January 9, 2025 • 21 mins
Have you ever used a generative AI chatbot to settle issues at home?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I don't think it's unfair, and I'm not trying to
be nosy, But have you and have you and you
and Scott at some point in your relationship dating and
or married, have had uh, what do you want to
call a fight?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
See, okay, Well don't blow it off like you haven't.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
We I mean we, we really don't. Nothing's coming to mind.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
That we've You've never had a fight with Scott.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
I mean little petty arguments, but nothing serious.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Are you serious? And I can not that I can
recall me neither.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I've never even had something small I mean, no, Jack
and I've never no.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
But I'm thinking about like what like where we didn't
talk for a few days or anything like that. I
can't think of anything like that.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Are you serious? Oh my god, God, am my horrible husband.
Let me ask you this. Let's so you and Scott,
but it's still a fight. You still had a fight.
Would you be upset if during a fight?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Christian?
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Have you and Mike have ever or you and Diane's
camp where it's like no, it's just all uh, everything's roses.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
You can't say that. I'm like, I'm not talking about
anything major. Where doors were slammed or people left house
or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You've never slammed a door now with him, Oh my god,
I should have married Scott. Let's pretend you and Scott
are in a fight. Would you be pissed if you
found out that he was using like you're arguing it
(01:32):
not all at the same time, but like you're arguing,
you take a break, right, and everybody kind of separates,
but you still have to like figure the whole thing out.
Would you be upset if you learned afterwards that all
of his responses back to you, or his arguments, his
points back to you were done because he went to
chat GPT.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
And it was all AI generated responses. Yes, use your
brain the why would that bother? You? Like, wouldn't that
be helpful?
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Because he was so furious he couldn't formulate a sentence
for whatever reason, for what he was he was making
sure like all of his points were covered.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Yes, I don't know, he was just doing it for whatever.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I mean. I would certainly mock him for that.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
That leads him relying more on the.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
H You don't think that's a good idea that way,
It's at least it's a little more thought out what if?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
What if? What if?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
He was like, you know what, I'm gonna everybody calmed down.
Dian went to work.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'm at home.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I'm going to send her a note. But it was
an AI generated note and she just copy and paste.
He just copy and pasted it and send it to you.
I think it's smart.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I know someone who's used it with family related matters.
But it involved their children. So they had to deal
with another family and the it was I would say,
a bullying situation, right, so.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
They had to tell the other family their kids a bully.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, more or less. And so they were definitely initially
talking via like email. It wasn't a phone call, right,
so they were trying to craft what to say and
they wanted it to be right and in the proper
tone that got the message across. And they definitely went
to a chatbot.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Did Diane mock them after that?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
That's different, that's not that's not me having an argument
with my husband.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
But it could be the same thing. You send them
an email laid out nicely.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
You're thinking that's the right thing, Yeah, the right the
right way to say something. I don't think there's anything
wrong with like going to AI.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
For that what it upset you if you found out
your daughter did it to you?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Oh that's good, Yes, Diane, you'd be furious or do you.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Think you could? Hell?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Yeah, I can. I definitely know how she talks and
would write. I'd be like, this isn't you. I mean
I've seen that in papers.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
But so, but that would piss you off.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
But that's also they live that way.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Right, Oh, so they get a pass because that's it's nineteen.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
That's what they do, right. I don't know if it
would piss me off.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
But Scott would piss you off.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, I'd be excited. To'd be like, oh my goodness.
There's no slang in this communication for bros. They're actually
talking how I want them to speak to me. What growth?
What can you I forget about the fight?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Can you dumb that down though? Can you like, can
you chat GPT your response and then go hey.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
But say it like you're thirteen?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Slang it up? Absolutely? Yeah, yeah, so you may still
get that.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
You can definitely put it in the voice of any
sort of person.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Yeah, so that you may actually get that.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
You're right, And then I'd be angry at that. It's
a vicious circle.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
The who's the guy from Stranger Things that was married
to Lily Allen David Herber.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Yeah, she chat beat Jeep. Was it her to him
or him to her?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
She she refused some of his kinky sex requests. Oh,
she used an AI chatbot to script out responses during
an argument they were having. Oh they're split up now
the Yeah, but she wanted to be able to say
things the right way.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I think it's smart. Huh.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Now it is, like Diane said, odd to hear that
when you know the end result of their relationship. But
has she been doing this for a long time? So
they has they were together for what five? Five years?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I think I read it was five years? Yeah, Yeah,
I think I read it was. I don't know his name.
I didn't watch Stranger.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Thing, Dan Harper. He was Harper, right, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
She's way more famous to me than he is.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
So this is not something she just used at the end.
She's saying she used this over the course of the relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I don't know, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
If it was the entire relationship, but she was definitely
using at the end.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
But at the end they broke up. So that's not
a great endorsement of.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Well, but that's okay.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
I mean, listen, not everybody's gonna stay together, but at
least you're you're you're in the process of it. Well,
they said that she went all quote Wagatha Christie, but
the well he was cheating and he had an account
on Riyah, and so she signed up and got an
account and then was able to see that he was
looking to bang women while he was in Atlanta working
(06:32):
on stranger stuff, not stuff things, stranger stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
And then while he was away working, he tried to
hook up. Look at you, Lily Allen number one fan.
You should come with me tomorrow to see better man,
but she used it.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Would you be.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Upset, Diane if you found out a teacher used it
to talk to you? What do you mean about your child?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Wait, a teacher used it to talk to me.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
So obviously like describing some sort of problem in a classroom.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Parents talk to teachers, right.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Would Diane be upset if she found out a teacher
used chat, GBT or any similar program or software to
communicate with her.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
With you, if the teacher is younger, maybe not, but
if they're older, I'd be like, you're my freaking talk.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
In my age.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
You know, can't Can you not formulate a sentence?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Young people can formulate?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I know? But why does a young person get a pass?
So I need to take the slang out for generation
as long? No, you know what fingers crossed for beta.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
The it's not bad you tell us they were being
shaped by AI. Yes, remember I was concerned about limbs
the no no, the teacher would piss me off. But
because lacky no no, I don't care.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
I don't care how old somebody is. Yeah, I'm not
an agist, but the that wouldn't bother me. But at
that point I would go, like, my kid's education is
pretty important, can we? Although I guess I should say
so is my marriage. But the all of a sudden,
I'm more okay with jack but Jackie doing it than
a teacher.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Why does the teacher bother me? Because freaking talk said, Yeah,
I don't care. I don't care if the teacher's thirty
or if the teacher's ninety. I don't. I don't want
to the I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I don't want to find out like my kids struggling
by getting a some some some AI generated email that
would bother me.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
That would bother me. Now I'm hi, you are now
I'm hot. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
In the meantime, Diana and I could have had a
fight and she's she said to me messages.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
I'd be like, oh, that's thoughtful, I said one of Diane.
She'd be like, freaking tom.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I do feel like if Elliott you sent a group
text and had used some assistance, we'd all know.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
You guys would know. I don't use it. You know why,
frigging talk.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Faking talk.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
We're at the restaurant Monday night when we were staying over.
We had a question we were trying to solve at
the table, and Mike pulled up chat GPT to see
if it could help us solve our mob.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
That's right, yeah he did. What was that?
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Yeah, yes, you know exactly what it was?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
No, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, but we didn't know what
it was. I know. So he put in the clues.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Oh that's right, Yeah, he put the clues in, which,
by the way, he.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Was wrong, so was Diane. Am I going to line too?
I like it? Hi Elliet the morning. Hello, Yeah, Hi,
who's this?
Speaker 5 (09:58):
Oh? This is Daniel from Hydeville.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yes, sir, all right, So I use Chad.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Gypt on the dating apps. It helps me, you know,
it helps my game basically, that's what it does.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Okay, But what happens if is that? Is that? Is
that common? Is that pretty common on dating apps?
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I honestly did not know. But there was this lady
I will speak in too, and it sounded like it
felt like she was using Chadgypt too, So I was like, you're.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
On the same page.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
So you guys had like robot sacks.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah, but what happens But let me ask you this though,
what happens, Like what happens if you guys end up
meeting up?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
I mean, I know how to woo.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
A lady, you know, in person, but sometimes you don't,
you know, you don't really know what to say to them,
you know when you guys are talking and you know,
sometimes you don't really want to think of a response,
so you just, you know, act tragipch and it doesn't
work for you. I'm plus, I'm paying twenty dollars a
month for it, so why not?
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Is it helpful?
Speaker 6 (10:59):
Though?
Speaker 4 (10:59):
If you're talking to it's got to be helpful. If
you're talking to several people, right, well.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yes it is.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
It is because it gives me all the response very
so I basically just take a screenshot of it and
then upload it to tragity and it gives me a response.
It's it's very convenient.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
To be honest, I would be so afraid. Here's where
I would be afraid. I get I guess, I listen.
I guess you're right, maybe because you're so good at
wooing in person, but I would be I would be
so afraid that I would sound like I would sound.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
What what's the word that I'm looking for? Awkward or no?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
But like in person, I would sound like uneducated. I
was trying, honestly, I was trying to use a word
that was not educated.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
But I would hate to get there. In person, they'd
be like, what grammar school did you go to?
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Like you type? You type well, but we're like, what's
your grammar? Like that I assumed he had a filter
on his photo, but that would be that that that
would be my yes, sir, Like that would be a
huge concern for me.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
I to be honest, I feel like I co walk
my way around it, you know. But you know, but
for the when you're talking with multiple people.
Speaker 7 (12:15):
You kind of you can't really focus on every one
of them. It's different when you're in person because now
you have a high attention and she has your attention,
so you're not talking to multiple people, because come on, man,
I'm literally talking to like seven different girls and I
have to like think about what to say to all
of them to keep the conversation going right, So.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
Just does it for me, you know.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
Now to two other questions. Two other questions, have you
have you have?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Like I understand that you're working seven chicks right now,
have you have you met up with any of them
in person? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I have, and it goes well.
Speaker 5 (12:50):
I mean I recently studied in it, like two weeks ago,
and I had a date last weekend, so you know,
it was it was a movie day, so it wasn't
a of talking. But we did have like a closation
and a cowboy It wasn't anything serious.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
You know.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
But have you to have sex or anything afterwards?
Speaker 5 (13:08):
No, we didn't have six kiss No, no, no, I don't.
I don't kiss on her. To be honest, Jesus Christ.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
You better ask cat gpt the tonguer for you. All Right, dude,
I appreciate it, Thank you, my friend. But now Diane,
let me ask you this. You're on a dating app, right,
you're on a dating app and the guys, the guy's
wooing you or whatever, right he's and you you meet
up in person, you go to a movie, you're sitting
in the car afterwards, and he's made it very clear,
(13:38):
I don't kiss on the first date. So it's not
like he's saying anything where it's like going and get
them panties, like, none of that's going on. Would it
bother you to find out that the whole time lead,
like in the three weeks leading up to going out,
that it was just he just input it, copy paste.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
Said, why does that?
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (13:52):
I know, frigging talk.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
Yeah, I mean you're gonna you were going to figure
it out once you start, you would?
Speaker 3 (14:00):
I bet you don't.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I bet there are so many people that get away
with it and nobody knows, and you're not getting away
with anything.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
It's fine now, Diane.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
If that relationship advances to an engagement and then marriage.
Hugh has done us a service here of using Gemini,
which is the Google chatbot, to make a response to
my wife telling her she's wrong about me spending too
much time fishing. So it gives you three options. It
(14:30):
does direct and honest, which is I hear your concern,
but I don't think I'm spending too much time fishing.
It's important for my mental and emotional well being. I'm
committed to making sure we have quality time together as well.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Who speaks to their spouse like that and there's calm
and assuring Honey, I understand you feel like I'm gone
a lot, and I appreciate you sharing that.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Phishing is a big part of my life, but I
also value our time together deeply. Maybe we can find
a happy medium, like me scheduling some more date nights
or us.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Going fishing together. It's if you got that from Scott,
wouldn't you be like? That is not you?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Hold on, there's a third option. They're an uneducated filter,
playful and lighthearted. Oh here we go, guilty as charge.
But seriously, fishing is my escape. It helps me recharge
and come back a better husband.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
That, by the way, is the best answer, that sounds
the most accurate.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
That is the best answer days.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
It says I'll cut back a little, and you promised
to learn to appreciate the peace and quiet of the
lake with me.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Sometimes let's go do things together.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
So I sit on the dock and he goes out.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
Well, you don't know that he's wade fishing.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
You don't know. Maybe he's sitting on the dock with
Maybe you're in an overpass. Maybe you're right by.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
The airport, my favorite overpass. I just want to freaking
fish Hi Ellie in the morning.
Speaker 8 (16:02):
Hey, I was just calling in to say that I
have actually used chat GPT for an argument and a relationship.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Before Oh good and how to go? It actually was good.
Speaker 8 (16:13):
I feel like I had a tendency to not be
able to being passive aggressive, so I was like prompting
chat GPTs to like take out the passive aggressive tones
from my message. So I think it worked.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Out pretty good. Are you two still together?
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:31):
We are so so that's nice. I mean, Lily Allen
is in my story, but that's okay. No, that's good. Hey,
But now would he be Does he know that you
did that?
Speaker 4 (16:43):
No?
Speaker 9 (16:44):
He didn't ask, so.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
So that's on him. He couldn't tell, which is good?
Which is good?
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Would he if you had to guess, would he be
pissed if he found out the truth?
Speaker 9 (16:56):
I don't think so, because I was genuinely using it,
like like it to say, like, rephrase this in a
way where it doesn't sound like I, you know, don't
care about what they're saying, but I also care about
what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
So I'm like it was a net good.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Right, No, that's good. Would you be pissed if he
was doing that to you?
Speaker 8 (17:17):
I don't think so, because it's like, at the end
of the day, it's like, still what he was trying
to say, but just phrase better with a substensive chat shoppe.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 8 (17:31):
But yeah, it was like like, oh, right, how much
you care about me? Then that's like different than like, oh,
can you tweak this statement that I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Either one is fine by me, all right, very good,
very No, No, not at all, it's not all right,
very good, Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Yes, I think of all the times you've accused Diane
of being pad passive aggressive Diane, yep, And if she
could have some sort of filter to save us from
that aggression, albeit passive, it'd be a good thing, be
an awesome thing.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
I hate pat what aggressive Diane. I don't want anyone to.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Be in a mood like that, especially Diane.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
No, that is true. That is true. Angry. Diane's worse
than anybody else in here angry.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
How often do I get really angry with Scott?
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Never?
Speaker 3 (18:23):
From what I understand, you save it all for us.
That's right, Lie too, Hi Elliott the morning.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Hey, good morning.
Speaker 8 (18:33):
There's this website called Goblin Tools, and I'm a teacher
and was introduced by it by one of.
Speaker 6 (18:42):
I guess someone who's in part of like AI. Well no,
but if you go to Goblin Tools, you can like
put in basically what you want to say, however you
want to say it, and they have dropdowns like less narky,
more accessible, more passionate, more sarcastic. You can you can
level out the spice if you want little spice or
(19:04):
extra spice on what you would. It's actually it's pretty hilarious.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Actually, hey, did you did you say you're a teacher?
Speaker 6 (19:14):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Yes, you would you ever send a parent a note?
Speaker 3 (19:19):
That was that was a I?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
That that was AI AI response assisted assisted.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Yes, I would, you would?
Speaker 5 (19:30):
I would.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
That's the one that chaps my ass. I'm sorry, yeah,
but that's my kids we're talking about. You can't even
you can't even, no wonder he's not doing well. You're
you're so lackluster, non goddamn invested. No, no wonder.
Speaker 6 (19:45):
I feel like we're held to a standard and you
are respond to parents exactly, so we don't respond to
you professionally. Then we're castrated for that too.
Speaker 3 (19:57):
Yeah you see, are I think fighting? I know, it's
for real. You should be held to a standard. Hold on, mam.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
You're representing all teachers and Elliott, you're all DJs by
the way, shocks are held to a standard. We're all
held to standards.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
And you're cut off from things that you would like
to say, aren't you pardon me?
Speaker 3 (20:16):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (20:18):
Zing, yeah, type something in, type something in because like no,
you know what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
What did I say to Kapiggie during the food Fighters things?
Oh that's right, Yeah, that'll be my response. Well, I
can't do a teacher. That's a little Yeah, that's bad
and bad, that's bad. Oh well, I know, Diane, I'm
I'm work shopping. But you're also cut off from things
that you can't say.
Speaker 6 (20:50):
There you go, yeah, and I can I can put
for example, if I wanted to say something, get to
the point, but kind of like dance around it. I
would put it into goblin tools. Say what I want
to say. Put it into goblin tools, and they can
make it sound more professionally, more accepted.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Right, And you know what I do.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I go into my heart in my head, and that's
how I communicate back to you, ma'am.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
And I'd say wow, wow, not responding to that parent.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
You're the best, all right, very good, duly noted, duly noted,
Thank you, mam.
I don't think it's unfair, and I'm not trying to
be nosy, But have you and have you and you
and Scott at some point in your relationship dating and
or married, have had uh, what do you want to
call a fight?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
See, okay, Well don't blow it off like you haven't.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
We I mean we, we really don't. Nothing's coming to mind.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
That we've You've never had a fight with Scott.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
I mean little petty arguments, but nothing serious.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Are you serious? And I can not that I can
recall me neither.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I've never even had something small I mean, no, Jack
and I've never no.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
But I'm thinking about like what like where we didn't
talk for a few days or anything like that. I
can't think of anything like that.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Are you serious? Oh my god, God, am my horrible husband.
Let me ask you this. Let's so you and Scott,
but it's still a fight. You still had a fight.
Would you be upset if during a fight?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Christian?
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Have you and Mike have ever or you and Diane's
camp where it's like no, it's just all uh, everything's roses.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
You can't say that. I'm like, I'm not talking about
anything major. Where doors were slammed or people left house
or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You've never slammed a door now with him, Oh my god,
I should have married Scott. Let's pretend you and Scott
are in a fight. Would you be pissed if you
found out that he was using like you're arguing it
(01:32):
not all at the same time, but like you're arguing,
you take a break, right, and everybody kind of separates,
but you still have to like figure the whole thing out.
Would you be upset if you learned afterwards that all
of his responses back to you, or his arguments, his
points back to you were done because he went to
chat GPT.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
And it was all AI generated responses. Yes, use your
brain the why would that bother? You? Like, wouldn't that
be helpful?
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Because he was so furious he couldn't formulate a sentence
for whatever reason, for what he was he was making
sure like all of his points were covered.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Yes, I don't know, he was just doing it for whatever.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I mean. I would certainly mock him for that.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
That leads him relying more on the.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
H You don't think that's a good idea that way,
It's at least it's a little more thought out what if?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
What if? What if?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
He was like, you know what, I'm gonna everybody calmed down.
Dian went to work.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'm at home.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I'm going to send her a note. But it was
an AI generated note and she just copy and paste.
He just copy and pasted it and send it to you.
I think it's smart.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I know someone who's used it with family related matters.
But it involved their children. So they had to deal
with another family and the it was I would say,
a bullying situation, right, so.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
They had to tell the other family their kids a bully.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, more or less. And so they were definitely initially
talking via like email. It wasn't a phone call, right,
so they were trying to craft what to say and
they wanted it to be right and in the proper
tone that got the message across. And they definitely went
to a chatbot.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Did Diane mock them after that?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
That's different, that's not that's not me having an argument
with my husband.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
But it could be the same thing. You send them
an email laid out nicely.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
You're thinking that's the right thing, Yeah, the right the
right way to say something. I don't think there's anything
wrong with like going to AI.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
For that what it upset you if you found out
your daughter did it to you?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Oh that's good, Yes, Diane, you'd be furious or do you.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Think you could? Hell?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Yeah, I can. I definitely know how she talks and
would write. I'd be like, this isn't you. I mean
I've seen that in papers.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
But so, but that would piss you off.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
But that's also they live that way.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Right, Oh, so they get a pass because that's it's nineteen.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
That's what they do, right. I don't know if it
would piss me off.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
But Scott would piss you off.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, I'd be excited. To'd be like, oh my goodness.
There's no slang in this communication for bros. They're actually
talking how I want them to speak to me. What growth?
What can you I forget about the fight?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Can you dumb that down though? Can you like, can
you chat GPT your response and then go hey.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
But say it like you're thirteen?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Slang it up? Absolutely? Yeah, yeah, so you may still
get that.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
You can definitely put it in the voice of any
sort of person.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Yeah, so that you may actually get that.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
You're right, And then I'd be angry at that. It's
a vicious circle.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
The who's the guy from Stranger Things that was married
to Lily Allen David Herber.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Yeah, she chat beat Jeep. Was it her to him
or him to her?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
She she refused some of his kinky sex requests. Oh,
she used an AI chatbot to script out responses during
an argument they were having. Oh they're split up now
the Yeah, but she wanted to be able to say
things the right way.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I think it's smart. Huh.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Now it is, like Diane said, odd to hear that
when you know the end result of their relationship. But
has she been doing this for a long time? So
they has they were together for what five? Five years?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I think I read it was five years? Yeah, Yeah,
I think I read it was. I don't know his name.
I didn't watch Stranger.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Thing, Dan Harper. He was Harper, right, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
She's way more famous to me than he is.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
So this is not something she just used at the end.
She's saying she used this over the course of the relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I don't know, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
If it was the entire relationship, but she was definitely
using at the end.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
But at the end they broke up. So that's not
a great endorsement of.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Well, but that's okay.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
I mean, listen, not everybody's gonna stay together, but at
least you're you're you're in the process of it. Well,
they said that she went all quote Wagatha Christie, but
the well he was cheating and he had an account
on Riyah, and so she signed up and got an
account and then was able to see that he was
looking to bang women while he was in Atlanta working
(06:32):
on stranger stuff, not stuff things, stranger stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
And then while he was away working, he tried to
hook up. Look at you, Lily Allen number one fan.
You should come with me tomorrow to see better man,
but she used it.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Would you be.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Upset, Diane if you found out a teacher used it
to talk to you? What do you mean about your child?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Wait, a teacher used it to talk to me.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
So obviously like describing some sort of problem in a classroom.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Parents talk to teachers, right.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Would Diane be upset if she found out a teacher
used chat, GBT or any similar program or software to
communicate with her.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
With you, if the teacher is younger, maybe not, but
if they're older, I'd be like, you're my freaking talk.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
In my age.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
You know, can't Can you not formulate a sentence?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Young people can formulate?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I know? But why does a young person get a pass?
So I need to take the slang out for generation
as long? No, you know what fingers crossed for beta.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
The it's not bad you tell us they were being
shaped by AI. Yes, remember I was concerned about limbs
the no no, the teacher would piss me off. But
because lacky no no, I don't care.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
I don't care how old somebody is. Yeah, I'm not
an agist, but the that wouldn't bother me. But at
that point I would go, like, my kid's education is
pretty important, can we? Although I guess I should say
so is my marriage. But the all of a sudden,
I'm more okay with jack but Jackie doing it than
a teacher.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Why does the teacher bother me? Because freaking talk said, Yeah,
I don't care. I don't care if the teacher's thirty
or if the teacher's ninety. I don't. I don't want
to the I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I don't want to find out like my kids struggling
by getting a some some some AI generated email that
would bother me.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
That would bother me. Now I'm hi, you are now
I'm hot. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
In the meantime, Diana and I could have had a
fight and she's she said to me messages.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
I'd be like, oh, that's thoughtful, I said one of Diane.
She'd be like, freaking tom.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I do feel like if Elliott you sent a group
text and had used some assistance, we'd all know.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
You guys would know. I don't use it. You know why,
frigging talk.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Faking talk.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
We're at the restaurant Monday night when we were staying over.
We had a question we were trying to solve at
the table, and Mike pulled up chat GPT to see
if it could help us solve our mob.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
That's right, yeah he did. What was that?
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Yeah, yes, you know exactly what it was?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
No, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, but we didn't know what
it was. I know. So he put in the clues.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Oh that's right, Yeah, he put the clues in, which,
by the way, he.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Was wrong, so was Diane. Am I going to line too?
I like it? Hi Elliet the morning. Hello, Yeah, Hi,
who's this?
Speaker 5 (09:58):
Oh? This is Daniel from Hydeville.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yes, sir, all right, So I use Chad.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Gypt on the dating apps. It helps me, you know,
it helps my game basically, that's what it does.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Okay, But what happens if is that? Is that? Is
that common? Is that pretty common on dating apps?
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I honestly did not know. But there was this lady
I will speak in too, and it sounded like it
felt like she was using Chadgypt too, So I was like, you're.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
On the same page.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
So you guys had like robot sacks.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah, but what happens But let me ask you this though,
what happens, Like what happens if you guys end up
meeting up?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
I mean, I know how to woo.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
A lady, you know, in person, but sometimes you don't,
you know, you don't really know what to say to them,
you know when you guys are talking and you know,
sometimes you don't really want to think of a response,
so you just, you know, act tragipch and it doesn't
work for you. I'm plus, I'm paying twenty dollars a
month for it, so why not?
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Is it helpful?
Speaker 6 (10:59):
Though?
Speaker 4 (10:59):
If you're talking to it's got to be helpful. If
you're talking to several people, right, well.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yes it is.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
It is because it gives me all the response very
so I basically just take a screenshot of it and
then upload it to tragity and it gives me a response.
It's it's very convenient.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
To be honest, I would be so afraid. Here's where
I would be afraid. I get I guess, I listen.
I guess you're right, maybe because you're so good at
wooing in person, but I would be I would be
so afraid that I would sound like I would sound.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
What what's the word that I'm looking for? Awkward or no?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
But like in person, I would sound like uneducated. I
was trying, honestly, I was trying to use a word
that was not educated.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
But I would hate to get there. In person, they'd
be like, what grammar school did you go to?
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Like you type? You type well, but we're like, what's
your grammar? Like that I assumed he had a filter
on his photo, but that would be that that that
would be my yes, sir, Like that would be a
huge concern for me.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
I to be honest, I feel like I co walk
my way around it, you know. But you know, but
for the when you're talking with multiple people.
Speaker 7 (12:15):
You kind of you can't really focus on every one
of them. It's different when you're in person because now
you have a high attention and she has your attention,
so you're not talking to multiple people, because come on, man,
I'm literally talking to like seven different girls and I
have to like think about what to say to all
of them to keep the conversation going right, So.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
Just does it for me, you know.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
Now to two other questions. Two other questions, have you
have you have?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Like I understand that you're working seven chicks right now,
have you have you met up with any of them
in person? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I have, and it goes well.
Speaker 5 (12:50):
I mean I recently studied in it, like two weeks ago,
and I had a date last weekend, so you know,
it was it was a movie day, so it wasn't
a of talking. But we did have like a closation
and a cowboy It wasn't anything serious.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
You know.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
But have you to have sex or anything afterwards?
Speaker 5 (13:08):
No, we didn't have six kiss No, no, no, I don't.
I don't kiss on her. To be honest, Jesus Christ.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
You better ask cat gpt the tonguer for you. All Right, dude,
I appreciate it, Thank you, my friend. But now Diane,
let me ask you this. You're on a dating app, right,
you're on a dating app and the guys, the guy's
wooing you or whatever, right he's and you you meet
up in person, you go to a movie, you're sitting
in the car afterwards, and he's made it very clear,
(13:38):
I don't kiss on the first date. So it's not
like he's saying anything where it's like going and get
them panties, like, none of that's going on. Would it
bother you to find out that the whole time lead,
like in the three weeks leading up to going out,
that it was just he just input it, copy paste.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
Said, why does that?
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (13:52):
I know, frigging talk.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
Yeah, I mean you're gonna you were going to figure
it out once you start, you would?
Speaker 3 (14:00):
I bet you don't.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I bet there are so many people that get away
with it and nobody knows, and you're not getting away
with anything.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
It's fine now, Diane.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
If that relationship advances to an engagement and then marriage.
Hugh has done us a service here of using Gemini,
which is the Google chatbot, to make a response to
my wife telling her she's wrong about me spending too
much time fishing. So it gives you three options. It
(14:30):
does direct and honest, which is I hear your concern,
but I don't think I'm spending too much time fishing.
It's important for my mental and emotional well being. I'm
committed to making sure we have quality time together as well.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Who speaks to their spouse like that and there's calm
and assuring Honey, I understand you feel like I'm gone
a lot, and I appreciate you sharing that.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Phishing is a big part of my life, but I
also value our time together deeply. Maybe we can find
a happy medium, like me scheduling some more date nights
or us.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Going fishing together. It's if you got that from Scott,
wouldn't you be like? That is not you?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Hold on, there's a third option. They're an uneducated filter,
playful and lighthearted. Oh here we go, guilty as charge.
But seriously, fishing is my escape. It helps me recharge
and come back a better husband.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
That, by the way, is the best answer, that sounds
the most accurate.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
That is the best answer days.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
It says I'll cut back a little, and you promised
to learn to appreciate the peace and quiet of the
lake with me.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Sometimes let's go do things together.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
So I sit on the dock and he goes out.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
Well, you don't know that he's wade fishing.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
You don't know. Maybe he's sitting on the dock with
Maybe you're in an overpass. Maybe you're right by.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
The airport, my favorite overpass. I just want to freaking
fish Hi Ellie in the morning.
Speaker 8 (16:02):
Hey, I was just calling in to say that I
have actually used chat GPT for an argument and a relationship.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Before Oh good and how to go? It actually was good.
Speaker 8 (16:13):
I feel like I had a tendency to not be
able to being passive aggressive, so I was like prompting
chat GPTs to like take out the passive aggressive tones
from my message. So I think it worked.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Out pretty good. Are you two still together?
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:31):
We are so so that's nice. I mean, Lily Allen
is in my story, but that's okay. No, that's good. Hey,
But now would he be Does he know that you
did that?
Speaker 4 (16:43):
No?
Speaker 9 (16:44):
He didn't ask, so.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
So that's on him. He couldn't tell, which is good?
Which is good?
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Would he if you had to guess, would he be
pissed if he found out the truth?
Speaker 9 (16:56):
I don't think so, because I was genuinely using it,
like like it to say, like, rephrase this in a
way where it doesn't sound like I, you know, don't
care about what they're saying, but I also care about
what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
So I'm like it was a net good.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Right, No, that's good. Would you be pissed if he
was doing that to you?
Speaker 8 (17:17):
I don't think so, because it's like, at the end
of the day, it's like, still what he was trying
to say, but just phrase better with a substensive chat shoppe.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 8 (17:31):
But yeah, it was like like, oh, right, how much
you care about me? Then that's like different than like, oh,
can you tweak this statement that I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Either one is fine by me, all right, very good,
very No, No, not at all, it's not all right,
very good, Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Yes, I think of all the times you've accused Diane
of being pad passive aggressive Diane, yep, And if she
could have some sort of filter to save us from
that aggression, albeit passive, it'd be a good thing, be
an awesome thing.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
I hate pat what aggressive Diane. I don't want anyone to.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Be in a mood like that, especially Diane.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
No, that is true. That is true. Angry. Diane's worse
than anybody else in here angry.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
How often do I get really angry with Scott?
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Never?
Speaker 3 (18:23):
From what I understand, you save it all for us.
That's right, Lie too, Hi Elliott the morning.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Hey, good morning.
Speaker 8 (18:33):
There's this website called Goblin Tools, and I'm a teacher
and was introduced by it by one of.
Speaker 6 (18:42):
I guess someone who's in part of like AI. Well no,
but if you go to Goblin Tools, you can like
put in basically what you want to say, however you
want to say it, and they have dropdowns like less narky,
more accessible, more passionate, more sarcastic. You can you can
level out the spice if you want little spice or
(19:04):
extra spice on what you would. It's actually it's pretty hilarious.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Actually, hey, did you did you say you're a teacher?
Speaker 6 (19:14):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Yes, you would you ever send a parent a note?
Speaker 3 (19:19):
That was that was a I?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
That that was AI AI response assisted assisted.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Yes, I would, you would?
Speaker 5 (19:30):
I would.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
That's the one that chaps my ass. I'm sorry, yeah,
but that's my kids we're talking about. You can't even
you can't even, no wonder he's not doing well. You're
you're so lackluster, non goddamn invested. No, no wonder.
Speaker 6 (19:45):
I feel like we're held to a standard and you
are respond to parents exactly, so we don't respond to
you professionally. Then we're castrated for that too.
Speaker 3 (19:57):
Yeah you see, are I think fighting? I know, it's
for real. You should be held to a standard. Hold on, mam.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
You're representing all teachers and Elliott, you're all DJs by
the way, shocks are held to a standard. We're all
held to standards.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
And you're cut off from things that you would like
to say, aren't you pardon me?
Speaker 3 (20:16):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (20:18):
Zing, yeah, type something in, type something in because like no,
you know what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
What did I say to Kapiggie during the food Fighters things?
Oh that's right, Yeah, that'll be my response. Well, I
can't do a teacher. That's a little Yeah, that's bad
and bad, that's bad. Oh well, I know, Diane, I'm
I'm work shopping. But you're also cut off from things
that you can't say.
Speaker 6 (20:50):
There you go, yeah, and I can I can put
for example, if I wanted to say something, get to
the point, but kind of like dance around it. I
would put it into goblin tools. Say what I want
to say. Put it into goblin tools, and they can
make it sound more professionally, more accepted.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Right, And you know what I do.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I go into my heart in my head, and that's
how I communicate back to you, ma'am.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
And I'd say wow, wow, not responding to that parent.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
You're the best, all right, very good, duly noted, duly noted,
Thank you, mam.
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