Don't Be A Dirtbag...

Always remember - do the right thing in life.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Okay, Whennie, let's wrap this thing up. It's a Monday.
I see blue skies. That means that I want to
go home and be outside. Yeah, baby, this weekend was rough,
not for you, because you know, you can do what
you want, but when you have kids, it's.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
A pain in the ass.

Speaker 3 (00:17):
But you know we did Saturday. You might have seen
it on my Instagram.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Someone paintball.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah. They have what's called actually this would be good
for you and your man. Yeah, because sometimes you're a
little angry.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Not at him, he's like, so no.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
Not at him.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
It's actually really good therapy. In New Hampshire. I don't
know if they have him anywhere else. In Nashua, they
have what's called the Rage Cage. Okay, okay, So it's
a place that you go and they have rooms so
they get all these these junk from Goodwill, glass jobs.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
It's a smashing place. So smash maybe actually not far
from me.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
So not only do they have that, but they have
a paint room or you can go in and they
have like little canvases. It's a room scattered splattered with
paint and they put a bunch of paint in there
and you go in and you suit up and you
literally just throw paint at each other. Okay, so it
was good. I went with my friend Mike and his
two kids, and Jen and our two kids. And the
craziest part is when you walk in all year you

(01:11):
bring Gemma.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, it's for.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Kids, not the Rage Cage, not those rooms. This was
the paint room, which is all ages. But the Rage
Cage rooms, which are right next door, there's no like ceilings.
All you hear is smash, smash, smash. So I had
to get headphones for the kids because you know, Jemmy's
only two and a half. Yeah, but it was cool,
very messy. I think normal people would have went in

(01:33):
and like painted a little bit, maybe threw a little
bit of paint around, but no, we had the kids
were dousing each other in paint. I had paint in
my ear, I had paint out my buck crack, I
had paint everywhere. I was covered covered. The good thing
is though, it washed off and it was something to do,
you know. Also, it was only an hour. It was
an hour that we booked and the paint was gone
within ten minutes. Oh so I had to buy more paint,

(01:55):
but it was still we were there fifteen minutes. It
took us longer to undress and redressed, and it took
for us to be in the room. But these are
the things that you do when you have kids. You
try to find stuff to do, you know. And then
we went to McDonald's. Okay, cheat day, yep, And I
put down some.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
Food, normal cheat.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
What did I get? Okay?

Speaker 1 (02:13):
So I got two mcdoubles with only Mayo, Big Max
sauce and bacon and cheese, large fry, large drink, twenty
piece nugget down the hatch.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
Okay, that was pretty good.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
And it was an early cheat, so you know, it
was kind of rough for the rest of the night
because the food fills you up. Yeah, you know, so
I didn't really didn't know what to do. But other
than that, what else did I do?

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Nothing?

Speaker 1 (02:38):
We were stuck in the fucking house with the rain man.
And then and this was the pattern I think it
was last year. It rained every weekend and then on
workdays it's nice. Yeah, it sucks, and it's school vacation.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Billy said, next week's going to be like same thing
for the weekend.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
I'm not believing, Billy. I'm not gonna believe until I
see it is that really what it says. Let me look.
I Saturday it looks cloudy, and Sunday looks partly sunshine.
Friday Friday rain. It's okay if it rains on Friday,
I don't care. By the time, does this happen to
you when you get home on Friday, you're dead?

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
If I don't have plans, I go to sleep, I
fall asleep. But I try to watch the game on Friday,
and I fell asleep before.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
It was over at night. You didn't take a nap
during the day.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
I try to take naps because then I'll just sleep right.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Oh, you take a nap and can't fall asleep at night?

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Exactly.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
I watched the game on Friday. But but I mean,
there's a running joke in my house. Friday after five o'clock,
my wife doesn't even talk to me. The look on
my face is just she's like, oh, it's Friday. She
doesn't even try to address me, because my face just
tells all.

Speaker 2 (03:41):
That's how I feel about you Monday through Friday.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
No, I'm pretty happy. I'm generally a happy person. I'm
just busy. That's the thing is, I'm always busy.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
I'm your work wife, and I try to avoid you too,
so I'm with her.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
I know, but again it's not because I'm angry. It's
because I'm busy. Yes, I'm just doing stuff. You are
holding audio. It's a busy bee just doing stuff.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
You're just doing it.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Anyway, how was your weekend?

Speaker 2 (04:05):
It was good.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
Let's see, you went to Saturday night, you went out
to eat. Yes, I boyfriend, your anonymous boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yes, that was good. So you had an alcohol Okay,
so listen to this.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
So first you were drunk. One drink you don't drink.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, okay, okay, so okay. So Friday whatever, I watched
the game, went to bed early Saturday. I got my
hair in a dry bar. Sho out to Cindy.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
I went, I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Dry bar is a blow dry place where they only
blue dry your hair. They don't cut, they don't color.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
You pay for that. Yes, it's dry at home.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
It's not the same as I You'll never achieve the
same results as you do when someone else blow drives
your hair. So this is perfect when you're going out
for a date night or for an event, prom weddings, whatever.
You just booked with them and they do your hair
for you.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
So did you have an event?

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Oh? I went to dinner.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Oh so you got a blowy for dinner before I
gave one.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
Okay, they go together. You know what my wife, you
know what she needs.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
To get a blow You have your hair blow judge,
you want to get Yeah. Anyways, so yeah, so I
did that, and then him and I went to Mastros,
which was so great on the water in the seaport
down in fear Pier. Food was great, the drinks were good.
Everything was great. There was a group of listeners there
that were celebrating a birthday and they sent me champagne.
They were so sweet.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
So you had two drinks.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
I don't like champagne.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh I've never had.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
I feel bad. I didn't have it.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Yeah, I felt bad, fake drink.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Yeah, I went over. I of course said thank you.
So sweet of them. I hate champagne and my boyfriend
doesn't like champagne.

Speaker 1 (05:34):
See, if they really that's really nice of them. But
if they really knew you, they would have liked something
you like.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
Well, it's funny because him and it's happened. Honestly, him
and I went to Chili's a few weeks ago and
someone tried to send us drinks and I said, oh,
I don't really we weren't drinking because we were already
like halfway through our meal. I go, can we just
like get a dessert and she's like, yeah, sure. So
I went over and said thank you to the lady
for giving us a dessert. But like they didn't. It
wasn't like, oh, we want to send you a drink,
what would you like. The server came over, not even

(05:59):
my server, another server, and I was like, this is
from the ladies over there. They're big fans of you.
And I was like, oh, like, do you know who?
So I go say thank you. So I did, and
it was like six or seven of them at a table.
So anyways, but the food is really really good, lobster
mashed potatoes, really really good. Sound I think they're gonna
come in and maybe do the food show too. Yeah, okay,

(06:22):
the guy that runs it knows Billy's. His dad knew
Billy's Border Cafe. I remember in to the Border Cafe.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yeah, it's in the food world. Is like Billy's ridiculous.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, he's like a star in the food ward. Anyways,
so we did that and then yesterday we did some
Aaron's Went show A sixties diner for breakfast slash Launcher
is pretty good. And then we watched You, so we're
three episodes into you. Was pretty good, definitely better than
the last season. I really liked last season. Yeah, and
then we started the pit which everyone keeps out, so

(06:52):
we were like an episode and a half into that,
and then I watched the game. So yeah, it was
a it was a lot of it's a good weekend.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
Yeah. You actually just brought up a memory for me
on that I just can't Oh. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
So where I grew up in Maldon, down the street,
there was a diner at the top of my street
when I was a kid. It was called the do
Wop Diner. Oh really, yeah, and it was it was
like sixty fifties and when was.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Do up sixties fifties maybe, yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
And it had all the posters on the wall that's
where we would go for breakfast.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yeh.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
There was this.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
Sixties nor what it's called Sixties Diner in Norwood. It
has all the themes. It also has like all of
the food is named after like sixties shows, so it's
like Yabba Dabado, like friends. You know, French toast, I
don't know, like based off like the Flimstones, Leave It
to Beaver, like that type of theme. It's funny. We
were walk to My boyfriend goes, I don't really feel
like I feel this is kind of like a knock

(07:41):
off sixties ago. We weren't alive in the sixties. We
don't know it. So I texted my mom because she'd
been there. She goes, yeah, it's pretty authentic.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
I'm gonna ask you a question that Yeah, we uh,
my friends asked. I probably asked this before. You know,
we used to go out all the time. We'd ask
we'd ask these like hypotheticals, what decade would you want
to live and if you had the choice, grow up
your primetime years like teenage.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Or twenties, nineties. I'm mad because I feel like I
would have been able to do so much more in
my life if I was of age in the nineties.

Speaker 3 (08:12):
Yeah, you're kind of a nineties kid, even though you
were a little kid, right.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
But like if I was like in my twenties and
the nineties, yeah, I would have loved that. I feel
like right would have been great, Like I couldn't the
radio would have been cool, a cooler job than it is.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
Like that actually makes sense because you didn't grow up,
but you were born in the nineties.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
Right.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
For me, that was me the nineties.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
I was a teenage but you're also on drugs the
whole time.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
Right, But still the nineties was my favorite favorite decade.
But if I had to go back, I would be seventies. Okay, Yeah,
because you ever see Dazing Confused? No, you gotta watch it.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
It's really good.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
It's about the last day in high school in nineteen
seventy six. Yeah, and it was just I think I
would be I mean, I probably wouldn't have made it
out alive. Yeah, the hippy era, but it just seemed
like fun.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
I just think about how my parents and this I
know all goes back to money for me, but I
just think finances are so different than they used to be.
Like my dad literally raised probably a whole family because
my mom was a stayed home mom for the first
like ten years of my life. On what I make
by myself and I can barely survive, and my dad
was providing for a whole family who went to private school,
you know what I mean. Like, so I just feel

(09:17):
like I would have thrived in the nineties if I
was like in my twenties.

Speaker 3 (09:19):
You're talking with the nineties.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
Yeah, Like I'm saying, like growing up, my dad, my
mom was a state home I was with the seventies. No, No,
I'm saying growing up, I almost a state home mom.
My dad had a full time job, obviously, and he
provided for a family of six on his one salary. Right,
and it's probably similar to the salary I have today
and I can barely survive.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, and more so in the seventies. I mean, look
at all these houses around here, even in Malden, Medford
that were bought. My grandmother bought the house in Malden
for like ten grand. Yeah, no, it's worth a million.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Nana Nana Jen's grandmother. When did she buy her house.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
In nineteen seventies. Yeah, and she bought it for I
think twenty grand. It's worth one point two Yeah, and
she paid She paid it off in twenty ye. She
paid off in nineteen ninety two. She hasn't had a
mortgage since nineteen ninety two.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
My parents, I think bought their house for one twenty
like in like eighty nine or ninety paid off. Yeah,
it's paid off. But the thing is now it's prob
I think it's worth like seven hundred thousand, oh yeah,
and it's very cute. They've kept it up nice, but
it's small, like thirteare feet really yeah were We never
moved because they didn't want to be house poor, which
is smart on their end, but it's like it's a
small house, Like where is it Quincy?

Speaker 3 (10:23):
I wonder what the taxes aren't quinsy?

Speaker 2 (10:25):
They're okay. I think it's maybe like four or five
grand a year.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
Yeah, that's no, that's low.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
Or a quarter maybe a quarter maybe like a couple
kinds of quarter.

Speaker 3 (10:32):
Yeah, that's ten grand a year in Salem. Roughly that
goes up.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
I think I think they're probably like maybe three or
four quarter. Does that sound right?

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Maybe then that would be like twelve grand. Yeah, and
so yeah, those that's a gone up too. But when
you pay off a house and you just pay the tax, yeah,
that's how it goes So yeah, Nana, she's I mean,
she's gold mine.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Yeah. They actually put it in a trust for us already.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
So that's that's what she did too. Telling you want
to do.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
That, yeah, because it just saves it because if it's
not in a trust even if it's like to you
yet to go through probate and all that mom goes.
So they put a trust in like for me and
my siblings.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
So that way, well, that also brings as I've seen
this firsthand, it brings out the worst in people. You
see the evil in people when when there's dollar signs,
when people die, Like I'm going through it with.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
My grandmother's house right now, are they going to keep it?
They're gonna They're going to keep it for now.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah, but my ship bag cousins on the house who's
never even shown his face because his dad put him
on the house because he knew he was like in
bad health. So this fucking cocksucker, excuse my language, after
show Army, he's a piece of shit, lives in Rhode
Island and won't do anything. He won't sign for anything.
How about my grandmother at one hundred and one years old,
the fucking heat broke and it was going to cost

(11:38):
like five grand and they have so much equity in
the house. Stanley owe like one hundred grand on the
house because they took my grandfather took money out.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Oh yeah, like a reverse Morse. Tom Sell excels that
for old people.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
Right. No, it wasn't that.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
It was the house was paid off, but then some
shit came up and he took all like a two
hundred thousand on the house. But still the house is
worth a lot of money. So then he wanted to
get a home equity loan to lower the monthly payment
and get a new heating system.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
So who pays for the monthly.

Speaker 1 (12:03):
My my dad and my aunt. Yeah, and so my
grandmother just passed. Yeah, and this motherfucking shipbag wouldn't fucking
sign his name. He wants you know what he said,
I don't buy me out eighty grand. I'll sign for
eighty grand buy me out of the house like they're
on fixed incomes. I'm like, bro, this is your grandmother
who's literally one hundred and one with no.

Speaker 2 (12:21):
D It's not his kids, it's.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
My uncle's kid. So my grandmother had three kids, my dad,
my dad, my uncle Ed, and my aunt Kathy. My
uncle Ed has a son. Yeah, and that's him where
his uncle ed. Uncle Ed passed away a few years ago.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
So that's why.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
So before he passed, he put him on the house
because it was the three kids were on the house
not under trust.

Speaker 3 (12:42):
Their names were on the house.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
Funny, So my auntie Winnie got my grandparents' house because
she literally lived there her whole life, took care of
them all that like, she hid all the bills like
it was her house. So my grandfather, when he was
still alive after my grandmother died, put her on the deed,
and that she was the only one on the deed,
just her, and no one fought it. There's thirteen kids,
no one findy because everyone fucking knew that she was
the one that was literally there every fucking day taking

(13:05):
care of your Your cousin's a piece of.

Speaker 3 (13:07):
Shit, A massive piece of shit.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
Is that the one that, like you like father his kid?

Speaker 1 (13:12):
No, that's no, I didn't father that was that was
the speculation. That was someone else. Now this kid has
never even shown his face around here. He has a
warrants out for his arrest and mass so he lives
on Rhode Island. So listen, I would I I'm a
grown man. I will never ever put my hands on somebody,
including him.

Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yea, I will not. I want to, but I won't.
I would never do that.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
But there is gonna come a day when he has
to show up to sign that piece of paper to
get the money that he does not fucking deserve because
he owns a third of the house. So when that
time comes, he's gonna have to come, and you bet
your money, I will be there, not to put my
hands on him, not to yell at him, to look
him in the eye and.

Speaker 3 (13:52):
Tell him wants what a piece of shit he is.
I take care fucking money.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
I hate to say this, The eighty grand's like nowhere
near what he would get.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Correct.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
No, he's gonna get a cup one hundred grand, I know.
But he's just he's just desperate. He's just desperate for money,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
I would love them just to give him eighty grand
so they can get.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
Rid of Oh I know, but they're on fixed incomes.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
But can't they just take it? Can they just shake
it out and give it?

Speaker 3 (14:10):
They could, but then that would increase the monthly payment
of the house.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
Yeah, but then they're gonna tell it anyways.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
I know, I know it might be better.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Off because if they they'll get way more money for
to do with them to split it in the half.
I know, you should tell your dad to like try
to figure out a way to give them the eighty
grand or even take They talked about it, say fifty, yeah,
we'll give you fifty, right.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
How do you take ten?

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Is he that desperate?

Speaker 1 (14:30):
I don't know what he's doing. I don't know anything
about it. He doesn't come up and show you know,
he's my double cousin. What, Oh my god, wait, he's
my double cousin.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
His mom and his dad or your cousins are on
either side.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
His dad is my dad's brother. Yeah, his mom is
my mom's sister.

Speaker 2 (14:44):
Shut the fuck up.

Speaker 3 (14:45):
He's my double cousin.

Speaker 2 (14:46):
That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (14:47):
Yeah, they hooked them up.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Who at first?

Speaker 1 (14:49):
They hooked them with my dad. My mom and dad
hooked them up. Yeah, and they had a kid.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
Are they still married?

Speaker 3 (14:55):
No, No, they're both dead. They both were. They married,
they were married.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
Yeah, your mom's sister, dad's brother. Yeah, I ate a
piece of shit. Yes, wow, yeah, and he's your mom.
Think about it because it's her nephew on the other side.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
Ship bag. Everyone thinks he's a ship bag. My brother
has tried. My brother grew up with him as his
best friend. The fact that he's your noble cousin though
he's like extra ad.

Speaker 3 (15:14):
Extra related yea brother.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Basically, I'm like and I tried. I'm like, bro, I'm
like not really, no, not really. But when it first happened,
I'm like, I hit him up and I go, bro, like,
you're gonna get paid, Like you own a third of
this house. Just wait, my grandmother is still alive. It's
her house just because she signed the house over. You
know why she did it because she was afraid of

(15:38):
like mass health or something would like try to take her.
I don't know why she did, but she just had
put in my kids names then have the house anyway.
And then fucking he's like, I want to put my
son in the house instead of me. But I'm like, bro,
you're gonna get paid, like in the next five to
ten years probably yeah, And he still fucking wouldn't. He
had a lawyer send the most evil message like we

(15:58):
don't care, we don't care about her, we don't care
about your family. If you want to sign anything to
do with the house, pay us money, then I will
imagine the piece of shit. And my thing is my grandmother,
who worked her whole life, came here from Peru as
an immigrant, worked her entire life, paid the fucking house
off and she has no control over her house, you know,
devastating this when my father had to go to her

(16:20):
and tell her that we can't get the home equity loan,
ship Bag Shipbeck. So anyway, yeah, going back to that,
that's why when people die in houses. Yeah, the trust
thing is the way to go. Yeah, it's just it's easier.

Speaker 2 (16:30):
My parents only in their early sixties, so hopefully we'll
have you know, plenty of time with them. But it
does make it easier, even though me and my siblings,
I like to think, are not like that. Like it's
everything survived by four. It's four kids for divide by four.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
No question, it's twenty five percent each, yep, and that's it.
That's it, that's it. All right, Well now I'm all
work though this fucking ship bag I just hate. Like
money is the root of all evil.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
No, it really is.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
It also solves so many problems, it does, but it
also it shows the true character people.

Speaker 2 (17:00):
Yeah, you're ship What can we say? His name?

Speaker 3 (17:03):
Max?

Speaker 2 (17:04):
Max?

Speaker 3 (17:04):
Fuck you Max? Ship back?

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Can I can I add one more thing just to
make it even sound even worse because it is that
much already sounds all of this happened okay, while his
father was alive.

Speaker 3 (17:15):
Because his father was like.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
He's okay, well, what's what fuck is wrong with uncle? Ed?

Speaker 1 (17:19):
He ad he had a little stuff wrong with them mentally,
he had health problems.

Speaker 2 (17:23):
And when did when did your aunt die?

Speaker 3 (17:25):
My aunt's alive.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
You said they're both dead. Oh?

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Oh his mom she died years ago. She had a
blood clot, she had like a surgery. Yeah, she was
lovely al I p to her. But anyway, so remarried, No,
never remarried, but a lot of health problems. He put
he put the house in his name. Okay, So he's
alive when this is feuding starts, okay, and he just

(17:48):
stayed out of it, right. So then he passes away suddenly. Okay,
and this kid's got nobody, right, he's got no mom,
no dad.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
Is he married kids?

Speaker 3 (17:56):
He's married and now he has a couple of young kids.

Speaker 2 (17:58):
Okay, is he run? Oh?

Speaker 3 (17:59):
He he's Alex's double cousin too.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
He said he's closer he.

Speaker 3 (18:03):
Was when they were younger. They grew up together age.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Okay, so they're like, he's like my age.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
Yeah, ok yeah, So the father passes away and we
reach out to him.

Speaker 3 (18:13):
My cousin Betty.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
Right, we reach out to Betty, Yeah, and we go listen,
we're here for you. You know, paid for the fucking funeral
for his dad.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
He came up.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
Yes, we had the well Betty did. We opened our house,
food catered. He came to the house. We had a
great time. At the end of it, me and Betty
talked to him. We gave him a hug. I go, bro,
I love you. I'm not mad at you. I go
just do the right thing, you know what I mean.
He's like, I know, I'm so sorry. He's like, anything
you guys need, I'm there for you.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
So that was it. He goes, I'm gonna keep in touch.
This was like two three years ago, right, So then
he left. He went back to Rhode Island. Fast forward
like a year or two, Like we had to make
a move on the house and needed something and they
called him like, hey, Max, we just need your signature
to like do this thing whatever. It wouldn't affect him
at all, yeah, Like it's just so they can do
stuff for the house. I'm not gonna add money, nothing
like that. Sent that letter from a lawyer. I'm not

(19:04):
signing anything. Tough guy. See when he's in front of
my face, he's, oh, I love you.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Wait, so, so Betty, does Betty have siblings?

Speaker 3 (19:13):
Yeah, that's my cousin. That's the one that no I know.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
So I know Betty is your aunt, your aunt's daughter, yes, right?

Speaker 3 (19:19):
And did they have other yeah, Teddy.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
So it's Betty and Teddy, You and Alex and the Max.
That's it for grand coach, for your for your grandmother. Yes, okay.
And he's the only one that has control over that one.
And he's the worst of.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
You, and he's the worst. But he smiled in my face.
I gave him a hog. I told him I loved him.
I go listen, we all make mistakes. But like he goes,
I have no family. You guys in my family. And
then the dollar signs came and he's like, I ain't.

Speaker 3 (19:43):
Giving you shit.

Speaker 1 (19:44):
So, like I said, the day's gonna come, he's gonna
have to show up, and he's not gonna He's not
gonna get touched.

Speaker 3 (19:49):
Never. I would never put my hands on him.

Speaker 2 (19:50):
Never.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
Never, And I'm not gonna risk my freedom for that,
you know, not gonna. I'm not gonna yell at him.
I just want to look him in the eyes. Oh
my god, I want to look him right in the eyes.

Speaker 2 (19:57):
Oh my god. That's crazy. Can I come, yeah, come
on down.

Speaker 3 (20:01):
I'll let you know.

Speaker 2 (20:03):
Anyway, that's a really uplifting podcast.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (20:06):
You know everyone's got family problems. But the lesson to
be taken from this podcast is don't be a ship back.
Always do the right thing.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
And another lesson, put your house in a trust.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Put your house in a trust. Two lessons from Justin
and Winnie. Have a great day.