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September 3, 2024 44 mins

We’re back from Palm Springs and there’s some rehashing to be done! Tanya’s tongue has a life of its own and we’re desperately trying to understand it. 

Becca opens up about life living with Hayley, and why that might involve a giant Lactaid neon sign in the house. 

Plus,  how would you feel if your partner became friends with your ex?? 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:08):
Here we go.

Speaker 1 (00:10):
Rubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub.

Speaker 4 (00:22):
Dub dub in the tub tub tub.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
You always I thought you're gonna California love.

Speaker 5 (00:32):
No, you always tease us.

Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, you never know.

Speaker 5 (00:35):
Yeah, you really never know.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
You No, you don't.

Speaker 5 (00:41):
We're back in Burbank, Burbank.

Speaker 4 (00:43):
I've never heard even call it that.

Speaker 5 (00:45):
She like, yeah, verbonk. Yeah, it sounds like a designer.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, we're back in the Studdio and Marc is here Duddio.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Hi, everybody, Mark, how did you enjoy the Pump Springs episodes?

Speaker 2 (01:00):
I enjoyed the Palm Springs episodes?

Speaker 5 (01:01):
Yeah, yeah, sure, did you love them?

Speaker 2 (01:03):
I love them?

Speaker 6 (01:05):
I edited them, I chopped them up, and that's right.
I mean I miss you guys, always missing. I mean,
it's always weird to hear the show without me. I'll
hear you two having a good time in Palm Springs.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
But yeah, and.

Speaker 6 (01:25):
Bringing it just brought the tea.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
I feel like, what's the first thing we should get
to today? Because the amount of uproar. I have seen
over the tea spillage.

Speaker 5 (01:36):
Easton brought the tea to Palm Springs.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
I think we could do better than that.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
He had one and it it went away because I
waited so long.

Speaker 5 (01:53):
Yeah, anyways, the piping.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
Hot tea was, Oh, I know what it is. The
piping hot tea came from Easton's disdain for Nick v Oh.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
See there we go, we got there, we got there,
We're I'm telling you. Everybody was asking about asking me
about this, Like I was getting d MS from so
many people asking what is Easton's beef with Nick Viyal?

Speaker 7 (02:19):
I I too, got a lot of messages about this,
and I mean, you know, we got to get downwards
one way or another. Right, No, I don't. There's no
there's no tea to spill like, there's no like, there's
no there's no like secret I'm hiding about Nick. I
dislike him on a personal level.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
I know, because so the one thing I kept seeing
was like, I guess Nick talks a lot of bad
bad mouth's iHeart all the time. And they were like
Easton's probably such like a proud corporate employee that he gets.

Speaker 5 (02:54):
Mad at that.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
I was like I don't think that's the case.

Speaker 7 (02:57):
Let's settle this right here. I love I Heard Radio
Old Heart. I would die for this company. However, however,
that Nick criticizing I heard it does not bother me.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
Yeah, I figured, but I wanted to clear that that round.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (03:10):
Yeah, I don't like it when he talks about about
I heart podcasts because I take pride in these shows. No, no,
I don't know. It's just done a few things over
the years that I that would make me not like him.
And it's just it's not like I was gonna say,
it's not personal thing. It very much is a personal thing.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Is this something where he could come on and y'all
could hash it out and you could call him out
on his.

Speaker 7 (03:34):
I mean me, no, no, no, no, no, I don't want
to cut down this road. I don't do this kind
of thing.

Speaker 5 (03:40):
I don't want to go down this road.

Speaker 7 (03:41):
I really don't.

Speaker 4 (03:42):
You don't have to like everybody I know.

Speaker 7 (03:44):
That's that's why I said. It's because it's it's not
like I'm not like declaring war on him or anything.
I just there's just I just don't I've worked to
them a number of times, and I just don't like him.

Speaker 5 (03:55):
Yeah. Well, here's the thing.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
I think Nick is polarizing, and I think he knows
that about himself.

Speaker 4 (04:00):
Yeah. I feel like he's admitted it a couple of times.

Speaker 5 (04:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
So I don't think it's like, I don't think you
said anything shocking as much as the fact that was
coming from you.

Speaker 5 (04:08):
Correct.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
I think that was the part that people were like
Eastern such an angel, and he piped up with that
jaw dropping sentence and shocked the scrubbing.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
Ours around the nation. Our paging doctor doctor.

Speaker 7 (04:25):
Yeah, mom, Springs, it's it's it's a vortex out there.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
And yeah, I tell you, it brought some stuff to
the surface.

Speaker 5 (04:33):
All right, So it's just it is what it is.
It's just you don't like him.

Speaker 7 (04:37):
Yeah, that's it. Yeah, yeah, that's all.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
Yeah. They don't have to share private moments, no, no, And.

Speaker 5 (04:47):
The vortex did bring up a lot.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
In fact, there was a clip that was shared on
social media of Tanya licking her phone of a picture.

Speaker 4 (04:58):
Okay, yeah, I would not weird.

Speaker 5 (05:01):
I wanted to definitely.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
The man who judgeth is the man who could point
at the finger right back at himself.

Speaker 6 (05:10):
I mean, yes, we all do weird things, but I
think you have to admit that it's weird, Like I
do weird things.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
We all do weird things, because it's not.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Weird weird to see a picture of your dog and
like kiss your phone.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
That's not what you did because.

Speaker 4 (05:23):
I was a little tipsy. It's like the same difference.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
No, it's not, because you do kiss your dog in
real life.

Speaker 5 (05:29):
But she said you make out with her on the day,
with her daily. That means you're using tongue.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
I don't use tongue.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
She uses tongue, but you use tongue on your phone. Yes, correct,
it's weird.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Yeah, I don't think that acknowledging something's weird means that
I don't do something like me saying that was weird
doesn't mean well you do weird things, Like yeah, I
do weird things as well. But that was a shocking
I'm I wish there had been a camera on Allison's
vain because she was kind of to the side, like

(06:02):
behind Tanya, and.

Speaker 5 (06:04):
She did the funniest reaction of like interesting. Did anyone
else see that?

Speaker 4 (06:12):
No, it wasn't meant for anybody to see. It was
just a moment, I know, I know.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
Luckily the cameras were on and I was watching unfortunately, yeah,
witnessed it.

Speaker 5 (06:22):
Yeah, okay, So to clear the air, she uses her tongue.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
Correct, you were tipsy, you were wanting to kiss the phone,
but your tongue came out instead.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
I just missed her so much that it was just like, ah,
I use my tongue a lot like in just in
just in life, I use my tongue as like a
It's like another person, you know, has a life of
its own, and so sometimes it just comes out.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
It has what it does it really Yeah, yeah it
isn't It has a life of its own, and.

Speaker 4 (06:56):
It has a way of expressing itself.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
Yes, and not everyone to understand that.

Speaker 4 (07:01):
But some people do. And for those that do, I will.

Speaker 3 (07:03):
Say, there were kind of you Tanya tots that are like,
I'm a proud Tanya tot and this is a.

Speaker 5 (07:09):
Little this is a little crazy even.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
For I know.

Speaker 4 (07:15):
Well, there were some tots out there that did defend me.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
So too, the tots out there that defended me, I say,
thank you.

Speaker 5 (07:22):
They deserve some merger or something.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yeah, they deserve some because they are in it. I
just realized my bronzer is like not blended.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Because you were your forehead, it's.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Pretty whack a doodle up there, but becausen't in person,
it doesn't look like that.

Speaker 4 (07:37):
Okay, great, but yeah, you.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
Are blotting with printer papers.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
So you gotta do. You gotta do what you gotta do.

Speaker 5 (07:44):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
So another thing that happened is we were talking about
hall passes and Tanya's tried to get away with not
having an answer and not drinking in. Her answer was
I wouldn't want a hall pass for either of us.
And I'm like, yes, of course we all feel that.

Speaker 4 (08:00):
First of all, that is my truth.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
Okay, but that's not an answer to the question anyway. Drink.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
She did drink, but she no, no, no, she she
uh quickly picked one and threw out Jenna or takea
for Robbie, which is.

Speaker 7 (08:15):
The last celebrity she had seen.

Speaker 5 (08:17):
We weren't sure she was even legal.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
She is of age by two seconds, right.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
Robbie goes, I don't think you understand how hall passes work.
You can't just throw out rand That's not just throwing
out a random name that up on your phone.

Speaker 5 (08:34):
Well, let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (08:35):
For her hall pass, she chose Harry Styles and it
came out off the tongue quick wow. And so his
comment was, I get Wednesday Adams and you get Harry Styles.

Speaker 4 (08:49):
I didn't realize the game.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
I didn't realize the game, but I still wouldn't give
him as hall pass.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I know who his hall passes. Margot Robbie, Margot Robbie.

Speaker 3 (08:58):
She's It's a universal thing. And if if the opportunity
presented itself, it would be selfish of you not to
guess what.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
I'm selfish if my middle name had something, it's called selfish.

Speaker 4 (09:10):
Because he ain't getting that hall passed.

Speaker 5 (09:12):
Dang, she locked as she said, you were locked down.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
Put a ring on it, that's it.

Speaker 5 (09:19):
But what about a ring around his necklace?

Speaker 4 (09:22):
What?

Speaker 5 (09:23):
What about a ring on his necklace? Yeah, you put
a ring locked? He walked.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
Everything is once you Once you're locked in, you're locked finger. Well,
we're not married, No, no, no, he wears he wears her.

Speaker 5 (09:36):
He got her a promise ring.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
Remember that promise ring he gave me two years ago.

Speaker 5 (09:41):
That could fit Shrek. It's so large even for him.
He wears it on.

Speaker 4 (09:46):
His Yeah, he put it. I put it on a
chain and he wears around his.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
I forget that until I got married.

Speaker 4 (09:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
Yeah, so no, he does not wear it on his
finger yet, but he will and he will, Oh yes,
and it's gonna make his hands so much hotter.

Speaker 5 (10:00):
I do like when, Oh I do like when a
guy has a ring on.

Speaker 4 (10:06):
And those hands with the ring.

Speaker 3 (10:08):
But I remember when I was dating, like when I
was in the dating scene and I would be like, oh,
that guy so hot, and I'd look in that two
ring and be like I hated the rings at that point,
you know, yeah, it's so interesting, but when but now
I'm like, wow, that's they make a guy.

Speaker 5 (10:23):
Yeah, I like, I like a ring on a man.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yeah, it means he's committed.

Speaker 4 (10:29):
Yeah yeah, not fear of commitment.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
Yeah, he's proud of his commitment. Correct, the sign of
his commitment exactly. We went on a double date on
Saturday night.

Speaker 4 (10:41):
Yeah, it was Labor Day weekend. Did you feel like
it was Labor day weekend?

Speaker 2 (10:46):
No?

Speaker 3 (10:46):
Because like I don't really have a job. That's like
you know what I'm saying, Like I every day is
labor day for me. Sure, that's just my truth, speaking
of my.

Speaker 4 (11:00):
Truth, and no one can take that away from me.

Speaker 5 (11:02):
No one can.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
Don't even try and take it away from her, Please don't.

Speaker 5 (11:05):
Yeah, no, I love that truth. But yeah, it was
Labor Day. But did you have something significant to add
to that or just no labor days?

Speaker 1 (11:12):
Like it's like the unofficial end of summer. It's like
a big weekend, you know, it's like Labor Day.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
Well, actually summer lasts for like a few more weeks officially.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
Yeah, but I'm saying about on the people in summer
after Labor Day.

Speaker 1 (11:25):
Yeah, do you I mean, I don't. You know what's interesting.
I don't really feel the seasons.

Speaker 5 (11:33):
We don't because there's no no I know, I.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
Don't even feel physically.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
I just mean mentally because I when you were it's
like when you're working, you're just you're just always working.
Summer to me equaled like no school. But I don't
have that anymore. So it's just like it all kind.

Speaker 5 (11:46):
Of well, like you went on multiple vacations in the summer.

Speaker 7 (11:49):
Yeah, summer officially ends Sunday, September twenty second, right after
the Harbia Music Festival presented by Capital One.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Wow, thank you for sneaking that in there that radio
breathe Yeah, okay.

Speaker 5 (12:06):
So but there is a rule.

Speaker 3 (12:08):
There is a rule that's been around for a long time,
and I think people have started to just kind of ignored.

Speaker 5 (12:12):
It's not a thing. But we used to like really
abide by it, which was the no white after Labor
Day rule.

Speaker 3 (12:17):
So how do you, as a the queen of all
white feel about that?

Speaker 1 (12:22):
And I'm gonna I almost wear white jeans too, So
I was almost in full white.

Speaker 3 (12:27):
She got her long sleep white shirt and her low
her puffer white puffer vest on.

Speaker 5 (12:31):
It's one hundred degrees outside.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
I know, I got a gear up for winter, because
are you gonna wear for bonnets and like scarves.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
You could just wear this year round here, Okay, there
you go.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Bonnets is really funny.

Speaker 1 (12:49):
No, I'm gonna wear white. I'm gonna wear white for
the next like six to nine months.

Speaker 5 (12:55):
Oh and then you're done?

Speaker 1 (12:57):
Yeah after Like yeah, I think after I get married,
and I might give it a rest for its at
a moment, because I was manifesting with the all white
and for years like yeah, no, no, no, no, no, about
six months, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
I think there was a I would say a good
almost year of you manifesting.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm going to go six months. I'm going to say
six months of manifesting.

Speaker 3 (13:24):
All right, six months, but anyway that's gonna be about
two years totally.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (13:29):
Yeah, so whit.

Speaker 4 (13:30):
It's a gorgeous color.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (13:32):
Actually the absence of color is yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:35):
Well actually yeah, anyways, yeah, there's no color in black
or white. Black is absence of color, but it looks
great on you.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
It is one of them all colors, and the other
one is no color.

Speaker 7 (13:46):
Black is the absence of color, and white is all interesting.
White's the entire spectrum.

Speaker 4 (13:52):
Wow, I thought would be the opposite. You think that, Yeah,
more you learn.

Speaker 5 (13:58):
We're always learning this, always learning, Yeah, listening and learning.

Speaker 3 (14:02):
We went on a double date that we did and
Robbie had a really cool shirt on and I was like, WHOA,
Robbie's style looks different tonight, like both Haley and e were.
We were talking about in the car on the way
home because we both noticed it.

Speaker 5 (14:18):
And I was like, Robbie, I really like your shirt,
Like you look really cool.

Speaker 3 (14:21):
And Tanya starts dying laughing and he's like, thank you,
thank you.

Speaker 5 (14:26):
So you're not into his new style or what's happening.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
No, I love everything, like honestly love everything about him,
but he's having this like moment in life where he's
just like, I don't want to do the same old
thing anymore. I don't want to wear the same old stuff.
I don't want to like just go and do what
everybody's doing. I want to do stuff a little bit different.
Which makes it very interesting to be wedding planning with
him because he's like, oh no, yeah, and I'm like, yeah,

(14:51):
maybe we just do it a little bit like everyone
right now, and then like.

Speaker 5 (14:56):
Yeah, yeah, no trends, you're right right, like.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Because he's making the logo for our wedding and he
keeps like coming up with these logos that look like
we're having a backyard barbecue, and I'm like, this is
our wedding invitation, so let's maybe like ten ten scales
above what the rough drafts are looking like. But anyways,
he's trying to change up his style a little bit,
and he's doing it like slowly but surely, with like
bigger shirts and like shorter pans, and I'm like, okay,

(15:21):
here we are.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
Yeah, but it looks good.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
He looks great.

Speaker 4 (15:25):
You can pull it off.

Speaker 5 (15:26):
You can pull it off.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (15:30):
I would be a little nervous.

Speaker 3 (15:31):
Haley loves a change, like she loves being different too. Really,
she went to lactaid sign for her office. We went
to an event and there was a neon lactate sign
and she wants it for our home and is like,
can't you just picture it? And I'm like, literally, no,

(15:51):
my house is like muted tones, which I'm not opposed
to having a room full of color, you know, like
I'm happy.

Speaker 5 (15:58):
I want her to feel like.

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Artistic and creative and if colors inspire that, I'm all
for it.

Speaker 5 (16:04):
But the lactate design has really thrown a spin for Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
Like it's like if you had neosporin like lit up,
it's like advil.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
Yeah, I kind of like it personally. I get what
she's going for there. I think it's cute.

Speaker 3 (16:20):
The whole thing is she loves she like she literally
is a Lactaid mega.

Speaker 4 (16:26):
Fan, lack taid princess.

Speaker 5 (16:28):
She's a lactaid princess, the princess. He's a Carmel Cordon princess. Yeah,
she's the lactose free princess.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
And she like it really is part of her brand,
and so she wants her room that she works out
of to feel like her brand, like you know, inspire
her and she's inspired by lactate.

Speaker 5 (16:48):
So how that's her truth, I know.

Speaker 1 (16:50):
And you can't take you cannot take her truth away
from her.

Speaker 4 (16:54):
I know.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
It's a very it's a very interesting and so it's
it is funny when stuff like that happens in your
relationship and I'm like, are you having a midlife crisis
or like what is this? And he's like, no, I
think that's more when like you buy like a really
crazy sports car to like see He's like, I'm not
trying to like be younger or anything like that.

Speaker 5 (17:11):
I branco to go.

Speaker 6 (17:14):
Yeah, I mean there really sure, hot little blonde exactly.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
That's just might be a component.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
Let me tell you, that's just heaven. That's just that's
just answered prayers right there.

Speaker 5 (17:28):
Let me tell you that's funny.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
I do want to talk about well, I want to
talk about Mark, where you were while we were gone,
And I want to talk about Easton because y'all went
on a vacation that wasn't It was a very different
vacation that I myself would have. So I'm very interested
in hearing more about it. But first we're going to
take a break. All right, we're back.

Speaker 5 (18:11):
So Mark, the people wanted to know why weren't you
in Pump Springs.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
I don't get invited or stuff like that.

Speaker 5 (18:16):
Well, I don't get it why.

Speaker 6 (18:18):
I think it's because I think it's a cost cutting thing.
That's my would you have gone, Well, yeah, but I
think it would be nice to be invited, even though
I probably would not be able to go for kid
reasons or whatever, but it would be nice to be invited.

Speaker 3 (18:34):
I'm going to remember that because I just have always
assumed that you were just like, no.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
Idea it was going to come.

Speaker 5 (18:40):
I get the wanting to be invited even if I'm
not going to come.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
Yeah, it makes me feel like part of the gang
if I say no. But I don't know. I mean
it would be nice to go sometimes.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Well, yeah, this would have been a bad one for
you to come to because you would have had to
share a bathroom with both And.

Speaker 6 (19:01):
I think the Easton has to go because Eastern sets
up the equipment. They couldn't do it without Easton. I'm
not as crucial to the operation. Well, you know, so
I think they're like, oh.

Speaker 4 (19:12):
Bathroom, that would have been fine, just fine.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
So we would have all shared a bathroom. Correct, Well,
the stars I don't know.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
I would have had to be like, someone would have
had to crash Allison in Easton's bathroom, which would have
been traumatic for Allison.

Speaker 5 (19:25):
So I don't know. I don't know how that one.

Speaker 4 (19:27):
Yeah, we would have had yet, I don't really know
how we would have done that.

Speaker 5 (19:31):
I'll door you up to head down to the Starbucks
or something.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Well, yeah, there's time. Is gonna be flossing her teeth
for forty five minutes.

Speaker 5 (19:38):
But you will, especially if you're in an emergence when.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
You have If anybody has permanent retainers, they can understand
that you had to floss with like those easy flosses.
They have to put your floss through a loop, put
the loop through, and then go through it with the
easy loop because you can't just.

Speaker 4 (19:54):
Put the floss through.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
So what do you need for that?

Speaker 4 (19:57):
I need my easy loop and my floss and a
little time.

Speaker 5 (20:00):
Yeah, but so you can. You're saying you could do
that anywhere in the home with a mirror.

Speaker 1 (20:04):
Well, ideally I do it over the sink as to
spit my plaque into.

Speaker 6 (20:08):
Well, would you move to the different sink when when
Becca had to go so bad?

Speaker 4 (20:12):
I know we're the dishes.

Speaker 5 (20:13):
I know it's a repat, but I.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
Mean it sinks a sink.

Speaker 4 (20:19):
You know. It was the learning man.

Speaker 3 (20:22):
Never it was like, okay, you know when you watch
a horror film and they're chasing someone and and they're
like fumbling their keys or can't or they.

Speaker 5 (20:29):
Fall and they can't.

Speaker 4 (20:30):
That's what I was doing.

Speaker 5 (20:31):
She was trying to put her toothbrush away and it
was like falling all over.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
I was like, get out, and it literally was like
I was like shaking. I was like I felt so
much pressure.

Speaker 3 (20:40):
She click clacked away. Well, we missed you, Mark, thank you,
and the scribbers missed you.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
That's nice.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
So we'll remember that though, even though I'll be prepared
to be rejected on the invite, I.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
Always want to go.

Speaker 6 (20:55):
I wanted to go to San Francisco so bad for
that Giants thing that Vanessa put together for. I wanted
to go to that so bad. So I always want
to go. So it was a chance that will make
it work.

Speaker 5 (21:04):
Yeah, yeah, I.

Speaker 7 (21:06):
Remember that you came to Vegas one time.

Speaker 2 (21:07):
I do stuff, but you have fun.

Speaker 4 (21:11):
You that didn't you have to for Ryan?

Speaker 2 (21:14):
No, one of the Vegas ones was just for pods.

Speaker 4 (21:17):
Oh yeah, that's right, Shure.

Speaker 5 (21:22):
I was hanging out with Chad Michael Murray.

Speaker 2 (21:25):
Chad Michael Murray, No, Chad Johnson. No, it's not the
Bachelor guy.

Speaker 6 (21:32):
Oh, in a car with Ben Higgins, Adams and Chad Johnson.

Speaker 7 (21:40):
The guy was on Yeah yeah.

Speaker 6 (21:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I liked him though. I thought we
hit it off really well. And then it was fun
to walk through the hotel with these guys because all
the women recognize them and see them and stuff. That's
always fun for me to be to witness that.

Speaker 1 (21:54):
Look, I have no against not wanting to be like
you have like Joe Moo, I feel like you have joy.

Speaker 4 (22:01):
Yeah, so there's no judgment here.

Speaker 5 (22:02):
Thank you, But I get it.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
I really resonate with this because I have Jomo as well.

Speaker 5 (22:07):
But the invite feels nice.

Speaker 4 (22:09):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
I had a barbecue over the weekend and I'm just
posting photos from it and everybody's dming me, did you
invite Beka?

Speaker 4 (22:16):
Did you make sure to invite Becca? Was back invited
to this?

Speaker 5 (22:19):
I was like, welcome to my world and idms.

Speaker 4 (22:23):
And I said, yes, she was invited, thank you very much.

Speaker 5 (22:27):
Yeah, Tanya did invite me.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
She did not partake.

Speaker 3 (22:29):
No, we we wanted solo time because Haley hadn't seen
Tanya Robbie for like literally four months or something.

Speaker 4 (22:36):
Yeah, it felt long.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
Yeah, so we wanted like double date vibes, and so
we did a solo dinner.

Speaker 4 (22:42):
It was cute, though it was cute. Yeah, I really
enjoyed it.

Speaker 3 (22:45):
We left Antoniaga's, I mean, Heley goes. I really I
really missed them, Like that was so much fun. We
felt the same way.

Speaker 4 (22:53):
We really did.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
It was really fun, and we actually ran into What's
so funny is somehow Robbie became like be with this
guy that I dated in my past, and it's because
we were all out of wedding together and he kind
of became like our third wheel that weekend. I don't
we were like all saying at the same hotel, this
flight together, light together, both flights there and back, and

(23:13):
so anyways, we've hung out with him a couple of
times and then he walks behind our table at the
restaurant with a date, and it was just so funny
because Robby's like.

Speaker 3 (23:24):
Eh, yeah, we found out there will be a third date.

Speaker 5 (23:30):
They were on their second date.

Speaker 1 (23:31):
Yeah, we sent them over some champagne to really get
the juices flowing.

Speaker 4 (23:35):
Yeah, it was nice.

Speaker 5 (23:38):
Would you like that if someone like?

Speaker 4 (23:40):
Yes, I actually was thinking about this, Okay.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
I think it's such good even though none of us
are dating, so we don't need the karma, but I
feel like it's good dating karma to like send that gesture,
make him look like, you know, oh, like my friends
are so fun and cool, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (23:54):
M hmm.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
You do.

Speaker 4 (23:56):
Wouldn't like that if somebody sent you over a drink?

Speaker 5 (23:58):
No, I would. I always like that, but I don't
know that. I don't. I've never thought of a mean
like karma or anything about it.

Speaker 4 (24:03):
I think it's good dating karma.

Speaker 5 (24:05):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
If you're single and you know someone, you see somebody
out at a bar, like I'm there on a date,
like send them a shot.

Speaker 5 (24:10):
Yeah, unless there was someone who wasn't, then one of
them can too.

Speaker 4 (24:16):
The more the merrier.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
Speaking of, we did a little game where we did
everyone has There was four shots and one tequila and
we all picked it and then took the shot, and
it was a video and people had to guess who
got the shot, and Easton was.

Speaker 5 (24:30):
Like, I'm not doing it. I don't drink and I did.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (24:33):
I do feel bad because sometimes I get so excited.
I'm like, I just wanted you to be apart, but
you're like, I'm not drinking. I'm like, got it, but
I want you to be a part. So we had
Easton pour the drinks.

Speaker 5 (24:44):
I was here was a ringer, so.

Speaker 3 (24:46):
He knew which one not to grab, and we did
the game and should we do the reveal on who
got it?

Speaker 5 (24:53):
Because I posted the video, Yeah, everyone was right.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
I think a lot of people of people guessed directly
it was.

Speaker 5 (25:06):
Alison.

Speaker 7 (25:07):
Yeah, all the people I saw a lot about kid.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
That was so funny because I think what happened is
I took the shot and.

Speaker 5 (25:18):
I was like, do I have it?

Speaker 4 (25:19):
Do I have it?

Speaker 3 (25:20):
So I held it in my mouth for a second
as if I want to immediately know.

Speaker 5 (25:24):
So people. I think that hesitation fooled people. I wasn't
trying to be sneaky.

Speaker 1 (25:29):
I wasn't trying to be sneaky either. I was stressed.
I was like, I think I was preparing for the worst.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
But I like that some people still said your name
so funny, and I'm glad that we chose you to
pour the drinks because if I had poured the drinks,
I would have.

Speaker 5 (25:41):
Done for to kill. So then everyone got into keel
Shaw not to pretend they didn't get it. That would
that was funny good. Actually, I know.

Speaker 3 (25:50):
Next time you and Allison went on a vacation, which
you were explaining you don't really like y'all go really
cool places, but there's typically always a work element.

Speaker 7 (26:00):
Yeah, and even this last week, I got to go
to some really cool places, but I was always working,
like I was in Palm Springs with you. And then
I went to Nashville the next day to set up
something at Jana Kramer's house, and then I went to Washington,
d C. The same day and same day. Yeah, it
was It was a lot of fun to record something
with Sophia Bush at the White House. And uh, then

(26:22):
I was on vacation and I hadn't taken vacation in
a very very I can't remember the last time I
took it, and just what wasn't didn't do any work
while I.

Speaker 6 (26:30):
Was very difficult for us on the podcast out.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
It was a rough couple of days.

Speaker 7 (26:36):
I didn't bring my computer and it was great and
no one called me.

Speaker 2 (26:38):
It was great.

Speaker 7 (26:40):
Yeah, it was so nice. But we went to Denver, Colorado,
because I found out about a restaurant, and a lot
of people have known about this for a long time,
a restaurant called Casa Bonita. It's been around since the sixties,
and it is the Disneyland of Mexican restaurants. There is caves,
there's fake rocks, there's animatronics, there's cliff divers, there's a
big waterfall. It's this like crazy place. And it went

(27:02):
out of business during the pandemic. It like went really
downhill in the last couple decades, and then the South
Park guys bought it and put forty million dollars into
this place, restoring everything. They made the kitchen better, they
fix all the lights, They that have new everything, And
the wait list is six hundred thousand. People long to
be on this wait list because they're like in soft opening.

(27:24):
And so I start texting everyone I know in Colorado,
just like, hey, have you ever been to this place?
Like I text a texta Dean and he was like, no,
I don't know what you're talking about. Texted Ben Higgins
and he's like, yeah, I've been. Do you want to go?
And I was like yes, I want to go, and
then I got an email like make your reservation, so
all sudden and I got to go. We went with
Ben and Jess and it was the most fun we've

(27:45):
ever had. It was the best time.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
It was.

Speaker 7 (27:48):
So on September fifteenth, you can just make a reservation
to Costabanita, like they were opening it up to everybody.
So if you have any interest in going to Costabanita,
I say, try to get a reservation as soon as possible.
It is the coolest thing in the world.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
And we made it my September fifteenth is Wife Appreciation Day,
so Mark and your founder.

Speaker 7 (28:06):
Yes, if you have a wife that wants to go
see a themed Mexican restaurant, this is a great idea
to celebrate. We made it like a whole trip though,
because it so We went to Estes Park, Colorado, where
they have the Stanley Hotel, which inspired the Shining. We
stayed in the most hondered room they had.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
Yeah, can we, Paul, I have so many? Okay for
cosa Benita did? Are you allowed to take photos in there?

Speaker 2 (28:29):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Okay, So I just didn't know, Well, no, I already talked.
I talked to them in Palm Springs about it that
they were going. So we always asking them about have
you heard of it before? No?

Speaker 4 (28:38):
No, no, okay of South Park, but okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 5 (28:41):
So you can take photos. It's not like a club
like you. It's not a club thirty.

Speaker 7 (28:45):
There's a couple like shows that they don't let you
take any photos or video, Like there's a puppet show
it's very funny, and then a magic show which I
was pulled on stage to be the assistant.

Speaker 5 (28:55):
But you can't take video.

Speaker 7 (28:56):
Can't take any video. So you just got to take
my word for it.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
Wow, what it is?

Speaker 5 (29:00):
The food good?

Speaker 7 (29:02):
So they had a reputation for being terrible for a
long time. It was they called it costa no eta
and uh the food. They have a new chef. They
readd the kitchen the food is. I was told the
food is fine. It's not great, but it's like it
won't make you sick. I enjoyed the food. I thought
it was great. I really thought it was delicious. The

(29:24):
food's very good. And they have these things called I
guess this is a thing more like the Midwest. In
Mexicano restaurants called Soapa Pia's.

Speaker 5 (29:31):
My gosh, they're incredible.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
What's a soap a pia?

Speaker 7 (29:35):
Okay, Tyan and I are from California. I'd never heard
of them before.

Speaker 4 (29:37):
You never heard of it. I don't even know what
you're saying.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
It's it's like a it's like a pastry.

Speaker 7 (29:44):
Yeah, it's like a pastry. It's like it's like full
of It's an inflated pastry with like honey drizzled on top,
and it's like sweet and dowe.

Speaker 4 (29:52):
I'm going to google.

Speaker 7 (29:53):
Oh man, they're so good. They're so good. Yeah. They
bring you a bunch of soapathias that were delicious. Yeah.
I thought the food was great. Cossa Benita, and there's
so much more I need to talk about, but it's
that time. We ought to take a break, okay.

Speaker 3 (30:25):
And then Jess and Ben both wore crocs for you
in honor of your presence.

Speaker 7 (30:32):
It was very kind of them. They came, yes, I
can't see it, Yes that is yes, that's a soap
a pea.

Speaker 4 (30:40):
Okay, that sounds good. I love it. Yeah, so good.

Speaker 7 (30:43):
Yeah, Ben, you just met up with us for dinner
and they wore crocs. I was so honored in touch
by their their wearing of the crocs. I was like, oh,
this is my love language. And they had been once before,
so they were able to show us like, oh, wet,
you gotta see the Magic show. You got to see
the puppet show. Oh here's the cave, let's watch the
cliff divers. It was great having them.

Speaker 5 (31:00):
As like a guy, I got to this Disney guy. Yes,
exactly how long the experience was this?

Speaker 7 (31:06):
Our reservations were for eight pm and they you get
the food kind of cafeteria style, like you go down
the line, they just give you your food and then
they want you to eat fast and get out of
the tables, so they get someone else in. And we
were there until they closed, like they had to kick
us out. They closed at like eleven o'clock.

Speaker 5 (31:23):
We did the fans that were present.

Speaker 7 (31:26):
And we didn't see everything, Like there was like a
whole like mine gold mine that we didn't see, and
there was like a there's a gorilla that runs around
that we didn't see. Like there's like we were there
for like three hours and we didn't see everything. It's
so I can't wait to go back.

Speaker 4 (31:40):
I literally never heard of this.

Speaker 5 (31:42):
I know no one in here gets high, but that's experience.

Speaker 7 (31:46):
That's what Ben was saying he was like, oh, man,
imagine taking like mushrooms or something coming in there.

Speaker 1 (31:52):
And it's like, okay, I can't make sure, Ben Higgens.

Speaker 7 (31:58):
I also don't think he knows exactly what that means.

Speaker 3 (32:00):
But yeah, yeah, no, that would be it. It sounds
like it would be a fever dream without any It was.

Speaker 7 (32:07):
I could not I can't sell something about it. It was.
It was the best time I've ever had in my
entire life. It was so fun.

Speaker 5 (32:13):
Okay, So that happened was that night one?

Speaker 7 (32:16):
No, that was a night two?

Speaker 5 (32:19):
Okay, Okay.

Speaker 7 (32:20):
So when we landed, we drove up to Estes Park,
which is like a mountain town outside of Denver, like
an hour and a half. On the way there, I
see a gigantic fiberglass Yogi Bear, a Yogi Bear RV Park.
I've been searching for one of these for so long.
There's none in Los Angeles. I want to go to
one so badly, and I just saw one like organic.
I was like, this is a sign we have to stop.
And we got out and we like took pictures of

(32:40):
Yogi Bear. We talked to the staff, We met all
the different Yogi Bear characters around there, We spent a
lot of time at this Yogi Bear RV park, and
then we kept driving up to the Stanley Hotel, which
is a haunted hotel that inspired Stephen King stayed there
and then wrote The Shining. So they didn't film The
Shining there. They filmed Dumb and Dumber there, but they
it's like the super hunted hotel. And when I booked

(33:01):
the room, I said, Hey, we love ghosts and stuff.
Can you put us in the most haunted room possible?
And they did and it was so scary, and my
hat moved. I put my hat on the night stand.
I I don't do this kind of like I'm not
like like I don't have like a ghost experience or
anything like that. But I put my hat on the
night stand, on top of my backpack. We went to

(33:22):
do the ghost tour. We come back and my hat
was on the bed and I.

Speaker 4 (33:26):
Posted all this housekeeping.

Speaker 7 (33:28):
I posted about this on and everyone's like, oh, might
have been housekeeping screwing with you. Okay, that's still creepy.

Speaker 4 (33:37):
Brushes.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Yeah, she said, I'm not really going with the haunted part.

Speaker 7 (33:45):
I did a turnound service. It was the worst turned
down I've ever had because all they did was move
my hat and then I stand to the bed. But
it was super creepy there, and we had some we
have a hedge maze, just like in the Shining and
we went there for a long time. It was so fun.
We Loves's Park. It's great.

Speaker 5 (34:02):
I'm curious.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
I find that so fascinating because I can barely watch
a movie trailer for a scary movie.

Speaker 5 (34:08):
So like to choose that. Did you sleep well? Like,
did anything happen while all were sleeping?

Speaker 7 (34:13):
I slept really well. I didn't get a lot of
sleep the Night's Prayer, so I was really excited to
like be in a hotel and sleep, and I slept
like a baby.

Speaker 4 (34:20):
I don't like any of that stuff. I think it
was two years ago. I heart. They sent a bunch
of us out to was it Austin? It was Austin.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
They sent us to Austin for some and like Teddy
Mellencamp was out there, Jenny.

Speaker 7 (34:32):
Gars, Oh yeah, yeah, it was a south By Southwest
or something.

Speaker 1 (34:36):
It wasn't that, but it was like it was like
a panel. Yeah, it was like a panel. And they
put us in like the most haunted hotel in Austin
and I was like, I don't want.

Speaker 4 (34:47):
To go to my room.

Speaker 1 (34:48):
I stayed in Teddy's room until, like, I don't even
know what time of the morning. Tara was with me
because I was like, I don't want to I was like,
I don't want to be in my room.

Speaker 4 (34:55):
I had the worst night sleep. I just don't look.

Speaker 6 (34:59):
And I told you this San Francisco. He's then another trip
I went in. By the way, San Francisco is what,
as I said, the likelihood of you seeing a haunted,
creepy thing in your room is directly related to how
much you believe in that stuff.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
I don't believe in any of that stuff.

Speaker 6 (35:13):
So in San Francisco, like, oh my god, this hotel
has totally haunted you guys, I'm like, okay, fine, because
of course I'm not gonna say anythingcause they don't believe
in it.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
And that's not I see any day.

Speaker 6 (35:21):
One of the people in our crook now is like,
oh yeah, I woke up in the middle of the
night and there was a woman at the foot I pulling.

Speaker 2 (35:26):
On my legs.

Speaker 6 (35:27):
I'm like, okay, Like like, he clearly went in predisposed
to believe in these things.

Speaker 2 (35:32):
I did not, And so that's how that plays out.

Speaker 5 (35:35):
A woman pulling on my legs being very scary.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
I know that were you dreaming? He was like, yeah, maybe,
I don't know, Like but that people they believe what
they want to believe. They see what they want to see.

Speaker 7 (35:44):
With this particular place in Colorado, I mean it's a
it's a very spooky hotel. It's super old. The altitude
is the altitude change is dramatic. So like we went
on the tour and the guy was like, hey, those
of you from like California or something, if you get dizzy,
like let me know. So that I'm a skeptic generally
with this kind of thing. So I'm like, oh, if
if I'm going to see anything, it's because I'm like

(36:05):
depleted of oxygen, Like my brain is shedding yet. But
I swear to God that hat moved.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
I think there's a lot. I bet, I bet there's
a logical exploration. Yeah what happened.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
But you know, I'm like not one that I just
don't like scary. I don't like scary, I don't like gory.
I feel like we just started watching this show called
The Americans.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
Phenomenal show.

Speaker 4 (36:27):
It's old, but it is Oh.

Speaker 2 (36:29):
Really a couple of years.

Speaker 4 (36:30):
It's not new.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
I wouldn't say it's like new, No, and on the
up and up. It's been like nominated for all these things.

Speaker 4 (36:37):
Eighteen five years. That's so exciting. Five seasons.

Speaker 1 (36:41):
But the show is so good, Like I haven't been
sucked into a series like this in a minute. And
we almost binge the entire first season this weekend. But
that's not the point. The point is it's very gory.
There's like a lot of shots to the head and
things like that, and I feel like I've been having
some weird nightmares.

Speaker 5 (36:59):
That makes sense to me.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
But then when else can you watch TV besides before bed,
I can't watch me Take the Time it Wow.

Speaker 3 (37:09):
Well, I always joke I can't watch anything that has
any like thriller element unless it's even if it's not
even if it's like nighttime, I have to watch when
it's daylight outside, like once the sun goes down, I'm
I'm tapped out of anything Like.

Speaker 4 (37:22):
That's when you watch like The Love Is Blinds, The
Sure Friends, So you don't have the thing.

Speaker 6 (37:28):
Where like I feel if I'm watching TV in the
middle of the day, I feel like I've given up
on life.

Speaker 5 (37:33):
I have that doing all the time, but it just
lives with me.

Speaker 3 (37:36):
You know.

Speaker 5 (37:37):
It's like, could I be doing something more productive?

Speaker 3 (37:39):
Sure?

Speaker 5 (37:41):
What like I'm living?

Speaker 3 (37:42):
Like, what is me doing something productive versus watching a
TV show I want to watch? Like in the grand
scheme of things is gonna change?

Speaker 6 (37:48):
And I think it's It's actually a weird way of
thinking because often I'll just be on my laptop instead
of watching TV.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
What the hell is the difference. I'll be like watching
Instagram or for some reason that feels better in our brain.

Speaker 3 (37:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (37:58):
No, I'm so with you.

Speaker 1 (37:59):
I cannot watch TV during the day. It's why I
have a hard time with the Olympics and like football,
Like I'm like, you're just gonna sit on this couch
all Sunday long.

Speaker 4 (38:08):
For eighteen weeks, I.

Speaker 3 (38:11):
Honestly had a hard come down after all the drinking
through the weekend.

Speaker 5 (38:15):
I felt like I had a virus or something. I
feel like I've had a virus. Tequila is in tequila.
It'll get you a tequila itis.

Speaker 3 (38:23):
You know.

Speaker 1 (38:23):
I have this debate with myself basically every Monday after
the weekend, where.

Speaker 2 (38:28):
I just.

Speaker 4 (38:30):
Sober curious, sober curious.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
Every Monday come Monday, I'm sober curious and every Friday,
Come Friday, I'm like, where's appra sprits. Yeah, it's a
really weird internal battle.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
Why not just try it for a one weekend.

Speaker 5 (38:45):
Ali's on like one hundred days of no drinking. She
feels great.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
I know a friend of mine's been doing it for
two weeks and she said she feels great. But she
also cut out sugar. So she's like, I don't know
if it's alcohol.

Speaker 4 (38:53):
Or the sugar.

Speaker 5 (38:54):
Probably a nice little combo.

Speaker 4 (38:55):
Yeah, well, I know it's tough. It's really you can
do it. I don't know if I can.

Speaker 5 (39:02):
You can just do one week when you were fighting
your motive stuff.

Speaker 2 (39:06):
There you go.

Speaker 4 (39:06):
I drink when I had hamotos. That was the one
thing I gave myself.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
Well, coffee out everything else, dory out, poison in.

Speaker 3 (39:18):
Yeah, that must be nice for y'all. Y'all just have
like endless energy to do things. I'm inspired by it.
The alcohol am well, just I think in general the
no alcohol helps, but I'm just inspired by like y'all's
first of all, the fact that you both are on
the same page of what y'all want to do. That
like she's just as excited to see Yogi Bear camp site.
Like I'm like, I'm like mesmerized by this that y'all

(39:42):
is a duo.

Speaker 4 (39:43):
Every shoe, every shoe has a foot.

Speaker 5 (39:46):
He found the Cinderella Slipper.

Speaker 7 (39:50):
There are times where we were doing stuff. We discovered
that the Celestial Seasoning tea company that makes the Sleepy
Time tea. Allison found out. She's like, the factory is
in Boulder. We had do tours. We have to go
and I was like, yes, we just found out of it.
It became top priority. We're like, okay, we're in agreement.
Right if this makes us miss our flight, we are
fine with this, right. And you also said that to

(40:10):
me and I was like, yes, So we went and
we're on this tour and we're loving it. We're like
they took us inside the mint room. You can only
be in there for a few minutes because it burns
your eyes. And I looked at Aul and I'm like,
I will never find another person on this earth that
loves this kind of stuff as much as I do.

Speaker 5 (40:24):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (40:25):
Yeah, it's really a special moment.

Speaker 1 (40:28):
Yeah, well that's to me, that's like the best part
of being in a relationship is like those discoveries of like,
oh my gosh, like this person likes doing this just
as much as I do.

Speaker 4 (40:38):
Do you know what I mean? And like that's so
crazy to me. But there is a it's a whole
other level. No, no, I agree, But.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
I feel like that's like the special that's like the
most special part of being a relationship.

Speaker 3 (40:49):
The only other people that I really feel like where
it's niche like this is Ashley and Jared.

Speaker 5 (40:53):
Yeah, the like pop star like all there. Oh yeah,
but I love it.

Speaker 3 (41:00):
I'm so happy I'll had a vacation and got to
do all the things that You'll wanted to do. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (41:06):
Yeah, it was a great time. But I'm so happy
you'd be back here. Let me tell you, I'm happy
you'd be back at work.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
Yeah, there's no vacation like the one. You get to
live every day.

Speaker 7 (41:14):
That's right, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (41:16):
Thing that's good.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
Create a life that you don't need to take a vacation.

Speaker 4 (41:19):
Exactly, that's it, Mark, create the life. You can't take
that truck for me.

Speaker 5 (41:24):
But I still love vacation.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
Yeah, same, it's the freedom of the day. It makes
me think about people like when you retire. That must
be like such a crazy feeling once you like retire.

Speaker 3 (41:40):
I was thinking, I was thinking about this because I
was thinking about how crazy life is when you have kids.
And Mark is the only one who can like truly
speak to this right now, welcome, And how crazy it
must be that your whole life is focused on these
humans and like raising them and doing all the things

(42:01):
for them and worrying about them and providing for them,
and then they go on and have their own life,
And how crazy it must be to be on the
other sead and be back to where you were before
they ever existed, but like in a whole different way.

Speaker 2 (42:14):
Oh, empty nests, ye yeah, yes, yes, yes.

Speaker 3 (42:16):
Yes, obviously you're still worried about them, still providing, sure,
you know, but they're doing their own thing now.

Speaker 2 (42:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (42:22):
And we've talked about this a little bit, and I
because there's part of me that's kind of looking forward
to that kind of reconnection with my wife. But but
my wife's not ready for that conversation yet. I'm not
allowed to say the words empty or nest in our house,
not together, because one's leaving in a couple of weeks
and one is fifteen, so you know, it's all we're
heading in that direction, but we're not allowed to talk
about that yet.

Speaker 4 (42:39):
It's going to be there in a flash, It's what
I say.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
Yeah, But she's like, I'm not I'm not ready for that?

Speaker 5 (42:44):
Is fifteen? Is she going to be? Is she junior?

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Started?

Speaker 3 (42:49):
Right? All? Right?

Speaker 5 (42:50):
Three years?

Speaker 3 (42:50):
No?

Speaker 5 (42:51):
Three?

Speaker 1 (42:51):
Two? Right?

Speaker 3 (42:54):
Right? Right?

Speaker 1 (42:55):
I forget such a weird like what is this school?
I have so many questions about life like that, you
know what I mean? Like why does the school the
school your start January one like.

Speaker 4 (43:03):
The rest of the world, right, why is it fall September?

Speaker 2 (43:06):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (43:07):
I don't know why that is, Like, let's think about
these things.

Speaker 7 (43:10):
Wasn't it so that kids could help out on the farm.
Isn't that the idea during the summer? Yeah, I feel
like we've evolved from that, you think so saving.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
Yeah, I got to write down all these questions about
life because that one really every year I'm like.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
And is right. It's the help with planting and harvesting.

Speaker 3 (43:27):
See, it's like an outdated, uh policy, but it is
at the right time where people can go and enjoy
the summer.

Speaker 5 (43:39):
Warmth, you know, go on vacation during that time, have
off during that time.

Speaker 4 (43:43):
But you could make you could make that. You could
make yeah, no, no, no, something.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
I could reconfigure some things here. Yeah, okay, we got
to go because we have an episode on Thursday.

Speaker 3 (43:59):
No, we gotta go.

Speaker 5 (44:00):
I don't think we have to go.

Speaker 3 (44:01):
You have to go?

Speaker 4 (44:03):
Is it over?

Speaker 2 (44:04):
You're gonna maybe go back and find another break?

Speaker 3 (44:07):
No?

Speaker 6 (44:07):
Fine, fine. One of the breaks in the show was
inserted by me. See if you can figure out which.

Speaker 5 (44:13):
One of them that listen to it multiple times from different.

Speaker 7 (44:19):
Devices DM me the timestample when that commercial is for you.
You won't get a prize, but I just want to
see how words mark.

Speaker 4 (44:27):
Make it good, will make it really good?

Speaker 3 (44:29):
Okay, all right, We will be back on Thursday with
a Dear Bonia episode.

Speaker 5 (44:34):
And we love you some.

Speaker 4 (44:35):
I love you my
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