The Unspoken Rules Of Man-To-Man Communication

The Unspoken Rules Of Man-To-Man Communication

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Harry Styles, It's Robin, Terry and Kip on Kiss ninety
seven to three late night talking. Wasn't a lot of
that at the Bucks over the weekend at Pete's Bucks,
well it was talking, but it was mostly about football
and other things and nothing. No questions at all about
about the relationship with the Pete's having, or the wedding
or any stress, none of that.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Okay, So can I just ask just the rules of
this engagement.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
If one of them had been a bit flat, like
one of the fellows had been a bit down, would
you have noticed?

Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Probably, And would that have made a difference?

Speaker 4 (00:28):
Yeah, I reckon, I think I think that's the difference is.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
Everyone was up for just a great old time and
no one wanted to think about it being too serious.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Lift your game, you're ruining it for everyone.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
And so when we spoke about.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
So, when I mentioned it yesterday, my brother in law
Rick sent me this this text after the show.

Speaker 4 (00:49):
So, you know, a good show this morning, blah blah blah.
He said.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
The truth with us blokes is we don't generally pry.
He says, I would you would have talked about the
wedding and Amanda et cetera. But it's on Pete to
start the conversation. And then he goes on to say
no news is good news, which really, but that's it?

Speaker 4 (01:09):
Is it for men?

Speaker 1 (01:09):
It's just like if you don't if you don't say anything,
then the assumption is everything's fine.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
Okay, okay. So again, let me just understand the rules
of engagement. If he had said something yes, because sometimes
that can make everyone feel uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yeah, would you have tried to just jolly him up
and move through it? Or would you have stopped down
and chatted?

Speaker 4 (01:28):
Possibly? I don't reckon it.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
Certainly wouldn't be in the group setting. I don't reckon
you'd talk to him, you know what I mean? Wait
on one, Yeah, you'd wait one on one. You go,
let's let's have it because there was a pool there.
Let's go out and be in the sun for a bit,
and you'd have a chat out there.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
I reckon, I've got a great idea.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah, just go to the wind page on Kiss ninety
seven to three and get yourself a kick and chat.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Is what It's brilliant? Yes, it is.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
It is, like I mean, that's exactly what this soccer
goal is about. Is the idea of just having as
a purposeful one on one you and someone else kicking.
You're not looking at each other and you can actually
open up.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
So maybe what we should now include in the byeline
is please get one for your child now so he
doesn't become like kid?

Speaker 4 (02:11):
Yes? Is this my face? Is this in your future?
Because you don't want to.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
See you, mister Chance, keep you and talking to your
mate talking about the wedding problems and saying how things are,
and you said what, I'm here

Speaker 4 (02:21):
For you and by the way, I'm winning two three, Yes, exactly,