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December 9, 2024 14 mins
Ashlee gets kicked out of the club
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh Dash and the morning show with DJ four and
it's Sad Morning.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Sustain's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
You know listen, I am what I am, and I
try so hard to not be this way, but it's
just like it's it's who I am, and that's that
we all know. I have a drinking problem, not during
the week though, only on the weekends. I'm very and
I'm very good about that. I'm not a weekday drinker
unless for some reason we have off or if I'm

(00:41):
gonna have like a Thursday night cocktail, And even if
I do that, it's one I drink on the weekends.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
And that's that.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
I also didn't get to drink as much as I
used to because of the kids, their anchors, and they
ruin my fun O or save me.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
I think it's more of a saving thing.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
So Friday night I'm in the seaport hosting the tree lighting, which,
by the way, was amazing. The tree gets more and
more grand every year. I tell the girls that work
in the seaport that like it. It's beautiful. It was freezing, yeah,
at one point it was. I think the real feel
was sixteen or seventeen degrees and a band kind of

(01:20):
finished their set early, and the guy who produced the
show came up to myself and Amina and we were
the two hosts, and he was like, do you think
you ask you like get out there and maybe Phil
like fifteen or sixteen minutes.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Now, to most people, they don't understand that that's a
lot of a lot of.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
Time guys to be on a stage talking to a
crowd crazy, that's like an hour and a half.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Honestly, that's what it feels like.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
It got to the point where we were like inviting
kids up to the stage and asking them what they
want for a Sanda, because it's hard to come up
with after we hit all the bullet points more things
to say, but not even but beyond that because we
all know I can to It was how cold it
was and I was in a dress and I only
had stockings on. I had a jacket and everything, but
like it was cold. But once the tree is lit,

(02:09):
it's just it's it's amazing. And there were so many people.
A lot of hour listeners came out, So shout out
to anybody that was at the tree lighting, and you know,
kind of hung out in the cold with us for it.
It was awesome, So think about it. I had done
the show. This show had been up since three thirty.

Speaker 3 (02:26):
I went home.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
I got my hair done but was Moselle and nic
cold did my glam. I went right to the Seaport.
I worked that job and hosted that event, and then
I was done doing that around nine to fifteen. So
I had my first drink probably like nine thirty time.
Perfect timing started with Espress's. I usually had a drink earlier,

(02:48):
but fine, so started with Espresses.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Great. We went to Empire.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
The food was bomb And while I was at Empire,
I ran into a friend of mine and one of
the DJs at this big club and we're chit chatting
with them, and we're going back and forth and I'm like, Mommy's.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Gonna get drunk tonight, come to the club, like do
you know, just be as sing.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
But then like Mommy did start to get drunk, and
Mommy was like, should we go to the club because
it's you know, it was also in the seaport, it's
Friday night, and by the way, it's it's like by
the time we.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Were done eating, it was perfect club timing it was
like eleven forty five, so why not.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
So I hit the guy up and I'm like, Hey,
we're gonna come to the club. He's like, cool, cool, cool,
go to the front ask for so and so, which,
by the way.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
I hate.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
I hate dealing with that. I hate like looking like
I'm trying to cut the line. So as we're approaching,
I turned around to my friend and I say, can
you be me, because you know I like and she's like, yeah,
that'll do.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
I'll do it. My friend Casey, She's like, she'll do it.
So she goes to the front.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
She's like, Hi, I'm a Ashley, I'm looking for Santi
Diolio and you go and the guys. It just it
immediately felt like people thought as if we were lying,
and I hated it.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
So I was like, who are you looking for?

Speaker 2 (04:02):
And he starts to get on his phone to like
text somebody else to basically make us feel like that
the name we made up, we made the name up,
like it wasn't real. So then I step up there
and I'm like, oh, here's the text message. Again trying
to be so nice, here's a text message, you know, okay, okakay,
So they get us in, We get these wristbands, and
they're like, go to the main stage because you know

(04:25):
the DJ VIP well it was this it was the
VIP well, yeah, I guess it was the booth behind
where the DJ is so whatever. And at this particular club,
it's big, it's a big space. To get there was tough,
like it was tight.

Speaker 3 (04:43):
There was five of us. It's a little after midnight now,
so this club is.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
At its height, right like people are there and we're
trying to like weave our way in to get back
there to see the only two people there that I know.
And the first thing that happened was we had to
cut through a.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
One VIP table to access the other one that we
were supposed to be at.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
And I went to go and I immediately get stopped.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Who are you? What are you doing.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Me? Oh my god, I'm so sorry. Like I showed
the wristband, I'm like, I know him. I'm not really
sure where to go or how to access this. I
can go a different way. Then then there's like a
drunk girl at the table and she's like she can't
have my bottle now, mind you My friends are yeah,
like dude, I felt like, I felt like it was
out of a movie.

Speaker 4 (05:36):
Can I also say too, I've been with you in
public where you have confrontations like this, but you're super
nice and respectful to every employee, every person, like at
a club, and let me back you up on that.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
Thank you because we.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
By the way, I also know we are friends of
the group that owns these places. So I'm never trying
to like be no, no, I just want to go
where we're supposed to go. So we have a seat.
So this young girl, because by the way, I was
all of thirty eight in that club, like I haven't
I don't ever feel thirty eight.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
I felt eighty three. I was like, ew. So the
girl's like she can't have any of my bottle. I
don't know her.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
And I look at the girl. I go, I'm no,
one's trying touch your bottle. I go, I'm literally just
trying to, you know, walk past. And then then the
bottle girl was annoyed at us because we were trying
to walk through it.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
So again, it's so loud because it's the height of
the club.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
So I'm the I'm the point person, and my friends
are just behind me standing back and they can't hear
me when I'm trying to turn around and be.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
Like it's not good.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
So now we finally get up to the area in
which is there's like a bouncer to get into behind
the DJ booth, and he's like, who are you? I said, Hi,
I'm Ashley. I'm trying to explain the situation. I'm like
I know him, and he's like like okay. I'm like okay,

(07:01):
So I text his here's a text message from his friend.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
They said we could like go in here, there's no room.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
I'm like oh, and he goes and now you're in
the way because we were because where we were standing
was where the bottle girls were kind of coming in
and out to try to access and say.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
He's like, you're in the way. Now you need to leave.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
I'm like okay, but so there's another way to get
up there. He's like, no, you gotta go, like you
gotta leave, Like you can't, You're not mind you again,
I'm dressed for a holiday event, so I have this
dress on with this big white blow like certainly not.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Just look like a president and not like.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Not club at tire or whatever. So I turn around
to my friends and I'm like he's like, we can't.
He's not gonna let us back there, sir.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
He won't let me. I'm not gonna let all five
of us.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Some of my friends. But doesn't sound like a lot,
but it's a.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
Big it is I and I agree with you, especially
for like a VIP area. I get it. So they
just should have told me that.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
I would have been like, ash, hey, five's too much,
like we're not gonna be able to fit you in. Okay, Yeah,
I wouldn't have come. There's other places to go, like
in that area. But I don't know if they felt
bad because I asked or something.

Speaker 3 (08:10):
I don't know. So then I turn around to my
friends and I'm like we and he's like, you gotta move.
You're in the way, you gotta move.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
I'm like, dude, I wanted to die. So then I
turn around, I'm like, we gotta go. So we move out,
like back to like where every like a now we're
away from the tables, were like just with everybody else
like at the at the bar, and at that point
I'm like, uh uh, like we gotta go, Like this
is weird. So we take a shot on the way out.

(08:40):
We go to leave, and again this is where the
age thing is sticking out to me. We get in
the elevator, so it's to get in for this particular establishment.
You gotta go in the elevator to go in and
up and down and out. So we're in the elevator
and we are with like ten other people. It's Sartines
and they're okay, it's slin So it gets to the

(09:01):
bottom and the door's open and it's like it's a
it's a young girl, she's probably twenty one. She's with
a young guy. And then there's like five other girls
behind her and the door's open again Sardines. The sardines
are trying to get out because we're leaving. They try
to come in, like, use your brain cells.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
We have to get cool.

Speaker 2 (09:25):
We gotta get out so you can get in. And
she starts screaming, and not just not me, but like
all of us, and she's like move and everyone's like
we have to get out for you to get in.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
She goes, oh god, get out.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
You guys are all fat and ugly. Anyway, oh my god, yo, WHOA.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
I was like, who I mean?

Speaker 2 (09:50):
I couldn't like, I couldn't believe it. I was I
was flabbergasted.

Speaker 3 (09:56):
Again.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
It wasn't directly to me, but it was to all
of us and the elevator, and she was like, you're
fat and ugly anyway.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Oh bitch, what are you talking about? So then now
we're mad.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
So now we like pulley out of her, out of
the thing past her, and we're yelling like.

Speaker 3 (10:11):
People have to get out for you to get in, idiot,
Like we're mad. Okay.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
So now I come around the bend and I'm fired
up because that was crazy, Like you're not using your brain.
By the way, nobody is trying to stop that, like
there's no elevator person, so it was just mayhem. So
we come around the corner and we're going to leave,
and I'm upset, and there's the ropes, right, you got
to walk in through the ropes, you get anything.

Speaker 3 (10:32):
Well, now I want to step over the ropes because
I'm not allowed to do that, and I'm annoyed.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
And the guy's like, ma'am. He like sees me lift
my foot to go over the rope. He's like, go
walk past the ropes, not over the ropes.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
And I look around at him and I'm like, gout
to step over the ropes tripped.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
No, did your body hit then?

Speaker 3 (10:52):
I didn't fall all the way down, But all the
ropes fell, God, all the ropes fell. And here's the
best of the story, the best part.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
Now I'm like, oh my god, I actually feel bad
because I'm like, this is crazy. So I go back
to like turn around to maybe like pick the ropes up,
and the bouncer is now leaning down to do it
himself and he has his hand close to the ropes.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
My buddy walks over and kicks the ropes away from
his hand so he can't pick the rope. It was
a eletteral scene.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
The fat and ugly comment I think sent us all
to the movie because we had already been pretty much
kicked out. So it was just like, I know that
if the two guys that I know knew all of
this was happening, they'd be mortified probably and be like,
oh my god, like it shouldn't have happened this way.
I'm never going to the club again. I'm never going
to that club again. It was crazy, Like it was

(11:46):
the most crazy scene.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
It's just a lot.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
I also, like, I can fully admit I was probably
too old to be in there, Like I don't know
if it was certain like it maybe I should not
have been there.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
The girl was like, you're a mom.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
She was, she was like she had she made direct
eye contact with me when she said that I may
have literally bombed that that elevator.

Speaker 3 (12:08):
I was just cursed, that's.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
How upsetting it was. But she was like looking at
everybody in the elevator and.

Speaker 1 (12:19):
Oh, yeah, it got on.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
Well No, people were like, I don't say people started
saying those words.

Speaker 1 (12:27):
Back to her.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
I don't know what she was thinking saying something like that.

Speaker 3 (12:37):
That was tough words.

Speaker 1 (12:39):
But the club is a lot. The club is a lot.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
Yeah. And by the way, and I say this to say,
there are some clubs where I could go in now
and I could feel like, okay, there's it's it's appropriate.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
There's other people like my age.

Speaker 2 (12:51):
You know.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
No, that it was not that it was that was bad, guys.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
It was a whole bad situation. And I just just
felt like everybody. I felt like the staff thought that
I was trying to be cool or something or like
I was, oh, I know him, and it's not like
at all.

Speaker 1 (13:11):
But I got it.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
You got to remember how often they hear that I
know I'm sure, I got to you gotta remember so
if they don't know you, if they don't care, like yeah,
trust me. I've been in situations where I'm the DJ
and I'm like, I'm here to DJ and they're still
giving me a hard time and I'm like, I just
do that job.

Speaker 4 (13:26):
You guys laugh at me, But this is why I'm
the first one there. That way I can avoid all
of this. I can give it right in.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
You're in my olden age. I'm with you now.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
I stand with you like I don't ever want to
be there before like twelve thirty, but I get what
you're saying now because this place.

Speaker 3 (13:46):
Like this is the place, like this is this is
a great place. It's cool.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
I just think there was. It was also so last
minute me asking to come, like and you're right for him.
I'm sure that guy that I dealt with deals with
people lying all the time.

Speaker 3 (14:00):
But it was just it was so bad. You're all
fat and ugly.

Speaker 1 (14:04):
I was like that one still cuts deep.

Speaker 3 (14:07):
I'm like, who the lady with the bow?

Speaker 2 (14:08):
Like who?

Speaker 3 (14:09):
It wouldn't know it was.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
You're a mom. You should be home with your kids.

Speaker 2 (14:17):
So anyways, we went to the bar next door in
black Down and I had like the best time ever.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
But let me tell you, I don't know if mommy
should be in the clubs anymore.
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