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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is Big Boy's Neighborhood on demand.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Big Boys all right now, Marianna in the neighborhood, mantitude party.

Speaker 3 (00:06):
What you got?

Speaker 4 (00:07):
The holidays are here, you know, we're spending time with
our family more catching up with our friends. And you know,
one thing that is a little too silly for me
when when people ask me always like don't this sell novo?

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Meh?

Speaker 4 (00:19):
Or like where's your boyfriend? Like I get it. You know,
I've been single for years now?

Speaker 3 (00:23):
How many years, Marianna Like four years? Really?

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, but I've been locked in though, so I'm not
even tripping like locked in on on my word, I
have well listen. Okay, So the first year that when
me and my boyfriend, my ex boyfriend were broken up,
I didn't want to date because I felt like I
wasn't over him yet, you know, so it took me.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
Like no one's going to take a year or you
just looked up and it was like a year because
when I broke I didn't I would saying I'm swearing off,
but I looked up.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I was like, damn, it's been a while.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
Yeah yeah, yeah, I didn't even notice it until I
was like even now saying that I've been single for
four years. I'm like, whoa, that's been a very long time,
you know, Like I'm like, guy the red flag. But
you know, it's just like I get that a lot,
you know, especially with my family. And you know, because
Latinos like they're like, you, you should already have kids
by now, You should probably be married by now. Like

(01:09):
something is right exactly something wrong with you.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
And so you get it more during the holidays too,
because I think you get more family gathering.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah, you get more family gathering.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yes, do you have like any answer or anyone that's
in your life and they ask you something, You're like, dude,
your relationship.

Speaker 4 (01:24):
Is bad, Like please, don't don't keep the relationship about that.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
You should be the last one talking about.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
But I see the moms also like give you that guilt,
like the daughters and stuff. Yeah, Like the theater asked like,
are you gonna get any grandchildren?

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Like no, I don't think it's in the cards for me,
not right now.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Do your parents ever speak about grandchildren? And they just
know like they got because your sister had Yes, my.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
Sister has three kids. So and my sister got printed
really young, so she was like eighteen and so my
dad my parents were really mad at her. So it's
like I feel like now they can't really say much
about me because they're like, Okay, she had them too early,
but she might have them really late.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
Do you have your grandparents?

Speaker 4 (02:05):
Yeah, well only my grandma no, no, no, yes, my mom's
mom is still here. And then from my dad, my
dad's dad even like that.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
That's another pressure where it's like, come on, you know
you're kids.

Speaker 4 (02:25):
It's definitely that. And also I think about it too
because I'm like, Okay, time is going by. I want
my parents to be able to enjoy if I do
have kids, you know, like if I get married like
one of my grandparents. You know, it makes me think
about that too sometimes.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Are there any questions that you hate being asked? Who's
who is?

Speaker 6 (02:41):
Che?

Speaker 7 (02:41):
Really liked years dog, I was bringing a different girl
like Thanksgivingly you don't.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Ever get asked like how tall are you? Okay, we
won't project any so we have come back and we
want people out there as well. Man, what question do
you hate being asked? What question do you hate being asked?

Speaker 3 (03:05):
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Speaker 3 (03:23):
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Speaker 2 (03:24):
I don't speaking about the holidays are here. And one
of the questions you get asked a.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
Lot IST's know you, where is your boyfriend?

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Where is your boyfriend?

Speaker 2 (03:33):
So we're asking you, what question do you hate being asked?
We're gonna bring Brittany into the neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
Brittany, Hello, Hello, Hello there, Brittany. I'm doing well, Brittany,
what question do you hate being asked?

Speaker 9 (03:47):
I hate getting asked when I'm gonna work it out
with my daughter's dad? Now said.

Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yeah, and you know what that is.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
That's people, Brittany that don't understand the entire situation. Why
would someone ask you when are you gonna work it
out with your daughter's dad?

Speaker 9 (04:06):
Because they don't want to see my daughter and us.
I'm I'm assumed broken home since it's gonna be too
a two parent not a two parent household.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Right, So when they ask why y'all won't work it out.
Is it can you work it out? Or is it
one of them things where it's like, oh he did this,
he cheated, whatever it may be, because sometimes when we bounce, we.

Speaker 9 (04:24):
Bounced, Yeah, just the cheating and then just feel me.
What's a female emotionally detached and there's nothing more man
could really do?

Speaker 3 (04:33):
Who's asking you, Brittany, when are you gonna? You know?

Speaker 2 (04:36):
When are you or why you won't work it out
with you?

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Your mom?

Speaker 9 (04:39):
My mom loves him down to get with him?

Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yea, that's crazy, that's crazy because as a dad, I
would never tell my daughter to get with someone on
or going back and you know, kids, whatever, get back
with somebody that you know that the mom. Why does
your mom still like your ex?

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Like who really messed up? Whether you or him?

Speaker 9 (05:06):
It was him, but she really like him because that's
the only one that she liked from her to my
two sisters, baby Daddy's.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Right, right, So he's the best of the worst one,
right right, he's the best.

Speaker 10 (05:18):
Of the bat.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Okay, that's crazy that your mom would say get back
and your mom knows she she got full a full
scope of why you're not together with him? Right?

Speaker 9 (05:27):
Yeah, she she has an idea. Yeah, she got an
idea while we're not together, right, but she feels that,
you know, to her about the situation to where like
I don't think it's gonna work out.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
And how long have y'all been like separated for years?
Two years? And is your mom in a relationship?

Speaker 9 (05:44):
She is engaged?

Speaker 3 (05:45):
Ah, damn? Okay, yeah, because I was definitely gonna tell
you she should get with him.

Speaker 11 (05:49):
Yeah, but he's engaged.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Yeah, she's engaged. You know. Do you like the guy
that she's with?

Speaker 10 (05:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 12 (05:56):
He cool?

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Okay, damn all right, I about to throw breaking out here.

Speaker 12 (06:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
So that's Brittany right there. We want to hear from
you as well. What question do you hate being asked?
Hit us up, Big Boys neighborhood.

Speaker 8 (06:08):
This is Big Boy's neighborhood on demand, Big Boys Neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Alrighty, what question do you hate being asked? We're gonna
bring Rebecca into the neighborhood. See what's going down with Rebecca? Rebecca?

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Hello, Hello, Hello there, Rebecca, Rebecca, what question do you
hate being asked?

Speaker 13 (06:26):
Where did you two meet?

Speaker 3 (06:27):
Oh?

Speaker 13 (06:29):
I say that yeah, And the reason why I say
that is because, like, my little love story is a
unique love story. But at the same time, I feel judged.
And that's because me and my wife met in prison.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Oh you met, like, yeah, we Rebecca. Have we talked
with you before?

Speaker 9 (06:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:46):
Okay, okay, go ahead. Now, So y'all met in prison.

Speaker 13 (06:49):
But I didn't tell you guys this.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
No, I just remember the name in the city. Okay,
go ahead, Oh okay, Yeah.

Speaker 13 (06:55):
So we both did about seven years. But the thing
is is that we didn't meet while we were in prison.
We met in a program on our way like being released.

Speaker 14 (07:06):
Wow.

Speaker 13 (07:07):
We had Yeah, we had maybe like about a year
left on our sentence and we had to be on
ankle monitors at a program together, and that's how we met.
But the thing is is that we were at the
same prisons. We just never ran into each other.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Wow.

Speaker 10 (07:20):
Man.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
So once y'all was kind of on a step down,
like coming home, you know what I'm saying, that's when
y'all met.

Speaker 11 (07:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 13 (07:25):
And the thing is is that she helped me get
out because there was a new law that passed and
she found it for me, and we got out exactly
thirty days apart.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
See look at god who got out first? She did?

Speaker 13 (07:35):
She got out August first. I got out August thirty
first man.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Look at God got you off the yard around the
same time. The power of the Lords.

Speaker 13 (07:43):
A lot of people who probably think like, oh, you
guys went to prison and you guys here this and that.
But you know what we were out for thirty days,
got our own.

Speaker 15 (07:50):
Place and got our together.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Is you just dropped in this bo and you're talking
about she was one on hole talking about Oh yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
You can't curse. Oh my god, I'm so But.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
But you know what, what what's wild about that is
that you met the person the love of your life.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
You know what I'm saying. So people could be judgment
to whatever it may be. But so yeah, and I
get asked too. I think everybody in relationship get asked
how did y'all meet? It's just that if I did
hear your story, I would rebecca ask a little bit more, right,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 13 (08:22):
You know what, when people ask us, it's so funny
because people will be like, oh, so, how'd you to meet?
And we'll be like kind of give each other a sign,
like should we tell them?

Speaker 3 (08:30):
Right?

Speaker 4 (08:31):
It's like the invisible string. The invisible string is like
when you meet the person of your life. But you
were already like around that person the whole time. You're
just never actually.

Speaker 3 (08:40):
Mad, and y'all were y'all were on the same y'all
were on the same yard, are in the same spot
for years.

Speaker 13 (08:47):
Well. The thing is too though, we got arrested the
same year in twenty sixteen, but she was down the
hall for me and your Yeah.

Speaker 3 (08:56):
You don't even remember, like you don't remember like ever
seeing her.

Speaker 13 (09:01):
No, And I'm very good with faces. I remember a
lot of people, places and things, but I had never
seen her. And at that time, you know, I was
going to court a lot, and she didn't have to
go to court, and she went to prison maybe like
a couple of months after she got arrested. I didn't
go to prison until after three years.

Speaker 2 (09:18):
Hey, you know what I got to ask you? This
is it, Briga, because a lot of people are listening.
I noticed is taboo to ask. But I'm not on
the yard. What did you get popped for?

Speaker 3 (09:28):
Yeah? What was your charge?

Speaker 13 (09:29):
To be honest with you, they tried to get me
for attempted murder. But the thing is is that I
wasn't the ones who did anything. I just had people
in my car. Oh, they said, you know, basically, people
in your car, you're in charge of them.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
I heard that. I'm saying, oh, like, it ain't no thing.
Oh okay, yeah, and what about what about your wife?

Speaker 13 (09:49):
Everything that I could to come home early? And the
thing is is that she instead of her, you know,
because there's a lot of girls that are in there
that are messy that if third girlfriend gets in a fight, okay,
you got to get in a fight too. She stood
out of everything, made sure I stood out of everything.

Speaker 16 (10:02):
Right.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
So that's when that's when y'all got into that program
together for that year because y'all weren't on the yard. Okay,
all right, well there it is, man. What question do
you hate being asked?

Speaker 4 (10:13):
What you say it is?

Speaker 3 (10:15):
Man? Yes it is.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
That's Recca right there, man, And we want to hear
from you as well. What question do you hate being asked?

Speaker 3 (10:21):
Hit us up? Big Boys neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
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Speaker 2 (10:25):
Big Boy Neighborhood. Supped us up in here, Hey, Sue's
hang blues.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
Come on, man, We're.

Speaker 5 (10:29):
Gonna be surrounded by family very very very very soon.
And I think it's so funny here how like you
run into like your parents and then you can just
tell that there's a child that's their favorite. Everybody has
a favorite child, you know what I mean? Like they
just they say they don't, but they do. But I
think it's true. You can just see it when you
walk into the room.

Speaker 3 (10:47):
What are you going to be treated?

Speaker 5 (10:48):
Especially in front of like the holidays, everybody's going to
be noticing that, right.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
It's very I think every parent has one.

Speaker 5 (10:54):
I think it's funny how Chris Rock had a funny
take on this too. But you boys came home and
told me a guy hit her, I would get my
gun and shoot the guy.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
I wouldn't even ask question.

Speaker 5 (11:06):
I would put d n A on the bullet to
make sure everybody knows.

Speaker 3 (11:14):
If somebody hit Zara, I would go what happened is
a different child. You can't go shooting people because Zara
told you something.

Speaker 5 (11:26):
Feel like I am desire of my family, Yes, because
like if I did something, my dad would be like,
well what did you do?

Speaker 3 (11:32):
But if my brother.

Speaker 5 (11:33):
Did something, oh, he would turn the whole house upside down.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
Do you think that's your parents or do you think
you brought that on yourself a little bit of both,
most of them, that's but the thing is that you
don't have come on, guys, I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (12:04):
Yeah, but my thing is is that I do things,
get myself in trouble, and my parents, like I've noticed,
and they're just like, I'm just a problematic kid growing
so I would just constantly get in trouble at school
and stuff get suspended.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
But you know what, what's wild about that? Like it's
seven of us? Uh huh?

Speaker 2 (12:25):
And I can't really say that my mom like, oh
she loves such and such more, you know what I'm saying,
Like with my kids, I can honestly say that I
love my kids the same. And you judged that by
if there was tragedy or something was having Like you know,
who do you push your button on? I couldn't push
the button, but you love your There's different ways too,

(12:45):
the same way. Like I think I put a more
of a ring of protection around Tula, around my daughter
because that's my daughter.

Speaker 3 (12:53):
You know what I'm saying. What you're saying, like, yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
Like Jad ain't going out there and fight him. You
know what I'm saying. I still trying to fight a ripper.
I ripped their eyes off. It's just I guess.

Speaker 5 (13:02):
But if you hear something that one of them did,
would you believe no more?

Speaker 2 (13:06):
Let me tell you if Jaden, if something happened with Jayden,
I would be like, damn Jayden.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
You know too, I'd be like, what happened? What did
you do? Who was involved? Such and such? Stare with you? Yeah,
so I can understand that for sure. Sure, I'm gonna
start seeing that.

Speaker 5 (13:26):
You know, I could just tell my when I can
tell my who my parents like a little bit more
because the dinner plate is going to be all.

Speaker 3 (13:33):
Fix the plate better, and I'm like, oh, what about
min don't get it? You didn't get it?

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Where the food is that You're continue to hang with
us in the neighborhood Big Boys neighbor.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
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Speaker 3 (13:52):
Big Boy Your Chance to speak on it. What question
do you hate being asked?

Speaker 2 (13:56):
We're asking this question because Marianna was speaking about how
the holidays are here in the question that you get
asked the most.

Speaker 4 (14:02):
Of you, where's your boyfriend?

Speaker 3 (14:04):
Where's your boyfriend? Let's retire that, you know, you know
it'll retire.

Speaker 4 (14:09):
When I know when I get mad retire.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Man, But don't get no man, because people are asking
right now what I'm saying. We're going to bring Darlene
into the neighborhood to see what's going down with Darlene up.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
In here, Darlene.

Speaker 15 (14:22):
Hello, hello, big boy.

Speaker 3 (14:24):
Hello there Darlene. Darlene. What question do you hate being asked?

Speaker 17 (14:28):
Question? I hate being asked because I'm a nail tech.
People are always asking me if this is my only job?

Speaker 3 (14:37):
Crazy? Stop?

Speaker 17 (14:42):
You know what the holidays coming up? People always ask me,
can you do my nose right now?

Speaker 18 (14:47):
Like?

Speaker 13 (14:47):
Girl, that's worse.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
Man, But you know what I think someone would ask
like a lot of people don't know how much a
nail tech could make.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
And let me tell you are you nail take? Do
you book your own appointments? Are you in it like
in a salon?

Speaker 17 (15:04):
No, I'm solo.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
Killing it.

Speaker 4 (15:09):
That's a lot of discipline. Schedule your your people like
they gotta make appointments ahead of time and then if
they don't go all.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
That bread, it's hers. Yeah, man, How does one get
in touch with you darling?

Speaker 9 (15:21):
On Instagram?

Speaker 17 (15:22):
I have a booking site that's your.

Speaker 4 (15:24):
I g because I get my nails done and sometimes
my nail take me hello, busy, like I need claws done?
You got called out?

Speaker 17 (15:30):
Yes, take good?

Speaker 11 (15:33):
Is going to be busy?

Speaker 4 (15:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (15:36):
So you get people that ask you like that's just
like some side hustle.

Speaker 15 (15:40):
Yeah, it's like a little little right.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
Let me ask you this, darling, serious, darling, let me
ask you this now. Being having your own business and
and do people ask you for like discounts or do
they ever ask you how much can you do mine for?

Speaker 8 (15:59):
Oh?

Speaker 17 (15:59):
Yeah, that's they asked me like just how much is it?
Like I have a booking site, they could see all
my employers.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
But you know what, and the reason why I asked that, man,
is because we're always trying to go out and get
like discounts or how much does it costs?

Speaker 3 (16:13):
Or I don't want to pay the tax? Can I
get this for this?

Speaker 2 (16:16):
But we don't go to other businesses or go to
other people and do that to them. We do that
to our own you know what I'm saying. So pay
the price man exactly.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
Now? Are you all booked up for the holidays too, darling?

Speaker 18 (16:31):
Oh?

Speaker 17 (16:32):
Definitely busy busy.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
That's what I love.

Speaker 2 (16:36):
What's the what's the average that a customer was spinning
to get their nails done.

Speaker 17 (16:39):
It depends like everybody gets something different.

Speaker 11 (16:42):
Right now.

Speaker 17 (16:43):
I feel like it's really entrant to get natural stuff.
So I would say around one hundred simple, yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:49):
I need to She said something simple. I'm in the
wrong business.

Speaker 4 (16:53):
That's not design.

Speaker 3 (16:54):
I wouldn't now take on the side. But there's no
such thing called never chucking on the song start doing
people they like They be like, what else you doing? Like, oh,
I host a radio show? Is this your only job?
But Darney, thank you for that? Man?

Speaker 2 (17:08):
And I want to put you on hold so Madyanna
can get your uh your ig.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
Yes, it's obvious when she asked you the first time,
you don't want to say you must be very booked up.
She's like, I don't even need the promo. Like I'm good.
She's like, matter of fact, I'm on my way to
a client right now.

Speaker 2 (17:25):
Y'all hear this up. We want to hear from you.
What question do you hate being asked? Big boy?

Speaker 1 (17:30):
This is Big Boys Neighborhood on demand.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
Big Boy neighbor alrighty, your chance to speak on it?
What question do you hate being asked? We're going to
bring David into the neighborhood. David, Hello, Hello, Hello, David, David.
What question do you hate being asked?

Speaker 19 (17:48):
David Man, I hate being asked by all my annoying
cowboy cousins.

Speaker 3 (17:52):
How many reasons does your team have.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
The how many rings is your team even had?

Speaker 3 (18:02):
And your team, David.

Speaker 19 (18:04):
I'm a Charger fan, ain't got no rings. But listen,
last time they won the ring. Those my cousins were
like four years old. They can't tell me I haven't won.
They haven't won the real playoff game. All the playoff
games they've won is wild wild card games. They think
they're gonna do something this week, they're gonna lose. I'm
actually ming from Hi because the Chiefs, you know, but.

Speaker 3 (18:23):
Hey man, they pulled the game off with the with
the with the egos up. They came, Yeah, that was
hell he was I got that was one big guy
going with another.

Speaker 11 (18:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
So when when is your team going to get a ring?

Speaker 18 (18:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (18:35):
Or damn and Louis, you are Chargers fan, They charger
of fan bro We get that all the time. One time,
when I got a jersey from the team, that gave
me a jersey with the zero on it, and.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
Then I was like yeah, I don't want to wear this.

Speaker 7 (18:47):
This is like literally just meant for like jokes. It's
gonna write itself in the first picture I put up
with my jersey with the zero zero.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Super Bowls just like a ring. Change it please?

Speaker 10 (18:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (18:59):
And then you're cousins know how to get you to
they don't to say certain things, especially if the drinks
are flowing on.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
It gets deep, and especially if they hitting you in
the heart.

Speaker 5 (19:09):
Man, sorry about that, David, Sorry about that. Lot before
you know, he's gonna start defending stuff with emotion.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
No, here's the thing.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
It's because no, let me tell them.

Speaker 3 (19:20):
Let me tell them. Hey, man, but you know what
you guys are die hard though, yes we are. What
do you think is worse Cowboy fans or Raider fans?

Speaker 19 (19:29):
They're about the same.

Speaker 8 (19:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
Rivalry. Who do you think is worse? Biggest rivalry?

Speaker 10 (19:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (19:37):
Yeah, I got the screen. Is there anything else that
you hate being asked? You know what I got? I
got one.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
My brother Mouse is like light fair skinned, right. I
hate being asked? Is that your real brother?

Speaker 3 (19:48):
Oh? My god? I hate being asked? You know what
I hate?

Speaker 5 (19:51):
I hate when like if you get something new, like
a car or something. They're like, how much was it? Dud,
don't worry about the.

Speaker 3 (19:55):
Are you doing the pavements? And it's always wrong. No, man,
they got it's like really, why do you care?

Speaker 2 (20:07):
Hey man, I don't hate, but I get asked, why
do they call you big boy? Even when I was
big big when I was five hundred pounds. You know
what I'm saying, Like, what do you think because I'm
five hundred But no, I get it now because now
you know I lost three hundred pounds. So I don't
hate being asked that because it's just my story, you
know what I'm saying. Yeah, Yeah, I hate being asked
like everybody think that we knocked down our female listener.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
Like you ever had with a listener like no, bro,
crazy go and say no, yeah, So what now? All right, man?
What question do you hate being asked? Y'all hit us up?
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(20:54):
boy from Big Boy's neighborhood.

Speaker 10 (20:55):
On iHeart Radio.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
There's another in case you missed it, moment in which
us money to the party.

Speaker 4 (21:01):
When you got me and my roommate just finished decorating,
I did not know that it was going to be
difficult because there was certain things that she didn't want
this way, and certain things that I did, like everything
that I wanted to do, she didn't want.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
What did you want to do?

Speaker 4 (21:15):
I wanted to move the couch a different way so
that the lights could look better, and then she didn't
want to do that because she thought it looked weird.

Speaker 3 (21:26):
The couch going.

Speaker 10 (21:31):
Thank you for listening. It is a big boy big
boys neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (21:34):
You could catch more of us right here on iHeartRadio
Neighborhood in the neighborhood party you got.

Speaker 4 (21:40):
The Oxford Dictionary just stepped their game up and added
a little more sass on. Yes, they added some spanglish
words in there. Yes, so these words have never been added,
but they.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
Found somebody over there working right. Thanks.

Speaker 13 (21:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (21:58):
So one of the words that they added her few
of the words that they added as way, which is
originally it could be it could be an insult, but
now it's an affectionate like dude, like you know obviously
we've heard that word.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
How would you use it? How would anyone use way? Dude? Yeah?

Speaker 8 (22:17):
Weeh?

Speaker 3 (22:25):
Would you right?

Speaker 10 (22:27):
Period?

Speaker 4 (22:28):
And then another one is chilango, which Chilango is someone
from Mexico City, so like, you know, it's like when
you call someone like an Angelino, like from Los Angeles,
that would be Chilango from the city of Mexico.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
Hey man, Webster Dictionary dude is to.

Speaker 10 (22:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 13 (22:45):
No.

Speaker 4 (22:46):
Another one is ChIL or Puerto Rica baddies. Well yeah,
it could be a guy or girl. Yeah yeah. And
then Charia, which is Mexican rodeo culture. So yeah, those
are really fun. Actually, I went to uh Chariata with

(23:06):
my dad in Mexico, and I did not know I
was going to be that into it, but it's fun
because it's like you're just like watching them go on
the wars like you think.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
So I went out there like the little rodeo outfa.

Speaker 4 (23:18):
I know, maybe next time I risked my life.

Speaker 3 (23:31):
At what I think we sho words.

Speaker 4 (23:34):
Yeah, at least you know, they had to hop on
the trim, But I feel like other words should be
added to that. I feel like we say a lot, like,
for example, because that's a mix of Spanish and English,
is truck. You know, it's it's like, oh, can you
go get the truck, go get the but us like

(23:54):
people that are like American but have their parents that
are born in like a Spanish speaking country.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
Like all negative words, all crazy words. I'm thinking things
that would never get.

Speaker 4 (24:04):
Into you know, I think that we might not get
in there. Ye well, never mind.

Speaker 2 (24:15):
But what's the definition that they added? Did they added
as an actual like sandwich or something easy?

Speaker 3 (24:22):
Okay? Not a couple of hey, be nice? Took out
a couple of Hey, those are my stop that you
guys can't we just celebrate out to hang with us
in the neighborhood Big Boys.

Speaker 8 (24:41):
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Speaker 2 (24:50):
Big Boy support is up in here. Hey, Sue's hang
loose what you got.

Speaker 3 (24:54):
Let me tell you something about these pet people.

Speaker 5 (24:57):
Okay, for people, here's what I get it. I get
it when they do the whole thing about like, oh
I need my pet around me because you know, I
get anxiety and things like that. But at the grocery store,
at the grocery store, like you have anxiety at the
grocery store for.

Speaker 4 (25:12):
What to get.

Speaker 5 (25:13):
I've never looked for tomatoes and been like I can't
do this, but I did a dog, Like, just get
the get.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
The groceries, get the groceries, and that's it. That's so
easy to see.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
Yeah, I guess so it's easy to say for me,
but I just see it. I'm like, but here's the thing.

Speaker 3 (25:26):
I get it.

Speaker 5 (25:27):
A dog, I'm okay with that. A cat, sure, all right.
It starts getting weird when you're bringing like snakes. I
got really, you're getting everybody anxiety. I know my dog
just to get through the snake person in front of me.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
Line.

Speaker 2 (25:41):
Man, I think I would look more at like a
big dog in the store than somebody with a snake
around their neck. Yeah, dude, absolute, I think I would
look more at the dog.

Speaker 3 (25:50):
I've seen some dogs in the store. I'm like, whoa, Okay,
there's a certain dogs.

Speaker 18 (25:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
And then there's something that don't have, like the service
dog thing on. And then I was watching this thing
on social media where you don't have to have it
as a service dog. Could just be an emotional dog
or really, man, yep, so don't have to be a
service dog, know that.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
I remember.

Speaker 5 (26:08):
I remember when I was a kid and I used
to go to the store. I remember bringing my dog.
One time I got kicked out for bringing the dog.
Get that dog out of here.

Speaker 3 (26:14):
It's a different world now. And I was just like, wait,
like the dog and me. Like I saw one time, dude,
I was over at the market. I won't say which one, yes,
but yes, somebody was in there with a sheep. Yes, okay,
I want to baby go with like some raise your

(26:42):
own food. I like that. So you're raised it like organically.
Do you want to do that? Okay?

Speaker 2 (26:50):
Now I want you to now picture this. Okay, picture this.
You want to go right and think about how realistically
this is. You're at work right now, the goats at
the house right right, Okay, you have a goat in
your apartment with your roommate.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
Think really, think about I want a goat?

Speaker 4 (27:07):
Yeah, that would be crazy. You know right now are.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
Sitting with the goat. I am a goat.

Speaker 10 (27:16):
There.

Speaker 4 (27:19):
I don't need to go buy one.

Speaker 3 (27:22):
I'm here. I've been doing that goat yoga. Haven't seen that?
Oh my god, go yoga. And my daughter tried to
get us to go do goat yoga. You brought it
up yoga exactly what it sounded like. Yes, you're doing
yoga as a goat all at your ear and like
what the hell like a big ass goat.

Speaker 5 (27:38):
Yes, you have to have enough simmy goat.

Speaker 4 (27:46):
Puppy yoga, maybe.

Speaker 3 (27:47):
We should try. We got a puppy here that's hidden.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
Okay, need to hang out with It's in the neighborhood.

Speaker 8 (27:55):
Big boys, neighbor This is big Boy on demand, big
Boy all.

Speaker 3 (28:00):
Right, And now Louis is up in here with a
friend of the neighborhood.

Speaker 7 (28:03):
The game dang clip that's going viral and it's from
our interview when he came in and talk about just
the new mixtape that he was dropping right, yes, And
there was a point where he told the story on
how he said he almost signed Kendrick when he was younger. Yeah,
or he tried to, yeah, man. And a lot of
people are saying that this is.

Speaker 20 (28:20):
Cap first time I met Kendrick was a long time ago.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
I don't even know if he'll remember.

Speaker 20 (28:25):
He was going to the Yet Center and Compton and
as part of a probationary program, I had to go
be a big brother at this YET Center and me
and Mahomie Tato. Yeah, and I wasn't Kendrick's big brother,
but he used to come in there and like you know,
he was yet real young man.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
And he was just.

Speaker 20 (28:45):
Always charismatic, always good with the words, man, and just
a you know, funny little guy. I don't even know
if he remembers that. And we grew up like across
the streeting around the corner from each other. In the
beginning of my career, I'll be going by Top Dogs house,
helping him with Jay Rob stuff and lending my you know,
two census. I was a little bit, uh, you know,
ahead of the curve then from where they were, and uh,

(29:06):
I was always asking Top. I was like, yo, let
me get Dot. He was like, no, he knew what
he was. I knew what he was when I took
Jay Rock on tour. Dot was hype man, you know
what I'm saying. And I and I asked Top again
at my house and Glinda, I was like, let me
get Dot.

Speaker 3 (29:22):
He was like, so when you say let me get Dot,
are you talking about let me get him as an
artist or as a feature?

Speaker 20 (29:27):
Let me get him as an artist? Because yeah, yeah,
I knew. I knew what he was gonna be. And
nobody didn't understand it yet except everybody that was around
Top and TD.

Speaker 3 (29:37):
They knew and rolls white ceiling.

Speaker 7 (29:44):
A lot of people are calling cat, specifically people from
the TV camp. So you got like a security TD
to T's Hey.

Speaker 3 (29:52):
Man, let me tell you.

Speaker 2 (29:53):
You don't see a lot of tow T's like jumping
in comments, you know.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
To T said, you know what I'm saying, So this
is too T.

Speaker 7 (30:00):
Yeah, he said a blood faking. He never wanted to
sign blood faking. He never wanted to sign Kendrick. And
then one of his engineers also came out and just
put a bunch of laughing emojis from TV's engineer Cap.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
Mixed. I just asked the question.

Speaker 7 (30:18):
But honestly, bro, if you're telling a story and you
say he might not remember.

Speaker 20 (30:23):
First time I met Kendrick was a long time ago.
I don't even know if he'll remember he was.

Speaker 3 (30:28):
Then you can technically say whatever. Technically say whatever, because.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
But you don't think that there was a small conversation like, man,
let me get him, you know what, I'm.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
Pretty sure they all grew up together and say Mary
and maybe yeah, maybe he was. According to T.

Speaker 4 (30:43):
You know, I wonder because because the game did feature
Kendrick on the city and that, honestly, like that's how
I found out about Kendrick, so like it does make.

Speaker 7 (30:53):
Me younger, and going to a program where they're like
the Big Brothers that.

Speaker 3 (31:00):
We I hate that it's going viral like this. I
don't God, academic everybody to teas who never chimes in.
He's like, oh my god, man, I'm just trying to
do an innocent interview.

Speaker 4 (31:17):
Yeah that's what he said.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
Okay, Yeah, inter's Big Boy TV right now. Yeah, man,
right down, Big Boy TV.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
If you don't watch, the entire interview is right there,
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Speaker 3 (31:32):
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Speaker 3 (31:43):
Boy Neighborhood, Money on the Neighborhood, Money to the party.

Speaker 4 (31:46):
When you got somebody check on DOCI. Because the Nissan
Ultima is now being discontinued.

Speaker 3 (31:53):
Oh my god, almost made porn right, So the Nissan
Ultima is gone.

Speaker 4 (32:08):
Not only that one, but also the Maxima.

Speaker 3 (32:10):
Oh my, some of my first cars.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
Really, yeah man, I know I've been with Nissan for
decades too.

Speaker 4 (32:19):
Yes, that was like the iconic car. If you like
the twenty twelve one was the one that everybody from
my high school drove.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
Cars were affordable. Yeah, yeah, I remember. You could have
a Nissan Central, right, you have Daniel Man if you
want to style the Ultimate if you's rich, rich right Maximum.
So the Nissan Ultima and Maximum. No one called me
from this.

Speaker 4 (32:41):
Yeah. So it's after the twenty twenty five model year,
so by next year they're not going to be six
twenty seven. But yeah, they're shifting more towards like SUVs
and electric vehicles. So that's like the main reason.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
Hey man, that was that was like the first car
that I got. My wife really need they what I got?
The Maximum with a bowet this Alexander, you know what
I'm saying. We got, Yeah, brought it to the garage
like bown.

Speaker 7 (33:12):
Ultimate was our first, our first family like me car
with like can you smell? And oh yeah, theyar car
and my mom got to raise at work and it
was like an exciting moment and we were like you were like,
no more used vehicle.

Speaker 3 (33:23):
Yeah man, like it was startup every time. Oh yeah,
my kids don't know nothing about your car and not
starting up. Yeah, just like the base model and we
were still like, oh my god, automatic windows you had
to still roll was automatic?

Speaker 4 (33:42):
I remember feel like that Nissan Ultimore was like a blueprint,
you know, like it was like that car.

Speaker 3 (33:48):
You said we need to check on.

Speaker 4 (33:50):
Yeah, she write a whole song about it, and the
video to Ultimate, she's like on top of the car,
dancing all over it.

Speaker 2 (34:00):
That's probably why they discontinued it. Maybe stop dancing on
top of a car. Everybody dancing on top of there's.

Speaker 7 (34:06):
Always there's always saying like, there's always this specific all right,
there's always a specific type of girl that drives anis
and Ultimate.

Speaker 3 (34:12):
Maybe maybe.

Speaker 21 (34:16):
Just get like, yeah, by the Nissan alt Era. Say
that man, the first cart smashing. Actually after that it
was my parents gave me the card to go to school.

Speaker 3 (34:32):
Look at all the memories, you guys, like commercial first. Yeah,
just so he was in the neighborhood, Big.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
Boys neighbor This is big Boys neighborhood on demand.

Speaker 3 (34:47):
Big Boy neighbor is up in here. Hayesu's hang loose
what you got? My brother?

Speaker 5 (34:50):
This is getting out of hand, man. This whole Christmas
stuff with the presents and stuff, it's getting It's worse
every year though. It is like I just got like
a fly or email blast, you know what. But it
gets it gets worse and worse as we go. You know,
my girl gets comfortable.

Speaker 3 (35:04):
I don't know what it is.

Speaker 5 (35:05):
She makes up her own things. Maybe it's her TikTok.
I got to delete it ideas.

Speaker 3 (35:10):
Ye ain't you talking? Sometimes? You know what I hate
on social media? Have you ever seen the things where
say we've been doing this wrong all our lives? Oh yeah,
and you like you're supposed to use toothpaste ideas? And
I'm like, man, he's in my teeth, don't care? Yeah,
going off for that. She's like, she saw this thing.
We want to go.

Speaker 5 (35:25):
First of all, we want to go shopping, and then
we said, let's pick a gift that we actually want,
like one gift that we know what we're going to
get because we actually want it, but we're still gonna
have to you know, open it for Christmas act surprise, right,
So we get the gifts. She got what she wanted
and we're in the car and she starts opening it
and I'm like, what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (35:41):
What's going on? She's just like, no, this is like
a pre gift. Excuse me?

Speaker 5 (35:46):
What a pre gaft for Christmas, Like I opened this
before Christmas, something to open the holidays.

Speaker 3 (35:53):
What are you talking about? No, there's no pre gift,
but what are you doing? Like this ads to the gaff?
I tripped my wife say, oh, just gave me that.
You have to give me nothing for Christmas? Right, so
you don't come downstairs? Yes, and it's nothing there And
then I want to reflect back to August. Stop they
do that.

Speaker 5 (36:14):
Yeah man, yeah, but my thing is like, bro, if
it's like an expensive gift, save that for Christmas.

Speaker 3 (36:18):
You know what I mean, get that cheap open the
cheap one. Well, at least you know now, don't do
it again ever again, Never do it again. I just
don't like it. There's like these little things that people
are adding on to Christmas. And that's one that's just
like a big peeva mind you know when you can
tell what you're getting by the box. The Air Force
ones of the same boxes, thank you.

Speaker 4 (36:40):
My mom always used to put them in a different
like box, like if we bought something else. Yeah, she
would like hide them in there to make it extra
like surprising.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
You open it up. It's like a cheerials box, like, oh, cheerios,
look in there, keep searching, you want to take it back?
You don't have the original box? Now?

Speaker 5 (37:00):
Yeah, I love what it's like a baseball bat. It's
like it's a basil bat, like a baseball bats.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
All I want to try to wrap a bike, I'm like,
I know what that is, pedal sticking through the wrappings.

Speaker 3 (37:12):
Do you have any pet piece for the holidays? Yeah,
that's one and make up your own little you know tradition. Yeah,
that's like a big pe. You have any pet piece
for the holidays?

Speaker 10 (37:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (37:23):
I think for me, it's like if you don't wrap
your the gift right like that to me irks me.
I don't know what its like. It's like you couldn't
take the little to.

Speaker 3 (37:31):
Just give me a bag. That's the main thing to you.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
Just throw things in a bag, put some tissue paper
like women, y'all do a beautiful job with wrapping present.

Speaker 4 (37:42):
And no, it's something about it.

Speaker 7 (37:46):
I hate when you go shopping and in front of
that right item and then it has no tag. So
now you got to find an employe to help you
out with the tag. But busy and you're sticking in that.
By that point, you're like, I'm just gonna.

Speaker 19 (37:56):
Leave this.

Speaker 2 (37:58):
Pet Peeve for me, bro is when you see like
the tag or something right there and nothing's there and
they're like, oh you know such a oh they don't
have these.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Right there, you know
what I'm saying. This is the space for it right here.
You're all going now, you know what I'm saying, Holiday
pet Peeves. You want to hear from you right now?
Holiday pet Peeves, hit us up eight six six two
four six eight nine two three.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
That's eight six six two four six eight nine two three.
Somebody call um saying having to hang out with family.
Hit us upon one to hear your holiday pet Peeves.
Big Boy's neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (38:29):
This is big Boy on demand, Big.

Speaker 3 (38:32):
Boys neighbor all right now. He's Supuppovida was speaking about
how his girl, how you got you presented her with
like a gift.

Speaker 5 (38:39):
Yeah, man, we picked our gifts, you know, something that
we really wanted. All of a sudden, she hit me
with the no, there's a pre gift for Christmas. Pre
gift for the gift that we're getting on Crison, What
do you think?

Speaker 3 (38:48):
Yeah, so it's the present before the present, all right.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
And we were just talking about when it comes to holiday,
Pet Peeves, I hated wins. We're gonna bring Deanna into
the neighborhood. Deanna, Hello, Hell, hello there, Deanna. Holiday pet Peeves.

Speaker 6 (39:03):
I hate it when, okay, I hate it when your
family agrees to not buy gifts this year. We're just
gonna be with the family. And then you show up
to the holiday and people start opening gifts, and then
you have like five gifts in front of you, and
then you feel like an idiot because you brought nothing
and you stuck to the deal about not bringing gifts

(39:27):
to family. Yeah, so I hate that, my biggest puppie.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
I hear that all the time. And there sometimes you like, wait,
are we really not getting anything?

Speaker 22 (39:35):
Are we?

Speaker 3 (39:37):
Are we sneaking and getting something?

Speaker 8 (39:39):
You know?

Speaker 2 (39:40):
My holiday pet Peeves, man, is everybody look at me
as Santa Claus. Oh my gosh, man, it's wild. I've
had people that walk in my house with nothing. I
really did get judge off the gifts?

Speaker 6 (39:53):
Do I run to my car and see if I
have a gift card in there.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
That's when you got to be in a block to
like seventy eleven our Starbucks, like, oh look at this.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
They start have final the gift cards. They start heading
out twenties like hey.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Man, then they tell you that's not my size. So so,
where are you doing the holidays this year?

Speaker 6 (40:13):
This year, probably at our house and then we usually
do like at my mother in law's. But I mean,
I don't know, I'm not quite sure.

Speaker 3 (40:21):
That kind of what happens with my family too.

Speaker 7 (40:22):
We always say we're going to do a gift exchange,
and then we draw names and then eventually that one
there's always that one person that buys extra gifts for
everybody else.

Speaker 3 (40:28):
Want to bro, that's my that's my mother in law.
Before you know what, I love it, man, my mother
in law she's still trying to like give me money.
I love that. Here you're going like, I think, I'm
all right, what am I going to do with this? Tea?

(40:49):
Very much so, very much so Holiday pim Peeves. I
hate a when we want to hear yours hit us
up Big Boys, Name.

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Speaker 2 (41:03):
Com Big Boy Neighborhood. Holiday pet Peeves. I hate it
when we're gonna bring Michael into the neighborhood. Seeo's going
down with Michael Michael.

Speaker 3 (41:11):
Hello, Hello, big boy, Hello there Hi, this is Michael Michael.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
All right now, Michael, I hated Win Holiday Edition holiday
pet peeves.

Speaker 23 (41:21):
I hate it, whin, I hate it when I'm gonna
get mad seen this. But when you enter a family
gift exchange and you make the minimum let's say fifty dollars,
everybody brings their fifty dollars gifts, one hundred dollars or whatever.
Everybody goes above and beyond, and you get that one
on goal that brings the five dollars jacket from files

(41:42):
and you're the one.

Speaker 19 (41:42):
That gets it.

Speaker 3 (41:45):
Hey, dude, there's all and it's real, Michael.

Speaker 2 (41:47):
There's always some that go with like okay that plus
and then you'll get that one where you're like, really,
I come on, man, the price is right T shirt.

Speaker 3 (41:56):
Yeah, that you got me using the audience.

Speaker 23 (42:00):
It's like, man, I didn't even want to enter this thing.
No morning, Like next year, I'll just I'll be the
referee on stand by you guys do the gift.

Speaker 5 (42:07):
Yeah, bro, Mike, I'm going through that right now, like
im about to give for the white elephant or whatever.
We're doing and the limited sixty bucks. But I went
a little bit beyond and I'm here my brother, and
what are you gonna get? He's literally being mister cheap.
I'm just gonna get some songs and whatever. It's gonna
be funny. And I'm like, dude, don't do that.

Speaker 3 (42:22):
Do something.

Speaker 2 (42:24):
Hey, dude, miel I always like to put that one
gift that I know everybody's kind of going to fight over.

Speaker 3 (42:29):
Yeah, I'll be that guy. I thought it was like
fifty bucks.

Speaker 23 (42:35):
Want to put if they want to if you're gonna
do the white elephant, and they want to put the
funny gifts or put you know, a roll of toilet paper,
but at least put a gift card. Right, Yes, get
the roll of toilet paper.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
And that's it. Man.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
He's not like a party plan. Hey Michael, we got
our holiday neighborhood party coming up. We probably need to
talk to you about some of these gifts and games
and everything.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
Yeah, because if you can't participate, you count do that
least the amount. Just don't do it because that is
just so lame. Like I got the lame gift before.

Speaker 3 (43:05):
You got it. Yes, yeah, I'll keep it too. Sometimes
I get I'm like, I'll just keep it.

Speaker 16 (43:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (43:12):
The worst one is when I did the preparation age,
she got it appreciating yes hemrohid hemdrooids.

Speaker 3 (43:20):
To be funny, of course, religious one on the gottage.

Speaker 10 (43:25):
What is this? What is this?

Speaker 3 (43:27):
Unexplained to what it was? You got to put it
on your baby, that's all disrespectful. I'm gonna pray for you.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
So we're gonna get Michael as a party planner or
probably these Caucasian people in the hallway they always I
never heard of like white elephant games until Jason, our producer,
brought it.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
I was like, wait, we're doing what white guys and
they've come up with the most interesting games. Yeah, man,
this right here, you take the gift blind for I'm like,
all right, Oh that's a hood. It's a hood. You're
gonna know this.

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Speaker 2 (44:13):
Big Boy All right, we're speaking on it man Holiday
pet Peeves Hey sus was talking about how he and
his girl there was like, oh, you know, we're gonna
grab something and it was the present before the present
when it comes to the holidays and his girl opened it.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
Yes, yeah, what is this new? Thing? Is a thing?

Speaker 4 (44:28):
Now?

Speaker 3 (44:28):
I don't like this. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (44:30):
So if we're gonna say this is the present before
the president and it's for Christmas, then don't open it.
So that's a holiday pet peeve that he was speaking about.
So we want to hear from you right now. Let's
bring Jasmine into the neighborhood. Jasmine. Hello, Hello there, Jasmine.
Holiday pet peeves.

Speaker 13 (44:48):
I hate it when I hate it when well, this
is me.

Speaker 12 (44:52):
Okay, my chister in law. I have a four year
old and last Christmas and I hope this Christmas she
doesn't do it. Last Christmas you open presents and.

Speaker 15 (45:02):
She was like, oh my god, what is it?

Speaker 12 (45:04):
What did you do? But she's okay, she's a teacher,
so I get it.

Speaker 11 (45:06):
You know, you have to be excited for kids.

Speaker 12 (45:08):
But girl, don't do it to my kid.

Speaker 2 (45:11):
Oh so okay, let me ask you this, when she
taking the mother shine away from you?

Speaker 3 (45:18):
Or what was it that you had the problem with.

Speaker 12 (45:21):
Oh, she was definitely being the thea you know. But
like I like to record my son, but I don't
like to record and have her in the background, just screaming.

Speaker 3 (45:29):
Being oh my god all the way.

Speaker 4 (45:42):
I'm glad she brought that up because I'm that thea
extra dramatic.

Speaker 22 (45:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
Absolutely, my nephew are opening something, especially if I gave
it to them, I make a huge deal, like I
just want them to get so excited.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
Too, you know right, I know obvious this is how
they can't be. I've never noticed that, but then it's true.
I hate what we gonna do that. Oh my god,
what did you give? I don't know why. I can
hear my wife in my ear right now with her knees.
Oh my god, there's another one. There's another one.

Speaker 4 (46:13):
Did you check open?

Speaker 3 (46:14):
Oh my god, Hey, Jasie, you said your little one
is four years of age.

Speaker 12 (46:18):
He just turned four years and let me tell you
when we had it. He's a Halloween baby.

Speaker 20 (46:21):
Okay.

Speaker 12 (46:22):
We did a little cake for him, just the family,
just us at home. We got him a little a
couple of gifts. My my husband got him a little
what is it a TV? A U TV And it's loud,
so he hasn't gotten on stuff like that that's extremely loud.
So when he did, we were controlling in with the control.

Speaker 11 (46:40):
You hear her, Oh, my gosh, it's so fus.

Speaker 12 (46:43):
I'm like, shut up, none, he'll enjoy it.

Speaker 3 (46:47):
Yeah, you know what, man, I'm not saying it to
mess up the holidays, but maybe you got a bomb
on it this year. Not too much. Yeah, don't swing
on it. Let me have a moment. Let me have
a moment. I'll get back to you. Yeah I'm speaking.
I'm speaking from the holidays.

Speaker 2 (47:05):
That was messed up on my alright now, Holiday pet Peeves.

Speaker 3 (47:08):
I hate it when hit us up Big boys neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
This is big Boy's neighborhood on demand.

Speaker 3 (47:15):
All right now.

Speaker 2 (47:16):
Hay SU's was talking about the present before the present,
and he was saying how he and his girl they
went to go grab a present before the present and
they were like, we're buying this, but this is for Christmas.

Speaker 3 (47:26):
And his girl opened up the present right now. It's
surprised me. That's what I thought. I thought it was
a Christmas gift.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Yeah, so now that is a holiday pet Peeve. So
we're asking you out there, man, Holiday pet Peeve. I
hated when we're gonna bring Vanessa into the neighborhood. Vanessa, Hello, Hello.

Speaker 3 (47:44):
Hello there, Vanessa, your chance to speak on the holiday
pet peeves. I hate it when I.

Speaker 11 (47:49):
Hate it when I host Christmas Eve for my family
and I put out a big spread of food and desserts,
and my family takes so many leftover plates. When I
host for my in laws the next day on Christmas Day,
I have nothing to serve. I'm scrambling to figure out
what I'm gonna put together.

Speaker 6 (48:08):
My in law.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
Oh, so you you do it.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
You do both at your house. So you do the
twenty fourth and the twenty fifth. See what we do
is on the twenty fourth, I go to my in
laws crib, so my wife, Yeah, so we do that
over there. Then on the twenty fifth, we'll do my crib.

Speaker 3 (48:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (48:25):
You gotta, you gotta, you gotta learn how to pull
some of that stuff back. Yeah, cut things in half.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Hell yeah, man, the whole thing too, like the whole
t Yeah.

Speaker 11 (48:38):
This year, I'm only bringing out what we eat as
we eat. I'm not bringing out they go trays. I'm
not I'm not even providing leftover containers anymore. Yeah, because
they will pile it on.

Speaker 3 (48:50):
Yeah. Yeah, I want take drinks some too.

Speaker 11 (48:52):
They take drinks some too.

Speaker 4 (48:59):
You don't mind if we take like the whole bottle
and Vanessa, you make the whole meals.

Speaker 11 (49:05):
My husband.

Speaker 3 (49:07):
The one who makes yeah, yeah, And what's what's what's
the dynamic here for y'all to do the twenty fourth
to twenty fifth? We do the twenty fourth New Year's Eve.

Speaker 2 (49:15):
My wife is Mexican, so we we you know, Latina,
We go over there and then you know, on the
Christmas Day my family will come by.

Speaker 3 (49:21):
So what's your dynamic, Vanessa.

Speaker 11 (49:23):
It's just too big of a crowd to host, and
it's easier for us to break it up that way.

Speaker 3 (49:28):
I heard that, Okay, we'll do this on the twenty fourth.

Speaker 2 (49:32):
Don't be home, turn turn everything up, don't invite or
be more straightt than who you invite over to.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
You know what I'm saying. You got those people that
bring nothing and take the most home.

Speaker 4 (49:43):
Or on the twenty fourth you can do like the
one that's like the more Latino family, you know, like,
and then on the twenty fifth do the one that's
a little bit more had that dynamic, but that's what
like for me, Like my sister when when she celebrates,
she celebrated her husband is also Mexican, but she'll celebrate
the twenty fifth with her family, with her husband's family
because they're a little more, you know, like they.

Speaker 2 (50:03):
Do the saying it's probably too big. Like that's what
I was asking, was the dynamic, like you buy celebrate that.

Speaker 3 (50:10):
It was probably too big. There's a tough one. Yeah, lights,
I'm glad we can offer no help. Yeah, Like that's
another pig you call being in he don't know what
already today, Pet Peeves, I hate it. Win hit us
up Big boy neighborhood. Had you're frying a big boy

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Speaker 10 (50:35):
There's another in case you missed.

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The moment with us.

Speaker 5 (50:39):
Hey, Sue's hang loose what you got? I know, but
I'm Christmas shopping. I don't think it's a game. Why
is it that women are so difficult?

Speaker 1 (50:46):
Are you difficult?

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Like shopper?

Speaker 4 (50:48):
I think that could be a hack, because yeah, I
feel like if I like something, but like I just
want it right then and there. But if I get
it as a gift, I'm like, oh even better.

Speaker 3 (50:56):
And then you gotta know because sometimes women knowing they
being slave. Yeah, oh my god, look at this, you like, Hey,
get away from that. Bean. I think I'm difficult no,
I guess so I'm very simple. I told her. I
told her what I like. I like yourself.

Speaker 15 (51:16):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
I thought when you say I'm very simple, I thought
you'd be hard.

Speaker 10 (51:23):
Thank you for listening.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
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Speaker 4 (51:32):
T P recently sat down with Shannon Sharp on The
Club podcast, and he talked about proposing to his wife
after only knowing her for three months.

Speaker 3 (51:42):
You met your wife? How long you met your wife?

Speaker 8 (51:47):
I know?

Speaker 3 (51:47):
Did you take you to purpose? You met your wife?
How long did they take you to propose?

Speaker 10 (51:51):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (51:52):
For three months? I thank you? Three months? So you
so basically you knew.

Speaker 8 (51:56):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (51:57):
When you see somebody as pretty as my wife, Yeah,
you like that down? You lock her down. Look, if
I could have got pregnant, you wanted to get trapped.
I love you. I'm about to lock it. So the
best you question that you meet? So where'd you guys meet? Well,
we met in.

Speaker 24 (52:15):
Tallahasse So I was producing her sister and we had
just finished her sister's album, and her sister was like, Hey,
come listen to my album by Blah Blah hit a gangsterpart.
Would this the part I've been waiting? We go that
gangs depart. We listened to her sister's album. They leave
out the house.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
First of all, my house is a shambles. Yeah, my
whole entire studio.

Speaker 24 (52:37):
Is running off of a generator because my power is
off because we didn't pay the bills. It is okay now,
not only she looking past that, she looking past how
all of my room smells. I haven't been taking showers
any of that. She walks out the room with all
of her friends and her sisters. After listening to her
sister's album, she says, Hey, don't nobody.

Speaker 3 (52:58):
Talk to him, my husband. I'm to marry him that
I didn't do.

Speaker 4 (53:03):
Look at God, right, when you know you know, isn't
that crazy? Like I guess when you know you know,
because I've never found like so yeah.

Speaker 3 (53:11):
Yeah, look at Louis and they're like, oh my god,
I know this is going to swing our way a sudden. Man. Yeah,
that's what I was saying.

Speaker 4 (53:23):
Body, And when you when you know, you know, And
the crazy thing is that you know she went in
there and she saw, you know, the way of he
was living already, and you know he knew that.

Speaker 3 (53:33):
The yeah man, to the millions of dollars there, it
is what you're gonna do.

Speaker 7 (53:39):
What I said, I don't know what you get. You're
talking about mania right now? What you hate suits, you's
gonna lock you down. Nah man, She's something already came up.

Speaker 3 (53:50):
I don't trust that. I don't know, dude. I just
feels it's for some people to stop for others.

Speaker 19 (53:57):
Let it go.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
I'm still having good chance for baking.

Speaker 10 (54:03):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
You say, what giving chance? Becky g relationship and he
is too. Oh yeah, you too. That's where it can happen.
I don't seen the movies. Let them have his fantasy inding.
Let's have we already had the happy ending delusion. All

(54:25):
let him live over there. You'll continue to hang with
us in the neighborhood. Big Boy neighbor This.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
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Speaker 3 (54:33):
Big Boy, name of Luigi is up in here, loudog,
what's you got my brain? It's towards the end of
the year.

Speaker 7 (54:38):
It's a lot of lists you're gonna see come out
from like Spotify, Apple Music, stuff like that streaming services.

Speaker 3 (54:43):
But I want to talk about the top songs of
twenty twenty five.

Speaker 7 (54:46):
This is a global edition from Apple Music, right all right,
So this is Apple Music's end of the year charts
that are based on plays between November one, twenty twenty four,
and October thirty one, twenty twenty five. Got you all right,
so we got let's go with number five. Number five
is Billie Eilish Birds of a Feather.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
I love this me and my daughter. Oh yeah, I
love a good song. That song is featured in like
a lot of TV shows, a lot of movies, like
it's a popular feel good song.

Speaker 8 (55:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (55:16):
Man. At number you're here here though, Yeah, that's what
we gotta snip it. At number four, we got Kendrick
lamar not like.

Speaker 10 (55:25):
They not like us, not like.

Speaker 22 (55:29):
They're not they not like.

Speaker 3 (55:31):
All right, here we go. At number three, we got
Die with the Smile, Lady got on Bruno mar Oh. Man,
that's another.

Speaker 10 (55:43):
That's another perfect song.

Speaker 3 (55:45):
Right there to me, right there. At number two, we
got Luther Kendrick Lamarin says, why.

Speaker 10 (55:58):
So yeah already?

Speaker 7 (56:00):
Now coming in at number one, you got Rose and
Bruno mars.

Speaker 3 (56:05):
Apt Hey, man, I didn't even mean, I don't know
what the hell this was. I don't know what that
means when I saw it. I heard this song before. Damn,
that's the number one song global when it comes to
twenty two five. A lot of people listen to that song.
What it means?

Speaker 2 (56:27):
Man, If we would have known right before, we would
have found it out. Yeah, I'm pretty sure you can
google and he's not in here right, googled it to
find out what it means.

Speaker 3 (56:35):
But I don't. It's his apartment on my site.

Speaker 4 (56:39):
Mean something else?

Speaker 3 (56:41):
Chuck, No, chuck, chuck.

Speaker 22 (56:42):
What is it?

Speaker 3 (56:47):
Drinking game? I thought I saw something like that. You
don't have somebody to tell you to answer. Yeah, drinking game?

Speaker 22 (56:55):
You know?

Speaker 3 (56:57):
Yeah, yeah, that's all right.

Speaker 7 (57:06):
But another big thing is that the fact that Kendrick
Lamar obviously is on there with not like us. It
is the most stream rap song for Apple Music there.

Speaker 3 (57:15):
It is right there, Yeah, up there twice, man, Bruno
Mars is up there twice.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
That's lovely man. So four of the five spots is
handled by you know, a yeah, I'm just talking about
Kendrick because Kendrick is there.

Speaker 3 (57:35):
Number one yeah rap.

Speaker 7 (57:37):
Song though, and it's dope obviously, we know how big
of an impact that song happened, and it's going to
continue to It's.

Speaker 3 (57:44):
Another thing with all this end of the year, the
opportunity to hang with is in the neighborhood Big Boys.

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Speaker 3 (58:05):
Com is up in here. Heesue's hang loose what you got?
Check this out?

Speaker 5 (58:10):
How crazy is this? And I want to talk to
the fellas here and the ladies to it. But dude,
So this girl named Estella, she's like an influencer. She
just posted a video of her being excited that she's
gonna propose to her boyfriend.

Speaker 13 (58:23):
I mean, what.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
She proposing. I'm surprised you're doing this.

Speaker 5 (58:30):
Story because I'm baffled. I'm baffled because I don't know
what I would do. I didn't have anything together. They've
been together fourteen years. I mean, he says video.

Speaker 14 (58:38):
It's finally hitting me that I'm proposing tomorrow to my boyfriend.
And I know what everybody's gonna think, and I already
know what everybody's gonna say, but honestly, I don't even care.
I love him so much, and I know he loves me,
and this is just something that I feel I have
to do. I really want to get married together. For

(59:01):
fourteen years already, he hasn't proposed. I know he wants
to spend the rest of his life with me. He
says it all the time, and we're hello even after
this long.

Speaker 16 (59:12):
So why not?

Speaker 3 (59:13):
He may want to spend the rest of his life
with her, he just don't want to be married to her.
I know, fourteen years? Stop it? How long you been
with your girl? Live with her for like seven years?
Seven years? Again, y'are not even proposed. I mean, take us.

Speaker 5 (59:26):
Slow, I mean, stell, take it easy. Fourteen years, come down,
take a little baby's So.

Speaker 3 (59:31):
Really, after fourteen years? What about you know?

Speaker 10 (59:33):
You know Myra?

Speaker 3 (59:34):
How long?

Speaker 19 (59:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (59:34):
I take seven years or seven years?

Speaker 2 (59:37):
And not even a proposal, not even a date conversation
and question how long you being with your girl?

Speaker 3 (59:43):
About a year and a half. I think you're going
to be the next one in the neighborhood again, Oh
for sure. You know why I say that because I
think you love your girl. I think you love her
and I think that you want her to be your wife.
Yeah I do, Yeah, I think you love her to
bro love, But honestly, what would you do if you boom?

(01:00:08):
It happens? They ask you if Myra proposed to you, Lou,
do you accept it? Oh my gosh, I don't know.
And then do you accept it? Let me ask this,
do you accepted Lou? A couple of things play it
out for a while, like I could probably get another
four five oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Or she proposed
with a date for next no, no, no.

Speaker 7 (01:00:29):
If it's like, okay, an engagement kind of thing, I
might accept it because I know he still got, you know,
some time to get out.

Speaker 8 (01:00:34):
Or what.

Speaker 3 (01:00:36):
He said to get out to your queen asked you
to marry her? What do you do? I won't be
like embarrassing. I would tell her that I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:49):
Just you just you already have your impatient and you
don't mind. Oh my god, do you know that from
the way your relationship is going now? Quest you you
know that this possibly or this could be or this
is the one?

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
Yeah? Yeah, of course Chris will.

Speaker 5 (01:01:08):
Be like, oh my god, no, but no, see I
wouldn't want to get proposed to, right because you want
to do it?

Speaker 3 (01:01:13):
Yeah, I wouldn't want to yeah, I feel like I
would figure out a way.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Oh girl, I was like fourteen years later. Yeah, and
her man probably made you to get up, get up. Yeah,
she got it, she got ato. Yeah yeah, yeah exactly.
Like finally, I'll continue to hang with us in the neighborhood.

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Speaker 2 (01:01:43):
All right, now, hey, susupposed. Hey, Susse was in here
and he was speaking about Estella.

Speaker 3 (01:01:47):
Estella.

Speaker 5 (01:01:48):
Yeah, this influencers. Apparently she proposed her husband. I mean
she proposed her boyfriend who she's been with for like
fourteen years.

Speaker 14 (01:01:54):
Fourteen years, I'm proposing to my to my boyfriend, and
I know what everybody's gonna think.

Speaker 2 (01:02:04):
So after fourteen years, Estella she proposed to her boyfriend, right,
And so we were talking about that in the neighborhood.
Then Cindy called us up and I got Jay said
was like, man, you need to take this call from Cindy.

Speaker 3 (01:02:15):
So let's go to Cindy and see what's going down.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
Cindy.

Speaker 3 (01:02:18):
Hello, Hello, Hello there, Cindy. Cindy. We'll see there are
you calling from.

Speaker 12 (01:02:24):
I'm calling from West Hills, West.

Speaker 3 (01:02:25):
Heels up in here.

Speaker 2 (01:02:27):
All right, now, Cindy, you heard us speaking on how
Estella the Content Creator, and she was talking about how
she proposed to her guy after fourteen years.

Speaker 3 (01:02:34):
And you have your own story.

Speaker 15 (01:02:36):
Yeah, Well, I was with somebody for seventeen years, and
in the beginning, I gave him everything he asked for.
So he wanted a child, I gave it to him.
You know, prematurely. I shouldn't have done that, but I did, thinking,
you know, the marriage would come afterwards. We weren't going
to be so traditional. Seventeen years later, you know, I'm

(01:02:58):
like asking, hey, what's going on? Around fifth I was like, hey,
what's going on? You know, are we going to get married?
But what are the plans? He would tell me to
be patient, to be patient, to be patient, that he
loved me, that he was happy with their family. I
stayed there, and then one day I decided, you know what,
I'm going to go buy the rings. I'm gonna go
and propose to him myself. And I don't care what

(01:03:20):
anybody thinks because I know how our relationship is.

Speaker 17 (01:03:23):
So I did it.

Speaker 15 (01:03:25):
He accepted, but the way he accepted. It looked like
like kind of disappointment almost, And at that moment, I
was like, I'm an idiot. I was like, I should
have let it be and if he wants to propose, great.
If he doesn't, then it's up to me to stay
there in that relationship or move out.

Speaker 8 (01:03:43):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:03:44):
So what after seventeen years you proposed, did you? Are
you guys married now or what's the dynamic of a
relationship now?

Speaker 15 (01:03:51):
We're we're not married.

Speaker 3 (01:03:53):
We're not.

Speaker 15 (01:03:54):
I mean, we have engagement rings like the bands on,
but like it's I feel like it's just for show.
It's just to keep me calm, you know, like from
bringing it up or talking about it. But I feel
I did a mistake. I did, and I let him know.
I said, you know what, I shouldn't have proposed to you.

Speaker 3 (01:04:12):
That was wrong. How many years has let you take over?
How many years has it been in total? Now, Cindy,
eighteen years? Now? Let me ask you this, Hey, sus
has been with his girl for seven years? Seven years?

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
Yeah, And louis about them, saying, what do you think
about those guys? Are the guys that work with us
in the neighborhood? About them being seven years and they
have a child with the girl and everything, what would
you what would you tail their girl?

Speaker 15 (01:04:38):
I would tell them to you know, either you know,
to get off the pot. You know, it's like either either.

Speaker 8 (01:04:46):
You know.

Speaker 15 (01:04:47):
It's like I don't even know the thing for it
right now because I'm like so tongue twisted. But it's
just messed up to the female because she's carrying, she
carried your child. She she has to go to appointments,
you know that, right, and she has to give different
last names for the child for herself, and who's the
dad another last name. That's all embarrassing. Yeah, shame on

(01:05:08):
the woman. And I don't think enough guys think about that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:11):
Damn. Okay, yeah, this got real. First of all. Yeah,
so you said, you say shame on the woman.

Speaker 15 (01:05:20):
Yeah, because we as women, we shouldn't put up with that.
We should say, hey, you know what, this is my limit.
I can't take it anymore. But a lot of women
are happy in those marriages or I'm sorry relationships as
I was. I mean, i am I'm still in that relationship,
but you know, I'm already in my head thinking it's
not going to happen. So I'm over it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:41):
How many kids do y'all have in total? Now, Cindy,
we have two.

Speaker 15 (01:05:45):
They're pretty grown. I have a twenty year old and
a thirteen year old.

Speaker 3 (01:05:53):
No worries. And you said when you proposed to him,
you he said yes, Well you felt like he was
like god, damn.

Speaker 18 (01:05:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 15 (01:06:00):
It was kind of like he twisted his face. He
didn't he didn't look at me in my eyes and like.

Speaker 3 (01:06:04):
With like, oh she tried that in front of people.

Speaker 15 (01:06:08):
No, it was just me and him alone.

Speaker 10 (01:06:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 15 (01:06:11):
And I did it for that reason because I had
I had a feeling that it wasn't going to be like,
oh my god, yeah, of course, why would.

Speaker 20 (01:06:18):
You do this?

Speaker 15 (01:06:19):
I was going to do it myself.

Speaker 3 (01:06:20):
No, it didn't.

Speaker 11 (01:06:21):
It wasn't like that.

Speaker 15 (01:06:22):
It was just kind of like yeah, all right, cool
yeah wow. And he and then to top it off,
he wouldn't wear the rings that the band like he
He would leave it at home and he would come
up with excuses like, oh, I didn't know you wanted
me to wear it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:34):
Oh wow, did you, Cindy, did you like talk to
any of your friends or your family members like that
you were going to do that?

Speaker 3 (01:06:41):
Wow?

Speaker 15 (01:06:42):
Yeah, I talked to my mom. I talked to my
sisters and they all told me, like, you're stupid. They'll think,
why are you doing this? You're spending your money on
you know, the rings and this and that and when
did you do the people?

Speaker 3 (01:06:54):
But when did did you propose? Was it last year
or so?

Speaker 15 (01:06:58):
Or yeah, last year?

Speaker 19 (01:07:01):
Thanksgiving Jesus Christ?

Speaker 2 (01:07:04):
Alrighty, well, thank you for your call, man. I know
hates saying uh Louis. They got to be mad at
our guy that screened the call.

Speaker 4 (01:07:11):
Yeah, we needed that.

Speaker 2 (01:07:15):
Yeah, hold on for a second, city, don't hang up.
Alrighty now, we want to hear from you as well.
If your relationship no, that's not even it.

Speaker 3 (01:07:22):
She the album one.

Speaker 2 (01:07:25):
Hell yeah man, Now we're gonna get all these proposal
Hold on for continue to hang with us in the neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (01:07:32):
Big Boy neighbor is big Boy on demand.

Speaker 3 (01:07:35):
Big oh Man. I couldn't wait for Madiana to tell
this story right here. Yes, amen, she's about to talk
about something. I just played a little piece of like
her clip because she's over there. Group liked now.

Speaker 4 (01:07:48):
Got moneycause Rihanna's music puts me in that vibe, especially
this album Anti, which she recently you know, she hit
a crazy milestone with that album, and it dropped in
twenty sixteen, so it's crazy that it's still it's still
something right now. So it officially became the first album
by a black female artist to stay on the Billboard
two hundred for five hundred weeks. Wow, And that's like

(01:08:12):
almost already after ten years. Man, congratulations, And she hasn't
dropped any music since. Yeah, I know, yeah, no, she
really does. I mean she's working on you know, her
makeup line, her lingerie lines.

Speaker 3 (01:08:30):
A mom, and she's a mom, so like, get it,
get it. I'm at you, right.

Speaker 18 (01:08:35):
I know.

Speaker 4 (01:08:35):
And that album specifically reminds me of how I wanted
to go so bad, but I wasn't down to call
off work, so I didn't do it because my my
friends were going and they were like, yeah, we got
some last minutes ticket, let's go see her. Yes to
go see her. And I was like, she'll have another one,
you know, she'll go on tour. And never did I
think that this girl was not going to keep touring

(01:08:58):
like I really did. Like she's so young, you know, that's.

Speaker 3 (01:09:00):
Why you're like, man, she really gonna show to the
super Bowl?

Speaker 21 (01:09:02):
Right?

Speaker 4 (01:09:05):
But yeah, so you were saying like here, yes, like
you know, I really thought that I never and then
you know, she tapped in makeup, she tapped into like
her clothing line with the lingerie, and that was it.

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
She was like, why uh right, hey man, there's a
live version of her singing this.

Speaker 10 (01:09:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:09:26):
And I don't even know if they have it online,
but I used to play this all the time. I
think they took it down.

Speaker 4 (01:09:31):
Yeah, the song is so good that one time my
sister hit a car because we were jamming out to the.

Speaker 11 (01:09:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:09:41):
It was a small it was a small car accident,
so she was sacking up and we were like, we
were just singing this si yeah, and then I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:09:54):
Guy hit another car.

Speaker 10 (01:09:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 22 (01:09:58):
I'm like, man, Rihanna, Yeah, go on there, hey man,
Rihanna is a machine.

Speaker 3 (01:10:17):
Man, She's a machine.

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
And I think that's the gift and the curse of
why we want to hear so much more music from her.

Speaker 3 (01:10:24):
And I know she gotta be tired of people asking
we got to get.

Speaker 4 (01:10:33):
Another kid from her.

Speaker 2 (01:10:35):
Continue to hang with us in the neighborhood once again, Rihanna. Congratulations,
Big Boys, Big.

Speaker 8 (01:10:40):
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Speaker 3 (01:10:48):
Boys Neighborhood Louis g up in here?

Speaker 10 (01:10:50):
What up?

Speaker 3 (01:10:51):
Blue Dog? All right? I think when it comes to
write cheers, everyone is probably used one. Right. One of
the worst parts of.

Speaker 7 (01:10:56):
You to do is like when it's the when it's like, sir,
time when you had an event, we had a concert,
we had something other experiences all the time, bro, and
it's just such a headache.

Speaker 3 (01:11:05):
So first of all, get one. Then second of all,
want you see the prices?

Speaker 7 (01:11:08):
You're like whatever, You're like crazy, right, So a lot
of people tend to leave early so they can beat
the traffic, so they can get that uber without the
surch charge.

Speaker 3 (01:11:15):
But got it? This is what's happening with this one girl.

Speaker 7 (01:11:17):
She's calling Uber out because of she left the work
early before a game ended at this arena.

Speaker 10 (01:11:22):
Uber.

Speaker 25 (01:11:23):
I'm going to give you twenty four hours to respond
to this, because how is this legal? I have been
standing outside in the cold for over twenty minutes waiting
for a ride because I keep requesting an UBER. I
just got off of work. I just got off of work.
The game is not out yet. Okay, you see the
stadium all the way over there.

Speaker 10 (01:11:39):
Game's not out yet.

Speaker 1 (01:11:41):
There is a whole line of.

Speaker 20 (01:11:43):
Ubers uber Uber Uber Uber Uber Uber uber Uber.

Speaker 25 (01:11:46):
They accept my request, then immediately cancel it. Then immediately
cancel it because they want a higher rate, and they're
waiting for the stadium to actually let out, so that
then I'm paying the surcharge all because I need to
get home from work.

Speaker 3 (01:12:00):
That How is that legal?

Speaker 18 (01:12:01):
Like?

Speaker 3 (01:12:01):
How is that legal?

Speaker 25 (01:12:02):
How are you guys able to keep accepting and then
canceling accepting it and canceling. I literally, I've never seen
something like this.

Speaker 10 (01:12:09):
This is quite the scale.

Speaker 3 (01:12:11):
Oh now I understand.

Speaker 7 (01:12:13):
She's literally standing there with like maybe one hundred ubers
in line, Wow, chilling waiting to pick up these people. Okay,
I get it, but they're accepting and canceling because there's
a thing where they kind of have to accept something regardless.

Speaker 2 (01:12:26):
You're kind of like an area or something. Let me
ask you this, hey, suits, have you ever did an
Uber driver? I mean, have you ever been an Uber
driver or ever done over driving? Done everything? I was
a mad driver, but not an Uber driver, But.

Speaker 3 (01:12:40):
I understand the hustle though I would do the same thing. Yeah,
that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (01:12:44):
Some of the comments, some people who will write your
drivers were also commenting like, well, yeah, you know what
when you're at these events, like there's a lot of traffic,
it's going to take forever to get out, and to
do it for just a cheap, cheap price, is it
worth our time?

Speaker 3 (01:12:56):
But then yeah, but they I think they got an
argument to yes, yes, and oh yes and oh.

Speaker 5 (01:13:03):
But I also think that it's like, dude, he's gotta
pay bills, he's probably got kids, Like yeah, I would
definitely go.

Speaker 3 (01:13:09):
Hey soon she has an argument like do y'all canceling me?
I'm right here, I'm trying to get home. Can usually
get a cab, get a cab, by a scooter and
get a car.

Speaker 10 (01:13:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:13:22):
I can't wait till it happened to you again. You're
gonna come out of one of your sould try to
get a ride.

Speaker 5 (01:13:28):
It's happened, It's happened, you know, and get that uber
that smells and then it's terrible.

Speaker 3 (01:13:33):
Hey man.

Speaker 2 (01:13:33):
I remember I was at my in laws crib and
I was like I was going to Vet was like, oh,
if you want to go, you can leave earlier.

Speaker 3 (01:13:39):
I probably do a uber and I don't do ride cheers.

Speaker 15 (01:13:41):
Ye.

Speaker 3 (01:13:41):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:13:41):
It was like, just put it this way to get
me from uh like East Vale, I e to my crib.
I paid less for my first car, Like I could
have literally went somewhere and bought a bucket and drove
it to the house and just left it there or
handed it to somebody and say, hey, you can have

(01:14:02):
his car. Yeah man, yeah, tune to fifty dollars for
my first car. I was like, no, I'm I was like,
I'm just gonna stay here.

Speaker 3 (01:14:12):
In the neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (01:14:13):
Big boy is Big Boys Neighborhood on demand.

Speaker 3 (01:14:16):
Big is up in here. Heyesu's hang loose what you got, bro?

Speaker 5 (01:14:20):
Public service announcement talking to people who are going to
be traveling for the holidays.

Speaker 3 (01:14:24):
Everybody's going to be out there.

Speaker 5 (01:14:25):
And I heard this thing on the news that now
they're talking about they want you to dress up when
you go to the airport.

Speaker 3 (01:14:31):
Really yeah, no more? What is it like sweats hoodies?
Enough of that. You gotta respect the flight attendance and
the service. I saw the news. I couldn't believe it.

Speaker 16 (01:14:43):
Let's try not to wear slippers and uh in pajamas
as we come to the airport. But I think we
have to think about how do we do a better job,
how do we you know, maintain maybe some of that
frustration we have as we travel this Thanksgiving season. Maybe
we should say please and thank you to our pilots
and to our quite att tendance. Again, I call this, uh,
just maybe dressing with some respect, you know, whether it's

(01:15:05):
a pair of jeans and a and a and a
decent shirt. I would encourage people to maybe dress a
little better, which encourage us, encourages us to maybe behave
all a little better. Let's try not to wear slippers
in and uh in pajamas as we come to the airport.

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
It's obvious he's not a rep though. Yeah, exactly. And
I saw this story on the news, bro and they
did the you know, the b ro shots. It was
literally just blacks and Mexicans showing I think white girls
and a jean. I mean, see them, they're sweats and yeah, everybody, Bro, I'm.

Speaker 5 (01:15:41):
Not gonna wear no jeans and a dressed up sure,
but enough to go like from Ellie to New York, Like, no,
I want to be comfortable, man.

Speaker 3 (01:15:48):
You see, like them old movies where they all were
like suits.

Speaker 5 (01:15:51):
Yeah, yeah, Well, I'm blown away that some people actually
do dress uping, Like what.

Speaker 4 (01:15:58):
I make it a point to dress up when I
come to the airport, have my hair done and my
makeup done every single time. I think that there is
a lot to be said about someone who.

Speaker 10 (01:16:07):
The best time.

Speaker 3 (01:16:08):
He definitely never flew home from Vegas at eight in
the morning, exactly. You ever see them girls at the airport?
They were wearing shades and a hoodie. Yeah, man, they
skim sweatsuits. Are strippers coming back from Vegas? Oh? Yeah, man,
we loaded. I dressed very comfortable.

Speaker 2 (01:16:26):
And you can tell with that with that audio of
the lady from the same place where the guy was at.

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
Yeah, you can tell that together. Dress how you dress,
you know, it used to be one of them things
get ready, but now people are like very casual. Man
should be, especially as crazy as these ticket prices are.

Speaker 2 (01:16:44):
Like, Man, if I got to wear a suit, take
a couple hundred dollars off my chick, I put on
some jeans or college.

Speaker 5 (01:16:50):
Take off the cold and then take off the tie
and then take off dress shoes.

Speaker 3 (01:16:55):
Hit.

Speaker 4 (01:16:56):
Yeah, what am I going to dress up for that
tiny ass little space.

Speaker 3 (01:16:59):
Can excuse me, man, y'all are shirt.

Speaker 4 (01:17:03):
Hi stepping on my lemon pepper steppers.

Speaker 3 (01:17:10):
I ain't gonna start boring you. Anyone with a neck
tie on your first of all backback suitcase a shirt
with just a neck tie on, and excuse me past
what is in the neighborhood Big boyhood?

Speaker 10 (01:17:30):
Eighties?

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
You find a big boy from Big Boys neighborhood on
iHeart radio boy, there's another in case you missed it moment,
it's ups up in here. Why did you cut someone off?

Speaker 4 (01:17:40):
I cut someone off once because my friend she did eyelashes,
and then I went to her so she could do
my eylashes, but she was learning. My whole eyelashes came off,
and then she got mad at me because I went
with somebody else like the second time, but she was
still learning. So I'm like, I don't know, this is weird.
And then she kind of kept like saying comments here
and there, like poing, and I'm like, dude, my whole

(01:18:02):
lesh just came.

Speaker 3 (01:18:03):
Off, bald, Yeah, what are you talking about? And they
still look crazy?

Speaker 10 (01:18:07):
You know, thank you for listening.

Speaker 3 (01:18:11):
It is you find a big boy big Boys neighborhood.
You could catch more of us right here on iHeart Radio.

Speaker 7 (01:18:16):
Neighborhood Luigi in the Neighborhood, The Neighborhood, Becky G you
documentary Rebecca that's going to be coming out. She sat
down with us and she was talking everything about the documentary. Man,
no spoiler alerts, know nothing, which I love because once
she watched this movie, Once you watched the documentary, you're
gonna love it.

Speaker 18 (01:18:33):
Dude.

Speaker 3 (01:18:33):
You can relate so much to her. I know I
did for sure. When it comes to family and grandpa
and grandma and parents and stuff. It's great to watch
her journey.

Speaker 7 (01:18:40):
Yeah, But she did mention something in here that she
didn't include in the documentary, and this was a moment
that happened and I think, I don't know while she
was in school when she was young.

Speaker 18 (01:18:49):
I didn't share this part in the doc but I
was reflecting on it the other day, like it really
hit when Like in my mind, I remember wearing uniform
to school, and elementary school was like the coolest things.
I used to see all the Disney Channel movie, you know,
like and I'm like, Oh, they're the private school kids
in their cool uniforms. And I would try to like
I don't know stylize my uniform in some kind of way.

(01:19:10):
I'd always get sent to the principal's office for stylizing
it too much. But I remember this like reality hitting
me when I think everybody remembers when you'd have to
punch in your code for your lunch. You get in line,
you get your lunch, and then you punch in your code.
And I didn't know that my lunch credit was at
zero and you only get three strikes. And it was

(01:19:31):
my third day punching my code in and there was
there was no credit, and so they took my lunch.
And you're a kid like You're like, I'm not gonna
eat lunch.

Speaker 4 (01:19:39):
But then also like that's embarrassing.

Speaker 18 (01:19:41):
You had the food in your hand, you picked it out,
and now it's well, I got to tell my mom
I didn't eat lunch today, and I get home and
I'm gonna cry. But you know, that was the first
time my mom ever had to check homeus if we
didn't have an address to claim. You know, this is
why my daughter neats free meals. And it's those moments

(01:20:01):
that I'm so sorry. They shape you, you know, they
really form you. And I'm really proud that my mom
asked for help. She had to make sure her kids
got fed, and so seeing my parents do that made
me want to show up that way in the world too.

Speaker 10 (01:20:18):
Hey man.

Speaker 2 (01:20:19):
When when she was explaining that, I think everyone here
and so many people that's listening you you you remember
or even now, just having to do without, you know
what I'm saying, and that reality of you know that
sometimes you don't even realize how bad things are until
you kind of look in the rear view mirror, you know.
And there were times when we were we were homeless,

(01:20:40):
and I'm thinking like, oh, we got a swimming pool,
you know, because you know we had a you'll be
at a motel or like a swimming pool, and then
when you look back, you're like, wait, damn, we were homeless,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:20:50):
We had each other, but you know, you just don't
have those those those things. I remember having to pick
up my mom and her calling me like, hell, can
you pick me up from work? They just let me go.

Speaker 7 (01:20:59):
Yeah, man, her up after working like a marryout for
like seventeen something years, and I had to go pick
her up. And that was when I was like, we
don't she doesn't have a job or are we gonna survive?

Speaker 3 (01:21:10):
Yeah, it's real. It's a real situation.

Speaker 10 (01:21:11):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:21:12):
When you watch just her journey and you watch the
family dynamic and you watch you know, not just saying
too much, but the relationship with her dad, just everything.

Speaker 18 (01:21:20):
Man.

Speaker 3 (01:21:20):
I thought. I thought she really put it out there, man,
and she was very vulnerable in it.

Speaker 10 (01:21:24):
Interviews.

Speaker 3 (01:21:25):
Yeah, like I watch.

Speaker 4 (01:21:26):
I loved every moment of it. You know, she described
the whole documentary, but aside from that, you know, she
also talked about something that she didn't bring up in
the documentary.

Speaker 2 (01:21:34):
Yeah, man, in that documentary, it'll be a theatrical release
on the tenth and thirteenth, and then I don't know
where it lands at after that, you know what I'm saying,
But shout out once to get.

Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
In to Becky g.

Speaker 2 (01:21:43):
You can find that entire interview is right there big
Boy TV our YouTube channel, and as you're watching, hit
that subscribe button you'all continue to hang with us in
the neighborhood Big Boys neighbor Big.

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
Boys Neighborhood on demand.

Speaker 8 (01:21:53):
For more, subscribe to our YouTube channel, big Boy TV,
and check out Radio Bigboy dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:22:00):
Big Boy neighborhood Madiana in the neighborhood Mantitude party.

Speaker 3 (01:22:03):
What you Got.

Speaker 4 (01:22:04):
Becky g came by in the neighborhood and it was
my first time meeting her. She has great energy and
you know, aside from you know her singing and you
know her personality that we love. I think what I
love the most about her is also how vocal she
is about speaking out about the issues in our communities.
And I really loved when you asked her about you know,
how she fell about the ice raids.

Speaker 3 (01:22:25):
Dead ass.

Speaker 18 (01:22:25):
The only eyes I want is in my tequila, Like,
get out of here. I think there's such a resiliency
to Los Angeles. I think there's a resiliency to our
people and everything that we've been through, not just with
this administration but in general with the past few years
has been crazy. And I just hope that my community
remembers what we're made of and doesn't give into what

(01:22:47):
we're being told we are right, because we are so
much more. And I think part of our resistance is
our celebration. Is that, regardless rain or shine, like, we
show up. And it's a scary time right now because
a lot of people can't physically show up. Yeah, So
those of us who are privileged enough and I say
privileged with a capital P, because we have privileges that

(01:23:07):
some don't, we should be showing up. We should be
speaking out. I think speaking out and showing up looks
different for everybody. I understand that there's also a fear
of saying the wrong thing. You know, something that you
say getting misconstrued. I'd rather you try than to not.

Speaker 3 (01:23:23):
What about the people that would tell you, you know,
or when you hear shut up and sing yeah.

Speaker 18 (01:23:28):
That's I've been told shut up and say We've been
told shut up and dribble.

Speaker 3 (01:23:30):
We've been told all the things you know I give
where you know, you guys are too political and we're
not a political show. It's just what's going on in
the world. How can I not.

Speaker 18 (01:23:39):
That's when I raise my hand and I say, you
don't want to do politics. Our existence is political, from
our school systems right to our healthcare to systemically like yes, literally,
what color each one of us are determines our walk
home at the end of the day. In this country,
that's crazy, and in a lot of countries actually, But

(01:23:59):
like I said, we're so privileged to be here, to
have the opportunities that we have. It is without question
if I'm going to speak up for my community, and
I'm very proud to do that. It's an honor to
be able to do it, and I'm very proud of
others who have also chosen to take that step for themselves.

Speaker 3 (01:24:16):
I love to hear her speak, not the tone of
her voice, yeah, but I love to hear her speak same.

Speaker 4 (01:24:22):
Yeah, it's like she she understands and you know, like
when we watch her documentary, we talked about her upbringing,
the struggles that she went through. So just watching her
be vocal about the issues in our communities, I think
somebody like hers is so important to see.

Speaker 3 (01:24:36):
And I think especially when being vocal sometimes.

Speaker 4 (01:24:40):
Could be Yeah, you know, it can backfire on you.

Speaker 3 (01:24:45):
Yeah, definitely, backfire can blow up on you.

Speaker 2 (01:24:47):
And some walk with caution, and I can understand that too,
But also when you see someone that use their voice,
and sometimes you got to be the voice for the voiceless.
And when I asked her a question, I was thinking, well,
maybe he's not going to answer you, and not not
like I got you, but some people just not comfortable,
you know what I'm saying, But shout out to Becky G.
Once again, you can find that entire interview is right

(01:25:09):
there Big Boy TV our YouTube channel, and as you're watching,
hit the subscribe button. Y'all continue to hang with us
in the neighborhood, Big Boys Neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (01:25:16):
This is Big Boy on demand, Big Boy Neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (01:25:42):
Louis G is up in here with a friend of
the neighborhood. Big interview with Becky G. Yeah, man, I
love Becky G.

Speaker 13 (01:25:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:25:48):
We had a great conversation with her. She was talking
about your success man, and now it can mean anything.
And out of all people, Pitbull one out of all
people successful, yeah, success. She like saw him at an
event and she saw him speaking about success.

Speaker 3 (01:26:04):
Pitbull shout out to Peo Bull.

Speaker 10 (01:26:05):
Uh.

Speaker 18 (01:26:06):
I remember seeing him speak at like a conference and
he goes, you know, you grow up hearing more money,
more problems. I like to think more money, more solutions
and take.

Speaker 4 (01:26:15):
Out the money.

Speaker 18 (01:26:16):
Success in general, success is not determined by a number
in your bank account. Success could be anything.

Speaker 3 (01:26:24):
Yeah, it really can.

Speaker 4 (01:26:25):
You know what does it mean to you to be successful?

Speaker 3 (01:26:28):
Right?

Speaker 18 (01:26:28):
And most times in communities like ours, like the biggest
dream is to buy mom house and to think that
there are people who start there and they don't even
have to worry about their entire community.

Speaker 4 (01:26:37):
They got to work.

Speaker 18 (01:26:38):
Their point is that I'm just going for my dreams.
I don't got to carry an entire tribe of people
on my back. But that's what to me is like,
I'm so thankful for that because it keeps me in check.

Speaker 2 (01:26:48):
And when you see her new documentary Rebecca, you see
how hard she works. Oh yeah, you know, and great
family support, but you know she she's the one that
kind of said I I have to do this. And
we had a chance to talk about that in the
neighborhood as well. Man Like, it's not a pressure. It
could be a pressure you put on yourself, whatever it
may be, but it's that will to do something to

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change your family dynamic. And when we had him in
the neighborhood for the big interview, that was such a
similarity for me as well.

Speaker 3 (01:27:15):
You know what I'm saying. I think in the documentary
you see the growth.

Speaker 7 (01:27:18):
If we're talking about somebody who wanted to work at
nine o'clock, creating a contract with their parents, yeah and
nine years old, yeah, nine years old, and yes, nine
years old and wanted to be successful, and then you
know her planning the next five years and in there
you see like I want to do this within the
next five years, and then just the growth and the
accomplishments that she makes. But at the same time, it's
family that's keeping her together. She takes the family on

(01:27:39):
the road. Yeah, she always involved the brother.

Speaker 2 (01:27:42):
You need to tax the mom because there's a DJ Yeah,
and you need that man. And I've known Becky probably
since he was fourteen thirteen. Yeah, and just to see
her grow into this woman, you know, and how not
just the success, but how strong she is, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:28:00):
Inspired, Yeah, very much, like you know, yeah, with the
documentary when she came in and she just like broke
it down with everything meant, I was like, wow, just
so inspired by her.

Speaker 2 (01:28:09):
Yeah, she's dope as hell. Man, She's dope as hell.
And you want to you want to see her smile continue.
It's a lot because there's a lot of things do
and you when you watch the documentary Rebecca, you see
like a lot of the pressures and people.

Speaker 3 (01:28:22):
Think like, oh, it comes with it, you know, it
comes with the gig.

Speaker 2 (01:28:25):
All those are champagne problems, Like you know, you got
to treat people as human beings as well.

Speaker 3 (01:28:30):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:28:30):
And I don't know why people feel like celebrities. They
can handle things that you can't, right, you know, and
it just come with it. You could just say the
most craziest things, man. So shout out to Rebecca Yes,
Becky G.

Speaker 3 (01:28:42):
For being in the neighborhood. You can find that entire interview.
It's right there.

Speaker 2 (01:28:45):
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hit that subscribe button. Y'all continue to hang with us
in the neighborhood, Big Boys neighbor.

Speaker 1 (01:28:53):
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Speaker 2 (01:28:55):
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what you got.

Speaker 4 (01:28:58):
We had Becky G in the neighborhood, and you know,
when she stopped by, she shared a lot about her documentary,
but we got to see another side of her and
she explained what she or how she dealt with anxiety.

Speaker 3 (01:29:09):
My daughter has anxiety and there's been times when you know,
and hopefully I'm not putting too much out there, Chula, No,
you're good, but you know, she couldn't, she couldn't cheer.
She she didn't, she doesn't want to go to school,
and and it's like it could be deep and then
ten minutes later it could be okay. Then there's times
when it's it happens more frequently, you know, and early

(01:29:30):
on I thought it was a snap out of it
or just our culture.

Speaker 18 (01:29:35):
It's like my grandmother would say, like, you're not depressed,
just eat something, just during something, You're fine, you know,
like oh ways, yeah, And there are times where you
will learn, yeah, I am not my thoughts. My my
thoughts are not facts. Sometimes they are suggestions from the
most wounded part of myself, just trying to protect and

(01:29:55):
survive this moment. So sometimes you're like, Okay, how would
I feel if I did show up for myself and
this opportunity, would I regret it? On the other side, absolutely,
I gotta do it. I know it's going to take
a lot out of me. I know I'm gonna have
to really find the source to show up for this.

Speaker 4 (01:30:09):
But I'm doing it for myself.

Speaker 3 (01:30:11):
That's so beautiful.

Speaker 18 (01:30:12):
But I do think that when people are struggling with
like a dysregulated nervous system, like you aren't only like
feeling wild up here, you're also like in your body,
like there was you know, there's fight, flight, freeze, all
those things that people now can identify for themselves, but like,
there are moments where you're like, I feel.

Speaker 4 (01:30:31):
So just numb, like I can't get up out of bed,
and that's very real.

Speaker 3 (01:30:35):
You like late to getting on a stage, or you know,
or I've had a.

Speaker 18 (01:30:40):
Few moments where I've had panic attacks right before I
go on stage, and I still go on stage because
the performer in me, that that little girl that doesn't
want to let anybody down, that doesn't want to cancel
the show, that doesn't want to and I still did it.
Parts of me are proud of that, and there's also
parts of me that wish I would have advocated for
myself differently and said there's nothing more important then your

(01:31:01):
well being. And again, if I expect other people to
do that for me, I gotta do it for myself.

Speaker 3 (01:31:05):
And I didn't have that.

Speaker 18 (01:31:07):
I didn't have the ability to say no. And so
there are moments in my career that I share in
this documentary reflecting on it, where I know where certain
clips are from and what phases they're from, and I'm like, Damn,
that was a really dark.

Speaker 3 (01:31:19):
Time, hey man.

Speaker 2 (01:31:20):
When you see the documentary Rebecca, you see her going
through you know, an anxiety episode, yeah, the panic attacks,
and you just look, man. And there's times when, even
with my daughter early on, I thought it was a
push Like I said, I thought it was a push through, right,
or just as simple you could beat it. And then
you have to you have to learn that it's it's

(01:31:42):
real things, and it's real holdbacks, and it's real anxiety,
and there's real panic, and there's real there's real issues,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:31:49):
So, and I think you're starting to see it more, right.

Speaker 4 (01:31:52):
Yeah. I love that she was vocal about it because
you know, it's not something that we know in our communities.
You know, it's not introduced to us. Like I never
knew I have anxiety and panic attacks sometimes, but I
never knew that that was what it was until I
went to therapy and I talked about him. They're like, wait,
you actually have anxiety. I'm like, what is anxiety?

Speaker 8 (01:32:09):
You know?

Speaker 4 (01:32:10):
So when she talked about that about how you know,
her grandparents and her her mom was like, oh, like
you know, go do something, you.

Speaker 3 (01:32:16):
Know, yeah, and you don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:32:18):
And then as a dad, I didn't know, right, you know,
and now you know, I overstand. Now you know I
don't just understand, I overstand. But you can find that
entire interview is right there big Boy TV our YouTube channel,
and as you're watching, hit the subscribe button once again.
Shout out to Becky G. Rebecca is the name of
the documentary as coming man.

Speaker 3 (01:32:36):
It's in theaters on December tenth and thirteenth, and I'm
pretty sure to fall to a streaming service after that.

Speaker 2 (01:32:40):
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Speaker 8 (01:32:43):
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Speaker 3 (01:32:52):
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Speaker 7 (01:32:54):
What I'm doing all the neighborhood Becky G. Yes, sir
you documentary Rebecca. It explains a lot about her life
from a kid to now, bro, and it's so amazing
to see. But obviously, like growing up so young and
being a superstar at such a young age, you gotta
imagine she went through a phase where there was really
not a lot of social media to now everything is
social media.

Speaker 3 (01:33:13):
Yeah, yeah, the device is there, bro? Oh yeah. So
she talked about just you know, just all the hate
and love all and you see it in the documentary
Rebecca as well. And how do you deal with it?
Some people could say, oh, comments don't hurt.

Speaker 18 (01:33:25):
You can have it, yeah, put the phone down, they
got to shut it off.

Speaker 10 (01:33:28):
Yeah, man, and you.

Speaker 3 (01:33:29):
Can have a thousand Hey, I love it, you know.
And that's not what you're looking for. But it's that
one where you're just like yeah, And some people that's
what they do and they don't understand. Sometimes man, they
probably forget that they even hurt you, you know what
I'm saying. And it could be somebody that you cant
have you ever met anyone or clap back at somebody
if you ever had a clap back face, And.

Speaker 4 (01:33:53):
It's so hard, it's so hard.

Speaker 18 (01:33:54):
You want to be able to defend yourself. But then
you're also like this in the ground scheme of things,
with all of the things I have to be thankful for,
this is what I'm gonna let rob my energy take
the joy. No, and I can't. I can't let myself
do that anymore. It's hard every day practice absolutely absolutely

(01:34:17):
Still it still happens. It's still a conscious everyday choice.

Speaker 4 (01:34:20):
I think that there are certain practices.

Speaker 18 (01:34:22):
And filters that I started to implement to help better
my relationship with growing up on the internet, because you know,
I being so young, being told there's something wrong with
your physical features, or like being a woman enough is
already something that people feel entitled to judge you on,
you know, whether it's how you physically present yourself again,

(01:34:44):
all these small moments in time that people try to
define you by, and I just I know too much now,
I know better.

Speaker 3 (01:34:51):
I know that that's that's not me, and that's a projection.

Speaker 2 (01:34:55):
You know what I think is wow when people say
that's what they signed up FORTI just signed up for,
or their skin and you developed thick skin on whatever,
but their skin gotta be thicker than anyone else's. You know,
I couldn't imagine having social media when I was five
hundred pounds. I couldn't imagine. I couldn't imagine what my

(01:35:15):
comments would have looked like. You know, and I'm pretty
sure everybody in here get a crazy comment, you know
what I'm saying, but that it would have been full,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:35:23):
And in the documentary Rebecca, you see her just going
through some of the negative comments. Oh my gosh, man,
you get them low, Oh yeah, right, then I apologize.
It's like you can never say anything right or do
anything right.

Speaker 4 (01:35:40):
Yeah, man, yeah, here and there I get some, but
you know, I try not to pay attention to them
because again, like I don't want them. I don't want
those comments to take over my piece.

Speaker 3 (01:35:51):
Hard sometimes man, Once again, shout out to Becky G.

Speaker 2 (01:35:53):
You can find that entire interview is right there big
Boy TV our YouTube channel, and as you watch him,
hit the subscribe button you to hang with us in
the neighborhood Big Boys.

Speaker 1 (01:36:02):
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Speaker 3 (01:36:09):
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Speaker 4 (01:36:12):
What you got when Becky G came in the neighborhood, Man,
she shared obviously a lot about the documentary. The documentary, Yes,
and you know when she was homeless and she found
so much joy in like just living in the garage,
you know, but know she was around her cousins and
her family.

Speaker 3 (01:36:29):
Amen.

Speaker 2 (01:36:29):
And it was a way that we said that where
I was talking about when we were homeless. It was
times when I was like, oh, we got a pool, right,
you know how you how you just kind of think
as a kid. She was kind of saying the same
thing the way that she viewed it.

Speaker 18 (01:36:40):
I was like, Oh, I'm living with my cousins, you know,
like and which, by the way, I realized after I,
you know, shared that that story for so many years,
there's so many of us who have couch surfed, slept
on the floor of you know, a loved one's house,
lived with some family members for a few years before
you can get your feet on the ground. Like how

(01:37:01):
beautiful is it that we have our villages, our tribes,
our community of people to count on and to feel
safe in. And I'm thankful that I had that in
my grandparents. I'm thankful that my parents, you know, kind
of surrendered in that moment, because you could pretend to
be something that you're not in that moment, and they
knew we needed somewhere to stay. We could have lived,

(01:37:22):
you know, probably somewhere else, and there we couldn't. We
actually couldn't. I didn't share this part in the doc,
but I was reflecting on it the other day, like
it really hit when like in my mind. I remember
wearing uniform to school in elementary school was like the
coolest thing because I used to see all the Disney
Channel movies, you know, like and I'm like, oh, they're
the private school kids in their cool uniforms. And I

(01:37:44):
would try to, like I don't know, stylize my uniform
in some kind of way. I'd always get sent to
the principal's office.

Speaker 4 (01:37:50):
For stylizing it too much.

Speaker 18 (01:37:52):
But I remember this like reality hitting me when I
think everybody remembers when you have to put in your
code for your lunch. You get in line, you get
your lunch, and then you punch in your code. And
I didn't know that my lunch credit was at zero
and you only get three strikes. And it was my
third day punching my code in and there was there
was no credit, and so they took my lunch. And

(01:38:14):
you're a kid, like you're like, I'm not gonna eat lunch.
But then also like that's embarrassing. You had the food
in your hand, you picked it out, and now it's well,
I got to tell my mom I didn't eat lunch today,
and I get home and I'm gonna cry. But you
know that was the first time my mom ever had
to check homeless if we didn't have an address to claim.
You know, this is why my daughter needs free meals.

(01:38:37):
And it's those moments that I'm so sorry. They shape you,
you know, they really form you. And I'm really proud
that my mom asked for help. She had to make
sure her kids got fed, and so seeing my parents
do that made me want to show up that way
in the world too.

Speaker 4 (01:38:57):
That's so powerful, it really is, and you know, it's
an inspiration and the fact that she was vulnerable enough
to just talk about those things. This is why I
think we're so proud of her because you know, we
watched that story about her and now she's like accomplishing
her dreams, but she really came from nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:39:12):
Yeah, man, And I think that she inspires so many
and I think when people see the the full documentary Rebecca,
there'll be a different respect for Becky g as well Man.
You can find the entire interview. It's right there Big
Boy TV our YouTube channel. As you're watching, hit that
subscribe button, y'all continue to hang with us in the neighborhood.

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Speaker 7 (01:39:42):
My family, we always say we're gonna do a gift exchange,
and then we draw names and then eventually that one
there's always that one person that buy extra givets for
everybody else want to.

Speaker 3 (01:39:53):
You know, man, my mother in law, she will still
trying to like give me money. Here you go. I'm like,
I think I'm alright, come, what am I gonna do
with this? Very much, so very much so thank you
for listening. It is you find a Big Boy Big

(01:40:14):
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