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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, elliot at the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Hey, this is Kim from Richmond.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Yes, Kim, how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (00:07):
How are y'all good? Thank you?
Speaker 4 (00:10):
So I'm coming on in regard to the topic because
I'm actually really deep into this kind of lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And I definitely think that the person we're talking about
should discuss this with their potential partner because if he
is interested in this kind of stuff, she's not going
to be happy if that's not something he's ad to.
Because for some people.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Let me can I can?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
I can?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
I have something real quick?
Speaker 6 (00:36):
When you said you're really deep into this lifestyle, like
the the dominatrix lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Uh, so, I'm what you call a switch, so I.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Can go both ways. I can either be a submissive
or I can be a dominatrix.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Oh which one? Are you better at? Submissive?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I'm better at being a dominatrix?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Are you really?
Speaker 7 (00:56):
Thank you very much?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I yeah, because I'm very good at listening to people
and taking orders, so that that would actually be called
a brat. But for most people, I'm probably better at
being a dominatrix.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Are you really?
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Oh? You?
Speaker 6 (01:14):
But and listen, I I've never been involved in one
of those but you sound you sound so friendly to
be a dominatrix.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Oh, so you there's different kinds of dominatrix. So you
have something called a soft dom, which is they're more
like lovely type. There's daddy doms there, it's hard doms.
So I I like to.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Be really mean and then kind of licked, if that
makes sense.
Speaker 6 (01:51):
Okay, I'm a client. Wait do you have clients or
do you just have like, like partners.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
What do you got?
Speaker 8 (01:57):
I have partners, right, and so I'm like, Hi, I
don't know if you can hear it in his voice,
but it's a little flustered right now.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Well, I'm afraid. I'm afraid to get But can I
also tell you? You know what term? I hate? Daddy dom.
I don't like that.
Speaker 7 (02:14):
Well, you're also a sub well that is true.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
That is true, like the but like you like, will
you yell at me like mean? Like get out you're pig.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, I'm not into the daddy kink either.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
I when I am topping, I like to be addressed
as sir, even though I I identify as a woman
and I have her pronouns, I like to be called sirt.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Oh mab no, that's me.
Speaker 7 (02:50):
So do you have to when you're in the address
or is sir, Sir, when you're in a relationship like this,
do you identify what category in this world you fall
under right off the bat, Yes, Because if I have
a seven month waiting list and I'm a dominatrix and
(03:15):
a brat shows up, I don't think I'd be too
happy about that.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
So that is what pre negotiation is for.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
If I had to guess.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
The oh, don't worry about pre negotiation.
Speaker 9 (03:32):
If I had to guess the client and the dominatrix,
probably we're chatting online or in person for a little
bit before this was scheduled, just to make sure that
their interesting kings were aligned.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Because if like we were saying, like, if we're not
into a datty king, but your smith it really is,
you're not gonna fell that part. But they really need
to have like addressed, right.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
But if I'm the dominatrix, I also don't care. I mean,
I'm the dominic drids do what I tell you to do, sir.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Oh, So I would disagree with you on that one
because even though I'm telling you.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Like this is the way it is, if your submissive
isn't comfortable with you, it can become dangerous and then
also like you can make them really uncomfortable and that
can turn them off in like the team.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
That's a good point. That's a good point. Hey, let
me let me ask you this, sir. The the So
you're you're deep into this this lifestyle or do you
do you have?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Do you have a husband or a boyfriend or something?
Speaker 7 (04:35):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
So I am polyamorous, So I really I can't.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Keep up with everything I know. I'm I'm I'm I'm
brat poly Sir.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I recently got out of a six month relationship with
a man and a woman, and now I have been
with multiple play partners and I'm potentially starting a relationship
depending on how a date goes.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
Okay, but that's perfect. Can I ask you the date
that you're starting? Is it is? And I don't even
know that it matters, But is it a man or
a woman?
Speaker 7 (05:12):
It's a woman?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Woman? Okay.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
So if you were going to start a relationship and
she said to you, hey, listen, i'm not into I'm
not into BDSM and maybe you already know, but let's
let's just let's just pretend play I'm not into BDSM
or or dominatrix or anything like that. Would you be
able to still like, do both? Do both people have
(05:36):
to be into it or what? Somebody's not getting satisfied
at that point.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Right.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
So I personally if they were, I can handle like
not having everything I want, but there are some things
in my life that I have to have, like what just.
Speaker 9 (05:56):
Being beaten?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
So not like messing violence then, but it's a really
big thing to me because it's actually therapeutic.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
And are you talking about are you talking about what
are those fun little whips that have like the the
little drop?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yes? Is that what you like?
Speaker 7 (06:18):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah, So there's crops.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Floggers, paddles. So the person I'm going on a date
with we are actually into electro play.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
Oh my god, could you imagine I was nervous about
just taking Jackie to a restaurant. Could you imagine me
standing there, boner in the air with a.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Paddle in my hands. Oh my god, it would be
so embarrassing.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
You have to hear how how plain is the place
where you're dating?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Wait?
Speaker 6 (06:49):
What do you?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Oh? Hers? Oh yeah, where are you going?
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
We're just going to a regular restaurant.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Cheesecake factory.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Yeah, I love it start out normal.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Yeah, we're going to Applebee's.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
And then uh, then we're gonna go home and I'm
gonna I'm gonna hoo light her tits on fire.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Waita we played on New Year's. I don't think anything's
gonna be happening tonight.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Oh wait, so tonight's just a regular date boor I
know what did you do on New Year's?
Speaker 3 (07:33):
So near if we?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I actually had four different scenes of people, So she
was an electro bottom and we were actually playing with
her husband.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Wait your your relationship girls husband? Yeah they're aware. Well
I hope, so see what I mean and.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Where that's what I'm talking about in the beginning, Like
it's a lot of discussion and negotiation.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
But is the husband not into the electrical stimulation?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Oh no, they are.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
Oh I had.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Drinks with Coastguard, Kurt Nelly and Bigsie.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah you're lighting.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
You are exactly You've got like you've got You're essentially
like my testicles are like glowing with you. Oh but anyway,
but that doesn't get back to the thing. So like,
so you're saying you couldn't be in a relationship with
somebody who didn't beat you, and I and again I understand,
(08:44):
I understand what you mean, And that sounds weird to say,
but I understand what you mean. Is so for this
woman that's got this disappointment that's set up for seven months,
if if this Eric guy, she doesn't know if he's
into it, you would say it's a problem for them
to even get together until she knows it.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Yes, yeah, right up front. So I'm up front, like, hey,
this has had something I've had scheduled for a while.
This is what I'm into. First of all, they should
probably have a date first couple of times, or at
least she said, have a good feel for Eric.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Because well, she said, they've gone out a couple of times,
and he's ready to exclusive, and and and he's funny
and he's interesting. She just I mean, clearly she doesn't
know if he's into electro play.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
Is it hard to leave the lifestyle behind? Yes, right,
so I could see that.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Yeah, but all done things that we don't wait say
that again, please sir.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
The last partner I was with, he actually he was
into that kind of lifestyle, but he wasn't addressing what
I needed. And I think at the end, like that's
kind of why we fizzled out because you know, my
turns weren't being addressed.
Speaker 7 (10:01):
Right, which I mean you can apply that to any relationship.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Yeah, but I mean but you can.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
But but you phase out of things like people phase
out of things.
Speaker 7 (10:10):
She wasn't, and he was, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
But in a normal not that you're not normal, but
in a in a why should she have to change?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Here?
Speaker 7 (10:19):
She is?
Speaker 6 (10:20):
No, no, no, no, but what I'm because of because
relationships are all compromise. So like you and Lindsay may
have been into stuff early in the relationship that you
may not be into now and you both kind of
phase out not it And it wasn't like a light
bulb went on and it just.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
May have been a candle. No, no, but you know
what I mean. And so just over time it may
have changed.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
What are the other three scenes on New Year's.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:46):
So the first one is yeah, the first one was
like brat summer whatever. It was electroplay, electro play, electro play,
then what yep?
Speaker 2 (10:54):
And then with a different version, I did electro play again.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Wait, I don't even know if I should have dumped
half of that. What is what did you do?
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I Impact top?
Speaker 7 (11:07):
So I did the beating impact top impact top like
top and body.
Speaker 6 (11:13):
Yes, I know that, but I'm trying to figure out,
so did you like like remember, like, did you ever
get beat up as a kid where somebody would like
kind of straddle you and just punch you.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Is that what you were doing?
Speaker 2 (11:27):
No, I mean that is the thing, but no, So
it's like a Saint Andrew's cross or a stinking bench
where somebody literally just sits there and takes it.
Speaker 6 (11:44):
And wait and when you say, when you say you
you hit them, like, what what were you hitting them with?
Speaker 8 (11:51):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (11:51):
So I have a bunch of toys, so like paddles,
whip bloggers.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Where were you hitting him?
Speaker 6 (12:01):
I bought? Oh wait no, no, finish that sentence first,
what did you buy?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
I bought something called a dragon's tale? So that one
is particularly a bitch to hit with?
Speaker 6 (12:16):
Is that like another term or like it's hard to do?
Like from for Diane math is a bitch?
Speaker 5 (12:23):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
No, no, no, no, So it hurts.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
If you hit somebody hard enough, they can draw blood.
Speaker 7 (12:35):
And are you into that as well?
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yes? Wait drawing blood?
Speaker 7 (12:42):
What's the scientific draws? What's the blood play name? It's
like this is a heem of something?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Oh I had.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I'm actually just exploring that. I don't think it's really
my thing. But no, I'm not into drawing pain because
you also got to keep in mind like if a
toy breaks somebody's skin, then that toy is now blood
down to that person.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I have never implemented that rule in my life. Hey,
can I can I ask you this?
Speaker 6 (13:20):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Do you do work for a living?
Speaker 8 (13:23):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Do you like?
Speaker 6 (13:24):
Because here's my new fantasy, Like you like the same
way you're gonna be at Applebee's tonight.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Nobody's gonna know.
Speaker 6 (13:30):
Do you stroll into an office and nobody has any
idea what you're like away from the office?
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Yes, I do a complete one eight?
Speaker 6 (13:39):
Right?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Is there time? Is there somebody in our office that's
like this and we don't know? But they come to work? No,
that do not? How horny?
Speaker 6 (13:47):
That makes me like they come to work and they're
like in dress, like like dress slacks, button up. Yeah.
Like we mentioned Sidney earlier, I can't imagine Sydney at
home with a devil's tail whipping the crap out of
something buddy with them going yes sir, yes, sir, Like
I just can't imagine it is your saint Andrew's cross
wall mounted or free standing.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Oh it's like that tonal thing.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
What did you say?
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Free standing?
Speaker 7 (14:12):
Free standing? That's more expensive. Good reviews though here on Amazon.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Oh oh you make it?
Speaker 6 (14:20):
Oh oh, I love everything about you.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
You're in Richmond, right, yeah, M.
Speaker 7 (14:31):
Just going bowling.
Speaker 6 (14:39):
Hey, So, how will you know if the relationship with
this woman is going to be an ongoing thing?
Speaker 2 (14:45):
I think it's gonna go well because I so we
actually did it kind of backwards. Well I wouldn't say
we did it backwards, but we became friends and we
played and now we're looking into d Now I.
Speaker 6 (14:59):
Like that you to get slow, so you seem like
a very slow conservative uh lady like that where that
wouldn't be the case.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
So it's if I don't trust you, I'm.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Not going to play with you. It's that simple.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
So because it can if.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
So the person I am dating is going it's they're
also a switch, so they can also do impact top
I'm not gonna let you beat me if I don't
treat like trust you, because you can hit vital organs,
you can paralyze the person like it can get really
dangerous really quick.
Speaker 6 (15:41):
You know what.
Speaker 7 (15:41):
That's a good that is a great point, kind of
like professional wrestling to protect your opponent.
Speaker 6 (15:52):
All right, very good. Now you've been You've been great.
I feel like in in in the kinkway. I feel
like I'm blood bound to you. But yeah, I know,
but you understand my point.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
All right, very good, sir.
Speaker 6 (16:07):
Sure I appreciate a Will you call me on Monday
and let me know how the date goes.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
Potentially if I remember.
Speaker 6 (16:15):
I'll remember, Kristen, get my man's number here? All right,
Hold on one second, Hold on one second for me, please.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I am such a boring, prude person.
Speaker 7 (16:27):
I feel like a lot of people listening may also
view themselves that way after a call like that. Yes,
I also people few this person in the world. People
found her description yet never more horny to be exhausting.
What do you mean like discussing multiple scenes on New
Year's and then keeping track of these relationships. But I
(16:47):
feel like when this is you, this is me, you
said last year to us, this is not exhausting.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
No, it's why you thrive.
Speaker 6 (16:57):
It's not exhausting to me to memorize every every person
on a hockey roster. That's not no, somebody, no, seriously,
that's somebody, somebody may look at that and go like,
oh my god, how exhausting is that?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
For me?
Speaker 6 (17:09):
It's not even memorizing, you just know. So for her, yeah,
it'd be like, oh, I got to get a paddle
like a whip her ass, and now I'm getting electro
play and cut and now the next scene is I'm
doing this. That seems like a lot. But if you're
if that's just if that's who you are, that's who
you are.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I agree.
Speaker 7 (17:27):
Wow, And you know what the best thing is coming
out of that phone call. It has repurposed the use
of the words sir on this show because I know
the whole time Diane's like, yes, they're going to forget
about my haircut?
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Am I going to Okay? I'm good. I'm good. She's great.
Let's call her on Monday.
Speaker 7 (17:52):
I loved her.
Speaker 6 (17:53):
Oh yes, I can't stand up like I'm I'm just
sitting and waiting.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
That blood is playing. Oh I'm blood bound to Diane.
Speaker 6 (18:05):
Now, now, Elliott, all right, give me a It's in
God's way.
Hi, elliot at the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Hey, this is Kim from Richmond.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Yes, Kim, how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (00:07):
How are y'all good? Thank you?
Speaker 4 (00:10):
So I'm coming on in regard to the topic because
I'm actually really deep into this kind of lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And I definitely think that the person we're talking about
should discuss this with their potential partner because if he
is interested in this kind of stuff, she's not going
to be happy if that's not something he's ad to.
Because for some people.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Let me can I can?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
I can?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
I have something real quick?
Speaker 6 (00:36):
When you said you're really deep into this lifestyle, like
the the dominatrix lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Uh, so, I'm what you call a switch, so I.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Can go both ways. I can either be a submissive
or I can be a dominatrix.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Oh which one? Are you better at? Submissive?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I'm better at being a dominatrix?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Are you really?
Speaker 7 (00:56):
Thank you very much?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I yeah, because I'm very good at listening to people
and taking orders, so that that would actually be called
a brat. But for most people, I'm probably better at
being a dominatrix.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Are you really?
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Oh? You?
Speaker 6 (01:14):
But and listen, I I've never been involved in one
of those but you sound you sound so friendly to
be a dominatrix.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Oh, so you there's different kinds of dominatrix. So you
have something called a soft dom, which is they're more
like lovely type. There's daddy doms there, it's hard doms.
So I I like to.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Be really mean and then kind of licked, if that
makes sense.
Speaker 6 (01:51):
Okay, I'm a client. Wait do you have clients or
do you just have like, like partners.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
What do you got?
Speaker 8 (01:57):
I have partners, right, and so I'm like, Hi, I
don't know if you can hear it in his voice,
but it's a little flustered right now.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Well, I'm afraid. I'm afraid to get But can I
also tell you? You know what term? I hate? Daddy dom.
I don't like that.
Speaker 7 (02:14):
Well, you're also a sub well that is true.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
That is true, like the but like you like, will
you yell at me like mean? Like get out you're pig.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, I'm not into the daddy kink either.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
I when I am topping, I like to be addressed
as sir, even though I I identify as a woman
and I have her pronouns, I like to be called sirt.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Oh mab no, that's me.
Speaker 7 (02:50):
So do you have to when you're in the address
or is sir, Sir, when you're in a relationship like this,
do you identify what category in this world you fall
under right off the bat, Yes, Because if I have
a seven month waiting list and I'm a dominatrix and
(03:15):
a brat shows up, I don't think I'd be too
happy about that.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
So that is what pre negotiation is for.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
If I had to guess.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
The oh, don't worry about pre negotiation.
Speaker 9 (03:32):
If I had to guess the client and the dominatrix,
probably we're chatting online or in person for a little
bit before this was scheduled, just to make sure that
their interesting kings were aligned.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Because if like we were saying, like, if we're not
into a datty king, but your smith it really is,
you're not gonna fell that part. But they really need
to have like addressed, right.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
But if I'm the dominatrix, I also don't care. I mean,
I'm the dominic drids do what I tell you to do, sir.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Oh, So I would disagree with you on that one
because even though I'm telling you.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Like this is the way it is, if your submissive
isn't comfortable with you, it can become dangerous and then
also like you can make them really uncomfortable and that
can turn them off in like the team.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
That's a good point. That's a good point. Hey, let
me let me ask you this, sir. The the So
you're you're deep into this this lifestyle or do you
do you have?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Do you have a husband or a boyfriend or something?
Speaker 7 (04:35):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
So I am polyamorous, So I really I can't.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Keep up with everything I know. I'm I'm I'm I'm
brat poly Sir.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I recently got out of a six month relationship with
a man and a woman, and now I have been
with multiple play partners and I'm potentially starting a relationship
depending on how a date goes.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
Okay, but that's perfect. Can I ask you the date
that you're starting? Is it is? And I don't even
know that it matters, But is it a man or
a woman?
Speaker 7 (05:12):
It's a woman?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Woman? Okay.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
So if you were going to start a relationship and
she said to you, hey, listen, i'm not into I'm
not into BDSM and maybe you already know, but let's
let's just let's just pretend play I'm not into BDSM
or or dominatrix or anything like that. Would you be
able to still like, do both? Do both people have
(05:36):
to be into it or what? Somebody's not getting satisfied
at that point.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Right.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
So I personally if they were, I can handle like
not having everything I want, but there are some things
in my life that I have to have, like what just.
Speaker 9 (05:56):
Being beaten?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
So not like messing violence then, but it's a really
big thing to me because it's actually therapeutic.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
And are you talking about are you talking about what
are those fun little whips that have like the the
little drop?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yes? Is that what you like?
Speaker 7 (06:18):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah, So there's crops.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Floggers, paddles. So the person I'm going on a date
with we are actually into electro play.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
Oh my god, could you imagine I was nervous about
just taking Jackie to a restaurant. Could you imagine me
standing there, boner in the air with a.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Paddle in my hands. Oh my god, it would be
so embarrassing.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
You have to hear how how plain is the place
where you're dating?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Wait?
Speaker 6 (06:49):
What do you?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Oh? Hers? Oh yeah, where are you going?
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
We're just going to a regular restaurant.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Cheesecake factory.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Yeah, I love it start out normal.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Yeah, we're going to Applebee's.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
And then uh, then we're gonna go home and I'm
gonna I'm gonna hoo light her tits on fire.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Waita we played on New Year's. I don't think anything's
gonna be happening tonight.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Oh wait, so tonight's just a regular date boor I
know what did you do on New Year's?
Speaker 3 (07:33):
So near if we?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I actually had four different scenes of people, So she
was an electro bottom and we were actually playing with
her husband.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Wait your your relationship girls husband? Yeah they're aware. Well
I hope, so see what I mean and.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Where that's what I'm talking about in the beginning, Like
it's a lot of discussion and negotiation.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
But is the husband not into the electrical stimulation?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Oh no, they are.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
Oh I had.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Drinks with Coastguard, Kurt Nelly and Bigsie.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah you're lighting.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
You are exactly You've got like you've got You're essentially
like my testicles are like glowing with you. Oh but anyway,
but that doesn't get back to the thing. So like,
so you're saying you couldn't be in a relationship with
somebody who didn't beat you, and I and again I understand,
(08:44):
I understand what you mean, And that sounds weird to say,
but I understand what you mean. Is so for this
woman that's got this disappointment that's set up for seven months,
if if this Eric guy, she doesn't know if he's
into it, you would say it's a problem for them
to even get together until she knows it.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Yes, yeah, right up front. So I'm up front, like, hey,
this has had something I've had scheduled for a while.
This is what I'm into. First of all, they should
probably have a date first couple of times, or at
least she said, have a good feel for Eric.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Because well, she said, they've gone out a couple of times,
and he's ready to exclusive, and and and he's funny
and he's interesting. She just I mean, clearly she doesn't
know if he's into electro play.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
Is it hard to leave the lifestyle behind? Yes, right,
so I could see that.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Yeah, but all done things that we don't wait say
that again, please sir.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
The last partner I was with, he actually he was
into that kind of lifestyle, but he wasn't addressing what
I needed. And I think at the end, like that's
kind of why we fizzled out because you know, my
turns weren't being addressed.
Speaker 7 (10:01):
Right, which I mean you can apply that to any relationship.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Yeah, but I mean but you can.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
But but you phase out of things like people phase
out of things.
Speaker 7 (10:10):
She wasn't, and he was, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
But in a normal not that you're not normal, but
in a in a why should she have to change?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Here?
Speaker 7 (10:19):
She is?
Speaker 6 (10:20):
No, no, no, no, but what I'm because of because
relationships are all compromise. So like you and Lindsay may
have been into stuff early in the relationship that you
may not be into now and you both kind of
phase out not it And it wasn't like a light
bulb went on and it just.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
May have been a candle. No, no, but you know
what I mean. And so just over time it may
have changed.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
What are the other three scenes on New Year's.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:46):
So the first one is yeah, the first one was
like brat summer whatever. It was electroplay, electro play, electro play,
then what yep?
Speaker 2 (10:54):
And then with a different version, I did electro play again.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Wait, I don't even know if I should have dumped
half of that. What is what did you do?
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I Impact top?
Speaker 7 (11:07):
So I did the beating impact top impact top like
top and body.
Speaker 6 (11:13):
Yes, I know that, but I'm trying to figure out,
so did you like like remember, like, did you ever
get beat up as a kid where somebody would like
kind of straddle you and just punch you.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Is that what you were doing?
Speaker 2 (11:27):
No, I mean that is the thing, but no, So
it's like a Saint Andrew's cross or a stinking bench
where somebody literally just sits there and takes it.
Speaker 6 (11:44):
And wait and when you say, when you say you
you hit them, like, what what were you hitting them with?
Speaker 8 (11:51):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (11:51):
So I have a bunch of toys, so like paddles,
whip bloggers.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Where were you hitting him?
Speaker 6 (12:01):
I bought? Oh wait no, no, finish that sentence first,
what did you buy?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
I bought something called a dragon's tale? So that one
is particularly a bitch to hit with?
Speaker 6 (12:16):
Is that like another term or like it's hard to do?
Like from for Diane math is a bitch?
Speaker 5 (12:23):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
No, no, no, no, So it hurts.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
If you hit somebody hard enough, they can draw blood.
Speaker 7 (12:35):
And are you into that as well?
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yes? Wait drawing blood?
Speaker 7 (12:42):
What's the scientific draws? What's the blood play name? It's
like this is a heem of something?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Oh I had.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I'm actually just exploring that. I don't think it's really
my thing. But no, I'm not into drawing pain because
you also got to keep in mind like if a
toy breaks somebody's skin, then that toy is now blood
down to that person.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I have never implemented that rule in my life. Hey,
can I can I ask you this?
Speaker 6 (13:20):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Do you do work for a living?
Speaker 8 (13:23):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Do you like?
Speaker 6 (13:24):
Because here's my new fantasy, Like you like the same
way you're gonna be at Applebee's tonight.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Nobody's gonna know.
Speaker 6 (13:30):
Do you stroll into an office and nobody has any
idea what you're like away from the office?
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Yes, I do a complete one eight?
Speaker 6 (13:39):
Right?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Is there time? Is there somebody in our office that's
like this and we don't know? But they come to work? No,
that do not? How horny?
Speaker 6 (13:47):
That makes me like they come to work and they're
like in dress, like like dress slacks, button up. Yeah.
Like we mentioned Sidney earlier, I can't imagine Sydney at
home with a devil's tail whipping the crap out of
something buddy with them going yes sir, yes, sir, Like
I just can't imagine it is your saint Andrew's cross
wall mounted or free standing.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Oh it's like that tonal thing.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
What did you say?
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Free standing?
Speaker 7 (14:12):
Free standing? That's more expensive. Good reviews though here on Amazon.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Oh oh you make it?
Speaker 6 (14:20):
Oh oh, I love everything about you.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
You're in Richmond, right, yeah, M.
Speaker 7 (14:31):
Just going bowling.
Speaker 6 (14:39):
Hey, So, how will you know if the relationship with
this woman is going to be an ongoing thing?
Speaker 2 (14:45):
I think it's gonna go well because I so we
actually did it kind of backwards. Well I wouldn't say
we did it backwards, but we became friends and we
played and now we're looking into d Now I.
Speaker 6 (14:59):
Like that you to get slow, so you seem like
a very slow conservative uh lady like that where that
wouldn't be the case.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
So it's if I don't trust you, I'm.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Not going to play with you. It's that simple.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
So because it can if.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
So the person I am dating is going it's they're
also a switch, so they can also do impact top
I'm not gonna let you beat me if I don't
treat like trust you, because you can hit vital organs,
you can paralyze the person like it can get really
dangerous really quick.
Speaker 6 (15:41):
You know what.
Speaker 7 (15:41):
That's a good that is a great point, kind of
like professional wrestling to protect your opponent.
Speaker 6 (15:52):
All right, very good. Now you've been You've been great.
I feel like in in in the kinkway. I feel
like I'm blood bound to you. But yeah, I know,
but you understand my point.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
All right, very good, sir.
Speaker 6 (16:07):
Sure I appreciate a Will you call me on Monday
and let me know how the date goes.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
Potentially if I remember.
Speaker 6 (16:15):
I'll remember, Kristen, get my man's number here? All right,
Hold on one second, Hold on one second for me, please.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I am such a boring, prude person.
Speaker 7 (16:27):
I feel like a lot of people listening may also
view themselves that way after a call like that. Yes,
I also people few this person in the world. People
found her description yet never more horny to be exhausting.
What do you mean like discussing multiple scenes on New
Year's and then keeping track of these relationships. But I
(16:47):
feel like when this is you, this is me, you
said last year to us, this is not exhausting.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
No, it's why you thrive.
Speaker 6 (16:57):
It's not exhausting to me to memorize every every person
on a hockey roster. That's not no, somebody, no, seriously,
that's somebody, somebody may look at that and go like,
oh my god, how exhausting is that?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
For me?
Speaker 6 (17:09):
It's not even memorizing, you just know. So for her, yeah,
it'd be like, oh, I got to get a paddle
like a whip her ass, and now I'm getting electro
play and cut and now the next scene is I'm
doing this. That seems like a lot. But if you're
if that's just if that's who you are, that's who
you are.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I agree.
Speaker 7 (17:27):
Wow, And you know what the best thing is coming
out of that phone call. It has repurposed the use
of the words sir on this show because I know
the whole time Diane's like, yes, they're going to forget
about my haircut?
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Am I going to Okay? I'm good. I'm good. She's great.
Let's call her on Monday.
Speaker 7 (17:52):
I loved her.
Speaker 6 (17:53):
Oh yes, I can't stand up like I'm I'm just
sitting and waiting.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
That blood is playing. Oh I'm blood bound to Diane.
Speaker 6 (18:05):
Now, now, Elliott, all right, give me a It's in
God's way.
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