July 31, 2025 • 15 mins
We break down the road rage incident that Winnie inserted herself into.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, here we go, Fred, Good morning, Fred is
Whinnie whennye Fred? Get it? It's the after show and
there's really just one thing I want to talk about
from today's show, Whinnie, and that is the road rage
incident that you were a part of. If you missed
the show. Basically, there was a road rage incident outside
the radio station. Lisa and Whnie were leaving separately. They
were stopped Whennie then got out and inserted herself in
(00:24):
the confrontation. Is that right?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Yeah, exactly what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
So you did de escalate the situation. It worked out good.
One of the guys, the short guy, was probably happy
that you helped him out, but it could have went
really bad. And it's really shocking to me that your mom,
of all people, supported this decision. Obviously your dad didn't,
but I feel like that your mom and dad both
(00:48):
should have been like, what the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Well? My mom? Me and my mom are.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Both little pipples like, oh you're like your mind.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
My mom my attitude, my little spiciness comes from her,
tell anybody where to shove it.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Which is why I am excited about Billy going through
with your entire family this weekend. So he can kind
of get some inside information. Yeah, because I don't think
I've met anybody in your family. I met your No, I've.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Never no one, no one. You've met some of my friends,
but that's about it.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Well, yeah, every friend that I meet is no longer
your friend.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
That's not true.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Okay, you had a roommate girl.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
You met her.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Years ago, not friends anymore? The other one okay, no
other ones, never mind. Okay, I won't say names.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
You met Julia, Julia and I oh Julia, you brought
her to kiss. She's pregnant, she's very she is, yeah,
with her second kid. Yep, yep, yeah, go ahead, Oh yeah,
ask how old is she?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Thirty two?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Oh? Okay, yeah, she is with somebody news. So it's
like a second kid, second kid, second dad, baby daddy, the.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
First that once sucked her husband, her first husband. Oh
my god, I hate him.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Oh god. Yeah, I'm so grateful I don't have baby
mama drama.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
She got married when we were like twenty four.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Oh okay, yeah. Yeah. So there's a friend of ours
that has three kids. Three kids, yeah, three baby daddies,
so constant baby daddy drama.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yeah, the new one. I like him.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I mean he's nice, he treats her well, yeah, they're
blending families.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
He has kids, she has kids.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
So you know, not that I want anything bad to
happen to you. Yeah, but you know if it did
during the road rage incident, yeah, Bill and I would
be sure to cover it.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Well.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
The thing is, Lisa and I go the same way home, right,
because our self short girlies, So you guys don't go
that way, so you weren't behind us, right, So Lisa,
because we all happen.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
To leave yesterday at the same time.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
And yeah, so listen, I did not I did not
make this detail on the show, but I'll stay it
on the after show. I think it was racially motivated.
So Napoleon and the big black and the guy was
a taller, a black man, African American man.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
So was the white guy against the black man?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Like I was so shocked? Didn't him say the N word?
Like he was?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
He was assuming I think, based off the man's color,
that he was trying to get an insurance claim, because
why would you assume that because he stopped short, you know,
he was profiling, And it didn't make any sense because
the other guy that stopped short, I think they knew
each other like that.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
It was there was a younger black man like and
it was like three cars. So the third car he.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Would have been the one that was in trouble because
he would have hit the guy. The guy was in
between them, So if anyone would have got the insurance came,
it would have been the younger black man that knew
the older black man, do you know what I mean?
So may they are falling each other out from somewhere,
but the two black men knew each other, and the
white man was in the middle of them, So that
doesn't even make sense because then he would have had
his friend or son or nephew or somebody be the
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one that had the that was at fault for the accident,
not the white.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Guy in the middle.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
And then he had a I mean, his lady seemed
she was calling saying like they were just they were.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Not nice people.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
And I hate to say this because I knew I
was a white girl that he was gonna be nice.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
To me, and he was nice to me.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
It's amazing that racism still exists, and that's because he
was he as soon as he saw me, instant mood change,
nice to me, calm down.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So if it were a racist thing. Yeah, it's amazing
in twenty twenty five that people still Uh, I know
it'll never go away.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, No, it just and I just couldn't. I could
not be that close to did not say something because.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I wait, did you did you see that that could
be a possibility.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yes, I could, because you could just like the way
he was, the words he was using, and the way
he was accusing him of something that I would never
think if someone stopped short that they wanted an insurance claim.
I mean sometimes you see it when someone cuts into
your lane. But you know, going up that little on ramp.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Into sixteen sucks. That's what it was kind of right
before you go into sixteen.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, you swing around, very dangerous anyway, everyone stops short there.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
I always get into accents almost in that in that little.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Okay, But you know when you get onto sixteen there
there's a lane for you. You don't have to even yield,
you should just in case.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, but that lane goes that If you get in
that lane, that lane goes into beyondy not.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
That right, you have to merge over. Yeah, so I
go right out and I keep going that.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
But still if you get suck in that lane. They
need to go into that dead end and come back out.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Which isn't bad for me because I end up. I
go that way anyway, but if you're going your way.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
But I'm four lanes over, yeah, you know what I mean.
So knowing that.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Road, I drive it every day, knowing how dangerous it
is to get onto sixteen from there, and people are timid.
How do you not know that that black man stopped
short because someone stopped short in front of him.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
And they went into sixteen and he didn't, you know?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Like, so I kneel that road and I know that
happens all the time, and the way he was and
they assume and I knew. I'm like, if I go
out there and I see his attitude change within one
second of seeing me, I know exactly what it was
rooted in because.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Why was he so nice to me? I'm some random
I'm some random.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Bitch your skin color exactly.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
And That's why I'm glad I went, because there was
because the two black men were not were not as aggressive.
They were sticking up for themselves. The second black man
was told by the older black man to get in
your car. He didn't want him a part of it.
That was like he was trying to protect that guy.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
How much bigger was the guy that was arguing with
the little white guy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I mean he was probably six feet two fifty.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
We was stopping him from just grabbing the dude because.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
You know why, because I genuinely think he's like, I
don't want to start something. Even though that, even though
that guy started it, I'm like and that so all
the demand all the man did.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Was stick up for himself.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
He said words back to him, but like that, the
white man started it, and I saw the whole thing, and.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
He was the aggressor.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Was the aggressor.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Yeah so, and the and the older black gentleman like
whispered thank you sweetheart to me.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
And as I distracted the other guy, he.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Left because he knew if he didn't leave, it was
not going to stop. The guy was not going to
stop as long as those two guys are there.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
So it's not recommended to do what you did. Even
though it worked out okay, right, it could have went bad,
especially in today's world. You don't know what people are
doing weapons.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
It was so disheartening how much nicer he was to me.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Yeah, you know what I mean, because I'm like, I'm
inserting myself in your business, like you should cuss me out.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Too, right like?
Speaker 3 (07:23):
And he was like, nice, watch my back, like you
know what I mean. And I'm like, and I said him,
I go, you don't know the way you're being respectful
to me. You should be like that to everybody. I go,
you're assuming things. Well, do you want to deal with
that insurance claim? I go, will you be in jail
with that insurance claim today?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
No? You won't. I go. He was like, I almost.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I go, you know what, sir, almost doesn't count. Get
in your car and go and do your day.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I think about racism is I'm grateful that I was
raised not to be racist.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
But yeah, because no one is inherently racist. I think
you're raised that way.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
It's you're taught. And I remember there were two things
that my parents taught me. One was about racism and
what it was more so that everybody's equal and there's
no such thing as skin color. The other thing is
that my dad was a Buddhist, so we weren't allowed
to kill things. So we didn't kill bugs. If there
was a spider in the house, my dad would catch
it and we would let it go. So you know,
(08:15):
that's why I'm not really big on like, you know,
hunting and stuff like that. But when it comes to racism,
I remember my mom telling me a story when she
was a kid growing up in Medford in the seventies,
no sixties. She was really young. Obviously it was much more,
you know, it was everywhere. Yeah, racism. There was a
black family that moved into her neighborhood and she became
(08:36):
friends with the daughter who was her age and it
was one day that she was eating dinner at their house. Now,
mind you, the people in the neighborhood, which was all white,
were very upset that this black family was there, and
they suffered harassment and they basically terrorized this family until
they moved out. But before they moved out, my mom
was eating dinner and at literally at the dinner table
while they're eating, huge rock right through their window. Yeah,
(09:00):
just because they were black.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
So I remember my mom telling me that story as
a child and explaining to me what racism was and
how you know, it's we treat everybody the same. And
that's how I was raised. So growing up, like I
didn't never really even dawned on me honestly, to be
like to like judge someone or be racist towards somebody
based on their skin color, but not everyone's like that.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Well, and also, you're half Spanish, your dad's half Spanish.
My dad is Middle Eastern, and we dealt with it
a lot after September eleventh. Yeah, now I know I
don't look I look white.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I am, you know, but your dad looks Middle Eastern.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
He does.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
And my grandmother spoke ninety percent Arabic. She really didn't
speak a moutch English. And so we would be out
and I would notice once when we when they would
speak Arabic and public, they looks the glare you know
what I mean, Like because after nine eleven, anyone that
spoke Arabic was, you know, a Muslim.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
And that's what annoy to do everyone.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I don't if you're Muslim, that's fine, but people think, oh,
when I say I'm web and he's like, oh, I
didn't know you're Muslim, and I go, I'm not Muslim,
I'm Catholic. Like that's how ingriand people are. They don't
know that Lebanon is half Catholic, half Muslim. That's why
they have religious wars, you know, you know what I mean.
Like my so, I grew up in a multicultural home,
different languages, different food.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
You know.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
My sister in law is from Columbia, my nieces are
half Spanish.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
My boyfriend's black. It's not the first black guy I've dated.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
I've dated a girl, I like, I've never Yeah, but
I'm saying I've met my best friends Brazilian, you know, Dominican.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
I've never had.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I have black girlfriends because I fully believe you cannot
if you're dating if you if you can date a
black man, but you're not friends with black girls, that's
weird to me. Like I just feel like, I don't
know how you don't have black girlfriends. But anyway, so, yeah,
I have black girlfriends, like I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, so to me, just fun.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
You can meet a shitty white person. You can meet
a shitty black person. Yeah, you can meet a shitty
Spanish person.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Yeah, shitties person I dated. It was white.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
When I was growing up down this in mald I
was growing up in Malden, there was a this is
a big deal. When I was a kid, there was
a kid that was older than us. Couple of years,
and you know, he was into drugs and stuff and
it was actually a sad story. So him and his
friend broke into a house. They thought the people were
at home. They were an Asian family. They thought they
weren't home. Turns out the Sun was home, so they
(11:13):
break into the house, all messed up on pills. The
son's there. The Sun is a karate like expert. So
they break into the house. The guy catches them, the
Sun starts chasing them. He chases them out, one goes
one way, one goes the other. He chases after the kid,
one of them, and no one really knows what happened
when he caught him, but he killed him. He put
(11:34):
like a karate move on him or something or like
did something killed him. Did not get charged because it
was like self defense because he was breaking into the house.
And I remember when that happened. There was this real
anger towards Asian people, especially in my neighborhood. There was
a lot obviously the Orange Line multi station Chinatown, there's
a lot of them there. And actually there was an
incident where I don't know who the kid was, picked
(11:56):
up a trash barrow and threw it at some random
Asian lady. There was so much anger towards it.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Yeah, you know, Quincy's a lot of Asian. My high
school was like the same thing. Red line, you know,
so a lot of people live in like Wallston or Quincy.
We're in the red line to go into Chinatown and
you know, multi generational household like all my neighbors. I
mean growing up, we had one Asian family next to us,
their Mutknees and they they've been living in my neighborhood
(12:21):
for I don't know since I was like maybe like
five or six.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
Great family.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
We're really like, we're really good neighbors with them, but
in their like their kids, weddings and all that, and
as like I've gotten older. Every time someone sells the house,
normally an Asian family.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Guys it trying to buy dad's house now.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
And so I grew up with so many Asian people
like I and there's you know, stereotypes about Asian people
and I had, you know, I went to school. I
think my high school was like forty seven percent Asian.
So it's like, I feel like there's so many stereotypes.
There's so much racism, whether you're black, Spanish, like you
know what I mean Asian. Like, I just feel like
I've grown up in a multicultural life, Like I could
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never look at somebody because of their sin color and
be like, oh they're bad or oh they're inherent.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Bad, Like that's weird, Like it's weird.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
So back to that, I will always stand up when
I can and if I know that, like, you know, yeah,
what I did was dumb. I thought about that before
I got out, but I was like, I could not
stomach it if something got even worse and I watched
it happen.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
You're a woman of the people.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
I try to be. Yeah, I know I was raised right,
I think. I know.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
Everyone thinks I'm a bitch and I'm this and I'm that,
But deep down, I'm a pretty good person, just a
little hard on the outside.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Get a break through the show and.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Now you're gonna leave hair and go get some lunch
Asian specialty.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Oh my no, I'm not going with the gym.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
All right.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Well, bro, I've been doing this what I eat in
a day?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Okay? People love that ship on Instagram and TikTok. Yeah, yeah,
especially in the fitness world. That's like bodybuilders I watch.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
So I've been eating on eggs.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Oh, that's great protein. It's all about the protein.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Yeah, but I'm not I'm not really liking the result.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Oh what do you mean, Well, it's it's really your calories.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
No, no, no, no, I'm not talking about that.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
You have gas. Yeah. Oh yeah. Protein today.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Literally, I I boiled three eggs. I only eat two
because I couldn't stom like another one. I don't know,
I don't want.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Eggs dropping heat. Yeah, I'm trying.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Yeah, And I'm in the studio with those two fuckers
and I'm trying not to windows.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Yeah, and then they'll know it's me. They don't eat,
they'll know. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
So I'm like, I'm so chamorrow. I don't know I'm
gonna have for breakfast because I can't have any more eggs.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
I'm over the eggs.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Huh. Okay. So you want to have something that's similar
in protein, Well.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
I've been doing protein coffee, protein like waffles.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I've been trying to just put protein anywhere.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Good.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You have yoga all yogurt?
Speaker 1 (14:39):
I mean no, they make protein yogurt. Okay, so that's
an option for protein bars.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Well, I can do protein oatme like oatmeal.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Oatmeal's good. Yeah, Eggs are good, but they do make
you gas.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
I get sick of them. I'm already. I mean it's
been like maybe two weeks of it. I'm sick of it.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Well you can cook them different ways too, I.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
Know, but but I feel like in the morning to
travel hard boiled the best.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
If we're going to eat at home, I'll just scramble
over easy or whatever. Right.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I went through a phase with the eggs where I
was drinking the egg whites out of the car and
she was going to divorce me because it was like
leaking out of me. It was so disgusting.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
So like the other day, my I sent my boyfriend
have to Walkota so I could go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Oh okay, thank you for sharing this. This is only
the content you get on the after Show podcast. And
on that note, we'll talk tomorrow.
All right, here we go, Fred, Good morning, Fred is
Whinnie whennye Fred? Get it? It's the after show and
there's really just one thing I want to talk about
from today's show, Whinnie, and that is the road rage
incident that you were a part of. If you missed
the show. Basically, there was a road rage incident outside
the radio station. Lisa and Whnie were leaving separately. They
were stopped Whennie then got out and inserted herself in
(00:24):
the confrontation. Is that right?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Yeah, exactly what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
So you did de escalate the situation. It worked out good.
One of the guys, the short guy, was probably happy
that you helped him out, but it could have went
really bad. And it's really shocking to me that your mom,
of all people, supported this decision. Obviously your dad didn't,
but I feel like that your mom and dad both
(00:48):
should have been like, what the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Well? My mom? Me and my mom are.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Both little pipples like, oh you're like your mind.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
My mom my attitude, my little spiciness comes from her,
tell anybody where to shove it.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Which is why I am excited about Billy going through
with your entire family this weekend. So he can kind
of get some inside information. Yeah, because I don't think
I've met anybody in your family. I met your No, I've.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Never no one, no one. You've met some of my friends,
but that's about it.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Well, yeah, every friend that I meet is no longer
your friend.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
That's not true.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Okay, you had a roommate girl.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
You met her.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Years ago, not friends anymore? The other one okay, no
other ones, never mind. Okay, I won't say names.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
You met Julia, Julia and I oh Julia, you brought
her to kiss. She's pregnant, she's very she is, yeah,
with her second kid. Yep, yep, yeah, go ahead, Oh yeah,
ask how old is she?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Thirty two?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Oh? Okay, yeah, she is with somebody news. So it's
like a second kid, second kid, second dad, baby daddy, the.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
First that once sucked her husband, her first husband. Oh
my god, I hate him.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Oh god. Yeah, I'm so grateful I don't have baby
mama drama.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
She got married when we were like twenty four.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Oh okay, yeah. Yeah. So there's a friend of ours
that has three kids. Three kids, yeah, three baby daddies,
so constant baby daddy drama.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yeah, the new one. I like him.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I mean he's nice, he treats her well, yeah, they're
blending families.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
He has kids, she has kids.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
So you know, not that I want anything bad to
happen to you. Yeah, but you know if it did
during the road rage incident, yeah, Bill and I would
be sure to cover it.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Well.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
The thing is, Lisa and I go the same way home, right,
because our self short girlies, So you guys don't go
that way, so you weren't behind us, right, So Lisa,
because we all happen.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
To leave yesterday at the same time.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
And yeah, so listen, I did not I did not
make this detail on the show, but I'll stay it
on the after show. I think it was racially motivated.
So Napoleon and the big black and the guy was
a taller, a black man, African American man.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
So was the white guy against the black man?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Like I was so shocked? Didn't him say the N word?
Like he was?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
He was assuming I think, based off the man's color,
that he was trying to get an insurance claim, because
why would you assume that because he stopped short, you know,
he was profiling, And it didn't make any sense because
the other guy that stopped short, I think they knew
each other like that.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
It was there was a younger black man like and
it was like three cars. So the third car he.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Would have been the one that was in trouble because
he would have hit the guy. The guy was in
between them, So if anyone would have got the insurance came,
it would have been the younger black man that knew
the older black man, do you know what I mean?
So may they are falling each other out from somewhere,
but the two black men knew each other, and the
white man was in the middle of them, So that
doesn't even make sense because then he would have had
his friend or son or nephew or somebody be the
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one that had the that was at fault for the accident,
not the white.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Guy in the middle.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
And then he had a I mean, his lady seemed
she was calling saying like they were just they were.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Not nice people.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
And I hate to say this because I knew I
was a white girl that he was gonna be nice.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
To me, and he was nice to me.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
It's amazing that racism still exists, and that's because he
was he as soon as he saw me, instant mood change,
nice to me, calm down.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So if it were a racist thing. Yeah, it's amazing
in twenty twenty five that people still Uh, I know
it'll never go away.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, No, it just and I just couldn't. I could
not be that close to did not say something because.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I wait, did you did you see that that could
be a possibility.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yes, I could, because you could just like the way
he was, the words he was using, and the way
he was accusing him of something that I would never
think if someone stopped short that they wanted an insurance claim.
I mean sometimes you see it when someone cuts into
your lane. But you know, going up that little on ramp.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Into sixteen sucks. That's what it was kind of right
before you go into sixteen.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, you swing around, very dangerous anyway, everyone stops short there.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
I always get into accents almost in that in that little.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Okay, But you know when you get onto sixteen there
there's a lane for you. You don't have to even yield,
you should just in case.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, but that lane goes that If you get in
that lane, that lane goes into beyondy not.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
That right, you have to merge over. Yeah, so I
go right out and I keep going that.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
But still if you get suck in that lane. They
need to go into that dead end and come back out.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Which isn't bad for me because I end up. I
go that way anyway, but if you're going your way.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
But I'm four lanes over, yeah, you know what I mean.
So knowing that.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Road, I drive it every day, knowing how dangerous it
is to get onto sixteen from there, and people are timid.
How do you not know that that black man stopped
short because someone stopped short in front of him.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
And they went into sixteen and he didn't, you know?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Like, so I kneel that road and I know that
happens all the time, and the way he was and
they assume and I knew. I'm like, if I go
out there and I see his attitude change within one
second of seeing me, I know exactly what it was
rooted in because.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Why was he so nice to me? I'm some random
I'm some random.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Bitch your skin color exactly.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
And That's why I'm glad I went, because there was
because the two black men were not were not as aggressive.
They were sticking up for themselves. The second black man
was told by the older black man to get in
your car. He didn't want him a part of it.
That was like he was trying to protect that guy.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
How much bigger was the guy that was arguing with
the little white guy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I mean he was probably six feet two fifty.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
We was stopping him from just grabbing the dude because.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
You know why, because I genuinely think he's like, I
don't want to start something. Even though that, even though
that guy started it, I'm like and that so all
the demand all the man did.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Was stick up for himself.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
He said words back to him, but like that, the
white man started it, and I saw the whole thing, and.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
He was the aggressor.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Was the aggressor.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Yeah so, and the and the older black gentleman like
whispered thank you sweetheart to me.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
And as I distracted the other guy, he.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Left because he knew if he didn't leave, it was
not going to stop. The guy was not going to
stop as long as those two guys are there.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
So it's not recommended to do what you did. Even
though it worked out okay, right, it could have went bad,
especially in today's world. You don't know what people are
doing weapons.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
It was so disheartening how much nicer he was to me.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Yeah, you know what I mean, because I'm like, I'm
inserting myself in your business, like you should cuss me out.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Too, right like?
Speaker 3 (07:23):
And he was like, nice, watch my back, like you
know what I mean. And I'm like, and I said him,
I go, you don't know the way you're being respectful
to me. You should be like that to everybody. I go,
you're assuming things. Well, do you want to deal with
that insurance claim? I go, will you be in jail
with that insurance claim today?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
No? You won't. I go. He was like, I almost.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I go, you know what, sir, almost doesn't count. Get
in your car and go and do your day.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I think about racism is I'm grateful that I was
raised not to be racist.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
But yeah, because no one is inherently racist. I think
you're raised that way.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
It's you're taught. And I remember there were two things
that my parents taught me. One was about racism and
what it was more so that everybody's equal and there's
no such thing as skin color. The other thing is
that my dad was a Buddhist, so we weren't allowed
to kill things. So we didn't kill bugs. If there
was a spider in the house, my dad would catch
it and we would let it go. So you know,
(08:15):
that's why I'm not really big on like, you know,
hunting and stuff like that. But when it comes to racism,
I remember my mom telling me a story when she
was a kid growing up in Medford in the seventies,
no sixties. She was really young. Obviously it was much more,
you know, it was everywhere. Yeah, racism. There was a
black family that moved into her neighborhood and she became
(08:36):
friends with the daughter who was her age and it
was one day that she was eating dinner at their house. Now,
mind you, the people in the neighborhood, which was all white,
were very upset that this black family was there, and
they suffered harassment and they basically terrorized this family until
they moved out. But before they moved out, my mom
was eating dinner and at literally at the dinner table
while they're eating, huge rock right through their window. Yeah,
(09:00):
just because they were black.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
So I remember my mom telling me that story as
a child and explaining to me what racism was and
how you know, it's we treat everybody the same. And
that's how I was raised. So growing up, like I
didn't never really even dawned on me honestly, to be
like to like judge someone or be racist towards somebody
based on their skin color, but not everyone's like that.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Well, and also, you're half Spanish, your dad's half Spanish.
My dad is Middle Eastern, and we dealt with it
a lot after September eleventh. Yeah, now I know I
don't look I look white.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I am, you know, but your dad looks Middle Eastern.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
He does.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
And my grandmother spoke ninety percent Arabic. She really didn't
speak a moutch English. And so we would be out
and I would notice once when we when they would
speak Arabic and public, they looks the glare you know
what I mean, Like because after nine eleven, anyone that
spoke Arabic was, you know, a Muslim.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
And that's what annoy to do everyone.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I don't if you're Muslim, that's fine, but people think, oh,
when I say I'm web and he's like, oh, I
didn't know you're Muslim, and I go, I'm not Muslim,
I'm Catholic. Like that's how ingriand people are. They don't
know that Lebanon is half Catholic, half Muslim. That's why
they have religious wars, you know, you know what I mean.
Like my so, I grew up in a multicultural home,
different languages, different food.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
You know.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
My sister in law is from Columbia, my nieces are
half Spanish.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
My boyfriend's black. It's not the first black guy I've dated.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
I've dated a girl, I like, I've never Yeah, but
I'm saying I've met my best friends Brazilian, you know, Dominican.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
I've never had.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I have black girlfriends because I fully believe you cannot
if you're dating if you if you can date a
black man, but you're not friends with black girls, that's
weird to me. Like I just feel like, I don't
know how you don't have black girlfriends. But anyway, so, yeah,
I have black girlfriends, like I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, so to me, just fun.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
You can meet a shitty white person. You can meet
a shitty black person. Yeah, you can meet a shitty
Spanish person.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Yeah, shitties person I dated. It was white.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
When I was growing up down this in mald I
was growing up in Malden, there was a this is
a big deal. When I was a kid, there was
a kid that was older than us. Couple of years,
and you know, he was into drugs and stuff and
it was actually a sad story. So him and his
friend broke into a house. They thought the people were
at home. They were an Asian family. They thought they
weren't home. Turns out the Sun was home, so they
(11:13):
break into the house, all messed up on pills. The
son's there. The Sun is a karate like expert. So
they break into the house. The guy catches them, the
Sun starts chasing them. He chases them out, one goes
one way, one goes the other. He chases after the kid,
one of them, and no one really knows what happened
when he caught him, but he killed him. He put
(11:34):
like a karate move on him or something or like
did something killed him. Did not get charged because it
was like self defense because he was breaking into the house.
And I remember when that happened. There was this real
anger towards Asian people, especially in my neighborhood. There was
a lot obviously the Orange Line multi station Chinatown, there's
a lot of them there. And actually there was an
incident where I don't know who the kid was, picked
(11:56):
up a trash barrow and threw it at some random
Asian lady. There was so much anger towards it.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Yeah, you know, Quincy's a lot of Asian. My high
school was like the same thing. Red line, you know,
so a lot of people live in like Wallston or Quincy.
We're in the red line to go into Chinatown and
you know, multi generational household like all my neighbors. I
mean growing up, we had one Asian family next to us,
their Mutknees and they they've been living in my neighborhood
(12:21):
for I don't know since I was like maybe like
five or six.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
Great family.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
We're really like, we're really good neighbors with them, but
in their like their kids, weddings and all that, and
as like I've gotten older. Every time someone sells the house,
normally an Asian family.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Guys it trying to buy dad's house now.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
And so I grew up with so many Asian people
like I and there's you know, stereotypes about Asian people
and I had, you know, I went to school. I
think my high school was like forty seven percent Asian.
So it's like, I feel like there's so many stereotypes.
There's so much racism, whether you're black, Spanish, like you
know what I mean Asian. Like, I just feel like
I've grown up in a multicultural life, Like I could
(12:56):
never look at somebody because of their sin color and
be like, oh they're bad or oh they're inherent.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Bad, Like that's weird, Like it's weird.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
So back to that, I will always stand up when
I can and if I know that, like, you know, yeah,
what I did was dumb. I thought about that before
I got out, but I was like, I could not
stomach it if something got even worse and I watched
it happen.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
You're a woman of the people.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
I try to be. Yeah, I know I was raised right,
I think. I know.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
Everyone thinks I'm a bitch and I'm this and I'm that,
But deep down, I'm a pretty good person, just a
little hard on the outside.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Get a break through the show and.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Now you're gonna leave hair and go get some lunch
Asian specialty.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Oh my no, I'm not going with the gym.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
All right.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Well, bro, I've been doing this what I eat in
a day?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Okay? People love that ship on Instagram and TikTok. Yeah, yeah,
especially in the fitness world. That's like bodybuilders I watch.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
So I've been eating on eggs.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Oh, that's great protein. It's all about the protein.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Yeah, but I'm not I'm not really liking the result.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Oh what do you mean, Well, it's it's really your calories.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
No, no, no, no, I'm not talking about that.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
You have gas. Yeah. Oh yeah. Protein today.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Literally, I I boiled three eggs. I only eat two
because I couldn't stom like another one. I don't know,
I don't want.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Eggs dropping heat. Yeah, I'm trying.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Yeah, And I'm in the studio with those two fuckers
and I'm trying not to windows.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Yeah, and then they'll know it's me. They don't eat,
they'll know. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
So I'm like, I'm so chamorrow. I don't know I'm
gonna have for breakfast because I can't have any more eggs.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
I'm over the eggs.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Huh. Okay. So you want to have something that's similar
in protein, Well.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
I've been doing protein coffee, protein like waffles.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I've been trying to just put protein anywhere.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Good.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You have yoga all yogurt?
Speaker 1 (14:39):
I mean no, they make protein yogurt. Okay, so that's
an option for protein bars.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Well, I can do protein oatme like oatmeal.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Oatmeal's good. Yeah, Eggs are good, but they do make
you gas.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
I get sick of them. I'm already. I mean it's
been like maybe two weeks of it. I'm sick of it.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Well you can cook them different ways too, I.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
Know, but but I feel like in the morning to
travel hard boiled the best.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
If we're going to eat at home, I'll just scramble
over easy or whatever. Right.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I went through a phase with the eggs where I
was drinking the egg whites out of the car and
she was going to divorce me because it was like
leaking out of me. It was so disgusting.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
So like the other day, my I sent my boyfriend
have to Walkota so I could go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Oh okay, thank you for sharing this. This is only
the content you get on the after Show podcast. And
on that note, we'll talk tomorrow.
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