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February 27, 2025 32 mins
THE BIG PODCAST - New Nipsey Hussle Album? | The Great BIG LA Sports Debate | "Why Are You Single?" and Toxic Exes (With Callers)
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is Big Boy's neighborhood on demand, Big Boy's neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Luig is up in here with Ludo.

Speaker 3 (00:06):
You got some good news for us, Nipsey Hustle fans man. So,
his brother Black Sam recently said that we could have
some new music in the summer. And this is something
that Nipsey and Beino the Rapper have been working on
in twenty nineteen, an album that they're putting together, and
it could be a posthumous album that could be coming out.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
In the summer.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Bro, It's pretty exciting to hear some like Honestly, I
didn't even think about like any type of Nipsey posthumous
album ever coming out or any music like that, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (00:33):
But you know what, man, Black Sam is so involved
and he's really the one that's protecting that legacy and
Black saying, you know, Sam as the four as the
front man, but he's one of the guys, bro, Like,
he's not letting anybody mess with any Nipsey stuff. There
is no you could just use this, you could put
a business up, so on and so forth. So when
you say Black Sam said it, it's coming saying with

(00:56):
the documentary, Yeah, saying with the documentary and everything, man
like he wanted certain episodes of documentaries to tell the story.
He's been offered something, he's turned that down, So if
he said.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
And it's definitely it's very exciting for Beno also to
have this album with him coming out.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yeah yeah, what I mean, Like, he's probably excited about
it too.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
But Havy Nipsey in the neighborhood for so long, bro,
so many times, Bro, He's always came in here and
just dropped knowledge on us.

Speaker 5 (01:19):
I had done an interview years ago when I first
came in the game and I said, I'm gonna get
that girl, you know what I mean, and.

Speaker 4 (01:25):
London, Amen, So whatever plans you have, you know exactly,
like I wait.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
For the script now.

Speaker 5 (01:33):
But that's one thing I noticed about myself when I
when I like, I think, you know, thoughts is powerful
in all facets, because even my career and my life,
you know, things ended up turning out exactly how I
visualized him, not in his time frame.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
I expected.

Speaker 5 (01:48):
You know what I'm saying, you always wanted to happen overnight.
But you know, I just had clear visions, you know
obviously outside.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
Of my girl.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
I just mean the music, custling and just how I
vouled myself as an adult when I was a young
dude coming up. And your thoughts powerful, you know, come
to life if you stick to your script.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
He and your thoughts are powerful minded that work with it.
She's always talking about manifesting. She's saying so much as
to be like stop now, because you can tell that
she just started like kind of like doing it. So
everything is like, man, you know, I want to have
break with all this manifest right. Nipsey's prolific. Here you
are using manifest to hopefully that grub Hubb is doing

(02:26):
something right now with this particular restaurant, like I hope
the deliveries on that's manifested maest. But yeah, but just
seeing that that Black Sam said it is coming, It's coming.
The documentary is coming, man. Marathon Burgers, they're doing their
official ribbon cutting, you know, yeah, mailros in La So
I just love the legacy, all the properties that they're buying,

(02:47):
taking care of the kids and everything, man, and it's beautiful.

Speaker 6 (02:51):
I love that Nipsey always talked about obviously manifesting, but
she always said like you got a hustle too, Like.

Speaker 4 (02:57):
Yeah, man, AND's gonna just come there. It is man
and left us so much. Man and Sam doesn't say it.
If you guys, watch my interview with him for off air,
but the marathon continues. Yeah, you know what I'm saying
in a major way. Y'all stick around, yall radios, Big Boy's.

Speaker 7 (03:12):
Neighborhood, This is Big Boy on demand.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Big Boy's neighborhood. Marianna's up in here, Mariana, what you got?

Speaker 8 (03:18):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (03:19):
Halle Berry sat down yuh with Drew Barrymore and she
talked about why she was single.

Speaker 9 (03:25):
I've heard people say.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
They should have put you on that show.

Speaker 10 (03:27):
I know he pop say.

Speaker 9 (03:29):
Something must be wrong with halle Berry. She can't keep him. Man,
who's to say? I want to keep a man. I
don't want to keep the wrong man. Like I'm not crazy. No,
So when you find that you make a mistake. We
all make mistakes. We have a right to say, oh God,
this was a mistake, let me start again. We have
a right to do that.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
You know what's wild about that?

Speaker 4 (03:51):
If I've heard people say that about halle Berry a lot. Yeah,
and you hear that about women, but you never hear
somebody say about a man like man, he can't keep a.

Speaker 10 (03:59):
Woman, right, Like why is he still single?

Speaker 7 (04:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:01):
Why is he still single?

Speaker 10 (04:03):
And it's crazy?

Speaker 4 (04:04):
So I apologize because Loui and I were just talking
earlier about man, why is she still saying you?

Speaker 10 (04:10):
Well, there's a lot to that. It's just like I
was in a relationship for five years.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Oh yeah, you know, and after.

Speaker 6 (04:17):
That, like I realized just like how she was saying, like,
people make mistakes, and I felt like I should have,
you know, like not been in that relationship. But I
got out of that relationship and now it's like I
learned so much from that relationship that it's just like
it's and I'm happy now. So it's like now it's
harder for me to find someone because it's like I'm
at peace. And it's like if you like disturbed me

(04:39):
a little bit, I'm like, I'm it's easy for me
to be like that.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
You know, I understand that.

Speaker 10 (04:43):
Yeah, And it's like I think that's what she was
talking about.

Speaker 9 (04:46):
That.

Speaker 10 (04:46):
It's like people are so quick to be like why
are you single?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
And people always say, man, Haley Berry is so fine,
you know, you know, and yeah, but if you don't
want to be I guess and she got things to
compare it to. Yeah.

Speaker 10 (04:59):
For me, it's like an the Latino community.

Speaker 6 (05:00):
It's so easy for them to be like where's the
Novio miha, or like holes like why don't don't you
have kids yet?

Speaker 10 (05:07):
But it's like you should.

Speaker 4 (05:08):
Bring somebody to like a family gathering who they really
wouldn't approve of.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Oh my, this is what you want.

Speaker 4 (05:18):
I thought you would have a baby by now, you know,
and I had a kid three years ago.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Tell you about it? But no you do. So do
you get that? Why are you single? Yeah?

Speaker 10 (05:27):
Sometimes when I go to my family, Uh, all right, I.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Would never ask you again. Yeah, yeah, sorry about that.

Speaker 10 (05:33):
I'd be wanting to cry.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
You know what I love about this is that you
made sure that you pulled this halle Berry story.

Speaker 6 (05:37):
I did, like, man, just shut up when I thought
I was like, I feel her?

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Alrighty. So let's speak on it. Man, Why are you?
What are you single?

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Why are you?

Speaker 11 (05:47):
So?

Speaker 2 (05:48):
Let's speak on it. We want to hear why are
you single? Hit us up?

Speaker 4 (05:52):
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That's eight six six two four six eight nine two three.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
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Speaker 1 (05:58):
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Speaker 4 (06:09):
All right now, we're gonna go ahead and speak on it.
Halle Berry was recently asking an interview. You know, she said, oh,
I hear I hear people saying that, you know, what's
wrong with her? Why is she single? And we were
asking in the neighborhood as well, man, why are you single?

Speaker 8 (06:22):
An?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
We want to hear from you right now. So let's
go ahead and bring let's bring summer into the neighborhood. Summer. Hello, hello, hello.

Speaker 11 (06:31):
There, hello there, Thursday.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
I will take that summer. Why are you single?

Speaker 12 (06:37):
Well, big boy, nobody can match my energy. I'm a nurse.
I work eightiot hours a week.

Speaker 13 (06:42):
I heights on the weekend, teach classes, and if I
can have somebody just just match my energy. You know,
people want quickies and I'm into longevity and I just
can't find that no more.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
I heard that you say you work at least eighty
eight hours a week.

Speaker 12 (06:57):
Yeah, not at least. I work total eighty eight hours
a week. Even my night job job.

Speaker 4 (07:03):
Eighty eight hours a week, and you hike. So you're
saying yeah, you need somebody that's gonna match your energy.
You know, Now, when was the last time summer you
were in a relationship.

Speaker 12 (07:12):
It's been about eight months now.

Speaker 10 (07:16):
Because how has that been? I know it's like hard.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
To get it, but you're dating summer? Are you dating?

Speaker 9 (07:21):
No?

Speaker 12 (07:21):
I'm currently not dating?

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Well yet? Are you a nurse? You know this? Are yet? Okay?

Speaker 4 (07:28):
So yeah, Literally you're at work all the times. Are
you gonna date anybody? Gotta be a doctor or patient?

Speaker 8 (07:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (07:32):
Basically have you gone on the dating apps?

Speaker 12 (07:36):
I never I have not been on a dating app.
I was saying about, you know, a harmony. I heard
that one really proficient. But you know, it's a.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
Lot of time, right right, A lot of time that
you don't have, you know. And it don't seem like
you're gonna stop. You're gonna cut your hours anytime soon.
And you're definitely gonna stop. You're not gonna stop hiking.
So yeah, what's so crazy about the Louis.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
I'm just saying this, that's so much time because then
eventually she meets somebody at her work, probably gonna get
in the way of dating.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Right right right?

Speaker 4 (08:02):
And then if as a guy, you got to match
your energy. You gotta walk with her. Yeah yeah, and
there's nothing like walking and being on a bread trying
to have a conversation as well.

Speaker 2 (08:10):
But she is a nurse.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
If she passed out, you good dog. Yeah that is true.
So summer area. But you're content with being single.

Speaker 12 (08:17):
Right, I'm content, but I do want a life partner
to share, you know, just share these adventures with me
and create new adventures.

Speaker 8 (08:25):
I do.

Speaker 11 (08:26):
I am open.

Speaker 12 (08:27):
I'm just not desperate.

Speaker 11 (08:28):
You know.

Speaker 12 (08:29):
I'm comfortable with who I am and yeah, okay, but
I am like I'm off on the weekend, so you
know that's mydeed is if I had a date, right.

Speaker 4 (08:38):
And you say you don't want I hear you don't
want to settle for think because I was going to say,
maybe you need a day of married man, somebody that
don't have a lot of a lot of time, a
lot of time. But that that's that's just bad advice, Summer,
my bad. That was just bad advice. I was just
speaking as probably one of the listeners, like, big, why
you didn't ask you this or tell her this? So
why are you single? But some are you at the moment?

(09:00):
Eighty eight hours a week hiking, living life. You know,
you just don't have time. And I understand that. You
know what I'm saying. I understand something's got to give,
though at some point believe that y'all hit us up.
Why are you single? Eight six six two four six
eight nine two three Big Boys neighborhood.

Speaker 7 (09:16):
This is big Boy on demand, Big Boys neighborhood.

Speaker 4 (09:20):
Alrighty, we are speaking on it. Why are you single?
Let's been rauling to the neighborhood Raoul Hello.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
Hello, Oh I love the hello.

Speaker 4 (09:30):
I love the Hellou. I can't I can't imagine, but
I'm gonna ask you. Why why are you single?

Speaker 8 (09:36):
Well, I'm saying because, man, I was with my ex
wife for twenty years and we have four budleful kids.
And you know, even though I car cheating four times,
I still stick around. Yeah, I know, I took out
for my kids. Ryan for me, I was called U

(09:57):
colored four times, and then I'm one hundred percent customer
with my kids.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Wow.

Speaker 8 (10:04):
To me, I've been thinking for two weeks, almost for
three years. The market is pretty crazy. But on top
of that, my ex wife she was you know, I
divorced her and she was drinking, got her three d
wys And on top of that, she was she got manslaughter.

(10:27):
She's doing eight years nine's.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
Oh my god, wow, Amen, Like, bro, you're telling this
stories and layers. We thought we dropped our miles when
you say she cheated four times and you forgave her,
y'all got the kids, even when you said one hundred
percent custody, right, that usually doesn't happen with the fellas.
So I'm thinking, not how great you are, not just
how great you are, but I was thinking, you know, judgment, judgmental,

(10:54):
what's going on with her? And so she called three
d U y's And now she's in prison for mans.

Speaker 8 (11:01):
She's calcrated, but she's gonna be her sentence next next
couple of weeks.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
Oh so she hasn't even she hasn't even started.

Speaker 4 (11:09):
She went through the system and she hasn't even been
like she's been saying, but she hasn't even started her sentence.

Speaker 8 (11:15):
Now, yeah, she's been there for three years already. Her
sentence will be by next month.

Speaker 4 (11:20):
Really, man, So, so she's been in there for three years,
she hasn't gotten sentence.

Speaker 8 (11:28):
Yet, No, she has not yet.

Speaker 2 (11:31):
But did she get the eight I thought you said
she got eight years.

Speaker 8 (11:35):
Well, eight years, that's a pretty much state I kind
of heard from the mom.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
Yeah, oh my god, man.

Speaker 4 (11:43):
And yeah, and so of course when I ask why
are you single? You've been in a relationship, you've been married.
You watch that go crazy. You stuck around for the kids,
and now you're just saying, man, like, what's out there?
Even just getting back into the dating scene got to
be crazy for you.

Speaker 8 (12:00):
Oh man, I'm to be honest with you, boy, I'm lost. Man,
I've been with my ex wife for so long. I'm
lost and for me to find somebody, you know what,
I have four kids to their you know, I'm really
happy for my boys, you know. But that's not a subject.
But being going back in the market, it's just now

(12:21):
now these now, these days, it's pretty hard. Like girlspects
too much. I mean, I own my own house. I mean,
I own you know, cuple property myself. But I'm okay,
I mean and then they need It's just I can't
trust girls right.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Now, hey, man.

Speaker 4 (12:38):
And I'm telling you, man, people passed so much judgment
when they say, oh, he's a guy scorn, she's a
woman scoring. But but sometimes you got to go through that,
bro and you and you put a lot of time
into a relationship, and now you know it's gonna take
a lot of time for a lot of healing and
a lot of wellness and a lot of mental work
on you too, because it's it's a lot that you're

(12:58):
dealing with.

Speaker 8 (12:59):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (12:59):
So I can totally understand why you're single. Man, you
know what I'm saying. But you gotta find you something
just to kind of knock out on the weekends too, though, Bro,
that releaves.

Speaker 10 (13:09):
Stress, but it goes both ways.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
Wait, he was about to say something. What were you
about to say?

Speaker 9 (13:14):
No?

Speaker 8 (13:14):
You know what I saw drinking seven years ago. Now
I did all this scene fund a girl that doesn't dream.

Speaker 4 (13:21):
Right, Man, you're gonna have to get on Christian Mingos.
You're gonna have to get on Christian Mingos. Yeah, soberliving
dot com? You know, are you with me dot org?
Believe that bold Man? Great story, Bro, God bless you, Raoul,
you and your family? Why are you single? He hit
us up eight six six two four six eight nine

(13:41):
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Speaker 2 (13:43):
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Big Boys Neighborhood On iHeartRadio. There's another in case you
missed it, moment with us. Hello, Hello there, Randy, Randy,
what's your crazy payback story?

Speaker 8 (13:58):
So, man, my boys caught up cheating man or whatever,
and then they wound up coming out that she was
she got pregnant.

Speaker 7 (14:04):
So two days later, man, his car got lit on fire.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
Bro, Bro, I think you have a nice car. Was
it like a little junk.

Speaker 8 (14:14):
Back in the day when the Silverados were all?

Speaker 12 (14:16):
You know?

Speaker 2 (14:21):
Thank you for listening.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
It is you find a big Boy, Big Boys neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (14:24):
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Big Boys Neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (14:28):
Luisi is up in here, and we got a great
sports debate right now on Big Boy TV. If you
guys get a chance to make sure you peep it out.
We're talking about the top ten biggest athletes currently playing
in LA, right and.

Speaker 4 (14:38):
It's right there on Big Boy Uncut one of our channels,
right there, Bro.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
And there was a list that came out right and
to give you the top ten athletes in l A.
Number one came with Sho hal Tani, number two, Lebron James,
number three, Luka Doncik, number four, Mike Trout number five,
Mookie Bets and then the rest we really don't care about, right, yeah,
but say on here just that top five. Though, when
we were having a conversation with me Big DJ Quest,
we had our guy Chuck in here. Man, there was

(15:04):
there was the debates about who should be number one. Yeah, man,
our guy Chuck stood on business that it should be
show hal Tony over Lebron.

Speaker 2 (15:13):
Over Lebron James in l A.

Speaker 4 (15:14):
And it's the top ten biggest athletes currently playing in
l A. And this is what went down. Where is
Lebron James and show hal Tony.

Speaker 2 (15:22):
Show Hayes one on my list number one, that's number one.
And then you would say, Bokie, look you winners and
Lebron's four right now, he's got a one again. He's
got a one again. He's got a win again. And

(15:45):
just because you have a strong case of male pattern
bald and you have to wear a hat, doesn't mean
just because you went somewhere and bought a hat not
give you to come in here with your scribble notes
authority and tell us that Lebron James need to be
in fourth place. I honestly think Lebron should be number one.

(16:10):
I think that Lebron should be number one. I'm standing
on business. You're just standing on shaky ground. Dog. That's
a crazy saying that.

Speaker 14 (16:21):
Again.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
You're saying that the win they what win?

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Again?

Speaker 2 (16:25):
Big, He's only brought us one, only one, the hardest
championship in the NBA. I will defend that championship. What's
the hardest?

Speaker 4 (16:34):
Hey, you're saying Lebron brought us one one? And when
was that twenty twenty? Alrighty, it was the hardest time.
And yeah, and it was the hardest time. And people say, oh,
it's an asterisk year.

Speaker 2 (16:45):
No it's not. It's not an asterist year because people
were there. You know what I'm saying. But it's crazy.

Speaker 4 (16:51):
You're saying that Lebron has not showed up since twenty twenty,
and Lebron should be number four.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
He's four big, he's the biggest athlete. Bro, he has
We've in the sport. We have got you, hey, man,
just listen still, I'm mad. Yes, bro, you.

Speaker 6 (17:08):
Guys were gonna throw hands in hereby started getting crazy.

Speaker 4 (17:13):
Didn't want all the little or none of that one. Yeah,
but that's crazy, man. He put Lebron at number four.

Speaker 2 (17:21):
In l A It's such an interesting.

Speaker 4 (17:25):
And I love how Chuck held his ground he did.
I was thinking about that all day and I even
hit him yesterday. I was like, man, you did an
amazing job on uncut and yesterday was his last day.
But you can find that entire uncut is right there
big Boy TV and right there for Big Boy TV uncut.
You could check that out, man, and oh it was.

(17:47):
It was a great uncut there in the comments. Already,
y'all stick around, yall radios, Big Boys Neighborhood.

Speaker 7 (17:54):
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Speaker 2 (17:57):
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Speaker 6 (18:00):
I was hanging out with my friend the other day
and she just dropped some crazy tea on me. Yeah,
she was talking, but she was telling me that. Okay,
So she broke up with her boyfriend last year and
they were together for a very long time, and so
she recently saw her ex at a party and you know,

(18:21):
he starts talking to her and she's like trying to
keep it very cordial. She's she's not in a relationship now,
but she's talking to someone. But you know, she was
with that ex for a very long time, but they
broke up last year, and so they saw each other
at a party and he asks her like, oh, are
you seeing anyone, like are you dating? And she admits
to him that she is, and she's talking to this guy,

(18:44):
and then he starts to kind of like tell her, oh,
like I'm gonna I'm gonna tell her, I'm gonna tell
him that, like you're talking to me here, like and well,
I'm pretty sure, well I know that he still stalks
her on her Yeah, he was gonna find him something or.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Even jump in the comedy be like you know, I'm
still wow.

Speaker 6 (19:07):
That is so toxic though, like leave her alone. She
already broke up with you, you know, but it's it's crazy,
Like honestly, this is why it's hard to date, because
people are crazy.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
It's hard to date, and it's hard to break up
because now breakups now, man, even with social media, you
could just kill somebody on social.

Speaker 6 (19:26):
And you can't find anything on social media. Why she's
said the things you.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
Can say, oh my gosh, broken.

Speaker 10 (19:34):
Up not a year but last year, So like earlier last.

Speaker 4 (19:37):
Year, a couple of months, then what she said earlier
last year a couple of months would have been like.

Speaker 10 (19:43):
Yeah, December.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
Yeah, a time line.

Speaker 10 (19:47):
I mean they were together for a minute.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
He was like, Saturday, Sunday, come.

Speaker 6 (19:55):
Give it's toxic out here, Like I also have toxic eggs.
And it's just like now you can't even just say
men are toxic because I've heard some crazy stories about
women too.

Speaker 15 (20:04):
I heard a lot of crazy stories about it was
a toxic so dog, I think the first person actually
like fell in love and love with you. I did
a lot right, but like the first person, I think
like a couple, like you took.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
All that credit card and you sat on my lap
for like nine different songs.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
I couldn't let go of it, and I was really
in love where I was doing, like calling her friend, Hey,
do you know where she's at?

Speaker 2 (20:27):
Oh? Man, is she talking to like Louisy? I know,
I can admit, doctor, I think I was a toxic exce.

Speaker 10 (20:34):
I feel like everyone had a toxic phase.

Speaker 4 (20:36):
All right. Well, I ain't gonna prove y'all wrong, but
let me move you'all right, and I want you to
hit us up. Man, what's the most toxic thing you've experienced?
If it's not you, you've seen something else. Every time
you about to do that? He broke up with his
girl and he had somebody shoot him. He had somebody
shoot him. Then we all found out it was him,
So that made it even crazy. All right, so I

(20:56):
hit us. So, what's the most toxic thing you've experienced?

Speaker 2 (21:00):
Hit us up?

Speaker 4 (21:00):
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Speaker 2 (21:12):
Big Boys Neighborhood, Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood.

Speaker 4 (21:15):
Alright, it out, we're speaking on her. What's the most
toxic thing you've experienced? We're going to bring Stephanie into
the neighborhoods here has gone down with Stephanie. Stephanie, Hello, Hello,
Hello there Stephanie. Stephanie, what is the most toxic thing
you experienced?

Speaker 11 (21:32):
Okay?

Speaker 14 (21:32):
So when I first met my now husband, he had
an ex girlfriend and she found out that somehow she
found out we were dating, and it made her super
crazy jealous. She wanted him back so bad that she
went to She resorted to creating a fake Instagram of me,

(21:53):
messaging herself like all kinds of mean things trying to
make me look really bad to him screenshot it sent
it to him and like, look at this girl, she's
what she's messaging me. And so he sent it to
me and hey like, hey, leave it alone, Like I'm
with you, like, you know, just let it be. And
I'm like, that's not me, Like what's going on? So

(22:16):
I start looking at the account and I'm like, oh
my god, this is like a fake account of me.
Had my same picture, my same bio. It just was
missing one letter.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Oh damn.

Speaker 4 (22:32):
Like when you look at it, it looks like it's
the same person or the same thing.

Speaker 14 (22:36):
Like yeah, so like my Instagram is it's technical with
two s's and it said it's technical, Like it's technical, right.

Speaker 4 (22:46):
That's work and be careful everybody out there. Two days
a snapdog that's on as well. It's s O n
oh pp dog.

Speaker 3 (22:55):
They just canceled a Twitter account called the NBA Sentral
like NBA you're supposed to be NBA Central.

Speaker 4 (23:01):
It was a sood and you know, now, you know
you could have looked at it and see when that
person joined Instagram too, Do you guys look at that Stephanie?

Speaker 14 (23:10):
No, But like the account only had like twelve followers,
like it was like you could tell it was like
just created.

Speaker 4 (23:17):
And what were some of the things that she was
putting in there? Like y'all were having a conversation.

Speaker 14 (23:21):
She was, she said, like pretending to be me. She
was like, his family doesn't like you. His mom thinks
you're this and thinks you're of that. And I don't
even talk to his mom. His mom seeks Spanish and
I don't seek Spanish.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Damn. You would think she would investigate a little better,
a little better. But yeah, that is that is very toxic.
That is very toxic. How long would how long ago
did this happen?

Speaker 14 (23:45):
This was over ten years ago?

Speaker 4 (23:47):
Okay, why don't you receive something now? It's gonna be
like from Big Boy with two g's you received rolling
Lout tickets. She's probably still working on you believe that
what's the most toxic thing you experienced? Hit us up
eight sixty six two four six eight nine two three
Big Boys Neighborhood.

Speaker 7 (24:05):
This is Big Boy on demand.

Speaker 2 (24:08):
Big Boys Neighborhood. Alrighty, we're speaking on it.

Speaker 4 (24:10):
We are asking what's the most toxic thing you've experienced?
What's the most toxic thing you experienced? This bring Ashley
into the neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (24:19):
Ashley. Hello, Hello, Hello there, Ashley. Ashley. What's the most
toxic thing you've experienced?

Speaker 11 (24:27):
Well, my ex put a gun out on you.

Speaker 4 (24:29):
Once you know what I'm hold on, hold on, I'm
a popular guy. I don't even think I want to
have this conversation with your babs to come over here.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
No, your ex pulled a gun out on you. What
what happened, Ashley?

Speaker 11 (24:39):
Okay, So we were together for like ten years, we
got engaged, our daughter was five. I found out that
he had.

Speaker 7 (24:46):
Another baby with a girl.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
Oh lord.

Speaker 11 (24:48):
He had hit me up on Facebook, told me that
he had another baby. I was done with him.

Speaker 2 (24:53):
I moved out.

Speaker 11 (24:54):
I started talking to somebody I met at worked, and
he found out that I was talking to someone, and
he just he popped up at my apartment one day
out the blue, and my ex was going to spend
a night. It didn't spend a night because of the
parking situation, and he popped up and just put a
gun out on me, on me at my car, and

(25:15):
like threatened to kill me and the guy. Luckily the
guy wasn't there. I had to get a restraining order.
I had to call the police. Then another time he
found out the guy that bought my daughter a present,
and my daughter told him and he came and like
we were fighting. I got arrested. I went to jail
because of the restraining order. And I wasn't supposed to

(25:36):
be there. It was it.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
Was a lot. Wait, he had order on YouTube, No
I had.

Speaker 11 (25:41):
One on him, but he wouldn't follow it and meet
at the police station. So I had to go to
his house and get my daughter.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
But they arrested you because of your restraining order.

Speaker 11 (25:50):
Yeah, because of my and he said that I attacked
him and they took me to jail. They had to
take one of us.

Speaker 9 (25:56):
It was up being me.

Speaker 11 (25:57):
I had to bail out in everything, Lord have mercy.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
Man, Hey, you know what's crazy about this?

Speaker 4 (26:03):
We here and we see this a lot where someone
to pull up and yeah, they will hurt their eggs
or hurt their you know, significant other like that. And man,
thank god that the guy wasn't there, because that would
have gave another level of anger.

Speaker 11 (26:17):
For oh exactly, and we're married now and they just
like have they just like they're they're cool now, but oh.

Speaker 4 (26:25):
No, because they gotta be right right then they're not
shootouts no.

Speaker 11 (26:32):
They're not shootout. Yeah, I would have probably been dead.
So you were there that night because he was angry.

Speaker 4 (26:40):
So when he pulled the gun out on you, you
got to restrain in order. But they didn't arrest him.

Speaker 11 (26:45):
They couldn't find him. Then they did arrest him. They
eventually arrested him. He went to jail. His mom bailed
him out, and he ended up getting like five years
probation and anger management classes. So during that time is
when I went to his house and he attacked me.
So he was like, I'm not going to jail because
I'm gonna go to jail if you know, because I'm

(27:06):
on probation.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
They said they had to take one of y'all house.

Speaker 11 (27:08):
They came and took me. I don't know what he
told them. They just came and say them step off
the car.

Speaker 3 (27:13):
Like Jesus Christ, you need to call fifty cents so
you can get a movie going or so yeah, yeah,
or hit him A and E.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
I will watch this as a documentary. What's the most
toxic thing you've experienced? Hit us up?

Speaker 4 (27:27):
Eight sixty six two four six eight nine two three.
Big Boys Neighborhood.

Speaker 7 (27:30):
This is big Boy on Demand.

Speaker 4 (27:33):
Big Boy neighborhood. Alright, we're speaking on it. What's the
most toxic thing you've experienced? This bring Milen into the neighborhoods.
He was going down with Mileen Milen Milen, Hello, Hello,
hello there, Mileen Milen.

Speaker 2 (27:47):
What's the most toxic thing you've experienced.

Speaker 16 (27:50):
So I used to like I wasn't getting this guy,
but like, you know, like we used to work together,
and like, you know, he was cute. You know, I
thought he was very attractive.

Speaker 9 (27:57):
You know.

Speaker 16 (27:58):
He had asked me out a couple of times, and
we were going out for like a couple of weeks,
and then like he has said, like, oh I love you,
and I was like, and I didn't know if I
heard that right. I was like, oh, all right, cool.
I was like, I mean I'm pretty cool, so I
could understand if you love me and cordial you know
a people personally, you know, I'm cool. Like I understand it.
And I had said, you know, like maybe you know
we should take our time, you know, it's a little

(28:19):
too early for that. He was like no, like, are
you trying not to be with me? Like what's what's
going on? And I'm like, oh, I didn't say that,
Like but you know, like, you know, just take a
little slow and then like I didn't talk to him
for not for any reason, but I didn't talk to
him for a couple days because I was just busy
with school work, you know, doing other things. Popped up
at school, popped up at my house, popped up at
my job, and was just like, I need to find
where she's at.

Speaker 8 (28:39):
Where she at.

Speaker 16 (28:40):
She hasn't texted me, like give me your location, Like
I just need to make sure that you're safe. Like
and then I'm like, bro, like you're not my dad,
Like I don't need all that You are not my dad, right,
my dad don't even check upon me like that.

Speaker 4 (28:51):
He popped up at your home, your work, in school
looking for and you say you didn't contact him for
a couple of days.

Speaker 12 (28:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 16 (28:57):
So I was in class and in order to get
into my school, you need you need a hall pass.
And they were and they came to the class. You're
like going, hey, do you know this guy? And I
didn't know who he was, but I was like, yeah, no,
just tell him I'm not here. So they went and
told him and he was like, I hear a car
in the parking.

Speaker 8 (29:11):
I was like, what are you doing?

Speaker 16 (29:12):
And I was like, wait, like you went in the
parking that. He goes, yeah, I'm pressed right next to you.
So then I had to wait thirty minutes after class
just to go to my car because I need to
make sure he was gone. And then I was at
work and he had called me. He's like, where are
you at? And I was like, you know, like I'm
at work.

Speaker 11 (29:25):
He goes, well, I'm at your.

Speaker 16 (29:26):
House and I'm waiting for you, like whenever you tell
me when you're on your way, Like I'm here. He goes,
i'mbout to knocking your door. And I was like, bro,
go knock at the door. I'm like, my dad's gonna
look at you and probably slap you.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
Yeah, man, jud Dad was probably like I wait, he knocked.

Speaker 4 (29:37):
On the door, And how long I'm like, bro, and
y'all had just kind of like started talking, like that's
crazy if y'all were talking for two, three, four years,
but how long we are y'all talking about?

Speaker 9 (29:47):
Man?

Speaker 16 (29:47):
Yeah, when this started happening, I think it was about
two weeks, and I think it was I was just like, yeah,
like I gotta go, and I don't know, maybe because
he was a little bit older than me, Like he
was like about a couple of years old to me.
But I was like, yeah, like I don't I don't
really know about all this stuff.

Speaker 4 (30:00):
A lean, how do you break that off? Because that
sounds so intense on his end.

Speaker 16 (30:06):
Oh, I was like, bro, my dad will kill you,
like like I don't know what to tell you, Like
I don't know how to scare you, like, bro, my
dad will kill you, like if you keep doing this.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
Yeah, I heard that. He was like, but I love
you so much. I guess that's a chance I got
a jake exactly.

Speaker 16 (30:18):
And exactly and not only that, Like, my dad's like,
I'm I'm the oldest of five girls, Like I have
no brothers, so my dad's very protective.

Speaker 4 (30:25):
Yeah, and how long ago did this happen?

Speaker 2 (30:29):
Like how long has it been since he last contacted you?

Speaker 16 (30:32):
It's been neybe about a year. But I'm not gonna
lie because he lives in Orange County. So when I'm
over there, I'm like freak, Like I'm probably gonna run
at the mall. Oh yeah, I gets such I get
such anxiety at the mall.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
It's just it's insane.

Speaker 4 (30:45):
Yeah, he's in your he's definitely in your head. Now, Yeah,
that's toxic right there.

Speaker 16 (30:50):
Yeah, I'm like, it's all right, I'll just be on
the scene for a couple.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
Of months here.

Speaker 4 (30:54):
Alrighty, what's the most toxic thing you've experienced? Jesus Christ,
y'all hit us up eighty six six two four six
eight nine two three Big Boy Neighborhood, neighborhood me.

Speaker 14 (31:13):
Eighties.

Speaker 2 (31:13):
You find a big boy from Big Boys Neighborhood on
iHeartRadio Boy. There's another in case you missed it, moment
with us. How were you low key hated.

Speaker 7 (31:22):
On Big Boy?

Speaker 8 (31:23):
I wasn't hated on. My girl had two evil eyes
and she got hated on.

Speaker 17 (31:28):
I had bought her some Sanel ear months the time.
It was real cold, and she had them on, and
we walked into a store. She was walking in front
of me, and I was walking behind her, and I
seen all these girls just like checking her out, giving
her an evil eye.

Speaker 8 (31:42):
I even felt it.

Speaker 3 (31:43):
What store was it, Russ.

Speaker 4 (31:46):
Y'all, y'all walk into ross She was wearing Janelle ear Monks.

Speaker 17 (31:52):
Yeah, there were all girls giving her and I was like,
I was walk behind her and I was even feeling.
I was like I was just pushing her away from me,
like I don't want to get stared up.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
Look at that now hold on. You separated yourself from
your woman so she could take all the stairy heat.
Hey man, he's probably no key hating on her too,
like you can't wear an l here.

Speaker 14 (32:11):
Mom.

Speaker 4 (32:12):
Thank you for listening. It is upon a big boy,
big boy's neighborhood. You can catch more of us right
here on iHeartRadio.

Speaker 7 (32:21):
Big boy has left the building.

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