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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Why is cake smashing all like in again back? Oh
in a big way. And they said it's been the
and I haven't been to when's the last wedding I
went to Kristens. Mike definitely did not smash cake in
Kristen's face. Did you guys even have cake?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
No? I didn't think so did he?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
She didn't like cake, she wanted pie.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
That's right, that's right, that got smashed in Mike's face.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I feel like there's more discourse about it and it's
getting ratioed, so it's not popular again, but it's very
very uh in to criticize it.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Because people are posting those videos and then they're.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Getting attacked, Wait, getting attacked for posting it, for yeah,
for doing it.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Wait, why are people getting attacked for doing it?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Because it's one it's attacking.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Tacking the well, I mean to you, to you just
talk to Chandler. He he can't wait to smash cake
in his bride's.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Face if it's a nice gentle like just more sol
on the nose. Oh yeah, so you get icing on
your nose.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Yeah, that's one thing. But people are like, how are
you choosing to post this video where you're chasing your
wife down to smash a pastry in her face. So
they're getting a ratio.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Oh see, but that that but if if you're listen,
like Jackie was pretty clear. Jackie was pretty clear, Uh,
we ain't doing that, Like that is not gonna happen.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
Same the you said that to Scott, yeah, and he
was like, no, I would never do that. I was like,
I just no, no, I just want to make that clear.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
The discussion is important because there's some of the videos
where it ends in tears. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Oh well, I was reading about one in Nashville where
it ended.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
In blood blood yeah, like Mike Rabel the yeah, well
worse actually because this the this bride got her nose
broken and there's video Oh oh yeah, no, well yeah,
well not only was their video the photographer got all
of it, but the but the but broken.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Did she trip and fall and then break her nose
or did he go like like palm of his hands.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Christ Yeah, so he had he didn't mean to break
her nose.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I'm sure he didn't mean it, but still.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
The okay, well you can't say I didn't mean to
get in an accident, but I still drove.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I didn't mean to ruin your dress. The okay, dress
is whatever, it's washed out where people run because the
bride is mortified and they're trying to forget crying. They're
trying to help, like with napkins, clean up because now
all the photos have just ugly stains in them.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Yeah, but you already killed your photos?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
What from the hold during the reception they take more
photos stage.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
No, but now, but.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Now I've got like the like now the party, Oh,
awesome party.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
No, but I don't want to. I don't want to
crap on somebody who wears.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Red velvet across my boob.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Awesome, Well you should have gotten a vanilla cake.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
No, no, but I don't want to crap on a
couple who's like, yeah, no, we were into it. There
are there are plenty couples that are into it. Just
have the discussion. Yeah, exactly, that's very important.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Now, Dane, let me ask you this.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You told Scott no dice, no d right, and he agreed, Okay,
Well that that's fine, that's fine. But what if what
if you would have said, well, yeah, no, hit me
in the face with a cake.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Would have done it?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Why no, you wouldn't have done it?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
If Jackie said smear my face and Cake, I would
have done it and not just a dainty poop.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah that's not smearing my face, I know.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
But if Lindsay told me that I couldn't do.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It, oh I could?
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
That's what she wants?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Like, yeah, it's all over like like putting a facial
mask on them with cake.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Listen, there were things I wanted at the wedding that
I didn't get. Really, I thought you got everything. I'm
just saying not every wish is grand said.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yes, I agree, I agree, but no, what I'm saying
is I'm not going to die on the on the No,
I won't do it.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Hill.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
If that was important to Jackie, I'd have been like, okay, then.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
To be important to somebody, I bet it.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
No, I bet it is important to some people. I
bet that is. What are the origins of that? Which
one I can tell you? Oh? You know, yes, I do.
I guess, well, I know, Well, let me start it.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Cake rituals go back to ancient Rome, where the groom
would sprinkle barley crumbs over the bride's head, symbolizing dominance
in the hope of future fertility. Over time, this evolved
into feeding each other, a gesture intended to show reciprocal care,
(04:36):
with some couples making the event more playful by patting
icing on each other's face.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I forgot about the feeding angle, because you're right, some
start like that. Yeah, where it's like.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
You give me a bite of mine, I give you
a bite of yours.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
And clue.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Did you feed each other?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
No? I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Isn't that that I can't remember. I can't remember either.
Did we even?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
We definitely didn't feed.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Did we just cut the cake and like end it there?
I think we did that.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I think we cut the cake and had a bite
from your own fork.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
What do you mean you had a bite via Jackie
feeding you?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah? Absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Okay, so from our own fork?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Yeah, no my fork? Yeah, I mean we may have
shared the fork. I have no idea, but yeah, no, I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Like, that's a list of crap. I don't remember the Yeah,
that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
So, now, would you have remembered if Scott, if Scott
gave you a.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Probably, because I'd still be mad. I believe that.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
See, so you don't even remember your cake ceremony, but
that would at least be memorable.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
And you'd have pictures of your buddy nose.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Oh my god, I definitely remember cutting the cake because
somebody gifted us a special knife to you. Yeah, oh really,
and we still that's a great idea. I feel so
bad because it's our only cake knife, so like we'll
bust it out for stuff that is not important. Wait,
you have a cake knife from a wedding gift? Do
you really that was given to us prior to the ceremony.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I don't even know what a cake knife is.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
It's it's it's it's long, it's is it serrated? Serrated?
Speaker 4 (06:14):
And then a lot of times it'll have like a
fancier handle. They'll have a bow on it.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
By the way, you know who you know who the
best guest is at a wedding, Oh, Menino, because he
cuts the cake as a guest.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yeah, why would you want to even if he's asked.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, like sometimes I got it because sometimes they struggle.
Steve will just go up there and go I got it.
He'll just get after. I've been at a couple of
weddings with Menino. Yeah, he goes right up cuts the cake.
I'm surprised he doesn't take over a carving station. But yeah,
the I've seen him cut a couple of cakes for
like ceremonies.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I'd be like if you went to a wedding and
somebody came over to you and said, hey, you want to.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Do some radio, right, I know that if it was
important to the I'm a gast you paid for my meal.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
So yeah, if they were like, will you do the introductions?
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Like what am I gonna do, like get on the
air and give out the phone number?
Speaker 4 (07:05):
No.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
But the if they were like, hey, will you do
the introductions, I would do that. I would do that
all day.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Okay, you mean like for the very first time.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Yeah, I would do that, and please welcome.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
All right, here's the groom's brother and Kimmy's big sis.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
In Cappa Delta.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
No, I would be a professional broadcaster and I would say,
you know, please welcome the mother's paper crowd.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Though the oh I'm doing it. I'm just doing introductions.
I'm not the DJ.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
That's moment when they come in there and they're holding
hands and doing choreographed dances. That's an amped up moment.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Oh yeah, well then I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Then I'm like, all right, here we go, right on,
let's let's twirl the Yeah, so that would be fine,
That would be fine, But there are some people who
enjoy like I also feel bad. I've never seen a
cake smash.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I can't tell you if I have.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I definitely haven't, because that I think I would remember.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I feel like the commentary at the table would stand
out to me enough that I would recall it. Their commentary.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Why is their commentary? I don't understand that.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
If you wonder if it was discussed, oh, I.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Assume if it's done, it's discussed.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
You can usually tell on one of the faces if
it wasn't discussed.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Okay, most of the viral video.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
No, I was going to break her nose.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I didn't know. Not where there's a medical incident, right,
but you can tell if there's utter shock.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I never do you know how hard I would laugh
if I saw a guy in a tux chasing a
woman in a dress around the banquet hole.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Just do some sort of pre plan It's scenario I
put on the Benny Hillfey, it's on that you not
play list. Then the father of the bride gets involved.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
God, oh, that's a good question.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
If Scott would have would have would have would have
smushed your face.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Would Frank have gotten involved?
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I get the sense that he probably would have thought
that it's it's off brand.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
But she must have agreed to that.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
See that is she's made Frank's me, Frank's me. I
would have.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
I assume if you're smushing cake like that's discussed, maybe
that's the blessing you should call for, mister Hughes. But
isn't there But there are brides that smush cake in
husband's faces.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yeah, yeah, so get over it, like there's no no,
there's no reason to be nasty in posts and stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
But I would, still, like Diane said, forget it if
it happened at mine, still be angry or fuming about it.
But I'd still be talking about it. If it was
at a friend's wedding, Yeah, it would be funny. No, yes,
we'd be funny to ask because we're mocking them.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Yeah yeah no.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
But again, I've never seen one, so if I saw one,
I'd be like, you know, whose wedding was like off
the charts?
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Blah blahs.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Remember he smashed that face, bro, smush that face like
that would be great?
Speaker 3 (10:09):
But was there a time when if it wasn't done,
it was odd, Yes, because it was so in vogue.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
I bet that. Well, they're saying it's back over the
last couple of years. Yes, yes, it is. They're getting
the the the in the past.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
In the past several years, cake smashing videos have become
very popular again.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, from the guests who are like, well, I'm about
to get paid for these clips. Well, at least I'm
monetize it.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
No.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
No, but I bet the Cold Play filmer.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
But I bet, I bet that there was like back
in the day. I don't know how far back you
got to go, but back in the day it was
very very popular. It was cool, it was funny, like
everybody enjoyed it. Everybody got a good ha ha ha.
And then and then we're sprinkling barley seed. No, not
an ancient role. No, but I don't why did they
go away? Why didn't it go away?
Speaker 3 (11:03):
You mean class I don't know recently, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Not Why do you why do you equate it with
being trashed?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
It's it's essentially the garter toss, which I love, you know,
you do some people just retrieve the garter. They don't
always toss it.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Some people will stop short of they'll do the bouquet toss,
but just do the whole garter ceremony, right, but then
not throw it garter garter.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
All garter ceremony should be nha though, what does that mean?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
No hands allowed? Use your teeth?
Speaker 4 (11:36):
You and and the wedding band has to play like
like the stripper. Well yeah, because you're pulling up that's
just what Nana wants to see.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well, I'm sorry, didn't Nana book the wedding?
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Now Nana's face, He didn't do garter, didn't do bouquet.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
You guys did garter?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
We did absolutely that, No, we did not. Wasn't any
of the DJ too.
Speaker 5 (12:12):
And h A and Age.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
Scott's got a little panny in his too, doesn't shock
you DJ?
Speaker 2 (12:26):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
No, brain? Brain was brain was there?
Speaker 4 (12:31):
Because I remember I will never forget pulling up to
the hotel and seeing the DC one on one roadie standing.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Outside and I was like, what the actual app They're
gonna smash cake at this wedding?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Actually, Buddy booked my DJ as my wedding gift, right.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
That's right, right, yeah, but I think that's a bad
wedding gift. Just f y I But then why was
brain there? Oh, he had to set up the speaker assist.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
It's a lot for one person to do that.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Wasn't their son of brain? Wasn't that also a guy
who worked here for a while.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
You've definitely worked here. I don't think. I don't think
son of Brain was at my wedding. Brain was.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
He loved it. He was right up close with the
camera when that garter was.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
I was already a mess, and then I was just like, oh, Mike,
are you kidding?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Brain was like, Hey, I think I'm seeing knuckle.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Oh God, I hope, I hope somebody rolls up in
the hummer line.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Three.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Hi Elliott the morning, Yeah, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 7 (13:34):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (13:34):
This is Tassa.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Are you a cake smasher?
Speaker 6 (13:38):
I am?
Speaker 1 (13:38):
So this is about my wedding.
Speaker 7 (13:40):
It was back in two thousand and eight, so a
while ago, right, but it was one of my most
memorable moments with my wedding, right and.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
You loved it. You loved it.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
I did.
Speaker 7 (13:51):
But my mom had a conversation with both my now
husband and I beforehand, saying that we'd better not do
it because it was trashing.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
They trashing, yep, yep.
Speaker 6 (14:01):
We had the conversation and then during the actual moment the.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
DJ was on Starr.
Speaker 7 (14:12):
The DJ was talking to my husband saying, you better
be really careful over the next thirty seconds because this
is going.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
To define your marriage.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
Boy.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
And as he's talking, I take my cake and smash
it completely in my husband's face.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Oh so you got him? Also, good for you.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
I got him first.
Speaker 5 (14:31):
I mean he of course.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Got me back, right, But no, it was the funniest thing,
and it took him. It completely shocked him.
Speaker 6 (14:41):
He had no idea I was going to do it.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Beautiful, beautiful, that's fun. Doesn't even remember her cake ceremony,
and you did. It was the highlight of your night.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
Yep, it's in my living room, the picture of my
hand in his face with the cake everywhere in His
arms are back and.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
He's just in beautiful beautiful. All right, I'm gonna let
you go ten to that baby. Hold type one second
for me, please, yes?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Say now?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
From Instagram, we just got a photo of a would
just say a joking about doing it with his bride.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Oh did he like? I kind of like?
Speaker 3 (15:18):
Did you see the eyes are kind of uh trained
on each other? Is he or is she?
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (15:25):
That's kind of fun too, that's kind of fun and
then smush. You know what, I think if I could
go back and redo it.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I may have smushed Jack.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
She'd never go for that.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
The no, she's all she'd probably like you. That's trashy.
It ain't trashy, it's fun. It's fun.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Luke is claiming did you see it? Tell you?
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Luke is claiming that now he does say my ex brother.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
In law, that's okay, people get divorced.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
During the removal of the garter. Oh yes, played a
certain Southern rock song. Is this scene at some weddings?
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Like?
Speaker 3 (16:13):
Is this a one off? Or is this a joke
that some DJs and family will arrange hopefully discussed ahead
of time.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Can I have no idea what it is? But I
do have a guess.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
I'm gonna cue it up here.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Did we see this band play Gretna Fest? Yes?
Speaker 3 (16:30):
We did?
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Skinnerd Yeah, Oh yes?
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Do you think you know what song? It is?
Speaker 2 (16:38):
Absolutely that smell.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
Smash your cake in my face all day before you
do that.
Speaker 5 (16:53):
AJ.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Aj Come on, Scott, get.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Your head up there, get.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
That Garner, Come on, everybody, whiskey bottle.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
O, Hi god, it's not the oak Tree that's in
your way.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
That those goddamn panties.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Line five, Hi Elliott in the morning, that would be
by the way. That would get that would get the
crowd talking. That would get the crowd talking.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Memorable, memorable forget.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Your meshed potato station?
Speaker 2 (17:40):
Hi is this?
Speaker 1 (17:43):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Is this meat?
Speaker 4 (17:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yes, Julie. What can I do for you?
Speaker 5 (17:47):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (17:47):
Hey, So I was just calling because when I was like,
it was the late nineties. You went to my cousin's wedding.
He was only like nineteen years old.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
It was like a big, big deal.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
Everybody was judging them for getting married, and my cousin
he smashed his new wife in the face with the
cake and she started falling, crying and ran away and she.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Had to be consoled.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Oh it was bad.
Speaker 6 (18:20):
And needless to say, they are no longer.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Married because of that, not because of no.
Speaker 6 (18:26):
No, no, no, not because of that. But it was,
you know, it was just the harbinger of what's to come.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
But hey, can I ask you this though?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
But did they talk about it ahead of time where
she was like, I'm cool with it.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Not if she's crying, way.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
I know my cousin.
Speaker 6 (18:41):
And even if she had said not to do it.
You would do it anyway.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
So hey did they play that smell during the garden?
Speaker 4 (18:51):
Oh god?
Speaker 2 (18:52):
There was no guard remover.
Speaker 6 (18:53):
They wouldn't even let people out of state get alcohol.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
It was like an Illinois or.
Speaker 6 (18:57):
Something, and they had a law at the wedding where
anybody was out of state license wasn't allowed to buy alcohol.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Oh my god, that's crazy, that's crazy. All right, very good,
very good, Thank you man.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Hi Ellie at the morning. Oh wait, I hit the
wrong wait, hold on, I hit the wrong line. I
hit the wrong line. Hi Ellie in the morning. Hey,
y yeah, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 7 (19:21):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 6 (19:22):
This is Vinnie.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
What's up, Vinnie.
Speaker 7 (19:24):
So our wedding was a little interesting and uh a
little different than most others. Literally seconds before we're about
to cut the cake, my wife goes, I'm going to
punch the cake and I was like what. She's like, Yeah,
we're gonna punch it, and I said, all right, screw it.
So before we I didn't even know if it was
actually cut the cake. We both punched the cake, shoving
each other's faces, and then took some of them and
(19:46):
actually just shoved it in the guest spaces.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
We got everybody.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
That's awesome and it was great. Everybody loved it, right, oh.
Speaker 7 (19:57):
Yeah, it was a good time.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
Man.
Speaker 7 (19:58):
Our wedding was I mean, everybody thinks they're wedding the best.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
But.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah no, see that, now that's fun. That's fun. Excellent,
Thank you sir, thank you. So so now we're now
we're throwing cake in each other's face and now we're
getting the guests soon.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
If like at Diane's wedding.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
I would have laughed if Diane, like, if Scott came
up it was like I smushed Diane.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Now I'm smushing you, I would have laughed.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
I would not have.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
How about if Scott tagged you out during the garter removal?
Speaker 3 (20:31):
By the way, Luke followed up with, remember this was
his ex brother in law, right, it was definitely memorable
and I still love that guy and Hope.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Hell yeah,
Why is cake smashing all like in again back? Oh
in a big way. And they said it's been the
and I haven't been to when's the last wedding I
went to Kristens. Mike definitely did not smash cake in
Kristen's face. Did you guys even have cake?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
No? I didn't think so did he?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
She didn't like cake, she wanted pie.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
That's right, that's right, that got smashed in Mike's face.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I feel like there's more discourse about it and it's
getting ratioed, so it's not popular again, but it's very
very uh in to criticize it.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Because people are posting those videos and then they're.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Getting attacked, Wait, getting attacked for posting it, for yeah,
for doing it.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Wait, why are people getting attacked for doing it?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Because it's one it's attacking.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Tacking the well, I mean to you, to you just
talk to Chandler. He he can't wait to smash cake
in his bride's.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Face if it's a nice gentle like just more sol
on the nose. Oh yeah, so you get icing on
your nose.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Yeah, that's one thing. But people are like, how are
you choosing to post this video where you're chasing your
wife down to smash a pastry in her face. So
they're getting a ratio.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Oh see, but that that but if if you're listen,
like Jackie was pretty clear. Jackie was pretty clear, Uh,
we ain't doing that, Like that is not gonna happen.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
Same the you said that to Scott, yeah, and he
was like, no, I would never do that. I was like,
I just no, no, I just want to make that clear.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
The discussion is important because there's some of the videos
where it ends in tears. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Oh well, I was reading about one in Nashville where
it ended.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
In blood blood yeah, like Mike Rabel the yeah, well
worse actually because this the this bride got her nose
broken and there's video Oh oh yeah, no, well yeah,
well not only was their video the photographer got all
of it, but the but the but broken.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Did she trip and fall and then break her nose
or did he go like like palm of his hands.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Christ Yeah, so he had he didn't mean to break
her nose.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I'm sure he didn't mean it, but still.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
The okay, well you can't say I didn't mean to
get in an accident, but I still drove.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I didn't mean to ruin your dress. The okay, dress
is whatever, it's washed out where people run because the
bride is mortified and they're trying to forget crying. They're
trying to help, like with napkins, clean up because now
all the photos have just ugly stains in them.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Yeah, but you already killed your photos?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
What from the hold during the reception they take more
photos stage.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
No, but now, but.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Now I've got like the like now the party, Oh,
awesome party.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
No, but I don't want to. I don't want to
crap on somebody who wears.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Red velvet across my boob.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Awesome, Well you should have gotten a vanilla cake.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
No, no, but I don't want to crap on a
couple who's like, yeah, no, we were into it. There
are there are plenty couples that are into it. Just
have the discussion. Yeah, exactly, that's very important.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Now, Dane, let me ask you this.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You told Scott no dice, no d right, and he agreed, Okay,
Well that that's fine, that's fine. But what if what
if you would have said, well, yeah, no, hit me
in the face with a cake.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Would have done it?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Why no, you wouldn't have done it?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
If Jackie said smear my face and Cake, I would
have done it and not just a dainty poop.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah that's not smearing my face, I know.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
But if Lindsay told me that I couldn't do.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It, oh I could?
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
That's what she wants?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Like, yeah, it's all over like like putting a facial
mask on them with cake.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Listen, there were things I wanted at the wedding that
I didn't get. Really, I thought you got everything. I'm
just saying not every wish is grand said.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yes, I agree, I agree, but no, what I'm saying
is I'm not going to die on the on the No,
I won't do it.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Hill.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
If that was important to Jackie, I'd have been like, okay, then.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
To be important to somebody, I bet it.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
No, I bet it is important to some people. I
bet that is. What are the origins of that? Which
one I can tell you? Oh? You know, yes, I do.
I guess, well, I know, Well, let me start it.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Cake rituals go back to ancient Rome, where the groom
would sprinkle barley crumbs over the bride's head, symbolizing dominance
in the hope of future fertility. Over time, this evolved
into feeding each other, a gesture intended to show reciprocal care,
(04:36):
with some couples making the event more playful by patting
icing on each other's face.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I forgot about the feeding angle, because you're right, some
start like that. Yeah, where it's like.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
You give me a bite of mine, I give you
a bite of yours.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
And clue.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Did you feed each other?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
No? I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Isn't that that I can't remember. I can't remember either.
Did we even?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
We definitely didn't feed.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Did we just cut the cake and like end it there?
I think we did that.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I think we cut the cake and had a bite
from your own fork.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
What do you mean you had a bite via Jackie
feeding you?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah? Absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Okay, so from our own fork?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Yeah, no my fork? Yeah, I mean we may have
shared the fork. I have no idea, but yeah, no, I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Like, that's a list of crap. I don't remember the Yeah,
that's what I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
So, now, would you have remembered if Scott, if Scott
gave you a.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Probably, because I'd still be mad. I believe that.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
See, so you don't even remember your cake ceremony, but
that would at least be memorable.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
And you'd have pictures of your buddy nose.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Oh my god, I definitely remember cutting the cake because
somebody gifted us a special knife to you. Yeah, oh really,
and we still that's a great idea. I feel so
bad because it's our only cake knife, so like we'll
bust it out for stuff that is not important. Wait,
you have a cake knife from a wedding gift? Do
you really that was given to us prior to the ceremony.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I don't even know what a cake knife is.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
It's it's it's it's long, it's is it serrated? Serrated?
Speaker 4 (06:14):
And then a lot of times it'll have like a
fancier handle. They'll have a bow on it.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
By the way, you know who you know who the
best guest is at a wedding, Oh, Menino, because he
cuts the cake as a guest.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yeah, why would you want to even if he's asked.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, like sometimes I got it because sometimes they struggle.
Steve will just go up there and go I got it.
He'll just get after. I've been at a couple of
weddings with Menino. Yeah, he goes right up cuts the cake.
I'm surprised he doesn't take over a carving station. But yeah,
the I've seen him cut a couple of cakes for
like ceremonies.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I'd be like if you went to a wedding and
somebody came over to you and said, hey, you want to.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Do some radio, right, I know that if it was
important to the I'm a gast you paid for my meal.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
So yeah, if they were like, will you do the introductions?
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Like what am I gonna do, like get on the
air and give out the phone number?
Speaker 4 (07:05):
No.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
But the if they were like, hey, will you do
the introductions, I would do that. I would do that
all day.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Okay, you mean like for the very first time.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Yeah, I would do that, and please welcome.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
All right, here's the groom's brother and Kimmy's big sis.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
In Cappa Delta.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
No, I would be a professional broadcaster and I would say,
you know, please welcome the mother's paper crowd.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Though the oh I'm doing it. I'm just doing introductions.
I'm not the DJ.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
That's moment when they come in there and they're holding
hands and doing choreographed dances. That's an amped up moment.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Oh yeah, well then I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Then I'm like, all right, here we go, right on,
let's let's twirl the Yeah, so that would be fine,
That would be fine, But there are some people who
enjoy like I also feel bad. I've never seen a
cake smash.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I can't tell you if I have.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I definitely haven't, because that I think I would remember.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I feel like the commentary at the table would stand
out to me enough that I would recall it. Their commentary.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Why is their commentary? I don't understand that.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
If you wonder if it was discussed, oh, I.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Assume if it's done, it's discussed.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
You can usually tell on one of the faces if
it wasn't discussed.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Okay, most of the viral video.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
No, I was going to break her nose.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I didn't know. Not where there's a medical incident, right,
but you can tell if there's utter shock.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I never do you know how hard I would laugh
if I saw a guy in a tux chasing a
woman in a dress around the banquet hole.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Just do some sort of pre plan It's scenario I
put on the Benny Hillfey, it's on that you not
play list. Then the father of the bride gets involved.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
God, oh, that's a good question.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
If Scott would have would have would have would have
smushed your face.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Would Frank have gotten involved?
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I get the sense that he probably would have thought
that it's it's off brand.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
But she must have agreed to that.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
See that is she's made Frank's me, Frank's me. I
would have.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
I assume if you're smushing cake like that's discussed, maybe
that's the blessing you should call for, mister Hughes. But
isn't there But there are brides that smush cake in
husband's faces.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yeah, yeah, so get over it, like there's no no,
there's no reason to be nasty in posts and stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
But I would, still, like Diane said, forget it if
it happened at mine, still be angry or fuming about it.
But I'd still be talking about it. If it was
at a friend's wedding, Yeah, it would be funny. No, yes,
we'd be funny to ask because we're mocking them.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Yeah yeah no.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
But again, I've never seen one, so if I saw one,
I'd be like, you know, whose wedding was like off
the charts?
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Blah blahs.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Remember he smashed that face, bro, smush that face like
that would be great?
Speaker 3 (10:09):
But was there a time when if it wasn't done,
it was odd, Yes, because it was so in vogue.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
I bet that. Well, they're saying it's back over the
last couple of years. Yes, yes, it is. They're getting
the the the in the past.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
In the past several years, cake smashing videos have become
very popular again.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, from the guests who are like, well, I'm about
to get paid for these clips. Well, at least I'm
monetize it.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
No.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
No, but I bet the Cold Play filmer.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
But I bet, I bet that there was like back
in the day. I don't know how far back you
got to go, but back in the day it was
very very popular. It was cool, it was funny, like
everybody enjoyed it. Everybody got a good ha ha ha.
And then and then we're sprinkling barley seed. No, not
an ancient role. No, but I don't why did they
go away? Why didn't it go away?
Speaker 3 (11:03):
You mean class I don't know recently, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Not Why do you why do you equate it with
being trashed?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
It's it's essentially the garter toss, which I love, you know,
you do some people just retrieve the garter. They don't
always toss it.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Some people will stop short of they'll do the bouquet toss,
but just do the whole garter ceremony, right, but then
not throw it garter garter.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
All garter ceremony should be nha though, what does that mean?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
No hands allowed? Use your teeth?
Speaker 4 (11:36):
You and and the wedding band has to play like
like the stripper. Well yeah, because you're pulling up that's
just what Nana wants to see.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well, I'm sorry, didn't Nana book the wedding?
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Now Nana's face, He didn't do garter, didn't do bouquet.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
You guys did garter?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
We did absolutely that, No, we did not. Wasn't any
of the DJ too.
Speaker 5 (12:12):
And h A and Age.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
Scott's got a little panny in his too, doesn't shock
you DJ?
Speaker 2 (12:26):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
No, brain? Brain was brain was there?
Speaker 4 (12:31):
Because I remember I will never forget pulling up to
the hotel and seeing the DC one on one roadie standing.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Outside and I was like, what the actual app They're
gonna smash cake at this wedding?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Actually, Buddy booked my DJ as my wedding gift, right.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
That's right, right, yeah, but I think that's a bad
wedding gift. Just f y I But then why was
brain there? Oh, he had to set up the speaker assist.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
It's a lot for one person to do that.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Wasn't their son of brain? Wasn't that also a guy
who worked here for a while.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
You've definitely worked here. I don't think. I don't think
son of Brain was at my wedding. Brain was.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
He loved it. He was right up close with the
camera when that garter was.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
I was already a mess, and then I was just like, oh, Mike,
are you kidding?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Brain was like, Hey, I think I'm seeing knuckle.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Oh God, I hope, I hope somebody rolls up in
the hummer line.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Three.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Hi Elliott the morning, Yeah, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 7 (13:34):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (13:34):
This is Tassa.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Are you a cake smasher?
Speaker 6 (13:38):
I am?
Speaker 1 (13:38):
So this is about my wedding.
Speaker 7 (13:40):
It was back in two thousand and eight, so a
while ago, right, but it was one of my most
memorable moments with my wedding, right and.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
You loved it. You loved it.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
I did.
Speaker 7 (13:51):
But my mom had a conversation with both my now
husband and I beforehand, saying that we'd better not do
it because it was trashing.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
They trashing, yep, yep.
Speaker 6 (14:01):
We had the conversation and then during the actual moment the.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
DJ was on Starr.
Speaker 7 (14:12):
The DJ was talking to my husband saying, you better
be really careful over the next thirty seconds because this
is going.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
To define your marriage.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
Boy.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
And as he's talking, I take my cake and smash
it completely in my husband's face.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Oh so you got him? Also, good for you.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
I got him first.
Speaker 5 (14:31):
I mean he of course.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Got me back, right, But no, it was the funniest thing,
and it took him. It completely shocked him.
Speaker 6 (14:41):
He had no idea I was going to do it.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Beautiful, beautiful, that's fun. Doesn't even remember her cake ceremony,
and you did. It was the highlight of your night.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
Yep, it's in my living room, the picture of my
hand in his face with the cake everywhere in His
arms are back and.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
He's just in beautiful beautiful. All right, I'm gonna let
you go ten to that baby. Hold type one second
for me, please, yes?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Say now?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
From Instagram, we just got a photo of a would
just say a joking about doing it with his bride.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Oh did he like? I kind of like?
Speaker 3 (15:18):
Did you see the eyes are kind of uh trained
on each other? Is he or is she?
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (15:25):
That's kind of fun too, that's kind of fun and
then smush. You know what, I think if I could
go back and redo it.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I may have smushed Jack.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
She'd never go for that.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
The no, she's all she'd probably like you. That's trashy.
It ain't trashy, it's fun. It's fun.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Luke is claiming did you see it? Tell you?
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Luke is claiming that now he does say my ex brother.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
In law, that's okay, people get divorced.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
During the removal of the garter. Oh yes, played a
certain Southern rock song. Is this scene at some weddings?
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Like?
Speaker 3 (16:13):
Is this a one off? Or is this a joke
that some DJs and family will arrange hopefully discussed ahead
of time.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Can I have no idea what it is? But I
do have a guess.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
I'm gonna cue it up here.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Did we see this band play Gretna Fest? Yes?
Speaker 3 (16:30):
We did?
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Skinnerd Yeah, Oh yes?
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Do you think you know what song? It is?
Speaker 2 (16:38):
Absolutely that smell.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
Smash your cake in my face all day before you
do that.
Speaker 5 (16:53):
AJ.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Aj Come on, Scott, get.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Your head up there, get.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
That Garner, Come on, everybody, whiskey bottle.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
O, Hi god, it's not the oak Tree that's in
your way.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
That those goddamn panties.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Line five, Hi Elliott in the morning, that would be
by the way. That would get that would get the
crowd talking. That would get the crowd talking.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Memorable, memorable forget.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Your meshed potato station?
Speaker 2 (17:40):
Hi is this?
Speaker 1 (17:43):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Is this meat?
Speaker 4 (17:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yes, Julie. What can I do for you?
Speaker 5 (17:47):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (17:47):
Hey, So I was just calling because when I was like,
it was the late nineties. You went to my cousin's wedding.
He was only like nineteen years old.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
It was like a big, big deal.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
Everybody was judging them for getting married, and my cousin
he smashed his new wife in the face with the
cake and she started falling, crying and ran away and she.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Had to be consoled.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Oh it was bad.
Speaker 6 (18:20):
And needless to say, they are no longer.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Married because of that, not because of no.
Speaker 6 (18:26):
No, no, no, not because of that. But it was,
you know, it was just the harbinger of what's to come.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
But hey, can I ask you this though?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
But did they talk about it ahead of time where
she was like, I'm cool with it.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Not if she's crying, way.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
I know my cousin.
Speaker 6 (18:41):
And even if she had said not to do it.
You would do it anyway.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
So hey did they play that smell during the garden?
Speaker 4 (18:51):
Oh god?
Speaker 2 (18:52):
There was no guard remover.
Speaker 6 (18:53):
They wouldn't even let people out of state get alcohol.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
It was like an Illinois or.
Speaker 6 (18:57):
Something, and they had a law at the wedding where
anybody was out of state license wasn't allowed to buy alcohol.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Oh my god, that's crazy, that's crazy. All right, very good,
very good, Thank you man.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Hi Ellie at the morning. Oh wait, I hit the
wrong wait, hold on, I hit the wrong line. I
hit the wrong line. Hi Ellie in the morning. Hey,
y yeah, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 7 (19:21):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 6 (19:22):
This is Vinnie.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
What's up, Vinnie.
Speaker 7 (19:24):
So our wedding was a little interesting and uh a
little different than most others. Literally seconds before we're about
to cut the cake, my wife goes, I'm going to
punch the cake and I was like what. She's like, Yeah,
we're gonna punch it, and I said, all right, screw it.
So before we I didn't even know if it was
actually cut the cake. We both punched the cake, shoving
each other's faces, and then took some of them and
(19:46):
actually just shoved it in the guest spaces.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
We got everybody.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
That's awesome and it was great. Everybody loved it, right, oh.
Speaker 7 (19:57):
Yeah, it was a good time.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
Man.
Speaker 7 (19:58):
Our wedding was I mean, everybody thinks they're wedding the best.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
But.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah no, see that, now that's fun. That's fun. Excellent,
Thank you sir, thank you. So so now we're now
we're throwing cake in each other's face and now we're
getting the guests soon.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
If like at Diane's wedding.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
I would have laughed if Diane, like, if Scott came
up it was like I smushed Diane.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Now I'm smushing you, I would have laughed.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
I would not have.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
How about if Scott tagged you out during the garter removal?
Speaker 3 (20:31):
By the way, Luke followed up with, remember this was
his ex brother in law, right, it was definitely memorable
and I still love that guy and Hope.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Hell yeah,
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