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December 4, 2024 • 11 mins
On today's P1 Podcast, Sky tells the story of how her mom paid a "compliment" to The Boo and how it wasn't well recieved
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Is there anything worse than a backhanded compliment? It happens
all the time, Like like when people come up to you,
Skuy and say, oh, you look so comfy today. Oh yeah,
I mean that's kind of an insult.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Like at first I'll be like, oh my god, I
am thank you for saying that I love.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
This, and then I'll walk away, and about forty seconds
later It'll hit me.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
I'll be like, fuck there, yeah, it's saying you look
like totally So these kind of things will happen. Well,
I guess Skuy's husband the Boo got a backhanded compliment
from her mom at Thanksgiving and you're not sure how
to take it. We ain't done yet. It's time for
the one podcast over yet completely uncensored and unacting filtered

(00:44):
except for that part.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
The show's after show starts.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Now, did she say, oh my gosh, it's so cool
how much dessert you can put away?

Speaker 3 (00:58):
So no, but I mean, but something similar does happen
where everybody would be like, well, we know who's taken
the leftover dessert?

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Like there are those kind of that is just a fact.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
My husband, Yeah, pre diabetics, Oh god, just got some
blood work back.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
I wonder where that you.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
Must your new dad or your mom, like, you must
get you must have so many hours in the day,
you must get so much.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
Right.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, So we had Thanksgiving as a family at with
new Dad. My mom's boyfriend did not make it. He
was sick that morning. Sure yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
He was of.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Hey whatever, but still with that said, there were eight
of us having Thanksgiving together. We went to a nice
restaurant in Ocean Side, which you know, the.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
Food was great, but yeah, it was quite a drive.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
I had ended up having to take back rows all
the way from Encinitas up to Ocean Side because of
the five was so fucking yeah, I definitely.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
It was so early people were going to there. It
was on eleven o'clock reservation.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Done with Thanksgiving by noon.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Oh, it was crazy.

Speaker 4 (02:19):
What what did you guys eat that night? I can't
remember what we didn't say, right.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
No, I we had like leftovers, like something that was
in the fridge, but not like leftover. You had no
turkey me myself, No, my husband got the turkey. But
it was like it was like a fixed menu, so
you could pick from five different things.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
I went short rib.

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Sorright when people eat, which is weird. When people eat
Thanksgiving dinner super early, it annoys me, like you're not
better than me because you know one o'clock it's better.
That's family memory time, dinner time, Like, why are we
eating it.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
To the afternoon. Here's the thing. We my family usually
goes about three. That's because we want to have the
leftovers already. We want to have like a turkey sandwich that.

Speaker 4 (03:06):
Night, oh later in the night, like the three I
could wrap my mind around. But I know some jackasses
that are eating at like one o'clock.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah, like fuck you, Okay, I don't know. I don't know,
and I don't think they think they're better.

Speaker 4 (03:21):
Because they're you and you're one o'clock turkey.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
You know what time we eat?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
What? Five? That's it.

Speaker 4 (03:28):
That's a fucking good time.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
Well eleven thirty was our reservation.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Bother pancakes.

Speaker 4 (03:39):
Yeah, seriously, you don't have to eat Thanksgiving dinner. Your
mom clearly didn't want to be there, so wait a minute,
so you could eat brunch because she's going back to
her other family, her real family that she loves to
have Thanksgiving dinner.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
I mean, we're blood. I was came out of her
vag then those other kids.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Did not, so, uh, yeah, you are.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
You guys actually are right, which I didn't realize. I
thought you guys were just kind of being assholes when
you said that, until my mom announced at the meal that, yeah,
even though her boyfriend's sick, she still thinks she's going
to go over to his kid's house, which I believe
was around five of.

Speaker 4 (04:25):
Them, and then shed what food did she get? Do
you remember what she ordered? Did she order like a pancakes?

Speaker 2 (04:34):
I want to say she ended up going short riped too,
she was?

Speaker 3 (04:37):
Or did she do the she was? She was going
back and forth between the turkey and the show. I
don't remember what she actually ordered. So we're all there,
you know, it's eight of us and a great, great
normal conversation catching up with everybody, and at one point
I excuse myself and go to the restroom, to the
ladies room and nope, didn't have to take it, just

(04:57):
a tinkle, lots of It's it's a weird time because
you're having coffee but then you're also but then you're
also done.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
Well, I've had some, but it's still I'm out.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
I just like ordered it, you know, I don't know why,
because I felt it was so, and then no, you
haven't coffee.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
I don't know. I had coffee, I had water, and then.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
I also had a cock doesn't make it.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
But I also a cocktail terrible.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
I didn't I didn't know which way to go, so
I just had all of it. So a milkshake, and
so I had to tinkle. So I take off and
I come back and my husband has a weird look
on his face.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
But I don't really know.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
But somebody asked him why it doesn't work.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
They've all accepted it, and so I don't.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Know what it's about. But I'm like, uh, is he angry?
Does something happen? Something weird? Whatever?

Speaker 3 (05:55):
And but I'm not going to ask him right then,
but I'm dying to know what happened. So after we
all separate and go the stupid fucking pine cone on my.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Hat these decorations.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
So then I finally we're alone, I get to ask him,
and I go, hey, I came back from the bathroom
and you had like a weird face. I'm like, did
something happen or did I misread that? He goes, well,
that is true.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
He needs a schools that stuff going.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
On burned off, But we're gonna do that in twenty
twenty five, you guys, so get ready for that. And
so he says, oh, yeah, your your mom said something,
and I don't really know how to take it.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
And I'm like, oh God, what the hell did she say?
And I guess somehow.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
Oh, my mom of course was talking about her upcoming
wedding ceremony.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
This is all she talks about.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
Now, I could commitment ceremony right right, not not a
legal wedding. And so of course talking about her outfit,
the decorations, all the work she wants my husband to do,
set up, get excited, the lights and Lila Zilla no,
big time bright.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
Her line dancing that she thinks is going to be
a party starter. Yeah, yeah, there's no actual dancing, but
there will be a point where everybody's like forced to
participate in line dancing.

Speaker 5 (07:14):
This is incredible.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
Come on, She says, she knows this lady from her
fifty five and up community who's known as the party starter,
and this is what she does.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
But you said there's not actual dancing though.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
No, there's going to be like a Enya playlist playing
like the Whole in the back, and then at a
certain point there will be a line dancing activity where
all the seniors who can barely walk are expected to
get up and learn line dancing and do it.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Who has a reception doesn't have dancing?

Speaker 4 (07:45):
Yeah, I don't know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (07:47):
You can least put up, like make a dance playlist and.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Well, and I was kind of trying to tell my
mom that and then like if and then she was saying, well,
there's not really room for it.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
But then I'm like, if there's line dancing, I don't know.
I'm just trying whatever.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
So he said, you know, talking about the wedding, blah
blah blah blah blah, And it got to the point
where she has a crazy idea about her hair. She
has seen the trend going on about some people going
gray and just going gray naturally, and she's over dyeing
her hair and she's been dyeing her hair forever now,
and she's thinking about going gray. And so she's telling

(08:25):
this to the table, when I guess she looks at
my husband and goes, yeah, I'm thinking of just embracing
my grays and letting them grow in, you know, like
the boo, and points to my husband and points out, oh, basically,
how he's getting a nice head of gray hair in
front of the table.

Speaker 4 (08:45):
Oh, gray hair and diabetes, that's.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
What he's all about these days.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
And so I said to him, because I'm hearing the
story secondhand, I'm like, did she think she was complimenting you?
Or was she just like being blatant about it? And
he says, well, I think she thought what she was
saying was nice.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
You're saying you're embracing something that's a backhanded compliment.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
Yes, yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:09):
So but he said, he, you know, was insulted. He
feels it's an insult. And he's like, he's like, could
she say that to another woman? And I said, well,
if she used me as an example, I probably wouldn't
appreciate that.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
I think it would make me. It would make me
self conscious.

Speaker 5 (09:27):
One hundred percent. If there's a lot of women, even
my age right now, that are embracing the gray and
they kind of not or they kind of act like
they're better than you two the hipster chicks.

Speaker 4 (09:37):
Hey, here's an idea, ladies.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
Don't do it. Dye your hair. It looks awful.

Speaker 5 (09:41):
If I made a decision and that I was going
to go gray and somebody said that I would like
I would own it and be like, yeah, every day is.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
Doing He's not trying to be untrend.

Speaker 4 (09:50):
No, not that like what does he care like?

Speaker 2 (09:53):
He's just naturally graying and I don't.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
And it's kind of like like in our society, I
don't think graying is a pause thing. It's like it's like, oh,
I put on forty pounds just like so and so,
and it's.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
Like, you know what, you're embracing your weight, you know,
like Emily. Have you imagine if.

Speaker 5 (10:09):
Somebody said that's you know, I don't think it's as
negative as maybe.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Of course, why do you dye your hair?

Speaker 4 (10:15):
Then ye don't die it anymore.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
Let's see this great, why do you dye your hair?

Speaker 5 (10:18):
Because I don't want to look old?

Speaker 3 (10:19):
Right?

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Well, but makes.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
A decision to do it. So you're saying he looks old.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
You don't understand. This is a massive But I.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Feel like also to kind of kind of side with
Emily a little bit. Men get going gray is more
of a distinguished look in society. It's like it's like
a it's like okay for a.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
Man to be.

Speaker 4 (10:40):
I'm not saying it right, I'm not saying if I
start going great I die.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
My hair, Oh you would, I would just for men.

Speaker 3 (10:46):
Just for men.

Speaker 4 (10:47):
Whatever I got done comes in here with black hair.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
That I bet you would. I have not got great yet.
So maybe that's.

Speaker 4 (10:55):
What she thinks because she likes the way like her
husband looks like he's like swah.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
I don't think she meant it as but it is
not the nicest.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Thing to say, clearly, and somebody said it to you.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
Because I have gray in my beard. I don't have
a ton of gray hair on my beard. You can
see some grays. And if somebody said embracing your grays,
you know, like Eddie, I'd be like, excuse, I.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
Guess if you put it that way.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
So yeah, So clearly she doesn't give a fuck anymore.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
And good point. That's a really good point. Sorry this guy,
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