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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dashi and the jam In Morning Show with d J.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Fourn It's Saut Morning, Austin's number one for hip hop
jamming ninety four five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi everybody, good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
All right, we're doing the checking now, checking on you,
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Four five call me.
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We're talking about you, your life, your world, anything you want.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Let's kick it off with Mike in Boston.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Hi, Mike, Hey, what are we doing.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
We're good, but we're not you. You're you're going through
it a little bit.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
I mean seen better days.
Speaker 6 (00:39):
Was driving the wife's dad home from a night of drinking,
and uh, he told me a leave her.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
All right, let me say, you are driving your wife's dad. Okay,
you're so your father in law, your wife's dad home
from a night of drinking, and he told you to
leave his own daughter.
Speaker 6 (00:59):
Yeah, she's just like her mother, dragging her down.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
That's why he left her.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Oh my god, my god, this is like, are you
and your wife okay? Are you guys in a good
place or have you thought about this?
Speaker 6 (01:10):
What I mean, it's constant. We were fighting all the time.
I mean we just going through emotions probably at this
point for the kids. But other than that, Yeah, he
told me she's holding me back from making a lot
more money.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
This is like sad. I feel like, I know.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
It really is. Honestly, Yeah, I was actually pretty sad
him just telling me.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
He's like, he's like, I know you have way more potential,
but she's holding you and you need to go.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
And I was like, wow, like this is And then
the wife asked, Hey, how was the ride home bringing
dad home?
Speaker 4 (01:44):
And I was like a great, Yeah, listen, I feel
like if there's anybody to give you advice on that
and on somebody, it would be their parent because they
really know them better than anybody else.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
But is he not worried about his grandkids though?
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Because don't you know, wouldn't we think that he would
want you guys to stay together.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
For the kids?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
H for sure, But he he knows how hold them
down no matter what. That one I mean, that's really
what's probably holding us together right now is the kids.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
How old are the kids?
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Four and two?
Speaker 6 (02:22):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Yeah, those are babies.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Do you think it's probably better off if you guys
break up now? That way?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
You're like kids, see, like mature adults co parenting versus
living in a house.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
That's like there's no love.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Absolutely.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
I mean there's always a double edged sword on either way.
You think about it, you know, it's like, hey, you know,
my kid expects to see mom and dad every day
he gets home from school.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Especially if mom yells at him, he's looking for dad.
And then if dad yells at him, he's looking for mom.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
Yeah, and I feel like if he doesn't have anyone
to turn to, it would probably do more damage to him.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Now they would.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Little kids really are terrorists. I would like to make
that clear. They try to pit us against each other.
Every time I send the one to time out, she's.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Like, I want gaddy.
Speaker 7 (03:03):
I bet you if you guys call parents together and
come up with a plan on how this split could happen,
it could work out.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Are you guys still intimate?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Mike?
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (03:13):
Yeah, we get down when.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Needed when needed? What does that mean only.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
When she wants it? Basically?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
How often is that.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
A dry spell? Right now? For like two months?
Speaker 6 (03:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Well, they say, once the intimacy goes. That's like that.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Before I had my last kid too. She just she's
not really into doing the whole nasty mm.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
What I feel.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I feel like when it's like that, maybe that's like
the Ashley's point, that's when the relationship is kind of broken.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I go back and forth.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Obviously I see fighting to keep your relationship for the kids,
but then I also see if you're not happy, how
can you be a good parent?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
And so you.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
Know, oh, that doesn't affect parenting. You can be a
good parent absolutely.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Okay, Well, what are you gonna do, Mike?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
We're buckling down. Hopefully I make more money, maybe she'll
be happy. And if that worked, hopefully.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
It's just sad. I would die if I heard my
husband talk about me like that.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
But if you're hoping to make more money to make
her happy, to further your relationship, to make it better,
then then it's already like in shambles.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Does she Workah? Yeah, Okay, so she doesn't have her
own money.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
She does, doesn't make quite as much as me, but
you know it's there.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Okay, Well, you don't sound happy. Her own dad is
telling you to leave her. That's so wild to me.
I couldn't even imagine it. But I mean, I just want,
I want all I care about the kids being happy,
and from what it seems you're making sure.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
That that happens, oh every day.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Well, Mike, this is we can't make this decision for
you because this is clearly life altering. So I wish
you the best, and I hope whatever it is, yeah,
whatever it comes down to, I hope that you know
it's something that you can sleep with the night.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
And then I hope we distract you when you're driving
to work, because that's really all we can do for you.
Speaker 8 (05:21):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
I think about that, like, imagine hearing your spouse talk
about you like that, Like he's basically just like, yeah,
I'll grin and Barrett, maybe I'll make some more money
and she'll be happy.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Then No, that would be painful. That would break my heart.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
At the same time, they're probably so far gone that
like it doesn't even matter, like anymore.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Like what is this man saying about me in the firehouse?
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Like that's what we need to Probably, I need an insight,
I need intel.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Probably.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I hate that she picks up her phone and records
me at random times, and sometimes she posts these thoughty pictures.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
On Instagram that I hear about Jesus.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
But that's like, but that's the worst that you did.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
You not have the role you can't.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
I played the role.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Fine, they don't want to roll play everywhere. I didn't
want to role play anonymous. You want to weigh in
on this.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Hearing Mike talk about his wife like that, I was
a little sad.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
What do you think?
Speaker 9 (06:16):
Yeah, I mean I actually just went through the same thing.
I just divorced my husband. We have two kids that
he's about to turn to.
Speaker 10 (06:23):
And my other daughter is four, So I was in
the exact same position, literally.
Speaker 9 (06:28):
And I mean it's hard, like it was something that
we didn't want to accept. Nobody wanted to believe that
the marriage was over. But eventually we knew it was
the right thing. And we're so much better now with
co parents than we ever were in a relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Wow, that's amazing.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
And I hope he's listening because the ages are exactly
the same and it's doable. How do you feel like
the four year olds picking up on what's going on
at all?
Speaker 9 (06:51):
Well, we sat her down, we finally, like when the
papers were signed and everything was finalized, we sat her
down together and we're like, listen, this doesn't change everything. Like,
Mommy still loves you very much, Daddy still loves you
very much.
Speaker 8 (07:02):
You're still going to see both of us.
Speaker 9 (07:04):
We have a custody agreement of a week on, week off,
so they have a week of daddy's in a week
here and There's we're finally just kind of acclimating to it.
The kids are getting used to it, Like she understands now.
She's like, okay, Like it's daddy's week, it's mommy's week,
and I mean we're doing great. And he still comes
over on my weeks. I go over on his week.
We take care of the kids together.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
Because like it's not our bodies aren't like females. I
just don't feel like we're built to be away from them.
You feel some sort of like ping in your soul
those weeks that you have off. Does it feel so strange? Oh? Absolutely?
Speaker 9 (07:38):
Like it's like I don't even cook dinner because I'm
just like I don't know what to do.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
Yeah, like I don't know what to do.
Speaker 11 (07:46):
But yeah, So sometimes I'll text them.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
And I'm like, I miss my kids. Can I come
over and like have dinner, put them to bed? And
like I'll come over on my nights and put them
to bed.
Speaker 10 (07:53):
So wow, we still see him all throughout the week.
Speaker 11 (07:56):
But's just this week. He takes care of them and
I have.
Speaker 9 (07:58):
Just the fun tare and I saw him and do Then.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
That's an amazing setup that you have. That sounds a
lot like my parents had it. And that's it. That
doesn't usually happen. So certainly count your blessings with that.
Speaker 9 (08:13):
No, absolutely, I'm very lucky. But it is doable, And
I think it's not good to help the kids see
them like, they can feel that tension, they can tell
their parents don't like each other. There's just some kind
of izzy vibe there.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (08:25):
I always just kind of better to nip it in
the butt and explain to them this doesn't change anything.
Speaker 8 (08:29):
But if it's for the best.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Yeah, wow.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Okay, Anonymous, thank you so much for the call. I
appreciate it. Where do you want to go on?
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Good morning?
Speaker 11 (08:39):
Good morning? Okay, So I have a couple of questions. One,
how long they've been married and have they done anything
to help with intimacy and their marriage? And also like
what is her mental load? Like what if she is
she she's working, she's also home taking care of the kids,
and then him making more money. Money is not going
(09:00):
to resolve and buy happiness.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Yeah, I don't know where the money kept coming up
because remember her dad said, leave her, you'll make more money.
He d bring more money if she maybe she'll be
happier if I make more money.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, money and money.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
But the talk he also mentioned that he made more
than she did as well, so the money kept coming back.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (09:22):
Well, if money is the issue, then I don't think
that's going to fix happiness and intimacy. Like he's just
saying oh when she wants to, So that's not going
to help the relationship. And the children can they can
feel that, they can feel that pressure, they can feel that.
I think if they need to as two adults become
together and figure out what they want to do with
(09:44):
the kids' housing, is it going to be beneficial we
stay together and how do we fix us? Because sometimes
I think in relationships when we have children, we lose
focus of each other, like we kind of moan or
grieve the actual relationship that we had prior to because
the main focus and priority becomes the children. I think
(10:05):
that's where they have to sit.
Speaker 8 (10:07):
I do.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
I'm like, I think about the times, so you know,
because I've had moments where I literally look at him
and I think back to what were we doing at
this time seven years ago when we first started dating,
talking about what dog park are we going to go to?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Let's go booze tonight. No, no care in the world.
It's just different.
Speaker 8 (10:24):
It is.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Your priorities have to have to shift, all right, Deniz.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
If Mike calls back with those details, obviously I'll put
him on so we can hear his answers. I'll list
got you, all right, Let's continue the check in six
one seven, nine, three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
That is six one seven, nine, three one one nine
for five. Calm me, bibes.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
We're talking about you, your life, your world, anything you want.
The check in only on Jamming.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Hi, everybody, good morning. It's Ashley in the jam In
the Morning Show. I don't know what's in the water today,
but this is wild, I'm all. He hung up.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
Oh damn guy said his leaving them and she cheated
with one of his coworkers.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
But he hung out.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
That sucks like pain.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Give me that sucks.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I'm just gonna say, if that happened to me, that
would be so painful.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Yeah, I mean, well, maybe this is him back. He's
probably not gonna want to talk though, because you're.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
Laughing at him.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Anonymous. Hi, Hi babe, Anonymous. I'm just gonna get R
a little background. And you're twenty three years old. Your
parents have been together for thirty plus years. That is
a long time. Thirty years. Yeah, okay, what's going on
with your parents?
Speaker 10 (11:36):
So about two weeks ago, my parents told my sister
and I, which were two years apart, so she's two
years younger than I am. They told us that things
have not been well between them for years at least
ten and they are now deciding to finally like separate.
(11:57):
And so what I was talking about was born.
Speaker 9 (12:00):
Before with that.
Speaker 10 (12:01):
That was never something that I would have thought would
have happened to my parents. They were able to like
talk about things with us, be there for us, do
everything for us.
Speaker 11 (12:10):
You know.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
I also feel like, you know, it's all you've ever known,
and you're in your starting to become like an adult.
You're not a baby anymore, and it's just all of
your memories are with them, you know, And so that's
gonna be such a massive change for you guys.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
Do we know what has happened?
Speaker 10 (12:29):
I don't. I guess that they had had conversations in
the past, but nothing was like very serious. But one
of them have just gotten to the point where they
just they just can't do it anymore. And that's where
I'm like thinking of it as a child perspective, I
guess you could say for that gentleman that called where
like I personally like now that I'm twenty three and
(12:52):
this is what I've known like half of my life,
I've didn't realize this was going on. It's kind of
mine And I feel like if my parents, if my
parents were able to co parents like back then and
like do the split, I wouldn't be questioning as much
as I am.
Speaker 12 (13:11):
Now.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Wow, that's deep.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
And if he's still listening, I think is really going
to speak volumes to him. Let me ask you, is
is one of them going to stay at your childhood
home or is everybody moving?
Speaker 3 (13:25):
What is that?
Speaker 10 (13:27):
So it's funny that you asked that, because that's kind
of up in the air thing at the moment. So
we're all still living together. It kind of feels like
we're playing pretend at the moment. But the one that
is leaving, he's looking for my dad, He's looking for someplace,
but it's not like officially like happening but either way,
(13:49):
like my mom can't support like having the home, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Right right?
Speaker 8 (13:53):
Right?
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Oh, babe, I'm sorry that that's a lot, but I
mean you hearing him Mike talk about that and then
feeling like you should call and tell him that it's
the right thing to do. Probably, Oh, he's on the line.
He actually called back. Let me go to him, Anonymous,
thank you for this. I can hear that you're crying,
and it makes me upset. I listen, my parents were divorced.
(14:15):
They did it when I was young too, so that
is all I've ever known, so I can see the
complete flip opposite. That's all you've ever known is them
being together. Yeah, all right, babe, Let's see what Mike
has to say.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Mike, everybody is like a lot of.
Speaker 4 (14:29):
The phone lines are calling in to comment on your situation.
You just heard Anonymous right there. Does that in any way,
shape or form push you to maybe want to sit
her down and say, like, listen, we should be co parenting.
Speaker 3 (14:41):
We're not happy.
Speaker 6 (14:42):
Now is the time to do it, all right, So
let me iron something out because I know one thing
that was said a lot was money. Now money is
probably ninety nine percent of our problems. COVID tore us up,
we got it to debt, et cetera. Tried going back
to school, try to make more money, didn't work out.
(15:04):
No money. Money buys you a place, money buys you
a better car, money buys you. I can stay home.
I don't need to go to work anymore. Money is
what will solve You know. They say money don't buy happiness,
but it share does you know what I'm saying. It
might create other problems, but it's going to create some
happiness in some sort, whether it be going to Target
(15:26):
and spending five hundred dollars each time to burn out
instead of the therapist because that's cheaper than therapy or
doing this. Money rules the world, and with one hundred
and sixty percent inflation over the past couple of years,
it's that's what brought us to the level we're at now.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Those finances are on the list of reasons that people
have problems. I don't think we're taking that away from you.
It just it was interesting that that was mentioned so
many times. Was kind of all we were acknowledging.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
Yeah, yeah, no, for sure, I mean the whole.
Speaker 6 (15:58):
Sitting down thing and you know, talking and doing that stuff.
We've done that and for some reason, you know, a
week goes by, two weeks goes by. We're just back
somewhat together. You know, we've broken up a million times,
but every time, you know, where is she going to go?
She you know, I'll give her child support, still not
going to be enough for her to live and do
(16:19):
what she needs to do.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
So what that does the.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
Economy makes people stuck together, as simple as it is,
all right.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Mike, Well, like I said, a lot of people were
calling in to kind of like weigh in on what
you're going through. But what I know to be true
is that there are other people in the same situation
as you, so you know, maybe you helped to make
them feel a little less alone. I think Anonymous calling
in and telling you about her parents is just a
whole different perspective where she's like, man, I wish that
(16:48):
my parents would have done this when we were younger.
So that was the life we know, because now she
only has memories with the two of them together and
that's kind of being ripped away from her.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
So it's just another perspective.
Speaker 6 (16:58):
No, I feel for her, you know what I mean,
It's not something that I didn't hold hold tight to
me because you know, after listening to what she said,
you know, she put a lot of emotion in it,
and she definitely cared with what she said, and you know,
I totally understand.
Speaker 5 (17:13):
You know, obviously people figure it out different ways.
Speaker 6 (17:16):
But I know when they go back and look at
pictures of mom and Dad's smiling, you know, when we're
all taking family photos and it's not separate photos, I know,
I think he's gonna appreciate that more that we were
still trying during that part. You know, we're not really
doing these things in front of the kids, you know,
where you know it's you know, like two thousand and
(17:37):
eight crisis where we're playing the Wii and dancing and
you know, swinging the nunchucks and mom and dad are
getting divorced in the kitchen. You know, you just don't
know things that are happening in the background. But the
love is still there, and you know, it's it's not
something that hasn't been filled, especially with the children, because
I know that they have nothing to do with what
you know, me and Mom are going through.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
All right, Man, will fight for love. Keep us posted.
We'll be wishing you nothing but the best rock on, baby,
keep rocking on forever.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
I don't get the WE reference at all, but well, yeah,
we were saying.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I think that that's clear.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
You know, the WE was big in two thousand and eight,
when then financial crisis happened with the housing.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
Okay, you say it's cheaper to keeper.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Oh wow, it's cheaper to keep her.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
Interesting Joe is in Lawrence, Joe, I had mentioned you earlier. Uh,
you're going through it too. What's what's what's happening Joe?
Speaker 8 (18:38):
Just a lot of bad stuff right now? Yeah, dreadful things.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Yeah, right now.
Speaker 11 (18:44):
Really, I'm going.
Speaker 8 (18:45):
Through a divorce right now, losing two kids. Got to
get everything situated right now. I'm trying my heart to
keep it together.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Yeah, what happened?
Speaker 8 (18:55):
Well, almost ten years ago I got with this woman.
I thought it was the love of my life. Turns
out she was going with two of my employees. So
there it goes that I'm down two guys and a
wife right now.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Joe, how'd you find out?
Speaker 8 (19:11):
Oh chick chat among the crew?
Speaker 4 (19:13):
Oh my god, with two different guys at two different times.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Right, this wasn't like a thing, right, Nah?
Speaker 8 (19:22):
I mean I don't know. I mean I just know
it was two different guys. I fired him. I'm in
a situation where I'm getting divorced right now. Yeah, hopefully,
hopefully I get to get the mouse, the car, every
ding she's taking.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Well, I mean, how old are the kids?
Speaker 8 (19:39):
Once two at once six months?
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Oh oh my god, Joe, she better not take those
little babies from you.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
That's psychotic, honestly.
Speaker 8 (19:47):
At this point, I love the kids, but I might
have to get a DNA test. I might have to
just to be safe on my end.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Do you think there's a chance, I don't.
Speaker 8 (19:59):
Know, I'm one of them skins a little darker.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Well, I feel sick to my stomach. I mean, there's
there's so.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Many things here, obviously, but the bottom line is you
guys are going to go through a nasty divorce.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
You can tell that.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
And you have little babies six months and a two
year old that's like around the age of the kids
that I have, And that's that's a lot in general.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Can I just say, how does she have the time?
Speaker 4 (20:25):
I don't feel like I have a single second to myself, like,
how is she what?
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Hell?
Speaker 8 (20:31):
Well, she's a stay at home mom and I usually
can do all the work and contain I do make
the money. She stays on home.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
With the kids.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
Got it, so she was she was having visitors.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
I'm so sorry, Joe, because, like you said, you're not
only losing your wife, but you're also losing, you know,
the guys that had worked for you.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Are you still living at the house with her?
Speaker 5 (20:49):
No? Never?
Speaker 12 (20:50):
Never?
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Okay, good are you?
Speaker 8 (20:52):
But you're seeing the kids always. I definitely keep in
touch with the kids. I love my babies. I say,
not wrong with them, guys, But at the end of
the day, I gotta I gotta get her out of here.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Yeah right.
Speaker 8 (21:04):
I knew something wasn't right when I seen all these
extra clothes and she was saying, no, she just bought
them just to have them for for coziness, for coziness.
There was you know, I almost I'm a small guy.
I'm seeing these extra large shirts hanging around my house.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
I feel Joe, she is that is just disrespectful to
the craziest degree.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
I'm so sorry, Joe.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
My eyes, she's the devil, Satan Satan.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Wow, Joe, I'm I'm hoping that she can, you know,
put all the things aside and you guys can figure
out custody of the kids, and that obviously is the
most important, but that is damn. I'm sorry, Joe, I
don't I don't have anything else to say. That's terrible.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
I'm living it. I'm living a nightmare.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
You are you are.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
Hopefully you'll come out on the other side a better
man without that in your life.
Speaker 8 (22:00):
Well, this is a learning lesson. I'm gonna put her
down the road and move on my life. I'm firing
those two guys and never being hired again. All right, Joe,
god speed, all right, thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
Thinking about you.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
I had a question, but he answered it in the moment.
The skin color, and I think that's a telltale sign,
like yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
He said he wants a DNA test because the one
kid is a little dark.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Dark at which the guy probably coming over was dark too.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
Like yeah, because she just had a baby six months ago,
and if he caught her cheating, that means she was
having it pain.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
And by the way, she's stupid.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
She she's leaving extra.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
Large T shirts around the house, are you And that's
why she said they were comfy clothes because they were gotted.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
So the guys were leaving their clothes and she was
pretending like they were her comfies.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
But then also with his employees. And that's the part
like you're so stupid.
Speaker 7 (22:55):
And she's taking the crib and come on, yeah, why
she mad? She's taken everything and you're the one who
cheated with my employees.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Depression.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Yeah, guys, the checking what can we quickly can yeah?
Foreign will line a really like? Cheer me up? Or
is it like? Is it a positive?
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Absolutely? I don't like it? No, do it?
Speaker 3 (23:14):
Okay, Dennis, you have a second to cheer me up.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
I feel like I'm being set up. What's the news
that you have for me?
Speaker 12 (23:20):
I work in Mashfield, so welcome to Mashfield.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
My god, my neighbor.
Speaker 12 (23:24):
Also, you know how we talked about the H word yesterday? Yeah,
you gave me the wrong number. I worked for CBS
in your rash cream is in to come down and.
Speaker 11 (23:35):
Pick it up? You know what?
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Thank you? I was I was worried about the rash
cream and I'm so I'm so funny.
Speaker 4 (23:43):
I'm gonna find out who Fun's going to that cruise
with right now.
Dashi and the jam In Morning Show with d J.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Fourn It's Saut Morning, Austin's number one for hip hop
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Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi everybody, good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
All right, we're doing the checking now, checking on you,
your life, your world six one seven nine three one
one nine four five six one seven nine three one
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Speaker 3 (00:22):
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We're talking about you, your life, your world, anything you want.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Let's kick it off with Mike in Boston.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Hi, Mike, Hey, what are we doing.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
We're good, but we're not you. You're you're going through
it a little bit.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
I mean seen better days.
Speaker 6 (00:39):
Was driving the wife's dad home from a night of drinking,
and uh, he told me a leave her.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
All right, let me say, you are driving your wife's dad. Okay,
you're so your father in law, your wife's dad home
from a night of drinking, and he told you to
leave his own daughter.
Speaker 6 (00:59):
Yeah, she's just like her mother, dragging her down.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
That's why he left her.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Oh my god, my god, this is like, are you
and your wife okay? Are you guys in a good
place or have you thought about this?
Speaker 6 (01:10):
What I mean, it's constant. We were fighting all the time.
I mean we just going through emotions probably at this
point for the kids. But other than that, Yeah, he
told me she's holding me back from making a lot
more money.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
This is like sad. I feel like, I know.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
It really is. Honestly, Yeah, I was actually pretty sad
him just telling me.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
He's like, he's like, I know you have way more potential,
but she's holding you and you need to go.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
And I was like, wow, like this is And then
the wife asked, Hey, how was the ride home bringing
dad home?
Speaker 4 (01:44):
And I was like a great, Yeah, listen, I feel
like if there's anybody to give you advice on that
and on somebody, it would be their parent because they
really know them better than anybody else.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
But is he not worried about his grandkids though?
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Because don't you know, wouldn't we think that he would
want you guys to stay together.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
For the kids?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
H for sure, But he he knows how hold them
down no matter what. That one I mean, that's really
what's probably holding us together right now is the kids.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
How old are the kids?
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Four and two?
Speaker 6 (02:22):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Yeah, those are babies.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Do you think it's probably better off if you guys
break up now? That way?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
You're like kids, see, like mature adults co parenting versus
living in a house.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
That's like there's no love.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Absolutely.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
I mean there's always a double edged sword on either way.
You think about it, you know, it's like, hey, you know,
my kid expects to see mom and dad every day
he gets home from school.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Especially if mom yells at him, he's looking for dad.
And then if dad yells at him, he's looking for mom.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
Yeah, and I feel like if he doesn't have anyone
to turn to, it would probably do more damage to him.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Now they would.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Little kids really are terrorists. I would like to make
that clear. They try to pit us against each other.
Every time I send the one to time out, she's.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Like, I want gaddy.
Speaker 7 (03:03):
I bet you if you guys call parents together and
come up with a plan on how this split could happen,
it could work out.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Are you guys still intimate?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Mike?
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (03:13):
Yeah, we get down when.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Needed when needed? What does that mean only.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
When she wants it? Basically?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
How often is that.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
A dry spell? Right now? For like two months?
Speaker 6 (03:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Well, they say, once the intimacy goes. That's like that.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Before I had my last kid too. She just she's
not really into doing the whole nasty mm.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
What I feel.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I feel like when it's like that, maybe that's like
the Ashley's point, that's when the relationship is kind of broken.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I go back and forth.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Obviously I see fighting to keep your relationship for the kids,
but then I also see if you're not happy, how
can you be a good parent?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
And so you.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
Know, oh, that doesn't affect parenting. You can be a
good parent absolutely.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Okay, Well, what are you gonna do, Mike?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
We're buckling down. Hopefully I make more money, maybe she'll
be happy. And if that worked, hopefully.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
It's just sad. I would die if I heard my
husband talk about me like that.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
But if you're hoping to make more money to make
her happy, to further your relationship, to make it better,
then then it's already like in shambles.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Does she Workah? Yeah, Okay, so she doesn't have her
own money.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
She does, doesn't make quite as much as me, but
you know it's there.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Okay, Well, you don't sound happy. Her own dad is
telling you to leave her. That's so wild to me.
I couldn't even imagine it. But I mean, I just want,
I want all I care about the kids being happy,
and from what it seems you're making sure.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
That that happens, oh every day.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Well, Mike, this is we can't make this decision for
you because this is clearly life altering. So I wish
you the best, and I hope whatever it is, yeah,
whatever it comes down to, I hope that you know
it's something that you can sleep with the night.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
And then I hope we distract you when you're driving
to work, because that's really all we can do for you.
Speaker 8 (05:21):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
I think about that, like, imagine hearing your spouse talk
about you like that, Like he's basically just like, yeah,
I'll grin and Barrett, maybe I'll make some more money
and she'll be happy.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Then No, that would be painful. That would break my heart.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
At the same time, they're probably so far gone that
like it doesn't even matter, like anymore.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Like what is this man saying about me in the firehouse?
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Like that's what we need to Probably, I need an insight,
I need intel.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Probably.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I hate that she picks up her phone and records
me at random times, and sometimes she posts these thoughty pictures.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
On Instagram that I hear about Jesus.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
But that's like, but that's the worst that you did.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
You not have the role you can't.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
I played the role.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Fine, they don't want to roll play everywhere. I didn't
want to role play anonymous. You want to weigh in
on this.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Hearing Mike talk about his wife like that, I was
a little sad.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
What do you think?
Speaker 9 (06:16):
Yeah, I mean I actually just went through the same thing.
I just divorced my husband. We have two kids that
he's about to turn to.
Speaker 10 (06:23):
And my other daughter is four, So I was in
the exact same position, literally.
Speaker 9 (06:28):
And I mean it's hard, like it was something that
we didn't want to accept. Nobody wanted to believe that
the marriage was over. But eventually we knew it was
the right thing. And we're so much better now with
co parents than we ever were in a relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Wow, that's amazing.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
And I hope he's listening because the ages are exactly
the same and it's doable. How do you feel like
the four year olds picking up on what's going on
at all?
Speaker 9 (06:51):
Well, we sat her down, we finally, like when the
papers were signed and everything was finalized, we sat her
down together and we're like, listen, this doesn't change everything. Like,
Mommy still loves you very much, Daddy still loves you
very much.
Speaker 8 (07:02):
You're still going to see both of us.
Speaker 9 (07:04):
We have a custody agreement of a week on, week off,
so they have a week of daddy's in a week
here and There's we're finally just kind of acclimating to it.
The kids are getting used to it, Like she understands now.
She's like, okay, Like it's daddy's week, it's mommy's week,
and I mean we're doing great. And he still comes
over on my weeks. I go over on his week.
We take care of the kids together.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
Because like it's not our bodies aren't like females. I
just don't feel like we're built to be away from them.
You feel some sort of like ping in your soul
those weeks that you have off. Does it feel so strange? Oh? Absolutely?
Speaker 9 (07:38):
Like it's like I don't even cook dinner because I'm
just like I don't know what to do.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
Yeah, like I don't know what to do.
Speaker 11 (07:46):
But yeah, So sometimes I'll text them.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
And I'm like, I miss my kids. Can I come
over and like have dinner, put them to bed? And
like I'll come over on my nights and put them
to bed.
Speaker 10 (07:53):
So wow, we still see him all throughout the week.
Speaker 11 (07:56):
But's just this week. He takes care of them and
I have.
Speaker 9 (07:58):
Just the fun tare and I saw him and do Then.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
That's an amazing setup that you have. That sounds a
lot like my parents had it. And that's it. That
doesn't usually happen. So certainly count your blessings with that.
Speaker 9 (08:13):
No, absolutely, I'm very lucky. But it is doable, And
I think it's not good to help the kids see
them like, they can feel that tension, they can tell
their parents don't like each other. There's just some kind
of izzy vibe there.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (08:25):
I always just kind of better to nip it in
the butt and explain to them this doesn't change anything.
Speaker 8 (08:29):
But if it's for the best.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Yeah, wow.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Okay, Anonymous, thank you so much for the call. I
appreciate it. Where do you want to go on?
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Good morning?
Speaker 11 (08:39):
Good morning? Okay, So I have a couple of questions. One,
how long they've been married and have they done anything
to help with intimacy and their marriage? And also like
what is her mental load? Like what if she is
she she's working, she's also home taking care of the kids,
and then him making more money. Money is not going
(09:00):
to resolve and buy happiness.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Yeah, I don't know where the money kept coming up
because remember her dad said, leave her, you'll make more money.
He d bring more money if she maybe she'll be
happier if I make more money.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, money and money.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
But the talk he also mentioned that he made more
than she did as well, so the money kept coming back.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (09:22):
Well, if money is the issue, then I don't think
that's going to fix happiness and intimacy. Like he's just
saying oh when she wants to, So that's not going
to help the relationship. And the children can they can
feel that, they can feel that pressure, they can feel that.
I think if they need to as two adults become
together and figure out what they want to do with
(09:44):
the kids' housing, is it going to be beneficial we
stay together and how do we fix us? Because sometimes
I think in relationships when we have children, we lose
focus of each other, like we kind of moan or
grieve the actual relationship that we had prior to because
the main focus and priority becomes the children. I think
(10:05):
that's where they have to sit.
Speaker 8 (10:07):
I do.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
I'm like, I think about the times, so you know,
because I've had moments where I literally look at him
and I think back to what were we doing at
this time seven years ago when we first started dating,
talking about what dog park are we going to go to?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Let's go booze tonight. No, no care in the world.
It's just different.
Speaker 8 (10:24):
It is.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Your priorities have to have to shift, all right, Deniz.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
If Mike calls back with those details, obviously I'll put
him on so we can hear his answers. I'll list
got you, all right, Let's continue the check in six
one seven, nine, three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
That is six one seven, nine, three one one nine
for five. Calm me, bibes.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
We're talking about you, your life, your world, anything you want.
The check in only on Jamming.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Hi, everybody, good morning. It's Ashley in the jam In
the Morning Show. I don't know what's in the water today,
but this is wild, I'm all. He hung up.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
Oh damn guy said his leaving them and she cheated
with one of his coworkers.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
But he hung out.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
That sucks like pain.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Give me that sucks.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I'm just gonna say, if that happened to me, that
would be so painful.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Yeah, I mean, well, maybe this is him back. He's
probably not gonna want to talk though, because you're.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
Laughing at him.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Anonymous. Hi, Hi babe, Anonymous. I'm just gonna get R
a little background. And you're twenty three years old. Your
parents have been together for thirty plus years. That is
a long time. Thirty years. Yeah, okay, what's going on
with your parents?
Speaker 10 (11:36):
So about two weeks ago, my parents told my sister
and I, which were two years apart, so she's two
years younger than I am. They told us that things
have not been well between them for years at least
ten and they are now deciding to finally like separate.
(11:57):
And so what I was talking about was born.
Speaker 9 (12:00):
Before with that.
Speaker 10 (12:01):
That was never something that I would have thought would
have happened to my parents. They were able to like
talk about things with us, be there for us, do
everything for us.
Speaker 11 (12:10):
You know.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
I also feel like, you know, it's all you've ever known,
and you're in your starting to become like an adult.
You're not a baby anymore, and it's just all of
your memories are with them, you know, And so that's
gonna be such a massive change for you guys.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
Do we know what has happened?
Speaker 10 (12:29):
I don't. I guess that they had had conversations in
the past, but nothing was like very serious. But one
of them have just gotten to the point where they
just they just can't do it anymore. And that's where
I'm like thinking of it as a child perspective, I
guess you could say for that gentleman that called where
like I personally like now that I'm twenty three and
(12:52):
this is what I've known like half of my life,
I've didn't realize this was going on. It's kind of
mine And I feel like if my parents, if my
parents were able to co parents like back then and
like do the split, I wouldn't be questioning as much
as I am.
Speaker 12 (13:11):
Now.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Wow, that's deep.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
And if he's still listening, I think is really going
to speak volumes to him. Let me ask you, is
is one of them going to stay at your childhood
home or is everybody moving?
Speaker 3 (13:25):
What is that?
Speaker 10 (13:27):
So it's funny that you asked that, because that's kind
of up in the air thing at the moment. So
we're all still living together. It kind of feels like
we're playing pretend at the moment. But the one that
is leaving, he's looking for my dad, He's looking for someplace,
but it's not like officially like happening but either way,
(13:49):
like my mom can't support like having the home, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Right right?
Speaker 8 (13:53):
Right?
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Oh, babe, I'm sorry that that's a lot, but I
mean you hearing him Mike talk about that and then
feeling like you should call and tell him that it's
the right thing to do. Probably, Oh, he's on the line.
He actually called back. Let me go to him, Anonymous,
thank you for this. I can hear that you're crying,
and it makes me upset. I listen, my parents were divorced.
(14:15):
They did it when I was young too, so that
is all I've ever known, so I can see the
complete flip opposite. That's all you've ever known is them
being together. Yeah, all right, babe, Let's see what Mike
has to say.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Mike, everybody is like a lot of.
Speaker 4 (14:29):
The phone lines are calling in to comment on your situation.
You just heard Anonymous right there. Does that in any way,
shape or form push you to maybe want to sit
her down and say, like, listen, we should be co parenting.
Speaker 3 (14:41):
We're not happy.
Speaker 6 (14:42):
Now is the time to do it, all right, So
let me iron something out because I know one thing
that was said a lot was money. Now money is
probably ninety nine percent of our problems. COVID tore us up,
we got it to debt, et cetera. Tried going back
to school, try to make more money, didn't work out.
(15:04):
No money. Money buys you a place, money buys you
a better car, money buys you. I can stay home.
I don't need to go to work anymore. Money is
what will solve You know. They say money don't buy happiness,
but it share does you know what I'm saying. It
might create other problems, but it's going to create some
happiness in some sort, whether it be going to Target
(15:26):
and spending five hundred dollars each time to burn out
instead of the therapist because that's cheaper than therapy or
doing this. Money rules the world, and with one hundred
and sixty percent inflation over the past couple of years,
it's that's what brought us to the level we're at now.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Those finances are on the list of reasons that people
have problems. I don't think we're taking that away from you.
It just it was interesting that that was mentioned so
many times. Was kind of all we were acknowledging.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
Yeah, yeah, no, for sure, I mean the whole.
Speaker 6 (15:58):
Sitting down thing and you know, talking and doing that stuff.
We've done that and for some reason, you know, a
week goes by, two weeks goes by. We're just back
somewhat together. You know, we've broken up a million times,
but every time, you know, where is she going to go?
She you know, I'll give her child support, still not
going to be enough for her to live and do
(16:19):
what she needs to do.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
So what that does the.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
Economy makes people stuck together, as simple as it is,
all right.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Mike, Well, like I said, a lot of people were
calling in to kind of like weigh in on what
you're going through. But what I know to be true
is that there are other people in the same situation
as you, so you know, maybe you helped to make
them feel a little less alone. I think Anonymous calling
in and telling you about her parents is just a
whole different perspective where she's like, man, I wish that
(16:48):
my parents would have done this when we were younger.
So that was the life we know, because now she
only has memories with the two of them together and
that's kind of being ripped away from her.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
So it's just another perspective.
Speaker 6 (16:58):
No, I feel for her, you know what I mean,
It's not something that I didn't hold hold tight to
me because you know, after listening to what she said,
you know, she put a lot of emotion in it,
and she definitely cared with what she said, and you know,
I totally understand.
Speaker 5 (17:13):
You know, obviously people figure it out different ways.
Speaker 6 (17:16):
But I know when they go back and look at
pictures of mom and Dad's smiling, you know, when we're
all taking family photos and it's not separate photos, I know,
I think he's gonna appreciate that more that we were
still trying during that part. You know, we're not really
doing these things in front of the kids, you know,
where you know it's you know, like two thousand and
(17:37):
eight crisis where we're playing the Wii and dancing and
you know, swinging the nunchucks and mom and dad are
getting divorced in the kitchen. You know, you just don't
know things that are happening in the background. But the
love is still there, and you know, it's it's not
something that hasn't been filled, especially with the children, because
I know that they have nothing to do with what
you know, me and Mom are going through.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
All right, Man, will fight for love. Keep us posted.
We'll be wishing you nothing but the best rock on, baby,
keep rocking on forever.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
I don't get the WE reference at all, but well, yeah,
we were saying.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I think that that's clear.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
You know, the WE was big in two thousand and eight,
when then financial crisis happened with the housing.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
Okay, you say it's cheaper to keeper.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Oh wow, it's cheaper to keep her.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
Interesting Joe is in Lawrence, Joe, I had mentioned you earlier. Uh,
you're going through it too. What's what's what's happening Joe?
Speaker 8 (18:38):
Just a lot of bad stuff right now? Yeah, dreadful things.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Yeah, right now.
Speaker 11 (18:44):
Really, I'm going.
Speaker 8 (18:45):
Through a divorce right now, losing two kids. Got to
get everything situated right now. I'm trying my heart to
keep it together.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Yeah, what happened?
Speaker 8 (18:55):
Well, almost ten years ago I got with this woman.
I thought it was the love of my life. Turns
out she was going with two of my employees. So
there it goes that I'm down two guys and a
wife right now.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Joe, how'd you find out?
Speaker 8 (19:11):
Oh chick chat among the crew?
Speaker 4 (19:13):
Oh my god, with two different guys at two different times.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Right, this wasn't like a thing, right, Nah?
Speaker 8 (19:22):
I mean I don't know. I mean I just know
it was two different guys. I fired him. I'm in
a situation where I'm getting divorced right now. Yeah, hopefully,
hopefully I get to get the mouse, the car, every
ding she's taking.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Well, I mean, how old are the kids?
Speaker 8 (19:39):
Once two at once six months?
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Oh oh my god, Joe, she better not take those
little babies from you.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
That's psychotic, honestly.
Speaker 8 (19:47):
At this point, I love the kids, but I might
have to get a DNA test. I might have to
just to be safe on my end.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Do you think there's a chance, I don't.
Speaker 8 (19:59):
Know, I'm one of them skins a little darker.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Well, I feel sick to my stomach. I mean, there's
there's so.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Many things here, obviously, but the bottom line is you
guys are going to go through a nasty divorce.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
You can tell that.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
And you have little babies six months and a two
year old that's like around the age of the kids
that I have, And that's that's a lot in general.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Can I just say, how does she have the time?
Speaker 4 (20:25):
I don't feel like I have a single second to myself, like,
how is she what?
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Hell?
Speaker 8 (20:31):
Well, she's a stay at home mom and I usually
can do all the work and contain I do make
the money. She stays on home.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
With the kids.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
Got it, so she was she was having visitors.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
I'm so sorry, Joe, because, like you said, you're not
only losing your wife, but you're also losing, you know,
the guys that had worked for you.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Are you still living at the house with her?
Speaker 5 (20:49):
No? Never?
Speaker 12 (20:50):
Never?
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Okay, good are you?
Speaker 8 (20:52):
But you're seeing the kids always. I definitely keep in
touch with the kids. I love my babies. I say,
not wrong with them, guys, But at the end of
the day, I gotta I gotta get her out of here.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Yeah right.
Speaker 8 (21:04):
I knew something wasn't right when I seen all these
extra clothes and she was saying, no, she just bought
them just to have them for for coziness, for coziness.
There was you know, I almost I'm a small guy.
I'm seeing these extra large shirts hanging around my house.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
I feel Joe, she is that is just disrespectful to
the craziest degree.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
I'm so sorry, Joe.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
My eyes, she's the devil, Satan Satan.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Wow, Joe, I'm I'm hoping that she can, you know,
put all the things aside and you guys can figure
out custody of the kids, and that obviously is the
most important, but that is damn. I'm sorry, Joe, I
don't I don't have anything else to say. That's terrible.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
I'm living it. I'm living a nightmare.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
You are you are.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
Hopefully you'll come out on the other side a better
man without that in your life.
Speaker 8 (22:00):
Well, this is a learning lesson. I'm gonna put her
down the road and move on my life. I'm firing
those two guys and never being hired again. All right, Joe,
god speed, all right, thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
Thinking about you.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
I had a question, but he answered it in the moment.
The skin color, and I think that's a telltale sign,
like yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
He said he wants a DNA test because the one
kid is a little dark.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Dark at which the guy probably coming over was dark too.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
Like yeah, because she just had a baby six months ago,
and if he caught her cheating, that means she was
having it pain.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
And by the way, she's stupid.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
She she's leaving extra.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
Large T shirts around the house, are you And that's
why she said they were comfy clothes because they were gotted.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
So the guys were leaving their clothes and she was
pretending like they were her comfies.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
But then also with his employees. And that's the part
like you're so stupid.
Speaker 7 (22:55):
And she's taking the crib and come on, yeah, why
she mad? She's taken everything and you're the one who
cheated with my employees.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Depression.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Yeah, guys, the checking what can we quickly can yeah?
Foreign will line a really like? Cheer me up? Or
is it like? Is it a positive?
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Absolutely? I don't like it? No, do it?
Speaker 3 (23:14):
Okay, Dennis, you have a second to cheer me up.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
I feel like I'm being set up. What's the news
that you have for me?
Speaker 12 (23:20):
I work in Mashfield, so welcome to Mashfield.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
My god, my neighbor.
Speaker 12 (23:24):
Also, you know how we talked about the H word yesterday? Yeah,
you gave me the wrong number. I worked for CBS
in your rash cream is in to come down and.
Speaker 11 (23:35):
Pick it up? You know what?
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Thank you? I was I was worried about the rash
cream and I'm so I'm so funny.
Speaker 4 (23:43):
I'm gonna find out who Fun's going to that cruise
with right now.
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