LS Episode 470: Left on the Shelf (Quincy)

Singer/actor, Quincy joins the ladies of Lip Service this week to promote his latest project 'ETA.' Quincy opens up about his role as a bigger brother, reconnecting with his father, lying in relationships, and much more. Jordan even recalls the time they matched on Raya...enjoy!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's up is lip service. I'm ant like yee, I'm
g G maguire, It's Jeordie George and I'm Quincy. He's
a he's a trained actor the way you jump right
in R Well, cheers to you. Congratulations, E T A
E T A Earlier than anticipated. I tell people were
coming up with their whole own acronyms for what it
could stand for. Cheers G.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
I like to have fun all the time, and I
feel like if you can't get through to somebody the
first time through, you play with them a little bit
so you can understand. So I was just really like
introducing what redefining something really is, right because I look
at something, well, I look at everything different like how
the average person may look at something. I'm looking at
it like the last thing they would have probably saw

(00:44):
or thought of, almost like that's like my first thing.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
So I'm really your creativity works differently, yeah, and interpreting
things the great matter is it a gift or is
it a curse? You think because sometimes are you in
your head a lot? Take sip.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
I feel like it's a gift, majority but it is
a curse for sure, because I didn't expect somebody to
like get it like me, and then sometimes I can
just go so far over the head or just it
loses the connection, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
I mean that must be hard with data relate, Like
where did he come up with that?

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Say?

Speaker 4 (01:22):
It's a Gemini fact, y'all?

Speaker 2 (01:24):
It's crazy, r I really really really, I mean I
haven't been enough. I haven't been around enough signs really like, oh,
I know you, I knew, but the Gemini. Yes, I'm
a Gemini. You could as soon as you get around Jemis.
You just know.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
Listen, I've had some Gemini experiences. Geminis can also be
very like hot. Well, I guess that's by y'all have
split personalities hot and cold.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
But what is the hot and cold for you? Like
from experience, like.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
They could be the best thing that happened to you
at times and then at other times the worst. It's
like high highs and lo low.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
Yes, yes, you don't know which one you're gonna get, right, Well,
it all depends on you because we reciprocate, So we're
gonna get back now.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
I don't know about that.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
You know, she's major right there.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
We're not gonna let you geminis to write. There's four
of us right now, of us, because sometimes and that's true,
sometimes y'all interpret things the complete wrong way and you're like,
that is not at all, Like I just you know
what was happening here, And sometimes you'd be scared to
tell a Gemini something like I don't even want to
tell you. You don't know how they're going to be right.

(02:32):
You don't know what twin you're gonna get. It could
be something that's not your fault, but you don't know
what type of side of the bed they woke.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
Up on, and you know what it is. I think
it revolves around not being able to like read somebody instantly.
Of course we want to like pick up and you know,
I think we making the right move just because of
how we catching the energy catch with us. You're not
gonna like know at all. So you gotta really just
be true to you. You gotta just come with your confidence.
Don't think about us, think about you.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
I'm yeah, that's a good idea.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Think that will put it in your because we can
detect when you plot.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
But also I just feel like when y'all be mad,
we just let you be mad. I can't even like
trying to because we'll get over it. Yeah, be mad
by yourself. It over quick.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
It takes me a lot to get mad. But then
once I'm mad, it's a tough mad. But it ain't
for long, like you said, But you're don't feel that mad.
You gonna feel it. You gonna know I am not
fucking with you for right.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
Now at this time. Well, let's talk about ETA for
a second. The EPs out. It came out on August thirty,
eth did you write, like, tell me about your writing
process and how involved you were about that. I know
sometimes people take songs, but also how much input did
you have?

Speaker 2 (03:43):
I think with this project it was my first time
really diving into something that I can say it's in house,
fully produced by just my homides, produced by everybody who
I really bang on the regular the saying know, like
random feature here. Just because of this, I feel like
the process is where I really really really get to

(04:04):
like shine and really feel myself and be myself. And
sometimes when you collaborate and you may not get that,
you know, so with other projects. Not to say that
it's a bad thing, but I've always like took the
advice somebody was like, yo, work with this producer. I'm down,
you know, what I mean, because I like to collaborate,
but with this one, I think because I was really
just focused on like where I was putting my time
in space, and it was a process, but then it

(04:28):
wasn't like it put me in an uncomfortable position, the
fact that I was just working on it by myself. Okay,
but I think that's where I found the funding it.
That's why I was really like in my head and like,
what do I really want to convey, you know what,
because a lot of people still don't think or even
though I do music, which I love.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
Right, you know exactly musician executives.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
So it's the gifts and all that as well. But
I think this time I really took my time with it.
I wanted to give, you know, some of the conception
God conceptual, but at the same time too just something
to connect with and be real relatable because I'm just
like everybody else and people always oh my god, you're
so different than what I thought you would be, and

(05:13):
I'd be like, what does that really mean?

Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, you're quite nice perception versus reality.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
And it's like, I'm not doing nothing that puts that
on me, So why did you.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Even you know what I think you're not like out
there as far as there's not a lot of stuff
on you, you know, like you can't just be like,
you know, Quincyton did this so you see him on
the blogs, Like if we see you on the blogs,
it's not for some drama that you're involved in, you know,
and obviously like life LIFs and you have high profile

(05:42):
family members and then that puts you in a position,
but it's not because of you.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
And I guess what they don't know, that's what they
formulate themselves, or at the end of the day, it
just comes. Since we don't know this, we can only
assume that, and I think over time and time it
becomes something until they see otherwise. And that's kind of
what I'm doing. Like with every move I make, I'm
like trying to show the raw aspect of it and
not be so polished. And I'm stylishing to do all this,

(06:07):
but I'm like a superhero. I'll put the costume on,
I take that shit right off, you know, I mean,
and go handle some business.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
So it's that scary that you're exposing that part.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Of yourself, No, because I think it's vulnerable and I
feel like that's where people are going to connect with
first before they know anything. You can tell when somebody
is genuine, genuine, and it urts me when they're not.
And now you know you can't y'all stop doing that yourself.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, it's so not a genuine business though. I think
it's known for not being genuine. Like I've never heard
anybody be like, man, this music business, boy, it's really
very real, spiritual and real, and everybody's like, that's not
what we get business. It's rare when you find people
that you feel like, Okay, that person was man what

(06:58):
they said, and then with this and I rock with them.
Sometimes it's like you got to play the game. And
that's what it is like, because it is you know
people always like I know people who have come from
the streets and decided I'm want to start doing music
and get into business, and they're like, man, I can't
believe these people don't keep their word. This is going
to do this, or if you fall off, people really
don't mess with you. Like if it's all about being

(07:20):
I think transactional, what can I get? What value does
this person bring? And if they feel like you're not
valuable anymore, that it don't matter.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah, and That's how I've been moving even with this
project it's called ETA Earlier than anticipated, with that translatingto
like stripping away expectation, you know, just allowing yourself to
like really be because the distractions are going to be there,
you know, I mean regardless no matter what you do,
you I mean, life is going life. So like my
best advice is to just do you in the simplest way,

(07:48):
put right, you know, and people like, what what does
that mean? Respond off? Feel good? You know what feel good?
You know it don't And if you know you think
the negative stuff feels good, you got to work to
do I feel like it takes more to go the
other way. So it's like, imagine if you put your

(08:08):
energy somewhere else, that kind of like translate to actually
who you.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Are in a positive play.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
And that's something I like to try and do with people.
If I can, I feel like I got you a
little bit. I want to be able to open whatever else.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
Next level, next level, like this so different route, yes,
you know in a way, like everything that you're talking
about right now kind of reminds me of that. But
you know what you said in the song about not
being all the way happy yet, and I want to
talk about that because I know even for you doing music,
you said there was a lot of distractions, and even

(08:42):
when you came up here, I was like, Okay, did
they say you can't talk about this? You can't talk
about that? And so I wanted to make sure that
we're aware because I know you have been going through
a lot, whether or not people know it. I know
that's not easy for you, Like you haven't done anything wrong,
but it's hard. People think they're being funny, people are
on social media, you know, saying crazy things, and you
have sisters and brothers that you have to like protect,

(09:04):
you know as well. And so do you feel like
you've ever been all the way happy?

Speaker 2 (09:11):
I think happiness is a constant thing. I think you know,
you constantly keep your happiness. It fluctuates. It's definitely a
roller coaster. But I wouldn't say I've been happy a lot.
But I feel like when you continue your life and
you almost like checking to these new chapters and you know,
allowing everything to happen, you got to like check in

(09:33):
with yourself to like really see is what you're doing
making you happy or still making you happy? Because everything
got its time even with like what you're doing, not
just people, you know. So that's also to something where
I'm like really trying to listen to my gut because
I got little sisters to protect, to give advice. So
it's like if they ask me something, I want my

(09:55):
answer to be perfect because I want to be able
to like follow up with that check in and see
if my advice is working because I went through what
I went through, so I can only explain from my experience,
you know, not you know, they girls and at seventeen
about to.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Be women age and all in the spotlight, you know,
not willingly, but they are all in the spotlight.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
And my happiness lies there and only there, right, So
everything I do, I feel like I can talk to
them now as adults, you know, and it feels like
the connection there is what's going to like amplify my happiness.
You know. When I say I ain't all the way
happy yet, it's because almost like next phase of happiness,
you know what I mean now that my sisters are

(10:42):
grown ups.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Wait, I was going to say, the whole thing got.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
To be tough, way too late. They aren't even you.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
Met you met them?

Speaker 2 (10:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (10:51):
Cool, cool, You sound like the body that put them
to the side, or did they try letting process?

Speaker 2 (11:00):
We definitely had the had the little dinner. We definitely
had a little chat.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
I love that. It's good, you know, and that must
be so intimidating to date ether one of them.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
But they're not stupid, you know. I mean they so
on point. They got each other. So it's like you're
thinking you're gonna run any type of game. Good luck.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
They had last laugh every time.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
I love that and even for so what about acting?

Speaker 2 (11:25):
Right?

Speaker 1 (11:25):
First of all, I was so sad on raising Canaan,
you know, in.

Speaker 4 (11:29):
A way respectfully, I was not. I didn't like your character.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
I like a bad you know, we gotta look I
like a bad character. But we knew that was gonna
happen because we knew that he was trying, he wasn't
moving too smart. It happened. I think it happened a
little sooner than I expected it to. But Crown Como
and just so you know, Lulu, who killed you? He
was sitting right there twice. How crazy is it to

(12:02):
get killed on like a show?

Speaker 2 (12:05):
Fun? Fun? Because you better not take the way out
like I think sometimes the weight in to movies is
to be like, hey, can I get killed?

Speaker 1 (12:18):
Wow, I don't mind.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
Nobody be liking to.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Get killed because you want to keep your character going exactly.

Speaker 2 (12:23):
However, that's like a little undisclosed thing in the industry.
People get their first shots by being a guy right there.
It just be no words online, just get up, get murked,
you know.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
But how do you prepare for that though? Like, how
do you prepare to pass away?

Speaker 2 (12:38):
Well?

Speaker 1 (12:39):
What is a process?

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Let me see?

Speaker 1 (12:40):
What is it like to get choked?

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, you don't. But we did do rehearsals just to
be all the way honest, it's just funny because we
did a rehearsal, a safety rehearsal, and it just don't
feel real at all doing it that way. So me
and lou We was like, yeah, funk were they talking about?

(13:04):
We know we gotta do the safety ship, but we
know what we're doing because it just didn't feel real.
So I was trying to react. But from the way
that they.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
Was did you want to laugh? Like what do you
think about it? Low?

Speaker 2 (13:16):
Key? Was funny before it was serious, And I was like,
all right, we got to get serious, like my g
go ahead, like just just you got about good twenty
five seconds for real before I'm a panic so and
he took it there like it was no regulation regulation
follow in that one, just because, like I said, I

(13:38):
wanted to make it believable, no matter what, whether I've
never been strangled in my life.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
How you should giant? It enhances your orgasm with a
rope with a no g Yeah right, I ain't talking
about the hand, talking about extension our cave trying. Don't
recommend that one.

Speaker 4 (14:04):
You did really good. The glasses fell off and every thing.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
I was convinced my head hit the ground. That was
head hit ground. That wasn't really question.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
Yeah, like yo, bro chill out like you did a
good job.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Down, thank you. But it is scary to say, it's
scary to prepare for that.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
And did you like when you watched it? You have
parties where you're like myself? How how are you about
watching yourself after you film? Some people don't like to
do that.

Speaker 2 (14:30):
I don't get that. Why not?

Speaker 1 (14:32):
I don't know. It's cringey.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
It's a little why because it's you. Yeah, but that's
what I'm saying. Why are you doing it? I don't
know why even do it? Because millions of people going
to see it, you don't what's wrong with you.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
But when you put it that.

Speaker 2 (14:49):
Way, it's like when you hear your voice on like
camera for the first few.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
Times or on the radio, something I still can't stand.

Speaker 2 (14:55):
I feel like we always want to have an uncomfortable
space for ourselves. When we see ourselves in action, performing, speaking, anything,
it's a.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
Self criticism because you know you're gonna notice every little
thing like ooh, I could have done that better, or
maybe I should have done this a B or C
or made this decision. I think it's more that meditation.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
It always keeps you like chiseled right. If you feel
like you it, you're not. So it's like there's that
room to always try and do better. So you can't
look at it and say it's perfect, but somebody else can. Yeah,
so good as long as you don't think it's perfect.

Speaker 1 (15:30):
Improve better. Did you watch yourself on Summer House Martha's Vineyard?
Were you watching the episodes? I did watch the episode.

Speaker 4 (15:38):
There were scenes that I skipped and I'm like, ugh,
when I'm having a mental breakdown, I want to see that.
Or when I was talking to my dad. Sometimes that
was more difficult to see because, like photos of my mom.
My mom also passed away, so that was more tough
to see, but I.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Watched most of it. I was like, oh, I look
cute like that ain't going Yeah, and you too? Do
you got the documentary? Yeah? Well I've only seen the
first episode of that, the Magic City Documentary, but I
love to see it myself. I was like yes, every
time my popular heir, I was like, oh, I'm cute.

(16:17):
That's good. That confidence to be able to do that,
because I really do not like to. Really, it's crazy.
I'm on the radio every day. I don't really like
to listen to myself or watch myself. I do it
because I have to, but I really don't like it.

Speaker 4 (16:29):
Maybe it's the Capricornburg's Gemini thing. I don't know, because
that's what you're giving.

Speaker 1 (16:33):
Y'all love it.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
We're like, but when you say you don't like it,
you don't like it, or it's like you I just
do you rather yourather somebody else?

Speaker 1 (16:43):
I just be like, especially if like I'm with somebody
and they want to watch, I'm like, don't put that
on right now. I don't want to see it. I
don't like if you're with somebody and they want to
watch it. I don't want to see that. I feel that.
I know, you're right, I got to get over that.
But even let's talk about the video as well, because
that was a I want to talk about the concept
behind the video, because it was art involved in that.

(17:04):
You do you collect art at all?

Speaker 2 (17:06):
I started, I'm not in the major side of things yet,
but now my house got are everywhere.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Yeah, and I think it don't have to be like expensive,
not at all.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
But before I didn't know like what I liked, you know,
and now I'm starting to gravitate towards something like I
need this for the for the crib extead, like looking
for art. What should I put here? Ship is screaming out?
I mean even you know, in a little microdots rooms,
some ship like.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
That's coming with me. I know exactly Where'm gonna put
you in. It's so funny how shrooms is like, Okay,
now people used to be so judgmental because I've been
enjoying shrooms for like a lot. I always tell you, right,
it's a nice, you know type of feeling. Yeah, isn't
that crazy How people used to be like, oh my god,
you're doing Now it's like Hey, can we get the
chocolate with this, the mushroom tea and all of that.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
To be honest, I thought shrooms was like like worse
than like acid or worse than something else.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
I don't know why, but it's not.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
Until, yeah, until I tried it. It's actually so much,
so much.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
It's fun, but I think it also elevates whatever mood,
so it could not be fun to.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
You can't just do it just to do it. And
I feel like that's where we're kind of getting that.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
Yeah, I think God, I never had club.

Speaker 4 (18:26):
I had one where I could not go to sleep
for our words. I was up all day, all night,
and I'm like, okay, now I'm over this. We're just
sitting at the ceiling like what am I doing now?

Speaker 1 (18:38):
I'm over see. I feel like they were off pretty quick,
but I microdos like I wouldn't do, you know, because
I don't smoke or nothing, so I don't try to
do like too much of that.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
You remember that song Lou Wayne and Shoe keep Me up.
As we said, shrooms keep me up?

Speaker 1 (18:58):
That was. It also can make you cry.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
It's emotional.

Speaker 1 (19:04):
Yeah, it enhances your emotions for sure, Like you could
just and Ika if you're in a bad mood. No,
but I was in a good mood. I actually was
laughing so hard I was crying like zah laugh okay,
like that laugh. Yeah, that was a fun experience. Like
I was laughing so I couldn't stop laughing, and then
I couldn't stop crying and laughing. That was a nice feeling.

Speaker 2 (19:24):
Technically, you're supposed to have one of those every like
proper shroom trip. It's one of those like something that
just take you overboard laughing where you can't breathe, like
you telling them to stop. I can't breathe like that funny.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
But I did the first time I did it. That's
this is a long time ago. I had a boyfriend
at the time, and I actually went through his phone,
which yeah, but I normally wouldn't have done that, but
you know, the inhibitions were gone, and that's when I
found out. Let me tell you what I saw now
that that I'm thinking about this, let me tell you
what I saw in his phone. Right, He clearly was cheating,

(19:59):
and he told the girl that was texting him that
he had gotten locked up. Mind you, we were like
in the Poconos, not locked So he lied and said
that like he just got out of he got locked
up for some type of like speeding, some bullshit, and
I couldn't believe it. He was like telling her, Yeah,
I got locked up something something I never would have
seen that. I felt like God told me to look

(20:20):
through his phone un locked up.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
I mean, like, look, I cannot be contacted, don't exactly,
that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (20:26):
That was kind of a good one, though, I'm not
gonna lie because I feel like that's one guy's always
that's I was about to say, that's a go too,
locked up, So you can't use that because if you
got locked up on right maybe like word and I
think more back then because with the Internet and everything
being searchable in public knowledge right now, it's accessible, but
like back in the day, guys would definitely use that

(20:48):
I was locked up, especially over the weekend, because if
you get locked up on a Friday and you get
at home, yeah, yeah, are you like when it comes
to that, have you ever lied to women and gotten caught?

Speaker 2 (21:00):
No, I'm not because it hurt too much to have
to like keep up with it and the like.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
When you were younger. I felt like at point.

Speaker 2 (21:07):
For sure, definitely in the past, absolutely three times you realize, Okay,
now it's not worth This line is so not worth it,
because it'd be like two three weeks stretched out of
ship for one little moment, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (21:23):
Where keep the layers of the line.

Speaker 4 (21:25):
That's never just the one line.

Speaker 2 (21:29):
Other line. That's what I'm saying. You can't just do
it once. It don't make sense if you do it once.

Speaker 1 (21:33):
Next thing, you know, it was a whole story. Who
can keep up with that?

Speaker 2 (21:37):
Right?

Speaker 1 (21:37):
And then you forget you lied about something, and then
and they're like, wait.

Speaker 4 (21:40):
I thought you were saying something else.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Right, receipts everything. And the funniest is when you get caught,
like when you catch a guy and he's like when
you're like, wait, I thought you said that you got
locked up that weekend, and then you and they'd be
like what you mean and they try to change the subject.
I was lie for no reason. I wish they didn't.
I wish more memoirs.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
I lie little. I mean, I lie a little bit,
but like I'll tell somebody I'm somewhere else then I'm
not why because I don't want you to know where
I'm at.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
Okay, why do you want to know where? I'm at
okay now now it's coming out.

Speaker 2 (22:15):
My locations are not shared by nobody on my phone.
I got friends of mine who got thirty people locations.

Speaker 1 (22:21):
Oh, I don't have nobody. I have a lot of locations.
You do have a couple.

Speaker 2 (22:24):
I do.

Speaker 4 (22:25):
But the girls going out is different. It's like safety,
you know for sure?

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Yeah, I got my sister's location.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Okay, there you go. But they don't have you. They
don't have you, but.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
They could, but they don't care.

Speaker 4 (22:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:39):
I hate the straight just what you're doing or where
you're at?

Speaker 1 (22:42):
Yeah, because why yeah?

Speaker 2 (22:44):
Why? So? Now if I tell you something else and
if it's not really what you thought, then it ain't
gonna go nowhere. But if I say something that works
out for the reason you was hitting me up, follow up,
it's where you at scott Ivan school.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
You you terribalized cles.

Speaker 2 (23:05):
You know, if you need a favor or anything, maybe
I can get to it after after sky out in school,
But right now, what's going on? You can't tell me first?
You want to what you have, where you are, and
what you're doing first, like like.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
Are you busy tonight? And like it depends right, because
then you'd be like no, what's going on? And then
they actually do something you don't want to do and
you're like, oh, yeah, I was second thought. I am busy.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
See a meme that said it perfectly. It was like,
just because I'm free or just because I have free
time does not mean I'm available.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
I was like like like like like like share share share,
share share.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
You think you're like a loaner. You like to be alone.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
Yeah. I figured that out early on, because like, I'm
not like everybody else in like a lot of different ways.
It could just be I'm simple, right, but so not.
And I feel like the more and more I like
got to hang around people and just like be around
people and you know, say there's nothing to do, let's
just go hang with the homies. There's nothing getting out

(24:09):
of that. So it's like when I start being alone,
being alone, I was doing mad shit. Like your mind
be going, you know, and it goes to a million
different places when you're alone. And I feel like that's
a way to like actually just grow yourself without having
to like step out to the world and experience this. Yes,

(24:29):
do that too, but if you spend some time alone,
you're gonna meet that shit in the middle, and you're
gonna be up here next just because.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
You had time to figure it out.

Speaker 2 (24:39):
You had exactly you had your time when you got
a friend over. When you're doing this, you haven't. That's
your time, that's your time. So we need more of that.

Speaker 4 (24:48):
A lot of people don't get that though. That's what
I'm learning. I'm an only child and I live by myself,
and I'm like, I need that time to myself to
really feel what I'm feeling or wanting to get my
goal out or whatever it is.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
And people are like, oh, well.

Speaker 4 (25:02):
If you're not doing anything, I'm gonna pull up, I'm
gonna you know whatever, And they don't get that. And
then even when you're out and you're working, I'm trying
to do something. I'm not really hang out, you know
what I'm saying, And so they'll be like, oh, well,
I saw your stories. I'm like, but that doesn't.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
Mean I'm not still grinding. This is the part of
the worker picture.

Speaker 4 (25:20):
Yeah, And I feel like people don't appreciate the being
alone time.

Speaker 1 (25:25):
Right, I'm around people all the time, So when I
get like a little bit of time to be by myself,
I be I do value that, like to just be
laying on the couch or you know whatever. But I
still feel like I enjoy company a lot. You know,
I don't know what that is about me, but I.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
Do like to and I love company as well.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
I like to entertain, and.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
I feel like, see that'd be me, I know, I know,
I like I can bring shit out of people. Somebody come,
they board whatever, we're gonna vibe, something's gonna you can
just sit.

Speaker 1 (25:56):
I enjoy that, you know what I'm saying. And I
feel like people don't go to clubs much anymore. We
go to eat, or we go to like a little lounge,
but people are not partying like we used to. The
party the same. You're not really a partier.

Speaker 2 (26:08):
Right, Nope, it's I got a party with a purpose.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
I love that.

Speaker 2 (26:14):
It's like a purpose started start.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
For your reason. Yeah, we're celebrating something or it's work related,
not just because.

Speaker 2 (26:27):
Because as soon as I started to do anything where
the purpose is nowhere in sight, it just seemed like
a waste of time. And then I literally go down
a list of like things, what I could have did
I I've been putting off for two three days.

Speaker 1 (26:41):
I just did this instead of you. So we were
in Chicago and we had to go to our friend's
birthday party I was hosting, and we went out there
to support her. I was in the bed like until
like I got dressed and she was running late. I
got right back in the bed with my clothes like this, Yeah,
took my boots, got right back in the bed. I

(27:01):
was like, maybe we should go have it. We were
staying at Soho house. I was like, maybe we should
go have a drink and I was like, no, maybe
I'll just lay here. And you know, time is so
hard to motivate myself to do anything when you're as
busy as you are. Every little minute that you can
get the rest you need to take advantage of. And
I feel like that's what you did in that moment. Yeah,
I was laying there like watching ninety Dance. Yes, that's

(27:21):
my guilty pleasure I got. Could you imagine dating somebody
who doesn't speak English? Yeah, but you did it? I
have Okay, how was that? It's very tough because was
it like translator app they have those.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
Yeah, But it wasn't like completely lost, right, It was
just very broken to the point where it's like, I know,
this's not gonna last long, but I am very interested
and eager to try and see how to make it work.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
So was it more of like a challenge for you?
Did you learn a little bit of another language because
you kind of have to?

Speaker 2 (28:00):
Oh yeah, sure Spanish?

Speaker 1 (28:05):
Did you tell? I said, I know, you know how
to say that right there? Does it matter to you
if a woman has a boyfriend, have you been a
side piece?

Speaker 2 (28:17):
I'm sure that I probably ain't know, but yeah, I'm
sure it has happened.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Like if if you said Tennis novio and she said,
see pedal.

Speaker 2 (28:32):
No, listen, I the drama, leave me the furthest away
from it.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
If that can only turn into some.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
Like even if that conversation goes anywhere, I'm not acting
on it, you know, I mean like, I'm not gonna
I'm gonna let you show your ass, but yeah, I'm
not about to entertain.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
The last thing we need is to see Quincy on
the blog some girl done some girl's boyfriend and hit
him up.

Speaker 2 (29:09):
It's happened, and that's why I'm so far away from
like entertaining any of it. Just be honest. As long
as you're being honest, don't lie. And that's what happened.

Speaker 1 (29:20):
Allow me to decide to choose to involve myself in
your situation. Don't know what you had somebody hit you
up because you was dating their girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (29:29):
Well know like are you hit the blog? No? But
hit me up, like damn like checking me in a sense.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
And I was like, what's happening here?

Speaker 2 (29:41):
So then I did my little ship that y'all do.
And I was like, I was like, since I didn't specifically,
you ain't tell me specifically.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Okay, that's true that because that's what y'all do.

Speaker 2 (29:52):
You're right, You're right. I like to talk, but if
you not, I'm not tell.

Speaker 4 (30:00):
You asking the right questions exactly?

Speaker 1 (30:02):
What are the right questions to ask when you first
Are you in a relationship?

Speaker 4 (30:05):
Are you in a relationship? Do you think they're in
a relationship with you?

Speaker 1 (30:08):
That part, that's the that's the follow up, Yeah, question,
that's that Are you single? Does the person you're having
sex with know you're a single? Because everybody got somebody
or not.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
I've learned that the hard way. And even though you
can fully be straight up and transparent in the beginning,
and I say the beginning is that first time or
second time if you're not speaking again, on it. Just
because we on the fifteenth time don't mean like things

(30:39):
are like headed now to the moon.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
I mean fifteen times, but fifteen times something though, you
know what I mean, y'all are dating it two times?

Speaker 2 (30:53):
Is I'm not saying that you want to just keep
no for sure, y'all definitely dating in a sense. But
I still think there's a there's this room to speak
on it if we just like having sex and were
not talking about nothing, that fifteen times is like one time.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
Because there's the communication, right, because sometimes people think that
it is indicative, like if he keeps on calling me
even though he hasn't taken me nowhere and I haven't
been that of his friends. You know, some people feel like,
what he's terrible. You said, what that's terrible?

Speaker 4 (31:28):
You don't even need to talk to that man ever. Again,
he hasn't taken you anywhere. It's a dub. Y'all are
definitely not dating at that point. Well, yeah, what's a
date night for you? Like, if you were going to
take somebody.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
Out, definitely somewhere eat spot, I eat good.

Speaker 4 (31:44):
Okay, So do you have a go to like that's
my date restaurant?

Speaker 1 (31:48):
Where the host is like here he come again, Who's
who's in the queue?

Speaker 2 (31:59):
That's that's my specialty, no go to. So I found
somewhere new every time.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
That's nice, that's Gemini.

Speaker 2 (32:05):
Yeah, I found something new every time, And just because
I'm such a foodie, I will like find it right,
it's out there, and so if I can put you
on the food that's one point added to the board.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
But sometimes you go to a restaurant that's not your
go to, you've never been to, y'all experimenting and it's
not not what it looked like.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
Yo, you're right. I definitely have some bad experiences, but
I feel like I got good judgments now to where
it's like I'm gonna tell you somewhere watch.

Speaker 4 (32:38):
Was like what was the worst? What was the worst experience?
When you took someone somewhere new and you were like
you done that?

Speaker 2 (32:46):
Mmmmmmm, let's see, should have done that?

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Indian food? And then.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
Right, oh yeah, I love it.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
But I have to go home.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
All right? Perfect you are? You just set the all.
So I'm trying to figure out exactly what this allergy
I got is? Oh, all right, check it out. So
if I eat anything that just has like a combustion
of spices. I literally start sweating, like something wrong with me,

(33:19):
not like a little dry or I'm talking about face.
You might want to like ask your friend like okay,
you need a ben it's right, No, no, it's that bad.
So that's been my like flaw lately. It ain't about
the food, even because I like the food right my body,
don't I love.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
It's hard for a lot of people to eat sometimes
because it's so much spice.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
Yeah, like don't let me go on that the hot ones,
hot wings.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
So it's over. Fore I could do that. I love space.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
I would love to do it, but it will fuck me.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
So what's your cuisine of choice?

Speaker 2 (33:55):
Japanese sushi? Yeah, and my magic is putting people who
hate sushi on to sushi and now you love sushi.
I promise you. I promise you.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
I promise. Okay, I see it and that.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
I feel like that's it. That's what I like about
my perspective. It is like I'm not thinking of this
the normal first thing. So it's like I think everything
I do with the approach is always like, oh, I
might just taught you something new when it's just my
regular day. And that's kind of fun to know.

Speaker 1 (34:31):
Like, oh, wow, what's the longest relationship You've been in?

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Longest like three three years? My first first relationship was
quite long. That was like four out of high school. Yeah,
I mean out of how it's crazy when you like
in school and then out of high school. It's such
a it's.

Speaker 1 (34:54):
Two different different, two different worlds.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
And something I struggle with, but I end up always
any situation is long distance.

Speaker 1 (35:04):
Who move around and long distance relationships are hard already,
but when you're somebody like you that is constantly probably
traveling for work and things like that, it just throws
a monkey wrench into the situation that makes it so
much harder.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
And it's not like I'm meeting them long distance. Y'all
meet me where I'm at.

Speaker 4 (35:21):
The Yeah, I have a question for you. So you
and I matched once on Riah.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
I thought you looked familiar.

Speaker 4 (35:35):
Wait, I did not know that you didn't know this
so well, we met because was my showrunner, Okay, and
we met with John and will Over everybody.

Speaker 1 (35:44):
So neither of us side anything.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
We later it expire.

Speaker 4 (35:47):
We expired, And so what is the dating app etiquette? Like,
who's supposed to say something?

Speaker 1 (35:53):
What are you supposed to say? I would wait to say.
So you didn't get no cushi, you know nothing nothing.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
Let me just tell you to I mean dating etiquette.
I don't know of. What I'm actually working on in
the back end is a dating app. But I've been
working on it for like sometime a year because I'm
like trying to figure out what really is the I
feel like they all got they all do, and I
feel like it's because they're just trying to do too much.

(36:27):
So it's like simplifying everything I think would be the
new answer. But I'm gonna take it off. I'm gonna
take you to some you know what that is. Yes,
so I got this perfect, I got this new spot
that I know of and I ain't never been so
let me.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
Know. But if you, if you do the dating ap,
I should be calling no response since you didn't you know.

Speaker 2 (36:54):
But no. But it's funny. When I saw you, she looks.

Speaker 1 (36:57):
She looks for me.

Speaker 4 (37:00):
It was me.

Speaker 2 (37:01):
But are what do you call it? The ship expired?

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Yeah, whatever it's supposed to be will always be.

Speaker 2 (37:10):
See we meet in person, And guess what I like
the most is real in person organic ways to me.
That's also to the fun up part about the day,
it's like when do you meet this person?

Speaker 1 (37:21):
Like what how do you make it? But it's probably
hard for you to go out and meet people, like
in general, because you don't know what somebody's intentions are.
You don't know anything about them. And when you go
on to app, at least I could like see who
you are Google you see a different picture, and see
your likes, see if you can spell properly. Have you
been on the data gap Angela? No, I haven't either.

(37:43):
I've never, but I just tough. I'm like always in
a relationship. I'm not, but either, but everybody always talks
about how you know about Rya, So well, we'll see
that's the one. It's like an invite only.

Speaker 2 (37:54):
Right, Yeah, And that's why I got on it, just
because like not even for the dating purpose. But my
boy bigged it up to be like yo vibe. I mean,
you just meet people from all these companies this and that.
This girl's on there too, but you can you know,
And I was like, all right, and I don't even
like I said, be on it for real, like that

(38:14):
I got it.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
Did you respond to anyone?

Speaker 2 (38:17):
No, for sure, But that's what I'm saying. I don't
be on it like that, so I'm not checking on
it every day, And they got like a what is
it six days or five?

Speaker 1 (38:25):
Yeah, you only have but a few days even.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
I may not open it for a week time. So
even the way it works, I feel like it makes you.
I mean, they want that retention, you know, but I
feel like it needs to be a little more cater
to you. Like, I agree, why are you going to expire?

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Yeah that's too fast. Give me time to get to it.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
I got a week to figure out if i want
to engage you.

Speaker 1 (38:49):
Like, but if I'm busy this week, I mean, it's real,
that's real. I feel like she was left on the shelf,
kind of like how you left on the show.

Speaker 2 (38:59):
Get But I think it's time I start changing my ways.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
Next line step one, while you left J on the show.
I love this. This is okay. I like this. So
you said you're going to do your own dating app,
and you're working on that, all right.

Speaker 2 (39:24):
And then what it is is more so a social
experiment that I know is going to turn into a.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Day now Okay.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
I don't want to say just because it's like a
TV show too. It could be it could be easily
and That's why I really want to like exercise my
just knowledge first before I start really talking about it.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
What did you say you were looking for? Yeah? Like
what if you have to say, you know, for somebody
to match with you, Like, what are the things that
you're looking for? Not to put any competition on you, Jordan,
you know what my.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
Phrase is, no time to date, only create mm hmm.
But that could be a child. Wow, we can create
a baby.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
You definitely can't create a baby, but with no date,
we can't.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
But I'm saying no time to date, but time to create.
If we can stimulate each other somehow on a creative level,
and that even brings us somewhere to talk outside of that,
That's why I feel like we got space to do everything.
You gotta find some something that brings us together first,
even if it's something work related, even if it's something

(40:35):
that did.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
And if it's something work related, but something.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Got to be a common ground, like common denominator somewhere,
but like a good one. It can't be we both
like blue, we both.

Speaker 4 (40:49):
Like okay, things in common.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
So that's why it's like even with like on set,
like when you got like a love interest and you
start kissing and you all start having sex scenes, you
all start doing like you start you're starting to actually
like do things with this person, right, So that could easily.

Speaker 1 (41:09):
Be a connection.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
Connection, But just all of that, they didn't have nothing
to do with nothing else. But that's why a lot
of these actors, you know, they don't. You're not supposed
to say actress no more.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Yeah, yeah, we say e's an act everybody.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
So that's why you know that ends up happening. And
I feel like that's okay if it happens. So it's
a work it's a workspace work relationship, but.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
The connection is there, there was a connection there. Do
you feel like you're open, Like, do you feel like
when it comes to a relationship, because you know a
lot of us have like our own things that we're
dealing with, But do you feel like you're open for
love and to love somebody and to share and be
vulnerable and have that you feel like you're open for that?

Speaker 2 (41:57):
Halfway? I feel like that's a no no because it's
not because like the space that is taking up by it,
it's like my family stuff, So it's I could easily
let up. I'm just not because it's my family you know,
I don't have to worry about it right now. However,
once I really open up the other side, I'm not

(42:18):
going to be able to focus so much on over
there with the fan this and that. So that's why
I feel like it's it's fair, but it could be
unfair for the woman, you know what I mean at first.
So it's like, as long as you we both got
to sacrifice something somewhere. So it's like that'd be my
first thing too. It's like I don't give a talk

(42:41):
about you, but I do. But why I don't about you?
It's because you're not respecting me, but give it. Giving
my family my my my priority. Yeah, I tell you
that you don't respect my time, my family.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
I saw you and you're little still love to post
it up so cute, you know?

Speaker 2 (43:03):
Is weird?

Speaker 1 (43:04):
Is it hard for you to decide? Like, because sometimes
I know that you don't post everything like that, and
then people want to like weigh in and say, like, Cate,
social media is a weird, crazy place, you know, and
so how is that for you? Feeling like I can
be open and do this because you have so much love.
She's such a cute little girl and so innocent and sweet.
But then is it like, oh my god, I post

(43:25):
this it now people are gonna say crazy shit some
of them.

Speaker 2 (43:28):
People gonna say shit regardless, you know. And I feel
like you got to just have thick skin. If not,
then don't involve yourself into it. You know, it's like,
don't get in the ring. I mean, if you don't
want to get hit. Don't get in the ring if
you don't want to because the Internet is made up

(43:51):
of a lot of fucking people. But what about the
people who are not on who got just as much
of an opinion it may be possible, who ain't saying something?
You know, everybody get the when you're doing bad, you
don't get the majority were good. So that's what the
Internet is, That's what the commerce is. It's like, yeah,

(44:11):
somebody may give you a pattern back when you did good,
that's my majority. They're not doing that all the time.
Every single time you're doing something good, you're not getting that.

Speaker 1 (44:19):
Even acknowledge it won't even get posted the Internet.

Speaker 2 (44:24):
It's actually that polar opposite, right. I feel like, you know,
I grew up in a great household. I got rhino coat,
thick skin, thick skin, and I feel like with my family,
Like I'm so cut throat with that, like there's no,
there's no, there's nothing that could.

Speaker 1 (44:46):
That's the thing, because I feel like people could talk
shit about me, but if you say something about my family,
that's what they know makes you mad. Listen, that's the thing.
You say whatever you want about me, it's over.

Speaker 4 (44:56):
It's over with.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
I'm willing to like, yeah, I'll go to jail for
the family right.

Speaker 1 (45:11):
Now. And also because you publicly did this letter to
your father, did you guys ever, like you know, link
up come to any type of yeah, be cool now.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
I want to just talk to him. A couple of
days ago, he was congratulating me on the album. But
this isn't like a I think we got a it's
a cool relationship, right, It's not the he tends to
like try and do like the dad thing a lot,
but it's like that's not really where we're at in life.
Like we homies more than anything. We're like, let's go

(45:46):
do something, you know what I mean? And I feel
like that's kind of where we're getting that now is
actually knowing that we're two grown men, you know what
I mean. We can talk about anything and everything it's
not about anything else.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
He would apologetic, which he took accountability, which I think
is a that's hard, you know, because I think we
hear from we see this parents who feel like they
made mistakes and they weren't doing what they should have
been doing. Make mistakes, yeah, but then you also have
to think about how those actions affect somebody else. But
I'm glad that you guys are doing that, and you

(46:20):
wrote that open letter. What made you even say I
want to do that?

Speaker 2 (46:25):
I was sharing my well, I went to dinner with
somebody and I saw Russell Simmons there and he's like,
how are you just a little quick catchup. I think
we got on the topic of him, and he was like,
what do you mean you haven't spoken to him? And

(46:47):
I was like, well, I'm trying to figure out the
best way to do so, you know. And I think
that's kind of what he introduced me, almost, to like
the way and to get your feelings out there, you know,
and to not feel like nobody know what's going on,
you know, because ever, of course say whatever, but then
if I can actually say something.

Speaker 1 (47:07):
Control your own narrative exactly.

Speaker 2 (47:09):
It controls my own narrative and I feel like it
was a little block before that, but it was just
something I just wanted to just get off my chest
and let people know because people always just you look
just like your dad, and you look just like your dad,
so it's like, you know, if you ain't even got
no real like relationship with him, and you're hearing that.

Speaker 1 (47:30):
Everything here, you're just like, okay, okay, but you know, I.

Speaker 2 (47:35):
Love my dad, and like I said, we're way in
a better place.

Speaker 1 (47:39):
I mean, that was years ago, but I think here's
something that a lot of people are related to. Yeah, yeah,
for sure, you know, and I commend you for even
doing that and how he handled it too, I think was,
you know, a positive thing. I feel like being in
the space that you're in, as far as your start
being so bright, you can inspire people who might be
in that same situation to do and to be the

(48:01):
first one to extend themselves to bridge that gap with
the parent. That's the goal, really, because that's one of
your superhero traits.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
I'm relatable in way too many ways, then, I guess
you think, and if I can actually get through to
somebody from that, I don't got a bad bone in
my body. So It's like I feel like whatever I
got to say or respond with, it's only gonna be
a positive into however you take it. You know what
I mean or perceive it.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
I never heard nobody say you were an asshole. And every
time I seen you, you've always been really nice. And
you know it's Gemini get that bad, especially the man
the only Gemini men or can be assholes. But yeah,
I haven't heard that about you either.

Speaker 2 (48:42):
I will say no, I will say I can be an.

Speaker 3 (48:49):
You not gonna get it if you don't pull it
out of nowhere near I'm never just even though I
wake up on the wrong side of the bed, I'm
not gonna give you.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
That that energy.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
But let's say you got something going on, Oh you're
about to let him shine.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
How do you determine like who has good intentions with
you and who doesn't when it comes to women and dating,
is it hard or do you have some type of
radar that kind of gives you you can your intuition.

Speaker 2 (49:18):
I got a good support system, like a good I
got a great best friend. So it's like I got
some questions advice. It's like coming from a different place.
It ain't just coming from like what they may think,
you know, so you can't read nobody one hundred percent anyway,

(49:39):
so you got to like let him in, and like
the quicker, you let him in the show themselves. But
you still got to.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
Like feel it out, feel it out. You know, you
meet the representative first, so you got to get through
the representative first to really see the genuine person that's
behind that.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
And sometimes I try and like fully fully fully show
all size of me, all my colors whenever I can,
especially in the beginning of something, because I hate when
something happens and then it's like, oh, all of a sudden,
you're brand new. Yeah, it's I hate to like feel

(50:17):
like you're getting somewhere and then you just got to
ship the black down and you like really into it.
But you know, I feel like that's also too. You know,
people don't meet you like you said where they meet you,
and if you don't let them in, they gonna get
like I said, show they ass or you got to
start making your mature decisions. But I've been I've been

(50:39):
played with a lot, you know, and I feel like
I ain't got no time for that no more.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
So have you ever been dumped like somebody broke up.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
With you because they wanted, Oh.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
You want to have kids? Though I do, I'm just
not with her.

Speaker 2 (50:53):
I was at the time. I did, but she was
like eight years older and it was like, right in
a time world. I couldn't even think about that, and
I'm hungry.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
Her biological clock was ticking and you're just on snooze
and you.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
Know, and it felt ultimatumy and I was like, Christy,
think something.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
Like isn't scary for guys when a woman tells you
she wants to have a baby, and now every time
you have sex, you're thinking she about.

Speaker 2 (51:21):
To about Wow that thumb tach.

Speaker 1 (51:28):
Yeah, because you just if somebody tells you that and
you're like, I gotta want to. Women sometimes might be like, well,
we're gonna just I know he's responsible.

Speaker 2 (51:35):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (51:36):
It's just like if you have to do all of that,
it's not your person. And I want us as women
to realize that it's just not for us in that moment.
And sometimes it's just trusting the timing. It might be
the right person, wrong time, but just trust the timing.
It's not supposed to be right now.

Speaker 1 (51:50):
Like sometimes women think if I get pregnant, he'll come around, right,
they think that, like they'll be.

Speaker 4 (51:55):
Like, well, you know, we just and I feel like
it never works out that way, and then you trap
somebody in something they don't want.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
To be in.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
Do you feel like you need to get married first?

Speaker 2 (52:03):
No, but I do want to marry. Yeah, you know
baby's mother.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
It's always ideal, Like.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
I'm not like thinking of.

Speaker 1 (52:14):
In specific order in.

Speaker 2 (52:15):
Musical Yeah, I'm not thinking about that first. Like I'm
honestly just because I've been raised in such a household
with kids and I see so many people with kids.
I really see what that does and I feel like
you can get to that and that be more effective
than playing a wedding and all that like that comes

(52:36):
with that.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
Do you think about your wedding? I know women do that,
but do you think about your wedding?

Speaker 2 (52:40):
And I started. I just went to my boy Indian
wedding in London last week.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
Wow, I'm sure that was the.

Speaker 2 (52:52):
Shenanigans.

Speaker 1 (52:53):
My brother went to an Indian wedding in India and yeah,
he said it was while he was so it was crazy.

Speaker 2 (53:01):
But definitely definitely think about it. I don't know if
I want to have it extravagant though, but you know, I.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
Can't see you not having an extravagant winning First of all,
I know you're gonna be dressed like, uh, that's already,
know what your suit ready? If anything, I don't know
who the woman, but yeah, all right, so we can
see all of that happening. And I know, like I
so you never at some point when did you decide,

(53:28):
like now if somebody you were dating and you would
want to have a kidnaw, because previous.

Speaker 2 (53:33):
Especially since baby love around, baby fever, baby fever like
no other.

Speaker 1 (53:40):
She is so cute, I'm sorry, Like she is adorable.
I'm sure she's the sweetest thing.

Speaker 2 (53:46):
She looked fake life, She looks fake on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
She's she seems like she's very smart already. You can
tell how she's communicating with you, and she.

Speaker 2 (53:55):
Take everything in. Know how to act, yeah, you know
how to like move like that.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Imagine if you had a kid, that would be wild.
Life would change so much.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
My favorite thing to do was sing sing with her.
Every time I come around, I got like a little
new jingle, new song, say like my last post, like
she was, she was listening to the wheels on the
bus goes around there around. So then we went outside
and we got a little golf cart and I was like,
the wheels on the bus go. She was like, but

(54:28):
the first time she ever did like a call and
response this. Yeah, I find just so much joy into
like seeing how I mean, even she's so little, but
they pick up babies back in the day. Wasn't picking
up everything that you sat down, or maybe there was,

(54:50):
but you know what I mean, it's a real different
day and age. And I would love to raise kids today, not.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
In that later Where would you Okay, I.

Speaker 2 (54:59):
Don't know, or maybe somewhere in LA but nowhere near
just like all the.

Speaker 1 (55:04):
City spot because a lot of people's kids go to
school together, like all these people. It's actually probably great
networking though.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
Very that school, yeah, Hurricane, Yeah, that school.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
Everybody's kids go to.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
Everyone. I'm talking, I'll be having like this. Friends from
my town hit me, Hey, you're going to see Hurricane
game to night like you. Yeah, I'm like, oh my god,
let's go.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
Now, let's talk about this EP like you said, because
I know you have to get out of here soon.
But it took you a while. How long did it
take you to decide it's ready to put out?

Speaker 2 (55:43):
It's a tricky question because I say I was working
on it for real for like a year, but everything
on there might have eight nine years of work on it.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
Oh wow, the.

Speaker 2 (55:56):
Last on the project it's ten years old. Oh wow,
I recut it. I read not everything you fixed it up.
Not everything though like a lot of it is there.
But that was one of my most like meaningful songs.
It's called set of Trap, and what it means is

(56:18):
I was giving this girl, like my awe right, trying
to like ask her every little thing so I can
just make sure I'm feeling in the blanks because I
don't know you at all, but we hit it off
so crazy, and I know your lifestyle is similar to mine.
I'm not gonna say her name because she married today,
but y'all know her.

Speaker 4 (56:41):
AND's like doing the map like good luck you may
but I'm.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
Not gonna say name. But so but I never really
put that song out, but that song always spoke to me,
you know. And really what it was is when you
like come to just an understanding with somebody and they
still feel like you aren't giving them your all. You
feel like defeated, like wait, what what am I not done?

Speaker 1 (57:09):
What am I doing wrong? What's missing, you know.

Speaker 2 (57:11):
And that shit really be affecting you. If you really
like love somebody and they telling you that, You're like, no, no,
I'm giving you. Like what else? What do you? So?
In the hook, I say I want to tell you
something I don't want to yes or no? Right, we

(57:33):
have to talk about it. No, yes, no answers, And
I said, I need an explanation. Our situation is about
to lose control on different levels going through the same phase.
No matter where you move to, I'm going to always
be in your way. Is it love or is it
less with you? Either way, I hope you don't say
this to other dudes. And if I'm tripping, then you

(57:56):
must have set a trap because guess what, Q would
never do like that. So it's almost like, are you
putting something on me to not allow me to get
closer to you? Are you? Are you sitting in the
barricade because it's not me? But you got to actually
say that because nothing else don't make sense right now.
So this is like a check in to see hold on,

(58:19):
you're blocking the blessing I mean, not me, And I
feel like that's a common thing in relationships. It's like
if you don't check in after that, Like, once you're
doing your thing, you gotta just like have a check in,
because everything got phases, like even a year what they

(58:41):
call it a quarter, one, two, three, four.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
We've all.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
Change from last week to this week. But if you
just existing and then not allowing it to exist together,
you hurdles.

Speaker 1 (58:59):
Did you her hear it?

Speaker 2 (59:01):
Oh she heard it? She heard back in the day. Yeah, yeah,
yeah for sure.

Speaker 1 (59:05):
And how did she feel?

Speaker 2 (59:06):
I mean, she loved it. She definitely was like, oh
my god, I her voice on it and ship. But
I took that out.

Speaker 1 (59:14):
Yeah, did it change anything? You know, I'm amazing. It
must be to date somebody who's a singer that can
write a song about you. It could be an awful
experience or a great one, but for that that might
have brought some understanding and changed. It did, And we
definitely had sex.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
Right not right after, but I think we tried to,
you know, figure it out, and then it just like
I said, she was just getting into the industry and
there was a lot of extras that would be talked
about before.

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Obviously, Well you devastated when she got married.

Speaker 2 (59:53):
Oh no, I was.

Speaker 1 (59:55):
I was, he was already are you invited to the wedding.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
Yeah no, oh no, I'm not going to. I thought
you may be thinking about that just now you invited.
I'm not going to know ex WEDDINGSDA if they send
me an invite, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (01:00:11):
Going friends with none of your exes, I am.

Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
But don't send invite to a wedding.

Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
On the invite just politely. Oh man, would you because
sometimes you know y'all be lying, like the guy might
not know that y'all dated, and you know, would you
invite your excess to your wedding? Any of them?

Speaker 2 (01:00:34):
Maybe one? But no, I don't think that's okay.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
Just one? Maybe me? Right, Jordy Joe, you're ready because
you know what, you got to ex her off the list. Wow,
I'm a secure girl. Just you said, what excess? Being
secure is very important and attracted for men and for
women to by the way, So but listen, I know

(01:00:57):
they're saying you gotta go, but honestly, like this is
I'm glad that you because they were like Quincy's come,
I said, is he really gonna come? Or is he
gonna like at the last minute? But this practic people
are gonna love it if they haven't had a chance.
It just came out, you know, like when this comes
out a week and a half ago. But congratulations, thank you,
thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
I'm really about to just take a different approach and
an aggressive approach, like with the music. Like people don't
I do this every single day, Like I'm not on
a movie set every week. People are like, Yo, why
ain't you in this movie?

Speaker 1 (01:01:26):
Watch you anymore?

Speaker 2 (01:01:28):
Y'all know how this shit work. This ship is not
just roll over and you be on the marble set, right.
I'm trying. I'm trying to get there. But you know
something where I really dedicate my mind, body, and soul
into a craft is the music. And I work better
for other people even than I do for myself. So
even the space I've created at my home, I bring

(01:01:49):
people in, I create with them. I'm executive producing, I'm producing.
It ain't just about me.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
I'm second trying.

Speaker 2 (01:01:55):
That's about you first living up to that name, Quincy exactly.
So I feel like that's kind of, you know, the
direction I'm going in. You know, by the end of
the year, I may drop two more projects. So it's
gonna be oh.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
Wow, really almost the end of the year now exactly exactly,
look they a little bit quarter okay, no games, quarter work, Lebron,
some of that profile down.

Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
You're too busy for no time today. I only create.
Do you remember? Do you remember what I said when
we matched? Was it? Did it say that?

Speaker 4 (01:02:27):
It might have said that, might have said that, I
wish I took a picture but you're not supposed to.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
Oh yeah, yeah, I tried before Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (01:02:33):
It's like, yeah, strange, do it again. Wow, they're not playing.
You got to give us a check, believe time. But
honestly earlier than anticipated. I know you have other things
going on. You definitely got here earlier than anticipated too.
I love that, Yes, you really yeah on brand because

(01:02:54):
you know me, I'm always ready for everything, so early
it is on time, and on time is late, and
late is lately. But thank you for your professionalism, but
also thanks for just always being so kind and you know,
just always wishing you the best, because I could tell
even by some of the lyrics on this album, you
definitely have been going through a lot and even the

(01:03:15):
process of getting this done. So I'm happy for you,
and we celebrate.

Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
You, and I appreciate you. I appreciate you all you
know for even bringing me into the space because, like
I said, it's been a lot going on and I
just want to keep it consistent, keep it authentic, keep
it genuine, and keep it moving. I'm not trying to
do no pr stunt moves this that it's not who
I am.

Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
No, I love you honestly, I told you. I was like,
did I say it? Don't talk because I'm also respectful,
So I ain't going to do nothing crazy. If you
put something, yeah, we'll talk about it. But you know,
I want you to be happy, comfortable, and we also
want to make sure we focus on the music and
acting all the amazing things you have going on, because
you've always been a positive person. So again, I'll be back,
Yes you will. You need a guess now, please anytime

(01:03:55):
I feel we really going next time?

Speaker 2 (01:04:01):
This is what do you call it? Uh? You said earlier,
this is the right. This is the fourth player said.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
I did not say that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
No, you said you said this. The reference when you meet,
when you meet a girl, represent representatives is the representative state.

Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
Next time, we're go get the We're gonna break them
barriers down. Next time we're gonna get the raw and
UNCUTD fraction. But thank you so much, for me. Congratulations
E t A y'all, E t A