May 7, 2024 • 26 mins
Chilli explains why "Baby Reindeer" is so good on Netflix. You can now send audio emoji's on Google phones. Did your parents ever want you to follow in their footsteps? Toby talks about getting help from his brother for the first time. Plus we talk to Kim from Joppa, MD about her Crazy First Date and we get the answer to our Nearly Impossible Question!
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Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand onninety seven point one Wash Up Out.
Oh can you not be thankful whenyou get to wake up and go and
get coffee, even if you spillsome of it on your jersey, your
minor league baseball jersey. Getting upin the morning and knowing that you have
the freedom to be able to goget coffee is a little thing that we
take for granted. It's something thatgives me some joy before five o'clock this
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morning. Very nice, makes mefeel good. Ninety seven point one wash
u F M. Toby and Chillyin the morning. How you doing this
morning there, Chili? You areeverything good in your world today? Yeh
yeah, yeah, no coffee spillageover here. I like that. There's
a free tea in our kitchen,so I'm taking advantage of that this morning.
Free tea. It's the little thing. See, it's the it's the
weird like pollen or something in theair that's giving me a little bit of
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in my throat. Yeah no,there was a whole lot of that going
right yan. It kind of throwsit up for right. See, the
rain normally is supposed to knock itdown. But I will say this.
I saw in Boston over the weekend, a T shirt that talked about how
it was it cracks some joke aboutthe weather, and they're like, oh
my bad, that's just the pollenit is, and you know, the
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pollen is reaping havoc on people.It's you know, not to mention the
fact that that it's warm one day, cold the next, warm, one
day cold the next, plus pollen. I mean, your body can only
take so much. But keeping aneye on the little things in life.
At least there's free tea to helpcoach your throat. That's true. And
and and by the way, youcan develop allergies later in life. Just
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because you never have them as akid doesn't mean you'll never have them when
it comes to no environment. It'snot that I have allergies. I'm just
saying, well, you know,one never knows. But it's very true.
I mean, like, you know, your body might be okay one
day, but then you know,two weeks later, your body shows up
to remind you, hey, thisis different now. It's not like it
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used to be. You know,yes, but then again, at least
you have that life. So keepyour eye on what's positive today. As
we get into this Tuesday in theNation's cow But on ninety seven point one
WASHFM is on at eight sixty sixninety seven forty three sixty one talk back
microphones wide open too. I understandyou're a fan of Baby Reindeer on Netflix.
Yeh, Chili. I binged itwhile I was recovering, and let
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me tell you there's a reason whypeople love this show. Well, stay
there, tell us everything, andmaybe somebody allowed that to their binge.
This list coming up as we closein on another weekend that's minutes away.
Here at ninety seven point one WASHFM, Good Morning, Baby Reindeer, but
not the Santa Kind. Ninety sevenpoint one WASHFM, Toby and Chilly in
the Morning. You might want toadd this to your binge. This list,
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Chili, Why is this something you'rehooked on right now? This show
Baby Reindeer on Netflix? Well,I watched it probably maybe in two days.
It's seven episodes and it's on Netflixbased on a true story of this
struggling comic who is stocked by awoman that he meets while he's bartending.
For years now, I thought itwas going to have like a misery esque
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vibe to it. You know,stalker, crazy woman coming after a guy.
But it's disturbing for other reasons.It shows you how when you need
so much validation in life that themoment somebody gives you any kind of kindness,
you sort of get addicted to thatand it's like a weird relationship with
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the person who's giving you the attention. Does that make any sense? It
does. Netflix is very good abouttaking psycho stuff and adding it to true
crime related sorts of stuff and tellinga great story. And that's one of
the reasons why I believe Baby Reindeeris all the rage right now. It's
viral for a reason because it's deep. It's it's a depth. It's a
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deep dive into a part of thehuman psyche, which is something that's not
really always comfortable to talk about.But nonetheless people are fascinated, much like
looking at a dumpster fire. AndI think the reason it's disturbing is because
maybe there's a part of us thatgoes wow, that potentially could be us
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allowing that kind of weird relationship withsomebody who's giving us that attention. Or
if you're broken enough, you knowthe way I'm broken enough that you kind
of gosh, almost need that personin your life. It's so good for
so many reasons. I think youeither love it or you hate it.
I don't know that there's a lotof gray with this show. No,
there's a big what if. AndI think the fact that everybody has that
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what if moment is one of thereasons why the show resonates because you're like,
well, what if I am thisperson that needs this sort of a
thing. What if I were inthis place? What if I could relate
to what that person's going through?Because the truth is, you're asking the
what if because maybe at some pointin time you have and therein lies one
of the keys to a good story. And if you haven't watched it,
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I recommend it Baby Reindeer on Netflixif you're looking for something to watch.
That's why it's important to you this. You know what else is important?
Your mindset this morning? How areyou doing today? That's some words that
might inspire you. Coming up injust a few minutes with your morning mindst
here on a ninety seven point onewash up. Now, where is your
head at time to take a lookat your mindset? Your morning mindset?
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Here on ninety seven point one washufM Toby and Silly in the Morning.
What's the coute that You've chosen?Kirk Colbaine of Nirvana says, wanting to
be someone else is a waste ofthe person you are. God rest Kirk
Cobaine's soul. Wanting to be someoneelse is a waste of the person you
are. He's onto something. Whywould you want to be someone else or
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someone that other people want you tobe? You're not being you? You
are enough. Why waste the personyou are trying to be somebody? You're
not somebody that someone else wants youto be, or somebody else in general.
You're here for a reason. Embracethat reason today. Kirk Colbain says,
wanting to be someone else is awaste of the person you are,
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and if that resonates, find itthe Toby and chilipage at washfm dot com.
Hopefully it helps, and if itdoes, feel free to share it
with somebody you know or leave usa comment and tell us how it helps.
You. Look forward to hearing yourthoughts. This morning is Toby and
Chilly in the Morning continues coming upnext here at ninety seven point one WASHFM
with your entertainment news, a littleshow biz buzz. There was a big
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formal dinner last evening and lots ofpeople dressed a certain way chili. Oh
yeah, I'm not sure how someof those people could eat how tight the
dresses were at the met Gala.But will recap some of the highlights and
just for entertainment news. You listenedto ninety seven point one WASHFM right around
this time every weekday morning. Wecall it showbiz buzz. What's going on
there? Chilly this morning? Themet Gala co chairs India and Bad Bunny
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looked amazing at the fundraiser last night. Another person that turned heads was Kim
Kardashi and she arrived with her waistsince so teeny tiny it looked to be
about like twenty inches. She couldn'teven catch a full breath. Katy Perry
was not able to attend because ofwork obligations, so she was a no
show. Another no show was aRihanna because she wasn't feeling well. J
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Lo looked stunning, but she wasnot there with Ben Affleck. There's so
many different highlights and a lot ofvisuals you can check out at washfm dot
com. Looks like Miss USA isresigning from the title. Noeli of Waite
announced that she is making that decisionto step back for her mental health.
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A new line of jewelry from aTiffany and Company, inspired by Pharrell Williams,
is now available. The collection featuressome nautical pieces including tridents, anchors,
and more, taking themes of Poseidon. A course designed by American University
right here in DC is called swiftAndomics the Economics of Taylor Swift. It
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looks at how she has impacted theeconomy as a chart topping musician and billionaire.
The class registration already opened for thatone credit course. Joe Montaigna and
Gary Sinise slated to host the NationalMemorial Day Concert in DC May twenty six.
The ninety minute TV special will bringthe country together to honor the fallen
heroes and their families. And bythe way, this is the second consecutive
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year that Montana and Simes will behosting the event. And the entire Planet
of the Apes franchise now available forstreaming on Hulu, including all nine movies
in the series leading up to thelatest release, Kingdom of the Planet of
the Apes, which will hit theater'sMay tenth. And that's your showbiz buzz
awesome stuff. And if you needmore entertainment news on demand, just refresh
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washfm dot com offense so you canstand the o as the day goes on,
need even more news The headlines topstories at the top of the hour
is what we call the news newsand we'll get you what you need to
know. Coming up right around sixstatus top stories Top of the hour reports
say Israel has begun it it's rafaoffensive after rejecting in Hamasa ceasefire agreement.
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Early the White House confirmed Hamas hadagreed to a propose ceasefire. The judge
found a former President Trump in contemptof court for a tenth time yesterday for
violating a gag order in his criminalhush money trial, and he told the
former president that the court will haveto consider a jail sanction going forward for
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any further violations of that gag order. Officials looking into what constantly plane crash
in Role, Virginia. The smalltwin engine aircraft with just two people on
board, took off from a NASAsRegional Airport on Sunday morning for a trip
to South Carolina, and witnesses saythey saw the plane flying very low before
hearing a possible explosion. Both thepilot and the only passenger on board died.
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A pedestrian hospitalized after he was hitby a vehicle near the National Mall
just before eight forty five last night. Police say the man was in a
crosswalk when he was hit at theintersection of fourteenth in Madison. Researchers at
US using World Report, they rankstates and categories like healthcare, safety,
and more. Virginia came in thirteenth, Maryland was twenty second, and according
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to a recent survey, thirty eightpercent of American workers have never felt more
uninspired at work than they do now, and when they're inter rut, folks
boost their mood by going for awalk or exercising. Forecast today cloudy with
a few showers throughout the day,eighty The high right now sixty six in
Ashburn. Do you use the pixelphone? If so, are you aware
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of these new emojis that might becoming that will be coming your way?
There in beta now? If not, stay there, you'll want to hear
this because it could mean hours ofendless entertainment for you. If you are
of the pixel persuasion, fine withthe phone. If you use Google's Pixel
phone. They've got something new thatcould bring you hours of endless and mindless
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entertainment. Toby and Chilly in theMorning ninety seven point one WASCHFM. So
did you hear what they've got foryou? Emojis that actually have sound effects.
I think they are about six optionsright now, so that when you
send an emoji it also makes asound. Yeah, they're not out yet.
They're in what they call beta.They're audio emojis, and they'll come
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soon to a pixel device near you. Basically, they've taken emojis, animated
them, and they've added these funsound effects like this, and then there's
five other ones, laughing the party, the crying trombone, the Pooh emoji,
which is like a spilt chocolate icecream, and then there's a sting
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like a I mean, the flatulenceone, of course, is the most
popular one. It appeals to theleast common denominator. You know, there's
always that one friend. Every timethey text you, they feel compelled to
include an emoji. Can you imagineif this gets into their hands, You're
not going to even want to openor read those text messages. It's going
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to be overwhelming. You've also gotto silence that phone. If you're in
a meeting. I don't think itwould be very good if your meeting was
interrupted by one of these sound effects. Very interesting. There's a lot of
mixed opinions on them. Some peoplewonder what it's even for. How about
it's just to have fun. Youcan't overthink it. If you want to
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read more, you can. Andif you do the beta thing on pixel
and you've used them, feel freeto tell us what it's all about.
You can find us with that talkbackmicrophone. It's wide open. If you're
signed into your iHeart app, sendus a voice note. Feel free to
use these sound effects if you wantto. We don't mind Kelby and Chilly's
nearly impossible question? What is thequestion? This Tuesday morning? Almost every
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child used to do this. Onlythirty percent of kids do this activity?
Now what is it? Eight sixtysix nine two, seven forty three sixty
one the number call? Now getit right? When here's the question one
more time. Almost every child usedto do this, and only thirty percent
of kids do this activity? Nowwhat is it? Thanks to the Northern
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Your nearly impossible question is on forTuesday ninety seven point one wash FM.
Shelby and Chilly's Nearly Impossible Question Susanand Sterling, Good morning, how you
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doing, Good morning, doing well? How about you? Really good?
Welcome and thank you for being apart of everything we're doing here at ninety
seven point one wash FM this morning. Here's the question. Almost every child
used to do this activity, butonly thirty percent of kids do it.
Now, what is it? I'mgoing to say, jump rope? You
jump rope? Do your kids jumprope? Do you admit that you used
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to jump rope? But don't justjump rope. We're not going to judge.
I used to jump rope and Iloved it. And even double dut
well, I don't know how youdid that double dutch. I tried that
and it just ended badly. It'sgotta be quick. It does require some
coordination, for sure. That's agreat guess. It's also the correct answer.
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That means you are going to goto the Northern Virginia Magazine's Taste of
Nova, empowered by Northern Virginia FoodRescue. It's at the National Museum of
the US Army on the nineteenth ofthis month. Congratulations, Thank you,
that's so awesome, Thank you somuch. You know, if you and
I meet up there, we cando a bunch of jump rope just to
get the cardio in so we canlose everything we gain by chowing down on
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all the foods you're on night.Well, congratulations again, and tell us
the name of the station that justhooked you up. Please ninety seven point
one wash sm more tickets tomorrow tothe Taste of Nova at the National Museum
of the US Army. It's onthe nineteenth. If you want to go,
be here, play and win.Stay there for the news Top Stories
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at the Top of the Hour.On the way in less than twenty minutes
with Tobe and Chile in the morningTop Stories Top of the Hour. Testimony
is scheduled. You can continue todayin former President Trump's criminal hush money trial.
This all comes after a very eventfulcourt session yesterday, when the judge
in the case threatened Trump with jailtime for again violating his gag order when
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he talked about witnesses in the case. The FAA is opening a new probe
into Boeing's seven to eighty seven Dreamlinerjets. The agency said Boeing informed it
last month that employees may not havecompleted required inspections on those planes. The
NTSB giving more information about a deadlyplane crash that happened in Fluvana County.
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It's in rural Virginia. The smallplane had taken off from a NASAs Regional
Airport Sunday morning and the parts startedto fall off over Fluvanna County just before
that crash. The pilot and passengerwho died were from northern Virginia. About
a third of the two hundred andfifty playgrounds in Prince George's County are either
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outdated or worn out well Now,thanks to Bethesda based nonprofit called Kaboom,
the county will get twenty five newplaygrounds within the next five years. And
living the dream, the American dreamcosts more than what most of us can
afford. This is according to newresearch. The study finds that a household
would need to spend over one hundredand fifty thousand dollars a year to live
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the dream in twenty nine states.And then another recent report estimates that the
American Dream would cost three point fourmillion dollars over a lifetime. Forecast four
day, it's going to be cloudy. We do have a chance of a
few showers throughout the day. Highsaround eighty right now sixty seven degrees in
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Lantam. Have you ever felt likeyou were kind of pushed to follow in
your parents' footsteps? Why is thisimportant? Because you may not be the
only one. We'll talk about thiscoming up in minutes. To stay with
Tobe and Tilly in the morning,all right, did your parents ever want
you to follow in their footsteps?In life? Ninety seven point one was
was chef m we'reteby and chilling inthe morning? Comes up because last week
Tiger Wood's son was playing in abig golf tournament. He's kind of followed
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his dad's footsteps in life. Thoughtsthis morning at eight sixty six nine two
seven forty three sixty one. Mydad was a custom tailor, had his
own shop. But I don't thinkhe ever ever wanted me or my sister
to follow in his footsteps, becauseI think in his mind. He came
to this country to give us abetter education and maybe to be doctors or
lawyers. Never once planned a seed, never once kind of pushed you in
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a direction. Never even taught mehow to sew a button on a shirt.
You care, what about you?My dad never pushed me to become
an exploration geologist who used to findoil and gas. He just wanted me
to do what it was. Ithink that made me happy, that gave
me passion in life. You know, and your daughter's older now, she's
going to be making career decisions inthe next couple of years. Do you
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want her to follow in your footstepsor no? Only if it's something that
she wants to do, because obviouslydoing this whole content thing and creating and
talking and being in the radio's familybusiness because her mom's on radio as well.
And I haven't talked to her momabout it. But I wouldn't want
to push her to do something.But it's not what she wants to do,
it's what I would want her todo. That's not a formula for
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success. Eight sixty six nine twoseven forty three sixty one Rob listening in
Clarksburg this morning. My mother wantedme to be a doctor just like her,
so I looked into it, butI realized, you know, when
I got to college, that itjust wasn't my thing, and I discovered
that being a chef is what I'mmeant to be. And she wasn't happy
about it at first, but youknow, she came around well, especially
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if you're really good at it,she doesn't have to worry about making dinner
anymore. Right. That would makeyou the point person for every holiday meal
for your family exactly. But toyour point though about following your passions,
if you followed your mom's passion,it wouldn't be your passion. Then you
wouldn't be any good at it.And I bet you your file Mignon is
probably a lot better than your bedsidemanner. Thank you for jumping into the
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conversation this morning, there, Robert. So have you been pushed by your
parents to follow in their footsteps?Yes? Or no? Talkback microphone is
wide open. If you're listening toninety seven point one WASHFM on your iHeart
app right now and you're signed in, can also call eight sixty six nine
two seven forty three sixty one moreof your thoughts on the way, so
jump into the conversation if you havea second. In the meantime, stay
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with ninety seven point one wash FMfor another one of your crazy first date
stories, this one from Djappa Worre. Kim was the recipient of some mixed
messaging. Yes. While she wentto the bathroom, she received a very
confusing text message from her date.Find out why I was confusing and what
this meant for the dates. Next, it's Toby and Chilli's Crazy first Date
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Kim and Joppa, Maryland. Goodmorning, Welcome Chilly and I are ready
to hear this story, so tellus all of the things. So I
went on this date with this guyand I met him at a bar restaurant
and he was sitting at the bar. So I went up to him and
he had ordered a glass of water. I was like, okay, this
is in. So I ordered aglass of water. So we got called
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to our table and the weight justcomes over and he didn't order anything else
besides to glass the water. SoI was like, maybe he's I don't
know, waiting a little bit toorder. And as I was talking to
him, he said, how aboutyou come over to my house and we
can make a pizza, and Iwas like, no, I'm not going
over to your house. I don'tknow you'll come over and have a pizza.
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So I thought to myself, hewas very odd and I need to
get out of here. So Iexcused myself to the bathroom, and when
I was in the bathroom, hetexted me and he said I had to
leave. I'm sorry, And soI was like, thank goodness so that
I was able to leave and Ididn't have to see him again. Hey,
So there's so many questions here,first and foremost, did he give
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you a reason why he had toleave suddenly? Was it because it was
going to be too expensive? Whathappened? He never told me. He
just said I'm sorry I had toleave. Do you think he was bummed
that you shot down going over tothe house so he could show you pepperoni?
I mean, make a pizza ofsome sort? I mean, you
know, simmer down there, allright. I just I'm so confused when
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she said no, I guess hepanicked, maybe that he couldn't afford this
dinner, is all I was thinking. Wow, if he hadn't had that
weird interaction with you, you knowat the restaurant, was there anything else
redeeming about him that you would havestayed, you know, like, was
he attractive? Did he seem interestingin other ways? He was attractive,
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he was just something just was off. He was just kind of odd.
I mean, that's not even pullingthe Houdini. He just said I gotta
go, I'm out. Well hedidn't just leave, you know, he
did send her a text while shewas at the toilet. There are just
I have so many questions that Idon't know that we have enough time to
even delve into all of them.There, Kim from japed, this,
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this whole date has me confounded.I never heard from homent down either.
We hope that this didn't discourage youfrom continuing to date other men or hopefully
find somebody eventually in life. No, I continue to date. Well,
hopefully whoever you're dating doesn't decide todisappear because they can't afford a date at
a restaurant after you shoot them downfor coming over for a nice evening of
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making some pizza. Are you seeinganybody right now? No, not at
the moment. Well, you haveuntil October thirteenth, if you choose to
take a date with you to gosee justin Timberlake at Capital One Arena.
Thanks to Live Nation. Oh yeah, thanks, I'm so excited. Congratulations
and please take somebody that's got alittle more going on than this guy did,
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because wow, I will top storiesTop of the Hour. Reports say
Israel has begun its rapa offensive afterrejecting an AMAS ceasefire agreement earlier. The
White House confirmed Hamas has agreed toa propose to ceasefire. The White House
confirms it is aware of a USsoldier that's been detained in Russia. The
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soldier is reportedly accused of stealing,but it's not clear if those charges are
legitimate or not. The judge hasfound a former President Trump in contempt of
court for the tenth time for violatinga gag order in his criminal hush money
trial. Has happened yesterday. Hetold Trump that the court will have to
consider a jail sanction going forward forany further violations of that gag order.
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A pedestrian has been hospitalized after beinghit by a vehicle near the National Mall.
This happened just before eight to fortyfive last night. Police the man
was in a crosswalk when he washit at the intersection of fourteenth Street and
Madison Drive. Nurses in the DCarea find it hard to make ends meet
due to the cost of living,taxes and other factors. Actually, a
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recent study ranked the DC, Alexandriaand Arlington area as the toughest places for
nurses to live in the entire country. And the Capital Pride Alliance has announced
their lineup for the annual Capital PrideConcert. This year's performers will include Avamax,
Billy pl Order, Keki Palmer,Expose, and more. The concert
is free and it will be heldat the corner of Pennsylvania Avenue in Third
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Street on June ninth. Forecast fourToday it's going to be cloudy with a
few showers, possible highs around eightyRight now sixty seven degrees in Alexander.
The apple does not fall far fromthe tree. Have you followed in your
parents' footsteps? Did they push youto do so? What happened? Eight
sixty six ninet twenty seven forty threesixty one Talk back microphones wide open too.
If you're listening to Toby and Chillyin the morning, some of your
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thoughts and your stories are on theway. Stay with us. The apple
doesn't fall far from the tree.This probably resonates ninety seven point one wash
FM, Toby and Chilly in themorning. If you've ever felt like you
were pushed to follow in your parents'footsteps. We were talking about this earlier,
and thankfully neither Toby or I reallydid get a nudge from our parents.
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Keith and Alexandria, what's on yourmind this morning? My dad was
a lifer Army guy. His unitwas the unit and we were soldiers with
meld Gibson. He wanted me togo military. I went Beatot Highway to
park and I was one of themguys, playing the roads in the winter
and sling an asphalt in the summer. Then I got into a quatic and
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became a lifetime pool operator, andthen I did a little mini lifetime and
fueling aircraft and Reagan Nationals. AndI can just say that ultimately, even
though I was a beach bum hippiethat and I still am, I didn't
develop the discipline to approach all myjobs with due diligence. I would have
made a good corporal to my dad'ssergeant. Do you feel like he was
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disappointed you didn't follow in that footstepof his or was he pretty open to
whatever you wanted to do. Well, He told me I should become a
civil service. Your dad's probably happyyou at least followed him in the government
line of business. With all theother jobs. I approached it with so
much focus I guess would be theword infinitely. He saw, Hey,
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I stood my ground. I actuallybecame a little soldier, least in my
attitude in Arlington Cemetery. Yes Ido. My oldest boy is a carpenter
and a surfer down in Florida andkind of nomadic like me. The second
son became an army guy himself servedin the Second Desert Storm. And my
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daughter is a wonderful mother. Mygrandchild kid works hard. More. Toby
and Jilly head over to washupm dotcom for the iHeartRadio app.
Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand onninety seven point one Wash Up Out.
Oh can you not be thankful whenyou get to wake up and go and
get coffee, even if you spillsome of it on your jersey, your
minor league baseball jersey. Getting upin the morning and knowing that you have
the freedom to be able to goget coffee is a little thing that we
take for granted. It's something thatgives me some joy before five o'clock this
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morning. Very nice, makes mefeel good. Ninety seven point one wash
u F M. Toby and Chillyin the morning. How you doing this
morning there, Chili? You areeverything good in your world today? Yeh
yeah, yeah, no coffee spillageover here. I like that. There's
a free tea in our kitchen,so I'm taking advantage of that this morning.
Free tea. It's the little thing. See, it's the it's the
weird like pollen or something in theair that's giving me a little bit of
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in my throat. Yeah no,there was a whole lot of that going
right yan. It kind of throwsit up for right. See, the
rain normally is supposed to knock itdown. But I will say this.
I saw in Boston over the weekend, a T shirt that talked about how
it was it cracks some joke aboutthe weather, and they're like, oh
my bad, that's just the pollenit is, and you know, the
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pollen is reaping havoc on people.It's you know, not to mention the
fact that that it's warm one day, cold the next, warm, one
day cold the next, plus pollen. I mean, your body can only
take so much. But keeping aneye on the little things in life.
At least there's free tea to helpcoach your throat. That's true. And
and and by the way, youcan develop allergies later in life. Just
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because you never have them as akid doesn't mean you'll never have them when
it comes to no environment. It'snot that I have allergies. I'm just
saying, well, you know,one never knows. But it's very true.
I mean, like, you know, your body might be okay one
day, but then you know,two weeks later, your body shows up
to remind you, hey, thisis different now. It's not like it
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used to be. You know,yes, but then again, at least
you have that life. So keepyour eye on what's positive today. As
we get into this Tuesday in theNation's cow But on ninety seven point one
WASHFM is on at eight sixty sixninety seven forty three sixty one talk back
microphones wide open too. I understandyou're a fan of Baby Reindeer on Netflix.
Yeh, Chili. I binged itwhile I was recovering, and let
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me tell you there's a reason whypeople love this show. Well, stay
there, tell us everything, andmaybe somebody allowed that to their binge.
This list coming up as we closein on another weekend that's minutes away.
Here at ninety seven point one WASHFM, Good Morning, Baby Reindeer, but
not the Santa Kind. Ninety sevenpoint one WASHFM, Toby and Chilly in
the Morning. You might want toadd this to your binge. This list,
(02:36):
Chili, Why is this something you'rehooked on right now? This show
Baby Reindeer on Netflix? Well,I watched it probably maybe in two days.
It's seven episodes and it's on Netflixbased on a true story of this
struggling comic who is stocked by awoman that he meets while he's bartending.
For years now, I thought itwas going to have like a misery esque
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vibe to it. You know,stalker, crazy woman coming after a guy.
But it's disturbing for other reasons.It shows you how when you need
so much validation in life that themoment somebody gives you any kind of kindness,
you sort of get addicted to thatand it's like a weird relationship with
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the person who's giving you the attention. Does that make any sense? It
does. Netflix is very good abouttaking psycho stuff and adding it to true
crime related sorts of stuff and tellinga great story. And that's one of
the reasons why I believe Baby Reindeeris all the rage right now. It's
viral for a reason because it's deep. It's it's a depth. It's a
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deep dive into a part of thehuman psyche, which is something that's not
really always comfortable to talk about.But nonetheless people are fascinated, much like
looking at a dumpster fire. AndI think the reason it's disturbing is because
maybe there's a part of us thatgoes wow, that potentially could be us
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allowing that kind of weird relationship withsomebody who's giving us that attention. Or
if you're broken enough, you knowthe way I'm broken enough that you kind
of gosh, almost need that personin your life. It's so good for
so many reasons. I think youeither love it or you hate it.
I don't know that there's a lotof gray with this show. No,
there's a big what if. AndI think the fact that everybody has that
(04:30):
what if moment is one of thereasons why the show resonates because you're like,
well, what if I am thisperson that needs this sort of a
thing. What if I were inthis place? What if I could relate
to what that person's going through?Because the truth is, you're asking the
what if because maybe at some pointin time you have and therein lies one
of the keys to a good story. And if you haven't watched it,
(04:54):
I recommend it Baby Reindeer on Netflixif you're looking for something to watch.
That's why it's important to you this. You know what else is important?
Your mindset this morning? How areyou doing today? That's some words that
might inspire you. Coming up injust a few minutes with your morning mindst
here on a ninety seven point onewash up. Now, where is your
head at time to take a lookat your mindset? Your morning mindset?
(05:16):
Here on ninety seven point one washufM Toby and Silly in the Morning.
What's the coute that You've chosen?Kirk Colbaine of Nirvana says, wanting to
be someone else is a waste ofthe person you are. God rest Kirk
Cobaine's soul. Wanting to be someoneelse is a waste of the person you
are. He's onto something. Whywould you want to be someone else or
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someone that other people want you tobe? You're not being you? You
are enough. Why waste the personyou are trying to be somebody? You're
not somebody that someone else wants youto be, or somebody else in general.
You're here for a reason. Embracethat reason today. Kirk Colbain says,
wanting to be someone else is awaste of the person you are,
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and if that resonates, find itthe Toby and chilipage at washfm dot com.
Hopefully it helps, and if itdoes, feel free to share it
with somebody you know or leave usa comment and tell us how it helps.
You. Look forward to hearing yourthoughts. This morning is Toby and
Chilly in the Morning continues coming upnext here at ninety seven point one WASHFM
with your entertainment news, a littleshow biz buzz. There was a big
(06:23):
formal dinner last evening and lots ofpeople dressed a certain way chili. Oh
yeah, I'm not sure how someof those people could eat how tight the
dresses were at the met Gala.But will recap some of the highlights and
just for entertainment news. You listenedto ninety seven point one WASHFM right around
this time every weekday morning. Wecall it showbiz buzz. What's going on
there? Chilly this morning? Themet Gala co chairs India and Bad Bunny
(06:46):
looked amazing at the fundraiser last night. Another person that turned heads was Kim
Kardashi and she arrived with her waistsince so teeny tiny it looked to be
about like twenty inches. She couldn'teven catch a full breath. Katy Perry
was not able to attend because ofwork obligations, so she was a no
show. Another no show was aRihanna because she wasn't feeling well. J
(07:09):
Lo looked stunning, but she wasnot there with Ben Affleck. There's so
many different highlights and a lot ofvisuals you can check out at washfm dot
com. Looks like Miss USA isresigning from the title. Noeli of Waite
announced that she is making that decisionto step back for her mental health.
(07:29):
A new line of jewelry from aTiffany and Company, inspired by Pharrell Williams,
is now available. The collection featuressome nautical pieces including tridents, anchors,
and more, taking themes of Poseidon. A course designed by American University
right here in DC is called swiftAndomics the Economics of Taylor Swift. It
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looks at how she has impacted theeconomy as a chart topping musician and billionaire.
The class registration already opened for thatone credit course. Joe Montaigna and
Gary Sinise slated to host the NationalMemorial Day Concert in DC May twenty six.
The ninety minute TV special will bringthe country together to honor the fallen
heroes and their families. And bythe way, this is the second consecutive
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year that Montana and Simes will behosting the event. And the entire Planet
of the Apes franchise now available forstreaming on Hulu, including all nine movies
in the series leading up to thelatest release, Kingdom of the Planet of
the Apes, which will hit theater'sMay tenth. And that's your showbiz buzz
awesome stuff. And if you needmore entertainment news on demand, just refresh
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washfm dot com offense so you canstand the o as the day goes on,
need even more news The headlines topstories at the top of the hour
is what we call the news newsand we'll get you what you need to
know. Coming up right around sixstatus top stories Top of the hour reports
say Israel has begun it it's rafaoffensive after rejecting in Hamasa ceasefire agreement.
(08:58):
Early the White House confirmed Hamas hadagreed to a propose ceasefire. The judge
found a former President Trump in contemptof court for a tenth time yesterday for
violating a gag order in his criminalhush money trial, and he told the
former president that the court will haveto consider a jail sanction going forward for
(09:20):
any further violations of that gag order. Officials looking into what constantly plane crash
in Role, Virginia. The smalltwin engine aircraft with just two people on
board, took off from a NASAsRegional Airport on Sunday morning for a trip
to South Carolina, and witnesses saythey saw the plane flying very low before
hearing a possible explosion. Both thepilot and the only passenger on board died.
(09:45):
A pedestrian hospitalized after he was hitby a vehicle near the National Mall
just before eight forty five last night. Police say the man was in a
crosswalk when he was hit at theintersection of fourteenth in Madison. Researchers at
US using World Report, they rankstates and categories like healthcare, safety,
and more. Virginia came in thirteenth, Maryland was twenty second, and according
(10:09):
to a recent survey, thirty eightpercent of American workers have never felt more
uninspired at work than they do now, and when they're inter rut, folks
boost their mood by going for awalk or exercising. Forecast today cloudy with
a few showers throughout the day,eighty The high right now sixty six in
Ashburn. Do you use the pixelphone? If so, are you aware
(10:31):
of these new emojis that might becoming that will be coming your way?
There in beta now? If not, stay there, you'll want to hear
this because it could mean hours ofendless entertainment for you. If you are
of the pixel persuasion, fine withthe phone. If you use Google's Pixel
phone. They've got something new thatcould bring you hours of endless and mindless
(10:52):
entertainment. Toby and Chilly in theMorning ninety seven point one WASCHFM. So
did you hear what they've got foryou? Emojis that actually have sound effects.
I think they are about six optionsright now, so that when you
send an emoji it also makes asound. Yeah, they're not out yet.
They're in what they call beta.They're audio emojis, and they'll come
(11:13):
soon to a pixel device near you. Basically, they've taken emojis, animated
them, and they've added these funsound effects like this, and then there's
five other ones, laughing the party, the crying trombone, the Pooh emoji,
which is like a spilt chocolate icecream, and then there's a sting
(11:35):
like a I mean, the flatulenceone, of course, is the most
popular one. It appeals to theleast common denominator. You know, there's
always that one friend. Every timethey text you, they feel compelled to
include an emoji. Can you imagineif this gets into their hands, You're
not going to even want to openor read those text messages. It's going
(11:56):
to be overwhelming. You've also gotto silence that phone. If you're in
a meeting. I don't think itwould be very good if your meeting was
interrupted by one of these sound effects. Very interesting. There's a lot of
mixed opinions on them. Some peoplewonder what it's even for. How about
it's just to have fun. Youcan't overthink it. If you want to
(12:16):
read more, you can. Andif you do the beta thing on pixel
and you've used them, feel freeto tell us what it's all about.
You can find us with that talkbackmicrophone. It's wide open. If you're
signed into your iHeart app, sendus a voice note. Feel free to
use these sound effects if you wantto. We don't mind Kelby and Chilly's
nearly impossible question? What is thequestion? This Tuesday morning? Almost every
(12:37):
child used to do this. Onlythirty percent of kids do this activity?
Now what is it? Eight sixtysix nine two, seven forty three sixty
one the number call? Now getit right? When here's the question one
more time. Almost every child usedto do this, and only thirty percent
of kids do this activity? Nowwhat is it? Thanks to the Northern
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Virginia Magazine, we've got your ticketsto taste of Nova. It's yours thanks
to the Northern Virginia Food Rescue atthe National Museum of the US Army on
the nineteenth call. Now get thatquestion right and win your way in.
Your nearly impossible question is on forTuesday ninety seven point one wash FM.
Shelby and Chilly's Nearly Impossible Question Susanand Sterling, Good morning, how you
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doing, Good morning, doing well? How about you? Really good?
Welcome and thank you for being apart of everything we're doing here at ninety
seven point one wash FM this morning. Here's the question. Almost every child
used to do this activity, butonly thirty percent of kids do it.
Now, what is it? I'mgoing to say, jump rope? You
jump rope? Do your kids jumprope? Do you admit that you used
(13:46):
to jump rope? But don't justjump rope. We're not going to judge.
I used to jump rope and Iloved it. And even double dut
well, I don't know how youdid that double dutch. I tried that
and it just ended badly. It'sgotta be quick. It does require some
coordination, for sure. That's agreat guess. It's also the correct answer.
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That means you are going to goto the Northern Virginia Magazine's Taste of
Nova, empowered by Northern Virginia FoodRescue. It's at the National Museum of
the US Army on the nineteenth ofthis month. Congratulations, Thank you,
that's so awesome, Thank you somuch. You know, if you and
I meet up there, we cando a bunch of jump rope just to
get the cardio in so we canlose everything we gain by chowing down on
(14:28):
all the foods you're on night.Well, congratulations again, and tell us
the name of the station that justhooked you up. Please ninety seven point
one wash sm more tickets tomorrow tothe Taste of Nova at the National Museum
of the US Army. It's onthe nineteenth. If you want to go,
be here, play and win.Stay there for the news Top Stories
(14:48):
at the Top of the Hour.On the way in less than twenty minutes
with Tobe and Chile in the morningTop Stories Top of the Hour. Testimony
is scheduled. You can continue todayin former President Trump's criminal hush money trial.
This all comes after a very eventfulcourt session yesterday, when the judge
in the case threatened Trump with jailtime for again violating his gag order when
(15:13):
he talked about witnesses in the case. The FAA is opening a new probe
into Boeing's seven to eighty seven Dreamlinerjets. The agency said Boeing informed it
last month that employees may not havecompleted required inspections on those planes. The
NTSB giving more information about a deadlyplane crash that happened in Fluvana County.
(15:35):
It's in rural Virginia. The smallplane had taken off from a NASAs Regional
Airport Sunday morning and the parts startedto fall off over Fluvanna County just before
that crash. The pilot and passengerwho died were from northern Virginia. About
a third of the two hundred andfifty playgrounds in Prince George's County are either
(15:58):
outdated or worn out well Now,thanks to Bethesda based nonprofit called Kaboom,
the county will get twenty five newplaygrounds within the next five years. And
living the dream, the American dreamcosts more than what most of us can
afford. This is according to newresearch. The study finds that a household
would need to spend over one hundredand fifty thousand dollars a year to live
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the dream in twenty nine states.And then another recent report estimates that the
American Dream would cost three point fourmillion dollars over a lifetime. Forecast four
day, it's going to be cloudy. We do have a chance of a
few showers throughout the day. Highsaround eighty right now sixty seven degrees in
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Lantam. Have you ever felt likeyou were kind of pushed to follow in
your parents' footsteps? Why is thisimportant? Because you may not be the
only one. We'll talk about thiscoming up in minutes. To stay with
Tobe and Tilly in the morning,all right, did your parents ever want
you to follow in their footsteps?In life? Ninety seven point one was
was chef m we'reteby and chilling inthe morning? Comes up because last week
Tiger Wood's son was playing in abig golf tournament. He's kind of followed
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his dad's footsteps in life. Thoughtsthis morning at eight sixty six nine two
seven forty three sixty one. Mydad was a custom tailor, had his
own shop. But I don't thinkhe ever ever wanted me or my sister
to follow in his footsteps, becauseI think in his mind. He came
to this country to give us abetter education and maybe to be doctors or
lawyers. Never once planned a seed, never once kind of pushed you in
(17:30):
a direction. Never even taught mehow to sew a button on a shirt.
You care, what about you?My dad never pushed me to become
an exploration geologist who used to findoil and gas. He just wanted me
to do what it was. Ithink that made me happy, that gave
me passion in life. You know, and your daughter's older now, she's
going to be making career decisions inthe next couple of years. Do you
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want her to follow in your footstepsor no? Only if it's something that
she wants to do, because obviouslydoing this whole content thing and creating and
talking and being in the radio's familybusiness because her mom's on radio as well.
And I haven't talked to her momabout it. But I wouldn't want
to push her to do something.But it's not what she wants to do,
it's what I would want her todo. That's not a formula for
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success. Eight sixty six nine twoseven forty three sixty one Rob listening in
Clarksburg this morning. My mother wantedme to be a doctor just like her,
so I looked into it, butI realized, you know, when
I got to college, that itjust wasn't my thing, and I discovered
that being a chef is what I'mmeant to be. And she wasn't happy
about it at first, but youknow, she came around well, especially
(18:33):
if you're really good at it,she doesn't have to worry about making dinner
anymore. Right. That would makeyou the point person for every holiday meal
for your family exactly. But toyour point though about following your passions,
if you followed your mom's passion,it wouldn't be your passion. Then you
wouldn't be any good at it.And I bet you your file Mignon is
probably a lot better than your bedsidemanner. Thank you for jumping into the
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conversation this morning, there, Robert. So have you been pushed by your
parents to follow in their footsteps?Yes? Or no? Talkback microphone is
wide open. If you're listening toninety seven point one WASHFM on your iHeart
app right now and you're signed in, can also call eight sixty six nine
two seven forty three sixty one moreof your thoughts on the way, so
jump into the conversation if you havea second. In the meantime, stay
(19:18):
with ninety seven point one wash FMfor another one of your crazy first date
stories, this one from Djappa Worre. Kim was the recipient of some mixed
messaging. Yes. While she wentto the bathroom, she received a very
confusing text message from her date.Find out why I was confusing and what
this meant for the dates. Next, it's Toby and Chilli's Crazy first Date
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Kim and Joppa, Maryland. Goodmorning, Welcome Chilly and I are ready
to hear this story, so tellus all of the things. So I
went on this date with this guyand I met him at a bar restaurant
and he was sitting at the bar. So I went up to him and
he had ordered a glass of water. I was like, okay, this
is in. So I ordered aglass of water. So we got called
(20:03):
to our table and the weight justcomes over and he didn't order anything else
besides to glass the water. SoI was like, maybe he's I don't
know, waiting a little bit toorder. And as I was talking to
him, he said, how aboutyou come over to my house and we
can make a pizza, and Iwas like, no, I'm not going
over to your house. I don'tknow you'll come over and have a pizza.
(20:23):
So I thought to myself, hewas very odd and I need to
get out of here. So Iexcused myself to the bathroom, and when
I was in the bathroom, hetexted me and he said I had to
leave. I'm sorry, And soI was like, thank goodness so that
I was able to leave and Ididn't have to see him again. Hey,
So there's so many questions here,first and foremost, did he give
(20:45):
you a reason why he had toleave suddenly? Was it because it was
going to be too expensive? Whathappened? He never told me. He
just said I'm sorry I had toleave. Do you think he was bummed
that you shot down going over tothe house so he could show you pepperoni?
I mean, make a pizza ofsome sort? I mean, you
know, simmer down there, allright. I just I'm so confused when
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she said no, I guess hepanicked, maybe that he couldn't afford this
dinner, is all I was thinking. Wow, if he hadn't had that
weird interaction with you, you knowat the restaurant, was there anything else
redeeming about him that you would havestayed, you know, like, was
he attractive? Did he seem interestingin other ways? He was attractive,
(21:30):
he was just something just was off. He was just kind of odd.
I mean, that's not even pullingthe Houdini. He just said I gotta
go, I'm out. Well hedidn't just leave, you know, he
did send her a text while shewas at the toilet. There are just
I have so many questions that Idon't know that we have enough time to
even delve into all of them.There, Kim from japed, this,
(21:52):
this whole date has me confounded.I never heard from homent down either.
We hope that this didn't discourage youfrom continuing to date other men or hopefully
find somebody eventually in life. No, I continue to date. Well,
hopefully whoever you're dating doesn't decide todisappear because they can't afford a date at
a restaurant after you shoot them downfor coming over for a nice evening of
(22:15):
making some pizza. Are you seeinganybody right now? No, not at
the moment. Well, you haveuntil October thirteenth, if you choose to
take a date with you to gosee justin Timberlake at Capital One Arena.
Thanks to Live Nation. Oh yeah, thanks, I'm so excited. Congratulations
and please take somebody that's got alittle more going on than this guy did,
(22:37):
because wow, I will top storiesTop of the Hour. Reports say
Israel has begun its rapa offensive afterrejecting an AMAS ceasefire agreement earlier. The
White House confirmed Hamas has agreed toa propose to ceasefire. The White House
confirms it is aware of a USsoldier that's been detained in Russia. The
(22:59):
soldier is reportedly accused of stealing,but it's not clear if those charges are
legitimate or not. The judge hasfound a former President Trump in contempt of
court for the tenth time for violatinga gag order in his criminal hush money
trial. Has happened yesterday. Hetold Trump that the court will have to
consider a jail sanction going forward forany further violations of that gag order.
(23:22):
A pedestrian has been hospitalized after beinghit by a vehicle near the National Mall.
This happened just before eight to fortyfive last night. Police the man
was in a crosswalk when he washit at the intersection of fourteenth Street and
Madison Drive. Nurses in the DCarea find it hard to make ends meet
due to the cost of living,taxes and other factors. Actually, a
(23:44):
recent study ranked the DC, Alexandriaand Arlington area as the toughest places for
nurses to live in the entire country. And the Capital Pride Alliance has announced
their lineup for the annual Capital PrideConcert. This year's performers will include Avamax,
Billy pl Order, Keki Palmer,Expose, and more. The concert
is free and it will be heldat the corner of Pennsylvania Avenue in Third
(24:07):
Street on June ninth. Forecast fourToday it's going to be cloudy with a
few showers, possible highs around eightyRight now sixty seven degrees in Alexander.
The apple does not fall far fromthe tree. Have you followed in your
parents' footsteps? Did they push youto do so? What happened? Eight
sixty six ninet twenty seven forty threesixty one Talk back microphones wide open too.
If you're listening to Toby and Chillyin the morning, some of your
(24:30):
thoughts and your stories are on theway. Stay with us. The apple
doesn't fall far from the tree.This probably resonates ninety seven point one wash
FM, Toby and Chilly in themorning. If you've ever felt like you
were pushed to follow in your parents'footsteps. We were talking about this earlier,
and thankfully neither Toby or I reallydid get a nudge from our parents.
(24:51):
Keith and Alexandria, what's on yourmind this morning? My dad was
a lifer Army guy. His unitwas the unit and we were soldiers with
meld Gibson. He wanted me togo military. I went Beatot Highway to
park and I was one of themguys, playing the roads in the winter
and sling an asphalt in the summer. Then I got into a quatic and
(25:11):
became a lifetime pool operator, andthen I did a little mini lifetime and
fueling aircraft and Reagan Nationals. AndI can just say that ultimately, even
though I was a beach bum hippiethat and I still am, I didn't
develop the discipline to approach all myjobs with due diligence. I would have
made a good corporal to my dad'ssergeant. Do you feel like he was
(25:33):
disappointed you didn't follow in that footstepof his or was he pretty open to
whatever you wanted to do. Well, He told me I should become a
civil service. Your dad's probably happyyou at least followed him in the government
line of business. With all theother jobs. I approached it with so
much focus I guess would be theword infinitely. He saw, Hey,
(25:56):
I stood my ground. I actuallybecame a little soldier, least in my
attitude in Arlington Cemetery. Yes Ido. My oldest boy is a carpenter
and a surfer down in Florida andkind of nomadic like me. The second
son became an army guy himself servedin the Second Desert Storm. And my
(26:18):
daughter is a wonderful mother. Mygrandchild kid works hard. More. Toby
and Jilly head over to washupm dotcom for the iHeartRadio app.
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