's your favorite meal? Cook?

Speaker 10 (01:19:09):
My wife cooking breakfast. That's that's so I love it.
That's yeah, that's that's what she likes. Yeah, and she
likes to cook. So I'm the one that loves to cook.
He will? She ain't like if she missing it doing
it Jackie.

Speaker 1 (01:19:27):
Yeah, some people look at it. Some people actually love
to cook to create.

Speaker 16 (01:19:34):
Yeah, Like this question really is really important to you.
How do you feel about you?

Speaker 13 (01:19:43):
Why you think I used to date that chef?

Speaker 3 (01:19:46):
I remember him? Whatever happened to him, Shirley, He was cute,
all right?

Speaker 11 (01:19:54):
Coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we're
playing around? Would you rather right after this you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (01:20:05):
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Speaker 11 (01:20:35):
And it's time now, guys, for a round of would
you rather? Would you rather only be able to whisper?
Or would you rather only to be able to shout?
Everybody shouts on this show?

Speaker 6 (01:20:48):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:20:49):
I will just think yeah, I can't yeah, yeah, because
I can't hear. I'd be like what you say?

Speaker 1 (01:20:53):
I got to be loud. I'm sorry? Yeah you are loud? Yes,
coming to us day? That doesn't work for you, doesn't?

Speaker 7 (01:21:03):
All right?

Speaker 9 (01:21:03):
Would you rather?

Speaker 11 (01:21:06):
Would you rather be a dating contestant on the Bachelor
or ready to love?

Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
Let me let me hear what you fust to say?

Speaker 8 (01:21:15):
John?

Speaker 1 (01:21:18):
Threat you tell me I'm not.

Speaker 13 (01:21:22):
Doing you got a little tight on that one?

Speaker 1 (01:21:30):
Rather to love? Baby?

Speaker 7 (01:21:31):
Come?

Speaker 10 (01:21:32):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:21:33):
Would you rather be way too overdressed or underdressed?

Speaker 13 (01:21:38):
What whatever?

Speaker 1 (01:21:40):
Whatever? Whatever?

Speaker 10 (01:21:41):
Well we find to do it, then I don't want
to be like you know, if we do it, God,
if we're finish, do it I don't want to be overdressed.

Speaker 3 (01:21:50):
Places you might know over and under dressed your mind.

Speaker 1 (01:21:54):
With doing it. Yeah, yeah, we got to how to
get you'd rather be under dressed then?

Speaker 10 (01:22:03):
Yeahs close to as naked as we can.

Speaker 1 (01:22:06):
I'm like Tyson, you were to come.

Speaker 13 (01:22:11):
To work with those those ones die all right?

Speaker 11 (01:22:16):
Would you rather be able to fall asleep as soon
as you get into bed?

Speaker 13 (01:22:19):
Or would you rather want to uh to wake up happy?

Speaker 1 (01:22:23):
Which one fall fae immediately? Oh my god, that would beautiful? Yeah? Yeah?
Wake up happy every day? Wake up? Just wake up happy.

Speaker 16 (01:22:33):
Every day, every times, happy all the time.

Speaker 9 (01:22:36):
I feel like they're hiding something.

Speaker 1 (01:22:38):
You can't trust, Bake. I don't like to trust.

Speaker 9 (01:22:40):
You can't. Ain't nothing wrong, nothing, they ain't real.

Speaker 11 (01:22:48):
Would you rather eat only very spicy food or very
bland food? Wow?

Speaker 1 (01:22:53):
Call, my turkey was too spicy? I mean it's so good.

Speaker 10 (01:22:57):
I've been thinking about that for two days. You know,
we some on my mind. I keep it on there.

Speaker 1 (01:23:06):
It's good though, Tommy. But you say Tash liked it,
but it was too spicy from More Orleans.

Speaker 3 (01:23:11):
Sain't nothing too spicy for him?

Speaker 10 (01:23:16):
I'd rather too spicy. I don't want that playing Blair,
I can't stand blade.

Speaker 1 (01:23:21):
Yeah Blair, Yeah, you need to consult for something, all right?

Speaker 11 (01:23:24):
Would you rather let the kids eat on fine china
dinnerware at the.

Speaker 1 (01:23:27):
Kids table for Thanksgiving?

Speaker 11 (01:23:29):
Or let someone who doesn't know how to cook be
the head cook in charge of thanksgiving?

Speaker 10 (01:23:34):
Them kids ain't eat no, no, damn china, fine china,
wait for them paper plates and them pleasant.

Speaker 11 (01:23:39):
Come all right, guys, that would you rather happy? Thanksgiving?
Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour. It
is our last break of the day, and we'll get
some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey
right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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I have the Burner launch It equipped with powerful non
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Speaker 11 (01:24:31):
Here we are, last break of the day, last break
of the day, with just one more thing, Steve.

Speaker 13 (01:24:36):
I'm glad for one. I think we all are that your.

Speaker 1 (01:24:38):
Closing remarks are back.

Speaker 13 (01:24:40):
Yeah, they're always inspirational. You always motivate us to do something.

Speaker 1 (01:24:44):
Really, I was just.

Speaker 6 (01:24:47):
I don't want to sound you know, but anyway, what
I We're just asking.

Speaker 1 (01:24:52):
God what could I do more? What what could I do?

Speaker 6 (01:24:56):
And it was just put on my heart to share
more on Start takes a moment out at the beginning
and the close of the show and just try to
encourage more people. And I've learned so much over the years.
You know, I've had a tough go of it as
many of you have. Mine ain't my story animal rich
or deep it than nobody else's. So I just try

(01:25:17):
to share the information that I've actually learned, because I've
learned a lot. And one of the things that I've
learned is about when to start. You know, whenever you
come up with an idea or thought or move you
want to make, or something comes from your imagination. The

(01:25:37):
thing that I find that stops people oftentimes is when
do I start? Now Here's the thing with starting. What
people do is they delay the start by overthinking it.
And if you overthink something, guess what will event and

(01:26:00):
you over explain it to other people. Eventually the how
it won't work it's going to come up. So you
have this fabulous idea that you've thought of, right, and
then you shared with some people and he said, man,
I'm gonna go do this, and you start talking it
over and you start thinking it through and you share
it with more people. The more people you share with
and the more people you and the more you think

(01:26:21):
it through, you know what. You keep coming up with
the mishaps, the things that can go wrong, and you
end up delaying the start.

Speaker 1 (01:26:30):
The other thing that happens.

Speaker 6 (01:26:32):
Is people try to line all they ducks up in
a row before they start so they can just go
on and start knocking them down. That's a mistake because
that almost never ever happens. I have yet to see
any deal I've ever done, any project i've started go
just the way I thought.

Speaker 1 (01:26:51):
It was gonna go. I have never seen that.

Speaker 6 (01:26:55):
I have yet to close a deal that just went smoothly,
no wrinkles, no bumps, no nothing. I've never seen that.
So when you're waiting to start, and then the naysayers
hit and you're waiting to start to get your ducks
lined up in a row, you're delaying the process. You

(01:27:20):
know when the best time to start is right now, because.

Speaker 1 (01:27:26):
Right now alleviates procrastination.

Speaker 6 (01:27:30):
If you wait on the ducks to get lined up
in a row, and you're listening to the naysayers, procrastination
has already set in and taken place, and oftentimes it
takes hold. So what I found is when I come
up with the idea, I start the process. Now, I
start the process. Now.

Speaker 1 (01:27:50):
Look, man, you can easily do that. It's simple things.

Speaker 6 (01:27:54):
What stops people is you try to figure out all
the way through. You have this goal that you got
and you say, okay, I'm gonna do this. Then if
I do that, then if I do that, and then
you get stuck because you go, well what happens after that?
Because you've never been in that area before, you've never
gone down that road, so the unknown strikes you. And
then because you can't figure out what you do when
you get to the unknown, you stop. So now you

(01:28:17):
couldn't line up all your ducks in a row. So
the process to success is delayed.

Speaker 1 (01:28:21):
Again.

Speaker 6 (01:28:22):
Stop doing that to yourself. In twenty eighteen, y'all start now.
Do it now.

Speaker 1 (01:28:30):
What you have to do next will be shown to you.

Speaker 6 (01:28:35):
It'll your first step will lead you to the second step. Now,
sometimes on your journey you make a bad turn. You
gotta make a U turn and come back and cross
over the other bridge instead of going that way. But
until you take one step, you'll never know where the
next turn is. If it's a fork in the road,
if it's a U turn, if it's a being, if

(01:28:55):
it's a valley, if it's a mountain. You gotta start today.
Stop delaying everybody. Whatever it is you want to do,
start today. You may be surprised that you can actually
get yourself further than you thought you could with nobody
else's help. Now, in order to be successful, you're gonna
need somebody's help, But to start, oftentimes you just need

(01:29:19):
yourself start the process. God will show you the way.
He really will. He always has. I say this often
to people. God will get you through for though everybody's
listening right now, name one thing that God hasn't gotten

(01:29:41):
you through. And if He hasn't gotten you through it,
he's currently pulling you through it right now. And you
know how I know because you're listening to the radio.
How you listening to the radio. It's because he's pulling
you through something right now. He's gotten you through all

(01:30:02):
the other stuff, but he's pulling you through right now.
If you start the process, God will pull you through.
But you'll never know until you start. Make twenty eighteen
the year starting something great in your life. Start, Start

(01:30:24):
something great. Don't participate in no mess this year. Stay
out of mess. You know what mess is, yes, sir,
mess looks like it ain't right, It don't feel good,
it don't sound good.

Speaker 1 (01:30:38):
It's mess. Stay out of mess this year.

Speaker 6 (01:30:42):
Remove yourself from messy situations so you can move in
the right direction. Start this year, man, make it happen. Okay,
start today. That's the best time. Thank y'all for listening.
Hope that helps you.

Speaker 13 (01:30:55):
Thank you like.

Speaker 1 (01:30:59):
A home. Well, y'all have a great weekkend close. You're closed, Yeah,
you're very close.

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