June 9, 2025 • 40 mins
Things are dire at the Yad Pad, and Tanya is going through a breakfast crisis. Would you eat a rotisserie chicken… for breakfast??
We get into our bucket list concerts, and Mark may have a traitor in his own home… which may become the “Villa”.
Plus, we help a Scrubber stuck in “Hinge Hell” and we play the high/low game!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everyone,
we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yay.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Oh like the plane just landed. Wow, you look absolutely
radiant today.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Thank you so much. I'm having an off day.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
This is so interesting.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
She literally has normal clothes on, not a sweatsuit.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
She has all her gold jewelry popping off, no hair.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Hair back in a cute little braid ponytail make and
she says she isn't having an off date.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
It just goes to show you, I love myself, untouched.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I love myself.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
We decided that maybe she said she was having an
off date just to fish for compliments.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yes, I don't compliment. I don't need to fish for compliments.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
You know how you do click bait over your tex.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Yeah, but it's like I am secure in myself that
I don't need to fish for compliments. Thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (01:05):
Make right.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
But when you come in here on a normal morning,
we have to get here very early, and your hair
is not like this, You're not wearing makeup, and you're
in a puffer in a sweat suit, you never say
you're having an off day. I feel completely put together,
and you say you're having any.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
And what I realize is maybe when I put effort
in and I look like this, it like bums me out.
When I put no effort in, I'm just like, I'm
just like my gorgeous natural self. It's not bad. Yeah,
it's not bad, and I'm cozy exactly right now. I'm
like my jeans, I just washed them for the first
time ever, so they're so why.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Did you get them five years ago?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Yeah? Maybe last year first. Yeah. I don't like to
wash my jeans.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
I mean I don't.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I'm not like wash them every time, but I certainly
watch them after a certain amount of time of mooning
though I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Really wear jeans that often, so like, my rotation is
probably much less than yours.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I think you're put on date nights. You're wearing jeans
at not.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
These means AnyWho not important. I'm having an off day.
I have two big pimples on my forehead and I
just like stared at them all week. I can't get
rid of them. They're not that big because I make up.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
On they don't. You don't.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
If I was just looking at you, I wouldn't even think, Oh,
she has pimples on her forehead.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Oh yeah, it's the rest easy.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Thank you better tonight? Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Go through the day feeling absolutely gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Thank you so much. I needed that.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Speaking of the uh text bait that Tanya does, I
posted it like an example of it because she texts
me and goes Becca and I said, lol, yes, and
she goes, I just took the best nap.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Doing you were abusing the technology.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I thought she'd be so proud that I just took
a really nice long nap.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Well, when you're waking up at like three am, I'm
expecting you to take a nap mine.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
But I was expecting a nicer reply than what I got.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
I was like, my, oh, go ahead.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
I'm just curious, do you want praise or do you
want like a follow.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Up question or I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
That's where she wants a compliment on her appearance, not
on her.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Do not compliment my physical appearance, but please compliment my
nap games.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
But I posted the screenshot on Instagram and Robbie goes,
she does this to me too, and I was like, oh,
I was actually going to ask you about it or
have her ask you about it, and he goes, I
thought it was a radio thing, because they're always like teasing, so.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
She's been radio a long time.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I don't think it's a radio thing.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
But another thing that happened is this morning, Tany hits
the chat with Sam, our producer myself and she sends
a picture of I stared at it for a long time.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
I didn't even know what it was.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And she goes my breakfast and Sam goes, what, I
don't even know what I'm looking at, and she goes,
it's chicken. We didn't have anything else, So this is
my breakfast. Dark times over here, I'm like order something
like in a time.
Speaker 8 (04:12):
Where you don't have to eat you chicken for breakfast
and you could get groceries brought to your house.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
First of all, I didn't. I normally just eat eggs.
Eggs is like my always my standard go to breakfast.
For some reason, I'm having like an aversion to scrambled eggs.
Like this thought of scrambled eggs.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I've had that. I had so much.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Yes, I get that, I've had it with hard boiled eggs.
I've never had it with warm scrambled eggs. So I
was very thrown off, but the thought of making scrambled
eggs made me want to bombit. You have eggs, yes,
which is our standard breakfast.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Scrambled eggs with beef bro bone bro feel this morning.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
I forgot about our bone bros in the freezer. That
would have been a great idea. That would have been
a nice breakfast, just the bone bro yeah, with the
eggs inside.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Could make eggs a different.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Way, sunny side up. Poach your eggs, you could do fried.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
I actually don't know how to boiled eggs.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Does anyody know how to poach an egg? Because it's
actually it's hard.
Speaker 7 (05:09):
I've never not that hard. I thought it was.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
It's you just seed one of those net things, right, You.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
Don't even need that. You can just use a spoon
or I just use my hand sometimes.
Speaker 6 (05:16):
But you just boiled water dangerous.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
It hurts, but you know you gotta suffer for art.
Speaker 9 (05:22):
You boil the water, you crack the egg, and then
you swirl it around with like a ladle.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
But what about the sunny side up?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
I mean, there's I mean.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
From you to admit that you had plenty of options
for breakfast and you still had chicken. It had to
make a whole big deal out of the.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
Fact that.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I will defend her.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
She didn't make a big deal. I mean she sent
it in the group. She knew it was going to
get a reaction, of course.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
But the best part is it was really dry and
it was cold, so I wanted to warm it up
pickled juice on it.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Yag right to warm it up.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
That doesn't make any sense with water, water and pickle juice,
to like warm it up on the stove in the
in like a little frying.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
This is eight thirty am.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Yeah, you don't have a microwave.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
I don't really like microwaves.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
Ah, I'll use it if I need to, but if
I don't need to do it.
Speaker 7 (06:22):
Yeah, this is the time.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
More about the pickle juice addition, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Why I eat my my rotisserie chicken with pickles. So
I was like, if I if it's dry, I'm gonna
have a little water.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I have literally chills all over my body, like the
worst way.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
It was just a survival mode, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Likes eat, Like, honestly, you have a house full of food.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
It sounds like we deferently don't.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Here she goes out, what else do you eat? Yeah,
she it's slim pickets.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I'm like, you have eggs. Don't have kids in the house, chicken.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Do you have any cereal for the kids?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
They don't eat cereal.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I bet you have some hot cereal, some motimeals something.
I bet you have many options.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
No, really, okay, I'm not a city full of options.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
The problem is the time. Once I realized I needed
to eat my breakfast, I needed to be I needed
to leave my house within like thirty forty five minutes.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Huh.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
So nothing was going to get to me in time,
nor to cook.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
There's a Whole Food's right like, it's literally from the window.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
And if you just if you skipped your rotisserie chicken
eating it up on the stove, I think.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
You could have stopped by the Whole Foods, picked up
with smoothie, something yummy warm.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I didn't choose this life.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I know, are you secretly prepping to be a bodybuilder,
because this is giving bodybuilder?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
You know what it's giving. It was that's what I
used to eat for breakfast before my wedding. I was
eating a lot of rotissory chicken before my wedding.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
She it was a little it wasn't good you guys
want choose.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
There was a lot of chicken and cube and eggs
and eggs.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah, that was basically it. Yeah. It was very very
high proteins.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Every meal.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Yeah, yes, every meal breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
And I was like, oh, is she doing this for
her honeymoon? It feels a little intense.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
But nuh, just desperate times, desperate times. And I had
an amazing rotissary chicken in the fridge.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
I respect it because I one thousand percent would have
opened my refrigerator been like, I'm not mid for eggs.
I'll have rotissery chicken, but I'm definitely not doing that
for breakfast. I'm just going to order something. But you
didn't spend any money.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Thank you. You just ate what you so economical of me. Yeah,
it's very responsible of you, thank you. Yeah, it's giving evolved.
Speaker 7 (08:41):
Yeah, I don't know chaos giving.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
You know the magnets you were on your nose for
the notes, don't magnets.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Have something in them that you're not supposed to put
on your skin.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
The magnet is not directly on my skin. It's like
think of like a layer of skin like tape, like
a skin tape, then the magnets on that, and then
they put a layer of like tape over that, so
the magnet is not directly on your.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Skin, just a millimeter of protection exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
That's all. That's Yeah, I looked it up.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
I googled it already. I see you chomping away over there, chop.
The magnets are fine. There's no EMFs and magnets okay.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Yeah, I didn't think there was any EMF, just more
so like the danger of you know.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
What does the em F stand for again?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Electric magnetic field?
Speaker 7 (09:32):
Sorry, I just want to point out magnetic.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
It makes a point, you.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Know what, and it opens my airways and it is
from that.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
In about three weeks, Tony will say that no strips
are out, Well, actually yeah, because.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
You don't think there's any way that like the pulling
is like actually gonna like pull our skin on our
nose permanently like this, right, I'm like, I actually don't know,
Like if you think about it, we're pulling it all
night long, you're stretching it out every night.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
Yeah, that's going in the rings.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah yeah it could be. It could be, but right
now it's decadent. Sleep so much.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Air fes the nostrils, so.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Much air going in and nothing coming out. It's good.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Well, I'm I can't wait to hear more updates on that.
All these things.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Coming soon on our honeymoon, like our.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Nose all the honeymoon.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yes, are you doing an all white situation or are
you what's your vibe?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
It's gonna be like eighty percent white?
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Okay? Yeah, what's the why? But why or like, what
what's your thought process? You like to you acted like
you had really thought about it.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Yeah, because I'm like, my bridal era is over, so
like the white should isn't.
Speaker 10 (11:12):
The honeymoon part of the bridal era technically is like
celebration of the bread era. Yeah, but it's not giving
like bride. It's giving like wife, you know what I mean.
So I have some black in there as well, natural tones.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Leading into potential mother mother era.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Exactly, exactly. Well, yeah, speaking of my really done much
shopping for my honeymoon though, are you going to maybe.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Well, you're saving money on the groceries so you.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
Get thirty this morning on the side. Yeah, that adds up.
You know, I was thinking because I've been like really
into the reputation album. I mean, I've always been, but
King of My Heart.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
Is just really that one doesn't do it.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
For it might be it might be top for me
on that album. Yeah, that's crazy. It's a deep cut.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Yeah, I know, but that's where I'm at right now.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
And I also I'm just dying to know who Dancing
with Our Hands Tight is about.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Carl Klass That's not confirmed, is confirmed.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
I'm just saying. I was listening to it again this
morning and I was thinking, I'd like to know. I'd
like to you know, what I would love and if
the end of her life she writes down.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Every song and releases who it's about.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
It's like Evelyn Hugo kind of like at the end
she just releases like all the information about her life.
And I would love if Taylor swifted that that'd be exciting.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
So it's the beauty of it.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
The songs hit you differently at different stages of your life,
and that's that's the.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Power of her in her writing skills. It's amazing.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
It is amazing.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
And My Heart has been my favorite since I like
literally I think of it since I met Haley.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Wow, you know what song I used to not like well,
I don't think it's on reputation. Actually, out of the Woods,
My god, that song is amazing. Yeah. I used to
not like it and then like, for some some reason,
you like brought it to my life. Uh huh, and
now I'm obsessed with it.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Another thing I've added to my bucket list is going
to a cold Play concert.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
You've never gone to a cold No, ton you not.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Everyone just gets to go interview Chris Martin and then
go to the concert.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
That was epic. That was an epic You could have
come to that.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Well I didn't get an invite. Yeah you did. Yeah,
I would have been at that concert.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
I've seen many cold Play concerts.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Well maybe on the next one you can get me
in there.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
Coldplay is great in concert.
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
So that's my bucket that's a nice bucket list item.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Anyone else have bucketless concerts they want to attend and
have I have.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
A bucket list item.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Do you have a bucket's concert?
Speaker 3 (14:03):
No?
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Okay, what's your item?
Speaker 3 (14:05):
I want to eat shaved watermelon like shaved ice, but
like I want to make it.
Speaker 7 (14:11):
Dream the impossible dream.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
That was so sad.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
I'd like to eat an orange.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
What are you drinking about where they shave it into
the So you like to take.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
A watermelon and you freeze it, yeah, and then you
like shave it on like a cheese grater and you
make like like snow. You can't do that today?
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Yeah, any dream huge? You can literally go to the
grocery store. Sounds like you need to go anywhay pick
up a big juicy watermelon and you could have that
to night.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
I can't do it today, but maybe tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (14:53):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Any other huge items on anyone's to compete with.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
That sea salt on top.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
Gonna do some lime juice.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
Loves the Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Oh yeah, Black Balloon hits iris this.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
There's a video of them playing in the rain. I
think I've talked about on the podcast.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Still played performances sold.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Them on a podcast.
Speaker 7 (15:26):
Was in La like the other day.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
The lyrics I could ask about that was like my
Avril Labine days when I would like write down av
Laben lyrics. Googoo Dolls were up there, Yeah and Michelle
Branch those three two Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
But like the video that I always think about is
them playing and it's pouring down rain and it's in
the nineties and no one has their phones out. They're
all just locked in and it looks like a dream.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Like could you all make it no phone rule?
Speaker 3 (15:57):
So we could just have the Jonas Brothers had a concert,
say like last year maybe the year before that was
a no phones yeah, because it was like a small
underplay at the l Rainos before the album came out.
So they made everybody lock them in those little pouches.
I kept got to keep mine out.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
They're in town in September. I might have to. They're
in Santa Barbara and the Greek.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
The Santa Barbara Bowl, the Greek, the Greek the next night,
the Greek in August.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
September sixth and seventh. Have to do that. Yeah, that's
a little tight.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
That's after late that weekend. Actually, no, I'm going to
bet a wedding that weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Oh well, okay.
Speaker 9 (16:33):
I would always love to see Lonna del Ray. I
want to see her really, but we've never seen her.
And they keep saying the Spice Girls are going to
tour again. I want to see the Spice Girls so bad.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Well, that would just be iconic, iconic, So you saw, Yeah, are.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
You invested in this Beckham drama?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I don't know anything about it.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Oh my God, to me here we are pop, make
us invested. Well, the problem is, I don't not in
the weeds. But Brooklyn Beckham and his wife Nicola Pelts
are like in a feud with his family, meaning Victoria
David Beckham brothers. Yeah, it's like bad nobody. I don't know.
Like the hearsay is that she didn't let Victoria design
her wedding dress, which seems preposterous to me. Like Victoria
(17:13):
is probably okay whatever, do you know what I mean?
So there's gotta be more to it. But apparently they
hired the same attorney, like for their image that Harry
and Meghan hired Beckham Harry, the Beams, the Young, the
Young Beckhams.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (17:31):
Interestinglyn has covered up his mom's boy chest tat.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
Yeah, that is a bad.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Sign, that a bad.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Red flag always around. I have to tell you something.
Karma has hit Mark in a big way.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Let's do it after the break, Yes, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 6 (17:56):
Okay, all right, we're back.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
Tanya knows her teasers.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
We mentioned that earlier, So Mark's karma. I have just
been finding joy in this show called Love Island for
a few years now and who poo poos it to
me every single time? Mark and I both okay, okay,
fair one of Mark's stances because I would like to
(18:39):
talk about it on not just this podcast, I'd love
to talk about on the morning show. And Mark's like,
nobody's watching this. I've never said that it's not our demo.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Never said that either, yes you did, No, it is
our demo. It's completely ourda.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
You changed your tune a little bit last summer because
it was so popular.
Speaker 5 (18:56):
But because that's when it broke big.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
But before that it was so poop who Love Island?
It's not our demo. Nobody's watching it's.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Not our demo.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
But I didn't think anyone's watching it till last summer
when people were really watching it, Which is so I
have a good gauge of this sort of thing. That's
why my job is my job.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
So I guess I was watching Love Island this season
in Mark's home.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I would say it could be as it is, or
it could be one of the children.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Well wow, yeah, yeah, she loves a fan.
Speaker 5 (19:32):
Brooklyn is a.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
Fan, you see her her. Tanya's mind went from Brooklyn
Beckham to my.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yes, yes, wow, wow, wow, a master, she loves it.
Speaker 4 (19:43):
She's obsessed and I was I got I didn't know this.
And then she's under you know, she's under eighteen, so
we get alerts when she wants to download an app.
We have to just approve it, and we've always approved them.
She never tried to download anything. Word, but I was
at home one day and they got the Brooklyn wuld
like to download the Love Island USA app like h no,
(20:05):
But I approved it, and now there and now she
comes home every day with stories of whoever and who's.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
This person?
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Yeah, yeah, So it's basically like the Bacher meets American Idol.
It's the best way to put it. It's phenomenal.
Speaker 2 (20:23):
Oh whoa, Okay, so I should, So I should start it.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
I think so, Okay, I'd rather do it now and just.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Be like not need to catch up on like twenty twelve.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
Yeah, I'd rather be able to talk about it in
a topical way.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
So yeah. So anyways, that's just a little bit about
Marx Karma.
Speaker 9 (20:43):
Okay, there's there's a Love Island esque thing in the
newest episode of in just like that.
Speaker 7 (20:50):
I just wanted you to know.
Speaker 9 (20:51):
Miranda gets sucked into a show called by Bingo and
it's about bisexual people that gets into an island and
it's just like her getting like so enambored with like
a reality TV show where people are on a tropical
island hooking up.
Speaker 7 (21:04):
And it reminds me of Love Island and a Bechel
in Paradis.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Well, I just want you to know that, Like, the
reason why I haven't shared with you is because I
have made a group chat with people that I can
talk just Love Island too. Okay, So I'm like getting
it out of my system.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Oh okay, So you don't need to like harass me
into watch it.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
Correct, I see, because I have my I have my
support group.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
Thank God for those people.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Yeah, and we're just constantly sending tiktoks and updates.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
Do you think majority of people watch it? I think
a lot of our listeners watch it. So I'm I'm
gonna try. I'm going to attempt to tune in and
get into it for the sake of the podcast.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Maybe you can get a run down from Brooklyn to
join in.
Speaker 5 (21:43):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
My issue with the morning show is I know Ryan's
not watching it, I know Systany's not watching it, and
so it's got to be a relatable enough topic. But
there are topics within there that we can probably.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Say it for the pod and watch it show this girl.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
Okayeah, But as we know, like sometimes when when like
just Easton and I are watching a show and we're
trying to discuss it, the way you and Mark looks
so absolutely horrify what we're saying.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
I don't need to discuss it. I don't need to
discuss it.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
When not a whole group is watching it.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
You can pull elements that are relatable. Do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (22:16):
You should do that.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
You should be like, oh my gosh, this one guy,
this is what happened or what he said That's what
I didn't. Okay, do do do of our Friends episode?
Speaker 2 (22:26):
Anyways?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Anyway, shall we get into some dear Bonias sneak went in.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
Here, uh from a girl in hinge Hell?
Speaker 4 (22:34):
She said, huge fans started this podcast because I love Becka,
and I stayed because I'm beyond obsessed with you. All
things just ended between me and my guy after seven months,
And as much as it really hurt, I'm glad it
happened because it made me realized I do want a relationship.
I've been single for ten years with only one boyfriend,
so navigating things out here is tough, especially at thirty four.
(22:55):
I met the seven month guy as my first hinge
date and it just went from there. I will say
there were some red flags along the way, sharing a
dog with his ex who he cheated on. Oh that's
like a red flag barrage right there that you ignored.
Speaker 5 (23:09):
But I'm getting older, so I feel like I need
to be less picky.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
However, after what feels like seven months wasted, I'm second
guessing being too lenient. I've been on three dates in
the last two weeks with different people, fourth tomorrow, and
I just feel like it's all red flags. I'm struggling
to decide if I should go on a second date
with any of them, because I feel like I shouldn't,
but I also want to be too picky. Okay, So
now she breaks down each of the three and we
get to decide who she should go on a date
(23:32):
again with, if anyone. Date number one, he just moved
into a new place and asked why he moved. He
told me he and his ex broke up two weeks
ago after two years together because they got into a
fight at her sister's wedding because he found out she
was cheating on him and now he doesn't know if
he can trust again.
Speaker 5 (23:50):
Okay, Date number one, Date.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Number two, I was actually super into this guy until
he mentioned he had met up with this girl four
days before because he really liked her and asked to
be official, but she said she wanted to see if
things would work out with another guy she was seeing,
so he wanted to put himself back out there and
not just wait around. On Date number three, mentioned communication
(24:14):
being important to him, which I loved, and then he
voluntarily mentioned he ended his last relationship a month ago
because the sex sucked and when he brought it up,
she didn't handle it well. I want to write all
three off, But then is this normal? Am I being
too picky? I just don't want to set myself up
to get hurt again, especially after I felt like I
may have ignored too many red flags on seven month man.
(24:35):
Any advice is helpful, Thanks and love y'all.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
My first initial reaction is, if anything, he should be
more picky. Yeah, I agree, I think stop being picky
is the is the move.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
I think you should.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Raise your standards because an ex sharing a dog with
his ex who he cheated on. Is is just a
red fly, big red flag that you just overlooked.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
And I think we're raising our standards now.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
Yeah. I feel like the older you get, the more
picky you should become.
Speaker 5 (25:12):
Yeah, don't lower your standards.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
Waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve it.
Speaker 4 (25:17):
So Day one just moved a new place because he
broke up two weeks ago. After two years, he's clearly
a rebound situation. It's two weeks out. He got cheated on, Okay, fine, whatever.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
He doesn't know if he can trust again. He needs
to go to therapy.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
He needs to heals two years, two weeks after two years,
it's not gonna be.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
She's gonna be. It's not gonna be good for her.
Speaker 4 (25:38):
I rebounds work out sometimes. Sisany reminds us all the
time in the morning show that her current husband was
a rebound.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Yeah, so you never know she.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
Was he her rebound or she was his rebound, he
was her rebound. That's different.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
No, they were both each other's rebounds.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Then I think that's fine, But I think one person
not being the rebound, and especially if it's the woman
who's not the rebus bound. I mean the woman who
is the rebound I think is going to be tough
if if our girls see what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
Yeah, he's the one that's rebounding. Yeah, she's the one
that's three Yeah, okay. Date two, he had just met
up with this girl four days before. He asked to
be official. She said no, I want to see how
things work out. So he's clearly got feelings for the
other woman.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
Yeah, he's like out there doing his thing. I don't
think that's about only protest.
Speaker 5 (26:26):
He doesn't want to be doing it.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
No, it's giving Tanya going out with other guys when
Robbie didn't want to be exclusive kind of. And I
remember all I was doing was thinking.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
About, well, number two would be the only one I'd
go on a second date with out of these three.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
That's preposterous.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Is that your word of the day.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Yeah, you said it once or twice before.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
That's the only one I wouldn't go out with again.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Oh and then date three his relationship fell apart. As
you mentioned, the sex was not up to his standards,
and then she didn't handle it well and then they
broke up.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
I think she's he's just gonna make her feelm secure.
I don't know. I don't like it really.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
Yeah, sometimes you just don't have good sexual chemistry.
Speaker 10 (27:05):
I know.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
But I think that's just like, hey, like, communicate, what
do you like?
Speaker 2 (27:09):
What do you want?
Speaker 1 (27:10):
The fact that he just was like walk away after
he didn't like the sex, it's like, did you try,
did you communicate?
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Did you tell her what you like?
Speaker 5 (27:17):
I think day three is my favorite.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Too interesting.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
I'm kind of like, don't go out with any of
them again and find some new name.
Speaker 5 (27:25):
I want to write all three off. That's it. You
gotta go with your gun.
Speaker 6 (27:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
I think if you want to write all three off,
I think you do that.
Speaker 3 (27:33):
Yeah. Number three a lot of fish in the sea.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
Yeah, I'm moving on to the uh one more baby
okay high anonymous Dear Becka Tanya Marker in Easton, Hi.
Speaker 5 (27:47):
Gang Day one scrubber.
Speaker 3 (27:49):
Here.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
You guys have read my emails in the past and
give me great advice, so thank you.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
Look at that. We don't hear that very often. Then
we give great.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
Advice all the time. I'm kidding.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
I'm thirty seven. My husband and I have four kids seventeen, thirteen,
three and two. Wow, that is a span.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
Well, we're seventeen thirteen, three and two.
Speaker 5 (28:10):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
We have three boys and our youngest. As a girl,
I always dreamed of having a daughter, and once she
was born, I agreed to my husband getting a vasectomy.
Two years later, I deeply regret that decision. I want
a fifth baby so badly. Being a mom has been
the greatest joy of my life. I've always imagined having
a big family. We just moved into our dream home
this past January and it is spacious. We are settled,
(28:32):
and I work remotely at a job I love to
let me be home with my kids. Life feels full
in the best way, but I can't shake the feeling
that one more baby would complete our family. My husband
had the asseectimy in October of twenty three, so he's
still within the ideal window for a reversal. I'd say
he's about eighty percent on.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
Board with the idea. When it's just the two of
us talking, he's open and sometimes even excited about it.
Speaker 4 (28:52):
The issue is when he brings it up with his
twin brother or his friends, they shut it down and
say you're crazy, and the joke about us already having
our hands full, and I can tell that their reactions
sway him and it's frustrating. I don't want to pressure
him or rush his process. I don't want outside voices,
especially sarcastic, fearful ones, clouding his real desires.
Speaker 5 (29:12):
Here's the advice.
Speaker 4 (29:13):
How can I kindly but clearly tell the people around
us to back off and let him think for himself
without causing drama? And how can I best support my
husband as he figures out what he truly wants and
not what others think he should want. I know, asking
him to do this surgery is a big deal, so
I'm trying to get us there together as a unit.
Thank you for reading and any inse that you can offer.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
I mean, I I think.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
That you're in a place where if you want to
have another child and he's on board, I think you
have that conversation together and also let him know that
it's between the two of you, and you know you
hear his friends and brother make comments, but make sure
that it's what you both really want. And also I
(29:59):
think you you have the you can say you're thirty seven,
there is a biological time a clock.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
Okay, back on remind us again.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
I'm just saying, like I think you can bring that
up in the conversation about having another baby and be like,
I don't want I want us to both be in
the same place to want this, and I don't want
outside voices getting into your head. But I also am
in a place where I do have to think about
the time, So I just want us to get there
together and do what we want, not what other people
(30:27):
are saying.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
I think you just have this conversation.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
I think you just have the conversation with him. I
think going to the people around you and telling them
to back off is a very bad idea, yeah, because
you just want like you can't control other people. You
just can't, so you have to let people they're gonna
do and say what they want. But I think having
the conversation with your husband and saying you know that
you recognize that other people like laugh and say we're crazy,
(30:51):
but this is something that's really important to me, and
I feel like it's also very important to you, And
let's get the show on the road.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
He needs space and time, and I know that you
feel like you might not have time, especially with what
Beca just said to you.
Speaker 5 (31:02):
But he doesn't know what he wants.
Speaker 3 (31:05):
He does, he's not lying she says he's about eighty
percent on board. Eighty is basically a hundred.
Speaker 4 (31:12):
That's what she says, because when she talks to him
and she gives him the lowdown, he's.
Speaker 5 (31:16):
Like, yeah, yeah, that'd be cool. Yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
And when his buddies and his brother around, they're like, dude,
you've got your handsful. He's like, yeah, I do have
my hands full. Yeah, you're right, Yeah, you're right, this
is crazy. Both are true, by the way, I think
he does want it, but also he realizes that this
is a lot and they do have their hands full.
So I think he's torn. I don't think he knows
what he wants, and I think he's going to need
time to figure that out.
Speaker 5 (31:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
I had of a sectomy. I loved it. I'm happy
I did it every day. I would never get it reversed.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
You would never get it reversed. Never, that's rude.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
I've run the marathon and I'm nearing the finish line
of the marathon. I would never want to start the
marathon over again. As enjoyable as that marathon was, I
but that's me. I just don't think he knows what
he wants. Because every person's telling him something different, but
everyone's telling him true things. Yes it would be nice,
Yes it would be cool, Yes it would be sweet.
Yes we would make your wife happy. Yes it is crazy.
(32:09):
Yes your house is a madhouse right now, It's all true.
So I think it's I don't know. I think he
needs time and space, and because I think you're influencing him.
Speaker 3 (32:18):
As well, time and space. There's nothing like time and space.
Time and space heals the race when they're ever questioning
time and space.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
Thank you, that's stunning. I know we have a game.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Oh, we do have a game. I have the high
Low Game. We haven't played the high Low game in
a way.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
The game, it's part of it.
Speaker 5 (32:42):
Part age, part other things.
Speaker 8 (32:45):
Oh yeah, all right, we are back with a finale game.
Speaker 5 (33:09):
All right, I've.
Speaker 4 (33:10):
Got three rounds. Each one is best of seven says.
Whoever gets two of the three rounds is the champion.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
We are starting with celebrity birthdays.
Speaker 3 (33:20):
Okay. Uh.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
These are all people who are born this week in history,
and you can tell me how old they are turning
this week and how and then the other person is
higher and lower.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (33:29):
Now, I always get people get mad at me because
they want to be the higher lower person. So can
you guys please do a rock paper scissors to determine
who goes first?
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (33:40):
Sure, I thought we say that our name.
Speaker 5 (33:42):
No, we're taking turns. Here we go, So rock paper scissors. Shoot,
here we go.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
Rock paper scissors, shoot.
Speaker 4 (33:50):
Rock crushes scissors. So you may choose. Would you like
the name? Would you like the name first? Would you
like hire.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
At I'd like to guest hire a lower first one?
Speaker 4 (33:57):
Okay, here is your first one? Mackelmore? How old is
he turning this week?
Speaker 2 (34:03):
Maclamore? I think he's forty four?
Speaker 5 (34:05):
He is not turning forty four? Is he older or younger?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
Older?
Speaker 4 (34:09):
He is turning forty three? For Rebecca and Tanya's strategy
has backfire. Tanya Zoe Saldanya Hollywood Darling Zoe Saldanya. How
old is she turning this week?
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Forty five?
Speaker 5 (34:24):
Okay, she's not. Is she older or younger than forty five?
Speaker 2 (34:27):
Older?
Speaker 4 (34:27):
She is turning forty seven? Becca has two now and
is well on her way. Kendrick Lamar, Kendrick Lamar Ton Wait, Becca?
How old is Kendrick Lamar turning this week?
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (34:38):
I think Kendrick's turning. Uh, I really have no thirty eight?
Speaker 5 (34:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (34:44):
He iss three in a row for Becca. All right, finally,
maybe not finally, we have more, but I'm going to
throw you a bit of a curve ball because I
want to get this one in here. Every year since
I was a kid, I acknowledged this birthday. This week,
Garfield the Cat.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
That's g give we veto this one, Vito.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
I'm the host of the show, Vita. Garfield the Cat
has a birthday this week.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
I don't care.
Speaker 4 (35:14):
How old is Garfield the Cat creatures? How old is
Garfield the Cat turning this week?
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Forty seven?
Speaker 5 (35:24):
Yes, it's forty seven. Wow, Ton, that was really good.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
Did you get Did you give that to you?
Speaker 3 (35:33):
No? Why would I want to veto it? If I knew?
Speaker 1 (35:35):
I am so. I felt like that was like acting
or something amazing.
Speaker 5 (35:40):
Becca, back to you.
Speaker 4 (35:42):
For the win for this round. Nicole Kidman. How old
is she turning this week?
Speaker 8 (35:46):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I think Nicole Kidman is.
Speaker 6 (35:52):
Fifty eight.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
She's turning fifty eight. I'll be darned look at that.
Becca takes round one. The thing game goes to Becca.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (36:02):
Round two.
Speaker 4 (36:04):
All right, let's go to the store. I'm going to
give you a product. You tell me if it's one
person guesses the price, the other person is higher or lower. Okay,
all right, simple as that.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
I have a circular right here, like the newspaper circular.
Speaker 4 (36:16):
We start this time with Tanya. Okay, this is up
and Up thirty two ounce liquid hand sanitizer. Thirty two
ounces of liquid hand sanitizer by the brand Up and Up.
Speaker 5 (36:27):
How much does that cost?
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Thirty two ounces is big? Huh, Like bigger than two ounces.
Speaker 5 (36:38):
It's quite a bit thirty more.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
So I'm gonna guess.
Speaker 5 (36:42):
Six sixty nine nine is a higher or lower? Becca,
I'm going higher. It is five point fifty nine.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
You guys should go get some of this stuff because
it's a really good deal. That is a point for Tanya. Beckup,
it's the brand Lol, Surprise Tween Mermaid doll. It's a
little mermaid doll. It's cute, little Surprise Mermaid dolly.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
Lol. How much is that little between mermaid doll?
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Those are I think around seventeen dollars.
Speaker 4 (37:11):
Seventeen dollars hire lower Tanya fifteen dollars. Tanya is doing
well in this game.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
She knows her prices.
Speaker 4 (37:18):
Khan is a JBL wireless bluetooth headphones hundred bucks, hundred
bucks hire lower Hire one twenty nine. Becca's on the board. Becca,
it's a bird Buddy smart bird feeder with camera so
you can watch the birds on your phone.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
Yeah. Those run about one twenty.
Speaker 4 (37:33):
Twenty higher Lower Tanya, Hire two hundred dollars for that one.
Tanya is on the brink of victory. Here, Tanya, this
is the Dirt Devil. Dirt Devil Vibe three and one
cordless bagless vacuum.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
Cleaner, seventy five ninety nine.
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Hire wire it is forty nine ninety nine.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
And Tanya takes round two and we move on to
the final round. I'm going to give you a movie.
You tell me what year this movie came out. I
have tried to get movies that you two particularly would enjoy. Okay, Becca,
we begin with you. He's just not that into you.
What year did that come out?
Speaker 2 (38:10):
Two thousand and nine?
Speaker 5 (38:12):
Correct?
Speaker 4 (38:13):
Two thousand and nine. Wow, very nice. Tanya, you can
match it up right here. Don't be so stunned. You
got a shot here the notebook. What year do the
notebook come out?
Speaker 5 (38:21):
Tanya?
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Two thousand and five.
Speaker 4 (38:22):
It is not two thousand and five, before or after
two thousand and four?
Speaker 5 (38:27):
Becka, I can't say that word on our podcast. Sorry, Love, Actually,
let's go back to Becca Love. Actually, what year did
that come out?
Speaker 2 (38:38):
Isn't that go to Tanya?
Speaker 3 (38:39):
Because I just know, I just guess it. You guess lowered?
Speaker 5 (38:42):
Oh oh, Love?
Speaker 2 (38:43):
Actually was twenty twelve before or after?
Speaker 5 (38:48):
Tanya?
Speaker 4 (38:49):
Before two thousand and three? Quite a bit before two
to one? Beca, Tanya? What year did She's All That
come out?
Speaker 3 (38:56):
Nineteen ninety two?
Speaker 4 (38:58):
Nineteen ninety two? Was it before or after ninety nine?
And Becca has a three to one leaders on the
brink of victory In today's High Low Game, Becca, we
go to you for this one. Mandy Moore in a
walk to remember what year did that come out?
Speaker 2 (39:16):
Two thousand and two?
Speaker 5 (39:18):
We have a winner.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I was like, I was.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
So obsessed with that movie that was If I had
gotten that wrong, I would have been up something.
Speaker 5 (39:28):
Congratulations, Becca is the winner our game.
Speaker 2 (39:33):
Thank you, Thank you for putting that together.
Speaker 5 (39:38):
Mark as always enjoy our games.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
All right, everyone, We will be back on Thursday with
Candice King.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Can't wait to not wait.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
We love her, love her.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
Donya, I hope your dreams come true today and you
get to really enjoy your shaved watermelon.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
Dreams do come true.
Speaker 3 (39:59):
They are easy, really accessible, if you dream big, if
you dream small enough.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
I was trying to be encouragingly.
Speaker 1 (40:06):
Yeah, you dream small, you can achieve the dreams easy, erectly.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
All right, we love you, somebody love you.
Speaker 3 (40:12):
Bye bye,
Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yay.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Oh like the plane just landed. Wow, you look absolutely
radiant today.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Thank you so much. I'm having an off day.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
This is so interesting.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
She literally has normal clothes on, not a sweatsuit.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
She has all her gold jewelry popping off, no hair.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Hair back in a cute little braid ponytail make and
she says she isn't having an off date.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
It just goes to show you, I love myself, untouched.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I love myself.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
We decided that maybe she said she was having an
off date just to fish for compliments.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yes, I don't compliment. I don't need to fish for compliments.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
You know how you do click bait over your tex.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Yeah, but it's like I am secure in myself that
I don't need to fish for compliments. Thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (01:05):
Make right.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
But when you come in here on a normal morning,
we have to get here very early, and your hair
is not like this, You're not wearing makeup, and you're
in a puffer in a sweat suit, you never say
you're having an off day. I feel completely put together,
and you say you're having any.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
And what I realize is maybe when I put effort
in and I look like this, it like bums me out.
When I put no effort in, I'm just like, I'm
just like my gorgeous natural self. It's not bad. Yeah,
it's not bad, and I'm cozy exactly right now. I'm
like my jeans, I just washed them for the first
time ever, so they're so why.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Did you get them five years ago?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Yeah? Maybe last year first. Yeah. I don't like to
wash my jeans.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
I mean I don't.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I'm not like wash them every time, but I certainly
watch them after a certain amount of time of mooning
though I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Really wear jeans that often, so like, my rotation is
probably much less than yours.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I think you're put on date nights. You're wearing jeans
at not.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
These means AnyWho not important. I'm having an off day.
I have two big pimples on my forehead and I
just like stared at them all week. I can't get
rid of them. They're not that big because I make up.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
On they don't. You don't.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
If I was just looking at you, I wouldn't even think, Oh,
she has pimples on her forehead.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Oh yeah, it's the rest easy.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Thank you better tonight? Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Go through the day feeling absolutely gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Thank you so much. I needed that.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Speaking of the uh text bait that Tanya does, I
posted it like an example of it because she texts
me and goes Becca and I said, lol, yes, and
she goes, I just took the best nap.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Doing you were abusing the technology.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I thought she'd be so proud that I just took
a really nice long nap.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Well, when you're waking up at like three am, I'm
expecting you to take a nap mine.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
But I was expecting a nicer reply than what I got.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
I was like, my, oh, go ahead.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
I'm just curious, do you want praise or do you
want like a follow.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Up question or I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
That's where she wants a compliment on her appearance, not
on her.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Do not compliment my physical appearance, but please compliment my
nap games.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
But I posted the screenshot on Instagram and Robbie goes,
she does this to me too, and I was like, oh,
I was actually going to ask you about it or
have her ask you about it, and he goes, I
thought it was a radio thing, because they're always like teasing, so.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
She's been radio a long time.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I don't think it's a radio thing.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
But another thing that happened is this morning, Tany hits
the chat with Sam, our producer myself and she sends
a picture of I stared at it for a long time.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
I didn't even know what it was.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And she goes my breakfast and Sam goes, what, I
don't even know what I'm looking at, and she goes,
it's chicken. We didn't have anything else, So this is
my breakfast. Dark times over here, I'm like order something
like in a time.
Speaker 8 (04:12):
Where you don't have to eat you chicken for breakfast
and you could get groceries brought to your house.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
First of all, I didn't. I normally just eat eggs.
Eggs is like my always my standard go to breakfast.
For some reason, I'm having like an aversion to scrambled eggs.
Like this thought of scrambled eggs.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I've had that. I had so much.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Yes, I get that, I've had it with hard boiled eggs.
I've never had it with warm scrambled eggs. So I
was very thrown off, but the thought of making scrambled
eggs made me want to bombit. You have eggs, yes,
which is our standard breakfast.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Scrambled eggs with beef bro bone bro feel this morning.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
I forgot about our bone bros in the freezer. That
would have been a great idea. That would have been
a nice breakfast, just the bone bro yeah, with the
eggs inside.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Could make eggs a different.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Way, sunny side up. Poach your eggs, you could do fried.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
I actually don't know how to boiled eggs.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Does anyody know how to poach an egg? Because it's
actually it's hard.
Speaker 7 (05:09):
I've never not that hard. I thought it was.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
It's you just seed one of those net things, right, You.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
Don't even need that. You can just use a spoon
or I just use my hand sometimes.
Speaker 6 (05:16):
But you just boiled water dangerous.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
It hurts, but you know you gotta suffer for art.
Speaker 9 (05:22):
You boil the water, you crack the egg, and then
you swirl it around with like a ladle.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
But what about the sunny side up?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
I mean, there's I mean.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
From you to admit that you had plenty of options
for breakfast and you still had chicken. It had to
make a whole big deal out of the.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
Fact that.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I will defend her.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
She didn't make a big deal. I mean she sent
it in the group. She knew it was going to
get a reaction, of course.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
But the best part is it was really dry and
it was cold, so I wanted to warm it up
pickled juice on it.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Yag right to warm it up.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
That doesn't make any sense with water, water and pickle juice,
to like warm it up on the stove in the
in like a little frying.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
This is eight thirty am.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Yeah, you don't have a microwave.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
I don't really like microwaves.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
Ah, I'll use it if I need to, but if
I don't need to do it.
Speaker 7 (06:22):
Yeah, this is the time.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
More about the pickle juice addition, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Why I eat my my rotisserie chicken with pickles. So
I was like, if I if it's dry, I'm gonna
have a little water.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I have literally chills all over my body, like the
worst way.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
It was just a survival mode, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Likes eat, Like, honestly, you have a house full of food.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
It sounds like we deferently don't.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Here she goes out, what else do you eat? Yeah,
she it's slim pickets.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I'm like, you have eggs. Don't have kids in the house, chicken.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Do you have any cereal for the kids?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
They don't eat cereal.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I bet you have some hot cereal, some motimeals something.
I bet you have many options.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
No, really, okay, I'm not a city full of options.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
The problem is the time. Once I realized I needed
to eat my breakfast, I needed to be I needed
to leave my house within like thirty forty five minutes.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Huh.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
So nothing was going to get to me in time,
nor to cook.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
There's a Whole Food's right like, it's literally from the window.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
And if you just if you skipped your rotisserie chicken
eating it up on the stove, I think.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
You could have stopped by the Whole Foods, picked up
with smoothie, something yummy warm.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I didn't choose this life.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I know, are you secretly prepping to be a bodybuilder,
because this is giving bodybuilder?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
You know what it's giving. It was that's what I
used to eat for breakfast before my wedding. I was
eating a lot of rotissory chicken before my wedding.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
She it was a little it wasn't good you guys
want choose.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
There was a lot of chicken and cube and eggs
and eggs.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah, that was basically it. Yeah. It was very very
high proteins.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Every meal.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Yeah, yes, every meal breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
And I was like, oh, is she doing this for
her honeymoon? It feels a little intense.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
But nuh, just desperate times, desperate times. And I had
an amazing rotissary chicken in the fridge.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
I respect it because I one thousand percent would have
opened my refrigerator been like, I'm not mid for eggs.
I'll have rotissery chicken, but I'm definitely not doing that
for breakfast. I'm just going to order something. But you
didn't spend any money.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Thank you. You just ate what you so economical of me. Yeah,
it's very responsible of you, thank you. Yeah, it's giving evolved.
Speaker 7 (08:41):
Yeah, I don't know chaos giving.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
You know the magnets you were on your nose for
the notes, don't magnets.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Have something in them that you're not supposed to put
on your skin.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
The magnet is not directly on my skin. It's like
think of like a layer of skin like tape, like
a skin tape, then the magnets on that, and then
they put a layer of like tape over that, so
the magnet is not directly on your.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Skin, just a millimeter of protection exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
That's all. That's Yeah, I looked it up.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
I googled it already. I see you chomping away over there, chop.
The magnets are fine. There's no EMFs and magnets okay.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Yeah, I didn't think there was any EMF, just more
so like the danger of you know.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
What does the em F stand for again?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Electric magnetic field?
Speaker 7 (09:32):
Sorry, I just want to point out magnetic.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
It makes a point, you.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Know what, and it opens my airways and it is
from that.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
In about three weeks, Tony will say that no strips
are out, Well, actually yeah, because.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
You don't think there's any way that like the pulling
is like actually gonna like pull our skin on our
nose permanently like this, right, I'm like, I actually don't know,
Like if you think about it, we're pulling it all
night long, you're stretching it out every night.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
Yeah, that's going in the rings.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah yeah it could be. It could be, but right
now it's decadent. Sleep so much.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Air fes the nostrils, so.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Much air going in and nothing coming out. It's good.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Well, I'm I can't wait to hear more updates on that.
All these things.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Coming soon on our honeymoon, like our.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Nose all the honeymoon.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yes, are you doing an all white situation or are
you what's your vibe?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
It's gonna be like eighty percent white?
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Okay? Yeah, what's the why? But why or like, what
what's your thought process? You like to you acted like
you had really thought about it.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Yeah, because I'm like, my bridal era is over, so
like the white should isn't.
Speaker 10 (11:12):
The honeymoon part of the bridal era technically is like
celebration of the bread era. Yeah, but it's not giving
like bride. It's giving like wife, you know what I mean.
So I have some black in there as well, natural tones.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Leading into potential mother mother era.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Exactly, exactly. Well, yeah, speaking of my really done much
shopping for my honeymoon though, are you going to maybe.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Well, you're saving money on the groceries so you.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
Get thirty this morning on the side. Yeah, that adds up.
You know, I was thinking because I've been like really
into the reputation album. I mean, I've always been, but
King of My Heart.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
Is just really that one doesn't do it.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
For it might be it might be top for me
on that album. Yeah, that's crazy. It's a deep cut.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Yeah, I know, but that's where I'm at right now.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
And I also I'm just dying to know who Dancing
with Our Hands Tight is about.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Carl Klass That's not confirmed, is confirmed.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
I'm just saying. I was listening to it again this
morning and I was thinking, I'd like to know. I'd
like to you know, what I would love and if
the end of her life she writes down.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Every song and releases who it's about.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
It's like Evelyn Hugo kind of like at the end
she just releases like all the information about her life.
And I would love if Taylor swifted that that'd be exciting.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
So it's the beauty of it.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
The songs hit you differently at different stages of your life,
and that's that's the.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Power of her in her writing skills. It's amazing.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
It is amazing.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
And My Heart has been my favorite since I like
literally I think of it since I met Haley.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Wow, you know what song I used to not like well,
I don't think it's on reputation. Actually, out of the Woods,
My god, that song is amazing. Yeah. I used to
not like it and then like, for some some reason,
you like brought it to my life. Uh huh, and
now I'm obsessed with it.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Another thing I've added to my bucket list is going
to a cold Play concert.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
You've never gone to a cold No, ton you not.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Everyone just gets to go interview Chris Martin and then
go to the concert.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
That was epic. That was an epic You could have
come to that.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Well I didn't get an invite. Yeah you did. Yeah,
I would have been at that concert.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
I've seen many cold Play concerts.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Well maybe on the next one you can get me
in there.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
Coldplay is great in concert.
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
So that's my bucket that's a nice bucket list item.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Anyone else have bucketless concerts they want to attend and
have I have.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
A bucket list item.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Do you have a bucket's concert?
Speaker 3 (14:03):
No?
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Okay, what's your item?
Speaker 3 (14:05):
I want to eat shaved watermelon like shaved ice, but
like I want to make it.
Speaker 7 (14:11):
Dream the impossible dream.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
That was so sad.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
I'd like to eat an orange.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
What are you drinking about where they shave it into
the So you like to take.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
A watermelon and you freeze it, yeah, and then you
like shave it on like a cheese grater and you
make like like snow. You can't do that today?
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Yeah, any dream huge? You can literally go to the
grocery store. Sounds like you need to go anywhay pick
up a big juicy watermelon and you could have that
to night.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
I can't do it today, but maybe tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (14:53):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Any other huge items on anyone's to compete with.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
That sea salt on top.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
Gonna do some lime juice.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
Loves the Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Oh yeah, Black Balloon hits iris this.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
There's a video of them playing in the rain. I
think I've talked about on the podcast.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Still played performances sold.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Them on a podcast.
Speaker 7 (15:26):
Was in La like the other day.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
The lyrics I could ask about that was like my
Avril Labine days when I would like write down av
Laben lyrics. Googoo Dolls were up there, Yeah and Michelle
Branch those three two Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
But like the video that I always think about is
them playing and it's pouring down rain and it's in
the nineties and no one has their phones out. They're
all just locked in and it looks like a dream.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Like could you all make it no phone rule?
Speaker 3 (15:57):
So we could just have the Jonas Brothers had a concert,
say like last year maybe the year before that was
a no phones yeah, because it was like a small
underplay at the l Rainos before the album came out.
So they made everybody lock them in those little pouches.
I kept got to keep mine out.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
They're in town in September. I might have to. They're
in Santa Barbara and the Greek.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
The Santa Barbara Bowl, the Greek, the Greek the next night,
the Greek in August.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
September sixth and seventh. Have to do that. Yeah, that's
a little tight.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
That's after late that weekend. Actually, no, I'm going to
bet a wedding that weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Oh well, okay.
Speaker 9 (16:33):
I would always love to see Lonna del Ray. I
want to see her really, but we've never seen her.
And they keep saying the Spice Girls are going to
tour again. I want to see the Spice Girls so bad.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Well, that would just be iconic, iconic, So you saw, Yeah, are.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
You invested in this Beckham drama?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I don't know anything about it.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Oh my God, to me here we are pop, make
us invested. Well, the problem is, I don't not in
the weeds. But Brooklyn Beckham and his wife Nicola Pelts
are like in a feud with his family, meaning Victoria
David Beckham brothers. Yeah, it's like bad nobody. I don't know.
Like the hearsay is that she didn't let Victoria design
her wedding dress, which seems preposterous to me. Like Victoria
(17:13):
is probably okay whatever, do you know what I mean?
So there's gotta be more to it. But apparently they
hired the same attorney, like for their image that Harry
and Meghan hired Beckham Harry, the Beams, the Young, the
Young Beckhams.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (17:31):
Interestinglyn has covered up his mom's boy chest tat.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
Yeah, that is a bad.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Sign, that a bad.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Red flag always around. I have to tell you something.
Karma has hit Mark in a big way.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Let's do it after the break, Yes, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 6 (17:56):
Okay, all right, we're back.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
Tanya knows her teasers.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
We mentioned that earlier, So Mark's karma. I have just
been finding joy in this show called Love Island for
a few years now and who poo poos it to
me every single time? Mark and I both okay, okay,
fair one of Mark's stances because I would like to
(18:39):
talk about it on not just this podcast, I'd love
to talk about on the morning show. And Mark's like,
nobody's watching this. I've never said that it's not our demo.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Never said that either, yes you did, No, it is
our demo. It's completely ourda.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
You changed your tune a little bit last summer because
it was so popular.
Speaker 5 (18:56):
But because that's when it broke big.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
But before that it was so poop who Love Island?
It's not our demo. Nobody's watching it's.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Not our demo.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
But I didn't think anyone's watching it till last summer
when people were really watching it, Which is so I
have a good gauge of this sort of thing. That's
why my job is my job.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
So I guess I was watching Love Island this season
in Mark's home.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I would say it could be as it is, or
it could be one of the children.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Well wow, yeah, yeah, she loves a fan.
Speaker 5 (19:32):
Brooklyn is a.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
Fan, you see her her. Tanya's mind went from Brooklyn
Beckham to my.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yes, yes, wow, wow, wow, a master, she loves it.
Speaker 4 (19:43):
She's obsessed and I was I got I didn't know this.
And then she's under you know, she's under eighteen, so
we get alerts when she wants to download an app.
We have to just approve it, and we've always approved them.
She never tried to download anything. Word, but I was
at home one day and they got the Brooklyn wuld
like to download the Love Island USA app like h no,
(20:05):
But I approved it, and now there and now she
comes home every day with stories of whoever and who's.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
This person?
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Yeah, yeah, So it's basically like the Bacher meets American Idol.
It's the best way to put it. It's phenomenal.
Speaker 2 (20:23):
Oh whoa, Okay, so I should, So I should start it.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
I think so, Okay, I'd rather do it now and just.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Be like not need to catch up on like twenty twelve.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
Yeah, I'd rather be able to talk about it in
a topical way.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
So yeah. So anyways, that's just a little bit about
Marx Karma.
Speaker 9 (20:43):
Okay, there's there's a Love Island esque thing in the
newest episode of in just like that.
Speaker 7 (20:50):
I just wanted you to know.
Speaker 9 (20:51):
Miranda gets sucked into a show called by Bingo and
it's about bisexual people that gets into an island and
it's just like her getting like so enambored with like
a reality TV show where people are on a tropical
island hooking up.
Speaker 7 (21:04):
And it reminds me of Love Island and a Bechel
in Paradis.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Well, I just want you to know that, Like, the
reason why I haven't shared with you is because I
have made a group chat with people that I can
talk just Love Island too. Okay, So I'm like getting
it out of my system.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Oh okay, So you don't need to like harass me
into watch it.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
Correct, I see, because I have my I have my
support group.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
Thank God for those people.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Yeah, and we're just constantly sending tiktoks and updates.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
Do you think majority of people watch it? I think
a lot of our listeners watch it. So I'm I'm
gonna try. I'm going to attempt to tune in and
get into it for the sake of the podcast.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Maybe you can get a run down from Brooklyn to
join in.
Speaker 5 (21:43):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
My issue with the morning show is I know Ryan's
not watching it, I know Systany's not watching it, and
so it's got to be a relatable enough topic. But
there are topics within there that we can probably.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Say it for the pod and watch it show this girl.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
Okayeah, But as we know, like sometimes when when like
just Easton and I are watching a show and we're
trying to discuss it, the way you and Mark looks
so absolutely horrify what we're saying.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
I don't need to discuss it. I don't need to
discuss it.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
When not a whole group is watching it.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
You can pull elements that are relatable. Do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (22:16):
You should do that.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
You should be like, oh my gosh, this one guy,
this is what happened or what he said That's what
I didn't. Okay, do do do of our Friends episode?
Speaker 2 (22:26):
Anyways?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Anyway, shall we get into some dear Bonias sneak went in.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
Here, uh from a girl in hinge Hell?
Speaker 4 (22:34):
She said, huge fans started this podcast because I love Becka,
and I stayed because I'm beyond obsessed with you. All
things just ended between me and my guy after seven months,
And as much as it really hurt, I'm glad it
happened because it made me realized I do want a relationship.
I've been single for ten years with only one boyfriend,
so navigating things out here is tough, especially at thirty four.
(22:55):
I met the seven month guy as my first hinge
date and it just went from there. I will say
there were some red flags along the way, sharing a
dog with his ex who he cheated on. Oh that's
like a red flag barrage right there that you ignored.
Speaker 5 (23:09):
But I'm getting older, so I feel like I need
to be less picky.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
However, after what feels like seven months wasted, I'm second
guessing being too lenient. I've been on three dates in
the last two weeks with different people, fourth tomorrow, and
I just feel like it's all red flags. I'm struggling
to decide if I should go on a second date
with any of them, because I feel like I shouldn't,
but I also want to be too picky. Okay, So
now she breaks down each of the three and we
get to decide who she should go on a date
(23:32):
again with, if anyone. Date number one, he just moved
into a new place and asked why he moved. He
told me he and his ex broke up two weeks
ago after two years together because they got into a
fight at her sister's wedding because he found out she
was cheating on him and now he doesn't know if
he can trust again.
Speaker 5 (23:50):
Okay, Date number one, Date.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Number two, I was actually super into this guy until
he mentioned he had met up with this girl four
days before because he really liked her and asked to
be official, but she said she wanted to see if
things would work out with another guy she was seeing,
so he wanted to put himself back out there and
not just wait around. On Date number three, mentioned communication
(24:14):
being important to him, which I loved, and then he
voluntarily mentioned he ended his last relationship a month ago
because the sex sucked and when he brought it up,
she didn't handle it well. I want to write all
three off, But then is this normal? Am I being
too picky? I just don't want to set myself up
to get hurt again, especially after I felt like I
may have ignored too many red flags on seven month man.
(24:35):
Any advice is helpful, Thanks and love y'all.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
My first initial reaction is, if anything, he should be
more picky. Yeah, I agree, I think stop being picky
is the is the move.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
I think you should.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Raise your standards because an ex sharing a dog with
his ex who he cheated on. Is is just a
red fly, big red flag that you just overlooked.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
And I think we're raising our standards now.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
Yeah. I feel like the older you get, the more
picky you should become.
Speaker 5 (25:12):
Yeah, don't lower your standards.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
Waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve it.
Speaker 4 (25:17):
So Day one just moved a new place because he
broke up two weeks ago. After two years, he's clearly
a rebound situation. It's two weeks out. He got cheated on, Okay, fine, whatever.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
He doesn't know if he can trust again. He needs
to go to therapy.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
He needs to heals two years, two weeks after two years,
it's not gonna be.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
She's gonna be. It's not gonna be good for her.
Speaker 4 (25:38):
I rebounds work out sometimes. Sisany reminds us all the
time in the morning show that her current husband was
a rebound.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Yeah, so you never know she.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
Was he her rebound or she was his rebound, he
was her rebound. That's different.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
No, they were both each other's rebounds.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Then I think that's fine, But I think one person
not being the rebound, and especially if it's the woman
who's not the rebus bound. I mean the woman who
is the rebound I think is going to be tough
if if our girls see what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
Yeah, he's the one that's rebounding. Yeah, she's the one
that's three Yeah, okay. Date two, he had just met
up with this girl four days before. He asked to
be official. She said no, I want to see how
things work out. So he's clearly got feelings for the
other woman.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
Yeah, he's like out there doing his thing. I don't
think that's about only protest.
Speaker 5 (26:26):
He doesn't want to be doing it.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
No, it's giving Tanya going out with other guys when
Robbie didn't want to be exclusive kind of. And I
remember all I was doing was thinking.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
About, well, number two would be the only one I'd
go on a second date with out of these three.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
That's preposterous.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Is that your word of the day.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Yeah, you said it once or twice before.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
That's the only one I wouldn't go out with again.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Oh and then date three his relationship fell apart. As
you mentioned, the sex was not up to his standards,
and then she didn't handle it well and then they
broke up.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
I think she's he's just gonna make her feelm secure.
I don't know. I don't like it really.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
Yeah, sometimes you just don't have good sexual chemistry.
Speaker 10 (27:05):
I know.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
But I think that's just like, hey, like, communicate, what
do you like?
Speaker 2 (27:09):
What do you want?
Speaker 1 (27:10):
The fact that he just was like walk away after
he didn't like the sex, it's like, did you try,
did you communicate?
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Did you tell her what you like?
Speaker 5 (27:17):
I think day three is my favorite.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Too interesting.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
I'm kind of like, don't go out with any of
them again and find some new name.
Speaker 5 (27:25):
I want to write all three off. That's it. You
gotta go with your gun.
Speaker 6 (27:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
I think if you want to write all three off,
I think you do that.
Speaker 3 (27:33):
Yeah. Number three a lot of fish in the sea.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
Yeah, I'm moving on to the uh one more baby
okay high anonymous Dear Becka Tanya Marker in Easton, Hi.
Speaker 5 (27:47):
Gang Day one scrubber.
Speaker 3 (27:49):
Here.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
You guys have read my emails in the past and
give me great advice, so thank you.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
Look at that. We don't hear that very often. Then
we give great.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
Advice all the time. I'm kidding.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
I'm thirty seven. My husband and I have four kids seventeen, thirteen,
three and two. Wow, that is a span.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
Well, we're seventeen thirteen, three and two.
Speaker 5 (28:10):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
We have three boys and our youngest. As a girl,
I always dreamed of having a daughter, and once she
was born, I agreed to my husband getting a vasectomy.
Two years later, I deeply regret that decision. I want
a fifth baby so badly. Being a mom has been
the greatest joy of my life. I've always imagined having
a big family. We just moved into our dream home
this past January and it is spacious. We are settled,
(28:32):
and I work remotely at a job I love to
let me be home with my kids. Life feels full
in the best way, but I can't shake the feeling
that one more baby would complete our family. My husband
had the asseectimy in October of twenty three, so he's
still within the ideal window for a reversal. I'd say
he's about eighty percent on.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
Board with the idea. When it's just the two of
us talking, he's open and sometimes even excited about it.
Speaker 4 (28:52):
The issue is when he brings it up with his
twin brother or his friends, they shut it down and
say you're crazy, and the joke about us already having
our hands full, and I can tell that their reactions
sway him and it's frustrating. I don't want to pressure
him or rush his process. I don't want outside voices,
especially sarcastic, fearful ones, clouding his real desires.
Speaker 5 (29:12):
Here's the advice.
Speaker 4 (29:13):
How can I kindly but clearly tell the people around
us to back off and let him think for himself
without causing drama? And how can I best support my
husband as he figures out what he truly wants and
not what others think he should want. I know, asking
him to do this surgery is a big deal, so
I'm trying to get us there together as a unit.
Thank you for reading and any inse that you can offer.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
I mean, I I think.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
That you're in a place where if you want to
have another child and he's on board, I think you
have that conversation together and also let him know that
it's between the two of you, and you know you
hear his friends and brother make comments, but make sure
that it's what you both really want. And also I
(29:59):
think you you have the you can say you're thirty seven,
there is a biological time a clock.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
Okay, back on remind us again.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
I'm just saying, like I think you can bring that
up in the conversation about having another baby and be like,
I don't want I want us to both be in
the same place to want this, and I don't want
outside voices getting into your head. But I also am
in a place where I do have to think about
the time, So I just want us to get there
together and do what we want, not what other people
(30:27):
are saying.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
I think you just have this conversation.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
I think you just have the conversation with him. I
think going to the people around you and telling them
to back off is a very bad idea, yeah, because
you just want like you can't control other people. You
just can't, so you have to let people they're gonna
do and say what they want. But I think having
the conversation with your husband and saying you know that
you recognize that other people like laugh and say we're crazy,
(30:51):
but this is something that's really important to me, and
I feel like it's also very important to you, And
let's get the show on the road.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
He needs space and time, and I know that you
feel like you might not have time, especially with what
Beca just said to you.
Speaker 5 (31:02):
But he doesn't know what he wants.
Speaker 3 (31:05):
He does, he's not lying she says he's about eighty
percent on board. Eighty is basically a hundred.
Speaker 4 (31:12):
That's what she says, because when she talks to him
and she gives him the lowdown, he's.
Speaker 5 (31:16):
Like, yeah, yeah, that'd be cool. Yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
And when his buddies and his brother around, they're like, dude,
you've got your handsful. He's like, yeah, I do have
my hands full. Yeah, you're right, Yeah, you're right, this
is crazy. Both are true, by the way, I think
he does want it, but also he realizes that this
is a lot and they do have their hands full.
So I think he's torn. I don't think he knows
what he wants, and I think he's going to need
time to figure that out.
Speaker 5 (31:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
I had of a sectomy. I loved it. I'm happy
I did it every day. I would never get it reversed.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
You would never get it reversed. Never, that's rude.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
I've run the marathon and I'm nearing the finish line
of the marathon. I would never want to start the
marathon over again. As enjoyable as that marathon was, I
but that's me. I just don't think he knows what
he wants. Because every person's telling him something different, but
everyone's telling him true things. Yes it would be nice,
Yes it would be cool, Yes it would be sweet.
Yes we would make your wife happy. Yes it is crazy.
(32:09):
Yes your house is a madhouse right now, It's all true.
So I think it's I don't know. I think he
needs time and space, and because I think you're influencing him.
Speaker 3 (32:18):
As well, time and space. There's nothing like time and space.
Time and space heals the race when they're ever questioning
time and space.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
Thank you, that's stunning. I know we have a game.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Oh, we do have a game. I have the high
Low Game. We haven't played the high Low game in
a way.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
The game, it's part of it.
Speaker 5 (32:42):
Part age, part other things.
Speaker 8 (32:45):
Oh yeah, all right, we are back with a finale game.
Speaker 5 (33:09):
All right, I've.
Speaker 4 (33:10):
Got three rounds. Each one is best of seven says.
Whoever gets two of the three rounds is the champion.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
We are starting with celebrity birthdays.
Speaker 3 (33:20):
Okay. Uh.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
These are all people who are born this week in history,
and you can tell me how old they are turning
this week and how and then the other person is
higher and lower.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (33:29):
Now, I always get people get mad at me because
they want to be the higher lower person. So can
you guys please do a rock paper scissors to determine
who goes first?
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (33:40):
Sure, I thought we say that our name.
Speaker 5 (33:42):
No, we're taking turns. Here we go, So rock paper scissors. Shoot,
here we go.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
Rock paper scissors, shoot.
Speaker 4 (33:50):
Rock crushes scissors. So you may choose. Would you like
the name? Would you like the name first? Would you
like hire.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
At I'd like to guest hire a lower first one?
Speaker 4 (33:57):
Okay, here is your first one? Mackelmore? How old is
he turning this week?
Speaker 2 (34:03):
Maclamore? I think he's forty four?
Speaker 5 (34:05):
He is not turning forty four? Is he older or younger?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
Older?
Speaker 4 (34:09):
He is turning forty three? For Rebecca and Tanya's strategy
has backfire. Tanya Zoe Saldanya Hollywood Darling Zoe Saldanya. How
old is she turning this week?
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Forty five?
Speaker 5 (34:24):
Okay, she's not. Is she older or younger than forty five?
Speaker 2 (34:27):
Older?
Speaker 4 (34:27):
She is turning forty seven? Becca has two now and
is well on her way. Kendrick Lamar, Kendrick Lamar Ton Wait, Becca?
How old is Kendrick Lamar turning this week?
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (34:38):
I think Kendrick's turning. Uh, I really have no thirty eight?
Speaker 5 (34:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (34:44):
He iss three in a row for Becca. All right, finally,
maybe not finally, we have more, but I'm going to
throw you a bit of a curve ball because I
want to get this one in here. Every year since
I was a kid, I acknowledged this birthday. This week,
Garfield the Cat.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
That's g give we veto this one, Vito.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
I'm the host of the show, Vita. Garfield the Cat
has a birthday this week.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
I don't care.
Speaker 4 (35:14):
How old is Garfield the Cat creatures? How old is
Garfield the Cat turning this week?
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Forty seven?
Speaker 5 (35:24):
Yes, it's forty seven. Wow, Ton, that was really good.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
Did you get Did you give that to you?
Speaker 3 (35:33):
No? Why would I want to veto it? If I knew?
Speaker 1 (35:35):
I am so. I felt like that was like acting
or something amazing.
Speaker 5 (35:40):
Becca, back to you.
Speaker 4 (35:42):
For the win for this round. Nicole Kidman. How old
is she turning this week?
Speaker 8 (35:46):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I think Nicole Kidman is.
Speaker 6 (35:52):
Fifty eight.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
She's turning fifty eight. I'll be darned look at that.
Becca takes round one. The thing game goes to Becca.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (36:02):
Round two.
Speaker 4 (36:04):
All right, let's go to the store. I'm going to
give you a product. You tell me if it's one
person guesses the price, the other person is higher or lower. Okay,
all right, simple as that.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
I have a circular right here, like the newspaper circular.
Speaker 4 (36:16):
We start this time with Tanya. Okay, this is up
and Up thirty two ounce liquid hand sanitizer. Thirty two
ounces of liquid hand sanitizer by the brand Up and Up.
Speaker 5 (36:27):
How much does that cost?
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Thirty two ounces is big? Huh, Like bigger than two ounces.
Speaker 5 (36:38):
It's quite a bit thirty more.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
So I'm gonna guess.
Speaker 5 (36:42):
Six sixty nine nine is a higher or lower? Becca,
I'm going higher. It is five point fifty nine.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
You guys should go get some of this stuff because
it's a really good deal. That is a point for Tanya. Beckup,
it's the brand Lol, Surprise Tween Mermaid doll. It's a
little mermaid doll. It's cute, little Surprise Mermaid dolly.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
Lol. How much is that little between mermaid doll?
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Those are I think around seventeen dollars.
Speaker 4 (37:11):
Seventeen dollars hire lower Tanya fifteen dollars. Tanya is doing
well in this game.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
She knows her prices.
Speaker 4 (37:18):
Khan is a JBL wireless bluetooth headphones hundred bucks, hundred
bucks hire lower Hire one twenty nine. Becca's on the board. Becca,
it's a bird Buddy smart bird feeder with camera so
you can watch the birds on your phone.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
Yeah. Those run about one twenty.
Speaker 4 (37:33):
Twenty higher Lower Tanya, Hire two hundred dollars for that one.
Tanya is on the brink of victory. Here, Tanya, this
is the Dirt Devil. Dirt Devil Vibe three and one
cordless bagless vacuum.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
Cleaner, seventy five ninety nine.
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Hire wire it is forty nine ninety nine.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
And Tanya takes round two and we move on to
the final round. I'm going to give you a movie.
You tell me what year this movie came out. I
have tried to get movies that you two particularly would enjoy. Okay, Becca,
we begin with you. He's just not that into you.
What year did that come out?
Speaker 2 (38:10):
Two thousand and nine?
Speaker 5 (38:12):
Correct?
Speaker 4 (38:13):
Two thousand and nine. Wow, very nice. Tanya, you can
match it up right here. Don't be so stunned. You
got a shot here the notebook. What year do the
notebook come out?
Speaker 5 (38:21):
Tanya?
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Two thousand and five.
Speaker 4 (38:22):
It is not two thousand and five, before or after
two thousand and four?
Speaker 5 (38:27):
Becka, I can't say that word on our podcast. Sorry, Love, Actually,
let's go back to Becca Love. Actually, what year did
that come out?
Speaker 2 (38:38):
Isn't that go to Tanya?
Speaker 3 (38:39):
Because I just know, I just guess it. You guess lowered?
Speaker 5 (38:42):
Oh oh, Love?
Speaker 2 (38:43):
Actually was twenty twelve before or after?
Speaker 5 (38:48):
Tanya?
Speaker 4 (38:49):
Before two thousand and three? Quite a bit before two
to one? Beca, Tanya? What year did She's All That
come out?
Speaker 3 (38:56):
Nineteen ninety two?
Speaker 4 (38:58):
Nineteen ninety two? Was it before or after ninety nine?
And Becca has a three to one leaders on the
brink of victory In today's High Low Game, Becca, we
go to you for this one. Mandy Moore in a
walk to remember what year did that come out?
Speaker 2 (39:16):
Two thousand and two?
Speaker 5 (39:18):
We have a winner.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I was like, I was.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
So obsessed with that movie that was If I had
gotten that wrong, I would have been up something.
Speaker 5 (39:28):
Congratulations, Becca is the winner our game.
Speaker 2 (39:33):
Thank you, Thank you for putting that together.
Speaker 5 (39:38):
Mark as always enjoy our games.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
All right, everyone, We will be back on Thursday with
Candice King.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Can't wait to not wait.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
We love her, love her.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
Donya, I hope your dreams come true today and you
get to really enjoy your shaved watermelon.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
Dreams do come true.
Speaker 3 (39:59):
They are easy, really accessible, if you dream big, if
you dream small enough.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
I was trying to be encouragingly.
Speaker 1 (40:06):
Yeah, you dream small, you can achieve the dreams easy, erectly.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
All right, we love you, somebody love you.
Speaker 3 (40:12):
Bye bye,
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