Manipulation and Mind Movement

This is how the ladies get their men to open up.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
All right, here we go as promised. This is uh,
this is for the ladies. We want to help you
get your get you to get your man to open
up because you know they don't like to talk about stuff,
don't you know? Yeah, they don't like to talk about
their feelings and all that, and women as women, we
love that. Yes, so yeah, so this is how to

(00:23):
get your man to talk about his feelings. And Steve,
please see if you agree with this. Guys, see if
you agree with this, because they're not known to do this. So, ladies,
if you're tired of guessing how your man feels, here's
some pointers for you to get your guy to share.
All right, Steve, let's see if you agree. Be trustworthy?
How about that for a guy to open up? There?

(00:46):
So I didn't even hardly get in enough.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Understand what you say? For a guy, it's your man
to open up?

Speaker 1 (00:52):
What Okay? Yes, okay, So if you want your guy
to open up and share his emotions with you, he's
got to be able to trust you. Okay, that's what.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
It means, Tommy.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
Okay, I got I didn't ask you to be saying.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, you didn't even let me get it out, Tommy,
anything with the word trust. Yeah, all right, treat him
as an equal. Okay, So he's your partner, he's your husband,
he's your man. You know, he's your boo whatever, So
don't treat him.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
No, I ain't had it. What do you mean? You know,
and treat you like an equal? What I'm just saying.
I ain't saying who it was. I'm just saying we
didn't say who.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
You're being treated equal? Now I'm being treated not equal?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Now, you know, Okay, I've been I've actually been a slave.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
I mean, you know, if that's the game you're playing.
Was that the game you were playing or something? You
know how people roll reverse? Uh?

Speaker 3 (02:00):
No, there was no game.

Speaker 4 (02:02):
He was a slave.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Give me shoes.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
What are you talking about? Roll the person?

Speaker 1 (02:09):
You play with your mate? You roll play when you talk? Yeah,
the whole talking, the whole time. Never made eye contract.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
You have been in such a bad relationship that they
be sleep on your arm in the morning and you
have a decision to make. Do I run the risk
of pulling my arm out and waking her up? Or
do I just chew it all? Don't tell you something?

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Man?

Speaker 2 (02:40):
I damn it, I damn that had got it? Off,
but I started crying because I had been been into
my shoulder. Blood was everywhere. She woke up with blood
all round in my mouth? What are you doing trying
to chew my Wow? So this wouldn't happen, Yeah, but
she heard a whimpery Steve, what are you crying? Why

(03:14):
are the blood on your trying to eat almost your ass,
which obviously I didn't do.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
It's blood everywhere on these sheets. You mess these sheets?

Speaker 2 (03:24):
And what are you doing? I'm sorry, hey, I just
trying to leave your ass sleep is what I was
trying to do. My bag. God, let me going to
the hospital and get these eighty five stitches put in
my shoulder.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Come on backt like on it I had.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
I had most of the meat in my mouth, so
they was able to pack it, dunk on and restructure
my shoulder.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Go ahead, all right? You know, like compliment with him
when he does something well, that's a good way to
get him to open up, Like yeah, like, you know,
compliment other things he does well, you know, in case
he's self conscious or something. You know, oh honey, I
like the way you did this, or you know.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Whatever, whatever, that's all you're gonna do.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
That's what you've heard. That's what I like.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
That's what you get to.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Who told you to put that on?

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Told me one time you got on full different blacks.
Them blacks, right, that's full different blacks you got on
them pants. Gonna go with that jacket, that shirt that's
full different blacks. Yeah, that's ugly.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
That's going away T shirts around where you going?

Speaker 2 (04:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah, all of a sudden, you just gonna put on
a clean T shirt. Now the blue changing behavior, all right,
You got to pick the right time. Okay, don't start
asking him about his feelings when he's rushed or when
he's distracted or watching the game and stuff like that.

Speaker 4 (04:57):
You gotta ease into it. Ladies, Hestad, it is right here.
So you just gonna sit there and ain't gonna talk
to me. Well, I'm watching the damn game. Oh the
game is more important than me. Yes, yes, I know it.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Before you go to work, we need to talk.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah, this game is pretty big. They're only gonna play this.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Well, yeah, did you actually say those words?

Speaker 2 (05:27):
But you're getting said.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Here's another one. Watch your approach, how you approach it.
Don't just push it down his throat, you know. Yeah,
be gentle, be non judgmental. You know you want him
to open up. You don't want him to run away
from the conversation because you sure.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Don't want to put that down your throat. You don't
want to, don't you done? Out right?

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Hello, and watch your body language, ladies. We're just moving on.
We're just moving on.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
Watch, yes, watch.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
Your body language, you know, yeah, keep yourself cool, keep
your know, don't forget. You're trying to make him feel
safe and not judged. Okay, so you know'll be cool
about it. Yeah, okay, I'm learning.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
It's good.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
You got that one.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
See if you're cool with that one.

Speaker 4 (06:13):
Watch your body language, Watch your body lank.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
Do you hear me talking to you? You're listening Morning
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