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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Who's this.
Speaker 3 (00:02):
Samantha?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hi, Samantha, And you're in You're in some kind of pause.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
I'm in full blown.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Are you really? Are you really?
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Misery on a scale of one to ten?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Ten is it a ten?
Speaker 5 (00:17):
Really?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's like an eight now with some medication, but still
a ten. And some other ways?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
What other ways?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
All different kinds of ways.
Speaker 6 (00:28):
It could be behind closed doorways, mood everything.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I gotcha.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Let me ask you this, and I'm asking for a
very specific I'm searching for something very specific.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
But let's start broad.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
If somebody, if I said to you, give me, give
me three of the worst side effects or symptoms of it,
what would you tell me?
Speaker 5 (00:52):
The mood swings, yes.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
The hot flashes and the forgetfulness.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Flash forgetfulness, okay, all right, forgetfulness.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
All right, very good. You've been very helpful. You've been
very helpful.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
Thank you, last one?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
All right, very good? Good luck? And what do you say?
Speaker 7 (01:19):
I guess the good luck?
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Yeah, I don't know what you say? Hi elliot in
the morning, Yes, Hi, how are you?
Speaker 4 (01:31):
I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
There's that smile? M menopause? What give me? Top three
scale of one to ten? How miserable?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Are you.
Speaker 8 (01:42):
Usually fifty nine?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
All right, all right, and now what are the what
if I said to you, what are the three maybe
worst side effects or symptoms, you would tell me what.
Speaker 8 (01:58):
Probably the same that a lady before me just said.
It's the hot flashes, which I take medication, so.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
They're not quite as bad anymore. The mood swings or a.
Speaker 8 (02:08):
Those are wolf and yes, not so bad. And then
I don't really get them anymore. But night sweats used
to be really bad. And then I found out from
my doctor recently that my the JJ is sagging.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
That's fun.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Oh can I ask you?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Not what I thought you were going to say, but listen,
if you need a hand picking it up.
Speaker 7 (02:34):
Let me know did you ask or did they just
offer that up?
Speaker 5 (02:37):
Look at that thing?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Oh, it's like when there's too much water on the
tent and you're like, wow, this thing's really sagging.
Speaker 8 (02:45):
Currently swinging between my legs.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Hey, you know what?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I like that?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I like you.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Let me ask you something, Let me ask you something. Sure,
what about vaginal dry.
Speaker 8 (03:03):
I don't know about vaginal dryness because I have the
area has not been visited in.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
A while, right right, right, right, so I.
Speaker 8 (03:16):
Can't tell if there is any dryness, because I don't
really notice that unless I'm involved in something that would
require it to not be dry.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Understand, Oh, I'm drifting all right, Very good, very good.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Thank you, ma'am. Thank you.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Can't And this is where I usually upset everybody. Here
we go, because it is self cleansing. I don't think
that the level of lubrication has to do with sexual
(03:53):
arousal Right, you're right, doc, thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
So I'm reading this thing right, the unspoken agony. This
is the headline, The unspoken Agony of vaginal dryness. Well,
i'll pause right here. Yeah, I'll take a look. I
had no idea what it was about, so I start
reading it. It's all about like menopause and per perry
perio menopause. And they said that if you start talking
(04:22):
to people about menopause and periomenopause, they'll all say the
same thing. Hot flash, hot flashes, mood swings, forgetfulness, mood swings, sleep,
the awful sleep, like, they'll name everything. But if you
ask them, hey, what about vaginal dryness, they all go, oh, yeah,
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that one's bad. And they said people won't mention it.
Do you know what percentage and by the way, it
sounds horrible. One woman had to quit four jobs in
a year, but they went specifically why because of vaginal dryness?
But what was the job like prostitute?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
No, just from being just from being in so much
misery and pain.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Oh all the time? Yes, yes, Like they couldn't wear clothes.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
There's what's this one woman's saying.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
They go and they talk about like everybody, and it
became like a big celebrity thing.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Is it is it friction based?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hold on?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Hold on?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Or is it are you you're jumping in like I was.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Are you feeling it not too fast? Or are you
feeling it all the time? No matter if there's.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
You're feeling No, you're feeling it all the time.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Oh, like they said, it became the big celebrity thing, right,
And they talk about Michelle Obama, Salamahayat, Gwyneth Paltrow.
Speaker 9 (05:41):
This no, no, no, just talking more freely about about menopause.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
That's just halle Berry And they all talk about how
there's like, oh, you know what, it's very natural and like,
I don't know there's some boobs.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I don't know what goes on there, but they.
Speaker 9 (05:55):
Said that there's there's so much attention that is paid
to like when you start when when girls are starting
to go through and get into puberty, and there's so
much attention paid to that because it's it's such a
massive change, right, Whereas they're like, nobody talks about what
happens when you're getting older, right, Oh, I'll give you
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that when they should.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
But they said, like people will go like, oh, so
you stop having your period or it becomes sporadic or something.
Speaker 9 (06:21):
Yeah, they'll say something like sort of like off the cuff,
like it's no big deal.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Now.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Vaginal dryness eighty percent, get it. This one woman, this
one woman, here we go, She goes, I had such
severe dryness that when I tried to wipe myself after going,
I couldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I was so sore I'd barely be able to dab.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Another woman was like, I couldn't wear underwear because the
underwear was on my my thing. And so I was like,
I can't wear underwear, but guess what, my pants were
no better, so they would.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
This woman's like I couldn't.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
She literally said she'd get home and she would take
off her pants or her underwear and stuff and just
sit in a in a.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Tub, not a hot tub like a sitz bath.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
No, the sitzpath is like where you need a sponge
or something. No, just sit in a tub.
Speaker 9 (07:10):
But sitzpath is like after you have a baby, or
if you've got really bad like hemorrhoids.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Or I don't I don't know what the sits part is.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Well, that's just as s s Z. Yeah, it's just
it's a soak your paraneal region.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah, you fill it up past your belly button. There
you go.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
No, I don't know. This is like it's like a bowl. Yeah,
no in the bathtub.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I take off my stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I mean, bathe wherever you want. I've seen people bathing fountains,
but they're like anyway. This woman would just go.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Like you put this. Yeah you've seen that before. What
is that? That's a sitz bath And what do you
do with that?
Speaker 7 (07:47):
You sits in it?
Speaker 5 (07:50):
You hope it fits your standard toilet.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
But oh wait a minute, so that doesn't go in
the bathtub. No, uh uh so why you're taking a piss.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Your your No, no, no, you're not urinating into the
sitz bath.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Oh so it's just it it's like a dunk tank.
For your cooter that it is there, you go, what's wrong?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
You know what it is?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Sometimes the water fills up a lot here and I'll
sit down in my and I'll dunk my nuts. Same
thing except minor, like I'm not dying, but that's the
same thing.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
They're dunking their nuts.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
More or less. It is called a sitz bath because
the German word sits in means to sit.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Oh, there you go, sits in bassin, I'm dunking nuts in.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
You would use it for, like Diane said, hemorrhoids. You
could have it for cramps, rectal surgery, but nests just sit.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
In the bathtub and anal fissures. Yeah, boy, thanks flavor, flavor.
But nobody will talk about it. Nobody will say that
they're that their vagina is so dry and.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
They said extreme cases.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Eighty percent of women, Diane, eighty percent of women will
say that they and it's not like later, it's not
like they said. Sometimes the first sign of Perry perryo
menopause is the really drive vagina. But they'll say you
ask it, ask any woman, and you got to keep
prodding and prodding until you come out and go, do
(09:38):
you have any vaginal dryness and they're like, oh god, yes,
but nobody, nobody.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
It's like it's taboo.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
So Aaron M. Barlow has all dry. She says she
can't call, but.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
In so much pain. I'm I'm sorry, I can't.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I can't reach my phone. I'm mid six bath, y'all.
But she sits it down in the since bath the
water is so shocking or is she gonna say it's
she she can't wipe. She just she has to a
little dabble.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Do you well, I'm sorry? What was she gonna say? Well,
you know it's so clean.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Shame, that's what I said. No, it's a shame she
doesn't have one of those hotel toilet phones. She she
gives hits us on two heads her, I've been in
perry menopause hell for years now. Every one of you
can go to hell. Then she says that she used
(10:49):
to sell a vagina cream and uh. She says that
many obgri ends never talk to women about this, about that,
thank you, Why that's their job. Some even recommended their
patients turning off ceiling fans because they'll dry you out.
(11:11):
And then she uses the two eyeball emo. She's typing
fast there are a lot of errors, Madstream, get you Badstream.
I don't think she was selling it on the corner,
Like so is she trying to say that as both
(11:35):
a sufferer and a salesperson at one point in time, right,
that even those you think would know about this and
be aware of the topics to discuss you're finding shortcomings.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You get it, you get more here.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
For me, I didn't know if he was pointing somewhere she.
Speaker 7 (11:57):
Was pointing it like his heart.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Oh I do, I'm all about the heart. Where am
I going? Line seven? Hi Elliott the morning?
Speaker 10 (12:07):
Hi Elliott's me Jackie in Newmarket?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Hey, how are you good?
Speaker 10 (12:11):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
I am doing well? Thank you? Do you need a
Can I get you an interest? You in a badge cream?
Speaker 4 (12:17):
Uh?
Speaker 10 (12:18):
Yeah, actually yes you can, because uh I thought I
was just going through perrymenopause. I'm getting all this blood
work done. Anyways, They're going to figure out if it's
full menopause because the vaginal dryness down there is horrible. Yes,
I mean extremely horrible. My husband and I had sex
(12:39):
and I was in.
Speaker 8 (12:40):
So much pain.
Speaker 10 (12:41):
So I go to the doctor and she's like, honey,
not everything but your boobs fall in women, your badge
falls and even your reptal fault. And I was like,
oh my god. I was like, no, I can't deal
with this.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
So, yeah, where's your ass go?
Speaker 7 (13:04):
Is it just because.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Wow?
Speaker 10 (13:07):
Yes, he said, She said, honey, is not just your
boobs dropping?
Speaker 7 (13:12):
And I was like, oh god lord.
Speaker 10 (13:14):
I was like, so now I have a guyn ofcologists
appointment to see if my badge is falling because I
want to hear something really funny. When I went to
my ikey exam a couple of years ago, my doctor
was like, can you skip down a little bit more.
It's like okay, He's like, well, yeah, as you get older,
your badge drops.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Like why, hey, you're smothering me here.
Speaker 10 (13:39):
I was like, oh my god, man, women, what we
go through time?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
This woman said, this woman says, uh, what's her name?
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Renee? The vaginal dryness. It's absolutely debilitating. They can't go
to the gym anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
You can't wear jeans, you can't go for a bike ride,
you can't run up the stairs, you can't do anything.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
It's too painful.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Some people are like, I can't even I can't walk,
like you could walk, but not without pain.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
So is this why they're having to leave.
Speaker 10 (14:11):
I haven't gotten there yet.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Well wait till it drops. Another A couple aches.
Speaker 10 (14:16):
Well, god forbid, I might have to get surgery to
repair it.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Oh there goes Mary again, drag an ass.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
You got that right?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
All right? Very good, thank you, best of luck. Yeah,
here you go. Walking was painful. I was in agazy agony.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
The burning never let up for one second of the
night or day.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Some people and again she says she can't call. Some
people would like more information about this cream from Aaron because,
as they're saying, too often those who are uninformed and
maybe men think this is just like an astro glide solution,
and we're hearing this is not at all what's going
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on here?
Speaker 9 (15:08):
What do you mean like it's not just during Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
No, this woman's she just got a ceiling fan on
that thing is is.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Well?
Speaker 5 (15:18):
No, that was that was what they thought was causing it.
And how they're misinformed as well. Now about the woman
who had to.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Leave four different jobs, job, four jobs, and could you
imagine you think like, oh my god, I got to
get these underwear off, and you get your underwear off
only to be replaced by oh my god, I got
to get these pants off.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
You got to go home and dunk it. I get it,
but nobody will talk about it. You need people like me.
Speaker 5 (15:49):
Is society Diane getting better though with menopausal discussion?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (15:56):
Excuse me? Not specific to yourself.
Speaker 9 (16:00):
I mean, I think since more people talk about it, yes,
but but like are you sing a yeah, I've never
heard of that? No, no, no, yeah, because no, I've heard
of it, but not to that extreme.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Oh yeah, no, that's that's yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
But whether it's TV or the movies, like puberty is
an off cover topic. Yeah, yeah, but that's because it's
fawe are they covering menopause? Is it a part of storylines?
Enough on the screens?
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Because it's funny when you're young, in horny and have
a boner. It's not funny when when when?
Speaker 2 (16:36):
When it when?
Speaker 1 (16:36):
It when it looks like the beginning of every like
desert cracked desert movie and you can't get an erection,
like there's nothing fun about that.
Speaker 9 (16:43):
The only the only thing that has come up in
my recent memory of it, it was in one of
the and Just Like That episodes where Charlotte was surprised
and uh spotted her overalls because she hadn't had a
period in years, and then all of a sudden she
got one and she was at some charity painting thing.
Speaker 5 (17:02):
I'll apologize everybody.
Speaker 9 (17:05):
Yes, thank you to Kristin Davis for a raising awareness.
Speaker 5 (17:09):
But do you get upset only it when, say, for
a movie, because you're saying you like the awkwardness and
the humor around you. When you read a movie review
and they'll say like, oh, this movie nails Huberty. Does
that sort of turn you off because you're like, well,
I want the jokes and the funny side out of it. Yeah,
not the the stressors of I.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Didn't go to a movie, and I don't go to
I didn't go see a documentary.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
I went to a movie like let's have fun.
Speaker 7 (17:36):
Yeah, Hey, I ain't here to see you sweat?
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Where am I going?
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Line one?
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Hi Ellie in the morning.
Speaker 4 (17:46):
Hi Kelly, Yes, Kelly?
Speaker 2 (17:49):
How are you?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
I'm good? How are you doing good?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
What can At this point? I have no idea what
you're calling me about?
Speaker 4 (17:56):
Prolapse, welling out, the vaginal dryness, don't I don't because
my doctor actually turned me on to a little secret
that has been game changer. I am full blown in menopause,
and she told me a few years ago to use
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coconut oil. Try to apply coconut oil to yourself or
use it with your partner once twice a week. Try
to work it up. And it has been I there
is not a dry thing about.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Me, ancient tiny secret.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
It is.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
When I'm here to sharing with the listeners.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Wait, so what is it? It's coconut oil.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Yeah, like coconut oil that you buy in the grocery store.
You get the coke yep, and you just kind of
insert a little.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
Bit that Okay, yeah, it comes in the jars.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Yeah right, and it's like it's kind of like hard
when you take it out of the jar, but as
soon as it touches you it.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, sure this body temperature. Hey, can I ask you
this though? I just want I just want to ask
to be smart. Do they because I've never heard of this, right,
but do they?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Would?
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Would would would conventional wisdom say like it's not really
for that, don't use it there?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Or like you said, like your doctor was like you're cool.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
Yeah, no, you could use it. I mean people put
it in their hair, use it on their skin. Like
coconut oil is great for all kinds of stuff. Oh,
no kidding, It is definitely game changer.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
Warn you elliot. It says avoid areas prone to acne.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Well, never mind.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
And she also said if you use your normal you
know loubs that you buy, that it can actually draw
you out worse.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Wait, regular lube can. Yes, that's what.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
That's like an oxymorn. That's like jumbo shrimp. You would
I think you would think the lube would be.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
Good for were you?
Speaker 5 (20:00):
But was she struggling with her dad today?
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Were you struggling with your day to day?
Speaker 4 (20:05):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (20:06):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (20:07):
How many jobs have you quit?
Speaker 4 (20:10):
None? The same one for eighteen years?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But were you?
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Were you so bad where it was like your underwear
was killing you? Could you not wipe? What did you
have to dab?
Speaker 4 (20:20):
I did stop wearing underwork for a little bit?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah, no, I get it.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
I let someone I know who made.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
You definitely stop underwear.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Yeah no, that I tell you should always do. You
should never sleep in underwear. Let that bad boy breathe right?
Were you were you using a were you using a
sitz bath?
Speaker 5 (20:40):
No?
Speaker 4 (20:40):
Never use one of those?
Speaker 3 (20:41):
Good?
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Good, good, good, all right, very good, very good. I
appreciate it. Thank you, ma'am, thank you.
Speaker 5 (20:49):
You don't have a Sitz bath in your house.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
No, we have a bathtub, which is just a bigger
Sitz bath, and you get your whole body wet instead
of just your coat.
Speaker 5 (20:59):
I just thought everyone left the hospital with one. Yeah,
and then you should save it in case that butt
starts dragging. I know, exactly, like to sits. Do you
have one?
Speaker 2 (21:12):
We hadn't.
Speaker 9 (21:13):
I don't know if I have it anymore. We definitely
got left the hospital with one. Is it possible that
we left the hospital with one?
Speaker 7 (21:19):
I wouldn't doubt it.
Speaker 5 (21:19):
Jackie did have him, right, But did you think gives
like a bedpan? Well, you don't take the bed sorry, man,
A dumped in it.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
If I had to, bet, I bet I did think
it was a bedpan. And Jackie like I remember the
first piss Jackie took after having the having the kid.
That bathroom bro like at the hospital. Honestly, it looked
like it looked like there was a shooting in there.
It was horrible.
Speaker 7 (21:43):
I'm sorry you had to experience that.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
Well, she wanted me to go in there, and I
was like, I'm not going in there, Jesus Christ, you
kidding me.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
But I don't think we left with one. Is it possible?
Holy Cross was like, huh uh.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
My youngest is eleven, almost eleven years old. To get
into the backside of the closet, like the stuff that
you don't wear that often, you have to step over
our sis bath.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
I thought you were gonna say, step on it to
reach up.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
It's like, it's right there. I know exactly where it is.
I see it every day. I don't always have to
step over it, but I see it every day. Where
am I going?
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Line four?
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (22:25):
Elliott in the morning?
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, Hi, who's this.
Speaker 5 (22:33):
As?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
I'm sorry you say that again? Yeah? In my on
like some kind of speaker or something there, Honey, I.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
Had my airbighted, that's why.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yeah, okay, all right, well in a little bit anyway, Yes,
well what are you calling me.
Speaker 6 (22:51):
About, dar, I'll try it this way now.
Speaker 7 (22:55):
It's that better?
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Oh so much better, so much better.
Speaker 6 (23:01):
So yes, perrymanopause at the moment.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
How's that dryness?
Speaker 6 (23:08):
So you know, it's interesting, it's not necessarily dryness. It's desensitivity,
would you like you know, like you go get there
all the time. If that makes any.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Don't be embarrass You're just talking to me the I'm
with you, Yeah, that's not that's fine. So you're so
that thing doesn't have a lot of feeling right now?
Speaker 6 (23:35):
No, No, So I and I was like, hey, this
isn't happening, and it still needs to be happening.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
So I did talk to my.
Speaker 6 (23:41):
Doctor about it.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Would your doctor say.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
No?
Speaker 6 (23:45):
But I have a big vanda that downstairs.
Speaker 10 (23:48):
I'm going to break that bath.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Why don't you pour it in your six bath and
just soaking it?
Speaker 3 (23:55):
I don't.
Speaker 8 (23:57):
I am like you. I don't have a SiZ bath
in my claw and.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Right, So what did the what did the doctor say?
What did the doctor say?
Speaker 6 (24:06):
Oh, you know badge cream? He did not suggest.
Speaker 5 (24:10):
Doctors no longer are they? Are they so quick in
meeting they can't they can't say vaginal doctors have to
shorten everything.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
What's wrong with saying that's how people talk badge cream?
Speaker 5 (24:23):
I know one pharmaceutical rep on X says that, and
now everyone acts like, yeah, that's that's the way.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
What it is like if you were if you if
you went to go get what he said, just spin
on it.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
If you went to if you went to Lindsay's guyne
collogist and he was like, yeah, just pick up some
badge cream.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
You would be like, excuse me, it's vaginal cream.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
No, I don't think he would say that. And he's
no longer practicing.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Which is why he would call it vadge cream. He
called cooter cream. I guess now he's in the streets. Oh,
he sells trunk cooter dream.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
Hey are you so? Wait? So the so the doctor
said badge cream and what else?
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (25:14):
Yeah, that was it.
Speaker 6 (25:15):
So you know, it's a lovely thing. You get to
actually trys a badge cream. It's an insert that you
have to do a couple of times a week.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Yeah you have you have you stopped wearing underwear?
Speaker 6 (25:29):
No, No, I don't have the I don't saying God,
I don't have that issue that level of dryingness or
anything like that. Now I'm just more concerned about you know.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
Yeah, that's right. You're just num Yeah, you're just numb.
You're just not all right. Very good, very good, thank you.
I'm glad you called.
Speaker 6 (25:46):
Of course anytime.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
There you go. Thank you.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
You can say that about all the people that are.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Conlutely absolutely and for as many times as I hear it,
he disgusting pink.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Where am I going? Line eight?
Speaker 5 (26:04):
I do this all day.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
Hill in the morning so much.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Hi, how are you doing?
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I am great? How are you?
Speaker 3 (26:12):
I just pulled out a bottle of my or jar
my virgin coconut oil because I will be trying that later.
Like it makes so much sense. It smells good, it
tastes good. Hell, yeah, you know what, Like I.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Do want to make sure like and you know what,
I shouldn't care right like everybody to be you, but
like I want to make sure like I do, like I.
Speaker 9 (26:32):
Don't want to do to have somebody do something that
they heard here that ends up harming them.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Yeah, that's what I.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
Don't want everybody going there and going like my, I
don't know what's going on down here, but this thing
is exploding here.
Speaker 5 (26:44):
I am in the er.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
What did you do?
Speaker 5 (26:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Well, I don't care what.
Speaker 5 (26:50):
The ingredients are.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
I have minus minus virgin coconut oil. It's cold pressed, unresigned,
and the only ingredient is cooking oil. So don't see
how it can hurt you.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
You're good. Get after it, please, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Not a lot of not a lot of preservatives or whatever.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Can we wait, hold on one second? Hold on one second,
can we can we? I know he's I know he
doesn't practice anymore.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Can we ask him?
Speaker 5 (27:12):
I'll send him a SEXT?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Please? I'm sorry you ask me. I'm back to you.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
Called Colin Tyler's guy. Know, yes, yes, Well the other
thing too is and this terrified me because my husband
passed away like four years ago.
Speaker 5 (27:26):
I'm sorry, and my neighbor.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
My neighbor is like twenty years older than me, and
like last year she started encouraging me. He says, you
you haven't go have sex. She's because if you don't
use it, it's going to get really painful.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
Because then if you don't use it.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
You use muscle, Yes, like using your muscle. So so
I've been trying, like getting out there, but I have
been worried about this is all so terrifying because you
don't know, like.
Speaker 5 (27:51):
When I do this, is it going to be normal?
Speaker 3 (27:53):
Is it don't it feel good? Or is it gonna hurt?
And then I'm gonna hate everything about life?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
So wait, did you not?
Speaker 3 (27:57):
So?
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Can can I ask you a question? And I hate to
hear that your husband died?
Speaker 5 (28:02):
But have you have you?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Have you not been with anybody since your since your husband.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
Passed just under twenty eighth, I had sex for the
first time.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
So it had been what almost four years?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Yeah, yeah, I've been yeah, just under four years.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Hey, let me ask you this. What was the How
was it?
Speaker 5 (28:19):
It was good?
Speaker 3 (28:19):
It was good until the morning, and then that's when
I don't know if it was psychological, because then when
we tried to do it again, it got really painful.
But I was like, well, maybe because I haven't used
it in so long, that's why it's hurting, right, you know.
But now I'm like, is it that's dryness again? It
gets in your head?
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Yeah, sure, is this what everybody's talking about?
Speaker 3 (28:38):
So but yes, the nighttime session.
Speaker 5 (28:40):
Was awesome and it was fun.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I'd like to do it again.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
I was gonna say, was it weird after after almost
four years? Like, were you nervous again?
Speaker 4 (28:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (28:50):
Oh yeah, I would imagine you were there.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because you're you're just You're like, well,
I was talking to some brind of mine. I'm like,
am I supposed to shoot everything? He's like, I don't understand,
you know, because all you see is porn or whatever.
It's like, is that what's supposed to look like? Because
this is what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
So what'd you do? What'd you do?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Well?
Speaker 3 (29:10):
I didn't because I wasn't expecting sex. Oh really and
then and then it happened. And now I'm like, oh wait,
you know, but it was fine. Hey what im trying
not to overthink it?
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Yeah, no, don't.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
I will when you like when you say, like when
you say you weren't expecting it happened. So like you
guys had gone out and you had a couple of
drinks and then you got back.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Do you go to his place or your place?
Speaker 3 (29:31):
My place?
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Right?
Speaker 1 (29:32):
So you go back to your place and then like
you start, like you start getting handsy.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Look, we were getting handsy before we got here. Here,
we really got here.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
It was on Oh no kidding, what'd you guys? What'd
you do before you got back.
Speaker 2 (29:45):
To your house?
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Made out?
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Did you really know? But where? Like in the car?
Speaker 5 (29:51):
In a bar?
Speaker 2 (29:52):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (29:53):
I had an embarrassing But now that's.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
Fine, that's fine. I love it.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
No, I love this for you. It was.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
It was awesome. It was, it was, it was it
was really fun. I got cheered because a lot of
my friends worked there and they're like, you.
Speaker 10 (30:07):
Need this, Oh, that's all.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
You know, what good for you?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Was it?
Speaker 2 (30:10):
Hey? Let me ask you this? Oral?
Speaker 4 (30:12):
Oral?
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Oral?
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Yeah, no, no, uh no, anal Man.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
I wasn't even gonna ask how about some respect here?
You were?
Speaker 3 (30:26):
You were gonna say one word?
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Hey, let me let me ask you this though.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Was that the first like I understand it's the first
time you had sex with someone since since you're the
well you know the was it the first time? Was
it first time for oral since since then?
Speaker 4 (30:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (30:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:40):
And I was I was like, hope everything's okay. Yeah,
but he didn't complain, so yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
No, that's I'm excited. That's exciting for you.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
Yeah, yeah it was.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
It was.
Speaker 3 (30:54):
It was good.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
But we kind of like, will you see this guy again?
Speaker 3 (30:57):
No? No, he was coming through town. Are you doing
the one night pick up? It was crazy. I've never
done anything like that.
Speaker 5 (31:04):
Was so much fun. Where is this carnival?
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Now?
Speaker 2 (31:12):
I love you and I really do, I really do?
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (31:16):
No, that's also good for you.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
Yeah, Like I said, now, I've been asking a lot
more questions of my friends. Like I said, I was like,
do I need to do this? What should I look for? What?
What's normal? What's not normal choking?
Speaker 2 (31:29):
Just so you know, choking is no.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
It is no.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
I don't want to do that.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
No, but it's very normal now.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
But isn't fascinating. I've heard that, yes, because she said.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
And even even one of the younger kids that that
works at the bar, he said that because he goes
girls want you to choke all.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
I was like, I don't want to be choking.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Choking And by the way, like I know you said
that you didn't really have time, but they clean it
up a little bit, right.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
That's what That's what I was told you. Well, don doesn't.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
I don't want your pants coming off and it looks
like there's like shrubbery growing out of there, you know.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
I'm sorry. Tyler was going to ask you something inappropriate.
Speaker 5 (32:02):
Good Oh, I was going to comment that it's interesting
because you hear how much pornography is toxic for young
people because it demonstrates a version of sex that is
so far off from the real thing. Whether it's an act,
whether it's how the body is like you said, how
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you're shaving, it creates expectations that often are not what's
going to happen at all in real life. But here
you are with someone who's not I don't want to
say much older. I'm mature, but who is who is
not a young woman who is saying the same things
where she's seeing the way porn is informing a viewer,
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and you're left with questions as to like, am I
okay right? I hate that?
Speaker 1 (32:54):
But you know what, here's what I would say, whether
whether it's you the next time the carnival comes through.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
Town or anybody else.
Speaker 5 (33:00):
No, no, no, but I'm being serious.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Where I'm going to call it a carnival ride from
now on?
Speaker 2 (33:06):
Where is?
Speaker 1 (33:07):
Where's Where's the one place anybody could call? Anybody could
go if they were like, you know what, it's been
a while.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
I don't know. I have a question about this. I
have a question about that. I'm not sure if this
is right for any any reason.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
It could be I'm fifty two, my husband passed away,
and I'm getting ready to oral for the first time.
Speaker 5 (33:24):
It could be.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
It could be I'm nineteen and I've never had sex before.
But they where's the one Where's the one place everybody
can go.
Speaker 5 (33:33):
For I get to ask question conversations?
Speaker 2 (33:36):
Yeah, here, right here? Absolutely point there. I mean, like
in my lap, I just meant.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Here absolutely, And when there's a whole community, I got
somebody that's selling badge cream on the internet.
Speaker 5 (33:50):
Like it's a whole community of people.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
So if you ever have any questions about choking or
shaving or anything, you come.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Right here, right all right?
Speaker 5 (34:00):
I love you, all right, very good, thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (34:04):
I'm gonna go out and look for my next carnival
ride and I'll think about you.
Speaker 4 (34:06):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Please do think of me. Why you're oraling?
Speaker 7 (34:09):
Oh weird, weird?
Speaker 5 (34:11):
All right, very good, thank you, ma'am. Thank you. I
love her, I like her a yeah, yeah, that's awesome
because obviously, maybe years ago she never pictured this, of course,
not she didn't think it was going to be her life. No,
I don't mean being a widow. But there was a moment,
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get you.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
She probably didn't expect that either.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
Sure, but there was a moment in time where she
maybe never thought this would be an element of her life.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
Oh right, Like I got to learned that, like I
should have been in choking years ago.
Speaker 5 (34:41):
Elliott, shut up, No, but that is such a huge
thing right now, choked Jackie to let me know on
Monday how it goes.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
Oh, I know, very well that that ain't happening.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
But that is that as Casey didn't need to go
with the name there, but the but that it is.
Speaker 5 (34:57):
I that she's come across a lot of men who
think at every girl wants that. Probably at the bar
said everybody's choking if they're not.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Choking chicken.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
I have yet to hear back from Aaron no the
guy to collogist, Oh okay, sorry, all right. Well you
know what, damn, you could go anywhere, you can call
anyone
Hi.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Who's this.
Speaker 3 (00:02):
Samantha?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hi, Samantha, And you're in You're in some kind of pause.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
I'm in full blown.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Are you really? Are you really?
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Misery on a scale of one to ten?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Ten is it a ten?
Speaker 5 (00:17):
Really?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's like an eight now with some medication, but still
a ten. And some other ways?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
What other ways?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
All different kinds of ways.
Speaker 6 (00:28):
It could be behind closed doorways, mood everything.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I gotcha.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Let me ask you this, and I'm asking for a
very specific I'm searching for something very specific.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
But let's start broad.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
If somebody, if I said to you, give me, give
me three of the worst side effects or symptoms of it,
what would you tell me?
Speaker 5 (00:52):
The mood swings, yes.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
The hot flashes and the forgetfulness.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Flash forgetfulness, okay, all right, forgetfulness.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
All right, very good. You've been very helpful. You've been
very helpful.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
Thank you, last one?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
All right, very good? Good luck? And what do you say?
Speaker 7 (01:19):
I guess the good luck?
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Yeah, I don't know what you say? Hi elliot in
the morning, Yes, Hi, how are you?
Speaker 4 (01:31):
I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
There's that smile? M menopause? What give me? Top three
scale of one to ten? How miserable?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Are you.
Speaker 8 (01:42):
Usually fifty nine?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
All right, all right, and now what are the what
if I said to you, what are the three maybe
worst side effects or symptoms, you would tell me what.
Speaker 8 (01:58):
Probably the same that a lady before me just said.
It's the hot flashes, which I take medication, so.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
They're not quite as bad anymore. The mood swings or a.
Speaker 8 (02:08):
Those are wolf and yes, not so bad. And then
I don't really get them anymore. But night sweats used
to be really bad. And then I found out from
my doctor recently that my the JJ is sagging.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
That's fun.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Oh can I ask you?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Not what I thought you were going to say, but listen,
if you need a hand picking it up.
Speaker 7 (02:34):
Let me know did you ask or did they just
offer that up?
Speaker 5 (02:37):
Look at that thing?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Oh, it's like when there's too much water on the
tent and you're like, wow, this thing's really sagging.
Speaker 8 (02:45):
Currently swinging between my legs.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Hey, you know what?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I like that?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I like you.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Let me ask you something, Let me ask you something. Sure,
what about vaginal dry.
Speaker 8 (03:03):
I don't know about vaginal dryness because I have the
area has not been visited in.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
A while, right right, right, right, so I.
Speaker 8 (03:16):
Can't tell if there is any dryness, because I don't
really notice that unless I'm involved in something that would
require it to not be dry.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Understand, Oh, I'm drifting all right, Very good, very good.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Thank you, ma'am. Thank you.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Can't And this is where I usually upset everybody. Here
we go, because it is self cleansing. I don't think
that the level of lubrication has to do with sexual
(03:53):
arousal Right, you're right, doc, thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
So I'm reading this thing right, the unspoken agony. This
is the headline, The unspoken Agony of vaginal dryness. Well,
i'll pause right here. Yeah, I'll take a look. I
had no idea what it was about, so I start
reading it. It's all about like menopause and per perry
perio menopause. And they said that if you start talking
(04:22):
to people about menopause and periomenopause, they'll all say the
same thing. Hot flash, hot flashes, mood swings, forgetfulness, mood swings, sleep,
the awful sleep, like, they'll name everything. But if you
ask them, hey, what about vaginal dryness, they all go, oh, yeah,
(04:43):
that one's bad. And they said people won't mention it.
Do you know what percentage and by the way, it
sounds horrible. One woman had to quit four jobs in
a year, but they went specifically why because of vaginal dryness?
But what was the job like prostitute?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
No, just from being just from being in so much
misery and pain.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Oh all the time? Yes, yes, Like they couldn't wear clothes.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
There's what's this one woman's saying.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
They go and they talk about like everybody, and it
became like a big celebrity thing.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Is it is it friction based?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hold on?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Hold on?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Or is it are you you're jumping in like I was.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Are you feeling it not too fast? Or are you
feeling it all the time? No matter if there's.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
You're feeling No, you're feeling it all the time.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Oh, like they said, it became the big celebrity thing, right,
And they talk about Michelle Obama, Salamahayat, Gwyneth Paltrow.
Speaker 9 (05:41):
This no, no, no, just talking more freely about about menopause.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
That's just halle Berry And they all talk about how
there's like, oh, you know what, it's very natural and like,
I don't know there's some boobs.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I don't know what goes on there, but they.
Speaker 9 (05:55):
Said that there's there's so much attention that is paid
to like when you start when when girls are starting
to go through and get into puberty, and there's so
much attention paid to that because it's it's such a
massive change, right, Whereas they're like, nobody talks about what
happens when you're getting older, right, Oh, I'll give you
(06:16):
that when they should.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
But they said, like people will go like, oh, so
you stop having your period or it becomes sporadic or something.
Speaker 9 (06:21):
Yeah, they'll say something like sort of like off the cuff,
like it's no big deal.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Now.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Vaginal dryness eighty percent, get it. This one woman, this
one woman, here we go, She goes, I had such
severe dryness that when I tried to wipe myself after going,
I couldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I was so sore I'd barely be able to dab.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Another woman was like, I couldn't wear underwear because the
underwear was on my my thing. And so I was like,
I can't wear underwear, but guess what, my pants were
no better, so they would.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
This woman's like I couldn't.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
She literally said she'd get home and she would take
off her pants or her underwear and stuff and just
sit in a in a.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Tub, not a hot tub like a sitz bath.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
No, the sitzpath is like where you need a sponge
or something. No, just sit in a tub.
Speaker 9 (07:10):
But sitzpath is like after you have a baby, or
if you've got really bad like hemorrhoids.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Or I don't I don't know what the sits part is.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Well, that's just as s s Z. Yeah, it's just
it's a soak your paraneal region.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah, you fill it up past your belly button. There
you go.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
No, I don't know. This is like it's like a bowl. Yeah,
no in the bathtub.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I take off my stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I mean, bathe wherever you want. I've seen people bathing fountains,
but they're like anyway. This woman would just go.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Like you put this. Yeah you've seen that before. What
is that? That's a sitz bath And what do you
do with that?
Speaker 7 (07:47):
You sits in it?
Speaker 5 (07:50):
You hope it fits your standard toilet.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
But oh wait a minute, so that doesn't go in
the bathtub. No, uh uh so why you're taking a piss.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Your your No, no, no, you're not urinating into the
sitz bath.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Oh so it's just it it's like a dunk tank.
For your cooter that it is there, you go, what's wrong?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
You know what it is?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Sometimes the water fills up a lot here and I'll
sit down in my and I'll dunk my nuts. Same
thing except minor, like I'm not dying, but that's the
same thing.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
They're dunking their nuts.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
More or less. It is called a sitz bath because
the German word sits in means to sit.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Oh, there you go, sits in bassin, I'm dunking nuts in.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
You would use it for, like Diane said, hemorrhoids. You
could have it for cramps, rectal surgery, but nests just sit.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
In the bathtub and anal fissures. Yeah, boy, thanks flavor, flavor.
But nobody will talk about it. Nobody will say that
they're that their vagina is so dry and.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
They said extreme cases.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Eighty percent of women, Diane, eighty percent of women will
say that they and it's not like later, it's not
like they said. Sometimes the first sign of Perry perryo
menopause is the really drive vagina. But they'll say you
ask it, ask any woman, and you got to keep
prodding and prodding until you come out and go, do
(09:38):
you have any vaginal dryness and they're like, oh god, yes,
but nobody, nobody.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
It's like it's taboo.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
So Aaron M. Barlow has all dry. She says she
can't call, but.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
In so much pain. I'm I'm sorry, I can't.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I can't reach my phone. I'm mid six bath, y'all.
But she sits it down in the since bath the
water is so shocking or is she gonna say it's
she she can't wipe. She just she has to a
little dabble.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Do you well, I'm sorry? What was she gonna say? Well,
you know it's so clean.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Shame, that's what I said. No, it's a shame she
doesn't have one of those hotel toilet phones. She she
gives hits us on two heads her, I've been in
perry menopause hell for years now. Every one of you
can go to hell. Then she says that she used
(10:49):
to sell a vagina cream and uh. She says that
many obgri ends never talk to women about this, about that,
thank you, Why that's their job. Some even recommended their
patients turning off ceiling fans because they'll dry you out.
(11:11):
And then she uses the two eyeball emo. She's typing
fast there are a lot of errors, Madstream, get you Badstream.
I don't think she was selling it on the corner,
Like so is she trying to say that as both
(11:35):
a sufferer and a salesperson at one point in time, right,
that even those you think would know about this and
be aware of the topics to discuss you're finding shortcomings.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You get it, you get more here.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
For me, I didn't know if he was pointing somewhere she.
Speaker 7 (11:57):
Was pointing it like his heart.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Oh I do, I'm all about the heart. Where am
I going? Line seven? Hi Elliott the morning?
Speaker 10 (12:07):
Hi Elliott's me Jackie in Newmarket?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Hey, how are you good?
Speaker 10 (12:11):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
I am doing well? Thank you? Do you need a
Can I get you an interest? You in a badge cream?
Speaker 4 (12:17):
Uh?
Speaker 10 (12:18):
Yeah, actually yes you can, because uh I thought I
was just going through perrymenopause. I'm getting all this blood
work done. Anyways, They're going to figure out if it's
full menopause because the vaginal dryness down there is horrible. Yes,
I mean extremely horrible. My husband and I had sex
(12:39):
and I was in.
Speaker 8 (12:40):
So much pain.
Speaker 10 (12:41):
So I go to the doctor and she's like, honey,
not everything but your boobs fall in women, your badge
falls and even your reptal fault. And I was like,
oh my god. I was like, no, I can't deal
with this.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
So, yeah, where's your ass go?
Speaker 7 (13:04):
Is it just because.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Wow?
Speaker 10 (13:07):
Yes, he said, She said, honey, is not just your
boobs dropping?
Speaker 7 (13:12):
And I was like, oh god lord.
Speaker 10 (13:14):
I was like, so now I have a guyn ofcologists
appointment to see if my badge is falling because I
want to hear something really funny. When I went to
my ikey exam a couple of years ago, my doctor
was like, can you skip down a little bit more.
It's like okay, He's like, well, yeah, as you get older,
your badge drops.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Like why, hey, you're smothering me here.
Speaker 10 (13:39):
I was like, oh my god, man, women, what we
go through time?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
This woman said, this woman says, uh, what's her name?
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Renee? The vaginal dryness. It's absolutely debilitating. They can't go
to the gym anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
You can't wear jeans, you can't go for a bike ride,
you can't run up the stairs, you can't do anything.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
It's too painful.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Some people are like, I can't even I can't walk,
like you could walk, but not without pain.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
So is this why they're having to leave.
Speaker 10 (14:11):
I haven't gotten there yet.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Well wait till it drops. Another A couple aches.
Speaker 10 (14:16):
Well, god forbid, I might have to get surgery to
repair it.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Oh there goes Mary again, drag an ass.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
You got that right?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
All right? Very good, thank you, best of luck. Yeah,
here you go. Walking was painful. I was in agazy agony.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
The burning never let up for one second of the
night or day.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Some people and again she says she can't call. Some
people would like more information about this cream from Aaron because,
as they're saying, too often those who are uninformed and
maybe men think this is just like an astro glide solution,
and we're hearing this is not at all what's going
(15:07):
on here?
Speaker 9 (15:08):
What do you mean like it's not just during Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
No, this woman's she just got a ceiling fan on
that thing is is.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Well?
Speaker 5 (15:18):
No, that was that was what they thought was causing it.
And how they're misinformed as well. Now about the woman
who had to.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Leave four different jobs, job, four jobs, and could you
imagine you think like, oh my god, I got to
get these underwear off, and you get your underwear off
only to be replaced by oh my god, I got
to get these pants off.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
You got to go home and dunk it. I get it,
but nobody will talk about it. You need people like me.
Speaker 5 (15:49):
Is society Diane getting better though with menopausal discussion?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (15:56):
Excuse me? Not specific to yourself.
Speaker 9 (16:00):
I mean, I think since more people talk about it, yes,
but but like are you sing a yeah, I've never
heard of that? No, no, no, yeah, because no, I've heard
of it, but not to that extreme.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Oh yeah, no, that's that's yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:18):
But whether it's TV or the movies, like puberty is
an off cover topic. Yeah, yeah, but that's because it's
fawe are they covering menopause? Is it a part of storylines?
Enough on the screens?
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Because it's funny when you're young, in horny and have
a boner. It's not funny when when when?
Speaker 2 (16:36):
When it when?
Speaker 1 (16:36):
It when it looks like the beginning of every like
desert cracked desert movie and you can't get an erection,
like there's nothing fun about that.
Speaker 9 (16:43):
The only the only thing that has come up in
my recent memory of it, it was in one of
the and Just Like That episodes where Charlotte was surprised
and uh spotted her overalls because she hadn't had a
period in years, and then all of a sudden she
got one and she was at some charity painting thing.
Speaker 5 (17:02):
I'll apologize everybody.
Speaker 9 (17:05):
Yes, thank you to Kristin Davis for a raising awareness.
Speaker 5 (17:09):
But do you get upset only it when, say, for
a movie, because you're saying you like the awkwardness and
the humor around you. When you read a movie review
and they'll say like, oh, this movie nails Huberty. Does
that sort of turn you off because you're like, well,
I want the jokes and the funny side out of it. Yeah,
not the the stressors of I.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Didn't go to a movie, and I don't go to
I didn't go see a documentary.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
I went to a movie like let's have fun.
Speaker 7 (17:36):
Yeah, Hey, I ain't here to see you sweat?
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Where am I going?
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Line one?
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Hi Ellie in the morning.
Speaker 4 (17:46):
Hi Kelly, Yes, Kelly?
Speaker 2 (17:49):
How are you?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
I'm good? How are you doing good?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
What can At this point? I have no idea what
you're calling me about?
Speaker 4 (17:56):
Prolapse, welling out, the vaginal dryness, don't I don't because
my doctor actually turned me on to a little secret
that has been game changer. I am full blown in menopause,
and she told me a few years ago to use
(18:17):
coconut oil. Try to apply coconut oil to yourself or
use it with your partner once twice a week. Try
to work it up. And it has been I there
is not a dry thing about.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Me, ancient tiny secret.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
It is.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
When I'm here to sharing with the listeners.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Wait, so what is it? It's coconut oil.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Yeah, like coconut oil that you buy in the grocery store.
You get the coke yep, and you just kind of
insert a little.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
Bit that Okay, yeah, it comes in the jars.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Yeah right, and it's like it's kind of like hard
when you take it out of the jar, but as
soon as it touches you it.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, sure this body temperature. Hey, can I ask you
this though? I just want I just want to ask
to be smart. Do they because I've never heard of this, right,
but do they?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Would?
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Would would would conventional wisdom say like it's not really
for that, don't use it there?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Or like you said, like your doctor was like you're cool.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
Yeah, no, you could use it. I mean people put
it in their hair, use it on their skin. Like
coconut oil is great for all kinds of stuff. Oh,
no kidding, It is definitely game changer.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
Warn you elliot. It says avoid areas prone to acne.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Well, never mind.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
And she also said if you use your normal you
know loubs that you buy, that it can actually draw
you out worse.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Wait, regular lube can. Yes, that's what.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
That's like an oxymorn. That's like jumbo shrimp. You would
I think you would think the lube would be.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
Good for were you?
Speaker 5 (20:00):
But was she struggling with her dad today?
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Were you struggling with your day to day?
Speaker 4 (20:05):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (20:06):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (20:07):
How many jobs have you quit?
Speaker 4 (20:10):
None? The same one for eighteen years?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But were you?
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Were you so bad where it was like your underwear
was killing you? Could you not wipe? What did you
have to dab?
Speaker 4 (20:20):
I did stop wearing underwork for a little bit?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah, no, I get it.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
I let someone I know who made.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
You definitely stop underwear.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Yeah no, that I tell you should always do. You
should never sleep in underwear. Let that bad boy breathe right?
Were you were you using a were you using a
sitz bath?
Speaker 5 (20:40):
No?
Speaker 4 (20:40):
Never use one of those?
Speaker 3 (20:41):
Good?
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Good, good, good, all right, very good, very good. I
appreciate it. Thank you, ma'am, thank you.
Speaker 5 (20:49):
You don't have a Sitz bath in your house.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
No, we have a bathtub, which is just a bigger
Sitz bath, and you get your whole body wet instead
of just your coat.
Speaker 5 (20:59):
I just thought everyone left the hospital with one. Yeah,
and then you should save it in case that butt
starts dragging. I know, exactly, like to sits. Do you
have one?
Speaker 2 (21:12):
We hadn't.
Speaker 9 (21:13):
I don't know if I have it anymore. We definitely
got left the hospital with one. Is it possible that
we left the hospital with one?
Speaker 7 (21:19):
I wouldn't doubt it.
Speaker 5 (21:19):
Jackie did have him, right, But did you think gives
like a bedpan? Well, you don't take the bed sorry, man,
A dumped in it.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
If I had to, bet, I bet I did think
it was a bedpan. And Jackie like I remember the
first piss Jackie took after having the having the kid.
That bathroom bro like at the hospital. Honestly, it looked
like it looked like there was a shooting in there.
It was horrible.
Speaker 7 (21:43):
I'm sorry you had to experience that.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
Well, she wanted me to go in there, and I
was like, I'm not going in there, Jesus Christ, you
kidding me.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
But I don't think we left with one. Is it possible?
Holy Cross was like, huh uh.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
My youngest is eleven, almost eleven years old. To get
into the backside of the closet, like the stuff that
you don't wear that often, you have to step over
our sis bath.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
I thought you were gonna say, step on it to
reach up.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
It's like, it's right there. I know exactly where it is.
I see it every day. I don't always have to
step over it, but I see it every day. Where
am I going?
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Line four?
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (22:25):
Elliott in the morning?
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, Hi, who's this.
Speaker 5 (22:33):
As?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
I'm sorry you say that again? Yeah? In my on
like some kind of speaker or something there, Honey, I.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
Had my airbighted, that's why.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yeah, okay, all right, well in a little bit anyway, Yes,
well what are you calling me.
Speaker 6 (22:51):
About, dar, I'll try it this way now.
Speaker 7 (22:55):
It's that better?
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Oh so much better, so much better.
Speaker 6 (23:01):
So yes, perrymanopause at the moment.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
How's that dryness?
Speaker 6 (23:08):
So you know, it's interesting, it's not necessarily dryness. It's desensitivity,
would you like you know, like you go get there
all the time. If that makes any.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Don't be embarrass You're just talking to me the I'm
with you, Yeah, that's not that's fine. So you're so
that thing doesn't have a lot of feeling right now?
Speaker 6 (23:35):
No, No, So I and I was like, hey, this
isn't happening, and it still needs to be happening.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
So I did talk to my.
Speaker 6 (23:41):
Doctor about it.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Would your doctor say.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
No?
Speaker 6 (23:45):
But I have a big vanda that downstairs.
Speaker 10 (23:48):
I'm going to break that bath.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Why don't you pour it in your six bath and
just soaking it?
Speaker 3 (23:55):
I don't.
Speaker 8 (23:57):
I am like you. I don't have a SiZ bath
in my claw and.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Right, So what did the what did the doctor say?
What did the doctor say?
Speaker 6 (24:06):
Oh, you know badge cream? He did not suggest.
Speaker 5 (24:10):
Doctors no longer are they? Are they so quick in
meeting they can't they can't say vaginal doctors have to
shorten everything.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
What's wrong with saying that's how people talk badge cream?
Speaker 5 (24:23):
I know one pharmaceutical rep on X says that, and
now everyone acts like, yeah, that's that's the way.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
What it is like if you were if you if
you went to go get what he said, just spin
on it.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
If you went to if you went to Lindsay's guyne
collogist and he was like, yeah, just pick up some
badge cream.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
You would be like, excuse me, it's vaginal cream.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
No, I don't think he would say that. And he's
no longer practicing.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Which is why he would call it vadge cream. He
called cooter cream. I guess now he's in the streets. Oh,
he sells trunk cooter dream.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
Hey are you so? Wait? So the so the doctor
said badge cream and what else?
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (25:14):
Yeah, that was it.
Speaker 6 (25:15):
So you know, it's a lovely thing. You get to
actually trys a badge cream. It's an insert that you
have to do a couple of times a week.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Yeah you have you have you stopped wearing underwear?
Speaker 6 (25:29):
No, No, I don't have the I don't saying God,
I don't have that issue that level of dryingness or
anything like that. Now I'm just more concerned about you know.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
Yeah, that's right. You're just num Yeah, you're just numb.
You're just not all right. Very good, very good, thank you.
I'm glad you called.
Speaker 6 (25:46):
Of course anytime.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
There you go. Thank you.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
You can say that about all the people that are.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Conlutely absolutely and for as many times as I hear it,
he disgusting pink.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Where am I going? Line eight?
Speaker 5 (26:04):
I do this all day.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
Hill in the morning so much.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Hi, how are you doing?
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I am great? How are you?
Speaker 3 (26:12):
I just pulled out a bottle of my or jar
my virgin coconut oil because I will be trying that later.
Like it makes so much sense. It smells good, it
tastes good. Hell, yeah, you know what, Like I.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Do want to make sure like and you know what,
I shouldn't care right like everybody to be you, but
like I want to make sure like I do, like I.
Speaker 9 (26:32):
Don't want to do to have somebody do something that
they heard here that ends up harming them.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Yeah, that's what I.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
Don't want everybody going there and going like my, I
don't know what's going on down here, but this thing
is exploding here.
Speaker 5 (26:44):
I am in the er.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
What did you do?
Speaker 5 (26:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Well, I don't care what.
Speaker 5 (26:50):
The ingredients are.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
I have minus minus virgin coconut oil. It's cold pressed, unresigned,
and the only ingredient is cooking oil. So don't see
how it can hurt you.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
You're good. Get after it, please, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Not a lot of not a lot of preservatives or whatever.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Can we wait, hold on one second? Hold on one second,
can we can we? I know he's I know he
doesn't practice anymore.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Can we ask him?
Speaker 5 (27:12):
I'll send him a SEXT?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Please? I'm sorry you ask me. I'm back to you.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
Called Colin Tyler's guy. Know, yes, yes, Well the other
thing too is and this terrified me because my husband
passed away like four years ago.
Speaker 5 (27:26):
I'm sorry, and my neighbor.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
My neighbor is like twenty years older than me, and
like last year she started encouraging me. He says, you
you haven't go have sex. She's because if you don't
use it, it's going to get really painful.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
Because then if you don't use it.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
You use muscle, Yes, like using your muscle. So so
I've been trying, like getting out there, but I have
been worried about this is all so terrifying because you
don't know, like.
Speaker 5 (27:51):
When I do this, is it going to be normal?
Speaker 3 (27:53):
Is it don't it feel good? Or is it gonna hurt?
And then I'm gonna hate everything about life?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
So wait, did you not?
Speaker 3 (27:57):
So?
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Can can I ask you a question? And I hate to
hear that your husband died?
Speaker 5 (28:02):
But have you have you?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Have you not been with anybody since your since your husband.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
Passed just under twenty eighth, I had sex for the
first time.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
So it had been what almost four years?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Yeah, yeah, I've been yeah, just under four years.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Hey, let me ask you this. What was the How
was it?
Speaker 5 (28:19):
It was good?
Speaker 3 (28:19):
It was good until the morning, and then that's when
I don't know if it was psychological, because then when
we tried to do it again, it got really painful.
But I was like, well, maybe because I haven't used
it in so long, that's why it's hurting, right, you know.
But now I'm like, is it that's dryness again? It
gets in your head?
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Yeah, sure, is this what everybody's talking about?
Speaker 3 (28:38):
So but yes, the nighttime session.
Speaker 5 (28:40):
Was awesome and it was fun.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I'd like to do it again.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
I was gonna say, was it weird after after almost
four years? Like, were you nervous again?
Speaker 4 (28:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (28:50):
Oh yeah, I would imagine you were there.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because you're you're just You're like, well,
I was talking to some brind of mine. I'm like,
am I supposed to shoot everything? He's like, I don't understand,
you know, because all you see is porn or whatever.
It's like, is that what's supposed to look like? Because
this is what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
So what'd you do? What'd you do?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Well?
Speaker 3 (29:10):
I didn't because I wasn't expecting sex. Oh really and
then and then it happened. And now I'm like, oh wait,
you know, but it was fine. Hey what im trying
not to overthink it?
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Yeah, no, don't.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
I will when you like when you say, like when
you say you weren't expecting it happened. So like you
guys had gone out and you had a couple of
drinks and then you got back.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Do you go to his place or your place?
Speaker 3 (29:31):
My place?
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Right?
Speaker 1 (29:32):
So you go back to your place and then like
you start, like you start getting handsy.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Look, we were getting handsy before we got here. Here,
we really got here.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
It was on Oh no kidding, what'd you guys? What'd
you do before you got back.
Speaker 2 (29:45):
To your house?
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Made out?
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Did you really know? But where? Like in the car?
Speaker 5 (29:51):
In a bar?
Speaker 2 (29:52):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (29:53):
I had an embarrassing But now that's.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
Fine, that's fine. I love it.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
No, I love this for you. It was.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
It was awesome. It was, it was, it was it
was really fun. I got cheered because a lot of
my friends worked there and they're like, you.
Speaker 10 (30:07):
Need this, Oh, that's all.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
You know, what good for you?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Was it?
Speaker 2 (30:10):
Hey? Let me ask you this? Oral?
Speaker 4 (30:12):
Oral?
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Oral?
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Yeah, no, no, uh no, anal Man.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
I wasn't even gonna ask how about some respect here?
You were?
Speaker 3 (30:26):
You were gonna say one word?
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Hey, let me let me ask you this though.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Was that the first like I understand it's the first
time you had sex with someone since since you're the
well you know the was it the first time? Was
it first time for oral since since then?
Speaker 4 (30:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (30:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:40):
And I was I was like, hope everything's okay. Yeah,
but he didn't complain, so yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
No, that's I'm excited. That's exciting for you.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
Yeah, yeah it was.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
It was.
Speaker 3 (30:54):
It was good.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
But we kind of like, will you see this guy again?
Speaker 3 (30:57):
No? No, he was coming through town. Are you doing
the one night pick up? It was crazy. I've never
done anything like that.
Speaker 5 (31:04):
Was so much fun. Where is this carnival?
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Now?
Speaker 2 (31:12):
I love you and I really do, I really do?
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (31:16):
No, that's also good for you.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
Yeah, Like I said, now, I've been asking a lot
more questions of my friends. Like I said, I was like,
do I need to do this? What should I look for? What?
What's normal? What's not normal choking?
Speaker 2 (31:29):
Just so you know, choking is no.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
It is no.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
I don't want to do that.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
No, but it's very normal now.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
But isn't fascinating. I've heard that, yes, because she said.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
And even even one of the younger kids that that
works at the bar, he said that because he goes
girls want you to choke all.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
I was like, I don't want to be choking.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Choking And by the way, like I know you said
that you didn't really have time, but they clean it
up a little bit, right.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
That's what That's what I was told you. Well, don doesn't.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
I don't want your pants coming off and it looks
like there's like shrubbery growing out of there, you know.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
I'm sorry. Tyler was going to ask you something inappropriate.
Speaker 5 (32:02):
Good Oh, I was going to comment that it's interesting
because you hear how much pornography is toxic for young
people because it demonstrates a version of sex that is
so far off from the real thing. Whether it's an act,
whether it's how the body is like you said, how
(32:24):
you're shaving, it creates expectations that often are not what's
going to happen at all in real life. But here
you are with someone who's not I don't want to
say much older. I'm mature, but who is who is
not a young woman who is saying the same things
where she's seeing the way porn is informing a viewer,
(32:47):
and you're left with questions as to like, am I
okay right? I hate that?
Speaker 1 (32:54):
But you know what, here's what I would say, whether
whether it's you the next time the carnival comes through.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
Town or anybody else.
Speaker 5 (33:00):
No, no, no, but I'm being serious.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Where I'm going to call it a carnival ride from
now on?
Speaker 2 (33:06):
Where is?
Speaker 1 (33:07):
Where's Where's the one place anybody could call? Anybody could
go if they were like, you know what, it's been
a while.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
I don't know. I have a question about this. I
have a question about that. I'm not sure if this
is right for any any reason.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
It could be I'm fifty two, my husband passed away,
and I'm getting ready to oral for the first time.
Speaker 5 (33:24):
It could be.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
It could be I'm nineteen and I've never had sex before.
But they where's the one Where's the one place everybody
can go.
Speaker 5 (33:33):
For I get to ask question conversations?
Speaker 2 (33:36):
Yeah, here, right here? Absolutely point there. I mean, like
in my lap, I just meant.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Here absolutely, And when there's a whole community, I got
somebody that's selling badge cream on the internet.
Speaker 5 (33:50):
Like it's a whole community of people.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
So if you ever have any questions about choking or
shaving or anything, you come.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Right here, right all right?
Speaker 5 (34:00):
I love you, all right, very good, thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (34:04):
I'm gonna go out and look for my next carnival
ride and I'll think about you.
Speaker 4 (34:06):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Please do think of me. Why you're oraling?
Speaker 7 (34:09):
Oh weird, weird?
Speaker 5 (34:11):
All right, very good, thank you, ma'am. Thank you. I
love her, I like her a yeah, yeah, that's awesome
because obviously, maybe years ago she never pictured this, of course,
not she didn't think it was going to be her life. No,
I don't mean being a widow. But there was a moment,
(34:31):
get you.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
She probably didn't expect that either.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
Sure, but there was a moment in time where she
maybe never thought this would be an element of her life.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
Oh right, Like I got to learned that, like I
should have been in choking years ago.
Speaker 5 (34:41):
Elliott, shut up, No, but that is such a huge
thing right now, choked Jackie to let me know on
Monday how it goes.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
Oh, I know, very well that that ain't happening.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
But that is that as Casey didn't need to go
with the name there, but the but that it is.
Speaker 5 (34:57):
I that she's come across a lot of men who
think at every girl wants that. Probably at the bar
said everybody's choking if they're not.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Choking chicken.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
I have yet to hear back from Aaron no the
guy to collogist, Oh okay, sorry, all right. Well you
know what, damn, you could go anywhere, you can call
anyone
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