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Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand onninety seven point one Wash. Congratulations you
made it to Friday. It's Tobyand Chilly in the Morning at ninety seven
point one Wash FM. Fri Yay, indeed, I'm Chilli Amar. Toby
Nap is out, but our producerTaylor's Shaye is in. And you know
why today is exciting besides the factthat we're going into the weekend. Do
tell it's hair maintenance day. Ohboy. Now, for anybody who's gone
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gray or partly gray, you eitherdo it yourself, you do nothing,
or you get a professional to doit. I'm one of those people that
pay somebody else to do the roots. Same and today's the day where I
have got to get these grays takencare of. And the other thing that
you have to do is time itjust right in between events, yes,
because if you don't, you canhave a little bit of that root showing.
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And I'm like you, I've gotdarker hair. Oh yeah. Mine
is jet black and my grays aren'teven gray, they are white. I
look like a skunk when they growback. Now you can't see, but
I do the spray thing like Ido the color, like the sheet to
get through the appointments. I justcannot wait to finally get these roots done.
And my husband, of course,hates these days you're expensive super because
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his is like a twelve dollars ortwenty dollars haircut, you know, with
ours, it's like color and highlightand cut and finish and da da da
da. So it's gonna not bea good financial day. But yesterday on
the show, we were talking statisticallyhow over half of women will share deep,
dark secrets with their hairstylists that theywould never tell anyone else. Do
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you No, I have never revealedanything crazy about that. I have asked
him about his life, but Idon't share. What's really fun sometimes is
overhearing other people who do overshare,and they're not really thinking there's somebody sitting
five feet away from me that's alsohearing the tea, so to speak.
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Have you ever overheard somebody say somethinga bit too revealing about themselves when we
were at the barber shop or hairstylist. We'd love to know what that gossip
was eight six six ninety two sevenfour three six' one and that we'll
share your stories coming up next asToby and Chilly in the Morning continues on
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ninety seven point one wash FM.What have you overheard somebody saying at the
hairstylist? It's Chilli amr with Tobyand Chilly in the Morning on ninety seven
point one wash FM, Toby Napis out. And the reason we're asking
this is because a survey found thatmore than half of women admit they reveal
intimate secrets to their hairstylists that theywouldn't dare share with anyone else. And
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if you have give us a callat eight six six nine two seven four
three six' one. Kristen,you are part of the show in Alexandria.
What did you hear? This wasa long time ago when I was
probably my like in my late twenties, and I was sitting at the hairdresser
and the woman next to me wastelling her stylist about a wedding that she
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went to and her ex husband wasthere, and she went into detail about
how they, let's just say,reconnected and during the reception, I guess
snuck off and went upstairs into thehouse where the where the wedding was being
held and they reconnected. Wow.And she told it in great detail and
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I mean I could barely even talkto my hairstylist because I was listening so
intently to find out what happened.And then you also, when you have
those moments of overhearing such conversations,have to like make sure your face isn't
giving away the facts that you aretotally eavesdropping. Oh totally. I was
just like yeah, And I alsothought, note to self, don't ever
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do that, because I think maybeshe thought that only her hairstylists could hear
her. But yeah, we heardeverything. Yeah, the blow dryer is
not that loud, honey, Thanksso much for calling and sharing that story
with us. Coming up next,we are going to hopefully get you into
a great morning mindset with a quote. As Toby and Chilly in the Morning
continues on ninety seven point one,washefe good morning. It's Toby and Chilly
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in the Morning. On ninety sevenpoint one wash FM. I'm at Chili
Amar Toby Nap is out today.But this is the part of the show
where we try to get you intoa good morning mindset. And maybe you're
already in a good headspace because itis a Friday, but just in case,
I want to share this quote byJoanne Raptis, who says, be
like a tree, stay grounded,connect with your roots, turn over a
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new leaf, bend before you break, enjoy your unique natural beauty, keep
growing. Obviously, this is ametaphor to convey various life lessons and principles
for personal growth and resilience. Soas you take on today and perhaps the
rest of your days, make surethat you kind of look at yourself or
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look at a tree and see whatthe tree can teach us. All it
encourages resilience, adaptability, self appreciation, and continuous personal growth. So again,
be like a tree, stay grounded, connect with your roots, turn
over a new leaf, bend beforeyou break, enjoy your unique natural beauty,
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keep growing. Now you can findthat quote or share your own using
hashtag Morning Mindset on the Toby andChili page at waschefm dot com. Coming
up next, we are going toget you all caught up with what's going
on in Hollywood with our show bizbuzz, and we'll tell you which Hollywood
couple might be headed for divorce justtwo years after they got back together.
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That's Dorian Moore as Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues on ninety seven point
one washeff It's Friday Morning, Mayseventeenth, Toby and Chili in the Morning
on ninety seven point one watch FM. I'm Chilli Amar. Toby Nap is
out, but it is time forthe showbiz buzz Wow. Some people are
going to say they saw this coming. But it looks like Ben Affleck and
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Jennifer Lopez are reportedly in therapy amidtheir alleged relationship issues. A source of
saying that Ben has moved out ofhis home with j Lo. She went
to the met gala by herself.She was also recently seen house shopping.
These rumors of troubles started swirling becausethey haven't been photographed together since March,
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which is unusual for them. Drakehas received seven nominations for the twenty twenty
four BEET Awards, the most ofany artists this year. Niki Minaj is
right behind with six nods. TheBET Awards set to take place Sunday,
June thirtieth. Well, the Houseis passing what's called the Ticket Act Targeting
Hidden Fees, which aims to enddeceptive ticketing prices at frustrate consumers. Legislation
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is going to increase transparency by requiringtickets full costs to be disclosed up front,
and it's also going to ban salesof tickets that sellers don't actually have
and guarantee refunds if any event iscanceled. And congrats to the Washington Mystics.
This week's a home opener featuring themtaking on the New York Liberty.
Saw the highest viewership in more thanthree years for a regular season WNBA game,
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out performing CBS by one hundred andfour percent and ESPN by forty eight
percent in the DC market during thatgame. And that is your showbiz buzz.
Coming up next, We're going toget you cut up on all the
news headlines with top stories as Tobyand Chilly in the Morning continues on ninety
seven point one wash FM Top StoriesTop of the Hour. A bill crafted
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to prevent President Biden from withholding weaponsto Israel has been passed by the House
of Representatives. This move comes inresponse to Biden's decision to pause a shipment
of bombs due to concerns over afull scale military operation in Rafa. Meanwhile,
the US military is anchoring its newpier to the coast of Gaza.
Officials plan to begin delivering humanitarian aidto the region. With its completion,
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two kayakers are injured after going overa waterfall on the Potomac River in Montgomery
County. First Responders were dispatched toGreat Falls just before six point thirty last
night when the kayak went over MarylandFalls. An effort to clear seven homeless
encampments across d C is underway.The cleanups took place yesterday at the sites
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along the National Mall and at SanMartin Memorial Park on twentieth Street Northwest.
Officials also cleared two encampments at twentyfirst and eight Northwest and twenty fifth and
Virginia Avenue. Four other homeless campsare going to be removed on Monday.
Six Flags in Maryland Plants introduced thenew rip Curl Blaster watercoaster. This is
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coming over Memorial Day weekend. It'sat their Hurricane Harbor Yas Park. It'll
be the tallest ride of its kindwhen it opens on the twenty fifth.
And According to a recent survey,ninety two percent of women and seventy one
percent of men feel dating related stressfrom time to time, but sixty eight
percent of women say that dating isactually their top source of stress in life.
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Forecast for today it'll be a cloudyday with highs in the mid seventies
right now, sixty degrees in Ashburncoming up in just a few minutes.
Have you ever let your competitiveness getthe best of you? Well, I
had to recently delete an app becauseI started to do something I'm not proud
of, and I'll share all theshameful details as Toby and Chilly in the
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Morning continues on ninety seven point onewash FM. Have you ever let your
competitiveness get the best of you?It's Toby and Chilly in the Morning at
ninety seven point one wash FM.I'm Chilliamar. Toby Nap is out,
but our producer Taylor Shay is here, and Taylor, I don't know how
much you know about my competitive nature, but I am ridiculous what happened.
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I had downloaded this app. It'sa game, and it's basically like a
word puzzle game. You get abunch of letters and you're supposed to create
a certain amount of words with them. And I was doing really well,
like I'm really good with word puzzles. That's my jam. And I got
to a certain level and I earnedcertain badges and certain points, and I
was like, dang all ride,this is awesome. And then it gets
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harder and harder and harder where youhave to spend some of your points to
get hints. Well, I'm tooproud to take hints right like, I'm
like, no, I want toget this on my own. It got
so bad that I started to usechat GPT, you cheated. I did
start to cheat. I started toput in all the letters and ask chat
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GBT what are the combinations I couldcome up with because I didn't want to
use my points to get hints.And when I found myself doing that,
I did not recognize who I am. I am an honest person. I
don't win by cheating, so Iliterally deleted the app two days ago.
You would rather not play at allthan be number two. That's exactly right,
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Toby and Chilli's nearly impossible question,And it's okay if you use chat,
GPT or Google to get this question. Okay. Forty one percent of
women say they feel pressure to dothis before the age of thirty five.
What is it eight six six ninetwo seven four three six one. You're
playing for tickets to go see trainand Ario Speedwagon at Jiffy Lube Live,
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August sixth, thanks to Live Nation. Forty one percent of women say they
feel pressure to do this before agethirty five. What is it? Eight
six six, ninety two, sevenfour three six one. We've got your
guesses and the answer next is Tobyand Chilly in the Morning continues on ninety
seven point one wash ff Toby andChilli's nearly impossible question. This morning,
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we're playing for tickets to go seeTrain and Rio Speedwagon Jiffy Lube Live,
August six thanks to Live Nation.Good morning a Kim. You are a
part of the show in Maryland.How are you? Are you ready to
play? I'm ready to play.Yes. Forty one percent of women say
they feel pressure to do this beforethe age of thirty five. What do
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you think it might be? Ithink it's the start of family. Okay,
Now, why do you say that? Why do you think having kids
might be the answer? I thinksociety pressure is off the hot kids,
and I think that's the reason.Yes, and they feel like that bio
biological clock is TikTok, TikTok beforethe age of thirty five. That's an
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excellent guest, Kim. It isalso the correct answer this morning. Congratulations,
my god, thank you so much. I've been trying since three days
now. Wow, well your persistencepaid off. You're gonna go see training
Ario Speedwagon at Jiffy Lube Live whenthey come into town. Okay, okay,
thank you so much. I'm happy, We're happy for you. And
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next week we're going to be backwith tickets to go see John Legend with
the wolf Trap Orchestra. They're comingto wolf Trap in June. We'll have
another nearly impossible question for those ticketsright around this time Monday morning with Toby
and Chilly in the morning on ninetyseven point one, watch FF Top Stories,
Top of the Hour. The Househas passed a bill to prevent President
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Biden from withholding weapons to Israel.The push is in response to Biden's decision
to pause a shipment of bombs toIsrael due to concerns over a full scale
military operation in Rafa. Several DCCouncil members are not happy with the passage
of a federal bill that would reducelocal control of criminal sentencing. The DC
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Crimes Bill would also restrict juvenile criminalcharges to those eighteen years old and younger,
rather than the twenty four and youngerstandard currently in use. On time
mail delivery in Virginia is getting better, but it is still among the worst
in the entire country. The latestnumbers the Postal Service show that on time
mail delivery in the state was justover seventy seven percent between January and March,
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which is up from sixty six percentbetween October and December of last year.
Transgender Pride DC is going to beholding a free Pride event tomorrow from
nine thirty am till four at theMartin Luther King Junior Memorial Library on G
Street, Northwest. The event willfeature workshops, a resource fare, and
other activities appropriate for all ages.And Airports around the country are expected to
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be six to eight percent busier thanlast summer travel season. The TSA says
there is a strong chance that onseveral days they may actually screen more than
three million passengers in one day,which would be a record high. Forecast
for today is going to be cloudywith highs around seventy five. Right now,
it is sixty degrees in Suitland comingup next. Eighty percent of Americans
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think there's a really big difference betweena trip and a vacation well, what's
your definition of each? Give usa call with your thoughts at eight sixty
six nine two seven four three sixone and we'll share them in just a
few minutes. As Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues on ninety seven point
one wash FM, what is thebiggest difference between a trip and a vacation?
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It's Toby and Chilly in the Morningon ninety seven point one WASHFM.
I'm Chilli Amar, Toby Nap isout, but Taylor Shay is here and
if you've got some thoughts on thiseight six six nine two seven four three
six one. The reason I bringthis up is because eighty percent of Americans
say there's absolutely a big difference betweena trip and a vacation. What would
you say is the difference for you? Do I want to go or do
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I have to go? And isthere an appointment with said trip? So,
if you're going to a wedding forthe weekend, that's a trip.
There's a reason that's not about youthat you have to travel somewhere. Yeah,
But what about if it's a girl'strip, Now that's a vacation.
You consider that a vacation? Yeah, because it has it's all about you
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and your own relaxation. And yeah, there's a relaxation component even if you
have some plans like you did agirl's trip to New York recently. Yeah,
that was a vacation. That wasnot a vacation for me because of
the time away. So to me, one of the differences is how far
or how long am I gone?If it's a day or two, that
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feels trippy, that doesn't feel vacation. Y. I for me to feel
like something is a vacation, Ineed to settle into it, settle down
kind of like you know, getunpacked, yes, and just kind of
have a few days. I don'twant it to be like I drove somewhere,
spend a couple of nights and droveback. That was a quick trip.
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But that's what we think. Whatabout you eight six six nine two
seven four three six' one Whatdo you think is the biggest difference between
a trip and a vacation? Verytimely, considering we're about to head into
a holiday weekend next week and ofcourse the summer ahead. We'll get to
your calls and thoughts as a Tobyand Chilly in the Morning continues. But
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first, Taylor is approaching forty Yes, the Big Four to Zho, she
says, there's something unexpected happening.Nobody told me about this that she is
trying to resolve before it gets awayfrom her, and we'll share what that
is next. On ninety seven,it's Toby and Chilly in the Morning.
On ninety seven point one Wash FM, Welcome to Friday, May seventeenth.
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I am Chili Amar. Toby Knappis out, but a producer, Taylor
Shay is in. So what isthis revelation that you've had recently? So
I turned forty in August and Igot this job. I started this job
about six months ago. It's abig girl job. I've been working at
home for the last few years orI've only worked weekends and evenings. Nobody's
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here. I haven't really worn makeupor anything like that, done any skincare
since before the pandemic. Wow.Yeah. And I was like, well,
I'm gonna start wearing makeup now.And I put it on and I'm
like, this does not look right. I have like textured skin now and
it's dry. Makeup doesn't sit thesame. I've got crows feed. Hey,
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welcome to forty. Yeah. SoI'm spending a fortune now on skincare.
No one told me about this partwhen you turn forty. Okay,
so what do you mean you're spendLike what are you buying for your face?
So I'm going off recommendations on TikTok, which is probably a bad idea.
But also some girlfriends of mine aremakeup artists and they're like, we'll
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start with toner and vitamin C andretinol, a good I cream and a
nice primer when you put on I'mlike what I mean? You said you're
buying all this stuff, but Imean, are you really going to use
it or like be consistent? Oh, definitely, because I already see the
difference, and I've been really hardcoreabout it for probably like six weeks.
Ish show that's good and it didn'tlook bad. Right, it's not the
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worst. I mean, you're gonnahate what I'm gonna say. You don't
look any different to me today thanyou did, say weeks ago for me,
but you know the difference, Chilli. I'm hundreds in yeah this,
But here's what I will say.I was like, you, you know,
I've got a decade on you.I was like you Like, I
was like into the skincare. I'mgoing to do all these things, but
it's a process, and you can'tjust do it once and be done every
day. You have to go throughthis, yeah, sticking to it.
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I just can't stick to it.You can't. Oh yeah, because I'm
seeing the results and my makeup looksbetter when I do it, So I
will stick with it for sure,not me, which is why I'm very
grateful. I'm in radio. Comingup next, we are going to get
you up to speed on all thethings going on in the news with Toby
and Chilli's top stories. As Tobyand Chilly in the Morning continues on ninety
seven point one wash FF, whatis the difference between a trip and a
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vacation? It's Toby and Chilly inthe Morning on ninety seven point one WASHFM.
I'm Chilli, I'm ar, TobyNap is out. The producer Taylor
Shay is here today. We're talkingabout this because eighty percent of people said
that there is absolutely a difference betweena trip and a vacation. Earlier on
the show, I had said,for me, it's the length of time.
If it's a quick turnaround, it'sa trip. If it's somewhere where
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I get to go and settle andkind of unpack and enjoy. Then I
consider it a vacation. And yousaid, Taylor, do I want to
go or do I have to go? Is there an appointment involved like a
wedding or a graduation, Because thenit's not for me, you know what
I mean. There's not downtime personaltime with that. So those are trips
for you, and a vacation isif you choose to go. Yeah,
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eight sixty six nine two seven fourto three six' one if you want
to join this conversation, or youcan also leave us a message on the
iHeartRadio app with the talk back microphone, just like Eric Ingaithersburg did. So
what is the difference for you?I feel like a trip is meant for
getting things done, but a vacationis time for you to just relax and
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enjoy yourself. You can't really dothat on a trip. That is so
true. If you cannot or ifyou are not relaxing, that is not
a true vacation, which means Iguess you gotta leave the kid at home,
please please? Okay, Next,we've got Kate in Woodbridge. What
is the difference between a trip andvacation. I don't think you can drink
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too much during a trip like vacationis a different story like go nuds,
but a trip. For some reason, it doesn't seem like you'd want to
get drunk for a trip. Okay, then it's all about the booze for
you. Kate, thanks ver muchfor jumping into the conversation. Whether you're
going to be taking a trip thisweekend or going on vacation, I hope
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you may get a safe one onemore. Toby and Jilly head over to
washupn dot com or the iHeartRadio app.