July 31, 2024 • 8 mins
Is drinking wine with your dad's girlfriend inappropriate or nah? What is the definition of messy anyway? How do you get somebody to move on and let go? Tommy gives us the breakdown.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
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for over fifty five days because.
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Of what mechanical issues.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Also, French police are cracking down on the oldest yeah, world's
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new dating series for single housewives stars. That's all coming
up at the top of the hour. But right now
it is time to ask the Riddlo and Junior.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
This is from Don and Huntsville Guys.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Don says, I've been with my girlfriend for three years
and my twenty two year old son lives with us.
She allowed him to order a glass of wine when
we went out to lunch with her, when he went
out to lunch with her. I don't want her to
drink with my son when I'm not around.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Does it seem inappropriate to you?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
How old is the sun?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Twenty two?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
What's the problem?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Well, I guess you know you and this you just
feel like your son, well, you know, maybe you're not
maybe not comfortable with your wife. Maybe you think your
wife gonna do something your son. Is that what it is?
When they both get a little tipsy We don't know
what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
That's his girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That ain't his wife. Yeah, girlfriend three years ago, they've
been together.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Oh, your son like your girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
That's all your son like your girlfriend, and they one
glass of wine away from it all happened. I'm just
letting you know your one glass away from it all
throwing down junior board.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
The real question is how fired is your son? Because
you worry about your your son dismissed with your girlfriend,
How fired is.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Your son because you must be unattracted?
Speaker 5 (01:31):
You worried the dad is just a glass of wine.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
It was one You think the dad's unattracted.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
The dad got you worried about the son. Yeah, I know,
I know from experience. Believe always been nerved by me better.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I'm a better bird.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So you went out with your Your dad's never now.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
My dad, but my dad know I look better.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Than you know.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
That's the point of this whole thing right.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Here, Yes, okay, all right, junr okay, all right.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
That is ugly. That's a concern. Well he got better
looking than me though, now we hugged me in.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
But I'm a better version of I'm closer to cute
than he is.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I like the way you break that down cameras in
his house. That's what you.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Going down, all right? Moving on to Stacey and Wilmington.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Stacey says, my husband and I saw his married friend
at a fast food restaurant with another woman. My husband
told me to stay in the car. I went in
anyway and ordered my food. He said, I did it
to be messy. How am I messy and not his
cheating friend?
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Well, you did do that to be messy, though, if
your husband already tell you what was going on. Yeah,
you went in there. You did that. You could have
sat there in that car and he could have brought
all your food. But now what you're gonna do now
that you got this information? Now what you just wanted
them to see you so he could panic and he padded.
He probably peed all over himself right there in the restaurant.
This happens. Oh, y'all got to quit going out. Y'all
(03:13):
got to stay inside. You cannot do that like that.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
You can't. That's in the car.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yeah, eat in the car. What's wrong? I can't stand
like ye don't know what they're doing? What is y'all doing?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Got it? Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
All right, y'all lot in public fun. What is that?
This one?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
You're gonna ruin my marriage for over a cheeseburger. That's
what You're gonna get out the car for a cheeseburger.
You're gonna just going in there. And I told you
to stay in the car.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
We know he in there, we know he was another woman.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
But you're gonna go in in there over cheeseburger and
this man whole marriage, that's what you're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah. She didn't say anything to him though, She's just she.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Ain't got but see if he look up and he
in his cheeseburger and he see her, it's a problem.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah. Yeah, that's what she wanted her husband. He looked
up and said, Linda, that's what I did.
Speaker 5 (04:12):
She said, give me a number one's.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Let me pay for that for you. Yeah, that's it.
Well don't she You are?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
No? Okay, all right, moving on, thank you, Moving on
to uh, moving on to even roselle. He says, my
boyfriend and I broke up and I spent the night
with my side dude. My boyfriend took my car while
I was asleep. I knew he did it, but I
(04:46):
couldn't report it because he would go to jail. I
need him to stop playing with me. How do I
get him to move on?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Okay, there's a lot going on in that one.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yeah, that's that's that's you gotta break that down from
Let's start with him again.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Okay and up boom Okay. Then she want to spend
the night.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
With her side. What else was she supposed to do?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
So you understand that though, Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
We broke up though, and then her boyfriend took her
car while she was asleep, and she said, I knew
he did it, but I couldn't report it because he
would go to jail. But I do need him to
stop playing with me. How do I get him to
move out?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
At some point? You got you?
Speaker 5 (05:29):
No?
Speaker 4 (05:29):
No, no, let his ask go to jail. Report this.
You don't just keep taking my car?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:34):
No?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Me and you threw it. We're done. Why you got
a kid of your car? Your key back? You're supposed
to be through with him. If we threw, we through,
If we not threw we not through? What are we?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
What are you?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
John?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
How that side? Dude?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Go out there and tell him don't take this car
no more? How about that? Let's get everybody.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Involved, That's right, Okay, side.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Nieces are useful if you use him the right way.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Well, and I think she did. I think it was
a pro brid.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
That was.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, she wasn't cheated, she was they broke up.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I'm cheating because she had a dude.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
But what kind of side dude? And I mean, what
kind of boyfriend mine? If we break up and the
next day you see eph with the side dude.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
That's how you get over it. Ju, I'm sorry, get.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Over but I almost didn't do a good job being
a boyfriend. If the next day we break up, you
can go be with the side dude.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
You can sit back and analyze. It wasn't even a week, Tommy,
it wasn't even a week.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
I immediately need some assistance. As soon as we break up,
I immediately need some assistance.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I'm sorry, but if he was the side dude, he
was there all along exactly.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Brother said, well, I'm not gonna know. I'm not gonna
leave him on the side and not use him. I'm sorry.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
What I need these people do is have more than
one car, because seemed like everybody taking this one car.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Everybody needs more than one car.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Three they're all together, but they got one car and.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Everybody can take.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Her car side dude, boyfriend, everybody driving the same car.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
We need one car.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Okay, okay, you break up with somebody, you better play
the car.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
The car knows everything. Everybody got a shoe in this car?
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Everybody? All right? All right?
Speaker 3 (07:28):
All right?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Last one, guys, Yeah, last one. There we go, Toya
and Alexander. Toya said, there's a friend in our friend
group that's not a big shopper. She shops for vintage
clothes at thrift stories. We're tired of her shot showing
up looking like rabbit raggedy ann when we go out.
What should you do if your friend's style doesn't match
the group?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
You gotta let your friend be who she is. What
you say your name was, it's she's a girl.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Girl. Yeah, but Toya, I don't even know where to
get these clothes at. But anyway, ye, you got to
let her be here. That's what she is, y'all trying
to change so she got to fit into y'all group.
She got to be dressed a certain way to be
with y'all. That ain't a cool group to be with.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
She'll like y'all and they're.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Looking crazy, all right, Thank you? Ridilo and Junior coming
up at the top of the hour. We'll have some
entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
You're listening Hardy Morning Show
Coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
In entertainment news, two astronauts have been stuck in orbit
for over fifty five days because.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Of what mechanical issues.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Also, French police are cracking down on the oldest yeah, world's
oldest profession during the summer Olympic Games. And there's a
new dating series for single housewives stars. That's all coming
up at the top of the hour. But right now
it is time to ask the Riddlo and Junior.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
This is from Don and Huntsville Guys.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Don says, I've been with my girlfriend for three years
and my twenty two year old son lives with us.
She allowed him to order a glass of wine when
we went out to lunch with her, when he went
out to lunch with her. I don't want her to
drink with my son when I'm not around.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Does it seem inappropriate to you?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
How old is the sun?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Twenty two?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
What's the problem?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Well, I guess you know you and this you just
feel like your son, well, you know, maybe you're not
maybe not comfortable with your wife. Maybe you think your
wife gonna do something your son. Is that what it is?
When they both get a little tipsy We don't know
what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
That's his girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That ain't his wife. Yeah, girlfriend three years ago, they've
been together.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Oh, your son like your girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
That's all your son like your girlfriend, and they one
glass of wine away from it all happened. I'm just
letting you know your one glass away from it all
throwing down junior board.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
The real question is how fired is your son? Because
you worry about your your son dismissed with your girlfriend,
How fired is.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Your son because you must be unattracted?
Speaker 5 (01:31):
You worried the dad is just a glass of wine.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
It was one You think the dad's unattracted.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
The dad got you worried about the son. Yeah, I know,
I know from experience. Believe always been nerved by me better.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I'm a better bird.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So you went out with your Your dad's never now.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
My dad, but my dad know I look better.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Than you know.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
That's the point of this whole thing right.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Here, Yes, okay, all right, junr okay, all right.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
That is ugly. That's a concern. Well he got better
looking than me though, now we hugged me in.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
But I'm a better version of I'm closer to cute
than he is.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I like the way you break that down cameras in
his house. That's what you.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Going down, all right? Moving on to Stacey and Wilmington.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Stacey says, my husband and I saw his married friend
at a fast food restaurant with another woman. My husband
told me to stay in the car. I went in
anyway and ordered my food. He said, I did it
to be messy. How am I messy and not his
cheating friend?
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Well, you did do that to be messy, though, if
your husband already tell you what was going on. Yeah,
you went in there. You did that. You could have
sat there in that car and he could have brought
all your food. But now what you're gonna do now
that you got this information? Now what you just wanted
them to see you so he could panic and he padded.
He probably peed all over himself right there in the restaurant.
This happens. Oh, y'all got to quit going out. Y'all
(03:13):
got to stay inside. You cannot do that like that.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
You can't. That's in the car.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yeah, eat in the car. What's wrong? I can't stand
like ye don't know what they're doing? What is y'all doing?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Got it? Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
All right, y'all lot in public fun. What is that?
This one?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
You're gonna ruin my marriage for over a cheeseburger. That's
what You're gonna get out the car for a cheeseburger.
You're gonna just going in there. And I told you
to stay in the car.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
We know he in there, we know he was another woman.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
But you're gonna go in in there over cheeseburger and
this man whole marriage, that's what you're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah. She didn't say anything to him though, She's just she.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Ain't got but see if he look up and he
in his cheeseburger and he see her, it's a problem.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah. Yeah, that's what she wanted her husband. He looked
up and said, Linda, that's what I did.
Speaker 5 (04:12):
She said, give me a number one's.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Let me pay for that for you. Yeah, that's it.
Well don't she You are?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
No? Okay, all right, moving on, thank you, Moving on
to uh, moving on to even roselle. He says, my
boyfriend and I broke up and I spent the night
with my side dude. My boyfriend took my car while
I was asleep. I knew he did it, but I
(04:46):
couldn't report it because he would go to jail. I
need him to stop playing with me. How do I
get him to move on?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Okay, there's a lot going on in that one.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yeah, that's that's that's you gotta break that down from
Let's start with him again.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Okay and up boom Okay. Then she want to spend
the night.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
With her side. What else was she supposed to do?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
So you understand that though, Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
We broke up though, and then her boyfriend took her
car while she was asleep, and she said, I knew
he did it, but I couldn't report it because he
would go to jail. But I do need him to
stop playing with me. How do I get him to
move out?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
At some point? You got you?
Speaker 5 (05:29):
No?
Speaker 4 (05:29):
No, no, let his ask go to jail. Report this.
You don't just keep taking my car?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:34):
No?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Me and you threw it. We're done. Why you got
a kid of your car? Your key back? You're supposed
to be through with him. If we threw, we through,
If we not threw we not through? What are we?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
What are you?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
John?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
How that side? Dude?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Go out there and tell him don't take this car
no more? How about that? Let's get everybody.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Involved, That's right, Okay, side.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Nieces are useful if you use him the right way.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Well, and I think she did. I think it was
a pro brid.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
That was.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, she wasn't cheated, she was they broke up.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I'm cheating because she had a dude.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
But what kind of side dude? And I mean, what
kind of boyfriend mine? If we break up and the
next day you see eph with the side dude.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
That's how you get over it. Ju, I'm sorry, get.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Over but I almost didn't do a good job being
a boyfriend. If the next day we break up, you
can go be with the side dude.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
You can sit back and analyze. It wasn't even a week, Tommy,
it wasn't even a week.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
I immediately need some assistance. As soon as we break up,
I immediately need some assistance.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I'm sorry, but if he was the side dude, he
was there all along exactly.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Brother said, well, I'm not gonna know. I'm not gonna
leave him on the side and not use him. I'm sorry.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
What I need these people do is have more than
one car, because seemed like everybody taking this one car.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Everybody needs more than one car.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Three they're all together, but they got one car and.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Everybody can take.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Her car side dude, boyfriend, everybody driving the same car.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
We need one car.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Okay, okay, you break up with somebody, you better play
the car.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
The car knows everything. Everybody got a shoe in this car?
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Everybody? All right? All right?
Speaker 3 (07:28):
All right?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Last one, guys, Yeah, last one. There we go, Toya
and Alexander. Toya said, there's a friend in our friend
group that's not a big shopper. She shops for vintage
clothes at thrift stories. We're tired of her shot showing
up looking like rabbit raggedy ann when we go out.
What should you do if your friend's style doesn't match
the group?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
You gotta let your friend be who she is. What
you say your name was, it's she's a girl.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Girl. Yeah, but Toya, I don't even know where to
get these clothes at. But anyway, ye, you got to
let her be here. That's what she is, y'all trying
to change so she got to fit into y'all group.
She got to be dressed a certain way to be
with y'all. That ain't a cool group to be with.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
She'll like y'all and they're.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Looking crazy, all right, Thank you? Ridilo and Junior coming
up at the top of the hour. We'll have some
entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
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