The Sound of Thunder (Live from Palm Springs!)

We’re in Palm Springs for one more night… and when you’re in the land of spicy margs, there’s only one thing to do… MORE TRUTH OR DRINK!

MORE secrets are revealed, MORE truths are spilled, and as expected, we learn a little too much about each other.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Scrub dub dub in the air and be tub tub tub.
That's right.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
If you heard that click clock and saw sound at
the beginning of the episode, that was Tanya. That's the
sound we've been hearing of her walking around in her
shoes getting my way on over. She forgot her house slippers.
And she does not walk barefoot in homes.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
No, not in my own home, not even in your
own home.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
I just learned this about you. Yeah, on this trip.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
I don't like my bare feet on ground like tile, one, carpet, tile,
anything like. I need them in a house slipper, I
need them in a sock. I need them in like
any form of based or texture. I honestly, I don't know.
I have no idea what neurosis it comes from, but like,

(01:05):
obviously it's there, sure is. I don't know what it is, though.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
But let me tell you something. Eight o'clock this morning.
First sound I hear click clacking on the tie hold.
Tony got her heels on and going to the bathroom
to start her day.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
Scoot moment. Yeah, Boots, Scoot and Tutin. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
So we're at an Airbnb and Pump Springs and uh,
there's three rooms.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
It's me.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Well, Sam's here, but she's in.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
A hotel, which we can talk about later because I
wired at a hotel. But I mean we do.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Yeah, there's a lot of beds in here. Easton and
Alison got the honeymoon suite as they are the couple.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Thank you for relinquishing that. He moves to us. We
appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
It just made sense, like putting all the room with
double beds felt awkward and strange.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
I was wondering which of you were going to get
the primary bedroom.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
Oh you thought we'd split up?

Speaker 3 (02:01):
I did.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Interesting me too.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
I've had money down that it was gonna be Beca
in the primary bedroom, Tanya in one of the other rooms,
and then Alison and I in the other, and then
we would have to share the bathroom.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, that's how it goes in these parts, you know.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
So we got here and we realized, you know, there's
two bedrooms. Both of them have two beds in them, yes,
and Tnia's like, why wouldn't we share a room? And
I'm like, well, because there's a whole other room. Why
would we share a room?

Speaker 1 (02:33):
In hindsight, now, aren't you so happy that we shared
a room?

Speaker 4 (02:36):
Last night?

Speaker 1 (02:37):
We stayed up till two am, chit chat and click clacken.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Yeah yeah, no, it's fun. Yeah, But like I just
in my mind, that's just not how my mind. I'm like,
why would I not want to take the room? That's
just my own room?

Speaker 1 (02:49):
So think about it. Well, now have you gone to bed?
Had we all gone to bed last night? Whatever time
we all said good night goodbye? Finished the podcast at
like midnight? Oh no, it was like eleven. We were
all going to bed. Had you gone into your room,
closed your door, I went into my room, closed my door.
We never would have had that beautiful conversation last night. Beautiful, yeah,

(03:10):
just so sweet. And what did we talk about? I
don't even know.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
We were laughing, we were giggling. But you know what,
I think we had different experiences. Whereas you were the
college girl who had the sleeping porch, loved the sleeping porch,
miss that you missed the sleeping porch, and I never
I shared room with my siblings the whole my whole life,
So I craved alone, alone time space yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Like for my bachelorette, I want all of us in
one room. We can cross.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
For that. But anyways, we recorded our Truth or Drink
episode last night and.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
We were having second thoughts about it last night. So
I am not good. After the hours of like seven
forty five PM, I go into like hibernation mode, and
so I felt very like my energy was very down,
Like I felt like I had no energy, low energy.
And Becca felt the same. And so we were like,
we can't air that Truth or Drink episode. We're gonna

(04:16):
have to do it again tomorrow. And that was really
the basis of our conversation last night.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
Well, there were some other things, but yeah, we were
just laying there like did you think the episode was good?
You know, there's a lot of pressure when it comes
to pump springs, like it gonna be is it gonna
be fun, Is it gonna be energetic?

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Is it gonna be drunk? What is it gonna be? Right?
And I felt like we were tired.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
And we were like sipping the tequila shot like I
feel like when we've done Truth or Drink in the past,
it's been like.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
A throwing shot back. Yeah, we did get some.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Horrible to cue that may have burned a hole in
my esophagus and stomach, but that's no excuse because when
you come for truth or drink.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
Right, And we wanted it to be up to up
to standards, right. But so we woke up and we said,
guys were scrapping it, put it in the toilet bowl.
It's not coming out. And it came out. Yeah, I
came out, he came out.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
We said, you know what for better for worse?

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, well the truth is Crystal yeah listened to it
and thought it was funny and said that we should
release it.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
And so that's really all I needed to hear.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
But Sam Easton and Allison said it was funny, and yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Crystal would have said if it was terrible.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, And I think because Sam Easton and Allison were
in the room with us, so, but they didn't like
they maybe felt energy that was here because we were
like funny, like funny, having a good time. But like
when you're listening to it, I didn't want it to
sound like we were asleep.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Yeah, I get what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
Yeah, those four years ago, we're different people. What do
you mean four years ago?

Speaker 2 (05:46):
The last Pump Springs episode that was four years.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
Ago, wasn't it.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, it was August of twenty twenty.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Yeah, that's crazy, right, and we'd been cooped up for months,
so we were like yeah, yeah, yeah, wow. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
So anyways, that's a little bit about that. But we
did lay in bed and we were talking about I
don't even know how the conversation got started, the ingrown hair.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
Oh well, boy, strap strap strapp talking about.

Speaker 4 (06:22):
Something gross that we don't even need to get into.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
Oh I don't remember.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
It's something gross. I feel like that let us down
that path. But I I'm like the godmother of like
vaginal issues, so like a self named everybody comes to
me when like something's going on, like if they have utiyes,
Tanya help me, if they have ingrown hairs, Tanya help

(06:46):
me if they have to Like you scram came to
me with questions before I get DMS about ut I
s up the ya. I am the go to gal
for all things vagina. Yeah, yeah, I don't know how
we got on the topic of it. Now you're throwing
me off.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
I think we're talking about Oh well, were we talking
about how obsessive we are about showering? Like, how are
you We're saying, how like we are like obsessive about
needing to feel clean and like stuff like that, and
she was like, oh, yeah, the other day.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
So the other day, I was like getting I could
feel an ingrown hair like coming down there, and I
was I was rushed. I had worked late that afternoon
podcast that day. Yeah, so I was later than normal
for a Tuesday, and we had a double date that night,
and I was like running around getting ready, and I
put on my standing jeans that are not meant for sitting,

(07:39):
and we were going out to dinner, so I was
gonna be sitting the whole night, but didn't. I didn't
clock it because I was in such a rush to
get ready. So I'm putting on my jeans and putting
on my outfit and we go to sit in the car,
and I'm like miserable because my standing jeans are so
like slicing my vagina down.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
First of all, without an ingrown hair. Wearing standing jeans
to a dinner.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, aggressive pain pain. Just imagine. I'm like fresh, we
have a fresh ingrown coming, and I'm wearing my standing
jeans to a dinner. So I'm like miserable. In the
car ride to the like.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
Disassociated looking out the windows.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
It's like, are you okay? I'm like, I didn't really
want to tell him because like, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
You don't talk about those things.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
I mean I do if it gets to the point
where like I need to, Like I'm like, don't touch me,
but like no, and so uh, then I had to
tell him because I was just like so miserable. I'm like,
I wear are I standing jeans?

Speaker 4 (08:40):
And it's slicing me down the middle and I'm.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
So uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.
And I don't really know the point of that story.
But I told Tobecca and she seemed to find it hilarious.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Day if you know the pain of wearing really tight
jeans and like putting them on because it's cute, and
then you go and you sit down in the car,
but you're already too late to go change the jeans,
and you're like, I have worn the wrong pair of
jeans for a sit down dinner.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, And then knowing the and then then I sit
down and it's like five PM on a Tuesday, So
I'm like, can I get a martini on the rocks
with two olives? Two onions in a twist because I
need to I gotta get out of it his body.
Let's I need to mentally be away from what's going

(09:28):
on here.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
Yeah, I hadn't heard that story. I thought it was
a good one. Yeah, I found it really funny at
like one am La, wasn't it?

Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah? You were giggling? But all as well, it did
not develop, and actually it did not develop, did not
develop in the direction I thought I was going to develop.
So we're good. What is it development to? Well, you know,
like a whole thing and grown hairs, just like fish
them out, fuck them out. I just it just did

(09:55):
its own thing. We learned something.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
Really interesting about Alison while.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
We've been here in Palm Springs.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
Are you gonna put your headphones in?

Speaker 3 (10:15):
My lovely wife Allison putting her ear plugs in.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Well, we should take a break and then we'll tell
you why if she's doing.

Speaker 3 (10:21):
That stick around.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
All right, we're bad.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
So, as we discussed earlier in the episode, there are
two bathrooms in this airbnb. One is attached to the
primary bedroom, which she said Alison are sharing, and the
other ones in the general hallway that Tony and I
are sharing. So after her drink last night and some

(11:01):
of the absolute got awful tequila that we were sipping on,
my stomach felt like it was bubbling. Yeah, And I
was like, this is something that I can't like push
it back, and it's it's do or die. Yeah, And

(11:22):
so I'm kind of like I.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Had to do.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
I did because I'm here and I'm kind of just waiting.
I'm thinking like maybe everyone's gonna like leave. Oh, actually
y'all did leave because y'all okay. So so Sam saying
at a hotel so East and Allison drove her room.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
So I was like, this is my time.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
I gotta go while everyone's out because I was still here.
Well you know, I gave you the warning. Tanya is
just like showers and I'm like, I'm like, I gotta
go to face some Haley. I'll like distract myself.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
I come in. She's still showering.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
I'm like, hey, she's doing like a full body shot.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
What's going on? She's shaving everything.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
She gets out, I'm like, hey, I really have to
go to the rest, Like I have to go. I
need you get out. And she's like, yeah, okay, I
just need to brush my teeth real quick. I'm like, okay,
just brush your teeth. So she she when I say,
she did the full two minutes, maybe more.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
Brush this night. And then I look over.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
I'm like shaking, I have to go, like I'm in
it's bad, Like it's a serious situation at this point.
And I look over as I'm swaying side to side
and she's flossing each tooth thoroughly, and I'm like, get

(12:44):
told me.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
That I can get I can take care of my teeth.
I didn't take care. I did not go. I don't
want to come back in there when it's smelly to
do my teeth. Why do you have to be in
the bathroom. Why can't you do it in another mirror
to floss? Because you have to brush your teeth after
youth Does anybody lost their teeth or you have to
floss and then you brush your teeth.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
You brush your teeth, and then you were flossing.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Because I needed to get my underwire, my permanent retainers.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
Anyways, there was no time for this. I said, brush
your teeth. I have to get in here, okay, no respect.
Like literally, I've never seen someone put the toothbrush away slower.
There was because she fumbled it.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
You were stressing me out so bad. It's like she
can try.

Speaker 6 (13:29):
Hold the bristles, are getting all this mud on it,
so that Why are mud my my electric toothbrush thing
the top of it. You didn't let me I you
don't really wipe it off.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
And then I put it back in my hand. Why
is there mud on your legs?

Speaker 7 (13:43):
Bread?

Speaker 1 (13:43):
It looks like mud. It's just like you know what
I'm talking about. And you have an electric toothbrush. When
you take the top off, there's like the metal underneath,
and the metal gets a little soggy at times.

Speaker 3 (13:55):
Nobody knows what issue.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Nobody know what that is. Oh my gosh, anyway, on
brush enough my take care anyway. I didn't say take
care of that's a brush your teeth.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
And then she's doing a full freaking routine as I'm
like dying, and so I go and it's like I
will say, if you're in the room around.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
In a thunderstorm, there.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
It's literally like a freaking it was bad. It was
it was bad, And I don't normally.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
Want here to the door, like I was not trying
to ease Drop is giving me some a little more
space in her bedroom in bed. Look scrolling through Instagram,
there's not much more peace. I can just turn your
Instagram up a little bit loud. Okay, Anyways, it was
it wasn't good.

Speaker 2 (14:47):
So then this morning, Tanya, it's Donya.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
She's like, I've got a good mind.

Speaker 2 (14:56):
You.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
Everybody's here at this point, so I'm.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
Like, uh yeah, So Tanya, she's like texting me and
she's like, I can feel it, but I'm scared.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
I couldn't. I couldn't be free. I paka coach, you
kind of let go, and my God, like there's nothing
you can do. You just have to go.

Speaker 2 (15:16):
Like everyone will move on, right. So we thought so
we thought no one would care. It's a safe space.
We thought we were free to rehash it. Yeah, until
this afternoon when we bring it up and Allison space
goes just white white, I would say, she goes cross eyed.

Speaker 1 (15:37):
She's like, I can't.

Speaker 4 (15:39):
I don't do that.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
I don't do that, and we're like, what do you mean?
It's like, we do not talk about this.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
She's like I might have to leave the room.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
And I was like, wait, is this real? And asked
Easton and he confirmed it's real.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
So I feel we I mean, I know she has
her ear plugs in you can't hear. I feel we're
talking bringing this up at all with her in this room. God,
my marriage is on the leg. I need this. We okay.
Allison is an angel sent from heaven to make everybody's

(16:16):
life better. That she exists to improve everyone's experience on earth.
She has one simple ask of me and everybody else
that she knows. She's like, I do not like to
talk about bodily functions. I do not like to talk
about that. No allusions to it, no jokes about it. Nothing.
It is we we And I said, I agree to that.

(16:38):
That is fine. He's our wedding bouse. Yes, sa, I'm
there in front of all of our friends and family,
And I mean, just like any other guy. I think
get the blue button, Ray. I think she's funny. I
think that I think farts are funny. But I respect
her being uncomfortable about this, so we do not We
don't talk about it. There's a we act like it

(17:01):
never happens to either one of us. There are precautions
we have to take to make sure that happens.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
I mean, what, like, what does that mean? Medicine?

Speaker 2 (17:09):
Is it?

Speaker 3 (17:10):
It's just things I haven't spoken to anyone about exclusive
legitimately have now spoken to a soul about this because
of our agreement. I don't know, there's like, we have
two bathrooms in our house. Yeah, yeah, so it's each to.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
Each their own.

Speaker 3 (17:25):
Yeah, if that needs to happen. Uh, I don't know.
There's a lot of hotel lobby being used.

Speaker 2 (17:33):
This is what I find interesting. So I asked her.
I was like, if you're in if you're on vacation together,
you're sharing a hotel room, small rooms, one bathroom, Yeah, what.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Do you do?

Speaker 2 (17:43):
And she was like, I'll go I like, I'd rather
just go anywhere at like a public place. And I'm like, see,
I can't. I can't do that.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
I mean I do the same thing.

Speaker 2 (17:52):
You find a public spot post Yeah, and you'd prefer
that breaking the valve, Yeah, yes I.

Speaker 3 (18:01):
Would. And the only time it's a problem is like
sometimes I'll see a joke, like a meme or something
that like slightly references it and I've tried to show
it to her and she's like, no, no, no, no, no not,
we're not laughing about this, No jokes, these are not
this is not funny. And uh, and that's fine. Uh,
and it's it's not an issue like it really, Like

(18:21):
I was saying before we started, I I don't have
to like stop myself from talking about it. Or there
are there are times where like it's physically just uncomfortable, right,
But there's always a solution.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
Yeah, there always is.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
Yeah, well that let that be the last of this podcast.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
There's always a solution. You may think that you are
in a situation that you can't get out of, there's
always a solution.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
What was my solution the other night?

Speaker 1 (18:48):
You let them god? Oh okay, yeah.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (18:53):
We have a cabin up in Idlewild, California, and it's
two It has two bathrooms, huh, one of which is
connected to our bedroom and one is like in the
living room upstairs. The bathroom is right above where we sleep,
so I will go up there. But then when you flush,
it's like so loud and you can eat, like you
can't hear anything besides the flushing. But I'm like, I

(19:15):
just realize, I just picture late in bed and just
hearing the you know, like I don't know, and that's
even that it makes me I feel like I've broken
the vow.

Speaker 2 (19:24):
Oh meanwhile, Robbay's just trying to brush his teeth while
tong is in the bathroom.

Speaker 3 (19:29):
Let go like going my god, wow.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
Yeah, I just am fascinated in the sense that, like
I would rather go, I can't go in public.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
So I have just done that.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
And Haley and I don't like we're not We don't
talk about it a lot at all.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
But if there's a situation like dinner conversation, yeah, yeah,
pat either.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
Yeah, no, like we're I would say we talk about
it less than most people, but it's like it's acknowledged
because it's you know, human.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
Yeah, what I've said now is the most I've ever
said in front of her.

Speaker 2 (20:02):
Thank you for the vulnerability.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
I've just been praying. She is not listening right now.

Speaker 2 (20:10):
Rachel is playing really loud.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
But but I've got like the greatest hits of like place,
you know, places with great public restrooms, like any of
the Carusoe properties, the Americana brand, the Grove Palistates Village does.

Speaker 1 (20:27):
Of great rest What makes her a great restroom?

Speaker 3 (20:29):
Well, I mean for that like a Florida ceiling door
on the saul, you know, dim lighting, Yeah, uh, you know,
things of that nature. But you know, again, you make
this is like the smallest compromise I think anyone's ever
asked in a mayor. In my opinion, I think there's

(20:50):
a lot of people that make much larger compromises for
their life. Yeah, and this is like the one thing
Alison has asked, and I agree to it.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
Respect I might incorporate this into my my relationship me too.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
What are you laughing just because I'm gonna do it? Okay,
report back.

Speaker 4 (21:13):
Let's see how long it last?

Speaker 3 (21:14):
Can you put the toothpaste back in the tube? Though,
like that has that door is already.

Speaker 1 (21:19):
Open, It's already opened, but you can always shut it.
Let that be another lesson of this podcast. You can
always shut the door, always shut the door.

Speaker 4 (21:25):
You can always shut the door. You don't have to
leave any door open.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
If you want, you can always leave the door open,
but you don't have to don't have to always shut
the door.

Speaker 3 (21:33):
Yeah, or in this case, at least crack a window.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
Yeah, at least yeah. Wow.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
Okay, Well thanks for sharing. I just was like it.
It was such an interesting turn when I when I
learned this.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
I truly don't think it has a fact. Like we
were saying, like we're physically so intimate except for that,
and I really don't think I think that makes us more.
I think that makes our intimacy that much stronger because
there is.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
A little well, there's some intimacy when like cook Man,
what what? I had a moment. This is not even
alcohol related. This was like I don't know what was
going on, but I was. It was I don't even
need to say, but it was like not not pleasant
situation in the bathroom and I like passed out, like

(22:24):
I fell on the floor and like, uh, Robbie was
like helping me. He was like literally and I'm like
naked from the waist down and like not like shaking,
you know. And there's like some intimacy that comes from
like somebody seeing you like that. That vulnerable you know
mm hmmm.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
That happened early on in Yill's relationship.

Speaker 1 (22:43):
I fail, didn't it no, This that one was. The
first one was alcohol related. I was like so like drunk.
That was like vulnerable. Yeah, also vulnerable, but like this one.
The second one was like something weird. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (22:54):
It was like some sort of I had some sort
of like virus or something.

Speaker 1 (22:58):
Wow. Yeah, yeah, without getting graphic, you know.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
Well, she said she doesn't want to watch anyone falls either.
It's like everything though it's not just that she.

Speaker 3 (23:08):
I've floss in front of her all the time. I
think she'd rather not, but I do it. That's something
that I keep doing.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Or she doesn't like to fass in front of people.

Speaker 3 (23:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's it.

Speaker 1 (23:20):
It's giving missus Mazel does anybody? Nobody knows? Nobody I knows.
I never watched it.

Speaker 3 (23:26):
I watched the first two seasons.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
Is this that? It's like when Midge masl like they
go to bed. She goes to bed to her husband.
She has all her makeup on, her hair looks beautiful
that she lays her head on the pillow and then
she waits till he falls asleep, and then she gets
out of the bed. She goes to the bathroom, washes
off her makeup, puts her hair, and rollers gets back
in bed. Sleep sets her alarm so she can wake
up before him to put her face back on, spray

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perfume on, and then gets back in bed so he
wakes up and she's like, gorgeous.

Speaker 2 (23:54):
I used to do that when I first started dating Haley,
not like to that level, but like when we first
started dating and when we were saying at her place,
I'd like get up and go to the bathroom and
just like brush my teeth and like put like little
look gloss, you know, something on and like we splash
my face, tousle my hair so that she'd be like,
oh my god, this girl wakes up like Wow, I.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
Wish I had that, Like, I wish I had that
chip in me. I don't have that chip in me.
I wake up looking like a gremlin. Click cluck and
clack into the bathroom. Robb's like, oh, there's my girl.
There she goes, there, she goes again.

Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yeah, I don't know that Haley would have cared.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
I just I cared, right, I know. That's what I'm saying.
I wish I had that chip. I do think that
you have a little bit like I wish I cared more,
you know what I mean? In general, I care a lot.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
That's what Ali and I were talking about, Like how
like I will like sacrifice comfort for like even if
it's like sleeping later, I will sacrifice waking up earlier
to look to cuter.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (25:05):
Yeah, I'm the complete opposite.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
It's like different strokes, folks. I know, but I wish
I cared more like sometimes I think about that, like,
I'm like, I wish I cared a little bit more,
But you care perfect.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
You cared the perfect amount for yourself. That's what matters.

Speaker 1 (25:21):
Let that be another lesson this podcast.

Speaker 2 (25:22):
We've got lessons on lessons.

Speaker 4 (25:24):
This is miss missus Rachel adjacent. Right, yeah, yeah, yeah,
learning so much today.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
Okay, we're gonna take a break. And what are we
doing when we come back?

Speaker 1 (25:35):
So do you have any We have more drinks.

Speaker 2 (25:40):
We do have the good tequila though. Yeah, all right,
let's do more to their drink. We'll be right back.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
All right, we are back. Took a weird break.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
Tony unfortunately showed what's on her algorithm.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
But all that matters is we're back and that. Let
that be the lesson of this pot So happy to
be back, the lesson that you can go away and
you can always come back. This podcast is full of
so many life lessons. Who needs a Tony Robbins when
you have a scrubbing?

Speaker 3 (26:25):
In part two.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
Oh okay, we are going to do more truth or
drink and we have a fresh we have Uh I
don't like that, sorry, yeah, but that wasn't an accident.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
I know, I know, I know it was a very
intentional thing.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
Sorry, you touched my knee with your toe and I
don't like it.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Sorry, but you knew I would I like it. You
said sorry.

Speaker 2 (26:52):
You said sorry before I even reacting, like you scraped
it away. He said sorry, I'm just tracted.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
We're gonna throw it to Sam with some truth or
dream questions.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
Let me pick up Sam, Sam, Sam, Becca.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
Who will be your maid of honor?

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (27:12):
Already know who you're gonna make your sisters?

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (27:18):
I'll probably do my sisters as like, uh, maids of honors?

Speaker 1 (27:21):
Yeah, maids and matrons.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
Matrons, matron and maids.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
Yeah. Okay, yeah, thanks with it.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
It's good because it's your wedding and you can do
whatever you want.

Speaker 1 (27:35):
Thank you. Will you have other bridesmaids? Yes?

Speaker 2 (27:39):
Okay, Donya will be one, Okay.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
How many will you have?

Speaker 2 (27:50):
I don't know, as many as I want or as
little as I want.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
Yeah, that's right, Yeah, you tell them. Will there be
even sets on each side?

Speaker 2 (27:59):
I love that for the symmetry, Okay, But I also
if if we decided to do something where the people
the bridal parties weren't standing up there with us, then
I wouldn't need it to be even Yeah, yeah, thank
you so much for asking.

Speaker 8 (28:14):
Have the Tanya, Yes, Sam, craziest place you've had sex?

Speaker 1 (28:19):
Okay, so this might be shocking to everybody, but nowhere
that crazy, like on a floor of a bedroom. Like, No,
I've never had sex in like a I don't even
think in public spaces. No, I've done. I've given a
blowjob in a like a massage waiting room.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
But I guess that's probably the weirdest one.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
I'd say.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
Okay, the waiting room, like you know, the like put couples,
oh like in the in the room to wait for
their couple's massage, the one that everyone goes into. Yeah,
but they were the weirdly they had like beds for
you to wait, and the beds had like the can
be bad so you could like close the things. That
is so risky. Whoa do what you do? That's pretty Yeah?

Speaker 3 (29:10):
All the way it completed it?

Speaker 1 (29:13):
Yes, all right? Was it like a close call.

Speaker 4 (29:16):
I'll leave no job unfinished, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Oh my god, let that be a lesson to everybody listening.
If you have a job, make sure you get it done.
Otherwise keep trying like did the messuse coming right after? Like, no,
we had so much time. We were just like in there,
we had time to kill just kept it going, honestly, Well, okay,

(29:44):
this was back in the day.

Speaker 4 (29:47):
Your girl was young, foolish, free.

Speaker 1 (29:51):
Hungry Becca. What is the last fight you and Tanya had?

Speaker 2 (29:57):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Take a drink? Okay?

Speaker 3 (30:09):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (30:10):
You so the rules of you drink You have to
do half of what that is.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
And you didn't even bring a lime to chase it
down with.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
Wow, you can just chase it with your beverage.

Speaker 1 (30:20):
Okay, your tequila beverage, Tanya, What really happened with doctor
w Oh? This is a good one, I know, because
it's like, it's not my story to tell, do you
know what I mean? Well, no, I can tell. We

(30:41):
had different interests of what we just had different interests in.
I'm gonna because I actually here's something. At the end
of the day, I like the guy, and like I
still keep in touch with him sporadically randomly, like, and

(31:01):
I don't think he's not a bad guy, and I
quite like him. It just was not a match. It
just was not a match. Okay, different, Yeah, but like
there's so much more to the story. But it's just
not my it's not my you know, it's not my
story to tell.

Speaker 8 (31:15):
Okay, Yeah, that was not really what happened then, Becca, Yeah,
f Mary kill Bachelor host Edition, Chris Harrison, Jesse Palmer,
Caitlin Bristow.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
I'm gonna marry Caitlyn. Oh, I'm gonna kiss Chris.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
I'm gonna kill kiss f whatever. Oh kiss Chris.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
Okay, And I'll kill Jesse just because I don't I
don't know him.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
Yeah, Sol's easy.

Speaker 2 (31:49):
I was just debating who who went in the other spots.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
I love to scandalous, but we're killing somebody.

Speaker 1 (31:57):
Well, I always, we always do.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
I've always heard kids Mary kill, so I always just
whatever you want to say, we should.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Change it, like our scrubbing in addition should not be
kill like it should be get rid of, like put away,
kick or something.

Speaker 3 (32:13):
Kick to the curb is when we came to the curb.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
Yeah, it could be like Mary, Yeah, kiss kick to
the Because I like Jesse, I don't want to kill him, right,
and you just don't know him.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
I don't have any attachment to him.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
Yeah, I would be right there with you. Thank you
so much.

Speaker 8 (32:27):
Okay, great, Tanya, what's the dirtiest thing Robbie's ever said
to you.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
I just know this is gonna be I just a drink.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
Yeah, well yeah, I don't know either way.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Yeah, it's gonna Oh my gosh, clutching my pearls, I'm
not the only dirty one.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
You should probably finish it if we did half of
the other one.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
As much as I could do right there, I'm so sorry. Okay,
you do not remind you that just hours ago I
was having my thunderstorm. So let's just let's be gentle
with thunderstorm, with everythine. Okay, gentle with ever thine?

Speaker 7 (33:15):
Okay, Tanya, Yeah, reveal Whoston your butterfly was or Drake.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
If I'm being totally honest right now, I can tell
you his first name was Jeff. I do not know
his last name anymore.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
I want to say Propes, but that's the host.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
So I'm like, that's like hand Bible right now? What
are you looking him up online? I think I could
find him on Instagram. Yeah, well, we don't have to
name last names. It was something easy though, But that's
crazy that I don't even remember.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
Yeah, I don't, I don't know. I don't know if
I ever knew. Yeah, yeah, I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
He wasn't. He's not public. He's he did come to
your house, Yeah, but he's not like a public figure
or anything like that.

Speaker 2 (34:24):
Yeah, don't know, dog, you can't find him. I was
trying to find him on someone's Instagram. That does.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
Wow, what a great That's a great place to be
where you like don't remember.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
That's kind of weird a little bit to me really,
because you were like devastated over him. I was.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
It just goes to show you I was devastated until
I wasn't until Robbie came in. That's what I meant
to be like.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
For me, the people that I have been devastated over,
I know, at least.

Speaker 4 (34:47):
Through I'm sure if I thought about it, I could
figure it out.

Speaker 3 (34:52):
But I searched Senor Butterfly in my texts and the
description from when we did the friends thing in New York. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
we didn't have to on sendy your butterfly. Is he
Tinya's lobster?

Speaker 1 (35:02):
Oh yeah? And he has not spoilerer It wasn't. But
it's so true. I feel like all of these guys
were such a like devastating heartbreak and then Robbie came
into the picture, and like he's literally like where it
started for me? Do you know what I mean? Like
I know like obviously dated people and like I've been
with other people and like they exist, but like he

(35:22):
is like, really where my story started for me? I
forgot that you existed. Yeah, I literally forgot that they
all existed, Like nobody. My love life didn't start until Robbie.
Well that's romantic. It's pretty powerful. I have moments. Did
I tell you that? Like it's pretty powerful. It's pretty powerful.
Like I had moments where we're like on vacation, our

(35:44):
last two vacations, where I just sit there and I
start crying out of nowhere and he's like are you okay?
And I'm like I don't think you understand. Like I
was like I spent like all my twenties just like working. No,
it's like so crazy, and I'm like now I'm like
finally like getting to enjoy like my life with somebody
that I love so much, and like it makes me

(36:05):
emotional crying now just took a turn. I'm also a
little drunk, but this is like legit, what's happened on
like our last two trips, and I'm like, I just
feel very grateful.

Speaker 2 (36:19):
I feel very grateful for him too, for you.

Speaker 1 (36:23):
And I'm like, it's weird because I feel like when
you meet the person, like I met him in my thirties,
and I'm like, wow, like what life would have been
like if I had met him in my twenties. But
I'm like, I don't think I would have been able
to like appreciate him or the relationship had I met
him in my twenties, you know what I mean, Right,
I was so head down.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
I think all the other people too that you dated,
that you were like trying to force to be like
your puzzle.

Speaker 1 (36:43):
Piece gave you the.

Speaker 2 (36:47):
Perspective of what you were looking for when you finally
met the person, you know. Yeah, and I think you
knew that when you met Robbie. Yeah, because of those
people and experiences.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
Yeah. So it's like it's it's weird because because like
you know, you have those thoughts of like, oh I
wish I would have met you sooner, you know, but
then it's like it just wouldn't have I wouldn't have
appreciated it. I don't think like this.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, I agree. I think we meet when we're supposed
to meet people. Yeah, yeah, you need a tissue.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
No, I'm good. Okay, does it look bad? That looks scary?
Its tears streaming, thunderstorm. Now we've got the rainstorm.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
This this actually, this episode has a musical aspect to it,
and it started from the beginning with the click clack
because Sam and I realized it's like the click clack.

Speaker 4 (37:38):
Yeah, I know the song, but it's not ringing a
bell to me.

Speaker 2 (37:41):
You'll know when you're hear it you've been doing.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
Yeah, yeah, geez wow.

Speaker 8 (37:49):
Well, speaking of Becca, is ninety five P still the
number for Haley?

Speaker 2 (37:57):
No?

Speaker 1 (37:57):
I feel like one hundred P.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
Whoa, that's the present we talked about like forever and
stuff like ninete my p was so crazy because we
we weren't out yet, we didn't live together.

Speaker 1 (38:11):
There was like so.

Speaker 2 (38:12):
Many elements that were going to make it challenging. But
I was so stressed in that moment of like, what's
not going to get me in trouble? I can't drink
because she's staring at me. She was like dead center
in this audience, like looking, what will she say?

Speaker 1 (38:26):
Yeah, such a gorgeous picture of her.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
And then I was like I don't want to say
too low, but I mean, I don't know. I can't
say a hundred yet, so I feel confident saying a hundred. Yay, yeah,
thank you for the enthusiast yaya moment. I feel like
I just think it's funny that that's a surprise when

(38:52):
we talk about like all the things I've said about her,
and that's that's the big that's.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
The big one. Don't get more hondo.

Speaker 2 (39:00):
No. I was saying, you know how we used to
like reference the nicknames all the time, like the Palm
Springs episode. I'm like red Star. Yeah, so funny. We
all did that for a long time.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
Yeah, some red stars in my wedding. Huh, you don't
have to. I don't have butterflies there.

Speaker 8 (39:18):
Yeah, that should be your gift little bags of red
star burst.

Speaker 1 (39:24):
Oh in the gift bags like the welcome get welcome things.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
I was gonna say, we're not doing gifts gifts, Okay,
we can do some both, okay.

Speaker 8 (39:36):
Fmk or tick to the curb all too well. Champagne problems,
cruel Summer, Oh my.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
God, that is the hardest one for me ever. I
think that was really directed towards me because those are
my top those are.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
My top five.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
I'll let you take it away, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (39:55):
So it's all too well, Well, I would marry cruel summer,
I would f and champion problems like to the curb.

Speaker 2 (40:04):
This is so hard, I can't do it.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
I might have to drink on this. There are my fate.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
Those are like my I would say, like my is
it l version?

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (40:13):
Yes, oh she's.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
Every podcast must start with some sort of sound. I'm
gonna drink because I literally you can't answer that, like
this is so crazy to me, you want to get drunk. No,
that's what I gathered there.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
Just I can't think of one that I would feel
fine never hearing again down the house.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
I know, I will say, I question Alison's judgment after
her tequilote testing this morning, So we're gonna we're just
gonna keep that in the back burner. Okay, name someone
from Bachelor Nation. You do not like that. I do
not like Oh I know Wan Pablo, although I kind

(41:10):
of like him now because like he had the daughter
on American Idol. Yeah I was, Okay, so that doesn't count.

Speaker 2 (41:21):
There's got to be someone from I mean, I don't know,
I can.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
I answer this one.

Speaker 1 (41:25):
Yeah, Nick Vayel, Wow, tell us more.

Speaker 3 (41:35):
I don't want to go into detail. I strongly do
not like Nick Vayel personal experience.

Speaker 1 (41:41):
Wow. Whoa, I'm gonna I'm gonna.

Speaker 3 (41:45):
I think I've said this on the air before. Maybe,
well that's I was not asked this question, but that's
my answer, Nick Vayel, whoa.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
I guess there was a guy on JoJo's season I
didn't like Chad Johnson.

Speaker 3 (41:57):
Oh yeah, he's like a villain.

Speaker 1 (41:58):
Yeah. Yeah, and James H. Taylor Taylor, Yeah, James Taylor.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
I imagine they were thinking about someone a little.

Speaker 5 (42:08):
More juicy, like, name one quality you wish the other
person was able to release or shift a little because
you think you would make their lives easier or more
enjoyable in some way, and explain why I would.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
Are we talking about each other? Yes, I was gonna say.

Speaker 8 (42:32):
She was quick to They said, it's like a twist.
It's like a twist on asking about a weakness or
least favorite quality. It feels like a nicer way to
say that.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
Oh but I like that because that really is what
a weakness, or at least like a quality is.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
So rephrase the question for me, so I can understand.

Speaker 2 (42:49):
It's like something you'd want me to change that would
make my life easier if it was if I had
a different personality, like it would make things easier for me.

Speaker 1 (42:55):
Oh, okay, I know I would like for you to
not be a people pleaser.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
That's fair. Yeah, I would like for you to like
go of control.

Speaker 1 (43:07):
It's gonna make in that way.

Speaker 2 (43:10):
Like feeling like you have like I feel like sometimes
you like to have control over situations, but that extend
sometimes into like wanting to control like the environment around
you that sometimes you just don't have control over because
people have like different personalities and interests.

Speaker 1 (43:28):
And like ways of doing things. Because I think you
would relax more and have like peace peace. Yeah, it
does disrupture peace a little bit. Yeah, the lack of
being able to control everything.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
Yeah, I have it too, you do, Yeah, but in
a different way. Explain like I have, I have less
than you, as in I have less of that than you.

Speaker 4 (43:54):
Yeah, I have it in the high gear.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
And like you have people please or mentality too, it's
just less than me.

Speaker 1 (44:01):
I don't think I have people please their mentality care
to an extent you think, so, I would say I
wish I cared more. They know what you know?

Speaker 2 (44:11):
Yeah I do, I'm saying as someone who does.

Speaker 1 (44:13):
You don't, Oh okay, I'm like, yeah I do. Sometimes
I go to work and I'm like, man, I should
have like taken just for me.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
To be like, people please are big time with work.
That's where I actually find that you people please more
than anything.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
So it's funny you see it as people pleasing. It's
less people pleasing and like more of this mentality of like.
And I think it's because of like the boss that
I had when I was hired, who made me feel
like I was small. That's where I got my imposter syndrome.
So I feel like everything that I do is like

(44:48):
I have to do it because I am. I am.
I should be grateful and I should be on my knee,
like grateful, begging on my knees to just do whatever
because I'm lucky to have to have the position that
I have. Does that make sense? Like it's not like
I shouldn't have the position that I have. So it's
less people pleasing and more like it comes from that
like imposter syndromesness inside me where I feel like I

(45:11):
can't speak up necessarily for myself or you know, like
I want to say, make demands, but just stand up
for myself in ways because I feel like I need
to still be small in some ways.

Speaker 2 (45:23):
But that ultimately is pleasing people who make you feel small.

Speaker 1 (45:26):
But it's not people pleasing. It's a different do get,
but it's a form.

Speaker 2 (45:30):
It's like a form because you're trying to please other
people because they make you feel small.

Speaker 1 (45:35):
Yeah, it's not pleasing. Care about that judgment or like
I care about what they think of me. It's like
I feel like I should be like I don't know.
It's like that thing about keep keepers keep a person
in their place so that they always feel like they're
like indebted to you. Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (45:51):
We can agree to disagree?

Speaker 1 (45:53):
Does that make sense? I get what you're saying.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
I'm just saying I find it to be a form
of people pleasing. But I get what you're saying. It's
different how people please. Yeah, but it's still people pleasing
that I.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
Really don't that's okay? Agree? Does this agree? Does anybody
understand where I'm coming from?

Speaker 2 (46:11):
I promise people understand where you're coming from.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
Okay, they always do.

Speaker 2 (46:15):
That's what we love about the Tots.

Speaker 1 (46:17):
Love the Tots. Uh, most awkward interview you've ever had.

Speaker 2 (46:23):
Doctor Drew. I'll never forget it almostly was like what
are we doing here? We gotta quit? He was so
short and snappy, remember the Yeah, we were so like
taken a back.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
Yeah, like thank god we weren't filming the podcast back then,
because my faith my I was like, gobsmack, I don't
even remember you speaking. I think you just shut down
and I was left on my own. Yeah, you were
left on an island. Yeah, I was.

Speaker 2 (46:49):
He was very intimidating, very short, very like snappy, and
I think if we had had him in person, it
would have been less a little less abrasive because it
it was just our the phone. Yeah, and I doubt
my questions were super intelligent, and he was like what
am I doing here? Right?

Speaker 1 (47:06):
So it was our fall totally.

Speaker 2 (47:08):
But it was I remember being like, oh what, I
don't want to do this anymore.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
Yeah, mine was busy, phillips. And what's so interesting is
like I do have a different perspective on it now
than I had. A part of that was no I
did it for the morning show. I was sent out.
It was like my first red carpet that I ever worked.
And this was like back in the day when like
salacious headlines were like what you wanted, you ask people

(47:34):
uncomfortable questions, which is like so sick. But I was
new and it was like my first red carpet and
they basically said you have one. Everybody everybody there had
one question to ask her. And I asked her about
like her best friend dating her other best friend. I
can't remember who it was at the time. Was it
Michelle somebody, some other guy she's or something. Were there

(47:56):
rumors that they were dating? They did date? Oh, they dated, Okay,
so it was probably It was definitely then about that.
And she shut me down so hard and like, look
me that I made me feel like a total piece
of shit. I can't remember now, like talk like why
would you ask me about something? Like yeah, something very
much like why would you ever ask me about that?

(48:16):
Like check yourself? And it was my first red carpet,
so it was like I was so upset and I
just felt like so like to me, I think also
because I'm on the other side of it, like as
an interviewer, as a journalist, on the other side, it's
like you can't hate on people and make them feel
bad for asking the question. It's their job. There's some
sometimes people, I know, certain outlets that like make you

(48:40):
ask certain questions like that wasn't the case for me.
Nobody made me ask that, But I know that there
are places that make you ask like those those kind
of questions, and it's like it's your job as the
person that's walking the red carpet to know how to
navigate those questions. Like people have asked me questions on
carpets and stuff about Ryan that I'm not comfortable with,
But I it's my job to navigate my answer to that,

(49:02):
you know what I mean, Like it's yeah, she all
she had to say was even like you, Like people
would ask meself about you before you and Haley were out,
and it's like, yeah, they made me uncomfortable, But it's
on me to navigate those questions in a way that's
like comfortable for me, you know, Like I'm never going
to make the reporter or the journalists feel any type
of way. So I just remember vividly like not liking
her for a very long time because of it. But

(49:24):
I do have a different perspective on it now. I
don't know. Maybe because I'm older, she wants to just
protect her friends. But I still think the approach could
have been she.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
Also didn't know, as you're first, right, you know, right?
Maybe I would like to think if she knew that,
she would have been like, oh, you know, let's let's skip.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
That, right, yeah, in a nicer tone. Yeah, wow, heal
you ask me? Yeah? It was like very like gnarly.
I was like, I don't know why I asked you that.

Speaker 8 (49:55):
Which celebrity would you give your partners a whole pass for?

Speaker 2 (49:59):
No?

Speaker 1 (49:59):
Never? And which celebrity would you want a hall pass
for none?

Speaker 4 (50:04):
I don't want whole pass.

Speaker 2 (50:07):
I would give Haley a Hall pass? Or so, are
you drinking?

Speaker 1 (50:11):
No? I have. That's my answer.

Speaker 2 (50:13):
That's a total fair answer, not an answer game.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
That's not how you play this game. It's my truth.
You can't take my truth away from me, then drink.
That's my truthful answer. Just take a little sip. Oh
my gosh.

Speaker 2 (50:29):
I could have played every question like my truth is
that I don't want to answer.

Speaker 1 (50:34):
No. I didn't say I don't want to answer, but
my truth is I would not be comfortable giving Robbie
a Hall pass for anyone, and I don't want a
hall pass in my relationship.

Speaker 3 (50:43):
That is the game though, that you have to be
uncomfortable with the answer kind of.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
I think my I'd give him Jenna Ortega and I would.

Speaker 3 (50:51):
Take wow, whoa, whoa?

Speaker 1 (50:57):
Was that weird? I don't know if she's on of mine.
She's on top of my mine because she's on all
the sebrine.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
You're saying you would just pick her for him, Yeah
he has sure.

Speaker 4 (51:05):
No, No, I don't think so. Oh news to me.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
Okay, okay, give him Jenna Ortega. She young.

Speaker 4 (51:12):
Actually it might being young.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
That's why I think we were all just shook right there.
I was one, oh.

Speaker 4 (51:20):
Yeah, well okay, sure, still feels a little weird, but
it was.

Speaker 8 (51:22):
Just from you going from like no One, no one general,
like a fresh conversation.

Speaker 1 (51:30):
She's fresh on my mind because I'm seeing all these
like things because she was in Sabrina Carpenter's video. I'm
just seeing Jenna or take on all my Okay, change
to Casey musk Graves. I'll give him Kasey musk Graves.
These were so like that everywhere, okay, because people thought
it was Casey musk Graves in the in the photo first, Oh,
Sabrina's posted like a teaser of the video, and I

(51:51):
don't that was Casey musk Graves.

Speaker 2 (51:52):
Okay, so you'll give him Casey musk Graves and you'll
take Harry Styles.

Speaker 1 (51:56):
Oh my god, she is hot. Whoa Okay, yeah, follow
that up. I'll give both me and Haley, Jennifer and Neiston.
That's not fair.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
I'll give Haley.

Speaker 1 (52:15):
I'm trying to think who Haley like, Like Sandra Bullock.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
I don't know if she'd want that type like a
past all right, maybe like Margot Robbie.

Speaker 1 (52:27):
That's Robbie's too, that's a cele.

Speaker 2 (52:30):
She's everybody's I would love as well. And I would
take Chris Hemsworth. Great answer, Wow, Jenniferson, I'll take Jennifermeston.

Speaker 1 (52:43):
Put your together, he gets too.

Speaker 2 (52:49):
That was a friend's reference when he's like this or this,
he's like, put your hands together.

Speaker 8 (52:55):
Yeah, your last Google search.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
It was gonna be so boring.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
I know mine too. It's gonna be like define.

Speaker 2 (53:03):
Oh, Jason Stackhouse after because we're talking about Troublo and
I thought he was I remember watching it.

Speaker 1 (53:09):
I thought he was so cute.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
His name is Ryan Clantonton, So that's all right.

Speaker 1 (53:14):
Mine is uh pinterest because Becca told me to get
pinterest to dot com because Becca told me to look
at pinterests of Mexico wedding bridesmaid dresses.

Speaker 2 (53:33):
Because Tanya wants a black tie wedding but in Mexico
and she was thinking about wanting black bridesmaids dresses and
it's not gonna look weird. I was like, look on
pinters and see there's photos.

Speaker 4 (53:43):
So she made me down that app and remember my password.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
I think everyone will be shocked to know that you
didn't already have pinterest downloaded it.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
Yeah, no, did not remember your old pinchers. More than
we've discovered what's wrong with Google, Like why, like what's
wrong with Google? Why does everything have to be pincher.
It's like, why can't you just Google images of like
you can?

Speaker 2 (54:02):
But pinterress has like a aesthetic that you can like
curate more than Google images.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
I think we've realized that I just felt to Google
too for everything, and I saw that like more more
young people are using TikTok instead of like before Google,
like that's the top search engine.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
That's how my Paulina looks up stuff. Like recommendations like
restaurants and stuff. She'll go to TikTok. Yeah, I do
that too.

Speaker 2 (54:26):
I do that too, Yeah, because I like to see
like actual reviews from people.

Speaker 3 (54:31):
See I tried that one. It is like how do
I get ketchup out of my jeans? And it's like,
you know, some person doing weird dance and pointing at
a thing. I like use vinegar Like, I was like,
I can just google this information.

Speaker 8 (54:45):
Have you ever lied about where you've been to Haley
or Robbie?

Speaker 2 (54:49):
Yes, because I was trying to surprise her. I used
to surprise her all the time when she was on tour,
and so I'd always have to lie.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Oh wow, Yeah, I don't think I have about where
I've been. We have life three sixty so we can
see where each other are at all times at the day,
when we're in the car, when we're walking. It's glorious.

Speaker 2 (55:11):
I will never do that, but I'm happy for both
of you. I'm glad that you found someone that was
happy to do that with you.

Speaker 1 (55:17):
Well, if it's if I'm being honest, it was not
to really share with me, it is to share with
the kids.

Speaker 9 (55:24):
Just snuck it right in there and sharing each other
and now so like all four of us are in
a like a family one, so all of us can
like see where four of us are yet.

Speaker 1 (55:34):
Great, Yeah it really worked out for me. Somebody gonna
met your freak?

Speaker 2 (55:39):
Really?

Speaker 1 (55:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (55:42):
Okay, so this will be the last one, and it's
make it good. Sam, it's the same but different. Becca,
you have to erase one memory meeting Haley or getting Phoebe.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
Tanya, you have to erase.

Speaker 8 (55:57):
One memory meeting Robbie or getting Sonny.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
Let me grab my shot glass. I wouldn't even have
an answer to that. That's an impossible question. Go ahead
and finish that little ships there, she goes sad. The
sweet thing about Sonny is like.

Speaker 4 (56:25):
That memory.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
This was so crazy. We were at Jay Shetty's live show.
He'd went on tour. This was probably last year, and
he does like a very immersive experience where like ask
the audience to close your eyes and then picture yourself
in like your favorite memory of your life, Like what's
the one memory that you have in your head that

(56:51):
where you had ever Like it was like everybody, it
was like your happiest, most loving, fondest memory in your brain.
And so he starts you have to think about that.
And then he's asking all these questions about that, and
Robbie and I asked each other, like when we were
done with all the stuff that we had to do
through it, what that memory was. And I was like

(57:12):
convinced it was like when like I just did not
think that we had the same memory and both of
our same memory was when we got Sonny, Oh my gosh.
And it was because it really was kind of like
the first time where we really felt like a family
of four, you know what I mean, Like it was
like the first time that like I think Sonny because

(57:33):
the kids had been wanting a puppy for so long
and like they were begging their dad, and I think
they always thank me because they were like, he never
would have gotten a dog if you weren't in the picture.
And so there's this like bond that that whole experience
gave us, where like it really made us a family
for the first time. Like that whole weekend was just

(57:54):
like I don't know, it was the first time that
we really felt like a family, and like that is
like it was is such a beautiful thing that we had.
That's so sweet. I know, Yeah, it was like the
whole experience really just made us feel like and she
is that thing for all four of us because we
all love her so much, like she is like the

(58:16):
light of all of our lives, and so it's like
that thing that bonds us. Obviously we love each other.

Speaker 2 (58:21):
She's the nucleus of the thing.

Speaker 1 (58:23):
She really is the nucleus. Yeah, so sweet.

Speaker 2 (58:29):
I'm a little drunk and I was precious and ready
to eat some chips.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Yeah, I'm not to go away by the pool. So yeah, uh,
that's all for now. That's all from Palm Spring. You
never know, we might do one more. Yeah, if we're
feeling it in this airbnb on the we have plenty
of hours left. So you're still out.

Speaker 2 (58:53):
The mics are hot, and they're out.

Speaker 4 (58:56):
Exactly, exactly exactly.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
Yeah, that's good. End clicking all right.

Speaker 3 (59:06):
Again, you'll be hearing the click.

Speaker 1 (59:09):
Walking out to the further away.

Speaker 2 (59:11):
Okay, hold on, we need a distant a distant clink.
Oh yeah, there she goes. That's the end of the pond,
right there, folks. She's all shuffling and clicking the shuffle, click.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
The old shovel and click. Al right, we'll have so
much