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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Your sister is marrying the partner of her dreams.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Do you cry?

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yes, they're just so perfect for each other. No, but
seeing her happy makes me happy. Oh.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
So the no is not an outright like no, no crying?

Speaker 1 (00:18):
No? Well, I mean the real answer is no, you're
not crying.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
But you are You're still happy?

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yes, yeah, but that's what I'm saying. I don't care
if you're happy or not happy. The question isn't on
a scale of one to ten, what's your happiness? The
question is are you crying?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
But without that distinction, it's important to point that out
the rest of the sentence because it does sound cold
if you just are like, no.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Okay, so you want me to read the rest of
the sentence.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
You just did?

Speaker 1 (00:43):
That helps? No, but I'm saying moving forward, Ah, yeah,
I do. Okay, all right, uh Diane, Yes, Tyler, Yes, Kristen. No,
I'm also a no.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
All right, but it still makes me happy.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Number two, you welcome your first child into the world.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Are you crying?

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Yes, I've never felt this kind of bond before. No,
but let's count some fingers and toes. Diane, yes, Tyler, yes, Kristen.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
I would assume yes. Elliott yes, I had that phone call,
so we are going to fact check your answers.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Okay, Oh I'm sorry when I called share.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
No, no, no, no, no, because I know this is
what you did to her yesterday when you mentioned she
was late. It was unnecessary.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Number three. Your boss constantly undermines a hard working colleague.
Does it make you tear up? Yes? Our team would
be nothing without her. No, but it's frustrating. I should
talk to the boss. Diane, No, Tyler.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
I'm not talking to the boss. Yes, I would just cry.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Kristin no, Elliott. No, I'm not even talking to the boss.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
All right. Number four.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Number four, movie characters unite to rescue a pal in danger.
Do the tears start to flow? Yes, everyone should have
such loyal friends. No, the action sequences are top notch, though, Diane, no, Tyler.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yes, this is gonna be easy for me.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Kristin Elliott. No. Number five. All right, your heir, your
daughter or son is wailing because she fell and scraped
her knee. Are you crying along with her? Yes? I
can't stand to see her in pain. No, let's just

(03:14):
get the first aid kit Diane, no, Tyler, Yes, been there,
Kristen No, Elliott No. Number six. Halfway home, your home
team piles onto the field after clinching the Super Bowl.

(03:36):
Do you need a tissue? Yes, yes, I've just got
some dust in my eye. No, I knew they had
it in them the whole way, Diane. No, Tyler already answered, Okay,
but I'm not dust in my eye happy. But you
have to go in order, so don't tell me you
will already answered, but.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
I was compelled to answer immediately. And it's yes, okay, Kristens,
that's your.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
Team, dummit. So yes, okay. So you're crying, I'm a No.
I didn't cry when the Caps won.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
You cried when you got your ring.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
You did not cry when they won. I did not.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
You cried when you got your ring, not the night
of the wind.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
No I was. I was unbelievably excited.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
I cried when the Caps won.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Okay, that wasn't fine. Then you've cried twice.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Than two times.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Go to hell, Diane. No, No, I didn't cry. I
cried when I got the ring. I think that was
like my That's how I let the emotion.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
Out, to scoot right in between you and say Jack,
by the way, by the way, well, never mind, I
can't get derailed by Maggie.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Say, Jack, did you see the photos she posted though
of her passing the bar Jesus Christ?

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Good for her?

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Man?

Speaker 2 (04:59):
Okay, what number am I on? Number seven? Yes?

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Number seven? The young star of a community theater. Yes,
the young star of a community theater musical, Oh my
God gets a standing ovation. Are you shedding tears? Yes,
she's a prodigy. No, but strong voice on that kid, Diane, yes, Tyler, yes,

(05:27):
Kristen no, Elliott, no, you're crying in never mind?

Speaker 2 (05:35):
Number eight? Yeah, I don't criticize her. What if you
guys end up with the same results your beloved grandmother?
No one has to worry about that.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
For me, your beloved grandmother has passed away. Does the
news make you weepy? Yes? I wish you were here
to dry my tears. No, I'll miss her so much,
but I knew this day would come. Diane, yes, Tyler, yes,

(06:04):
Kristin yeah, yeah, Elliott no, wow heartless. Number nine, a
shy toddler is befriended by little ones at the park.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
Are you welling up?

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yes? They're so sweet and pure.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
No, but good job kids, Diane.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
Yes, what are you rolling your eyes at?

Speaker 2 (06:34):
I also think I heard something that was audible. It
sounded like, oh my god, Tyler. Yep, Kristin, Nope, thank you.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
Uh. No. Number ten. Your family clashes over politics at
Thanksgiving dinner?

Speaker 2 (06:58):
Do we queue the waterworks?

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yes? Why can't we all get along?

Speaker 2 (07:03):
No?

Speaker 1 (07:04):
But how about them giants?

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Oh so you're too, So that's just you're changing the topic. Yeah, yeah,
no Tyler, Yeah, I'm probably crying. Kristen. No, No, are
you answered no for yourself? To Elliott? Yes, you know
what is disturbing. No one can see this, but when

(07:29):
I click your responses, I do see how fellow readers.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Oh like you see based on like percentages or something.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
It is disturbing. I won't tell you in which direction though,
just yet.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Uh Number ten, I believe No. No number eleven. Number eleven.
Your neighbor has only months to live. Do you break
down when he tells you?

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (07:56):
I can only imagine how frightened he is. No, but
I'll do what I can to help. No, Okay, can
I ask Diane?

Speaker 2 (08:05):
No you don't, uh, Tyler, this can be someone in
the cull to sack. Yes, then yes, Kristen, No, I'm
go a.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
No. Number twelve, your best friend's longtime partner cheated. Do
you cry in solidarity? Yes, we'll shed some tears together
over drinks. No, that snake doesn't deserve my friend anyway, Diane. No, Tyler,

(08:38):
God damn it, that's a yes. Uh, Kristen, no, Elliott, no,
tyd You go ten and oh, I went twelve, twelve?
And oh, all right? What did we learn?

Speaker 3 (08:55):
You only said yes once?

Speaker 1 (08:58):
Okay, yeah, that's called being honest. I didn't count how
many times you said yes, So.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
Diane, you are an attachment and a sentimental crier. When
you cry, it tends to be because you feel a
special bond with someone or you're removed by happy events.
Attachment criers enjoy developing deep, trusting relationships with the people
in their lives, and those strong connections can sometimes turn
on the waterworks. Separations and reunions may also evoke an

(09:24):
emotional reaction. Sentimental criers respond emotionally when they see good
things happen.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
So what was that me? What was that me? Like
Diane was crying the kid who was singing on stage.
You don't even know who it is.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
That does not matter. By the way, only thirty three
percent of respondents cried for that community theater kid.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
So Diane was one of thirty three percent.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
Well well you you too? Wow?

Speaker 1 (09:56):
Okay, Tyler? Oh just e U s s y.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
So Diane, did you write that down just so you
know in case you're asked a future appointment that you
are a now an attachment and a sentimental crier. I
got you are a.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Just a crier.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
You are an attachment crier, a sentimental crier, a compassionate crier,
and a societal crier.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
All of the above, right, yeah e as in plus E.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
We read what Diane's meant. But I'm also invested in
the well being of groups, and I show sensitivity towards
people who are experiencing misfortune or suffering. You're an EmPATH,
I really am. I'm the most empathetic person in this room.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Okay, but I'm strong for them.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
By the way, the least crying response out of all
your questions was the child is crying because they scraped
their knees. I believe that five percent said they would
also cry, and the others ninety five percent of people
are getting the first aid. Kid, Yeah, I was gonna
get that too. I'm just wiping away tears as I'm helping.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
No, but I mean sometimes they need to fall down.
How old do you how old do you learn not
to run down a hill?

Speaker 2 (11:18):
And you can't cry with them because then that shows weakness. Bitch.
I validate. I validate my children's emotions all the time.
They know I am capital w a week Kristen, since
you spoke of but you don't. You don't.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
You don't subscribe to that theory that they learn by Yeah,
they have to fall down.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
I agree with that in non physical uh situations, right,
So you won't you won't.

Speaker 1 (11:52):
You won't prevent Like listen, I'm not talking about well
let them run out in front of that car. No, No,
but like the like that that's dangerous, right, Like there's
a difference between falling and getting hurt and then doing
something that can can cast them their lives, So that
I wouldn't. But like if you see them and you
just know they're gonna eat it, you'll interfere.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
No running. We weren't a big running family. Now, Kristin,
you are just an attachment crier?

Speaker 1 (12:20):
What does that mean?

Speaker 2 (12:21):
She feels a special bond with someone. Separations and reunions,
like we said for Diane, may also evoke an emotional
reaction in you. So she just got one. I got
pinned with four different types of crying. Was that right? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (12:39):
And I should have one.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
This is no joke, Elliott. You broke the internet. It
did not give you a response. So what does that
mean that when it was all.

Speaker 3 (12:54):
Count but I did cry once?

Speaker 1 (12:57):
Yeah, that's okay.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
When it was all calculated. It did not attach you.
Why shouldn't say, because attachment criers. It did not pin
you as a crier.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
The only time you cried was for the birth of
a kid.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Now listen, I've cried a ton with the with the
boys leaving home.

Speaker 3 (13:19):
See, and I haven't.

Speaker 2 (13:20):
It says for you, Elliott.

Speaker 1 (13:22):
Yeah, but I like my kid.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
You are.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
I am.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
It says you aren't a crier, and that's okay. Oh,
if you don't typically get teary eyed, it's nothing to
be concerned about. There are many reasons someone might not cry.
Women typically report crying more frequently than men. Yeah. Our
crying patterns can also be temporarily influenced by things like
sleep deprivation, Oh thank you, alcohol or drug use, oh

(13:51):
thank you, or mood I'm a good mood, but you're
often dark.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
Oh most of the time, I'm dark.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
But there are no hard infest rules. If you rarely
cry and that, then it might be worth talking to
a mental health professional. After all, studies have shown that
crying can help us let off steam and feel a
measure of relief. Crying can also draw comfort and support
from others, which may make you feel better. Oh well,
thank you, right on, I just left your results. You

(14:18):
aren't a crier. I like that quiz though. I like
that quiz. That's good.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
That's good.

Speaker 2 (14:27):
I didn't know we could win all the prizes.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
No, but you know what I like honestly, I like
that between the four of us we've got everything covered
different so well, I want everybody to be different but
yet the same.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
The no no no.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
But if somebody called in and they were like, this
is going on, I like that one of us would
be able to relate to that.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
Yay women on submarines.
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