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May 23, 2024 • 20 mins
Are you car compatible with your partner or do you need to make many adjustments after they've driven your car? Nine years later Taylor is still getting the previous owners mail. Did you have an imaginary friend like in the new movie IF? Darby from Leesburg shares her Crazy First Date and we get the answer to our Nearly Impossible Question!
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Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand onninety seven point one Wash FM. Welcome
to Friday Eve. We are almostto the weekend. It's still being chilly.
In the morning. On ninety sevenpoint one was FM. I'm Chilli
Amar, Toby Nap is out,but I am joined by our producer Taylor
Shay. And this morning, whenI got into our car, I realize
that my husband and I are partof the twenty five percent of Americans who

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are car incompatible with their partners.So what does that mean. It means
you've got different ideas I guess onhow to use or treat your vehicle.
So in our case, it's howwe use the car, like a lot
of people have. Sixty two percenthave to like adjust the seat position,
or fifty five percent need to adjustthe mirrors. You know what I'm saying,

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Like, you don't just get toget in the car and just drive
off after your partner's driven it.Well, and your husband Don seems to
be a tall guy. I've nevermet him, but he looks tall.
Yes, he's six y two andI'm five to seven. I mean I'm
not short, but it's a differencefor sure. So you well, for
us, I just have to moveseat, and it's a simple up and
down. I like it all theway up. He likes it all the
way down, So it's just oneadjustment. But mirrors and everything is the

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same. Oh well, no,it's not just the seat and mirrors for
us. It's literally even like howhe uses the center console versus how I
use it. So when I gotin this morning, I forgot that we
had used the vehicle to go todinner last night, and I needed an
extra three or four minutes just tokind of get it the way I like
it. Because he doesn't use thecenter console. He keeps such It was

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just a to do. But it'sinteresting that there's a one more thing you
have to consider when choosing your partnerin life. Hopefully you are compatible,
which whatever way you're getting into workthis morning. Next, we want to
talk about spring cleaning, and eightythree percent of people say that this time
of year is spring is when theirhomes are the messiest. Would you agree

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with that? Eight six six ninetwo seven four three six' one.
We'll get into that as Toby andChilly in the Morning continues on ninety seven
point one was Toby and Chilly inthe morning at ninety seven point one wash
FM. Welcome to Thursday, Maytwenty third. I'm Chilli AMR. Toby
Nap is out today, but TaylorShay, who's our producer, is here.
And one in five parents say thatthey would give up an annual vacation

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if they didn't have to deal withspring cleaning, because eighty three percent say
that their home is the messiest inthe springtime, which is right now.
Is that true for you, Taylor, Well, I have two toddlers,
So the messiest time of the yearin my house is any day that ends
in Why it's a year round?Is shear free? A get? What
about you? I would say winterbecause I mean it doesn't snow often around

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here, so there's the tracking ofthe snow that's just annoying because the floor
gets wet and you got to puttowels down. But also in the winter,
we're forced to do more indoor thingswith our ten year old and so
there's more toys that come out,there's more you know things that then and
I hate dealing with it, andthen the holidays, getting the holidays see
it clean, and so for meit would be winter. Lauren, you

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are a part of the show inShan Chili. During what time of the
year does your home get the messiest? I would say the summer. It's
because I'm out of the house moreand things tend to like pile up,
like laundry and dust and all ofthat. Oh yeah, that's true.
You know what else also tends topile up during the summer is all that
stuff on the stairs that are supposedto go upstairs eventually on the bottom of

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the steps stilty. I walk rightpast it too, every single day.
Thanks so much for jumping into theconversation and you can always share your thoughts
on the iHeartRadio app. Just hitthat talk back microphone anytime that you want
to jump in. It's Toby andChilly in the Morning on ninety seven point
one wash FM, and coming upnext, we're going to try to get
you into a nice morning mindset witha quote. It's Toby and Chilly in

(03:43):
the Morning on ninety seven point oneWash FM. I Am Chilli, AMR.
Toby Nap is out today and wewould like to share a quote now
to get you into a good headspace. Roomy says, exit where you don't
exist. It means to leave behindyour sense of self or ego to find
a deeper and more spiritual way ofbeing, letting go of your personal identity

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and worldly concerns to discover true innerpiece and connection with something greater. So
Rumy says, exit where you don'texist. You can find that quote and
share your own using hashtag morning mindseton the Toby and Chili page at waschfm
dot com. Coming up next,we're gonna get you up to speed on
all the headlines in Hollywood. Inshowbiz buzz, Britney Spears opened up about

(04:29):
her recent health issues and we'll sharethat as Toby and Chilly in the Morning
continues on ninety seven point one WASCHEFMninety seven point one Washchefm. It's Toby
and Chili in the Morning. Iam Chilia Mar Toby nap out today,
but it is time for your showbizbuzz. Britney Spears opening up about her
health issues in a now deleted poston Instagram. She said that she suffers

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from extreme nerve damage that's so badthat she can't even think sometimes, and
Brittany, of course blames the peoplethat were involved with her conservatorship for the
issue. Richard Simmons has been hidingfor years, but he may be coming
back with a major Broadway show.The Fitness Guru wrote on social media last
week, I just got off thephone with a friend of mine who's an

(05:12):
attorney and manages famous artists and music, and she wants to do an interactive
Broadway show about my life, andRichard seems very excited about it. A
George Floyd biopick called Daddy Changed theWorld is in the works. It's going
to cover Floyd's life as the manwhose twenty twenty murder spark protests across the
US against police brutality. Mattel ispaying tribute to female sports heroes with their

(05:36):
newest Team Barbie collection. Nine internationalfemale athletes, including tennis star of Venus
Williams, are going to be includedin that collection. And Apple Music's one
hundred Best Albums list has been revealed, with Lauren Hills The Miseducation of Lauren
Hill taking the number one spot.Coming in second place was Thriller by Michael

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Jackson, followed by The Beatles AbbeyRoad. And that is your showbiz buzz
coming up in just a few minutes. We are going to get you caught
up on all the news headlines withToby and Chili's top stories on ninety seven
point one wash FF Top Stories Topof the Hour. Families who lost loved
ones in the twenty twenty two Uvalde, Texas school shooting have reached a two

(06:21):
million dollars settlement with the city andcounty. It also involves changes to the
Uvalde Police Department, including enhanced officertraining. The Republican National Committee headquarters in
DC was briefly evacuated and locked downyesterday after a package containing two vials of
blood was delivered. The source andthe reason behind that delivery remain under investigation.

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A Stafford, Virginia man's been arrestedin charge with murder in connection with
the deadly shooting that happened during acar meet in District Heights on Sunday.
Shooting happened just less than two weeksbefore new legislation goes into a fact that'll
stiffen penalties for certain violations associated withstreet meeta. Wallet hub just came out
with their list of the best placesfor summer jobs based on pay, availability

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and commuter friendliness, coming in atnumber one. Columbia, Maryland the best
place for summer employment followed by Scottsdale, Arizona, and according to a recent
survey, the average American is expectedto move three more times in their future.
Twenty seven percent say moving is waymore overwhelming than losing a job,

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and twenty five percent find it tobe more stressful than emergency landing a plane
a four gas board. Today,we're gonna have a chance of showers throughout
the day. Clouds also hies inthe mid eighties. Right now sixty nine
degrees in falls Church. In justa few minutes, we're going to talk
about what do you do when youkeep getting someone else's mail? Our producer

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Taylor Shay is going to explain herfrustrating dilemma as Toby and Chilling in the
Morning continues on ninety seven point one, was Cheff, we all know how
frustrating it is when your mail hassomeone else's mail in it. It's Toby
and Chilly in the Morning a ninetyseven point one Wash FM. I'm Chilli
Amar. Toby Nap is out,but our producer Taylor Shay is here,

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So what is going on with yourmail? So we bought our house in
Dabascus nine years ago and we're stillgetting the previous owner's mail, and I
know some of its important stuff.It's not just junk mail. It is
bills for urgent care, it isspeeding tickets, it's student loan paperwork.
Oh my god. So what haveyou done to try to I mean,

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don't usually just tell the post officelike, hey, this person doesn't live
here anymore and have them figure itout. Or lly, they won't take
it back. I wrote return tosender no longer at this address. I've
taken it to the post office.They just keep delivering those they're mail.
Are you telling me that for thelast nine years you have a pile or
a bag of mail that belongs toother people right now? Or are you

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throwing what are you doing with it? If they're not taking a back,
I just throw it away? Ohmy lord? Have you tried finding these
people? Is it an unusual name? Though? No, they don't have
not terribly unusual and I know whothey are. So they are on social
media? Then you've never like sentthem a message saying hey, I keep
getting your mail. No, ifsomeone said that to you nine years later,

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wouldn't you be like, what aweirdo? No? I'd be like,
well, that explains why my credit, Corse sucks so bad? And
why there's a lean on my house? From Phillctor, Shelby and Chilly's Nearly
Impossible Questions. All right, let'splay the game. Today's question Neuroscientists say
you should wait at least twenty minutesbefore doing this when you first wake up
in the morning. What is it? You are playing for tickets to go

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see John Legend with the wolf TrapOrchestra at wolf Trap June fifth, eight
six six nine two seven four tothree six' one is the number.
Neuroscientists say you should wait at leasttwenty minutes before doing this when you first
wake up. What is it?Eight six six nine two seven wash FM
one is the number to call.We're gonna have your guesses and the correct

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answer coming up as Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues on ninety seven point
one wash FM. Toby and Chilli'sNearly Impossible Question Today, you're playing for
tickets to go see John Legend withthe wolf Trap Orchestra at wolf Trap on
June fifth. Good morning, Jessicain Stevensville. How are you doing today?
Good? How are you? I'mwell? You ready for the nearly

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impossible question. Absolutely. Neuroscientists sayyou should wait at least twenty minutes before
you do this when you first wakeup. What do you think it is.
I think it's check yourself open.I'm not very good at that waiting.
Yeah, how soon after you wakeup? Do you look at your
phone? It's literally the first thingI do is check my email to make
sure that nothing's come through overnight.Yes, because the world would end if

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you dared wait those twenty minutes.Right Listen, I'm being a hypocrite.
I do the same thing you do, and looking at your phone is the
correct answer. Congratulations, yay,thank you. You're gonna go see John
Legend with the wolf Trap Orchestra onJune fifth. I'm sure it's going to
be amazing. It's a great venue. And you know what, silence at

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least silence that phone while you're atthe concert. Okay, okay, well
do thanks so much. You're welcome, and tomorrow we're going to have another
pair of tickets to the show withanother nearly impossible question right around this time
with Toby and Chilly in the Morningon ninety seven point one wash FM Top
Stories Top of the Hour, Uvaldefamilies are reaching a settlement with the city
and county after a gunman killed nineteenstudents and two teachers two years ago in

(11:28):
Texas. The families will receive acity payout of two million dollars. US
Capital police investigating after a package containingtwo vials of blood was delivered to the
Republican National Committee headquarters in DC yesterdaymorning. The building had to be briefly
evacuated. The Fairfax County Board ofSupervisors are considering a small tax increase on

(11:50):
prepared meals. One supervisor says justone percent tax more on food prepared at
restaurants, grocery and convenience could bringin more than thirty million dollars in revenue.
Washington Gas is warning customers about asystem update that could affect some payments
into next week. The main focusis the utilities, billing and customer service

(12:11):
systems and could limit access to someonline accounts and bill pay features. And
A recent report found that six pointthree percent of American adults are falling behind
on their rent or mortgage payments.Some states are far worse than the national
average nine point seven percent of adultsin New York eight point eight percent of

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adults in DC and eight point sevenpercent of adults in Louisiana are all behind.
Forecast for today, We've got achance of showers all day. It'll
be cloudy with highs around eighty fiveright now sixty nine degrees in Newburgh.
Coming up next, the movie Ifgot us thinking about imaginary friends? Did

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you have one? We would loveto hear all about it. Call eight
sixty six nine two seven four tothree one. We'll share our stories.
As Tobie and Chilly in the Morningcontinues on ninety seven point one, was
Chef, did you have an imaginaryfriend growing up? It's Tobe and Chilly
in the Morning on ninety seven pointone, Washchef, M I'm Chilli Amar.
Toby Napp is out, but producerTaylor Shay is here. Eight six

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six' nine two seven four threesix one is the number to call.
The reason I'm bringing up imaginary friendsis there's a movie out called IF,
and it stars Ryan Reynolds and JohnKrasinski, and IF stands for Imaginary Friend,
and it's about these imaginary friends.I've sort of been forgotten, you
know, by the kids in theirlife, and I don't know, like,
did you have one? What didit look like. I mean,

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no, I'm like the only kidthat didn't have one. I have imaginary
friend, fomo you wish you had. When I was watching this movie,
I was really trying to remember didI have one or not. I do
know that I talk to myself allthe time as a kid, imagining a
crowd or an audience in my livingroom as I was doing a talk show.

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That's very unbrand free, isn't itthough, right, but not like
one singular imaginary friend. But maybeyou and I are in the minority,
because Karen, you are a partof the show now in Bowie, you
and your siblings had one when wewere kids. We lived in West Virginia,
so lots of hills, lots ofmountain and when Dad would down shift
to get up a hill, thecar elves would jump off the stumper and

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push us up the hill. That'samazing. I mean, who needs triple
A when you've got car elves.Thanks for the call at Karen eight sixty
six ninety seven four three six one. If you want to jump into this
conversation about your imaginary friend. We'regoing to get back to this in just
a few minutes. But first comingup next We're gonna hear one of your
crazy first date stories. Darby andLeesburg went to a bowling alley on her

(14:48):
first date with a guy who convenientlyforgot his wallet. How did it all
end? You're gonna hear all aboutit, as Toby and Chilly in the
Morning continues on ninety seven point one. Wash up, it's Toby and chill
he first day, Darby, goodmorning, and welcome Chillian. I can't
wait to hear this crazy first datestory. You've got to lay it on
us. So about twelve years ago, I was just having no luck with

(15:13):
finding anybody to date or anything,and I was actually kind of young.
So I tried a new dating websiteand I was talking to several guys and
they all seemed okay. And thenthere was this one guy that seemed pretty
cool and he asked me out acouple days later on a bowling date.
I said yes, And when hecame and got me, he seems really
cool, very polite. We gotto the bowling alley for talking still,

(15:37):
and then we get to the guythat's given us our shoes and stuff.
And then when it comes time topay and they tell us the price,
he turns to me and he goes, I didn't bring any money with me.
Oh good lord. I was like, okay, well, luckily I
had my wallet with me, soI ended up paying. But thinking in
my head, I was like,you're the one that asked me out and

(15:58):
you bring money. Okay. Thisis starting off strange now. And then
on the way home we started talkingagain and I asked him about his interest.
He did nothing but work. Hehad no other interests. And then
when it came down to the musicand the TV shows that we talked about
earlier, he didn't really listen tothe music very much, he didn't watch
the TV shows very much. Hedidn't really know what I was talking about.

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And from there it just got awkward. So he was just faking liking
those things for a chance to seeyou in person and hope to win you
over that way. Oh yeah,it may seem silly for us to ask
the next question, but I knowit was like that until you got home.
But was there another date? No? I was like, you know
what, I'm not going to trythis again. He did not throw a

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strike, no pun intended yet noTop stories Top of the Hour Uvalde families
are reaching a settlement with the cityin County after a gunman killed nineteen students
and two teachers two years ago andaccess the families will receive a city payout
of two million dollars. US Capitolpolice investigating after a package containing two vials

(17:08):
of blood was delivered to the RepublicanNational Committee headquarters in DC yesterday morning.
The building had to be briefly evacuated. The Fairfax County Board of Supervisors are
considering a small tax increase on preparedmeals. One supervisor says just one percent
tax more on food prepared at restaurants, grocery and convenience stores could bring in

(17:32):
more than thirty million dollars in revenue. Washington Gas is warning customers about a
system update that could affect some paymentsinto next week. The main focus is
the utilities, billing and customer servicesystems and could limit access to some online
accounts and bill pay features. AndA recent report found that six point three
percent of American adults are falling behindon their rent or mortgage payments. Some

(17:55):
states are far worse than the nationalaverage nine point zero seven percent of adults
in New York eight point eight percentof adults in DC and eight point seven
percent of adults in Louisiana are allbehind forecast four. Today, we've got
a chance of showers all day.It'll be cloudy with highs around eighty five
Right now sixty nine degrees in Newburgh. Coming up next the movie If got

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us thinking about imaginary friends? Didyou have one? We would love to
hear all about it. Call eightsixty six nine two seven four three six
one. We'll share our stories.As Tobe and Chilly in the Morning continues
on ninety seven point one, watchout that it's Toby and Chilli's crazy first
date. Jarby, Good morning andwelcome Chilian. I can't wait to hear

(18:42):
this crazy first date story. You'vegot to lay it honest. So about
twelve years ago, I was justhaving no luck with finding anybody to date
or anything, and I was actuallykind of young. So I tried a
new dating website and I was talkingto several guys and they all seem okay,
And then there was this one guythat seemed pretty cool and he asked

(19:04):
me out a couple days later ona bowling date. I said yes,
and when he came and got me, he seems really cool, very polite,
we got to the bowling alley fortalking still and saying, we get
to the guy that's given us ourshoes and stuff, and then when it
comes time to pay and they tellus the price, he turns to me
and he goes, I didn't bringany money with me. I was like,

(19:30):
okay, well, luckily I hadmy wallet with me, so I
ended up paying. But thinking inmy head, I was like, you're
the one that asked me out andyou didn't bring money. Okay, this
is starting off strange now. Andthen on the way home we started talking
again and I asked him about hisinterest. He did nothing but work,
He had no other interests. Andthen when it came down to the music

(19:52):
and the TV shows that we talkedabout earlier, he didn't really listen to
the music very much, he didn'twatch the TV shows very much. He
didn't really know what I was talkingabout out and from there it just got
awkward. So he was just fakingliking those things for a chance to see
you in person and hope to winyou over that way. Oh yeah,
it may seem silly for us toask us next question, but I know

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it was like that until you gothome. But was there another date.
No. I was like, youknow what, I'm not going to try
this again. He did not throwa strike, No pun intended a haha,
yep, nope. If you've gota crazy first date story, we
would love to hear it. Itcould mean tickets to go see Shakira at
Capital One Arena this November eight sixtysix nine two seven four to three six

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' one. Call us right nowand tell us all about it. Coming
up in just a few minutes,we are going to get you up to
speed on all the news headlines withToby and Chili's top stories on ninety seven
point one wash FM. One MoreToby and Chilly head over to washfm dot
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