In this episode, I'm breaking down one of my all-time favorite tools: the Yes No Maybe List. If you've ever felt curious about trying something new in bed but didn't know how to bring it up — or didn't even know what was "on the menu" — this episode is for you. I'll walk you through exactly how to introduce the list to your partner, how to fill it out (solo or together), and most importantly, how to turn your “yeses” into real plans you'll actually follow through on. I'm also sharing some incredible stories from our community, breaking down newer terms you might not have heard of, and answering your live questions about what to do when you and your partner don't match up on your answers.
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The Sex With Emily Glossary: https://sexwithemily.com/explore-play/swe-glossary/
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
02:30 What Is the Yes! No! Maybe? List?
04:40 How the List Can Improve Your Sex Life
06:20 Why Singles Should Explore Their Desires
07:40 Bringing Novelty Back Into Relationships
08:17 How to Prepare for the Conversation
10:20 Filling Out the Yes! No! Maybe? List
11:43 Exploring New Interests
15:00 Massages, Pleasure & Connection
17:10 Turning Your Yeses Into Real Experiences
20:30 Navigating Different Answers With Your Partner
24:48 Overcoming Shame, Fear & Blocks
32:08 How Desires Change Over Time
35:44 Healing Through Communication & Trust
43:53 Final Takeaways & Next Steps
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