July 1, 2024 • 8 mins
A 45 year old single woman is having patience issues regarding a proposal. Sherry has been married to a man who wants to be a rapper. The problem is his age. DAMN!!! What kinds of problems are tied to an "outside" child with no social skills?
Steve Harvey Morning Show Online: http://www.steveharveyfm.com/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
We're gonna get to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey in the building for your love questions.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
This one is from Barbara in DC.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Barbara Wrights, I'm a single woman in my mid forties
and I have been waiting for my boyfriend to propose.
He said he's going to do it, and I want
him to stop dragging his feet and do it. I
went in his drawer while doing laundry and I found
a ring box, but no ring. I couldn't help but
ask him what happened to the ring? Now he's upset
(00:29):
and said, I ruined the whole thing. How can he
turn this on me when he's been teasing me with
a proposal for two years?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Because why would you go in there and say you
found a ring box? Why would you do that? You
didn't think it was getting close there? And now you
to ruin the whole surprise? Yeah, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
So you're not?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, he didn't turn it on you. You created this yourself.
You went in his drawer, found a ring.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Box in the incumbentate ways? What's where the ring at?
You have messed up to? Surprise? True statement?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Sorry, why are you all in his stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
She was doing laundry whatever.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I got all of that. But you if you found
the Rien box, most women will go, oh my god,
oh my god, and pretty packed. And then went over there,
set down and been bubbling.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Now, if it took two weeks, the bubbling would have
turned into an eruption.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
But whatever.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Waited out, Yeah, all right, moving on, size.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Could have been gett some most stones put on it,
could have been doing anything anything.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Yeah, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
So Sherry and Jorraville Georgia says, I'm thirty seven and
I'm married to a man that was in a band
for eleven years. He's thirty five now and he's trying
to start up his band again. He's been working on
original music that he wrote in hopes that he can
get a deal with a record label. He has a
decent voice, but I wouldn't say he's a singer. He
(02:01):
finally let me hear what he wrote, and it was
a rap song with explicit lyrics. I think he's a
bit old for this, but I'm not a dream killer.
How do I handle this nicely?
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Send a tape to me. I cut a dream right
off the back.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
First of all, you got a band, well, last time
a band got signed number two, he old number two.
He can't sing. It's just so much going on now
of late. You can't get record deals without being able
to sing. But you was in a band for eleven years.
Now you're gonna start it back up. I mean, man,
(02:43):
good luck to you. You know, I can't tell you
not to support him and all this hit. It could hit.
Its unlikely, but it could. But if it's in his
hard to do it, he gonna do it. I ain't
no really, no dream killer. But please send me that tape.
I can care who he needs to pursue this any first?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
So should how should she handle it nicely?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Just send that? Has anybody heard this other than me? Baby? Anybody? Steve,
don't be the very gordy?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Uh huh?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
What do your brother think?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
What does your brother think?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Does tell you the truth?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
If you if you want to find out what your
idea sounded like, you tell your brother.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
It keeps it one brother?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
All right?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Benita in Detroit says, five years ago, my husband found
out he has an outside child. His child is ten
years old now, and my husband is doing all he
can to make up for lost time. His son is
very shy and has trouble making friends. So I arranged
a small get together at our house and told him
to invite a few friends. No one showed up, and
(03:54):
he was very sad. My husband blames me for doing
too much and making it worse. How do I get
him to see I was trying to help.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Uh, you were trying to help.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Can't help because you little boy ain't nothing, no man,
he ain't got no social skill. You have seen this before. Hell,
I been to little boy up at the school without
no friends. I know what it is like that ain't no,
no no. I studied big little, big nose. You know,
(04:28):
you got them them type of credentials, and you study.
You should have had no friends. But the only thing
saved me, my ass shore. I could play everything. That's
the only thing saved me. And I ain't got to
be a better study and don't work on basketball court.
So yeah, because all I got to do is just
grunt and make sounds anyway the ball be on the way.
(04:48):
They know I'm trying to say fast. I was trying
to well, hell no not when I studied you.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
So you you you so.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
They have called me about four five names by the
time I got it out.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
But what about her husband though, Steve saying she's making
it worse.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
She tried to help. It's what she did. I know,
I know y'all trying to find a way to help them.
They had a little something at the house. Invite your friend,
everybody coming over in tux they might no, might come
over the house people they don't like.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yeah, so maybe she can try other ways.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah, you got to take him to people house, take
him to a place, let him show him my other
kids in the act.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
But you're not mad at her husband for doing what
he did it same.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Yeah, he's stupid, that's what I'm saying. He wronged for that.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
All she was doing was trying to help. Just say, look,
I was just trying to help. But I'll tell you what,
I know, you're trying to have a relationship. I'll stay
back if you need me.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Let me know. He gonna need you, cause he ain't
gonna know what to do.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, yeah, right, But you're trying to turn this little
boy into a social butterfly.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
That ain't gonna happen, all right.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Moving on, Tara and Indiana says, I got married. My
husband has issues with wearing my clothes, I thought the
woman was supposed to wear the man's clothes, But he
wears my house slippers, my robe, and my T shirt. Yes,
he has a small frame, but he's tall, so he's
able to wear my stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
He said.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
The idea of wearing my clothes is a turn on
for him. I want him to stay out of my closet.
And how can I keep him out of my things
so our marriage will survive?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Yep?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Enough?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Well lady, okay, Well I try to be careful to live.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Just tell you I'm not gonna be help Why because
I've never been in my.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Wife's closet trying to clothes.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Uh huh.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
And the main reason I know you say he's small frame,
how small is well?
Speaker 3 (06:57):
You know it's is this really your man? Or is
this just your baby? Because see something going on right here?
Because I can't wear nothing, margin, not a damn thing.
And the day that me and Marge is wearing the
same side, that's probably the end.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I mad thought over.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
I'm not saying she can't get bigger, because she can't.
She can't get this damn head. She can't. She can't
beat me. That's not fit to have what you're not
fit to do. It's something I'm trying to slip her
blouse over my head and that's around my neck, looked
like a choker.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
It just it just ain't no way. It just ain't
no way.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
I wish I would put on a pair of her pantings,
slide them pants up on me. Look like I got
on a band aid because she li some pants up
and my wife had on looking like a little band
aid over here. Man, I can't, I can't help you. Well,
it is when you write to see l O. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
All right, thank you, c l O. We gotta go.
You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
M
We're gonna get to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey in the building for your love questions.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
This one is from Barbara in DC.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Barbara Wrights, I'm a single woman in my mid forties
and I have been waiting for my boyfriend to propose.
He said he's going to do it, and I want
him to stop dragging his feet and do it. I
went in his drawer while doing laundry and I found
a ring box, but no ring. I couldn't help but
ask him what happened to the ring? Now he's upset
(00:29):
and said, I ruined the whole thing. How can he
turn this on me when he's been teasing me with
a proposal for two years?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Because why would you go in there and say you
found a ring box? Why would you do that? You
didn't think it was getting close there? And now you
to ruin the whole surprise? Yeah, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
So you're not?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, he didn't turn it on you. You created this yourself.
You went in his drawer, found a ring.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Box in the incumbentate ways? What's where the ring at?
You have messed up to? Surprise? True statement?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Sorry, why are you all in his stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
She was doing laundry whatever.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I got all of that. But you if you found
the Rien box, most women will go, oh my god,
oh my god, and pretty packed. And then went over there,
set down and been bubbling.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Now, if it took two weeks, the bubbling would have
turned into an eruption.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
But whatever.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Waited out, Yeah, all right, moving on, size.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Could have been gett some most stones put on it,
could have been doing anything anything.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Yeah, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
So Sherry and Jorraville Georgia says, I'm thirty seven and
I'm married to a man that was in a band
for eleven years. He's thirty five now and he's trying
to start up his band again. He's been working on
original music that he wrote in hopes that he can
get a deal with a record label. He has a
decent voice, but I wouldn't say he's a singer. He
(02:01):
finally let me hear what he wrote, and it was
a rap song with explicit lyrics. I think he's a
bit old for this, but I'm not a dream killer.
How do I handle this nicely?
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Send a tape to me. I cut a dream right
off the back.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
First of all, you got a band, well, last time
a band got signed number two, he old number two.
He can't sing. It's just so much going on now
of late. You can't get record deals without being able
to sing. But you was in a band for eleven years.
Now you're gonna start it back up. I mean, man,
(02:43):
good luck to you. You know, I can't tell you
not to support him and all this hit. It could hit.
Its unlikely, but it could. But if it's in his
hard to do it, he gonna do it. I ain't
no really, no dream killer. But please send me that tape.
I can care who he needs to pursue this any first?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
So should how should she handle it nicely?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Just send that? Has anybody heard this other than me? Baby? Anybody? Steve,
don't be the very gordy?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Uh huh?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
What do your brother think?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
What does your brother think?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Does tell you the truth?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
If you if you want to find out what your
idea sounded like, you tell your brother.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
It keeps it one brother?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
All right?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Benita in Detroit says, five years ago, my husband found
out he has an outside child. His child is ten
years old now, and my husband is doing all he
can to make up for lost time. His son is
very shy and has trouble making friends. So I arranged
a small get together at our house and told him
to invite a few friends. No one showed up, and
(03:54):
he was very sad. My husband blames me for doing
too much and making it worse. How do I get
him to see I was trying to help.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Uh, you were trying to help.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Can't help because you little boy ain't nothing, no man,
he ain't got no social skill. You have seen this before. Hell,
I been to little boy up at the school without
no friends. I know what it is like that ain't no,
no no. I studied big little, big nose. You know,
(04:28):
you got them them type of credentials, and you study.
You should have had no friends. But the only thing
saved me, my ass shore. I could play everything. That's
the only thing saved me. And I ain't got to
be a better study and don't work on basketball court.
So yeah, because all I got to do is just
grunt and make sounds anyway the ball be on the way.
(04:48):
They know I'm trying to say fast. I was trying
to well, hell no not when I studied you.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
So you you you so.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
They have called me about four five names by the
time I got it out.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
But what about her husband though, Steve saying she's making
it worse.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
She tried to help. It's what she did. I know,
I know y'all trying to find a way to help them.
They had a little something at the house. Invite your friend,
everybody coming over in tux they might no, might come
over the house people they don't like.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yeah, so maybe she can try other ways.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah, you got to take him to people house, take
him to a place, let him show him my other
kids in the act.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
But you're not mad at her husband for doing what
he did it same.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Yeah, he's stupid, that's what I'm saying. He wronged for that.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
All she was doing was trying to help. Just say, look,
I was just trying to help. But I'll tell you what,
I know, you're trying to have a relationship. I'll stay
back if you need me.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Let me know. He gonna need you, cause he ain't
gonna know what to do.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, yeah, right, But you're trying to turn this little
boy into a social butterfly.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
That ain't gonna happen, all right.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Moving on, Tara and Indiana says, I got married. My
husband has issues with wearing my clothes, I thought the
woman was supposed to wear the man's clothes, But he
wears my house slippers, my robe, and my T shirt. Yes,
he has a small frame, but he's tall, so he's
able to wear my stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
He said.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
The idea of wearing my clothes is a turn on
for him. I want him to stay out of my closet.
And how can I keep him out of my things
so our marriage will survive?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Yep?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Enough?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Well lady, okay, Well I try to be careful to live.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Just tell you I'm not gonna be help Why because
I've never been in my.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Wife's closet trying to clothes.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Uh huh.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
And the main reason I know you say he's small frame,
how small is well?
Speaker 3 (06:57):
You know it's is this really your man? Or is
this just your baby? Because see something going on right here?
Because I can't wear nothing, margin, not a damn thing.
And the day that me and Marge is wearing the
same side, that's probably the end.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I mad thought over.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
I'm not saying she can't get bigger, because she can't.
She can't get this damn head. She can't. She can't
beat me. That's not fit to have what you're not
fit to do. It's something I'm trying to slip her
blouse over my head and that's around my neck, looked
like a choker.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
It just it just ain't no way. It just ain't
no way.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
I wish I would put on a pair of her pantings,
slide them pants up on me. Look like I got
on a band aid because she li some pants up
and my wife had on looking like a little band
aid over here. Man, I can't, I can't help you. Well,
it is when you write to see l O. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
All right, thank you, c l O. We gotta go.
You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
M
Hosts And Creators
Steve Harvey
Shirley Strawberry
Thomas "Nephew Tommy" Miles
Carla Ferrell
Kier "Junior" Spates
Popular Podcasts
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
24/7 News: The Latest
The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.