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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up everybody? Justin Winnie After Show Podcast. Welcome in.
It's a Tuesday. It is January fourteenth, already halfway through January, Winny.
You know why it's going quick because we came back
on the sixth. Oh yeah, right, we took those extra
two days. What's the matter.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Just hear Billy yelling.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
You just don't pay attention to him. You never know
what he's doing. But yeah, it's already halfway through the
month of January.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You get pay tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Pay Day's good. That's a good thing, you know. Pay
all your bills, all on bills are paid.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Pay all my bills on bills are pay.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Yeah, and then you pay your bills and then whatever's
left you try to save or not spend it.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, that's how it goes. I'm never going to retire
at this rate.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I mean, don't say that. The biggest thing with you, though,
and I've talked about this with you before, is the
four to one cat I know, because no, did you
see their matching now?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
They are? Of course now they are.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
So they match up to five percent. So just put
five percent. It's not that much money.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I don't match it, I know, but can I do
it now that I missed the window a benefits.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Oh, you can do it anytime. It's not beneficially. Oh,
I just going and do it on fidelity. So so
actually I don't know. You have to find out. Ask
the money guy. I don't. I don't think it's on
the benefits. I think you can do it right on
your your workday. Okay, yeah, because you need to. Oh
what is this? I'm sorry?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Okay, yelling popcorn?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
You have no fucking idea.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, Sunday National Popcorn Day.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, we have oriol cookie.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Have you tried?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Can I try?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
It could be the best thing I've ever heard.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
It's day old from yesterday pears.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah it was covered. That doesn't matter. Go ahead watch this. Okay.
You don't have to chew right into the mic. You
can back up. Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
How's that?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
How we doing one to ten winning solid?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Like nine eight and a half?
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Really?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Okay? I like I like sweeting salty. So this is
I put candy in my popcorn. I put M and
M's or a bunch of crunch and my popcorn.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
No, we're gonna have Mark the movie near it on
tomorrow morning from Showcase Cinemas. Yeah, he'll tell us how
you can get free popcorn? And they have the Oreo
which we're eating, and the Cheetos. You want to bring
that home to able? No, when he's.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Gonna eat it? What is wrong with you can have fun?
But he has enough candy and job that's all.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
You can't stop my god, boom, that just happened.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Wow, and now he's leaving. Okay, well thanks, Now he's
taking it from my hand. I remember when you didn't eat?
Now look at you? All right, have a good day, bud.
God we get this thing started with the Home.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Billy and Lisa in the Morning present, a behind the
scenes look into Boston's favorite morning show.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
That's a little too much information, guys, the after show
podcast who appears justin anyway?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
That is addicting.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
I bet, I bet, I'm gonna have to hit the
movie soon for sure. God. I mean I usually get
a large popcorn when I go to the theater. I
eat it myself.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I doubt it though, yeah I do too.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Do you do the do you put it some in?
Shake it and put them in more?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
But I like to put I put a bunch of
crunch in my popcorn.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I don't know what that is A bunch of crunch.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
They sell the movie theater. It's the crunch bar, but
it's but it's the little bunches of it.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Oh yeah with the candy.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah, okay, yeah, the little box.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Is it like Nestlie crunch but little ones? Yeah yeah,
oh you put that in the popcorn.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It melt. It's delicious.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So I get a large popcorn, I put butter on it,
and then I would I would get a large coke.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I love coke, and then.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
I'll usually eat eat the rest of my son's candy.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Or I'll get it. I guess I'll love the icy
there they have the icy icy is are good?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
You give her mixed like the wild cherry in the
in the blue risseberry together.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Yes, Oh my god, I'm having memories now of my
fat dass. No seriously, of going to the movies with
Jen and I would get a large icy and I
would mix them and I would I would eat the popcorn,
drink the icy and then get brain free.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Oh I hate that, but it's so good. And then
don't you get annoyed about how quickly it just becomes
water like iced water. It's like just like you can't
even there's no flavor left.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And they have free refills, right.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
I think I think you can get away with it
someplace on.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
ICYS, Yes, some places. Yeah, I just I love the.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Movies is out in the wild, so you steal it
basically what it's there for a reason. But most people
don't get a refill though.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yeah, I just love that the movie theaters now have
the reclining scene.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Oh my god, I love it. I want the movies
this weekend. You want to yeah, now, I want to go.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Well tomorrow we'll have marked the movie there the preview
the movies coming out, So that's exciting.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Din a thieves too because I like the first one.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Oh oh Jackson, I.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Love Yeah, I love the the first one was good.
And I love Jarard Butler. I love fifty cent Fiddy.
Yeah you know, okay Jackson, great actor.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
So when I was a kid, one of the bonding
moments that I had with my dad, the many bonding moments,
usually had to do with movies. My dad obviously was
a filmmaker, really him. He did do porn, but he
did a bunch of other movies.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Do you show you any of those of what any
of the pornos show?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
No? Now, but he did shoot John Holmes, which was
a famous porn star in the eighties.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
But he like, who's the guy with the mustaff?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Ron Jeremy. Now, Ron Jeremery's in jail for life. He's
never getting out. Wait, what, well, he's a skinner.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I don't know that.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah. Well, he had this thing because he was Ron
Jeremy that he felt like he could just walk up
and literally just put his penis inside of any girl,
which is what he did. Correct, That's why he's in jail. Rape. Yeah, crazy, crazy,
crazy anyway, Okay, anyway, my dad loves movies, so we
watched movies. We went to the movies often, and he
would do this thing where on the weekends we would
(05:27):
go for the matine so he would he would time
out the movie times multiple movies. Yeah, so one would
end and we just sneak into another theater. We went
that all the time. Here there's another fun fact. I
don't know how old I was, so let's look it
up real quick so we can be accurate. Here, there's
a movie featuring a young Mark Wahlberg and Leonardo DiCaprio.
Do you know what it is. It's called The Basketball Diaries.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh, I haven't seen it, but I've heard of it.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Fantastic. He's a heroin addict. Him and Mark Wahlberg, they're heroinatics.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
The true Story does after Fear kind of was his
first movie.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Uh no, you said that on the air. Yes, I
don't think that was true, but it may have been.
Let's look at the data that that was ninety six.
I believe that was ninety so ninety five was. Mark
Wahlberg was in it. So the guy who wrote the
book that the movie is based on was a guy
named Jim Carroll who was big in the seventies and eighties.
He was a heroin act as a kid, got clean
(06:19):
and became a famous poet. And my dad was really
into poetry in the seventies and all that stuff, so
he was really into the story. So he brought me
at a very young age to see The Basketball Diary. Yeah,
I was pretty young, and it's a great movie, one
of my favorites of all time. But I remember watching
it and watching Leonardo DiCaprio kick heroin. It's really really
(06:40):
like great acting, and I remember watching it and being
like in my head, I swear to God, thinking to myself,
that's going to be me like I knew it, like
I had a premonition, because the exciting part of it
was when he was high, like that, look. I looked
at that, and I was like, Wow, what's that going
to be like? And then I saw the pain that
he went through when he got addicted, and I remember
(07:00):
having these thoughts, like basically accepting that that was probably
gonna be me, and it ended up being me. Isn't
that weird? Yeah, that's weird. Right. You should watch that movie.
It's a great movie.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
No, really, I know I will.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
It's a great movie, especially about addiction. I mean he
ends up getting killed. I mean, not killed clean. He's dead. No,
he died from not that, not from that. He was
clean for a long time. Oh yeah. But there's a
scene where he's at the very bottom and he's kicking
heroin and he has no money, and he goes to
his mom's house, who has kicked him out, and tries
(07:32):
to get into her house. It's like, I mean, I'll
play some of it right now. It's like this a
little tease for you to go watch the movie. He's
trying to get into the house to get money and
she won't let him. She completely turned him off because
he's strung out on heroin, you know what I mean. Yeah,
and he's outside of her door crying and why isn't
why isn't my computer going?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
When? What did your dad do for work when you're
growing up? So you always talk about what he did before.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
He had many jobs.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Oh, he was like a job guy, not a career guy.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Correct. He My dad has add so I mentioned on
the show this morning, where he loses things. That's a
very common thing with with the people that have a
d D because they can't pay attention. So he loses
everything at my house. He loses his phone every week.
So when he was he'd never stick with a career
long enough. So he had many jobs. He was a
taxi driver, he worked in a shrimp factory, he worked filmmaking,
(08:19):
He did a bunch of other jobs.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
So what's the last job he had before he retired?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
FedEx? He was a fed X the longest. Yeah, he
worked at FedEx from his house. He was like a
reception not a receptionist, customer service. A pension, Yeah, he's
got a pension. He's retired. He's living nice over there
in Maldon.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
How's your grandmother?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
By the way, she's good. I mean, she wants to
die every single day.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
August August, so she's a one on one.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
She's going to be one hundred and one. Isn't created?
Speaker 2 (08:46):
She go on a hundred and one? I thought she
he was one hundred and one?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Is she? She was born in nineteen twenty three, so.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
She'd be one hundred and two.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Good? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Holy shit? Can we you knew that? Nice?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
My grandmother was born in August of twenty three, but
she's been dead since I was like eleven.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
And my other girlment was born in uh, December of
twenty three.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
That's wild.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
She's been dead for like ten years.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I have no internet right now?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Okay, well let's move along.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
No, I know, but that's weird. Why does the internet
go out like that? We work at a radio station.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
God anyway, check out the basketball diaries Whennie, what's your
plans for today? Anything good?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I'm gonna go to the gym. Well, we have our
meeting and then I was done this potent at two
and then I have to babysit at three.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
So okay.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
They're just kind of like whenever hit go between that,
I'll go walk the dog. Yeah, eat lunch or something
like that. Uh funny thing yesterday. I remember how we're
talking about the guys I met in real life. Yes,
so one of them, the one, the pilot guy, I
hadn't talked to in a few weeks. He hit me up,
Oh right, what do you say? Stranger?
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Stranger?
Speaker 2 (09:50):
But remember how I told you he wasn't. He never
really asked me to, like going a date. He just
kept saying he wanted to hang out. And I'm like,
you're a thirty three bro, like, just ask me on
a date, right, So I didn't. So then he says
to me, oh, I'm gonna FaceTime you because I want
to ask you out properly. I'm like, this was like
a couple of weeks ago. I said, okay, he never
facetimed me. I don't care. But like you're like, and
(10:11):
he's very hot, Like he's really handsome. I'll show you him.
He's very attractive. But he is acting like a twenty
three year old then a thirty three year.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Old, well immature, like just ask me on a date.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
And the conversation is so surface level, like I don't care.
How what do you do in high hunt? How's your day? Hey, Love,
what's up? And I'm like saying nothing, work whatever. Right.
So yesterday when he texted me, we're texting a little bit,
oh whatever. He's telling me that his student canceled on him,
so you know there's like a studying hard do log
cancelation fee blah blah blah. But he gets to home
(10:43):
early asking what I'm doing right. I tell him I'm
picking up the kid that I baby said for. Oh,
I'm picking up the ka baby Si fort at school,
so you know, I'm have a child with me, like
I'm busy, Like I just told you what I was doing, right,
he says, sends me back something again that was not
worth even responding to, like, oh okay, cool whatever. I
don't answer for like a half hour, and the kid
(11:05):
ended up pooping his pants with the whole nother story,
so I'm dealing with the poop pants and all this, right,
And he texted me, okay, Love, well, I guess enjoy
your day like you're fucking annoying like you're thirty three.
I told you I'm busy. I told you I had
a child that I'm taking care of. And because I
don't answer your little text soon enough, you text me, like,
(11:26):
all right, well, I guess have a good day because
I'm not answering you quick enough when you have not
kicking me out. You we don't have a like you know,
like this is why dating in twenty twenty five, Like
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I mean, yeah, think about when you were in a
relationship the past year. Yeah, you have to deal with this,
like the game is dealing with other shit. Well you
know what I mean, Yeah, just like with somebody.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Yeah, this is I mean, at least I can and
at least now I can just do whatever I want.
And now I have to, like, you know, be loyal
to like for no reason. Yeah, but like I'm like,
you're so hot, but you're so not worth my fucking time.
You're so annoying, Like I can't stand you. Like this
is I'm at the age now where like I don't
care if you're attractive because you're so your personality so unattractive.
Like I'd rather a seven who treats me well than
(12:12):
a ten that says, hey, love, what do you do?
Wyd what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Sir? I don't know why you're yelling right now because
you're really really three, Like you're thirty three and not
everybody acts their age, especially men's saying that men are women,
and I have.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Guys who are twenty five acting more more sure than
a thirty three year old, Like I just don't understand.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Well, women are women mature faster than men.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
I'm at the age now justin where I have guys
that are forty hitting me. I mean guys that are
twenty five.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Okay, Like, so you're gonna go with the one that
has the best personality.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Yes, the one that treats you the best.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yeah, like because at this point, like sometimes it's not
best to go with the the hot person because you know,
the one they might they have an ego and maybe
they think they're better than or have an attitude.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
I started dating my ex, not that she's ugly, she's
a very attractive person. But I wasn't going for physical
traction because it was into girls, right, I was going
for like what was on the inside. So now that's
like ingrained in me.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
You were gay for the day.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I was gay for the day. I would have been
gay the rest of my life if we stayed together.
I was having a good time. Honestly, it wasn't a
bad time sexually, Okay, thank you for poorgasm of my
life she had.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Thank you for that. I appreciate that. Thank you. Well
for everybody else. We're going to end right there for
a Tuesday. The hell are we talking about?
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Oh you know what, I'm not going to talk badly
about it. I'll give her that.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Yeah, there you go. All right, Well, everyone else, have
a great day. Tomorrow we will talk. Yeah, have a
great Tuesday.
What's up everybody? Justin Winnie After Show Podcast. Welcome in.
It's a Tuesday. It is January fourteenth, already halfway through January, Winny.
You know why it's going quick because we came back
on the sixth. Oh yeah, right, we took those extra
two days. What's the matter.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Just hear Billy yelling.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
You just don't pay attention to him. You never know
what he's doing. But yeah, it's already halfway through the
month of January.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You get pay tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Pay Day's good. That's a good thing, you know. Pay
all your bills, all on bills are paid.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Pay all my bills on bills are pay.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Yeah, and then you pay your bills and then whatever's
left you try to save or not spend it.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, that's how it goes. I'm never going to retire
at this rate.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I mean, don't say that. The biggest thing with you, though,
and I've talked about this with you before, is the
four to one cat I know, because no, did you
see their matching now?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
They are? Of course now they are.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
So they match up to five percent. So just put
five percent. It's not that much money.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
I don't match it, I know, but can I do
it now that I missed the window a benefits.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Oh, you can do it anytime. It's not beneficially. Oh,
I just going and do it on fidelity. So so
actually I don't know. You have to find out. Ask
the money guy. I don't. I don't think it's on
the benefits. I think you can do it right on
your your workday. Okay, yeah, because you need to. Oh
what is this? I'm sorry?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Okay, yelling popcorn?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
You have no fucking idea.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, Sunday National Popcorn Day.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, we have oriol cookie.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Have you tried?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Can I try?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
It could be the best thing I've ever heard.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
It's day old from yesterday pears.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah it was covered. That doesn't matter. Go ahead watch this. Okay.
You don't have to chew right into the mic. You
can back up. Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
How's that?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
How we doing one to ten winning solid?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Like nine eight and a half?
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Really?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Okay? I like I like sweeting salty. So this is
I put candy in my popcorn. I put M and
M's or a bunch of crunch and my popcorn.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
No, we're gonna have Mark the movie near it on
tomorrow morning from Showcase Cinemas. Yeah, he'll tell us how
you can get free popcorn? And they have the Oreo
which we're eating, and the Cheetos. You want to bring
that home to able? No, when he's.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Gonna eat it? What is wrong with you can have fun?
But he has enough candy and job that's all.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
You can't stop my god, boom, that just happened.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Wow, and now he's leaving. Okay, well thanks, Now he's
taking it from my hand. I remember when you didn't eat?
Now look at you? All right, have a good day, bud.
God we get this thing started with the Home.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Billy and Lisa in the Morning present, a behind the
scenes look into Boston's favorite morning show.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
That's a little too much information, guys, the after show
podcast who appears justin anyway?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
That is addicting.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
I bet, I bet, I'm gonna have to hit the
movie soon for sure. God. I mean I usually get
a large popcorn when I go to the theater. I
eat it myself.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I doubt it though, yeah I do too.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Do you do the do you put it some in?
Shake it and put them in more?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
But I like to put I put a bunch of
crunch in my popcorn.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I don't know what that is A bunch of crunch.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
They sell the movie theater. It's the crunch bar, but
it's but it's the little bunches of it.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Oh yeah with the candy.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah, okay, yeah, the little box.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Is it like Nestlie crunch but little ones? Yeah yeah,
oh you put that in the popcorn.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It melt. It's delicious.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So I get a large popcorn, I put butter on it,
and then I would I would get a large coke.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I love coke, and then.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
I'll usually eat eat the rest of my son's candy.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Or I'll get it. I guess I'll love the icy
there they have the icy icy is are good?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
You give her mixed like the wild cherry in the
in the blue risseberry together.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Yes, Oh my god, I'm having memories now of my
fat dass. No seriously, of going to the movies with
Jen and I would get a large icy and I
would mix them and I would I would eat the popcorn,
drink the icy and then get brain free.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Oh I hate that, but it's so good. And then
don't you get annoyed about how quickly it just becomes
water like iced water. It's like just like you can't
even there's no flavor left.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And they have free refills, right.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
I think I think you can get away with it
someplace on.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
ICYS, Yes, some places. Yeah, I just I love the.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Movies is out in the wild, so you steal it
basically what it's there for a reason. But most people
don't get a refill though.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yeah, I just love that the movie theaters now have
the reclining scene.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Oh my god, I love it. I want the movies
this weekend. You want to yeah, now, I want to go.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Well tomorrow we'll have marked the movie there the preview
the movies coming out, So that's exciting.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Din a thieves too because I like the first one.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Oh oh Jackson, I.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Love Yeah, I love the the first one was good.
And I love Jarard Butler. I love fifty cent Fiddy.
Yeah you know, okay Jackson, great actor.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
So when I was a kid, one of the bonding
moments that I had with my dad, the many bonding moments,
usually had to do with movies. My dad obviously was
a filmmaker, really him. He did do porn, but he
did a bunch of other movies.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Do you show you any of those of what any
of the pornos show?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
No? Now, but he did shoot John Holmes, which was
a famous porn star in the eighties.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
But he like, who's the guy with the mustaff?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Ron Jeremy. Now, Ron Jeremery's in jail for life. He's
never getting out. Wait, what, well, he's a skinner.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I don't know that.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah. Well, he had this thing because he was Ron
Jeremy that he felt like he could just walk up
and literally just put his penis inside of any girl,
which is what he did. Correct, That's why he's in jail. Rape. Yeah, crazy, crazy,
crazy anyway, Okay, anyway, my dad loves movies, so we
watched movies. We went to the movies often, and he
would do this thing where on the weekends we would
(05:27):
go for the matine so he would he would time
out the movie times multiple movies. Yeah, so one would
end and we just sneak into another theater. We went
that all the time. Here there's another fun fact. I
don't know how old I was, so let's look it
up real quick so we can be accurate. Here, there's
a movie featuring a young Mark Wahlberg and Leonardo DiCaprio.
Do you know what it is. It's called The Basketball Diaries.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh, I haven't seen it, but I've heard of it.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Fantastic. He's a heroin addict. Him and Mark Wahlberg, they're heroinatics.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
The true Story does after Fear kind of was his
first movie.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Uh no, you said that on the air. Yes, I
don't think that was true, but it may have been.
Let's look at the data that that was ninety six.
I believe that was ninety so ninety five was. Mark
Wahlberg was in it. So the guy who wrote the
book that the movie is based on was a guy
named Jim Carroll who was big in the seventies and eighties.
He was a heroin act as a kid, got clean
(06:19):
and became a famous poet. And my dad was really
into poetry in the seventies and all that stuff, so
he was really into the story. So he brought me
at a very young age to see The Basketball Diary. Yeah,
I was pretty young, and it's a great movie, one
of my favorites of all time. But I remember watching
it and watching Leonardo DiCaprio kick heroin. It's really really
(06:40):
like great acting, and I remember watching it and being
like in my head, I swear to God, thinking to myself,
that's going to be me like I knew it, like
I had a premonition, because the exciting part of it
was when he was high, like that, look. I looked
at that, and I was like, Wow, what's that going
to be like? And then I saw the pain that
he went through when he got addicted, and I remember
(07:00):
having these thoughts, like basically accepting that that was probably
gonna be me, and it ended up being me. Isn't
that weird? Yeah, that's weird. Right. You should watch that movie.
It's a great movie.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
No, really, I know I will.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
It's a great movie, especially about addiction. I mean he
ends up getting killed. I mean, not killed clean. He's dead. No,
he died from not that, not from that. He was
clean for a long time. Oh yeah. But there's a
scene where he's at the very bottom and he's kicking
heroin and he has no money, and he goes to
his mom's house, who has kicked him out, and tries
(07:32):
to get into her house. It's like, I mean, I'll
play some of it right now. It's like this a
little tease for you to go watch the movie. He's
trying to get into the house to get money and
she won't let him. She completely turned him off because
he's strung out on heroin, you know what I mean. Yeah,
and he's outside of her door crying and why isn't
why isn't my computer going?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
When? What did your dad do for work when you're
growing up? So you always talk about what he did before.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
He had many jobs.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Oh, he was like a job guy, not a career guy.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Correct. He My dad has add so I mentioned on
the show this morning, where he loses things. That's a
very common thing with with the people that have a
d D because they can't pay attention. So he loses
everything at my house. He loses his phone every week.
So when he was he'd never stick with a career
long enough. So he had many jobs. He was a
taxi driver, he worked in a shrimp factory, he worked filmmaking,
(08:19):
He did a bunch of other jobs.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
So what's the last job he had before he retired?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
FedEx? He was a fed X the longest. Yeah, he
worked at FedEx from his house. He was like a
reception not a receptionist, customer service. A pension, Yeah, he's
got a pension. He's retired. He's living nice over there
in Maldon.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
How's your grandmother?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
By the way, she's good. I mean, she wants to
die every single day.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
August August, so she's a one on one.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
She's going to be one hundred and one. Isn't created?
Speaker 2 (08:46):
She go on a hundred and one? I thought she
he was one hundred and one?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Is she? She was born in nineteen twenty three, so.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
She'd be one hundred and two.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Good? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Holy shit? Can we you knew that? Nice?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
My grandmother was born in August of twenty three, but
she's been dead since I was like eleven.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
And my other girlment was born in uh, December of
twenty three.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
That's wild.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
She's been dead for like ten years.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I have no internet right now?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Okay, well let's move along.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
No, I know, but that's weird. Why does the internet
go out like that? We work at a radio station.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
God anyway, check out the basketball diaries Whennie, what's your
plans for today? Anything good?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I'm gonna go to the gym. Well, we have our
meeting and then I was done this potent at two
and then I have to babysit at three.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
So okay.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
They're just kind of like whenever hit go between that,
I'll go walk the dog. Yeah, eat lunch or something
like that. Uh funny thing yesterday. I remember how we're
talking about the guys I met in real life. Yes,
so one of them, the one, the pilot guy, I
hadn't talked to in a few weeks. He hit me up,
Oh right, what do you say? Stranger?
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Stranger?
Speaker 2 (09:50):
But remember how I told you he wasn't. He never
really asked me to, like going a date. He just
kept saying he wanted to hang out. And I'm like,
you're a thirty three bro, like, just ask me on
a date, right, So I didn't. So then he says
to me, oh, I'm gonna FaceTime you because I want
to ask you out properly. I'm like, this was like
a couple of weeks ago. I said, okay, he never
facetimed me. I don't care. But like you're like, and
(10:11):
he's very hot, Like he's really handsome. I'll show you him.
He's very attractive. But he is acting like a twenty
three year old then a thirty three year.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Old, well immature, like just ask me on a date.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
And the conversation is so surface level, like I don't care.
How what do you do in high hunt? How's your day? Hey, Love,
what's up? And I'm like saying nothing, work whatever. Right.
So yesterday when he texted me, we're texting a little bit,
oh whatever. He's telling me that his student canceled on him,
so you know there's like a studying hard do log
cancelation fee blah blah blah. But he gets to home
(10:43):
early asking what I'm doing right. I tell him I'm
picking up the kid that I baby said for. Oh,
I'm picking up the ka baby Si fort at school,
so you know, I'm have a child with me, like
I'm busy, Like I just told you what I was doing, right,
he says, sends me back something again that was not
worth even responding to, like, oh okay, cool whatever. I
don't answer for like a half hour, and the kid
(11:05):
ended up pooping his pants with the whole nother story,
so I'm dealing with the poop pants and all this, right,
And he texted me, okay, Love, well, I guess enjoy
your day like you're fucking annoying like you're thirty three.
I told you I'm busy. I told you I had
a child that I'm taking care of. And because I
don't answer your little text soon enough, you text me, like,
(11:26):
all right, well, I guess have a good day because
I'm not answering you quick enough when you have not
kicking me out. You we don't have a like you know,
like this is why dating in twenty twenty five, Like
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I mean, yeah, think about when you were in a
relationship the past year. Yeah, you have to deal with this,
like the game is dealing with other shit. Well you
know what I mean, Yeah, just like with somebody.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Yeah, this is I mean, at least I can and
at least now I can just do whatever I want.
And now I have to, like, you know, be loyal
to like for no reason. Yeah, but like I'm like,
you're so hot, but you're so not worth my fucking time.
You're so annoying, Like I can't stand you. Like this
is I'm at the age now where like I don't
care if you're attractive because you're so your personality so unattractive.
Like I'd rather a seven who treats me well than
(12:12):
a ten that says, hey, love, what do you do?
Wyd what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Sir? I don't know why you're yelling right now because
you're really really three, Like you're thirty three and not
everybody acts their age, especially men's saying that men are women,
and I have.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Guys who are twenty five acting more more sure than
a thirty three year old, Like I just don't understand.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Well, women are women mature faster than men.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
I'm at the age now justin where I have guys
that are forty hitting me. I mean guys that are
twenty five.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Okay, Like, so you're gonna go with the one that
has the best personality.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Yes, the one that treats you the best.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yeah, like because at this point, like sometimes it's not
best to go with the the hot person because you know,
the one they might they have an ego and maybe
they think they're better than or have an attitude.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
I started dating my ex, not that she's ugly, she's
a very attractive person. But I wasn't going for physical
traction because it was into girls, right, I was going
for like what was on the inside. So now that's
like ingrained in me.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
You were gay for the day.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I was gay for the day. I would have been
gay the rest of my life if we stayed together.
I was having a good time. Honestly, it wasn't a
bad time sexually, Okay, thank you for poorgasm of my
life she had.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Thank you for that. I appreciate that. Thank you. Well
for everybody else. We're going to end right there for
a Tuesday. The hell are we talking about?
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Oh you know what, I'm not going to talk badly
about it. I'll give her that.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Yeah, there you go. All right, Well, everyone else, have
a great day. Tomorrow we will talk. Yeah, have a
great Tuesday.
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