June 12, 2023 • 9 mins
Full Disclosure, No Exposure - He Caught Her Cheating With His Friend!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Robin Terry kim On Brisbane's.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Robin Terry and Gibbs full disclosure, no exposure.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Forgive me father for a sin.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
We're trying something different this morning. We're going to be
able to talk to our person who's giving us the story.
Good morning, Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm so glad you're speaking to us. Your voice is decoded.
We have no idea who you are, but I love
the fact that we can actually ask questions.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
So is it exciting? Yeah? Tell us what happened a
long time ago? My now ex wife left her phone
on the bench and the message popped up a football
I haven't heard from him from a wealth which was
her ex boyfriend from before me. And I clicked on
it and I saw photos.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Oh well, okay, how long before you? And what saw
the photos?
Speaker 5 (00:45):
The photos that you're thinking about? Terry? And probably about
fifteen years before me.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Ah, you've been together for fifteen years and they were
sending nude photos of each other to each other.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Yeah. Oh wow.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
So the photos you saw were they of him or
of you or both? They were both so you could
scroll back and just see the whole too and fro.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Yeah he married Yeah, sadly, so I called his wife.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Oh, well, okay, do you know had it been going
on for a long time?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
I don't know, but I think they were in love
the whole time. So I called his wife, who I've
been friends with her and two were like five. Now
in my forties, we've become even better friends. And she
was very angry at me, and she hung up on me,
and then two days later she pulled me back, very sorry,
but also very grateful because there was problems there, and
I think for both of us it was like a
(01:35):
permission from the universe to say, you guys are hating life.
Here's your permission. You can go now. And we both
ended our marriagers.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
That moment in the kitchen. You've just seen these pictures.
You're very upset. There's an understatement. Did you immediately choose
to phone her? But because I guess that's a big thing.
I know you knew her, but that it's a big
thing to blow up someone else's relationship.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
Yeah, we used to text all the time, and I
knew there was problems, so I was comfortable to call her.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
And did you talk to your wife before you called?
Speaker 5 (02:07):
His wife denied it. She denied it, and then it
wasn't until we were pretty much she was moving out
and she goes a fine and admit it to it
was okay, I just don't change your knitting.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
So did the four of you know each other really well?
Had there been other relationships involved in that, like friendships?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
No? I sort of attracted to her while they were together,
but it was bad while they were together, and then
they broke up and we became a thing. And looking
back over talking to all these other people over the years,
I lost the law friendships was with her and she's
been like that all the time.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
So why because people knew that she was still in
love with the old guy?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Oh, I just knew that she wasn't a good person.
I was young and it was all fresh and romantic
at the time.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
And at that moment that you found out after being
together for like fifteen years, where was your relationship at?
Was it in a good place?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
You thought?
Speaker 5 (02:56):
No, it had been bady years. Been tolerating, as I
was saying, I tolerate, tolerate, and then the universe gives
you this permission to go, I'm sad, but thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, you did say that it was also the best
in the worst day of your life. I understand the worst,
But why do you say the best? Because it released you, it.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Released me, Robin, and I am a lot like you.
I think in the in the dating world, I'm scared
to meet someone that might not be right. What if
they're the same. And I've got this whole mess in
my head. But my life's good now. I'm okay alone.
I am lonely, but I'm very much okay alone, and
I'm very grateful to be in the life that I'm
in now compared to what it was.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Thank you, Anonymous, it was excellent.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Thank you mate. Glad You're glad.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
You're in a good place too. Mate, It's awesome.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Bring on the next single party.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Yeah, so you seem you seemed hung up Terry on
the on the fact that he made that phone call
to the other person's life.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
In the end, the one is angry one. He wants
to get the guy who's wronged him. Yeah, but you
don't know. And it's what I say to you, and
you found it by someone from Facebook. You don't know
what placed that persons in the time, and you drop
that bomb on them. I've been here before and I
had a friend try to involve me in his infidelity,
and I didn't know his wife too well, who's a
beautiful person. And I went straight to him and I said, Matte,
(04:10):
you sought this out. You sought this out. You don't
involve me, And if you don't saw this again, then
I'll tell her.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
If I didn't receive that message from that woman, I
could have been stuck in that forever.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
She had to tell me. But I would. I would
want to know. Eventually, I'm going to go at him first,
and I would want him to suffer in telling her
for sure, But you don't know where she's at. That's
duty of care to the person, surely.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Night, it's a duty of care to you. This is
your life story, this is your relationship unraveling, this is
your situation. You've got to get to the bottom.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
But yeah, you saw your thing, but you don't put
You've got to be careful how she finds out. I
wanted to find but I would go. I'd go him.
I'd make him, make him do it.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
No.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Three, you agree to disagree.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Thirteen one sixty fives our number. Ifever you want to
get involved with the show'd be interesting to see what
she thought of it. Like the person who received that call,
because it sounds like she was angry at first and
then happy.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
No, we can see if we can find that. I mean,
the actual the ex is never going to talk to us,
hence why we've decoded the bloke's voice.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Yeah, she might, she might, she might, Okay, I'd be
loved that she agreed with me. Would God?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
An incredible story this morning, and there's an update. I
believe we're going to be able to speak to the
other woman in this story. Now, not the other woman
who was not.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
The cheat, No, not the cheating.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
But she was also being cheated on in this story.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
A long time ago, now ex wife left her phone
on the bench and the message popped up football I
haven't had from him from a whith, which was her
ex boyfriend from before me, and I clicked on it
and I saw photos.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Was he married?
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Yeah? Sadly? So I called his wife, who I've been
friends with her in two were like five. She was
very angry at me, and she hung up on me,
and then two days later she called me back, very sorry,
but also very grateful.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
You're her You're the woman that he called? Is that right?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
That's the one?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Yep?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Okay, Now we're not going to be able to scramble
you voice because we're live here, but obviously no names
and no suburbs, so we'll try and keep you anonymous
if we can.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
And keep our first called anonymous too.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Please please don't say any names. But tell me about
that phone call, tell me about that moment.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah. So you know, we, as you said, we had
been friends, you know, grew up together, and then we
both knew they'd been together previously obviously, but they sort
of had always messaged but not spent time together. Yeah,
and he rang me and said, this is what's happening.
(06:43):
No way, no way. But that was you know, looking back,
that was more because I had that many ideas that
that was happening anyway that I just didn't want to
believe it, right, And yeah, I looked into it. I
got mad, looked into it.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
And yeah, in the phone call, he said that you
were very angry for a couple of days, and he
was kind of blaming me that.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Was at him. No, I don't think it was at
him really. You know, obviously angry at first, you know,
in part of you being being female, part of me goes, well,
why didn't you control your wife, let her do that.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
So you blamed him a bit.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Relationship I was in, you know, controlled, so you know,
why did he let his wife do this?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
And so what was yours then?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Straight?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So you were angry and angry at him and we
now understand why. So then what did you do? Did
you go on your own investigation over the next couple
of days?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, full stealth mission. Hey, As I said, I was
in quite a controlling and abusive relationship, so I went
full stealth mission to try and find out what was happening. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
And believe it or not, they were still coming in.
So I was like wow, and it wasn't just one person,
there was several that.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
He was doing it for me, both genders. It just
gets it.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
From So what did you do then? So you've now
you've researched, you found multiple people that he's cheating on
you with. You did, like Kip, took a couple of
days to digest and to crosscheck.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
What did you do?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I took a couple of days to work out where
I was taking my children right and we were out of.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
There, did you confront him?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Yeah? As I was out the door, I wasn't staying
around for that as I said it was not a
nice relationship, so I had to make sure my kids
were safe and that I was going to be safe too.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I guess that's the thing you said. You're there, You've
got kids to raise the rest of I would want
you to know, but I was so worried about a
person just phone you out of the blue, who knows
where you are in that day, and dropping the bombshell
on you.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I get that mindset as well, because you know not
You obviously don't publicize that you're in a bad role relationship,
and things could have gone the wrong way.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
But on reflection, you think he did the right thing,
saved my life, saved your life.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
You had the broken bone in years, and I'm actually
just two weeks ago remarried to the sweetest man I've
ever met in my life.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
And I bet you that's partly why you don't care
that your voice isn't decoded, because you're so proud of
the woman you've become.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Yeah. Yep, And I've never knew that being in love
could you know, As it was said previously, we were
both young, but I never knew that being in love
could actually be fun.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
Wow, such a good story.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Thank you so much well done.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I think I think we can all go home.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
I feel great.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Yes, thank you Anonymous and your new husband thing over.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Yes, no worries, it's Inmvrovan, Terry and Kids on Bristone's
Cheers ninety seventy three
Robin Terry kim On Brisbane's.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Robin Terry and Gibbs full disclosure, no exposure.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Forgive me father for a sin.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
We're trying something different this morning. We're going to be
able to talk to our person who's giving us the story.
Good morning, Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm so glad you're speaking to us. Your voice is decoded.
We have no idea who you are, but I love
the fact that we can actually ask questions.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
So is it exciting? Yeah? Tell us what happened a
long time ago? My now ex wife left her phone
on the bench and the message popped up a football
I haven't heard from him from a wealth which was
her ex boyfriend from before me. And I clicked on
it and I saw photos.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Oh well, okay, how long before you? And what saw
the photos?
Speaker 5 (00:45):
The photos that you're thinking about? Terry? And probably about
fifteen years before me.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Ah, you've been together for fifteen years and they were
sending nude photos of each other to each other.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Yeah. Oh wow.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
So the photos you saw were they of him or
of you or both? They were both so you could
scroll back and just see the whole too and fro.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Yeah he married Yeah, sadly, so I called his wife.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Oh, well, okay, do you know had it been going
on for a long time?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
I don't know, but I think they were in love
the whole time. So I called his wife, who I've
been friends with her and two were like five. Now
in my forties, we've become even better friends. And she
was very angry at me, and she hung up on me,
and then two days later she pulled me back, very sorry,
but also very grateful because there was problems there, and
I think for both of us it was like a
(01:35):
permission from the universe to say, you guys are hating life.
Here's your permission. You can go now. And we both
ended our marriagers.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
That moment in the kitchen. You've just seen these pictures.
You're very upset. There's an understatement. Did you immediately choose
to phone her? But because I guess that's a big thing.
I know you knew her, but that it's a big
thing to blow up someone else's relationship.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
Yeah, we used to text all the time, and I
knew there was problems, so I was comfortable to call her.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
And did you talk to your wife before you called?
Speaker 5 (02:07):
His wife denied it. She denied it, and then it
wasn't until we were pretty much she was moving out
and she goes a fine and admit it to it
was okay, I just don't change your knitting.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
So did the four of you know each other really well?
Had there been other relationships involved in that, like friendships?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
No? I sort of attracted to her while they were together,
but it was bad while they were together, and then
they broke up and we became a thing. And looking
back over talking to all these other people over the years,
I lost the law friendships was with her and she's
been like that all the time.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
So why because people knew that she was still in
love with the old guy?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Oh, I just knew that she wasn't a good person.
I was young and it was all fresh and romantic
at the time.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
And at that moment that you found out after being
together for like fifteen years, where was your relationship at?
Was it in a good place?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
You thought?
Speaker 5 (02:56):
No, it had been bady years. Been tolerating, as I
was saying, I tolerate, tolerate, and then the universe gives
you this permission to go, I'm sad, but thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, you did say that it was also the best
in the worst day of your life. I understand the worst,
But why do you say the best? Because it released you, it.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Released me, Robin, and I am a lot like you.
I think in the in the dating world, I'm scared
to meet someone that might not be right. What if
they're the same. And I've got this whole mess in
my head. But my life's good now. I'm okay alone.
I am lonely, but I'm very much okay alone, and
I'm very grateful to be in the life that I'm
in now compared to what it was.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Thank you, Anonymous, it was excellent.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Thank you mate. Glad You're glad.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
You're in a good place too. Mate, It's awesome.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Bring on the next single party.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Yeah, so you seem you seemed hung up Terry on
the on the fact that he made that phone call
to the other person's life.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
In the end, the one is angry one. He wants
to get the guy who's wronged him. Yeah, but you
don't know. And it's what I say to you, and
you found it by someone from Facebook. You don't know
what placed that persons in the time, and you drop
that bomb on them. I've been here before and I
had a friend try to involve me in his infidelity,
and I didn't know his wife too well, who's a
beautiful person. And I went straight to him and I said, Matte,
(04:10):
you sought this out. You sought this out. You don't
involve me, And if you don't saw this again, then
I'll tell her.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
If I didn't receive that message from that woman, I
could have been stuck in that forever.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
She had to tell me. But I would. I would
want to know. Eventually, I'm going to go at him first,
and I would want him to suffer in telling her
for sure, But you don't know where she's at. That's
duty of care to the person, surely.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Night, it's a duty of care to you. This is
your life story, this is your relationship unraveling, this is
your situation. You've got to get to the bottom.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
But yeah, you saw your thing, but you don't put
You've got to be careful how she finds out. I
wanted to find but I would go. I'd go him.
I'd make him, make him do it.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
No.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Three, you agree to disagree.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Thirteen one sixty fives our number. Ifever you want to
get involved with the show'd be interesting to see what
she thought of it. Like the person who received that call,
because it sounds like she was angry at first and
then happy.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
No, we can see if we can find that. I mean,
the actual the ex is never going to talk to us,
hence why we've decoded the bloke's voice.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Yeah, she might, she might, she might, Okay, I'd be
loved that she agreed with me. Would God?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
An incredible story this morning, and there's an update. I
believe we're going to be able to speak to the
other woman in this story. Now, not the other woman
who was not.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
The cheat, No, not the cheating.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
But she was also being cheated on in this story.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
A long time ago, now ex wife left her phone
on the bench and the message popped up football I
haven't had from him from a whith, which was her
ex boyfriend from before me, and I clicked on it
and I saw photos.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Was he married?
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Yeah? Sadly? So I called his wife, who I've been
friends with her in two were like five. She was
very angry at me, and she hung up on me,
and then two days later she called me back, very sorry,
but also very grateful.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
You're her You're the woman that he called? Is that right?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
That's the one?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Yep?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Okay, Now we're not going to be able to scramble
you voice because we're live here, but obviously no names
and no suburbs, so we'll try and keep you anonymous
if we can.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
And keep our first called anonymous too.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Please please don't say any names. But tell me about
that phone call, tell me about that moment.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah. So you know, we, as you said, we had
been friends, you know, grew up together, and then we
both knew they'd been together previously obviously, but they sort
of had always messaged but not spent time together. Yeah,
and he rang me and said, this is what's happening.
(06:43):
No way, no way. But that was you know, looking back,
that was more because I had that many ideas that
that was happening anyway that I just didn't want to
believe it, right, And yeah, I looked into it. I
got mad, looked into it.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
And yeah, in the phone call, he said that you
were very angry for a couple of days, and he
was kind of blaming me that.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Was at him. No, I don't think it was at
him really. You know, obviously angry at first, you know,
in part of you being being female, part of me goes, well,
why didn't you control your wife, let her do that.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
So you blamed him a bit.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Relationship I was in, you know, controlled, so you know,
why did he let his wife do this?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
And so what was yours then?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Straight?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So you were angry and angry at him and we
now understand why. So then what did you do? Did
you go on your own investigation over the next couple
of days?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, full stealth mission. Hey, As I said, I was
in quite a controlling and abusive relationship, so I went
full stealth mission to try and find out what was happening. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
And believe it or not, they were still coming in.
So I was like wow, and it wasn't just one person,
there was several that.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
He was doing it for me, both genders. It just
gets it.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
From So what did you do then? So you've now
you've researched, you found multiple people that he's cheating on
you with. You did, like Kip, took a couple of
days to digest and to crosscheck.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
What did you do?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I took a couple of days to work out where
I was taking my children right and we were out of.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
There, did you confront him?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Yeah? As I was out the door, I wasn't staying
around for that as I said it was not a
nice relationship, so I had to make sure my kids
were safe and that I was going to be safe too.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I guess that's the thing you said. You're there, You've
got kids to raise the rest of I would want
you to know, but I was so worried about a
person just phone you out of the blue, who knows
where you are in that day, and dropping the bombshell
on you.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I get that mindset as well, because you know not
You obviously don't publicize that you're in a bad role relationship,
and things could have gone the wrong way.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
But on reflection, you think he did the right thing,
saved my life, saved your life.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
You had the broken bone in years, and I'm actually
just two weeks ago remarried to the sweetest man I've
ever met in my life.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
And I bet you that's partly why you don't care
that your voice isn't decoded, because you're so proud of
the woman you've become.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Yeah. Yep, And I've never knew that being in love
could you know, As it was said previously, we were
both young, but I never knew that being in love
could actually be fun.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
Wow, such a good story.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Thank you so much well done.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I think I think we can all go home.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
I feel great.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Yes, thank you Anonymous and your new husband thing over.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Yes, no worries, it's Inmvrovan, Terry and Kids on Bristone's
Cheers ninety seventy three
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