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Toby and Chili mornings on demand onninety seven point one wash. Oh.
You know I'm feeling good before fivethis morning because I'm back in town for
thirty six hours. There Chilli,Toby and Chilly in the morning. It's
ninety seven point one wash FM.Feeling good because I've forgotten due to a
lot of things going on in life. How much travel fuels the soul.
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Yes, and you were just inHawaii as a plus one to your significant
otherwall she was on a work trip. Yes, she'd be very proud of
you for saying it like that toHawaii. Oh, Whitey right, because
you can't because they will call youout if you mispronounce their words and names
and you try to say things likeyou know what I mean. I'd be
wanting to ask you this all week. Okay, go ahead, did you
get late? Well? There aremany facets to that issue. It's not
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like the Brady Bunch when it comesto Lay's. That would be the Flowers.
Yes, with the aloha to sayhello and goodbye. So they don't
put one around your neck as soonas you check into a hotel. Oh
they will if you want to buyone. Oh, you know what I
mean? They remember this is atourist thing. Man. They're like,
you know, they'll get you comingin, and they'll get you going out,
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and then on the way out they'llscan it to make sure that you
know, there's nothing bad about theflora that you're leaving the island with.
So did you purchase a flora thelay just as a memento or No?
No, because I would have hadto toss it. It would have died
while I was there. I mean, it's a flower, I mean it
is. No, it's the realThey're not like the ones of the dollar
tree that you buy. No.No. And they even had the fake
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and baked ones in the airport,like you know, the artificial ones.
Are like, hey, you cantake this back for some friends. I'm
like, no, it's a fakelay. That's not like getting the real
lay. You know what I meanwhen we're talking about lays this early morning.
Well, there's so many other aspectsof this trip that I am dying
to know. I want to knowif it was way too short to go
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to Hawaii for just three days.I want to know how you were as
the plus one. There's too manythings to come. Well, hang on
and we'll get to all of that. Coming up in just a few minutes.
Toby and Chilly in the Morning continueson this Monday, the twentieth day
of May, a week leading intoa holiday weekend. So some people have
this week off, some people havenext week off. We're going to get
today started because we're here and that'swhat it's all about. So coming up
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in just a few minutes, doyou suffer from faux po? You know,
fear of other people's opinions? Pregnant, pause on purpose, fourth wall
broken eight six six ninety two sevenforty three sixty one is the number.
If you've got thoughts, feel freeto chime in talk back. Microphones also
open. We'll get into that comingup. Ninety seven point one w ASHFM,
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Washington hat iHeartRadio station. New termalert, faux po the fear of
other people's opinions. It's kind oflike foam, only with opinions. Ninety
seven point one Watch FM where Tobyand Chilly in the Morning And if you've
got thoughts on this faux po eightsix six nine two seven forty three sixty
one. The phones are wide openfor you. So faux po, Chilly,
you came across this and why didit pique your interest this morning?
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I think so many people are guiltyof this because they don't I don't want
to stand out. Like when youlaugh at a joke, you don't necessarily
think it's funny, or you drinkat a party because you feel the peer
pressure, or you stay at worklate because well, your boss hasn't left
yet. These are just a fewexamples of this. Do you feel any
did you ever? In life?I think that might be a part of
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the problem back in the day,but it's not a part of the problem
now. I think that for me, I remember that it's it's not other
people's opinions that count. It's yourown opinion of you that counts. And
then when you remember that, everythingelse is secondary, and it all just
kind of falls into place, andthen you stop being fake and you start
being real. And sometimes I thinkyou can be a little too honest maybe,
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but is that really a bad thing? So no, I'm not a
fou po person. Are you afoupo person? Certainly not with people that
truly know me. I mean,if you know me, then whatever.
But when you first meet somebody andif it's going to be an important relationship,
there is there is a component ofthat still for me at this point,
but then that goes away after alittle while. But the older we
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get, the least we do careabout other people's say no, no,
it's a crippling thing. I mean, I know it's speaking as somebody who's
been crippled by that whole faux pothing, right you You let it consume
you, and that's not healthy.It's not okay. I mean, but
you know what do I know?I'm no therapist, I'm no doctor.
I don't have a degree, andI didn't walk to States to graduate at
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high school. I just know thatI don't have faupo. And I know
that I have not worried about whatother people think in a while now.
And you know what, it's beengood for the soul. It really has
faux po thoughts. Talk back,microphones wide open if you want to jump
into this conversation about faupo. Areyou worried about other people's opinions? Why
or why not? We won't judge. Just want to hear what you think
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this morning, So tap speaking sentif you're signed into your iHeart app listening
to ninety seven point one watch FMand Toby and Chilly in the Morning.
We're coming up next. We've gotyour morning mindset words to inspire you to
get through the faux po We say, that's right. Maybe the quote will
definitely help you next. Stay there. Now it's time to check on you
and your headspace. How is yourmindset this morning? It's ninety seven point
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one watch FM Toby and Chili inthe morning on this Monday. This is
the time of the show where wepause and share a quote to get you
into a good headspace, which youmay need, especially on the first day
of the week. So today thisone popped up in front of me and
I thought of you. Toe forKirby says, we forget who we are
sometimes, but oh the power whenwe remember. Now, for whatever reason,
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you might have forgotten who you are, for whatever reason, somebody might
have changed you and you just choseto compartmentalize who you are. For whatever
reason, we forget, but thenwe remember, and oh the power when
we do. Tofer Kirby says,we forget who we are sometimes, but
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oh the power when we remember.Think about that today. Maybe it'll player.
Maybe you can share it with somebodywho needs to hear it. You'll
find it on the Toby and Chilipage at waschefm dot com. And that
is your morning mindset for this Monday. Coming up some entertainment news. We
call it show biz buzz. Ohboy, chilly, this was a busy
weekend in the world of things.Oh yeah, So Sean Diddy Coombs finally
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spoke out not that horrific video ofhim from twenty sixteen surfaced. We'll share
what he had to say in justa few ninety seven point one WASHEFM.
It's time to spell said tea yourentertainment Dix. We call it schobiz buzz
Chili. What's going on? Wow? Sean Diddy Coombs shared an apology video
on social media yesterday. It justhappened just a couple of days after a
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twenty sixteen hotel surveillance video showed himassaulting his then girlfriend in the hallway.
In this video, did he saidquote, I take full responsibility for my
actions. I'm disgusted. I wasdisgusted then when I did it. I'm
disgusted now. You know rumors havebeen swirling about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez
heading into divorce world. Well,they were recently seen together in public for
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the first time in over a month. This happened to be at a school
play for one of Ben's kids,but afterwards Ben reportedly dropped Jen off at
their home while he returned to arental house alone. CNN political commentator Alice
Stewart, she's died. She wasonly fifty eight years old. Her body
was found in a Northern Virginian neighborhood. No foul play is suspected. Investigators
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think that she just suffered a medicalemergency. And Sony Music sent a letter
to over seven hundred firms, includingGoogle, Microsoft and Open Ai, warning
them not to use Sony songs withoutpermission in order to train, develop or
make money from AI. Sony Musicclaims it has reason to believe this may
already be happening. And that isyour showbiz buzz And for more entertainment news
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on demand through today, connect withwasfm dot com and refresh. Often were
Toby and Chilly in the morning,It's ninety seven point one WASCHFM coming up
tough stories at the top of thehour. Your first look at the headlines
you need to know this morning.Right around six ish, the President of
Iran, along with his foreign ministerand several others have been killed in a
helicopter crash. The helicopter ran intoheavy fog while returning from a trip to
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the Iran Azerbaijan border. Students demandingan end to the conflict between Israel Henemas
are again making their voices heard.At George Washington University. More than one
hundred pro Palestinian protesters walked out ofyesterday's graduation ceremony on the National Mall.
A police officer in a suspect recoveringafter an officer involved shooting. This happened
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in Northwest DC over the weekend.Police were taking a man into custody for
a mental health evaluation when he allegedlypulled out a knife and stabbed one of
the officers in the neck. Officersdeployed a taser to try to subdue the
man, but that was not effective, which then led to another officer to
shoot the suspect. In preparation forincreased traffic over Memorial Day weekend, police
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conducted high visibility traffic enforcement. Thishappened along Route fifteen year the Bay Bridge
on Friday, and they issued twohundred and seventy seven citations and stopped one
hundred eighty nine cars with one driverbeing charged with the dui And according to
recent surveys, sixty five percent ofAmericans rate their grocery shopping habits says somewhat
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healthy, but thirty percent of themadmit to buying healthy foods well just because
it's trendy. Overall, eighty twopercent of people look for products that include
words like multi grain or high Inforecast for today is going to be beautyful,
sunny highs between seventy five and eightyRight now fifty eight in Temple Hills.
This is the last time you sawa movie. How do you feel
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about the new movie going experience wherethey have these amazing seats and these recliners
and massage chairs and stuff. Chillie, I understand you saw a movie over
the weekend and you've had a revelationthat some people might be able to relate
to. Yes, eight sixty six, nine two seven forty three sixty one
is the number. Keep that inmind. If you've got thoughts, feel
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free to jump in. Now,what did ChIL you learn at the theater
about these reclining seats and stuff.You'll find out in a few don't go
anywhere. How do you like theexperience at the movies now that it's they're
getting all of these high end,amazing seats and more. Have you seen
a movie in a theater late Tobyand Chilly in the morning, it's ninety
seven point one was Chef m andeight sixty six nineteen seven forty three sixty
one Chili. I take it yousaw a movie over the weekend and you
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had some thoughts you wanted to sharewith the class about the movie going experience.
Well, the seats we're talking aboutare the ones that recline like a
bed, almost honest to God thatsome of them get heated. You can
get the head rest, the feet, it's luxurious. There's an issue though,
at least I don't know if youcan relate. But when we go
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to a theater like that, everysingle it's been six times now, I
fall asleep. And initially I thought, oh, you know what, it's
because we're going to see like akid movie with my son and maybe it
doesn't get my attention or whatever.And I'm like, Okay, we went
to see IF over the weekend.Ryan Reynolds, John Krasinski. You know,
I number two to I think Clooneyis Ryan Reynolds for me, I
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love this guy fell asleep? Idid. I you know what I can
I have to stay upright. There'sno way I can lounge in those chairs
and not fall asleep, even ifI sleep in Do you do you?
Are you able to stay awake?Yeah? But if the movie stinks,
then it's just helpful to have recliningseats that are like flying first class somewhere
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so you can sleep. That's avery expensive nap, my friend. Well,
you know, sometimes a movie isn'tall it's cracked up to be.
I mean, you know, evenwith a good movie, though, there's
something about my body being in thatreclined position that signals to my brain night
night, that's just lack of sleep. Now what does this mean for you?
Listen, Well, it means thatmaybe you've had the same experience in
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those reclining chairs, or maybe youhaven't been back to a theater since to
see what this is all about.If you have it and now you know
what to expect, you might fallasleep if you have some kind of crazy
schedule like we do, or ifyou just fall asleep at the darnedest times
and the darnedest places. But bottomline is may not be for you.
You might just need to wait untilit comes out on streaming services so you
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can watch from the comfort of yourown home. Because I don't think that
you fall asleep. I've never heardyou once say no that you fall asleep
while watching a movie at home.Never never keep that in mind next time
you go to a theater. Now, let's play the game Tolby and Philly's
Nearly Impossible question. Here's a questiontoday. Thirty one percent of Americans said
doing this puts them in debt orhas put them in debt in the last
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five years? What is it?Eight six six ninety two seven forty three
sixty one? That is the number? John Legend wolf Trap with the wolf
Trap Orchestra. He's going to beplaying with the orchestra. You could be
there to see it. Here's thequestion again, thirty one percent of Americans
said doing this put them in debtpast five years? What is it?
Eight six six nine two seven fortythree sixty one? That is the number?
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Call now answered right when your wayin to see John Legend the Nearly
Impossible question on ninety seven point oneWash FM, and your answer is on
the web. Sonya Columbia. Goodmorning. Are you ready to play this
game? Yes? I am alrightyon this Monday chill. He has the
question one more time for the benefitof those who might have missed it.
Thirty one percent of Americans said doingthis put them in debt the last five
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years. What do you think we'retalking about going to a wedding or attending
a wedding? Have you ever takenon debt to go to somebody's wedding before?
Do you think that's even fair?Yes? I've been to three weddings
this year, and just given thecost of giving gifts is very expensive.
Have they been destination weddings or havethey been local? You haven't had to
worry about that, have you?No, they're all local so and destinations
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probably cost jest as much with theairline tickets and hotels and a lot of
that stuff. But most of thews I went to local and plus dressing,
You know, dressing for these isgoing to cost you money. You
gotta get a new dress for eachother yep. Yeah, and get your
hair done in your nail. Oh, and then there's the new outfit,
right. Yeah, you know it'stoo stressful to go to weddings. Yeah,
well it's too exit. It's prettyexpensive, apparently, because attending a
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wedding is the answer. Yes,thank you, yes in hair come,
thank you, You're welcome, Sonya, thank you for playing Congrats on the
wind today. Tell us the nameof the station that hooked you up?
Please ninety seven point ONEm all right, John Legend Wolfstrap playing with that wolf
Trap orchestra. More tickets tomorrow morningwith another round of your nearly impossible question.
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Need the news? Top Stories atthe Top of the Hour on the
way, Don't go Anywhere nineties sevenpoint one w ASHFM, Washington at iHeartRadio
station. Coming up on Top Stories, Top of the Hour. The cargo
ship that caused the collapse of theKey Bridge in Baltimore will begin being removed
this morning. All the details inminutes less than ten actually top stories.
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It's top of the hour. That'swhat we call the news. Toby and
Shelley in the morning. It's ninetyseven point one was chef at Washington's Variety
from the eighties nineties and today theywould be Maroon five Top Stories, Top
of the Hour. Iran's president hasdied, along with eight others, including
the Iranian foreign minister in a helicoptercrash. The President in Iran is the
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second highest ranking official, following theSupreme Leader. The cargo ship that caused
the collapse of the Key Bridge ofBaltimore will be removed from the channels starting
today. Up to five tug boatswill tow and push the ship about two
and a half miles to the SeagirtMarine Terminal in Baltimore, which will take
about three hours. Palisse. Aman is in critical condition after shooting in
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a hotel parking lot. This happenedearly yesterday morning in Arlington. Investigators believe
two groups were involved in a verbalaltercation when the shooter discharged a firearm,
striking the victim in two parked cars. A man's recovering after falling down an
elevator shaft in northwest d See.This happened in a building on Saturday morning.
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The elevator cheft was reportedly open becausethe building is under renovation, and
according to a reads and study,patients did better after surgery when they had
female doctors. Researchers speculate it mayhave to do with better follow up care,
as well as women doctors providing longervisits with patients for cast for today
This morning, fog will go away, It'll be sunny seventy seven, the
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high right now sixty in Chantay.Hey, let me ask you something.
Eight sixty six nineteen seven forty threesixty one is the number one to get
your take on this. When itcomes to vacation, perhaps maybe you've got
one planned. Where are you going? Is it quite the distance away?
Is it worth traveling all that distancefor just three days? We will talk
about it. Chili's obviously over theregoing ah. But we want to know
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what you think because this is aboutyou, not us. So jump into
the conversation at eight six six nineteenseven forty three sixty one and we'll get
into why this is a thing.Coming up next Toby and Chilly in the
Morning continue now it's time for astory that we think might just make your
Monday clean clothes brighter futures. WereToby and Chilly in the Morning. You're
at ninety seven point one wash FM, And for this story, we go
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to Kelly Miller Middle School in NortheastDC. So this guy named Jovon Johnson
was working as a community liaison withthe group called Communities and Schools of the
nation's capital. And you noticed thatsome of the students weren't coming to school
because they didn't have clean clothes.This could be because maybe the washer dryer
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was broken in their apartments, orthey didn't even have them at all.
In this case, it was teasing. The teasing stopped them from attending classes,
and so Joeman took action. Hecollected all these dirty clothes, washed
them using the school's washer and dryer, and then gave the kids their clean
clothes back on Fridays. And hekept it all very confidential, that's right.
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He did them as solid And thenhe realized when he went to a
different school this problem existed there aswell. Now that school did not have
machines. But he made sure thatthose kids got those clean clothes that they
could come to school the next day. Anyone got the money to install a
washer and a ventless dryer, andthen he set up pipes in the girl's
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bathroom into a utility closet. Unbelievablethe way community and schools they work nationwide
to prevent dropouts. In DC alone, they support almost forty five hundred k
through twelve students, and they focuson things like academics, behavior, and
attendance. Why does this matter?The little things, simple solutions can help
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bring about big changes and overcome bigchallenges. And what he did was do
something about the problem that's been growingin the district. So for that we
thank you. And it's a storythat definitely made our Monday. Where Toby
and Chilly in the morning, it'sninety seven point one WASHFM. You can
read more than Toby and chilipage washefmdot com. In the meantime, the
news Top stories at the top ofthe hour on the way in just minutes,
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Top Stories Top of the Hour.The President of Iran, along with
his foreign minister and several others havebeen killed in a helicopter crash. The
helicopter ran into heavy fog while itwas returning from a trip to the Iran
Azerbaijan border. Students demanding an endto the conflict between Israel and Hamas are
again making their voices heard at GeorgeWashington University. More than one hundred pro
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Palace Indian protesters walked out of yesterday'sgraduation ceremony on the National Mall. A
police officer and a suspect are recoveringafter an officer involved shooting. This happened
in Northwest DC over the weekend.Police were taking a man into custody for
a mental health evaluation when he allegedlypulled out a knife and stabbed one of
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the officers in the neck. Officersthen deployed a taser to try to subdue
the man, but it was ineffectiveand that led to an officer to shoot
the suspect. Sean Diddy COLEMs,calling his behavior quote inexcusable. He apologized
in a video on social media overthe weekend over a twenty SI sixteen video
that was released Friday that shows himassaulting his ex girlfriend. Diddy will not
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be facing charges because the statute oflimitations has expired. At a recent ranking
list the sexiest and least sexy accentsin the United States, Texas's slow Southern
drawl takes the top spot, followedby Boston and New York. Now on
the flip side, the least sexyaccent was contributed to Long Islanders forecast for
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today, It's gonna be a niceday later sunny seventy seven, the high
right now sixty one. In SilverSpring, Ever, go on a work
trip with a significant other for thefirst time how did did go? Eight
sixty six, ninety seven forty threesixty one is the number if you want
to jump into this. We havea story to telling. We will next
as Toby and Chill in the Morningcontinues, hangout. That's a last.
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This is gonna take me down.He sucks and lives a mess. Toad
stories. Top of the hour.The President of Iran, along with his
foreign minister and several others have beenkilled in a helicopter crash. The helicopter
ran into heavy fog while it wasreturning from a trip to the Iran Azerbaijan
(21:15):
border. Students demanding an end tothe conflict between Israel and Hamas are again
making their voices heard. At GeorgeWashington University. More than one hundred pro
Palace Indian protesters walked out of yesterday'sgraduation ceremony on the National Mall. A
police officer and a suspect are recoveringafter an officer involved shooting. This happened
in Northwest DC over the weekend.Police were taking a man into custody for
(21:40):
a mental health evaluation when he allegedlypulled out a knife and stabbed one of
the officers in the neck. Officersthen deployed a taser to try to subdue
the man, but it was ineffectiveand that led to an officer to shoot
the suspect. Sean Dinny COLEMs,calling his behavior quote inexcusable. He apologized
in a video on social media overthe weekend over a twenty sixteen video that
(22:04):
was released Friday that shows him assaultinghis ex girlfriend. Diddy will not be
facing charges because the statute of limitationshas expired. At a recent ranking list
the sexiest and least sexy accents inthe United States, Texas's slow Southern drawl
takes the top spot, followed byBoston and New York. Now on the
(22:26):
flip side, the least sexy accentwas contributed to Long Islanders forecast for today,
It's going to be a nice daylater sunny seventy seven the high right
now sixty one in Silver Spring.Ever, go on a work trip with
a significant other for the first time? How did did go? Eight?
Sixty six, ninety seven, fortythree, sixty one is the number If
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you want to jump into this,we have a story to telling. We
will next. As Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues, Hangout edver beIN
a plus one on a work trip. How'd that go? Toby and Chilly
in the morning eight ninety three sixtyone or the talkback microphones wide open taps
speaks send if you're signed into youriHeart app listening to us. Would love
to know your thoughts on this becauseover the weekend it was my first time
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being a plus one on a worktrip and it just so happened. The
work trip was to Hawaii. Yeah, and before you left, well,
I was a little bit concerned thatyou, being the pokey little puppy that
you are, may get yourself intotrouble and get yourself in the way of
your girlfriend doing her job. Norconcerns. She was the one who reminded
me. She's like, you can'tdo this. You can't listen, you
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don't don't do anything that would getyou. I can't get you out of
a brig So how did it go. Do you think you passed the test?
Yes? Absolutely good. I stayedout of the way. I cannot
get arrested. Did I cause anyheadaches? Nope? Absolutely I passed.
I would give myself an A plusis a plus one? Was it hard
for you to stay out of theway? And not offer to help and
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all those other things, or didyou find it easier than you thought.
I found it to be easier andmore refreshing than I thought, because you
know, I went out there toaccompany her. She was working. I
was not there. I was unofficiallythere. I was just there. And
there is being Hawaii. So it'sa beautiful place to kind of go do
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your own things. You know.I got out and I get my own
thing, and I was able toexplore new places alone, and I enjoyed
myself and Bob while respecting her space. And I tried to be as supportive
as I could be without trying tobe overshadowing or anything. Yeah. And
also, when you accompany a significantother on a work trip of theirs,
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you see them in a totally differentlight. Oh yeah, what was your
impression of her? I was proudof her. Yeah, that's why I
actually left her a card. Istuffed it into her makeup bag before I
left, knowing that I was leavingway before she was. Yeah, And
I wrote in the card, AndI don't think she would mind me telling
you this, even though it's kindof personal. I was like to see
you in action. Yeah, seeyou and your element and to see all
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of these things that I know you'vebeen working on so tirelessly, that you
were doing selflessly, you know,because she was doing it for a health
You know, she's doing it fora reason, and just just to see
her in action was just impressive.I was I was just very very proud,
and I was also humbled too,because I think there are things in
life that involve you know, musicand whatever that sometimes we take for granted
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in the show because it just comeswith the territory of this job. Do
you think you'll ever be invited foranother one of her work trips? Well,
I know she's got something coming upin Hawaii fourth July, and let's
just stay I left Hawaii with ataste for wanting more so nice e actually,
and I happened to be on breakaround the fourth of July at the
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same time she'll be on a cruiseship. You could probably do the math
on where I'm might be tagging along, staying away, trying not to get
myself into any sorts of trouble,and hopefully I'll be able to make it
back in one piece. Ever beenon a work trip? Tell us your
story eight six six nine, two, seven, forty three sixty one.
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Oh you were a plus one?How did it go? We love good
stories, so tell us what.Toby and Chilly press some more music Buttons
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Toby and Chili mornings on demand onninety seven point one wash. Oh.
You know I'm feeling good before fivethis morning because I'm back in town for
thirty six hours. There Chilli,Toby and Chilly in the morning. It's
ninety seven point one wash FM.Feeling good because I've forgotten due to a
lot of things going on in life. How much travel fuels the soul.
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Yes, and you were just inHawaii as a plus one to your significant
otherwall she was on a work trip. Yes, she'd be very proud of
you for saying it like that toHawaii. Oh, Whitey right, because
you can't because they will call youout if you mispronounce their words and names
and you try to say things likeyou know what I mean. I'd be
wanting to ask you this all week. Okay, go ahead, did you
get late? Well? There aremany facets to that issue. It's not
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like the Brady Bunch when it comesto Lay's. That would be the Flowers.
Yes, with the aloha to sayhello and goodbye. So they don't
put one around your neck as soonas you check into a hotel. Oh
they will if you want to buyone. Oh, you know what I
mean? They remember this is atourist thing. Man. They're like,
you know, they'll get you comingin, and they'll get you going out,
(01:07):
and then on the way out they'llscan it to make sure that you
know, there's nothing bad about theflora that you're leaving the island with.
So did you purchase a flora thelay just as a memento or No?
No, because I would have hadto toss it. It would have died
while I was there. I mean, it's a flower, I mean it
is. No, it's the realThey're not like the ones of the dollar
tree that you buy. No.No. And they even had the fake
(01:30):
and baked ones in the airport,like you know, the artificial ones.
Are like, hey, you cantake this back for some friends. I'm
like, no, it's a fakelay. That's not like getting the real
lay. You know what I meanwhen we're talking about lays this early morning.
Well, there's so many other aspectsof this trip that I am dying
to know. I want to knowif it was way too short to go
(01:51):
to Hawaii for just three days.I want to know how you were as
the plus one. There's too manythings to come. Well, hang on
and we'll get to all of that. Coming up in just a few minutes.
Toby and Chilly in the Morning continueson this Monday, the twentieth day
of May, a week leading intoa holiday weekend. So some people have
this week off, some people havenext week off. We're going to get
today started because we're here and that'swhat it's all about. So coming up
(02:14):
in just a few minutes, doyou suffer from faux po? You know,
fear of other people's opinions? Pregnant, pause on purpose, fourth wall
broken eight six six ninety two sevenforty three sixty one is the number.
If you've got thoughts, feel freeto chime in talk back. Microphones also
open. We'll get into that comingup. Ninety seven point one w ASHFM,
(02:35):
Washington hat iHeartRadio station. New termalert, faux po the fear of
other people's opinions. It's kind oflike foam, only with opinions. Ninety
seven point one Watch FM where Tobyand Chilly in the Morning And if you've
got thoughts on this faux po eightsix six nine two seven forty three sixty
one. The phones are wide openfor you. So faux po, Chilly,
you came across this and why didit pique your interest this morning?
(02:57):
I think so many people are guiltyof this because they don't I don't want
to stand out. Like when youlaugh at a joke, you don't necessarily
think it's funny, or you drinkat a party because you feel the peer
pressure, or you stay at worklate because well, your boss hasn't left
yet. These are just a fewexamples of this. Do you feel any
did you ever? In life?I think that might be a part of
(03:20):
the problem back in the day,but it's not a part of the problem
now. I think that for me, I remember that it's it's not other
people's opinions that count. It's yourown opinion of you that counts. And
then when you remember that, everythingelse is secondary, and it all just
kind of falls into place, andthen you stop being fake and you start
being real. And sometimes I thinkyou can be a little too honest maybe,
(03:43):
but is that really a bad thing? So no, I'm not a
fou po person. Are you afoupo person? Certainly not with people that
truly know me. I mean,if you know me, then whatever.
But when you first meet somebody andif it's going to be an important relationship,
there is there is a component ofthat still for me at this point,
but then that goes away after alittle while. But the older we
(04:05):
get, the least we do careabout other people's say no, no,
it's a crippling thing. I mean, I know it's speaking as somebody who's
been crippled by that whole faux pothing, right you You let it consume
you, and that's not healthy.It's not okay. I mean, but
you know what do I know?I'm no therapist, I'm no doctor.
I don't have a degree, andI didn't walk to States to graduate at
(04:27):
high school. I just know thatI don't have faupo. And I know
that I have not worried about whatother people think in a while now.
And you know what, it's beengood for the soul. It really has
faux po thoughts. Talk back,microphones wide open if you want to jump
into this conversation about faupo. Areyou worried about other people's opinions? Why
or why not? We won't judge. Just want to hear what you think
(04:50):
this morning, So tap speaking sentif you're signed into your iHeart app listening
to ninety seven point one watch FMand Toby and Chilly in the Morning.
We're coming up next. We've gotyour morning mindset words to inspire you to
get through the faux po We say, that's right. Maybe the quote will
definitely help you next. Stay there. Now it's time to check on you
and your headspace. How is yourmindset this morning? It's ninety seven point
(05:12):
one watch FM Toby and Chili inthe morning on this Monday. This is
the time of the show where wepause and share a quote to get you
into a good headspace, which youmay need, especially on the first day
of the week. So today thisone popped up in front of me and
I thought of you. Toe forKirby says, we forget who we are
sometimes, but oh the power whenwe remember. Now, for whatever reason,
(05:34):
you might have forgotten who you are, for whatever reason, somebody might
have changed you and you just choseto compartmentalize who you are. For whatever
reason, we forget, but thenwe remember, and oh the power when
we do. Tofer Kirby says,we forget who we are sometimes, but
(05:55):
oh the power when we remember.Think about that today. Maybe it'll player.
Maybe you can share it with somebodywho needs to hear it. You'll
find it on the Toby and Chilipage at waschefm dot com. And that
is your morning mindset for this Monday. Coming up some entertainment news. We
call it show biz buzz. Ohboy, chilly, this was a busy
weekend in the world of things.Oh yeah, So Sean Diddy Coombs finally
(06:17):
spoke out not that horrific video ofhim from twenty sixteen surfaced. We'll share
what he had to say in justa few ninety seven point one WASHEFM.
It's time to spell said tea yourentertainment Dix. We call it schobiz buzz
Chili. What's going on? Wow? Sean Diddy Coombs shared an apology video
on social media yesterday. It justhappened just a couple of days after a
(06:39):
twenty sixteen hotel surveillance video showed himassaulting his then girlfriend in the hallway.
In this video, did he saidquote, I take full responsibility for my
actions. I'm disgusted. I wasdisgusted then when I did it. I'm
disgusted now. You know rumors havebeen swirling about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez
heading into divorce world. Well,they were recently seen together in public for
(07:03):
the first time in over a month. This happened to be at a school
play for one of Ben's kids,but afterwards Ben reportedly dropped Jen off at
their home while he returned to arental house alone. CNN political commentator Alice
Stewart, she's died. She wasonly fifty eight years old. Her body
was found in a Northern Virginian neighborhood. No foul play is suspected. Investigators
(07:27):
think that she just suffered a medicalemergency. And Sony Music sent a letter
to over seven hundred firms, includingGoogle, Microsoft and Open Ai, warning
them not to use Sony songs withoutpermission in order to train, develop or
make money from AI. Sony Musicclaims it has reason to believe this may
already be happening. And that isyour showbiz buzz And for more entertainment news
(07:53):
on demand through today, connect withwasfm dot com and refresh. Often were
Toby and Chilly in the morning,It's ninety seven point one WASCHFM coming up
tough stories at the top of thehour. Your first look at the headlines
you need to know this morning.Right around six ish, the President of
Iran, along with his foreign ministerand several others have been killed in a
helicopter crash. The helicopter ran intoheavy fog while returning from a trip to
(08:16):
the Iran Azerbaijan border. Students demandingan end to the conflict between Israel Henemas
are again making their voices heard.At George Washington University. More than one
hundred pro Palestinian protesters walked out ofyesterday's graduation ceremony on the National Mall.
A police officer in a suspect recoveringafter an officer involved shooting. This happened
(08:37):
in Northwest DC over the weekend.Police were taking a man into custody for
a mental health evaluation when he allegedlypulled out a knife and stabbed one of
the officers in the neck. Officersdeployed a taser to try to subdue the
man, but that was not effective, which then led to another officer to
shoot the suspect. In preparation forincreased traffic over Memorial Day weekend, police
(08:58):
conducted high visibility traffic enforcement. Thishappened along Route fifteen year the Bay Bridge
on Friday, and they issued twohundred and seventy seven citations and stopped one
hundred eighty nine cars with one driverbeing charged with the dui And according to
recent surveys, sixty five percent ofAmericans rate their grocery shopping habits says somewhat
(09:20):
healthy, but thirty percent of themadmit to buying healthy foods well just because
it's trendy. Overall, eighty twopercent of people look for products that include
words like multi grain or high Inforecast for today is going to be beautyful,
sunny highs between seventy five and eightyRight now fifty eight in Temple Hills.
This is the last time you sawa movie. How do you feel
(09:41):
about the new movie going experience wherethey have these amazing seats and these recliners
and massage chairs and stuff. Chillie, I understand you saw a movie over
the weekend and you've had a revelationthat some people might be able to relate
to. Yes, eight sixty six, nine two seven forty three sixty one
is the number. Keep that inmind. If you've got thoughts, feel
(10:01):
free to jump in. Now,what did ChIL you learn at the theater
about these reclining seats and stuff.You'll find out in a few don't go
anywhere. How do you like theexperience at the movies now that it's they're
getting all of these high end,amazing seats and more. Have you seen
a movie in a theater late Tobyand Chilly in the morning, it's ninety
seven point one was Chef m andeight sixty six nineteen seven forty three sixty
one Chili. I take it yousaw a movie over the weekend and you
(10:24):
had some thoughts you wanted to sharewith the class about the movie going experience.
Well, the seats we're talking aboutare the ones that recline like a
bed, almost honest to God thatsome of them get heated. You can
get the head rest, the feet, it's luxurious. There's an issue though,
at least I don't know if youcan relate. But when we go
(10:45):
to a theater like that, everysingle it's been six times now, I
fall asleep. And initially I thought, oh, you know what, it's
because we're going to see like akid movie with my son and maybe it
doesn't get my attention or whatever.And I'm like, Okay, we went
to see IF over the weekend.Ryan Reynolds, John Krasinski. You know,
I number two to I think Clooneyis Ryan Reynolds for me, I
(11:09):
love this guy fell asleep? Idid. I you know what I can
I have to stay upright. There'sno way I can lounge in those chairs
and not fall asleep, even ifI sleep in Do you do you?
Are you able to stay awake?Yeah? But if the movie stinks,
then it's just helpful to have recliningseats that are like flying first class somewhere
(11:33):
so you can sleep. That's avery expensive nap, my friend. Well,
you know, sometimes a movie isn'tall it's cracked up to be.
I mean, you know, evenwith a good movie, though, there's
something about my body being in thatreclined position that signals to my brain night
night, that's just lack of sleep. Now what does this mean for you?
Listen, Well, it means thatmaybe you've had the same experience in
(11:56):
those reclining chairs, or maybe youhaven't been back to a theater since to
see what this is all about.If you have it and now you know
what to expect, you might fallasleep if you have some kind of crazy
schedule like we do, or ifyou just fall asleep at the darnedest times
and the darnedest places. But bottomline is may not be for you.
You might just need to wait untilit comes out on streaming services so you
(12:20):
can watch from the comfort of yourown home. Because I don't think that
you fall asleep. I've never heardyou once say no that you fall asleep
while watching a movie at home.Never never keep that in mind next time
you go to a theater. Now, let's play the game Tolby and Philly's
Nearly Impossible question. Here's a questiontoday. Thirty one percent of Americans said
doing this puts them in debt orhas put them in debt in the last
(12:41):
five years? What is it?Eight six six ninety two seven forty three
sixty one? That is the number? John Legend wolf Trap with the wolf
Trap Orchestra. He's going to beplaying with the orchestra. You could be
there to see it. Here's thequestion again, thirty one percent of Americans
said doing this put them in debtpast five years? What is it?
Eight six six nine two seven fortythree sixty one? That is the number?
(13:03):
Call now answered right when your wayin to see John Legend the Nearly
Impossible question on ninety seven point oneWash FM, and your answer is on
the web. Sonya Columbia. Goodmorning. Are you ready to play this
game? Yes? I am alrightyon this Monday chill. He has the
question one more time for the benefitof those who might have missed it.
Thirty one percent of Americans said doingthis put them in debt the last five
(13:26):
years. What do you think we'retalking about going to a wedding or attending
a wedding? Have you ever takenon debt to go to somebody's wedding before?
Do you think that's even fair?Yes? I've been to three weddings
this year, and just given thecost of giving gifts is very expensive.
Have they been destination weddings or havethey been local? You haven't had to
worry about that, have you?No, they're all local so and destinations
(13:50):
probably cost jest as much with theairline tickets and hotels and a lot of
that stuff. But most of thews I went to local and plus dressing,
You know, dressing for these isgoing to cost you money. You
gotta get a new dress for eachother yep. Yeah, and get your
hair done in your nail. Oh, and then there's the new outfit,
right. Yeah, you know it'stoo stressful to go to weddings. Yeah,
well it's too exit. It's prettyexpensive, apparently, because attending a
(14:13):
wedding is the answer. Yes,thank you, yes in hair come,
thank you, You're welcome, Sonya, thank you for playing Congrats on the
wind today. Tell us the nameof the station that hooked you up?
Please ninety seven point ONEm all right, John Legend Wolfstrap playing with that wolf
Trap orchestra. More tickets tomorrow morningwith another round of your nearly impossible question.
(14:37):
Need the news? Top Stories atthe Top of the Hour on the
way, Don't go Anywhere nineties sevenpoint one w ASHFM, Washington at iHeartRadio
station. Coming up on Top Stories, Top of the Hour. The cargo
ship that caused the collapse of theKey Bridge in Baltimore will begin being removed
this morning. All the details inminutes less than ten actually top stories.
(14:58):
It's top of the hour. That'swhat we call the news. Toby and
Shelley in the morning. It's ninetyseven point one was chef at Washington's Variety
from the eighties nineties and today theywould be Maroon five Top Stories, Top
of the Hour. Iran's president hasdied, along with eight others, including
the Iranian foreign minister in a helicoptercrash. The President in Iran is the
(15:20):
second highest ranking official, following theSupreme Leader. The cargo ship that caused
the collapse of the Key Bridge ofBaltimore will be removed from the channels starting
today. Up to five tug boatswill tow and push the ship about two
and a half miles to the SeagirtMarine Terminal in Baltimore, which will take
about three hours. Palisse. Aman is in critical condition after shooting in
(15:43):
a hotel parking lot. This happenedearly yesterday morning in Arlington. Investigators believe
two groups were involved in a verbalaltercation when the shooter discharged a firearm,
striking the victim in two parked cars. A man's recovering after falling down an
elevator shaft in northwest d See.This happened in a building on Saturday morning.
(16:03):
The elevator cheft was reportedly open becausethe building is under renovation, and
according to a reads and study,patients did better after surgery when they had
female doctors. Researchers speculate it mayhave to do with better follow up care,
as well as women doctors providing longervisits with patients for cast for today
This morning, fog will go away, It'll be sunny seventy seven, the
(16:27):
high right now sixty in Chantay.Hey, let me ask you something.
Eight sixty six nineteen seven forty threesixty one is the number one to get
your take on this. When itcomes to vacation, perhaps maybe you've got
one planned. Where are you going? Is it quite the distance away?
Is it worth traveling all that distancefor just three days? We will talk
about it. Chili's obviously over theregoing ah. But we want to know
(16:51):
what you think because this is aboutyou, not us. So jump into
the conversation at eight six six nineteenseven forty three sixty one and we'll get
into why this is a thing.Coming up next Toby and Chilly in the
Morning continue now it's time for astory that we think might just make your
Monday clean clothes brighter futures. WereToby and Chilly in the Morning. You're
at ninety seven point one wash FM, And for this story, we go
(17:12):
to Kelly Miller Middle School in NortheastDC. So this guy named Jovon Johnson
was working as a community liaison withthe group called Communities and Schools of the
nation's capital. And you noticed thatsome of the students weren't coming to school
because they didn't have clean clothes.This could be because maybe the washer dryer
(17:32):
was broken in their apartments, orthey didn't even have them at all.
In this case, it was teasing. The teasing stopped them from attending classes,
and so Joeman took action. Hecollected all these dirty clothes, washed
them using the school's washer and dryer, and then gave the kids their clean
clothes back on Fridays. And hekept it all very confidential, that's right.
(17:52):
He did them as solid And thenhe realized when he went to a
different school this problem existed there aswell. Now that school did not have
machines. But he made sure thatthose kids got those clean clothes that they
could come to school the next day. Anyone got the money to install a
washer and a ventless dryer, andthen he set up pipes in the girl's
(18:12):
bathroom into a utility closet. Unbelievablethe way community and schools they work nationwide
to prevent dropouts. In DC alone, they support almost forty five hundred k
through twelve students, and they focuson things like academics, behavior, and
attendance. Why does this matter?The little things, simple solutions can help
(18:33):
bring about big changes and overcome bigchallenges. And what he did was do
something about the problem that's been growingin the district. So for that we
thank you. And it's a storythat definitely made our Monday. Where Toby
and Chilly in the morning, it'sninety seven point one WASHFM. You can
read more than Toby and chilipage washefmdot com. In the meantime, the
news Top stories at the top ofthe hour on the way in just minutes,
(18:57):
Top Stories Top of the Hour.The President of Iran, along with
his foreign minister and several others havebeen killed in a helicopter crash. The
helicopter ran into heavy fog while itwas returning from a trip to the Iran
Azerbaijan border. Students demanding an endto the conflict between Israel and Hamas are
again making their voices heard at GeorgeWashington University. More than one hundred pro
(19:19):
Palace Indian protesters walked out of yesterday'sgraduation ceremony on the National Mall. A
police officer and a suspect are recoveringafter an officer involved shooting. This happened
in Northwest DC over the weekend.Police were taking a man into custody for
a mental health evaluation when he allegedlypulled out a knife and stabbed one of
(19:41):
the officers in the neck. Officersthen deployed a taser to try to subdue
the man, but it was ineffectiveand that led to an officer to shoot
the suspect. Sean Diddy COLEMs,calling his behavior quote inexcusable. He apologized
in a video on social media overthe weekend over a twenty SI sixteen video
that was released Friday that shows himassaulting his ex girlfriend. Diddy will not
(20:04):
be facing charges because the statute oflimitations has expired. At a recent ranking
list the sexiest and least sexy accentsin the United States, Texas's slow Southern
drawl takes the top spot, followedby Boston and New York. Now on
the flip side, the least sexyaccent was contributed to Long Islanders forecast for
(20:30):
today, It's gonna be a niceday later sunny seventy seven, the high
right now sixty one. In SilverSpring, Ever, go on a work
trip with a significant other for thefirst time how did did go? Eight
sixty six, ninety seven forty threesixty one is the number if you want
to jump into this. We havea story to telling. We will next
as Toby and Chill in the Morningcontinues, hangout. That's a last.
(20:53):
This is gonna take me down.He sucks and lives a mess. Toad
stories. Top of the hour.The President of Iran, along with his
foreign minister and several others have beenkilled in a helicopter crash. The helicopter
ran into heavy fog while it wasreturning from a trip to the Iran Azerbaijan
(21:15):
border. Students demanding an end tothe conflict between Israel and Hamas are again
making their voices heard. At GeorgeWashington University. More than one hundred pro
Palace Indian protesters walked out of yesterday'sgraduation ceremony on the National Mall. A
police officer and a suspect are recoveringafter an officer involved shooting. This happened
in Northwest DC over the weekend.Police were taking a man into custody for
(21:40):
a mental health evaluation when he allegedlypulled out a knife and stabbed one of
the officers in the neck. Officersthen deployed a taser to try to subdue
the man, but it was ineffectiveand that led to an officer to shoot
the suspect. Sean Dinny COLEMs,calling his behavior quote inexcusable. He apologized
in a video on social media overthe weekend over a twenty sixteen video that
(22:04):
was released Friday that shows him assaultinghis ex girlfriend. Diddy will not be
facing charges because the statute of limitationshas expired. At a recent ranking list
the sexiest and least sexy accents inthe United States, Texas's slow Southern drawl
takes the top spot, followed byBoston and New York. Now on the
(22:26):
flip side, the least sexy accentwas contributed to Long Islanders forecast for today,
It's going to be a nice daylater sunny seventy seven the high right
now sixty one in Silver Spring.Ever, go on a work trip with
a significant other for the first time? How did did go? Eight?
Sixty six, ninety seven, fortythree, sixty one is the number If
(22:48):
you want to jump into this,we have a story to telling. We
will next. As Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues, Hangout edver beIN
a plus one on a work trip. How'd that go? Toby and Chilly
in the morning eight ninety three sixtyone or the talkback microphones wide open taps
speaks send if you're signed into youriHeart app listening to us. Would love
to know your thoughts on this becauseover the weekend it was my first time
(23:11):
being a plus one on a worktrip and it just so happened. The
work trip was to Hawaii. Yeah, and before you left, well,
I was a little bit concerned thatyou, being the pokey little puppy that
you are, may get yourself intotrouble and get yourself in the way of
your girlfriend doing her job. Norconcerns. She was the one who reminded
me. She's like, you can'tdo this. You can't listen, you
(23:33):
don't don't do anything that would getyou. I can't get you out of
a brig So how did it go. Do you think you passed the test?
Yes? Absolutely good. I stayedout of the way. I cannot
get arrested. Did I cause anyheadaches? Nope? Absolutely I passed.
I would give myself an A plusis a plus one? Was it hard
for you to stay out of theway? And not offer to help and
(23:56):
all those other things, or didyou find it easier than you thought.
I found it to be easier andmore refreshing than I thought, because you
know, I went out there toaccompany her. She was working. I
was not there. I was unofficiallythere. I was just there. And
there is being Hawaii. So it'sa beautiful place to kind of go do
(24:18):
your own things. You know.I got out and I get my own
thing, and I was able toexplore new places alone, and I enjoyed
myself and Bob while respecting her space. And I tried to be as supportive
as I could be without trying tobe overshadowing or anything. Yeah. And
also, when you accompany a significantother on a work trip of theirs,
(24:41):
you see them in a totally differentlight. Oh yeah, what was your
impression of her? I was proudof her. Yeah, that's why I
actually left her a card. Istuffed it into her makeup bag before I
left, knowing that I was leavingway before she was. Yeah, And
I wrote in the card, AndI don't think she would mind me telling
you this, even though it's kindof personal. I was like to see
you in action. Yeah, seeyou and your element and to see all
(25:02):
of these things that I know you'vebeen working on so tirelessly, that you
were doing selflessly, you know,because she was doing it for a health
You know, she's doing it fora reason, and just just to see
her in action was just impressive.I was I was just very very proud,
and I was also humbled too,because I think there are things in
life that involve you know, musicand whatever that sometimes we take for granted
(25:26):
in the show because it just comeswith the territory of this job. Do
you think you'll ever be invited foranother one of her work trips? Well,
I know she's got something coming upin Hawaii fourth July, and let's
just stay I left Hawaii with ataste for wanting more so nice e actually,
and I happened to be on breakaround the fourth of July at the
(25:47):
same time she'll be on a cruiseship. You could probably do the math
on where I'm might be tagging along, staying away, trying not to get
myself into any sorts of trouble,and hopefully I'll be able to make it
back in one piece. Ever beenon a work trip? Tell us your
story eight six six nine, two, seven, forty three sixty one.
(26:07):
Oh you were a plus one?How did it go? We love good
stories, so tell us what.Toby and Chilly press some more music Buttons
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