November 4, 2025 • 47 mins
Feeling “blah”? You’re not alone. Good news, though? This episode is funny! Kat and Amy dive into everything from rage showers (yep, they’re real) to treadmill meltdowns and the odd debate of “zero” vs “oh” when saying numbers. But the real kicker: can swearing actually make you more authentic? Kat breaks down the surprising psychology behind profanity, and why dropping an f-bomb might say more about your honesty than your manners. It’s a messy and unexpectedly insightful ride through emotion, language, and laughter.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Good. All right, break it down.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy
and Cat gotcha covin locking No, brother, ladies and folks,
do you just follow Ann the spirit where it's all
the phone over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and
the m but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can
do it just stop you feel things. This is feeling
(00:27):
things with Amy and Kat.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy, I'm Cat.
And before we get to the feeling of the day,
which is coming from Kat, I have a random question
of the day, and it's.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
The questions that don't come up.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah, okay, but I feel like, are we doing questions
that don't come up, like in the middle of something
like randomly? If it comes up, this is premeditated, Okay,
then no it's not. Well, it's something because I was
on a call before we were recording and I had
to say my credit card over the phone, and I
have zeros in my credit card multiple But I realize
(01:02):
that's depending on how the numbers are laid out. Sometimes
I say oh, and sometimes I say zero. I don't
say zero every time, and I don't say oh every time.
So my question is when you have a zero, do
you say zero or oh? Like, for example, I can
say my phone number growing up it was two eight
two oh eight four to one. Oh, that's oh. But
(01:23):
then sometimes if I was like two eight two oh
eight four to one, and then maybe there was like
four other numbers, it might be like zero nine six,
you know, like if it was like okay, and what's
the code to access your bedroom? Yeah? Yeah, I would
say zero access your bedroom, like like, what's your extension?
(01:43):
You know, like that was because that was my homephone.
Do you still remember your home phone number growing up?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Why do I feel like I shouldn't say it out loud?
It so that doesn't even exist anymore?
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, I'm probably. I mean I didn't give the area code,
but I gave the two way two way five.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
I still use it for like certain things that it's
connected to, like, oh, probably shouldn't do that. I mean,
for like when you go to like a grocery store
and you type it in to get the points.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
You know, at the grocery store, you can always do
whatever area code you live in and do eight six
seven five three oh nine oh hey ooh. In the
song they go eight six seven five three.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Oh nine and get the points.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
It works for me.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
So at a grocery store, you've never actually created account.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
You just sometimes I have some. If I don't, yes,
I will do the area code of where I am.
So in Nashville we're six one five, and then you
just type in eight six seven five three oh nine
and then all the discounts come up. No way, yeah, okay, okay. Well,
so I don't know. I know it's a very random question,
but it just got me thinking, like, that's a great question.
(02:43):
In my credit card number, I have multiple zeros, and
sometimes I say zero and sometimes I say oh. It
just has to be the placement and how it feels
rolling off the tongue.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So you're asking, do I say yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Do you ever say oh or zero?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Because I don't pay attention to that, But I'm assuming
because when you said the phone number, I'm like, yeah,
if you said zero, say that phone number and say zero.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Two eight two oh eight four one or two eight
two zero eight four one.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Oh, it sounds normal too.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I wouldn't do that, And it's not like we call
it coke zero. I don't say coke. Oh, I mean
obviously zero okay, they told us. But I mean zero's
are zero?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
So why do I say, Oh, it's an abbreviation.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I know why. It just was weird, like in the
in the flow of it, I didn't say consistently zero
every time it was like, oh, in the delivery.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I'm finally hearing yourself.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Let's say my credit card number has five zeros? You have,
am I also being clear of this entire time me
I'm not saying. I'm saying, not you understanding at me
not being clear in my delivery, Like my credit card
number has multiple zeros, but say it's four two five zero,
I wouldn't say four to five. Oh, I say four
(03:54):
to five zero. And then if it's like zero six
eight zero, I might say that, but then there's there's
another zero in there.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I say, Oh, you say both is what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I say both, okay, in the combination of saying, you know,
I love how what's the right word here, passionate?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
How passionate you are becoming over this?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I thought you were saying I feel like a weirdo.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
No, I thought you were saying, like sometimes, like with
my phone, ever, I say, oh, but with my credit card,
I say zero now you're saying I mix and mingle.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I mix and mingle in the same delivery.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I think that's okay. I know, okay, thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
That's all I don't know. I guess I was just curious.
If I'm the only person on the planet that does this,
I don't think you are. Okay, cry ocat does it okay?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Everybody in this room does?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Do you mix and mingle in the same flow.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
I think it's like, yeah, it's a you have to
go based on how you feel, and like a zero
might feel right here, and oh might feel.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Right here zero, and oh, this is the only one
we do it for. We don't do it for.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Well, what other numbers have abbreviations.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
One, two, three, four, five, six, seven. You're like, oh,
joevre okay, No, I guess they don't.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
We don't, So I think you're normal.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh oh yeah, I would say uh, oh, oh yeah,
I would say oh oh. I would probably say oh oh.
I wouldn't go zero, zero, but I might, I might
say zero.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh, okay, four, three, two. But I also think if
I'm if I'm reading something off to somebody, I like
to be very clear because I think sometimes when I speak,
I don't speak clearly, so I probably would say zero
if I'm reading something zero zero four three kind of thing.
(05:45):
But if i'm just if somebody's like, what's your phone abound,
I'll probably would be like four three oh four two
oh oh?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Right, you know, I know I'm with you. I'm very clear.
That's why it was weird to me, because I noticed
that I was like nine six zero four two oh,
and it was like zero in the no and I'm like,
why did I just switch that?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
There's nothing.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Probably she'd have described it just like that in the
very beginning.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Yeah, you're I think you're normal, and if you weren't normal,
that would be such a fun quirk that we would
just love about you.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
You probably wouldn't even really notice it.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
And I bet that person didn't notice that you did that.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah, well, because then I mean, all credit cards are numbers.
But she might be like, oh, oh, it's not a number,
because oh is a letter.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I think that she gets that that's the abbreviation for zero.
Though I know, probably what if she said that I
was on a number, I don't. I can't input that, ma'am,
and I would be like, you know, it's the abbreviations
for zero, it's.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
This is short talk, or like shorthand. My mom was
able to write shorthand.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
I never what does that mean?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
It's an abbreviated writing.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Don't you just do that anyway when you're taking notes?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
No, this is like a special language. Oh well, I
don't know if they were taught it, Like my mom
was a secretary whack when it was called secretary at places,
and then later an administrative assistant. But I think it
was a top thing, like you learned shorthand. Oh, sort
of like who keeps notes in the courtroom? You know,
(07:18):
the clerk, no topopography, but the topography they're taking.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
They're not notes.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
They're taking minutes, the minute, the minute, I know, but
they're If you've ever noticed, their keyboard is not a
normal keyboard, I don't think. I believe it's like a
shorthand typewriter.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
So it's how their letters, yes words, they're.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Typing so quickly to keep up with everything that's being said.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
I didn't know that.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So, yeah, a stenographer a court reporter.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
That's what it's called, or that's what her machine's called.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
It's the person is the stenographer and the machine is
the stenography, the stographer, it's anogaph type writer, oh, shorthand typewriter.
It just popped in my head. Obviously cool, we send
things talking about this. Things that, Yeah, things random things
(08:09):
we never thought we'd talk about. But let's get into
the feeling of the day, since none of this has
anything to do with feelings.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Yeah, you're feeling passionate. Would you say that or were
you feeling insecure about that?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
I think I more so was feeling insecure that I
was not being clear in what I was saying. It
sort of threw me because you did a good job
faking like you knew what I was talking about. And
then all of a sudden, because I thought you were
tracking with me, and then you go, oh, I get
what you're saying. So then I got defensive and I'm like,
damn you, you're not weird. I go, yeah, even though
(08:41):
I only brought it up because I thought I was weird.
I know I'm not weird, but a minute, like a
minute before, I had brought it up because I felt
like maybe I was being weird.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
So do you feel better?
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I feel better? Okay. I don't know if we have
any clarity, but those listening out there right now. If
you say oh or zero, you are not alone.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
And that's what this podcast is all about. Okay, I'm
not feeling insecure passion. There might be some passion in there,
but I'm I'm feeling a low level of enragement.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Of rage, okay, because I don't know if I have
shared with you on here before recently that we have purchased.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
I don't know if I have shared with you before
recently on this here podcast.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Ever, in this time, we've purchased a treadmill.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
And breaking news. Yeah, breaking news.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
My iPad's talking to me. So we purchased the treadmill.
It was a big deal. We shopped around, we tested somehow,
I did some research. Great, purchase it. We go to
the store. You know, I'm going to say the store
because it deserves to be mentioned.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Like in a negative or positive way. You can decide, well,
I need to know the location before you do, because
I don't know if I have an affiliation with them
at all in any way, shape or form.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
So it's a common store that people buy good sad
good sad sporting goods.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Sure, okay, we'll give it at that.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
I won't even blame the store. I think they wouldn't
have known this.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
Yeah, I will say that, Well, part of it is
the store associate associate the store wouldn't have known the
actual problem.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
That would not be their perfect so good thing. We
didn't say their name and we're not going to.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Yeah, why would I ever do that? So we go
to the store.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
The store associate, which I'm like, Doug Catherine, this probably
is just like a college student who's working on the
weekends to make minimum wage.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
He probably doesn't really care. That's judgment.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But I will say Patrick worked at this store at
one point in his life, and that's what he said
he did. So I'm like asking questions. Once we were
gonna buy it, he was like, do you want to
get the assembly in delivery? I said, well, how much
is that? He said two hundred dollars?
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Oh, I know what you thought. Right away? You were like,
what why would I pay someone to put it together
when I can do it myself?
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Literally?
Speaker 4 (10:53):
I said, well could we do it ourselves? And he said,
well I did it myself in forty five minutes.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
And I was like, then no, we'll just take it
with us today. He said, what kind of car do
you drive?
Speaker 4 (11:05):
I told him. He said, Oh, I'll be fine, it'll
fit in there. Long story short, it did not fit.
Half of it didn't even fit in my car. So
we had to come back the next day, get my
dad's truck, put it there, take it to our house,
carry it up the stairs, which I had to enlist
family members to come to our house to do this.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I thought somebody was going to die.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yeah, treadmills are heavy.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
I didn't know that. Oh why did I not know that?
Why did I not think?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Probably because the only previous your prior experience to a
quote unquote treadmill before this. But it's one of those
walking paths from Amazon, is that why?
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Yeah? And I could carry that upstairs on myself.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Yeah, right, it's very portable.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Yes. So I was so scared during this process and
in the middle of.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
The Yeah, like I'm shocked. Like we've had to pay
whenever I've had to relocate my treadmill, had to pay
the company to come move it because I've been so
should have done that, terrified, should have done that. But
you could do it yourself.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
Yeah, And I have to admit I did not help
at all to carry that up the stairs. And I
probably would have died if I was part of that process.
We finally get it in there, Patrick and I set
it up and honestly didn't see it was a little
frustrating setting it up, but it wasn't that bad. Oh
before this, the sales associate said, do you want to
buy a mat for this treadmill?
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I said, do we need one?
Speaker 4 (12:23):
We're just putting it on carpet, and he said, no,
it's really more for hardwood floors, so you don't mess
up your hardwood flooring. We also don't care about this
carpet anyway, because we're eventually won't we want to rip
it up. So he's like, oh, then you don't need
the mat, and I was like, great, save more money,
don't pay for the assembly, don't pay for the shipping,
don't pay for the mat.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
So we get it up there, put it together. It
doesn't work, and I'm like, oh my god, so like
googling stuff whatever, blah blah.
Speaker 4 (12:47):
Then I open up the manual and on the first
page it says, before you start, like warning things to know,
the first thing is.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Do not assemble this and use it on carpet.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
So you need the mat.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
Yeah, And it probably could have, like I don't know
done something bad because I have started a fire on bilter. Yes, yeah, probably,
So anyway, we had to get the mat, then we
had to get aplied. Weeks have gone by, We've updated
our treadmill experience.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Yeah, I don't know all of this saga, but I
do know when you were you bought the treadmill, and
I feel like that was a really long time ago.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
Month.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Probably, yeah, probably can't return it at this point. Well,
I'm going to spee the story up because this is
far too long.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
If someone is currently on the treadmill right now, you
have jogged a couple miles.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Literally And anyway, so we had to take the treadmill
completely apart, which did cause a little bit of marital discord,
and take it apart to fix the thing. Oh my god,
we took the whole thing apart because we were trying
to get to this one screw. And then once we
took the whole thing apart, Patrick realized we could have
(14:00):
just lifted the traid mail up to access that crew
and we didn't screw and we didn't need to take
the whole thing apart. Yeah, so anyway, we did that.
Then we lifted it up wouldn't you know? Inside the
motor of the treadmill is completely rusted.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
How you don't know? It's a mystery. So now we
have to undo it again and take it down the
stairs the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
I can't but they come pick it up. Well, you
sold me a rusty treadmill, so I'm gonna need What
did I.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
Do to deserve this? That's what I want to know.
I just wanted to be healthy. I just wanted to
move my body a little bit. Well I've been walking
outside now and so anyway.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
I did not to get to be the winter months.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Like, yeah, I did email them and send them pictures
because they had sent me like this is probably what
it is.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Just look at this and fix it. And I'm like, well,
this is rusted.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
So my hope is that they're like, oh no, we'll
send somebody there with a new piece and they'll fix it.
Because if I have to take that thing back downstairs,
I'd rather just light it on fire, but I actually
can't do that inside my house.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
No, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Our hope is going to be that they're going to
come and fix it, or if it has to be removed,
that they will come and haul it away like on
the house, because surely it needs to be swapped out,
and that shouldn't be on you to to have to
handle that.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Just a girl. And maybe I should pretend like I'm
I'm a single woman living in that home and I
not strong enough or something, so they have to like, sir,
I have no family here, nobody can help me do this.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, my parents don't live down the street. And that
is not my husband right here.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
My brother don't live down the street, and they're like.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
How did you get up here? You know, just you know,
one step at a time, treadmill. I have my own
issues that the treadmill works. My cat has claimed it
as sort of her spot perch, and so I get
(16:07):
on it and sometimes she's cool with it, but other
times she swats at me and yeah, and like tries
to bite me. And if I'm walking with my arms,
she'll like rare, rare, rare, and like she does not
want me to be on there. And then I have
a little I'll have to buy you one of these.
You can get a little clear tray and a little
stand for your computer and it'll prop up and you
can walk and work. But when I have the tray
(16:29):
up there, there's no room for her, and she freaks
out and I'm like, Maggie, go lay somewhere else. That's
not the big of a deal.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Wait, this is actually really ironic. Since she's on a diet, I.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
Know her favorite spot is the treadment.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
Everybody in this family will not be exercising.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Yes, She's like if you're yes, because I'm currently not
feeding her in her bowl. We have to loose feed
her where you just hide food around the room and
she has to hunt for it. She has to like
work for her food and fid But I feel bad,
so I'll hide it and then I take her to
it and I'm like, this is where I put it,
(17:07):
and I'm like, here you go, just so.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Do you put like one little piece?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
No?
Speaker 3 (17:12):
I put like or is it like a pile.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Of a little pile and not in a bowl?
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Not in a bowl and just just like put her
food on the floor.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
No, she can't eat that way anymore. She has to go.
She has to like have an ounce here, an ounce
there here. Now she's like fright and walk around and
I'm spared. I am apparently supposed to exercise with her
and I'm like, how do you exercise a cat?
Speaker 3 (17:45):
How do you exercise a cat?
Speaker 1 (17:47):
I mean you put like a ribbon and they bounce around.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
But i mean, yeah, why aren't you doing that?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Well, I have to start. Car always eats her, chew
her little toys that we get her. Car eats it.
So then I'm not going to buy another one. Cars
probably overweight too.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
You walk car all the time.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
I know, but I overfeed my pets.
Speaker 4 (18:04):
Wait sure, I have a question why because I feel
knowing nothing about animals, never had a cat.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
So take this with a grain of salt. Why can't
you just limit her food and take Why do you
have to hide it?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
This is what the vet told me to do, so
she has to hunt for it, so she's not eating.
It's that way if you have it in the bowl,
like she's just gonna eat it all right there, and
then if it's spread out, she's like spacing out her
food and just I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Cat, Okay. So the real issue is that she's sedentary.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
The vet said, this is the heaviest she has weighed,
and you need to cut back on her face.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
It's the oldest that she has ever been. Of course,
it's the heavy.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
We No, I think at some point like cats just
like should maintain defensive.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
The heaviest I've ever been because I'm thirty five, yeah,
and I'm not twelve anymore.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Yeah. So anyway, Maggie, she parks it on my treadmill,
and yes it is ironic because she does need to
work out. But because you've been through such a difficult
time with your treadmill, once it's set up, I will
gift you the clear tray and the computer.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
That's really nice. And what I hear in that is
that you believe that this will be resolved.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
It will it will be.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
And what I've learned is pay for the delivery and assembly. Yeah,
you can't do everything yourself. Do I deserve this? I
think I do because I feel if.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
You have other things going on that are like magnifying,
like the rage you feel towards the treadmill, and.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
It makes me it's not about the treadmill. It may
not be have you thought about that's not about the treadmill.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Okay, See, I really probably.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Wouldn't be this upset.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
It's just it's like something I'd rather hyper focus on
that than other things in my life that are out
of my control.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Yeah, you're like, if I do that, I'm a sudden fire.
Speaker 3 (19:54):
But I can burn my house down.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
But I can't do that. Cat And if y'all see
Cot in the news.
Speaker 4 (20:00):
Well my fire alarm speaking of Okay, So yesterday, as
we're working on the treadmill, our fire alarm goes off.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
But it was not an alarm. It was a woman's
voice and it's saying, she said, there's smoke in the
master bedroom.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
The alarm is.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
About to sound. It will be very loud, just so
you know. And then and then it was quiet, and
I go, Patrick, Am I am? I? My initial thought,
oh my gosh, I had walked. I wasn't with him
because we okay, we just found the rest. I walked
in the bathroom and take my contacts out, and I
started hearing the woman's voice, and then I yelled out Patrick, Patrick,
(20:44):
and I like grabbed my shoes and I also got
about to like run outside because I thought my house
was burning down.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Also, I was like, who was that? It reminded me
of Smart House.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
Oh my gosh, okay, Disney Channel on ritual movie and
that was a scary movie to me because the lady
was like a robot. That took care of the house,
but she then started taking over the house. And in
my head, I'm like, somebody's invaded our house. We're not
gonna they're gonna lock the doors, like I don't. I
freaked out. And then the alarm never sounded, but then
there's no smoke. So then Patrick was like, it's fine.
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And then ten minutes go by, she does it again.
There's smoke in the master bedroom. The alarm will sound,
it's going to be very loud.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Just so you know, was she glitching? She said it clearly.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Well I know, but like glitch like was her system?
Like what was making her fire off?
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Like?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Was there smoke in the master bedroom? No?
Speaker 4 (21:37):
And so then well, then I went and blew the
he I had a candle. Oh, I had a candle
on downstairs. So I went and blew the candle out,
like surely that's not it. And then thirty minutes later it.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Did it again.
Speaker 4 (21:48):
This time the alarm went off. So I opened the
door and I'm like, I'm out of the house, and
Patrick's like in the bedroom looking for smoke. I'm like,
get out. And then I called my dad and then
well I texted him. He said that those alarms are normal.
My first concern was, why is she talking like this
should just be a sound and he said, new alarms,
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fire alarms talk interesting. Never have heard that before ever,
he said, anybody in this room never, So if that
happens to you one day, just know it can be normal.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
It's not a person.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
And then he said to vacuum it because sometimes dust
gets in there. And he said, do that, and if
it doesn't work, it could be a spider. Sometimes spiders
crawl into them, so if it still doesn't the vacuuming
doesn't help, then maybe it's a spider, and just to
take it down. And I said, well, what if there
really is a smoke somewhere like in the attic, and
there's smoke somewhere in the night, it's going to turn
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into a fire and then we are dead. Yeah, And
he said that it would have already been a fire
by now, right, okay, And then he said, if you
need me to come over, I will.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
But I don't think I think Patrick wanted to take
care of it himself.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
He probably did. And you're like, it's cool. I already
texting Dad, No.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
I said, is it a Does that make you feel weird?
Speaker 4 (23:03):
That I'm texting my dad and he said, no, I
don't really know what's going on either, but you don't
need him to come over here at nine pm.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
I can take the fire just so he can take
it off the wall. I can do that.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Yeah. That reminds me of one time my ex husband,
early in our marriage, my dad was going to carve
the turkey, but we were hosting and that didn't go
over well. I mean he didn't say anything to him,
but he got upset and he was like, this was
supposed to this is our Thanksgiving. I'm supposed to carve
the turkey.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
So your dad carved it.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
I think my dad started working on the turkey and
my ex husband was like, that's our turkey. Well, yeah,
he didn't he didn't say anything. It was more internal.
And then later he've expressed to me that he was
upset because it was his turkey.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
Who did he cook the turkey?
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Yeah, I mean I think we did it all together.
I honestly, this was years ago. I mean I was
buried seventeen years and that was the really part of
our marriage. So we're going back actually, like it could
have been around two thousand and seven, two thousand and eight,
at the seventh, So I don't remember every detail, but
it just made me think of like a son in
law father relationship and how it's like newly married. Like
if this is my house, you're her dad, but I'm
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her husband, and I'm going to protect.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
Her and carve her turkey and I carved. That sounds interesting.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
It sounds like, I mean, something doesn't have to be sexual,
but it still sounded it. It doesn't have to be,
but it sounded dirty. So to be clear, like Bim's
actually talking about a turkey, yes, like actual turkey, but
it was. It was an interesting thing. Like some of
that is just conditioning, as men are wanting to feel
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a certain way in your home, you know.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
But I feel like your ex husband was way more
And I could be wrong, but it appeared to me
to be way more like handy and traditionally masculine in
that way.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Then my husband, like Patrick, doesn't have to carp a turkey. Wait,
oh my gosh, stop, this is not so why are
you laughing.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Like that? I love Oh my gosh, he doesn't listen, right, Okay,
I don't mean it like that.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
So masculine, but ready he can't. Oh you know's how
carbon Turkey.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
He doesn't tell us, tell us how manly he is, like, like,
name all the ways. Hurry, hurry, name, start saying them. Sorry.
So he's like, so he loves sports, sports, he loved sports.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Go he loves sports. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, wait stop it.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
I don't think that would even upset him because I
think he knows what I mean, like I can't.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
Like he can't. He wasn't handy, like.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
He manages money.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
Well, I hope he does.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
We're just giving you a hard time.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Okay, okay, but look, hey, guess what. I love you
and you're perfect for me. What I meant was I
feel like Ben would do probably more like building of
things like.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
My dad definitely did not Ben. I mean, I think,
you know he he could be handy, and also he
was gone a lot, like because he was in the military,
so I think, yes, could he do certain things on
a plane, Like could he fly an airplane? I felt
like that was always yeah, that's pretty off women flight airplane.
It's not like just a man thing. But I think
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I had to learn how to figure out things on
my own. I didn't do I hire it up.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
So did you call it your dad.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yeah, my dad would do a lot, and I don't
know if that really bothered Ben. To be honest, we
didn't really talk about it, but things would just get
done or I would hire people, and then I think
that was sort of our routine. So even when Ben
would come back from deployment, I'm like, oh, I already
have my handyman who was not threatening, like he couldn't hear. Well,
I had this one handy man, and I think he
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was like, maybe you know how you're sort of legally blind. Yeah,
right right, but like you can see.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
It's like a, yeah, I'm legally blind, but I can
see like shapes and blobs.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
So anyway, his hearing that just I feel like I
need to get this out.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
Well, first of all, Patrick's not gonna listen, I know.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
But I wouldn't want that in the ether anyway.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
Okay, I met like traditionally masculine in the sense that
like the traditional roles where we kind of ben the
like I can probably hang a picture frame better than
he can kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (28:04):
Wow, is that not okay? I'm just hidding.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
So he went, I think my sister is the same
way her husband can design and help build a house,
but my sister is going to hang the picture better.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
Yeah, I'm just saying he doesn't get mad about that.
He would never get mad at the I can't say this,
but I wouldn't expect him to care who cuts the
turkey at Thanksgiving because he just is like, oh, your
dad would probably do a better job at that, so
he can do it kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (28:34):
I love my husband, we know you do.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
It's just funny, okay, I thought. And laughter is good
for the soul. Like we all got a good laugh,
and I bet you feel better because earlier you were
like raging.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Yeah. I have other ways to reset your day. I know,
laughter that happens organically. You can't really force that. But
if you ever need to reset your day again, Like
if you're ragie, you can take a raid shower.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
What's that?
Speaker 1 (29:04):
So you get in the shower and you blast music. No,
you can have it hot, but you just blast music
and you rage all out, Like just jam out in
the shower and sing and blast it and feel good
and then yes, at the end, you can do like
a thirty second to one minute like cold spurt at
the end. But in it you picture with the water
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like all the rage running down the drain. It's a
raid shower.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
I can't picture my Well, first of all, where am
I getting? I guess you need like a boom box
in the bathroom, your figure, your phone, But your phone's
not that loud.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
Okay, if I'm raging, I wanted the music to be
louder than I am.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Okay. I mean yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Also, you mentioned going and throwing ice cubes earlier when
I was texting you.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
Oh yeah, that's something that I got from my therapists
a while back, or maybe even one of my kids
therapists is one of our mini therapists over the years,
but it was you take ice cubes and then you
just throw them down as hard as you can onto
your driveway or your back porch or somewhere where there.
It can really.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Safer than rocks. A cold shower, I really just can't wait.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
The cold thing is at the end. You don't have
to do that. You could take a normal raid shower
and it's just you're washing the bad mood away.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Yeah, a shower really does do wonders.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
I journaled this morning the washing hair.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
I thought you were gonna say a journal in the
shower this morning, even with.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
My waterproof journal and my waterproof speaker. No. I I
washed my hair this morning and then journaled after it,
right before I had a few minutes before I had
to leave for work, and I was like, I'm going
to use this few minutes to journal because I'm trying
to do my morning pages again. And I what is
it about fresh hair? It changes everything?
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Do you like to wash your hair in the morning
or at night.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
In the morning because it's fresh?
Speaker 3 (30:50):
So I okay for the look of your hair, right? Yeah,
so I totally agree.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
There is something like recently last couple of months, because
I've either gone on a walk at night or worked
out at night or something that has had me take
a shower at night. The best getting ready for bed
and going to sleep feeling with wet hair and feeling
like totally clean.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
I think for my mental health that is better, but
for like my hair looking good, Yeah, I want like
wash it right before.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
Why I can't wash my hair every day? Now, I'll
take showers before bed, but I will put a shower.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Cot would wash your hair every day?
Speaker 1 (31:26):
Yeah, but I don't want to. Yeah that would take no, no, no, no,
that would take so much time to wash my hair
every single day, my friend, because my hair doesn't air dry.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Did you do it when you were younger?
Speaker 1 (31:37):
No?
Speaker 3 (31:37):
I washed my hair every single day growing up. Is
that not crazy? Well?
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Does your hair air dry normalish?
Speaker 3 (31:44):
You can tell when it's air dry. You'd probably be like, oh,
it's an air dry day.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Okay. Well, some people just naturally can do that. Like
my friend Luke married a girl and she showers and
washes her hair every single night and like crawls in bed,
but then wakes up and her hair is like perfect.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Oh you know, it's like that's not me.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
She's lucky. But every night she cannot no matter what
time it is where they are, she will be taking
a shower.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
I feel like that's a normal, like a new thing.
Like growing up, I feel like everybody was washing their
hair every day, and then all of a sudden people
are like it's not good for you, or like you
don't have to live this way.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
Well, I sort of trained my hair to go many,
many days without washing because we heard that's what was
good for you, And then now I'm hearing the opposite. Yeah,
do you see how you see on TikTok that now
that you don't.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
Oh, I thought your hair girl told you not to
use your actampoo or something.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
Oh that's a hair Yeah, that was a hairstylist that, yes,
I've gone to that said that. And also I recently
saw on TikTok wash your hair more, Wash your hair
more because of the dirt and sometimes heads that we thought,
you think about it, it's kind of gross. Yes, we
thought like it was doing more damage washing it too much,
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but actually keeping that clean is keeping the roots healthier
and going to give your stronger, better hair. I don't know,
and like, I'm sure someone will counter that with something else.
It was just something I saw in passing. But whoever
told it to me on TikTok, I trusted her.
Speaker 3 (33:04):
Did you ever get Lyce as a kid?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
No. Stevenson just asked me that the other day because
he's had life once and we had to completely shave
his head and he's like, what if I get it again?
And I said, well, it's been four years.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
But also for a boy, it's not a big deal.
You can just shave your head and you don't have
to have that hair stuff.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Life's person come to our house and she completely took
it out and then she looked in my hair and
to share his hair everybody in the house, and we
were good to go.
Speaker 3 (33:29):
I went to an elementary school at one point where
we had like weekly life checks.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
I think that's probably animal normal.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
Like the nurse would come to our classrooms and they
would check all of our hair.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Then what if someone had it? Would they be obvious? Yes, like,
hey you over there.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
She's coming with me. Yeah, that's found one.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Yeh.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
I do the radar.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
I had lice, but it was in the summer. You
never asked me if I did have lice. I volunteer
the information.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Now I want to know. I'm sorry when you asked
that question. I was like, that's so weird. Stephenson just
asked me about that, and I don't think I ever
had it, but I had.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
That thought because they say that lice likes clean hair.
I think that might be an urban legend to make
people feel better.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
Oh you're so clean, Yeah, don't worry.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
It's because you're so clean. Yeah, but it is annoying
for a girl because you have to get rid of everything,
like every hair bow, every headband, every scrunchy, every anything.
You have to get rid of all of it.
Speaker 1 (34:22):
Is that what you do?
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Yeah, all my headbands. Never wore a headband again. That's
why anyway riveting.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Now, I know you have something for us regarding like cursing,
which I'm very curious about because I used to not cuss. Ever.
Speaker 3 (34:47):
Ever, when did you say your first curse word?
Speaker 1 (34:51):
I mean, I didn't even think in cussing. Wait, like
I just didn't like cuss words didn't pop into my head.
I was never a cuss until a cursor. How do
you say it?
Speaker 3 (35:06):
He sounds so sweet. I was never a cuss person.
I didn't even think cuss words. I just did it.
Speaker 1 (35:11):
It was like gotcha, which was good because on the
radio we couldn't cuss. And there were times where like
one time I spilt my coffee all over the board
and the mics were recording and I was recording something.
It wasn't live. But this was way back in my
early radio career, so like two thousand and six or something,
and I said, oh shoot, and like today me now,
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I've probably been like oh ffffff, you know, so like
that was me then and this is me now. And
I think the only thing that switched was I don't know,
I went through a lot and then realized that sometimes
saying a cuss word helped me feel better.
Speaker 3 (35:48):
I vividly remember my first cuss word.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
Okay, when was it?
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Me and two of my friends walked to publics. Don't
ask me why, and then our walk back we were like, okay,
they they were cussers, I.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Was not, and so we all took turns saying different
cuss words. I think they're trying to get me to
be bad join the club. Yeah yeah, And then it
all went uphill from there because according to research, cussing
is a sign of authenticity and people who which goes
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along with authenticity. I think they mean like more authentic
in their personality and who they are, but also are
less likely to be liars, more likely to tell the
truth is I think.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I always wanted to be and I wasn't in my
authentic self and for all those years because my parents
told me the story, I don't fully remember it, but
when I was really little, they were hosting a dinner
party and like a jet flew over our house, like
a fighter jet. You know, have you ever had those flyover?
They're so loud? And I looked up in the middle
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of it and I go, what the f was that?
I mean, and I said it and I was three
or something, the yeah, I said the effort because my
parents cussed. Yeah, like my parents cussed. I obviously heard
the said No. I said, well, I'm not going to
say it here.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Yeah, I mean he's a uthentic.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
He used to good beep it. But I was like,
what the heck was that? Oh you?
Speaker 3 (37:17):
And then.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
My parents loved Heell retelling that story, of course, because
they thought it was so cute that I did that
and didn't. And I was like, what, that's so crazy
because I just wasn't a cusser. And I don't know
if I thought I was being bad if I cussed,
or I didn't think I was better than anybody else.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
But I just didn't does your did your sister?
Speaker 1 (37:40):
I don't recall her cussing now. My half sister and
my brother they cuss all the time. Like with my dad.
They'd be having conversations and they'll be like, cuss, cuss
as an adult?
Speaker 3 (37:49):
Would you curse around your mom?
Speaker 1 (37:51):
No? I didn't cuss so recently my mom passed away.
Before I became a cuss person. She missed it. My
mom cussing now. She used to cuss. And then when
she really found Jesus like her, Jesus doesn't cuss. Well,
she just changed a lot about her. It was like
a dramatic shift like and I think how she spoke
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was part of that. I think there were plenty of
Christians that cuss, that's not the point. I think for her,
she had to make some changes. And that was one
thing I saw because I remember one time I missed
the bus and she was not happy and she slammed
the dishwasher and said some cuss words. I mean, I
remember my parents cussing for sure, and I've cussed in
front of my kids.
Speaker 3 (38:32):
Now, was you being authentic?
Speaker 4 (38:35):
I want to read this because just to give the
whole picture, it says multiple studies have shown a positive
correlation between higher profanity use and honesty and authenticity, though
the link is not absolute. Cursing is often described by
researchers as an unfiltered and genuine expression of emotion, which
can signal a person's willingness to prioritize candor over politeness.
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So what I hear in that is people that cuss
are more willing to prioritize being themselves than being nice
and polite.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
You know, which I appreciate.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
I think that there's a i mean over use of
it at times that can be a bit much, but
for me occasionally it's just very fitting.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
Yeah, it's like nothing else works as well, nothing, you know, nothing, nothing. Well,
I'm proud of you that you're now a customers.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
I'm now a customerson. I know. My mom doesn't know.
My dad maybe knew a little bit.
Speaker 3 (39:36):
Yeah, because how recent was this transition.
Speaker 1 (39:39):
I'm trying to think of when it really started. It
had to been twenty twenty, twenty twenty one.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Was your ex a cuss person?
Speaker 1 (39:48):
Not really, but we have become cuss people together. Okay,
like sometimes in our co parenting, will say it. One
time he called me out for like, oh one time, okay,
say this because he wasn't being He was kind of
I need to keep this in my side of the street. Street,
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you know how sometimes I want to make sure I
tell it my side. I was being a little overly
colorful with my language, but I was fired up about
something and he had to let me go and I
was like, oh, you know now you're too good.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Oh he was like, I'm hanging up.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
Well, he was like, we just need to talk later
like I don't appreciate your energy, and I was like, what, okay,
next time you say a word or two, remind me
of this because you're not going to It was around
then that we decided we have our code word, which
is pickle, so we haven't had to use pickle in
forever in retrospect. In retrospect, I do think I was
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a little heightened. Okay, like I was here and I
could have brought it down to Hero could have, but
he didn't need to be all, you know, holier than
now on me, which that's me, my defensive self talking.
I thought I was gonna say on my side of
the street. That was not my side of the street.
I take it back. I would say all of this
to his face. I think I was defensive in that
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moment of like, well, who do you think you are?
And you say these words too, so just wait. But
now I don't feel that way like he does it.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
There's not gonna be revenge.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
No, that was a while back.
Speaker 3 (41:22):
Yeah, I think I remember this.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
Yeah, I didn't do the best job of saying on
my side of the street.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
That was the thought that counts.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
Right before I told the story, I'm like, stay on
my side of the street, and then I still called
out his because I was still I guess when I
think back on it, I'm still perplexed by why he
went that route. But that's okay. We all have this moment.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
Is Alex a cuss person?
Speaker 1 (41:44):
Occasionally when it's right, I probably throw them in a
little more than he does. But he's dabbled well good.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
That means that he's authentic.
Speaker 4 (41:53):
He is, And this isn't on encompassing obviously, Like you said,
sometimes people will overuse. There is a too far. And
also if you don't cuss, it doesn't mean that you're
a liar, yeah at all, but it is.
Speaker 3 (42:06):
It's just interesting. I have a book called Swearing Is
Good for You. I've been meaning to read it for
like ten years.
Speaker 1 (42:12):
Oh you haven't even read it yet.
Speaker 4 (42:13):
I did start it, but then it was just a
lot about the research of cursing in language, and it
just I think I got the gist of it from
the title.
Speaker 1 (42:24):
You know, another reset? I know I shared the raid shower,
But another thing you can do for a reset is
eat something cold and crunchy.
Speaker 3 (42:32):
That would not do it for me. It wouldn't not
rage if I'm overwhelmed.
Speaker 1 (42:37):
Yes, yeah, but let's just like you're real mad and
you get a carrot and you dip in some honeys
hummus and then you bite down like that. Wouldn't you
be like, oh, nothing chips?
Speaker 3 (42:46):
So do you think that would be? So?
Speaker 4 (42:48):
I don't think that if I'm angry, I want to eat.
I'm one of those people who I have a lot
of emotions. My appetite isn't there. What I'm hearing from
you is that like the like crunch in the bite
of it is going to be like oh oh, but
I think I'd rather throw ice or the scream in
the shower or something.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
What about chew ice? Do you chew ice?
Speaker 4 (43:07):
No, but my husband is always chewing ice. If there
is a cup somewhere with ice in it, he's gonna
eat it.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
That's so manly, that's yeah, what a man? What amen?
Speaker 3 (43:21):
I hear that chewing ice also gives you gas? So really, yes,
why you're sucking down a lot of air?
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Oh well, that's a good deterrent. Yeah. I don't have
to stop my husband with chewing ice if you don't
tell him like, hey, baby, that's gonna give you gas.
Speaker 3 (43:36):
I think I've told him that before, and he's like,
I can't stop. He loves it. He gets it from
his dad. His dad's choose.
Speaker 4 (43:41):
Like if you go to a restaurant and you get
a drink with ice in it, they drink the drink,
but then they eat all of the ice.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
Yes, yes, And like if we go to like especially
somewhere with good ice, Like I'm pretty sure Chick fil
a has good ice.
Speaker 3 (43:55):
Oh yeah, if we go there, yeah, and sonic.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
If we go there and both get drinks and he
finishes his ice and my ice is sitting there, he'll
have my ice too.
Speaker 3 (44:05):
Yes, his dad just got a sonic ice maker, like
an ice maker that makes oh pellets.
Speaker 1 (44:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (44:10):
So probably because he wants to eat the ice. That's
something that like pregnant people are supposed to like, which
I don't.
Speaker 3 (44:18):
Know why that is, but I do hear they do
like it. Probably is the crunch nothing sounds good?
Speaker 1 (44:23):
Oh oh yeah, and he gives them maybe the cold
coldness feels good? Do you pop your knuckles?
Speaker 3 (44:30):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (44:30):
Okay, me too. And one of the things that my
boyfriend really really is holding on too, even though the
Internet says otherwise, is that popsy knuckle causes arthritis, and
like he won't let his kids do it, and he's
anytime I do it, he's like stop, and I'm like,
have you researched this? And he's like yeah, and what
did he find? Well, he finds that it gives arthritis.
(44:51):
And I'm like, but I see here it doesn't. It's
a myth.
Speaker 3 (44:55):
I feel, so what do we believe?
Speaker 1 (44:57):
I don't know, but he's just so he doesn't let
it go. It's not budging on it. It's just not
a couple thoughts. I won pop my knuckles like twenty
times a day.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
I love it.
Speaker 4 (45:09):
It feels so good to not do that would have
you'd have to have so much self control. I also
love when my husband cracks my knuckles.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
You do that, you do so, But also I feel
so good at cracking my knuckles. Tell us more anyway.
What I also was gonna say is that if it
really did cause arthritis, I think more of us, more
of us would have it, or well, sometimes I do
think I have arthritis, but it's beside the point. It's
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not from cracking my knuckles. Can't be. But I just
feel like there'd be more warnings about it, Like I
just feel like that's something we heard when we are
little and like we grew out of it, believe.
Speaker 1 (45:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:50):
Yeah, so if that really was and I feel like
at our physicals, our doctors would be like, and.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
You're not cracking your knuckles right, you know, do your
wrists pop? No, that's my party trick. It'll do it
every time.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
You're like the lady at church that they do the bells.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
I'm like, they both will pop. This one's sounds loud,
but it's still popping. Wow.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
So if you are in mister geniality, that's what.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
You do for your talent. No, my talent would Okay,
that could be one of my talents. My other one
would be you can line up a lot of different
ketchups and I will tell you which one is hines.
Speaker 3 (46:29):
That's pretty it's pretty sick. Yeah, so you have a
backup talent.
Speaker 1 (46:32):
Yeah, okay, all right, Well that's cool.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
That's in there.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
However you're feeling today, if you need to take a beat,
throw some ice cubes, take a raid, shower, eat something crunchy.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Curse, curse, be a cuss person.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
Yeah, is that what I said?
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (46:53):
You know, just know that you're not alone. If that
is you, We are with you and we hope you
have the day need to help.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Bye,
Good. All right, break it down.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy
and Cat gotcha covin locking No, brother, ladies and folks,
do you just follow Ann the spirit where it's all
the phone over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and
the m but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can
do it just stop you feel things. This is feeling
(00:27):
things with Amy and Kat.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy, I'm Cat.
And before we get to the feeling of the day,
which is coming from Kat, I have a random question
of the day, and it's.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
The questions that don't come up.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah, okay, but I feel like, are we doing questions
that don't come up, like in the middle of something
like randomly? If it comes up, this is premeditated, Okay,
then no it's not. Well, it's something because I was
on a call before we were recording and I had
to say my credit card over the phone, and I
have zeros in my credit card multiple But I realize
(01:02):
that's depending on how the numbers are laid out. Sometimes
I say oh, and sometimes I say zero. I don't
say zero every time, and I don't say oh every time.
So my question is when you have a zero, do
you say zero or oh? Like, for example, I can
say my phone number growing up it was two eight
two oh eight four to one. Oh, that's oh. But
(01:23):
then sometimes if I was like two eight two oh
eight four to one, and then maybe there was like
four other numbers, it might be like zero nine six,
you know, like if it was like okay, and what's
the code to access your bedroom? Yeah? Yeah, I would
say zero access your bedroom, like like, what's your extension?
(01:43):
You know, like that was because that was my homephone.
Do you still remember your home phone number growing up?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Why do I feel like I shouldn't say it out loud?
It so that doesn't even exist anymore?
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, I'm probably. I mean I didn't give the area code,
but I gave the two way two way five.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
I still use it for like certain things that it's
connected to, like, oh, probably shouldn't do that. I mean,
for like when you go to like a grocery store
and you type it in to get the points.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
You know, at the grocery store, you can always do
whatever area code you live in and do eight six
seven five three oh nine oh hey ooh. In the
song they go eight six seven five three.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Oh nine and get the points.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
It works for me.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
So at a grocery store, you've never actually created account.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
You just sometimes I have some. If I don't, yes,
I will do the area code of where I am.
So in Nashville we're six one five, and then you
just type in eight six seven five three oh nine
and then all the discounts come up. No way, yeah, okay, okay. Well,
so I don't know. I know it's a very random question,
but it just got me thinking, like, that's a great question.
(02:43):
In my credit card number, I have multiple zeros, and
sometimes I say zero and sometimes I say oh. It
just has to be the placement and how it feels
rolling off the tongue.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So you're asking, do I say yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Do you ever say oh or zero?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Because I don't pay attention to that, But I'm assuming
because when you said the phone number, I'm like, yeah,
if you said zero, say that phone number and say zero.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Two eight two oh eight four one or two eight
two zero eight four one.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Oh, it sounds normal too.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I wouldn't do that, And it's not like we call
it coke zero. I don't say coke. Oh, I mean
obviously zero okay, they told us. But I mean zero's
are zero?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
So why do I say, Oh, it's an abbreviation.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I know why. It just was weird, like in the
in the flow of it, I didn't say consistently zero
every time it was like, oh, in the delivery.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I'm finally hearing yourself.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Let's say my credit card number has five zeros? You have,
am I also being clear of this entire time me
I'm not saying. I'm saying, not you understanding at me
not being clear in my delivery, Like my credit card
number has multiple zeros, but say it's four two five zero,
I wouldn't say four to five. Oh, I say four
(03:54):
to five zero. And then if it's like zero six
eight zero, I might say that, but then there's there's
another zero in there.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I say, Oh, you say both is what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I say both, okay, in the combination of saying, you know,
I love how what's the right word here, passionate?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
How passionate you are becoming over this?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I thought you were saying I feel like a weirdo.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
No, I thought you were saying, like sometimes, like with
my phone, ever, I say, oh, but with my credit card,
I say zero now you're saying I mix and mingle.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I mix and mingle in the same delivery.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I think that's okay. I know, okay, thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
That's all I don't know. I guess I was just curious.
If I'm the only person on the planet that does this,
I don't think you are. Okay, cry ocat does it okay?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Everybody in this room does?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Do you mix and mingle in the same flow.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
I think it's like, yeah, it's a you have to
go based on how you feel, and like a zero
might feel right here, and oh might feel.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Right here zero, and oh, this is the only one
we do it for. We don't do it for.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Well, what other numbers have abbreviations.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
One, two, three, four, five, six, seven. You're like, oh,
joevre okay, No, I guess they don't.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
We don't, So I think you're normal.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh oh yeah, I would say uh, oh, oh yeah,
I would say oh oh. I would probably say oh oh.
I wouldn't go zero, zero, but I might, I might
say zero.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh, okay, four, three, two. But I also think if
I'm if I'm reading something off to somebody, I like
to be very clear because I think sometimes when I speak,
I don't speak clearly, so I probably would say zero
if I'm reading something zero zero four three kind of thing.
(05:45):
But if i'm just if somebody's like, what's your phone abound,
I'll probably would be like four three oh four two
oh oh?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Right, you know, I know I'm with you. I'm very clear.
That's why it was weird to me, because I noticed
that I was like nine six zero four two oh,
and it was like zero in the no and I'm like,
why did I just switch that?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
There's nothing.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Probably she'd have described it just like that in the
very beginning.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Yeah, you're I think you're normal, and if you weren't normal,
that would be such a fun quirk that we would
just love about you.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
You probably wouldn't even really notice it.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
And I bet that person didn't notice that you did that.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah, well, because then I mean, all credit cards are numbers.
But she might be like, oh, oh, it's not a number,
because oh is a letter.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I think that she gets that that's the abbreviation for zero.
Though I know, probably what if she said that I
was on a number, I don't. I can't input that, ma'am,
and I would be like, you know, it's the abbreviations
for zero, it's.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
This is short talk, or like shorthand. My mom was
able to write shorthand.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
I never what does that mean?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
It's an abbreviated writing.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Don't you just do that anyway when you're taking notes?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
No, this is like a special language. Oh well, I
don't know if they were taught it, Like my mom
was a secretary whack when it was called secretary at places,
and then later an administrative assistant. But I think it
was a top thing, like you learned shorthand. Oh, sort
of like who keeps notes in the courtroom? You know,
(07:18):
the clerk, no topopography, but the topography they're taking.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
They're not notes.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
They're taking minutes, the minute, the minute, I know, but
they're If you've ever noticed, their keyboard is not a
normal keyboard, I don't think. I believe it's like a
shorthand typewriter.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
So it's how their letters, yes words, they're.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Typing so quickly to keep up with everything that's being said.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
I didn't know that.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So, yeah, a stenographer a court reporter.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
That's what it's called, or that's what her machine's called.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
It's the person is the stenographer and the machine is
the stenography, the stographer, it's anogaph type writer, oh, shorthand typewriter.
It just popped in my head. Obviously cool, we send
things talking about this. Things that, Yeah, things random things
(08:09):
we never thought we'd talk about. But let's get into
the feeling of the day, since none of this has
anything to do with feelings.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Yeah, you're feeling passionate. Would you say that or were
you feeling insecure about that?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
I think I more so was feeling insecure that I
was not being clear in what I was saying. It
sort of threw me because you did a good job
faking like you knew what I was talking about. And
then all of a sudden, because I thought you were
tracking with me, and then you go, oh, I get
what you're saying. So then I got defensive and I'm like,
damn you, you're not weird. I go, yeah, even though
(08:41):
I only brought it up because I thought I was weird.
I know I'm not weird, but a minute, like a
minute before, I had brought it up because I felt
like maybe I was being weird.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
So do you feel better?
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I feel better? Okay. I don't know if we have
any clarity, but those listening out there right now. If
you say oh or zero, you are not alone.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
And that's what this podcast is all about. Okay, I'm
not feeling insecure passion. There might be some passion in there,
but I'm I'm feeling a low level of enragement.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Of rage, okay, because I don't know if I have
shared with you on here before recently that we have purchased.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
I don't know if I have shared with you before
recently on this here podcast.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Ever, in this time, we've purchased a treadmill.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
And breaking news. Yeah, breaking news.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
My iPad's talking to me. So we purchased the treadmill.
It was a big deal. We shopped around, we tested somehow,
I did some research. Great, purchase it. We go to
the store. You know, I'm going to say the store
because it deserves to be mentioned.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Like in a negative or positive way. You can decide, well,
I need to know the location before you do, because
I don't know if I have an affiliation with them
at all in any way, shape or form.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
So it's a common store that people buy good sad
good sad sporting goods.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Sure, okay, we'll give it at that.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
I won't even blame the store. I think they wouldn't
have known this.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
Yeah, I will say that, Well, part of it is
the store associate associate the store wouldn't have known the
actual problem.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
That would not be their perfect so good thing. We
didn't say their name and we're not going to.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Yeah, why would I ever do that? So we go
to the store.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
The store associate, which I'm like, Doug Catherine, this probably
is just like a college student who's working on the
weekends to make minimum wage.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
He probably doesn't really care. That's judgment.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But I will say Patrick worked at this store at
one point in his life, and that's what he said
he did. So I'm like asking questions. Once we were
gonna buy it, he was like, do you want to
get the assembly in delivery? I said, well, how much
is that? He said two hundred dollars?
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Oh, I know what you thought. Right away? You were like,
what why would I pay someone to put it together
when I can do it myself?
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Literally?
Speaker 4 (10:53):
I said, well could we do it ourselves? And he said,
well I did it myself in forty five minutes.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
And I was like, then no, we'll just take it
with us today. He said, what kind of car do
you drive?
Speaker 4 (11:05):
I told him. He said, Oh, I'll be fine, it'll
fit in there. Long story short, it did not fit.
Half of it didn't even fit in my car. So
we had to come back the next day, get my
dad's truck, put it there, take it to our house,
carry it up the stairs, which I had to enlist
family members to come to our house to do this.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I thought somebody was going to die.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yeah, treadmills are heavy.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
I didn't know that. Oh why did I not know that?
Why did I not think?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Probably because the only previous your prior experience to a
quote unquote treadmill before this. But it's one of those
walking paths from Amazon, is that why?
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Yeah? And I could carry that upstairs on myself.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Yeah, right, it's very portable.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Yes. So I was so scared during this process and
in the middle of.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
The Yeah, like I'm shocked. Like we've had to pay
whenever I've had to relocate my treadmill, had to pay
the company to come move it because I've been so
should have done that, terrified, should have done that. But
you could do it yourself.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
Yeah, And I have to admit I did not help
at all to carry that up the stairs. And I
probably would have died if I was part of that process.
We finally get it in there, Patrick and I set
it up and honestly didn't see it was a little
frustrating setting it up, but it wasn't that bad. Oh
before this, the sales associate said, do you want to
buy a mat for this treadmill?
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I said, do we need one?
Speaker 4 (12:23):
We're just putting it on carpet, and he said, no,
it's really more for hardwood floors, so you don't mess
up your hardwood flooring. We also don't care about this
carpet anyway, because we're eventually won't we want to rip
it up. So he's like, oh, then you don't need
the mat, and I was like, great, save more money,
don't pay for the assembly, don't pay for the shipping,
don't pay for the mat.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
So we get it up there, put it together. It
doesn't work, and I'm like, oh my god, so like
googling stuff whatever, blah blah.
Speaker 4 (12:47):
Then I open up the manual and on the first
page it says, before you start, like warning things to know,
the first thing is.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Do not assemble this and use it on carpet.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
So you need the mat.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
Yeah, And it probably could have, like I don't know
done something bad because I have started a fire on bilter. Yes, yeah, probably,
So anyway, we had to get the mat, then we
had to get aplied. Weeks have gone by, We've updated
our treadmill experience.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Yeah, I don't know all of this saga, but I
do know when you were you bought the treadmill, and
I feel like that was a really long time ago.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
Month.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Probably, yeah, probably can't return it at this point. Well,
I'm going to spee the story up because this is
far too long.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
If someone is currently on the treadmill right now, you
have jogged a couple miles.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Literally And anyway, so we had to take the treadmill
completely apart, which did cause a little bit of marital discord,
and take it apart to fix the thing. Oh my god,
we took the whole thing apart because we were trying
to get to this one screw. And then once we
took the whole thing apart, Patrick realized we could have
(14:00):
just lifted the traid mail up to access that crew
and we didn't screw and we didn't need to take
the whole thing apart. Yeah, so anyway, we did that.
Then we lifted it up wouldn't you know? Inside the
motor of the treadmill is completely rusted.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
How you don't know? It's a mystery. So now we
have to undo it again and take it down the
stairs the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
I can't but they come pick it up. Well, you
sold me a rusty treadmill, so I'm gonna need What
did I.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
Do to deserve this? That's what I want to know.
I just wanted to be healthy. I just wanted to
move my body a little bit. Well I've been walking
outside now and so anyway.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
I did not to get to be the winter months.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Like, yeah, I did email them and send them pictures
because they had sent me like this is probably what
it is.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Just look at this and fix it. And I'm like, well,
this is rusted.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
So my hope is that they're like, oh no, we'll
send somebody there with a new piece and they'll fix it.
Because if I have to take that thing back downstairs,
I'd rather just light it on fire, but I actually
can't do that inside my house.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
No, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Our hope is going to be that they're going to
come and fix it, or if it has to be removed,
that they will come and haul it away like on
the house, because surely it needs to be swapped out,
and that shouldn't be on you to to have to
handle that.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Just a girl. And maybe I should pretend like I'm
I'm a single woman living in that home and I
not strong enough or something, so they have to like, sir,
I have no family here, nobody can help me do this.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, my parents don't live down the street. And that
is not my husband right here.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
My brother don't live down the street, and they're like.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
How did you get up here? You know, just you know,
one step at a time, treadmill. I have my own
issues that the treadmill works. My cat has claimed it
as sort of her spot perch, and so I get
(16:07):
on it and sometimes she's cool with it, but other
times she swats at me and yeah, and like tries
to bite me. And if I'm walking with my arms,
she'll like rare, rare, rare, and like she does not
want me to be on there. And then I have
a little I'll have to buy you one of these.
You can get a little clear tray and a little
stand for your computer and it'll prop up and you
can walk and work. But when I have the tray
(16:29):
up there, there's no room for her, and she freaks
out and I'm like, Maggie, go lay somewhere else. That's
not the big of a deal.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Wait, this is actually really ironic. Since she's on a diet, I.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
Know her favorite spot is the treadment.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
Everybody in this family will not be exercising.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Yes, She's like if you're yes, because I'm currently not
feeding her in her bowl. We have to loose feed
her where you just hide food around the room and
she has to hunt for it. She has to like
work for her food and fid But I feel bad,
so I'll hide it and then I take her to
it and I'm like, this is where I put it,
(17:07):
and I'm like, here you go, just so.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Do you put like one little piece?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
No?
Speaker 3 (17:12):
I put like or is it like a pile.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Of a little pile and not in a bowl?
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Not in a bowl and just just like put her
food on the floor.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
No, she can't eat that way anymore. She has to go.
She has to like have an ounce here, an ounce
there here. Now she's like fright and walk around and
I'm spared. I am apparently supposed to exercise with her
and I'm like, how do you exercise a cat?
Speaker 3 (17:45):
How do you exercise a cat?
Speaker 1 (17:47):
I mean you put like a ribbon and they bounce around.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
But i mean, yeah, why aren't you doing that?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Well, I have to start. Car always eats her, chew
her little toys that we get her. Car eats it.
So then I'm not going to buy another one. Cars
probably overweight too.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
You walk car all the time.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
I know, but I overfeed my pets.
Speaker 4 (18:04):
Wait sure, I have a question why because I feel
knowing nothing about animals, never had a cat.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
So take this with a grain of salt. Why can't
you just limit her food and take Why do you
have to hide it?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
This is what the vet told me to do, so
she has to hunt for it, so she's not eating.
It's that way if you have it in the bowl,
like she's just gonna eat it all right there, and
then if it's spread out, she's like spacing out her
food and just I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Cat, Okay. So the real issue is that she's sedentary.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
The vet said, this is the heaviest she has weighed,
and you need to cut back on her face.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
It's the oldest that she has ever been. Of course,
it's the heavy.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
We No, I think at some point like cats just
like should maintain defensive.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
The heaviest I've ever been because I'm thirty five, yeah,
and I'm not twelve anymore.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Yeah. So anyway, Maggie, she parks it on my treadmill,
and yes it is ironic because she does need to
work out. But because you've been through such a difficult
time with your treadmill, once it's set up, I will
gift you the clear tray and the computer.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
That's really nice. And what I hear in that is
that you believe that this will be resolved.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
It will it will be.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
And what I've learned is pay for the delivery and assembly. Yeah,
you can't do everything yourself. Do I deserve this? I
think I do because I feel if.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
You have other things going on that are like magnifying,
like the rage you feel towards the treadmill, and.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
It makes me it's not about the treadmill. It may
not be have you thought about that's not about the treadmill.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Okay, See, I really probably.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Wouldn't be this upset.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
It's just it's like something I'd rather hyper focus on
that than other things in my life that are out
of my control.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Yeah, you're like, if I do that, I'm a sudden fire.
Speaker 3 (19:54):
But I can burn my house down.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
But I can't do that. Cat And if y'all see
Cot in the news.
Speaker 4 (20:00):
Well my fire alarm speaking of Okay, So yesterday, as
we're working on the treadmill, our fire alarm goes off.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
But it was not an alarm. It was a woman's
voice and it's saying, she said, there's smoke in the
master bedroom.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
The alarm is.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
About to sound. It will be very loud, just so
you know. And then and then it was quiet, and
I go, Patrick, Am I am? I? My initial thought,
oh my gosh, I had walked. I wasn't with him
because we okay, we just found the rest. I walked
in the bathroom and take my contacts out, and I
started hearing the woman's voice, and then I yelled out Patrick, Patrick,
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and I like grabbed my shoes and I also got
about to like run outside because I thought my house
was burning down.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Also, I was like, who was that? It reminded me
of Smart House.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
Oh my gosh, okay, Disney Channel on ritual movie and
that was a scary movie to me because the lady
was like a robot. That took care of the house,
but she then started taking over the house. And in
my head, I'm like, somebody's invaded our house. We're not
gonna they're gonna lock the doors, like I don't. I
freaked out. And then the alarm never sounded, but then
there's no smoke. So then Patrick was like, it's fine.
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And then ten minutes go by, she does it again.
There's smoke in the master bedroom. The alarm will sound,
it's going to be very loud.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Just so you know, was she glitching? She said it clearly.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Well I know, but like glitch like was her system?
Like what was making her fire off?
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Like?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Was there smoke in the master bedroom? No?
Speaker 4 (21:37):
And so then well, then I went and blew the
he I had a candle. Oh, I had a candle
on downstairs. So I went and blew the candle out,
like surely that's not it. And then thirty minutes later it.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Did it again.
Speaker 4 (21:48):
This time the alarm went off. So I opened the
door and I'm like, I'm out of the house, and
Patrick's like in the bedroom looking for smoke. I'm like,
get out. And then I called my dad and then
well I texted him. He said that those alarms are normal.
My first concern was, why is she talking like this
should just be a sound and he said, new alarms,
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fire alarms talk interesting. Never have heard that before ever,
he said, anybody in this room never, So if that
happens to you one day, just know it can be normal.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
It's not a person.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
And then he said to vacuum it because sometimes dust
gets in there. And he said, do that, and if
it doesn't work, it could be a spider. Sometimes spiders
crawl into them, so if it still doesn't the vacuuming
doesn't help, then maybe it's a spider, and just to
take it down. And I said, well, what if there
really is a smoke somewhere like in the attic, and
there's smoke somewhere in the night, it's going to turn
(22:43):
into a fire and then we are dead. Yeah, And
he said that it would have already been a fire
by now, right, okay, And then he said, if you
need me to come over, I will.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
But I don't think I think Patrick wanted to take
care of it himself.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
He probably did. And you're like, it's cool. I already
texting Dad, No.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
I said, is it a Does that make you feel weird?
Speaker 4 (23:03):
That I'm texting my dad and he said, no, I
don't really know what's going on either, but you don't
need him to come over here at nine pm.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
I can take the fire just so he can take
it off the wall. I can do that.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Yeah. That reminds me of one time my ex husband,
early in our marriage, my dad was going to carve
the turkey, but we were hosting and that didn't go
over well. I mean he didn't say anything to him,
but he got upset and he was like, this was
supposed to this is our Thanksgiving. I'm supposed to carve
the turkey.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
So your dad carved it.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
I think my dad started working on the turkey and
my ex husband was like, that's our turkey. Well, yeah,
he didn't he didn't say anything. It was more internal.
And then later he've expressed to me that he was
upset because it was his turkey.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
Who did he cook the turkey?
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Yeah, I mean I think we did it all together.
I honestly, this was years ago. I mean I was
buried seventeen years and that was the really part of
our marriage. So we're going back actually, like it could
have been around two thousand and seven, two thousand and eight,
at the seventh, So I don't remember every detail, but
it just made me think of like a son in
law father relationship and how it's like newly married. Like
if this is my house, you're her dad, but I'm
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her husband, and I'm going to protect.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
Her and carve her turkey and I carved. That sounds interesting.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
It sounds like, I mean, something doesn't have to be sexual,
but it still sounded it. It doesn't have to be,
but it sounded dirty. So to be clear, like Bim's
actually talking about a turkey, yes, like actual turkey, but
it was. It was an interesting thing. Like some of
that is just conditioning, as men are wanting to feel
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a certain way in your home, you know.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
But I feel like your ex husband was way more
And I could be wrong, but it appeared to me
to be way more like handy and traditionally masculine in
that way.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Then my husband, like Patrick, doesn't have to carp a turkey. Wait,
oh my gosh, stop, this is not so why are
you laughing.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Like that? I love Oh my gosh, he doesn't listen, right, Okay,
I don't mean it like that.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
So masculine, but ready he can't. Oh you know's how
carbon Turkey.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
He doesn't tell us, tell us how manly he is, like, like,
name all the ways. Hurry, hurry, name, start saying them. Sorry.
So he's like, so he loves sports, sports, he loved sports.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Go he loves sports. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, wait stop it.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
I don't think that would even upset him because I
think he knows what I mean, like I can't.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
Like he can't. He wasn't handy, like.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
He manages money.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
Well, I hope he does.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
We're just giving you a hard time.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Okay, okay, but look, hey, guess what. I love you
and you're perfect for me. What I meant was I
feel like Ben would do probably more like building of
things like.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
My dad definitely did not Ben. I mean, I think,
you know he he could be handy, and also he
was gone a lot, like because he was in the military,
so I think, yes, could he do certain things on
a plane, Like could he fly an airplane? I felt
like that was always yeah, that's pretty off women flight airplane.
It's not like just a man thing. But I think
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I had to learn how to figure out things on
my own. I didn't do I hire it up.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
So did you call it your dad.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yeah, my dad would do a lot, and I don't
know if that really bothered Ben. To be honest, we
didn't really talk about it, but things would just get
done or I would hire people, and then I think
that was sort of our routine. So even when Ben
would come back from deployment, I'm like, oh, I already
have my handyman who was not threatening, like he couldn't hear. Well,
I had this one handy man, and I think he
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was like, maybe you know how you're sort of legally blind. Yeah,
right right, but like you can see.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
It's like a, yeah, I'm legally blind, but I can
see like shapes and blobs.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
So anyway, his hearing that just I feel like I
need to get this out.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
Well, first of all, Patrick's not gonna listen, I know.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
But I wouldn't want that in the ether anyway.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
Okay, I met like traditionally masculine in the sense that
like the traditional roles where we kind of ben the
like I can probably hang a picture frame better than
he can kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (28:04):
Wow, is that not okay? I'm just hidding.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
So he went, I think my sister is the same
way her husband can design and help build a house,
but my sister is going to hang the picture better.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
Yeah, I'm just saying he doesn't get mad about that.
He would never get mad at the I can't say this,
but I wouldn't expect him to care who cuts the
turkey at Thanksgiving because he just is like, oh, your
dad would probably do a better job at that, so
he can do it kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (28:34):
I love my husband, we know you do.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
It's just funny, okay, I thought. And laughter is good
for the soul. Like we all got a good laugh,
and I bet you feel better because earlier you were
like raging.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Yeah. I have other ways to reset your day. I know,
laughter that happens organically. You can't really force that. But
if you ever need to reset your day again, Like
if you're ragie, you can take a raid shower.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
What's that?
Speaker 1 (29:04):
So you get in the shower and you blast music. No,
you can have it hot, but you just blast music
and you rage all out, Like just jam out in
the shower and sing and blast it and feel good
and then yes, at the end, you can do like
a thirty second to one minute like cold spurt at
the end. But in it you picture with the water
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like all the rage running down the drain. It's a
raid shower.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
I can't picture my Well, first of all, where am
I getting? I guess you need like a boom box
in the bathroom, your figure, your phone, But your phone's
not that loud.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
Okay, if I'm raging, I wanted the music to be
louder than I am.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Okay. I mean yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Also, you mentioned going and throwing ice cubes earlier when
I was texting you.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
Oh yeah, that's something that I got from my therapists
a while back, or maybe even one of my kids
therapists is one of our mini therapists over the years,
but it was you take ice cubes and then you
just throw them down as hard as you can onto
your driveway or your back porch or somewhere where there.
It can really.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Safer than rocks. A cold shower, I really just can't wait.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
The cold thing is at the end. You don't have
to do that. You could take a normal raid shower
and it's just you're washing the bad mood away.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Yeah, a shower really does do wonders.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
I journaled this morning the washing hair.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
I thought you were gonna say a journal in the
shower this morning, even with.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
My waterproof journal and my waterproof speaker. No. I I
washed my hair this morning and then journaled after it,
right before I had a few minutes before I had
to leave for work, and I was like, I'm going
to use this few minutes to journal because I'm trying
to do my morning pages again. And I what is
it about fresh hair? It changes everything?
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Do you like to wash your hair in the morning
or at night.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
In the morning because it's fresh?
Speaker 3 (30:50):
So I okay for the look of your hair, right? Yeah,
so I totally agree.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
There is something like recently last couple of months, because
I've either gone on a walk at night or worked
out at night or something that has had me take
a shower at night. The best getting ready for bed
and going to sleep feeling with wet hair and feeling
like totally clean.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
I think for my mental health that is better, but
for like my hair looking good, Yeah, I want like
wash it right before.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
Why I can't wash my hair every day? Now, I'll
take showers before bed, but I will put a shower.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Cot would wash your hair every day?
Speaker 1 (31:26):
Yeah, but I don't want to. Yeah that would take no, no, no, no,
that would take so much time to wash my hair
every single day, my friend, because my hair doesn't air dry.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Did you do it when you were younger?
Speaker 1 (31:37):
No?
Speaker 3 (31:37):
I washed my hair every single day growing up. Is
that not crazy? Well?
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Does your hair air dry normalish?
Speaker 3 (31:44):
You can tell when it's air dry. You'd probably be like, oh,
it's an air dry day.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Okay. Well, some people just naturally can do that. Like
my friend Luke married a girl and she showers and
washes her hair every single night and like crawls in bed,
but then wakes up and her hair is like perfect.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Oh you know, it's like that's not me.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
She's lucky. But every night she cannot no matter what
time it is where they are, she will be taking
a shower.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
I feel like that's a normal, like a new thing.
Like growing up, I feel like everybody was washing their
hair every day, and then all of a sudden people
are like it's not good for you, or like you
don't have to live this way.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
Well, I sort of trained my hair to go many,
many days without washing because we heard that's what was
good for you, And then now I'm hearing the opposite. Yeah,
do you see how you see on TikTok that now
that you don't.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
Oh, I thought your hair girl told you not to
use your actampoo or something.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
Oh that's a hair Yeah, that was a hairstylist that, yes,
I've gone to that said that. And also I recently
saw on TikTok wash your hair more, Wash your hair
more because of the dirt and sometimes heads that we thought,
you think about it, it's kind of gross. Yes, we
thought like it was doing more damage washing it too much,
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but actually keeping that clean is keeping the roots healthier
and going to give your stronger, better hair. I don't know,
and like, I'm sure someone will counter that with something else.
It was just something I saw in passing. But whoever
told it to me on TikTok, I trusted her.
Speaker 3 (33:04):
Did you ever get Lyce as a kid?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
No. Stevenson just asked me that the other day because
he's had life once and we had to completely shave
his head and he's like, what if I get it again?
And I said, well, it's been four years.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
But also for a boy, it's not a big deal.
You can just shave your head and you don't have
to have that hair stuff.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Life's person come to our house and she completely took
it out and then she looked in my hair and
to share his hair everybody in the house, and we
were good to go.
Speaker 3 (33:29):
I went to an elementary school at one point where
we had like weekly life checks.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
I think that's probably animal normal.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
Like the nurse would come to our classrooms and they
would check all of our hair.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Then what if someone had it? Would they be obvious? Yes, like,
hey you over there.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
She's coming with me. Yeah, that's found one.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Yeh.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
I do the radar.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
I had lice, but it was in the summer. You
never asked me if I did have lice. I volunteer
the information.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Now I want to know. I'm sorry when you asked
that question. I was like, that's so weird. Stephenson just
asked me about that, and I don't think I ever
had it, but I had.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
That thought because they say that lice likes clean hair.
I think that might be an urban legend to make
people feel better.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
Oh you're so clean, Yeah, don't worry.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
It's because you're so clean. Yeah, but it is annoying
for a girl because you have to get rid of everything,
like every hair bow, every headband, every scrunchy, every anything.
You have to get rid of all of it.
Speaker 1 (34:22):
Is that what you do?
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Yeah, all my headbands. Never wore a headband again. That's
why anyway riveting.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Now, I know you have something for us regarding like cursing,
which I'm very curious about because I used to not cuss. Ever.
Speaker 3 (34:47):
Ever, when did you say your first curse word?
Speaker 1 (34:51):
I mean, I didn't even think in cussing. Wait, like
I just didn't like cuss words didn't pop into my head.
I was never a cuss until a cursor. How do
you say it?
Speaker 3 (35:06):
He sounds so sweet. I was never a cuss person.
I didn't even think cuss words. I just did it.
Speaker 1 (35:11):
It was like gotcha, which was good because on the
radio we couldn't cuss. And there were times where like
one time I spilt my coffee all over the board
and the mics were recording and I was recording something.
It wasn't live. But this was way back in my
early radio career, so like two thousand and six or something,
and I said, oh shoot, and like today me now,
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I've probably been like oh ffffff, you know, so like
that was me then and this is me now. And
I think the only thing that switched was I don't know,
I went through a lot and then realized that sometimes
saying a cuss word helped me feel better.
Speaker 3 (35:48):
I vividly remember my first cuss word.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
Okay, when was it?
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Me and two of my friends walked to publics. Don't
ask me why, and then our walk back we were like, okay,
they they were cussers, I.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Was not, and so we all took turns saying different
cuss words. I think they're trying to get me to
be bad join the club. Yeah yeah, And then it
all went uphill from there because according to research, cussing
is a sign of authenticity and people who which goes
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along with authenticity. I think they mean like more authentic
in their personality and who they are, but also are
less likely to be liars, more likely to tell the
truth is I think.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I always wanted to be and I wasn't in my
authentic self and for all those years because my parents
told me the story, I don't fully remember it, but
when I was really little, they were hosting a dinner
party and like a jet flew over our house, like
a fighter jet. You know, have you ever had those flyover?
They're so loud? And I looked up in the middle
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of it and I go, what the f was that?
I mean, and I said it and I was three
or something, the yeah, I said the effort because my
parents cussed. Yeah, like my parents cussed. I obviously heard
the said No. I said, well, I'm not going to
say it here.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Yeah, I mean he's a uthentic.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
He used to good beep it. But I was like,
what the heck was that? Oh you?
Speaker 3 (37:17):
And then.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
My parents loved Heell retelling that story, of course, because
they thought it was so cute that I did that
and didn't. And I was like, what, that's so crazy
because I just wasn't a cusser. And I don't know
if I thought I was being bad if I cussed,
or I didn't think I was better than anybody else.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
But I just didn't does your did your sister?
Speaker 1 (37:40):
I don't recall her cussing now. My half sister and
my brother they cuss all the time. Like with my dad.
They'd be having conversations and they'll be like, cuss, cuss
as an adult?
Speaker 3 (37:49):
Would you curse around your mom?
Speaker 1 (37:51):
No? I didn't cuss so recently my mom passed away.
Before I became a cuss person. She missed it. My
mom cussing now. She used to cuss. And then when
she really found Jesus like her, Jesus doesn't cuss. Well,
she just changed a lot about her. It was like
a dramatic shift like and I think how she spoke
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was part of that. I think there were plenty of
Christians that cuss, that's not the point. I think for her,
she had to make some changes. And that was one
thing I saw because I remember one time I missed
the bus and she was not happy and she slammed
the dishwasher and said some cuss words. I mean, I
remember my parents cussing for sure, and I've cussed in
front of my kids.
Speaker 3 (38:32):
Now, was you being authentic?
Speaker 4 (38:35):
I want to read this because just to give the
whole picture, it says multiple studies have shown a positive
correlation between higher profanity use and honesty and authenticity, though
the link is not absolute. Cursing is often described by
researchers as an unfiltered and genuine expression of emotion, which
can signal a person's willingness to prioritize candor over politeness.
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So what I hear in that is people that cuss
are more willing to prioritize being themselves than being nice
and polite.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
You know, which I appreciate.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
I think that there's a i mean over use of
it at times that can be a bit much, but
for me occasionally it's just very fitting.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
Yeah, it's like nothing else works as well, nothing, you know, nothing, nothing. Well,
I'm proud of you that you're now a customers.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
I'm now a customerson. I know. My mom doesn't know.
My dad maybe knew a little bit.
Speaker 3 (39:36):
Yeah, because how recent was this transition.
Speaker 1 (39:39):
I'm trying to think of when it really started. It
had to been twenty twenty, twenty twenty one.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Was your ex a cuss person?
Speaker 1 (39:48):
Not really, but we have become cuss people together. Okay,
like sometimes in our co parenting, will say it. One
time he called me out for like, oh one time, okay,
say this because he wasn't being He was kind of
I need to keep this in my side of the street. Street,
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you know how sometimes I want to make sure I
tell it my side. I was being a little overly
colorful with my language, but I was fired up about
something and he had to let me go and I
was like, oh, you know now you're too good.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Oh he was like, I'm hanging up.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
Well, he was like, we just need to talk later
like I don't appreciate your energy, and I was like, what, okay,
next time you say a word or two, remind me
of this because you're not going to It was around
then that we decided we have our code word, which
is pickle, so we haven't had to use pickle in
forever in retrospect. In retrospect, I do think I was
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a little heightened. Okay, like I was here and I
could have brought it down to Hero could have, but
he didn't need to be all, you know, holier than
now on me, which that's me, my defensive self talking.
I thought I was gonna say on my side of
the street. That was not my side of the street.
I take it back. I would say all of this
to his face. I think I was defensive in that
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moment of like, well, who do you think you are?
And you say these words too, so just wait. But
now I don't feel that way like he does it.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
There's not gonna be revenge.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
No, that was a while back.
Speaker 3 (41:22):
Yeah, I think I remember this.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
Yeah, I didn't do the best job of saying on
my side of the street.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
That was the thought that counts.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
Right before I told the story, I'm like, stay on
my side of the street, and then I still called
out his because I was still I guess when I
think back on it, I'm still perplexed by why he
went that route. But that's okay. We all have this moment.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
Is Alex a cuss person?
Speaker 1 (41:44):
Occasionally when it's right, I probably throw them in a
little more than he does. But he's dabbled well good.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
That means that he's authentic.
Speaker 4 (41:53):
He is, And this isn't on encompassing obviously, Like you said,
sometimes people will overuse. There is a too far. And
also if you don't cuss, it doesn't mean that you're
a liar, yeah at all, but it is.
Speaker 3 (42:06):
It's just interesting. I have a book called Swearing Is
Good for You. I've been meaning to read it for
like ten years.
Speaker 1 (42:12):
Oh you haven't even read it yet.
Speaker 4 (42:13):
I did start it, but then it was just a
lot about the research of cursing in language, and it
just I think I got the gist of it from
the title.
Speaker 1 (42:24):
You know, another reset? I know I shared the raid shower,
But another thing you can do for a reset is
eat something cold and crunchy.
Speaker 3 (42:32):
That would not do it for me. It wouldn't not
rage if I'm overwhelmed.
Speaker 1 (42:37):
Yes, yeah, but let's just like you're real mad and
you get a carrot and you dip in some honeys
hummus and then you bite down like that. Wouldn't you
be like, oh, nothing chips?
Speaker 3 (42:46):
So do you think that would be? So?
Speaker 4 (42:48):
I don't think that if I'm angry, I want to eat.
I'm one of those people who I have a lot
of emotions. My appetite isn't there. What I'm hearing from
you is that like the like crunch in the bite
of it is going to be like oh oh, but
I think I'd rather throw ice or the scream in
the shower or something.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
What about chew ice? Do you chew ice?
Speaker 4 (43:07):
No, but my husband is always chewing ice. If there
is a cup somewhere with ice in it, he's gonna
eat it.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
That's so manly, that's yeah, what a man? What amen?
Speaker 3 (43:21):
I hear that chewing ice also gives you gas? So really, yes,
why you're sucking down a lot of air?
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Oh well, that's a good deterrent. Yeah. I don't have
to stop my husband with chewing ice if you don't
tell him like, hey, baby, that's gonna give you gas.
Speaker 3 (43:36):
I think I've told him that before, and he's like,
I can't stop. He loves it. He gets it from
his dad. His dad's choose.
Speaker 4 (43:41):
Like if you go to a restaurant and you get
a drink with ice in it, they drink the drink,
but then they eat all of the ice.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
Yes, yes, And like if we go to like especially
somewhere with good ice, Like I'm pretty sure Chick fil
a has good ice.
Speaker 3 (43:55):
Oh yeah, if we go there, yeah, and sonic.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
If we go there and both get drinks and he
finishes his ice and my ice is sitting there, he'll
have my ice too.
Speaker 3 (44:05):
Yes, his dad just got a sonic ice maker, like
an ice maker that makes oh pellets.
Speaker 1 (44:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (44:10):
So probably because he wants to eat the ice. That's
something that like pregnant people are supposed to like, which
I don't.
Speaker 3 (44:18):
Know why that is, but I do hear they do
like it. Probably is the crunch nothing sounds good?
Speaker 1 (44:23):
Oh oh yeah, and he gives them maybe the cold
coldness feels good? Do you pop your knuckles?
Speaker 3 (44:30):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (44:30):
Okay, me too. And one of the things that my
boyfriend really really is holding on too, even though the
Internet says otherwise, is that popsy knuckle causes arthritis, and
like he won't let his kids do it, and he's
anytime I do it, he's like stop, and I'm like,
have you researched this? And he's like yeah, and what
did he find? Well, he finds that it gives arthritis.
(44:51):
And I'm like, but I see here it doesn't. It's
a myth.
Speaker 3 (44:55):
I feel, so what do we believe?
Speaker 1 (44:57):
I don't know, but he's just so he doesn't let
it go. It's not budging on it. It's just not
a couple thoughts. I won pop my knuckles like twenty
times a day.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
I love it.
Speaker 4 (45:09):
It feels so good to not do that would have
you'd have to have so much self control. I also
love when my husband cracks my knuckles.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
You do that, you do so, But also I feel
so good at cracking my knuckles. Tell us more anyway.
What I also was gonna say is that if it
really did cause arthritis, I think more of us, more
of us would have it, or well, sometimes I do
think I have arthritis, but it's beside the point. It's
(45:40):
not from cracking my knuckles. Can't be. But I just
feel like there'd be more warnings about it, Like I
just feel like that's something we heard when we are
little and like we grew out of it, believe.
Speaker 1 (45:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:50):
Yeah, so if that really was and I feel like
at our physicals, our doctors would be like, and.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
You're not cracking your knuckles right, you know, do your
wrists pop? No, that's my party trick. It'll do it
every time.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
You're like the lady at church that they do the bells.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
I'm like, they both will pop. This one's sounds loud,
but it's still popping. Wow.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
So if you are in mister geniality, that's what.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
You do for your talent. No, my talent would Okay,
that could be one of my talents. My other one
would be you can line up a lot of different
ketchups and I will tell you which one is hines.
Speaker 3 (46:29):
That's pretty it's pretty sick. Yeah, so you have a
backup talent.
Speaker 1 (46:32):
Yeah, okay, all right, Well that's cool.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
That's in there.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
However you're feeling today, if you need to take a beat,
throw some ice cubes, take a raid, shower, eat something crunchy.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Curse, curse, be a cuss person.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
Yeah, is that what I said?
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (46:53):
You know, just know that you're not alone. If that
is you, We are with you and we hope you
have the day need to help.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Bye,
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