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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Am I trying to win?
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Of course you will gamify it, right, But this is
asking the question how healthy is your social biome? And
I'll give you a series of sentences and you'll respond
in kind and at the end one of you will
have less recommendations and the loser, I guess, Elliott will
(00:23):
have the most recommendations.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Okay, Christen has a question you did too.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Do you want me to go first?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I was going to ask you a question. Kristen wants
to know what a biome is?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
No, oh, yeah, go ahead, I'll shoot I forget.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
She said, shoot, wait, you.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Forgot what your question was?
Speaker 5 (00:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Oh it was what's a biome? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yes, I got it?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Okay, So how do we know who wins if we're
not keeping track?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Are you keeping track?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
I will answer three different worksheets for each of you individually.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
We can do it ourselves, can okay?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Oh, because you have to click it off as you go.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I'm eating Okay, yes, So basically, would you like me
to oh wait, but we have to go on the
same order. Then remind you of a biomes Elliot, since
you are pretending like that's Kristen's question.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Yeah, I don't know what it is a biome like
they always talking about, like you got biomes in your stunt,
Like you got biome.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Yeah, but biome also can be like the tundra. So
it's just a region.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Yeah, it's the region and everything that inhabits it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
So my environment.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Well, this is your social biome okay?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
All right?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
And you always out that you are a great friend
and have a great circle of friends.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yes, it was my stomach. I know that's why I'm eating.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Yes, and are beloved by most in the office.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
True, all of those are true.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Well, this quiz will put pen to paper and figure
out for you if that's actually accurate.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So do I need to write anything down?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
No? You don't, Okay, Diane, are you ready? You've been
quite quiet? Are you nervous? I have a pen and paper.
You don't need.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
That makes me uncomfortable because I feel like I need
to write something down.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
So hold a donut.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
And the reason I am administering the test is because
I have no biome. I could not have done worse
on this. I just I'm praying, through the power of prayer,
that someone else scores as low as I did.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
All right, here we go. What an order are we
going in?
Speaker 2 (02:35):
It's up to you.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
So let's go. Diane Kristin Elliott.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Ladies first, All right, so you're gonna say you said
dk E Diane Kristin Elliott, I got it right here.
Do I have a question? Oh my god, you're not
giving the test.
Speaker 6 (02:51):
Is it going to be a yes or no answer?
Or is it like ABC? Or you can get ready
to find I'll.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Find out one through being high yes or no?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Essentially, did anybody else take the work survey yesterday?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
No?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
You didn't. Oh I took it yesterday. Yeah, I took it.
You're not going to no?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Why she doesn't think they're anonymous.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It's one hundred percent anonymous.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Aaron and I are cool with that.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
All right, Here we go, Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Are you ready? How healthy is your social life? I
am friendly with my next door neighbors and make an
effort to say hello whenever I see them. That's me
or that's not me, Diane, Yes, so that's you, Kristen,
that's me Elliott, that's me when I don't see either way.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
By the way, I don't know that I you say
hi to your neighbors, not every one of them, but
the ones that I'm friendly with.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yes, Okay, there's going to be more later. You'll want
a debate. Okay, Well, I don't see eye to eye
with someone on a topic. I try to get out
of that conversation as fast as I can. That's me,
that's not me. Yes, that is not me, Elliott, I'm
gonna say not me. Question three. I have people in
(04:10):
my life who challenge my viewpoints respectfully. That's you, Diane,
or it's not.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
No.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I'm trying to think of cases of that. I mean maybe, yes,
don't you have I think, out of all of us,
don't you have the most frustrations when it comes to Facebook? Yeah?
Oh yes, yes, that's not respectfully.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But that's all I know.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
So you're saying that it is not you. Okay, so
that's no. Then I'll stay. I'll stay with no, Kristen, I.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Don't think so, so that's not you, No, Elliott?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Can you What is the question again?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I have people in my life who challenge my viewpoints respectfully. Yes,
that's you. Yes, okay. Question four. Even when i'm a
I feel a sense of connection to the important people
in my life. Is that you, Diana or not? Yeah?
Text no, no, no, no. She interprets of how she
(05:10):
wants to interpret.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Oh my god, what a horrible interpretation.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I'm sorry, I'm different from you.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
My interpretation of that is that you'd feel lonely and alone,
and I don't.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
So.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Uh you're esque.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
So yes, so that is you, that is you.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
You feel I feel connected?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, I feel connected FaceTime.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
So you're saying that's me as well. Yes, and you
guys are feeling rigging the game.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
No, not at all, not at all, being honest, but
one of us is rigging the game. The game because
when you're not connected to them, it means you're not
communicating with him. And you're like, oh, well I just
text them. No, exactly, that's communicating with them. I'm sure
you have friends that all you ever do is text
with and you feel connected to them.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I don't think when we're talking about restorative solitude they
were imagining SMS messaging.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
And of course not. But that's weird. Diane is rigging
the game. But she said that's her, and okay, let's
that's not her, Diane.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Can you sense when you've had too much social interaction
and need to be alone?
Speaker 5 (06:17):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Oh, okay, I mean I like being alone. I don't mind.
I don't mind being alone.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
But because you could just touch everybody the way the
way that it goes. Do you feel like if you're
in a crowd, do you get over Is it like
sensory overload to you?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I would say, that's not me, Elliott. Is that you?
Or is that not you?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I don't even remember what the question is because I
got to try to figure out. Diane.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
You can sense worry about yourself. You can sense when
you've had too much social interaction and need to be alone. Yes,
that is me back to Diane. When you're alone, your
first instinct is to grab your phone to catch up
on news or social media. Yes, you already have that.
I feel like, yeah, Kristen, with every one of these Elliott, no, oh,
(07:04):
you're gonna go touch grass? You know those keyboards sold out.
It's been a long time since I've had a meaningful
face to face interaction with a friend. False. No, Christen, No, No,
not me. You gotta wait your turn, Elliott?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Sorry is it my turn?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yes? Not me, Diane. Throughout the day, I often find
moments to joke around with others. Yes, Kristen, Yes, Elliott,
that's me regular breaks there, Diane. Do you make a
point of expressing affection, whether it's telling family members you
love them or offering colleagues genuine compliments. Yes, she does.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I've witnessed it.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Who here, She'll tell people if she likes what they're wearing,
their shoes. Yeah, she's even complimented people who've gotten their
haircut looks good.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Wow. Wow. What happens on that walk to the kitchen after.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
The scene, it's I'm a completely different person. And by
the way, complimenting somebody on a haircut is not the
same as telling Dustin to get a haircut.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I do that.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I'm just telling you that. Kristen, Okay, what are where
are we? Do you express affection? Do you make a
point of it?
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Kristen, I believe so.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Elliott, absolutely, that's me, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I'm probably more than everybody in this room combined.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Diane, can you remember the last time you had a
conversation with a stranger? Does a does a waiter count? No? No, No, okay.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
What about the butcher behind the at the grocery store.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
That's no way, because that's in a service role. It's
forced you have to.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
No, you don't if you're ordering something. Yeah, and then
I ask, like, what I would make? What meal would
I make with this?
Speaker 7 (09:00):
Go home?
Speaker 5 (09:00):
Oh my god, you're asking the guy whose job it
is what you should do with it?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
What about a round?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Thanks for pumping my gash? Do I turn the engine on?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I put my own? Guess? What about? What about like
just like a rando in the elevator?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
That would that is a stranger? Okay, that was the
other day. Then, Yeah, what did you say? No?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
You push your button for do I walk?
Speaker 5 (09:27):
No?
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Hey, careful, I got stuck in here before. What conversation.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Because he had sneezed? God hot enough for you? This
is basically what you said to that. Okay, well, God,
I can't have a conversation.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Then I guess you're exactly right taking ass with a feather.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
I guess it doesn't say the quality of the conversation, right, Kristen?
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Yeah, Butcher between.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Four and that was between four and p two? Wow,
great saying that is me one hundred percent. Jesus Christ.
I'll sit down and have dinner with somebody I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
You all of you are actually saying that's not me
because you remember the last time. Yeah, yes, okay, yeah,
oh yeah, of course all the time. I love talking
to people well, and then the next question is great
for you, but don't answer out of order. I feel
comfortable chatting with people when I'm out in public, Jesus,
not all the time.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
That's not an answer.
Speaker 7 (10:28):
Is that you?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Or is that not you?
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Dian?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I'm going to say not me, good because honesty is
the best policy.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Oh in my next yes, that is you that I
feel comfortable?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Is that what the question is? Annoyingly? So that is
me in you two. Meeting new people is stressful most
times I don't enjoy it.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Yes, Kristen, No, I love meeting new people.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
That is not me.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Elliott is so worried Kristen's going to score better? No,
not at all. We already know that Diane's going to
be near the bottom with me, or.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Maybe near the top with the lying.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
I'm not lying. It's only three more statements to go over,
so just be aware for those that are trying to
mess with the outcome. Do you have three more chances?
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Can I argue something earlier?
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Am I the only one that can't picture Diane walking
down the street?
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Oh, hi, Marge, Hi tom My.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
People for the neighbors, Yeah, I will. I will talk
to almost everybody right around me.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Okay, really, what what?
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Why would I not say hi to them?
Speaker 5 (11:44):
I just I just don't see you being a friendly neighbor.
But I don't see you being a mean neighbor. I
just see you being by yourself neighbor. I see Scott
being a very talkative neighbor. No, I'm more talkative than him.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Really, yeah, No, Diane has I'm going to defend her.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
She has said in here on air.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
She has talked.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
She has talked to her neighbors. There's some that she
doesn't like. Yes, but she says she talks to her names.
Speaker 5 (12:08):
That's a lady who fell down across the that's right,
that's right, All right, go ahead, go ahead, Diana.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Do you make sure to lunch or dinner with friends
regularly on your calendar? Yes, Kristen, No, oh, yes.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
I know.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
It's a I could have. I could have filled yours
out for you.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Elliott, thank you, open book. Baby.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Well you're out Monday through Saturday.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
That's not true. I do go.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
I can't wait for that new duncan deal do?
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Go? All right? Here we go.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
If I have plans to hang out with friends but
just don't feel like going, I will probably cancel. Remember
this is again I want to remind everyone who maybe
just tuned in. We're trying to figure out how healthy
each of these contestant social lives are. So think about
that question again. If I have plans to hang out
with friends but just don't feel like going, I will
(13:14):
probably cancel. I mean I've done both. I've gone and
like unwillingly.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
The word is probably.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Is it more likely you were not?
Speaker 6 (13:26):
No, you're gonna go, yes, because you've made plans. You
can't bail on somebody at five o'clock when dinner's at seven.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
That's a dick move. Kristen, Oh, I go. You end
up having a great time.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (13:41):
That's why you go, not because you don't want to
dick them over two hours before. Because you're like these
this is gonna pick me up, this is gonna make
me feel better. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
But then there's plenty of times where you're like I
just don't feel like going, yeah.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
And then you go and you're like, thank god, I went.
I had a great time.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
If you don't feel like going and don't make the plans, okay.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
That's me. The boys went and did archery a week
or so ago. All the dads, did you go No,
did you make up an excuse? Also, I also have
never called him the boys. I don't know why I
said that. It wasn't like my son's friends either. No
(14:22):
to I make up an excuse. No, I told him
up front when we started, when they included me in
this retivity text right that I will never says to
anything I did because it was on a weeknight or no,
just in general.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Who are you asking he's just not going to do it?
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Well, but plenty of people are seeing.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Archery in the house with you dropping the stuff off
for me and everybody else leaving.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Then I'll do it.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Remember I already did this quiz last night, and it
advised me to seek help the last statement. And then
we'll get your scores. I don't mind being the one
who reaches out to people to make plans to hang out. Yes,
I don't mind that, Kristen.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
So that is you as well. Yes, all right, the
scores are calculating. I just need to you notice this computer, Yeah,
we just I I need to I need to go
off MIC for a second. So will you fill here? Yeah,
because now do you see that the yeah?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
No, No, no, I understand test.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Our test results are here. I I just the broadcast.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
This is on the next gen digital that needs to
be reset, and we're gonna go ahead and type that in.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
This is how I vamp. This is how I vamp.
Are we good? Look at that? All right?
Speaker 5 (15:49):
Now it's gonna load and we're good. Okay, thank you, Elliott?
All right, social biomes a personalized A set? Are good
on the next digital?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Yes? Okay, very good, thank you.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
It's all locked. I know you're not seeing the cascading menus,
but I'll pull those up later. Wonderful, okay, Diane. So
the scores are based on recommendations. It's not Why am
I getting the L on the foreheads.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
By the way, Elliott getting backwards L?
Speaker 5 (16:20):
Yeah, because I'm not doing anything, that's your interpretation.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
I was just giving himself the l oh self boned.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
So what I will do, Diane? Because you have round up? No? No,
if anything would help if I round it down because
there is no number. But it tells of some things
you might want to do, and Diane, you have a
lot to do. You have three paragraphs. Who are these bitches?
(16:57):
So it did say that you're getting plenty of meaningful
talk and you're actively choosing social ability, right, But you
might want to find opportunities for diverse social interactions. Yes,
you need to build in some time for some restorative solitude. Yes,
it says it can recharge you. But what you do
with that time matter, So try to find ways to
relax and reduce stress without turning to your phone. All right,
(17:23):
And lastly, lastly, be a little more open to communication
with strangers and acquaintances.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
But well, I made it all the way from four
to p one.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
It's better than you did.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
The I talked to people all the time.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
This can provide small boosts to your well being. You
don't have to go around eagerly engaging everyone you see,
especially if it feels uncomfortable to you or even unsafe,
But don't discount the benefits of acknowledging others and striking
up small talk with people you don't know.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
Thank you, Okay, thank you Kristen m hm talking to
the meet counter guy, ain't talking.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Your social biome is strong, girl. You scored well across
every single category that a girl flex with both casual
and meaningful relationship ties to see you through your life storms.
(18:16):
There are always new ways to connect with those around you.
But here's to your healthy social biome. You scored well everywhere.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
I would have guessed that for her, I would have
guessed for Elliott, which we haven't yet revealed, that he
would have guessed for himself, that he is flexing on everybody,
that I'm strong, that I'm strong, exactly, but not a
single recommendation.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Look at that. You're good.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
That's i't even seen the screen before. How nervous are you, Elliott?
Speaker 1 (18:47):
I'm nervous because I want to be I want to
be in that same category.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Your chancers were very similar. Yeah, I want to be
in that same category, but Kristen's higher.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
No.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Your personalized assessment of your social ties.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Elliott strong strength.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
The state of your social bio is also strong body.
You scored across every category. Well, I'm a very social person.
You're regularly engaging in diverse social interactions like so you're
getting way more restorative solitude than Diane.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Yes, a lot more.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
You're finding those ways to be calm and quiet, That's
what I always say, right me. So I'm also honest,
meaningful talk throughout the day. That's you. You're finding opportunities
for communication with strongers.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
That's meaningful.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
It is my blood, and you understand the importance of
making yourself available to others. Absolutely, here's to your healthy
social bio.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
My biome is great, my biome is strong. What did
yours say?
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:52):
What was if ours were strong?
Speaker 2 (19:53):
What were you for all five areas I had recommendations?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Did you really?
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I didn't score well and any of them?
Speaker 1 (20:02):
And did Diane score well in any of them?
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Two of them?
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Oh, and two of them? There you go.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
So you guys went five for five, Diane went two
for two for FIVEL went over five. I went oh
for five. It's better than oh for seven. I've posted
this if you'd like to play along at home. Absolutely,
that's good.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
That's good.
Speaker 7 (20:22):
That's really good. But maybe predictable though too. Yeah, that's
itit's everybody, I think. So yeah, listen, well in near mine,
it wasn't going to come out right.
Speaker 6 (20:35):
What's this meaningful solitude you're participating in? Is this you
going to tell us again how you meditate the well
I do, but you have you haven't meditated since the dojo?
Speaker 2 (20:48):
And how long ago go?
Speaker 1 (20:50):
Now that.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
We all need alone time because all social interactions are
energy depleting time alone is restored, and that was a
question of how do you handle solitude?
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
No, By the way, hockey coaches have said that you
will not gain more energy as the game goes on.
You start at one hundred. You got to figure out
how to manage that. Thank you, all right, So let
me do this quick. Bright will come back. That was good.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
What's wrong?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
It's like walking out of your physical annual with a
great report. You should be re energized. Oh, I feel
fantastic and hold it through this commercial grade.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
Oh I am going to go get more coffee by
myself and think about some things.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
I'm going to hold steady of mediocre land.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
No, it's not mediocre land that you can't look at
it that way.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
That's what makes yous
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Use Compared to me, you were above
Am I trying to win?
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Of course you will gamify it, right, But this is
asking the question how healthy is your social biome? And
I'll give you a series of sentences and you'll respond
in kind and at the end one of you will
have less recommendations and the loser, I guess, Elliott will
(00:23):
have the most recommendations.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Okay, Christen has a question you did too.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Do you want me to go first?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I was going to ask you a question. Kristen wants
to know what a biome is?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
No, oh, yeah, go ahead, I'll shoot I forget.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
She said, shoot, wait, you.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Forgot what your question was?
Speaker 5 (00:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Oh it was what's a biome? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yes, I got it?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Okay, So how do we know who wins if we're
not keeping track?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Are you keeping track?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
I will answer three different worksheets for each of you individually.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
We can do it ourselves, can okay?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Oh, because you have to click it off as you go.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I'm eating Okay, yes, So basically, would you like me
to oh wait, but we have to go on the
same order. Then remind you of a biomes Elliot, since
you are pretending like that's Kristen's question.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Yeah, I don't know what it is a biome like
they always talking about, like you got biomes in your stunt,
Like you got biome.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Yeah, but biome also can be like the tundra. So
it's just a region.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Yeah, it's the region and everything that inhabits it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
So my environment.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Well, this is your social biome okay?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
All right?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
And you always out that you are a great friend
and have a great circle of friends.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yes, it was my stomach. I know that's why I'm eating.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Yes, and are beloved by most in the office.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
True, all of those are true.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Well, this quiz will put pen to paper and figure
out for you if that's actually accurate.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So do I need to write anything down?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
No? You don't, Okay, Diane, are you ready? You've been
quite quiet? Are you nervous? I have a pen and paper.
You don't need.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
That makes me uncomfortable because I feel like I need
to write something down.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
So hold a donut.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
And the reason I am administering the test is because
I have no biome. I could not have done worse
on this. I just I'm praying, through the power of prayer,
that someone else scores as low as I did.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
All right, here we go. What an order are we
going in?
Speaker 2 (02:35):
It's up to you.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
So let's go. Diane Kristin Elliott.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Ladies first, All right, so you're gonna say you said
dk E Diane Kristin Elliott, I got it right here.
Do I have a question? Oh my god, you're not
giving the test.
Speaker 6 (02:51):
Is it going to be a yes or no answer?
Or is it like ABC? Or you can get ready
to find I'll.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Find out one through being high yes or no?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Essentially, did anybody else take the work survey yesterday?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
No?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
You didn't. Oh I took it yesterday. Yeah, I took it.
You're not going to no?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Why she doesn't think they're anonymous.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It's one hundred percent anonymous.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Aaron and I are cool with that.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
All right, Here we go, Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Are you ready? How healthy is your social life? I
am friendly with my next door neighbors and make an
effort to say hello whenever I see them. That's me
or that's not me, Diane, Yes, so that's you, Kristen,
that's me Elliott, that's me when I don't see either way.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
By the way, I don't know that I you say
hi to your neighbors, not every one of them, but
the ones that I'm friendly with.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yes, Okay, there's going to be more later. You'll want
a debate. Okay, Well, I don't see eye to eye
with someone on a topic. I try to get out
of that conversation as fast as I can. That's me,
that's not me. Yes, that is not me, Elliott, I'm
gonna say not me. Question three. I have people in
(04:10):
my life who challenge my viewpoints respectfully. That's you, Diane,
or it's not.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
No.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I'm trying to think of cases of that. I mean maybe, yes,
don't you have I think, out of all of us,
don't you have the most frustrations when it comes to Facebook? Yeah?
Oh yes, yes, that's not respectfully.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But that's all I know.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
So you're saying that it is not you. Okay, so
that's no. Then I'll stay. I'll stay with no, Kristen, I.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Don't think so, so that's not you, No, Elliott?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Can you What is the question again?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I have people in my life who challenge my viewpoints respectfully. Yes,
that's you. Yes, okay. Question four. Even when i'm a
I feel a sense of connection to the important people
in my life. Is that you, Diana or not? Yeah?
Text no, no, no, no. She interprets of how she
(05:10):
wants to interpret.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Oh my god, what a horrible interpretation.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I'm sorry, I'm different from you.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
My interpretation of that is that you'd feel lonely and alone,
and I don't.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
So.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Uh you're esque.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
So yes, so that is you, that is you.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
You feel I feel connected?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, I feel connected FaceTime.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
So you're saying that's me as well. Yes, and you
guys are feeling rigging the game.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
No, not at all, not at all, being honest, but
one of us is rigging the game. The game because
when you're not connected to them, it means you're not
communicating with him. And you're like, oh, well I just
text them. No, exactly, that's communicating with them. I'm sure
you have friends that all you ever do is text
with and you feel connected to them.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I don't think when we're talking about restorative solitude they
were imagining SMS messaging.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
And of course not. But that's weird. Diane is rigging
the game. But she said that's her, and okay, let's
that's not her, Diane.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Can you sense when you've had too much social interaction
and need to be alone?
Speaker 5 (06:17):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Oh, okay, I mean I like being alone. I don't mind.
I don't mind being alone.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
But because you could just touch everybody the way the
way that it goes. Do you feel like if you're
in a crowd, do you get over Is it like
sensory overload to you?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I would say, that's not me, Elliott. Is that you?
Or is that not you?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I don't even remember what the question is because I
got to try to figure out. Diane.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
You can sense worry about yourself. You can sense when
you've had too much social interaction and need to be alone. Yes,
that is me back to Diane. When you're alone, your
first instinct is to grab your phone to catch up
on news or social media. Yes, you already have that.
I feel like, yeah, Kristen, with every one of these Elliott, no, oh,
(07:04):
you're gonna go touch grass? You know those keyboards sold out.
It's been a long time since I've had a meaningful
face to face interaction with a friend. False. No, Christen, No, No,
not me. You gotta wait your turn, Elliott?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Sorry is it my turn?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yes? Not me, Diane. Throughout the day, I often find
moments to joke around with others. Yes, Kristen, Yes, Elliott,
that's me regular breaks there, Diane. Do you make a
point of expressing affection, whether it's telling family members you
love them or offering colleagues genuine compliments. Yes, she does.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I've witnessed it.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Who here, She'll tell people if she likes what they're wearing,
their shoes. Yeah, she's even complimented people who've gotten their
haircut looks good.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Wow. Wow. What happens on that walk to the kitchen after.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
The scene, it's I'm a completely different person. And by
the way, complimenting somebody on a haircut is not the
same as telling Dustin to get a haircut.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I do that.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I'm just telling you that. Kristen, Okay, what are where
are we? Do you express affection? Do you make a
point of it?
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Kristen, I believe so.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Elliott, absolutely, that's me, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I'm probably more than everybody in this room combined.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Diane, can you remember the last time you had a
conversation with a stranger? Does a does a waiter count? No? No, No, okay.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
What about the butcher behind the at the grocery store.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
That's no way, because that's in a service role. It's
forced you have to.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
No, you don't if you're ordering something. Yeah, and then
I ask, like, what I would make? What meal would
I make with this?
Speaker 7 (09:00):
Go home?
Speaker 5 (09:00):
Oh my god, you're asking the guy whose job it
is what you should do with it?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
What about a round?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Thanks for pumping my gash? Do I turn the engine on?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I put my own? Guess? What about? What about like
just like a rando in the elevator?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
That would that is a stranger? Okay, that was the
other day. Then, Yeah, what did you say? No?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
You push your button for do I walk?
Speaker 5 (09:27):
No?
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Hey, careful, I got stuck in here before. What conversation.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Because he had sneezed? God hot enough for you? This
is basically what you said to that. Okay, well, God,
I can't have a conversation.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Then I guess you're exactly right taking ass with a feather.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
I guess it doesn't say the quality of the conversation, right, Kristen?
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Yeah, Butcher between.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Four and that was between four and p two? Wow,
great saying that is me one hundred percent. Jesus Christ.
I'll sit down and have dinner with somebody I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
You all of you are actually saying that's not me
because you remember the last time. Yeah, yes, okay, yeah,
oh yeah, of course all the time. I love talking
to people well, and then the next question is great
for you, but don't answer out of order. I feel
comfortable chatting with people when I'm out in public, Jesus,
not all the time.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
That's not an answer.
Speaker 7 (10:28):
Is that you?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Or is that not you?
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Dian?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I'm going to say not me, good because honesty is
the best policy.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Oh in my next yes, that is you that I
feel comfortable?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Is that what the question is? Annoyingly? So that is
me in you two. Meeting new people is stressful most
times I don't enjoy it.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Yes, Kristen, No, I love meeting new people.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
That is not me.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Elliott is so worried Kristen's going to score better? No,
not at all. We already know that Diane's going to
be near the bottom with me, or.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Maybe near the top with the lying.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
I'm not lying. It's only three more statements to go over,
so just be aware for those that are trying to
mess with the outcome. Do you have three more chances?
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Can I argue something earlier?
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Am I the only one that can't picture Diane walking
down the street?
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Oh, hi, Marge, Hi tom My.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
People for the neighbors, Yeah, I will. I will talk
to almost everybody right around me.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Okay, really, what what?
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Why would I not say hi to them?
Speaker 5 (11:44):
I just I just don't see you being a friendly neighbor.
But I don't see you being a mean neighbor. I
just see you being by yourself neighbor. I see Scott
being a very talkative neighbor. No, I'm more talkative than him.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Really, yeah, No, Diane has I'm going to defend her.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
She has said in here on air.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
She has talked.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
She has talked to her neighbors. There's some that she
doesn't like. Yes, but she says she talks to her names.
Speaker 5 (12:08):
That's a lady who fell down across the that's right,
that's right, All right, go ahead, go ahead, Diana.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Do you make sure to lunch or dinner with friends
regularly on your calendar? Yes, Kristen, No, oh, yes.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
I know.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
It's a I could have. I could have filled yours
out for you.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Elliott, thank you, open book. Baby.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Well you're out Monday through Saturday.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
That's not true. I do go.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
I can't wait for that new duncan deal do?
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Go? All right? Here we go.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
If I have plans to hang out with friends but
just don't feel like going, I will probably cancel. Remember
this is again I want to remind everyone who maybe
just tuned in. We're trying to figure out how healthy
each of these contestant social lives are. So think about
that question again. If I have plans to hang out
with friends but just don't feel like going, I will
(13:14):
probably cancel. I mean I've done both. I've gone and
like unwillingly.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
The word is probably.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Is it more likely you were not?
Speaker 6 (13:26):
No, you're gonna go, yes, because you've made plans. You
can't bail on somebody at five o'clock when dinner's at seven.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
That's a dick move. Kristen, Oh, I go. You end
up having a great time.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (13:41):
That's why you go, not because you don't want to
dick them over two hours before. Because you're like these
this is gonna pick me up, this is gonna make
me feel better. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
But then there's plenty of times where you're like I
just don't feel like going, yeah.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
And then you go and you're like, thank god, I went.
I had a great time.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
If you don't feel like going and don't make the plans, okay.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
That's me. The boys went and did archery a week
or so ago. All the dads, did you go No,
did you make up an excuse? Also, I also have
never called him the boys. I don't know why I
said that. It wasn't like my son's friends either. No
(14:22):
to I make up an excuse. No, I told him
up front when we started, when they included me in
this retivity text right that I will never says to
anything I did because it was on a weeknight or no,
just in general.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Who are you asking he's just not going to do it?
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Well, but plenty of people are seeing.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Archery in the house with you dropping the stuff off
for me and everybody else leaving.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Then I'll do it.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Remember I already did this quiz last night, and it
advised me to seek help the last statement. And then
we'll get your scores. I don't mind being the one
who reaches out to people to make plans to hang out. Yes,
I don't mind that, Kristen.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
So that is you as well. Yes, all right, the
scores are calculating. I just need to you notice this computer, Yeah,
we just I I need to I need to go
off MIC for a second. So will you fill here? Yeah,
because now do you see that the yeah?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
No, No, no, I understand test.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Our test results are here. I I just the broadcast.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
This is on the next gen digital that needs to
be reset, and we're gonna go ahead and type that in.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
This is how I vamp. This is how I vamp.
Are we good? Look at that? All right?
Speaker 5 (15:49):
Now it's gonna load and we're good. Okay, thank you, Elliott?
All right, social biomes a personalized A set? Are good
on the next digital?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Yes? Okay, very good, thank you.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
It's all locked. I know you're not seeing the cascading menus,
but I'll pull those up later. Wonderful, okay, Diane. So
the scores are based on recommendations. It's not Why am
I getting the L on the foreheads.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
By the way, Elliott getting backwards L?
Speaker 5 (16:20):
Yeah, because I'm not doing anything, that's your interpretation.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
I was just giving himself the l oh self boned.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
So what I will do, Diane? Because you have round up? No? No,
if anything would help if I round it down because
there is no number. But it tells of some things
you might want to do, and Diane, you have a
lot to do. You have three paragraphs. Who are these bitches?
(16:57):
So it did say that you're getting plenty of meaningful
talk and you're actively choosing social ability, right, But you
might want to find opportunities for diverse social interactions. Yes,
you need to build in some time for some restorative solitude. Yes,
it says it can recharge you. But what you do
with that time matter, So try to find ways to
relax and reduce stress without turning to your phone. All right,
(17:23):
And lastly, lastly, be a little more open to communication
with strangers and acquaintances.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
But well, I made it all the way from four
to p one.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
It's better than you did.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
The I talked to people all the time.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
This can provide small boosts to your well being. You
don't have to go around eagerly engaging everyone you see,
especially if it feels uncomfortable to you or even unsafe,
But don't discount the benefits of acknowledging others and striking
up small talk with people you don't know.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
Thank you, Okay, thank you Kristen m hm talking to
the meet counter guy, ain't talking.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Your social biome is strong, girl. You scored well across
every single category that a girl flex with both casual
and meaningful relationship ties to see you through your life storms.
(18:16):
There are always new ways to connect with those around you.
But here's to your healthy social biome. You scored well everywhere.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
I would have guessed that for her, I would have
guessed for Elliott, which we haven't yet revealed, that he
would have guessed for himself, that he is flexing on everybody,
that I'm strong, that I'm strong, exactly, but not a
single recommendation.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Look at that. You're good.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
That's i't even seen the screen before. How nervous are you, Elliott?
Speaker 1 (18:47):
I'm nervous because I want to be I want to
be in that same category.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Your chancers were very similar. Yeah, I want to be
in that same category, but Kristen's higher.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
No.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Your personalized assessment of your social ties.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Elliott strong strength.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
The state of your social bio is also strong body.
You scored across every category. Well, I'm a very social person.
You're regularly engaging in diverse social interactions like so you're
getting way more restorative solitude than Diane.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Yes, a lot more.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
You're finding those ways to be calm and quiet, That's
what I always say, right me. So I'm also honest,
meaningful talk throughout the day. That's you. You're finding opportunities
for communication with strongers.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
That's meaningful.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
It is my blood, and you understand the importance of
making yourself available to others. Absolutely, here's to your healthy
social bio.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
My biome is great, my biome is strong. What did
yours say?
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:52):
What was if ours were strong?
Speaker 2 (19:53):
What were you for all five areas I had recommendations?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Did you really?
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I didn't score well and any of them?
Speaker 1 (20:02):
And did Diane score well in any of them?
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Two of them?
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Oh, and two of them? There you go.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
So you guys went five for five, Diane went two
for two for FIVEL went over five. I went oh
for five. It's better than oh for seven. I've posted
this if you'd like to play along at home. Absolutely,
that's good.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
That's good.
Speaker 7 (20:22):
That's really good. But maybe predictable though too. Yeah, that's
itit's everybody, I think. So yeah, listen, well in near mine,
it wasn't going to come out right.
Speaker 6 (20:35):
What's this meaningful solitude you're participating in? Is this you
going to tell us again how you meditate the well
I do, but you have you haven't meditated since the dojo?
Speaker 2 (20:48):
And how long ago go?
Speaker 1 (20:50):
Now that.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
We all need alone time because all social interactions are
energy depleting time alone is restored, and that was a
question of how do you handle solitude?
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
No, By the way, hockey coaches have said that you
will not gain more energy as the game goes on.
You start at one hundred. You got to figure out
how to manage that. Thank you, all right, So let
me do this quick. Bright will come back. That was good.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
What's wrong?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
It's like walking out of your physical annual with a
great report. You should be re energized. Oh, I feel
fantastic and hold it through this commercial grade.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
Oh I am going to go get more coffee by
myself and think about some things.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
I'm going to hold steady of mediocre land.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
No, it's not mediocre land that you can't look at
it that way.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
That's what makes yous
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Use Compared to me, you were above
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