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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, and it's time for us The CLO Chief.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, Steve.

Speaker 1 (00:06):
This one is from Marquita in Norfolk. Marquita says, my
husband and I have a twenty five year old son
and he's been staying with my husband's mother to help
her since she had surgery five months ago. My son
is ready to move out and get on with his life,
but my mother in law pitched a fit and said
she can't live alone. My husband's way of solving the

(00:26):
problem is to tell his mom she can move in
with us so she won't be lonely. There is no
way I'm living with this manipulative old woman. My husband
and my son are under her spell, but I'm not
What should I do?

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Well, she definitely can't move into your house if you
don't want her. The boy wants to go and be
on his own, he's twenty five. I mean, is she
does she need help or she just don't want to
live alone. If she don't want to live alone? To
give you, we got to get you some company down

(01:02):
not to Senior Citizen Home home, cause you know we
can drive you down there and let you meet some
friends or something, but you can't, you're not living in hell.
And she probably is manipulative. And she has a son
and a grandson on the spell. But the boy don't
want to be under the spell no more. He wants
to move and go live his life. And you can't
expect a twenty five year old boy to take care

(01:23):
of grandmama now. And now her husband wants to volunteer.
She can move here with y'all, So y'all won't be alone.
But you ain't gonna be a watch TV.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
And it's gonna cause a problem in her marriage.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
They have no company. Hell, no old people hear everything,
all right?

Speaker 2 (01:47):
So what should she do?

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Uh? Set her husband down and explain to her her feelings.
She doesn't want to live with anybody, and can they
make some other arrangements?

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:58):
I like that.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
Do you use the word heppa.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
That?

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Mother?

Speaker 4 (02:05):
Jay? I don't think you'll be able to do that,
all right?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Moving on, bev and Delaware writes, I'm dating a guy
I've known most of my life, but I've never thought
of him as my type until recently. We haven't been intimate,
but we do a lot of kissing and touching. I
noticed that he doesn't wear underwear, and it's becoming a
problem because it moves all around and it's out of
control most of the time. This is a turnoff for

(02:33):
me and a possible deal breaker. How can I be
honest and tell him he needs underwear? Or is this
normal nowadays?

Speaker 4 (02:41):
Lady?

Speaker 3 (02:42):
Well, are you for real? Are you for real? A
deal breaker? Is a man don't wear underwear? See, let
me tell you something, Bev. You may not have thought
of him that way, but he'd been thinking about you
that way.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
That's why he ain't got no draws off? What happened?

Speaker 2 (03:00):
One more time?

Speaker 4 (03:01):
What is talking about?

Speaker 3 (03:04):
She's never thought of him that way, but now they're
getting sack romantic. They haven't had secret they do it,
but they do a lot of kitchen and kissing and touching,
and it is moving all around because he don't wear underwear,
And she say that's a turn off to her. So
is that a deal breaker because he don't wear underwear?
How the hell is a man don't wear underwear a

(03:26):
deal breaker? How stupid is that? And what I was
trying to tell Bev was you may not have thought
of him in that way while y'all growing up, but
he been thinking about you that way the whole time.
Thus that's why he ain't got on no damn underwear,
because we one step closer to glory without this.

Speaker 4 (03:48):
Underwear command, you know.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
And since you're doing all this stuff with it, you
might want to, you know, just try everything. And I
don't need no you know, tidy white? Is it boxes
all up in the way? But how has that a
turn off though? And a deal breaker?

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Maybe she is the one that just bouncing around, you
know everyone.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
It's all you can get your hands off of it.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
That's exactly what it says.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Yeah, she said, read it, Shirley, read the letter.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
I noticed that he doesn't wear underwear, and it's becoming
a problem because it moves all around and it's out
of control most of the time.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
And how does she know it move unless you have this,
unless you have noticed the location before.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
But you can notice it with your eyes, you're saying
with her.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
Hands, Shirley, you didn't read the whole letter. They touch
a lot, okay, they bounce, so what is a touching?
Surely you can stop all this being innocent now would
read these letters as a Christian?

Speaker 4 (05:05):
All right? Yeah, stop reading these letters.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Like that, Okay, it's bouncing all around, and it's control
most of the time. And what is supposed to be
She's asking is this normal nowadays?

Speaker 2 (05:21):
Or should she tell him she needs underwear?

Speaker 3 (05:23):
You can tell him he needs underwear, But what if
you keep touching it fall?

Speaker 4 (05:30):
What do you think is going to happen? Is this
one was stupid?

Speaker 2 (05:35):
I don't see it that way.

Speaker 4 (05:37):
Just tell Shirley, what do you think problem is? Did now?
You tell me?

Speaker 1 (05:41):
I just think that he doesn't wear underwear period And because.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
It's out of control most of the time.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
Because we want something to happen.

Speaker 3 (05:51):
A man no where draws when he's anticipating something happening.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
Yeah, okay, that's what draws most.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
He can't wear underwear if it in cases something does happen,
it's something wrong the underwear, I mean taking them off whatever.

Speaker 4 (06:09):
Excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. Let's stop this right here,
Let's stop hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me
just say this, and I ain't in your business. Let
me just make this statement. Let's go to the.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
Next y'all don't wear underwear all the time either.

Speaker 4 (06:28):
Let's move on to the next. Damn question.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
It's not all the time. Most of the time.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
All Right, it's not about Yeah, that's your clo.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
I'm sick. Oh, we don't have enough time for this one, Steve.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
Because we spend too much time with y'all in disbelief
that he don't have no damn underwear.

Speaker 4 (06:48):
The hell you think.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
You you're listening

Speaker 4 (06:52):
Morning show