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April 16, 2025 11 mins
The Show Presents: Thor's wife Hayley refuses to share her location with him but she shares it with everyone else! Is he wrong for being pissed?!?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sublime stick figure on the show It's Rock one, O,
five to three. So I guess there's something going on
with Door where he says that his wife is refusing
to do something that doesn't make sense to him. He says,
it's confusing, and you're kind of offended over it. Super different,
what the heck is going on?

Speaker 2 (00:18):
So last week we were driving to my grandma's she
lives all the way and victor passed Victorville, it's called
it's like two and a half hours from here. I
have no idea why she lives up there. She's gonna
be ninety four in June, and she's doing great, And
we drove up there. We're on our way back. Later
in the day, we're in traffic. We're in like the
Riverside area, and she gets a phone call from her

(00:39):
brother who lives in the river. One of her brothers
lives in the Riverside area, and her brother says, Oh,
I didn't know you guys were gonna be in the area,
thinking like we were going to see him or something.
I don't know. And I asked my wife, how would
he know that we're there? Did you tell him? And
she says, no, I share my location with him, and
I go, you share your location with him? And she goes, oh, yeah,

(00:59):
I share location with my brothers, my mom, my dad,
my best friend Kimya. And I'm like all right, and
I go. But the crazy thing is she won't share
it with me. She won't. The only time we share.
She shares her location with me is when she's out
on the trail by herself, because I don't think it's
safe to be on a trail by yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
And so she like goes and makes it happen, like
how you have to hit share location, you share like.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
The rest of the day. So she'll shareplication for the
rest of the day. That's it. And I said, that's ridiculous.
And she doesn't want to share with me because she
thinks that it's too much to share our locations where
like we're not. She doesn't want to be like, you know,
you're playing it, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (01:45):
You know?

Speaker 2 (01:45):
And I could wrap my mind around that. You don't
want to be like overbearing, constantly checking on me, what
am I doing, not trusting me. I get that I
do because I wouldn't want that either. That's not what
we do.

Speaker 4 (01:59):
I'd be That's the way you say it, but it's
I I'll like, if I don't know where he is,
I'll look and I'll be like, oh, he's at home
depot or why do you even know where he is?

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Just call him If he hasn't answer, I'm sure i'll
call you back.

Speaker 4 (02:11):
Well, yeah, because I call him he doesn't answer, And
where is this guy? It's not that I trust this guy.
It's not that I don't trust him. I'm just like
kind of like something's going to happen. No, I'm just curious,
you know. And and I'll do the same thing with
my daughter, like oh, where where is that?

Speaker 2 (02:26):
Where the daughter makes sense? The daughter makes.

Speaker 4 (02:28):
Sense, But it's not that I don't trust her or
it's like the same vibe.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
It's very very convenient though, Like like you're saying, yes,
I could absolutely pick the phone up and call Robert
and go, hey, when are you going to be home?
But it's so nice and easy that I don't have
to do that, and I just go, oh, he's still
at work, he's around the corner. Like that's cool, now
I know when he's going to be home.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Totally, I don't do this at all.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
To me, it's a very controlling thing.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
But I'm not I don't ever talk to him about it.
I'm not ever like, oh where is he? It's like
I'm not saying.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
I still think it's controlling, though, because you need to
know where, you need to know where that person is.
I just we're not going to agree on this. We're
just gonna keep arguing because I just think it's a controlling.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
I feel the calling is more aggressive, like it's just easy.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
What did you do before you shared locations? You just didn't?

Speaker 4 (03:15):
I just wonder and I'd be like, it's too much,
Like I don't care.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
That much, but you care enough that you're gonna I
look at.

Speaker 4 (03:25):
Instagram, I look at redfins like my life like so,
so I don't think it'll lead to problems.

Speaker 5 (03:33):
Like clearly Haley things. But maybe we're just why.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
I think it's a controlling trust thing. So, but I
also find it weird in the same sense that she
shares with everybody else. I don't like, I don't share
with everybody else.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Yeah that's so odd to me, but let me hear
me and you may not know because it's her. Why
does she feel the need to share with that many people?
I don't know like are I don't know, are you
kidnapping her?

Speaker 2 (03:59):
Or I don't understand it either, Like I don't share
my location with anybody either.

Speaker 3 (04:03):
Friend thing weird, like I find sharing with your friends,
and like I my sister shares with my mom and
I started sharing with my mom, but I thought that
was weird, like sharing even with your family that doesn't
live in your household.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
Anywhere you go, you're going to share with your mom.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
Your location, Like I think my location and the contact
has just turned on on find my on like to
find my do you.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Get like.

Speaker 4 (04:26):
But you just look whenever you're wondering, but you could
look at any time and see where why are you wondering?

Speaker 3 (04:31):
I don't look. I don't think they share theirs with
me because I will. I never would never in my
life look at where my mom and my sister are.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
I would never do. Why would they Why would your
mom need to know where you are?

Speaker 3 (04:40):
I don't know, because they like certain people like sharing
locations with people. I don't get that as far as
people that don't know my household. But like so I
don't understand that. But I don't know if it's a
generational thing, But then that would make sense about my mom.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
All kids share you could find each other on the
apps and Instagram, chat close snapchat, so they they all.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
That's kind of understandable. Yeah, but I don't understand sharing
it with that many people. And then go, you though.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yeah, that's kind She doesn't wander with me because she
thinks it's it's that's an invasion with privacy, where like,
it's not. We don't trust each other and we're not
and it's too weird. But why And I kind of
understand that. But then I also, on the other hand,
think it's weird that she shares it with everyone else.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
Well, yeah, because why not that same vibe with anyone's
to anybody else? But why doesn't she feel like they're
spying on her, they're checking up on her. If that's
the vibe that would come from you, you know what
I mean, it's.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
The like, well, I honestly think she doesn't want to
She doesn't want to cross the line where she doesn't
trust me. And I think if she shares her, if
I share my location with her all the time, I
feel like that's a thing where she thinks that she'll
get the hunch to go, what is he doing and
to her, And to me, it's wondering what you're doing
and not calling and say hey, what's up? What are
you doing? Is and looking at the app is kind

(05:58):
of like to us. To us is kind of a
like sneaky. I need to know what you're doing. Even
though it's harmless, it's still I need to know what
you're doing. Well, then it does raise questions and can
raise questions of hey, what were you doing in you know,
La Mesa today exactly? And you go, oh, well, I
was this, But it just makes you feel like, oh,

(06:19):
for no reason, why for you do you need to
know that? Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
I'm a grown man, Like what do you need to
know that?

Speaker 3 (06:24):
If you're used to it? Because yesterday Robert called me
and he goes, hey, Griffy's, are you at CVS? And
right by the CBS is where I was getting my
car washed, So he looked at my location and thought
that I was at.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
S Why I ask if you were at CVS because.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
He couldn't tell if I was at CVS or the
car wash because sometimes it's not a completely accurate.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
So he wanted me to go pick something.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
Up for him.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
So he was like, hey, at CVS and I wasn't.
I was at the car wash, but it didn't rub
me the wrong way, like why was he checking up
on me?

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (06:51):
I guess that's different than what I'm saying. Because if
if it's a thing where you're not used to you
going say you were you randomly were in La Joya,
which you don't ever really go to know and hey,
what were you doing Laoya today? Mm hmm, that doesn't
hit You're not doing anything wrong. You went there for

(07:11):
a specific reason. I don't know what that would be,
but you did. And if there there's a question of
like we.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
What were you doing?

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Tone that you're saying, and it is like a shady tone,
like like you're you're assuming I was up?

Speaker 1 (07:23):
How how would you want me to say it?

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Robert was like, grippies, what were you doing Laoya today?
Like to me the delivery like it was just like
like actually genuinely curious, right, just how was your day?
What were you doing in Lahoya?

Speaker 2 (07:34):
I saw that you buttla It? Yeah, oh I was
going to boutique in Lahoya.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Or I went to the beach, I went and saw
a friend.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah, that doesn't bother me. But if he did it
though he was in a place that you didn't realize
he would for some random reason. He was in ocean
side you.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
He's in ocean side.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
He's all over the job, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (07:54):
No, I understand, And but I don't think that there's
anything wrong with asking what were curious about your day?
Like what were you doing over there? Like not anyway
you slice it anyway it comes out of my mouth.
It's sounding like I'm accusing him something, but I'm not.
You just want to know about Like don't you guys
catch up on your days and where you what are
you doing?

Speaker 1 (08:11):
And sure, but.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
My wife is at all times.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
I just think it's kind of a convenient, fun thing
to be able to see why in town there, Like
I like looking at the app that I used for
the location.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, it's fun to me. It's a controlling and I
would I need to know what they're doing all the time.

Speaker 4 (08:25):
Accusatory and like my daughter even told me the other
day that she goes, oh, yeah, you know, Dad watches
where you are all the time. And I'm like, oh really,
And I didn't realize that. I thought I checked where
he was more. But according to my daughter, whenever I'm
not home. He's always like refreshing, like where is she?

Speaker 5 (08:41):
Where? Okay, oh she was at the Padres game.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
She's now.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Becomes addictive though, But I don't think of it as
a controlling thing. I think of it as like, I'm
like kind of guy was saying, you're kind of on Instagram,
like all the kids on Snapchat. I don't think they're
being creepy. It's just it's become a thing where you
just know where people are.

Speaker 4 (08:58):
You're just like, oh, okay, cool, they're at home depot,
meaning they'll be here in twenty minutes, you know so so,
But I do like, Okay, I guess clearly there's two
different schools on this one, but I still can't wrap
my head around like the best friend, like the like
that's odder to me than the spouse. Like I feel
in my world the spouse is a given and then

(09:21):
anybody else that's kind of weird.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
Yeah, of course, you know, I don't. I don't.

Speaker 4 (09:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:27):
The more I think about it, the more I think
the opposite, The more I think it's more acceptable to
do with your friends than your spouse.

Speaker 5 (09:32):
Would you ever share with your friends? Would you feel comfortable?

Speaker 2 (09:35):
Noah, I don't want to share nobody. Yeah, if you
want to know where I am. If you want to
know where I am, just do what we used to
do all the time and text me or call me
and just say, hey, what are you doing?

Speaker 5 (09:46):
Way too much effort?

Speaker 2 (09:47):
How is that way too much effort?

Speaker 5 (09:48):
I got a punch buttons?

Speaker 2 (09:50):
So you rather spy on me? You are?

Speaker 1 (09:57):
What are you doing?

Speaker 2 (09:58):
Val okay hooters by yourself? That's weird? Really doesn't need
to know.

Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yeah, I do think it is odd that she'll share
it with everybody but you. That would offend me.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
And why the brothers like I can kind of understand
your parents because like they probably saw a new story
of like it could be safer if they know where
are But but the brothers like I like that.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
I don't get that either. But I don't share my
location with anybody. I neither to my parents. But I
don't know. I know that my sister she tracks up
my nephews, but that may I understand that that makes sense,
but I don't know. I don't know how. I don't
know how. I don't know how they do it. I
don't know if they know what time they're coming home
for dinner or not. Because I don't do locations.

Speaker 5 (10:43):
That's nicely helpful.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
It's wild.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
Uh, the Padres had not lost at home, were undefeated.
Did they keep the street going last night? Well, I
can tell you went into extra innings. We're going to
tell you if they stayed undefeated or not. Next to
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