July 2, 2024 • 7 mins
We get a lady writing in that is heartbroken because she did not like her position in the rotation. What is really going down in the Senior Assisted Living? What is cheating when it comes to a separation? Big Dog has got him a real Family Feud. DAMN!!!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, it is time for ask the CLO. Ready,
Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Yes, all right, here we
go Jeanette and Tucker.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Georgia says, I'm a thirty four year old woman that
thought she was dating a thirty six.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Year old man for almost a year.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Three weeks ago, out of the blue, he said he
was having back surgery, so I told him I would
be there for him. He said he had a private
duty nurse that is staying with him and his insurance
provided it. After his surgery, I tried to visit him
in the hospital and I was told he could only
have one visitor at a time and his girlfriend is
staying with him.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I was so mad and hurt. Do I let him
know he hurt me? Or walk away quietly?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Well? I mean, wow, you going to let him know
he hurts you?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
You go?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
You go tell him, you know, for your own closure purposes.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
You could have told me you had somebody I didn't
have to find this way, but didn't you know?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
You hit back out? What's your trip and.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Full his backside?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
You know?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah, he can't do nothing. He can't do nowhere. Probably
a't gonna be able to work for a while. He's
just going about your business.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Oh okay, Yeah, he don't sound like he thirty. He
don't sound like he.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Thirty something though. He really don't sound like that. Why
you say that, Well, let's say no to love. You
ain't saying no vile sickness, any health, death?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Do you call p Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Part and you can walk away.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
He doesn't have to be quietly. You can make some noise,
you know, all right?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Morgan and Ypsilanti, Michigan, says, my mother recently moved into
a senior living apartment building, and I got a call
from the administrator to let me know that my mother
is seeing a married man and his wife has threatened
my mother. I called my mother to see what was
going on, and she said that the man comes to
see her, not the other way around. So I need
(01:58):
to talk to him, she said, the shows her. So
it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
How can I get my seventy eight year old mother
to behave you know, the rules?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Maybe she behaved, She seventy eight. What rules you wanted
to go by? She seventy eight, Well, there are rules
to this.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I mean he is married married. Yeah, you don't think.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
That, she'dah said, he chose me. It is what it is.
That's what she done.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Came away with what you want, hunted what you want
to do, what you finish? Call the man, she said,
may holler this man.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah she didn't say.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Yeah. See, all these old ass people like that.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
They make different rules when they get old. Say what
they want to say, do what they want to do,
to go where they want to go. You know, they
want to see you know, ninety day rule. Ain't got
nothing the ninety day ruling more like a ninety minute rule.
You know.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
A lot of time. Yeah, all right, So so she
can't get her to behave to leave her mom alone.
You're saying what you want?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
What?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:12):
All right? I put it in the home.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
You ain't got too many votes. Wow, Amelia dropped me
off at the home. You can quit talking to.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Me, Amelia Intella has He says, I'm forty one years
old and my boyfriend's fifty one, and we've been dating
for six months. I put up with drama from his
ex wife for the first three months of getting to
know him. He was going through the divorce when we met,
and now it's final. His ex thinks it's cheating. But
he went to divorce court twice. Right after I met him.
(03:47):
He begged me to be patient and stay with him,
And recently she went to my son's job and told
him I took her husband. My son has been on
my case about it. Is it considered cheating if he'd
already file.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
No, look, you can look. It's look if you're if
you're married, the party is gonna call it cheating. Here's
the deal. When you file filing, the marriage has been over.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
By the time you file, by the time the court
grants the divorce, it's been over even longer than that.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
The marriage is over. It's over.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
We filed, we want to get out, and now we're
waiting on some paperwork from the court.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
It's over. You call it cheating if you want to,
but hey, it's over. You're going down the job telling
this woman's son and all this hell.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Whatever, it's filed, it's over, all right, yours son, wake up,
get a life, start realizing this.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
How it go? Sometime with your mom? Yeah, right, with
your mama. Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
All right. Here we go, moving on.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Maria and Tennessee says, I've been married three years to
a great guy with a big heart.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
But he's nice to everyone. Except his own brother.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
We live in a townhouse with a one car garage,
and his brother is sleeping in our garage. He's an
alcoholic and he lost his job and his wife from
the drinking. Nobody in their family will take him in,
so my husband gave him a fan and an air
mattress for the garage. I want to offer him our
guest room, but my husband is dead set against it.
(05:38):
Should I overrule my husband and put his brother in
the guest bedroom?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Oh? Brother in the garage for a reason, and brother,
no brother knows something you don't know?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Right?
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Yeah, your brothers Your brother had married you and is
trying to protect his family. Listen to me, This man
don't care enough about his own family to where he
done lost his family and his job. What makes you
think he gonna come in your house and care about
(06:11):
your family when he didn't give a damn about his
own family. You leave your brother alone. He cheating, He
treating his brother as he needs to be treated. Right now,
If you put him in the house, he ain't gonna
ever leave, and he's gonna mess his brother's house up,
and the brother ain't finished. Stand for that, and you
overlive regret that facts. Yep, you're gonna regret that, lady.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, you can't put him between your marriage either. Yep,
should she overrule her husband? Well, her brother and his
brother in the guest room.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
No, let his stay in the garage with that fan.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
That's the kind of hell he got a fan, Yeah,
a fan in an air mattress.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
All right, thank you, clo. You're listening to the Dave
Harvey Morning Show.
All right, guys, it is time for ask the CLO. Ready,
Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Yes, all right, here we
go Jeanette and Tucker.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Georgia says, I'm a thirty four year old woman that
thought she was dating a thirty six.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Year old man for almost a year.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Three weeks ago, out of the blue, he said he
was having back surgery, so I told him I would
be there for him. He said he had a private
duty nurse that is staying with him and his insurance
provided it. After his surgery, I tried to visit him
in the hospital and I was told he could only
have one visitor at a time and his girlfriend is
staying with him.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I was so mad and hurt. Do I let him
know he hurt me? Or walk away quietly?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Well? I mean, wow, you going to let him know
he hurts you?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
You go?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
You go tell him, you know, for your own closure purposes.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
You could have told me you had somebody I didn't
have to find this way, but didn't you know?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
You hit back out? What's your trip and.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Full his backside?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
You know?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah, he can't do nothing. He can't do nowhere. Probably
a't gonna be able to work for a while. He's
just going about your business.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Oh okay, Yeah, he don't sound like he thirty. He
don't sound like he.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Thirty something though. He really don't sound like that. Why
you say that, Well, let's say no to love. You
ain't saying no vile sickness, any health, death?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Do you call p Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Part and you can walk away.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
He doesn't have to be quietly. You can make some noise,
you know, all right?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Morgan and Ypsilanti, Michigan, says, my mother recently moved into
a senior living apartment building, and I got a call
from the administrator to let me know that my mother
is seeing a married man and his wife has threatened
my mother. I called my mother to see what was
going on, and she said that the man comes to
see her, not the other way around. So I need
(01:58):
to talk to him, she said, the shows her. So
it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
How can I get my seventy eight year old mother
to behave you know, the rules?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Maybe she behaved, She seventy eight. What rules you wanted
to go by? She seventy eight, Well, there are rules
to this.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I mean he is married married. Yeah, you don't think.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
That, she'dah said, he chose me. It is what it is.
That's what she done.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Came away with what you want, hunted what you want
to do, what you finish? Call the man, she said,
may holler this man.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah she didn't say.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Yeah. See, all these old ass people like that.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
They make different rules when they get old. Say what
they want to say, do what they want to do,
to go where they want to go. You know, they
want to see you know, ninety day rule. Ain't got
nothing the ninety day ruling more like a ninety minute rule.
You know.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
A lot of time. Yeah, all right, So so she
can't get her to behave to leave her mom alone.
You're saying what you want?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
What?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:12):
All right? I put it in the home.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
You ain't got too many votes. Wow, Amelia dropped me
off at the home. You can quit talking to.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Me, Amelia Intella has He says, I'm forty one years
old and my boyfriend's fifty one, and we've been dating
for six months. I put up with drama from his
ex wife for the first three months of getting to
know him. He was going through the divorce when we met,
and now it's final. His ex thinks it's cheating. But
he went to divorce court twice. Right after I met him.
(03:47):
He begged me to be patient and stay with him,
And recently she went to my son's job and told
him I took her husband. My son has been on
my case about it. Is it considered cheating if he'd
already file.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
No, look, you can look. It's look if you're if
you're married, the party is gonna call it cheating. Here's
the deal. When you file filing, the marriage has been over.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
By the time you file, by the time the court
grants the divorce, it's been over even longer than that.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
The marriage is over. It's over.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
We filed, we want to get out, and now we're
waiting on some paperwork from the court.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
It's over. You call it cheating if you want to,
but hey, it's over. You're going down the job telling
this woman's son and all this hell.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Whatever, it's filed, it's over, all right, yours son, wake up,
get a life, start realizing this.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
How it go? Sometime with your mom? Yeah, right, with
your mama. Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
All right. Here we go, moving on.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Maria and Tennessee says, I've been married three years to
a great guy with a big heart.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
But he's nice to everyone. Except his own brother.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
We live in a townhouse with a one car garage,
and his brother is sleeping in our garage. He's an
alcoholic and he lost his job and his wife from
the drinking. Nobody in their family will take him in,
so my husband gave him a fan and an air
mattress for the garage. I want to offer him our
guest room, but my husband is dead set against it.
(05:38):
Should I overrule my husband and put his brother in
the guest bedroom?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Oh? Brother in the garage for a reason, and brother,
no brother knows something you don't know?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Right?
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Yeah, your brothers Your brother had married you and is
trying to protect his family. Listen to me, This man
don't care enough about his own family to where he
done lost his family and his job. What makes you
think he gonna come in your house and care about
(06:11):
your family when he didn't give a damn about his
own family. You leave your brother alone. He cheating, He
treating his brother as he needs to be treated. Right now,
If you put him in the house, he ain't gonna
ever leave, and he's gonna mess his brother's house up,
and the brother ain't finished. Stand for that, and you
overlive regret that facts. Yep, you're gonna regret that, lady.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, you can't put him between your marriage either. Yep,
should she overrule her husband? Well, her brother and his
brother in the guest room.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
No, let his stay in the garage with that fan.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
That's the kind of hell he got a fan, Yeah,
a fan in an air mattress.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
All right, thank you, clo. You're listening to the Dave
Harvey Morning Show.
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