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December 18, 2024 14 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dashy and the jam In Morning Show with DJ four
and it's saw Take Morning.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Cousin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 3 (00:11):
This literally comes up every year at this time. I
know that we have had this conversation before. I know
that I've talked about this in my social media before too,
And I also know that this is going to lend
to the theory of you two idiots about how I

(00:31):
am with like receiving gifts or things or just like
anything in general. My high school basketball teammate hit me
up last night and she go and I don't understand
why I can't just fake, like be normal and fake
it like everybody else. She goes, hey, what's your address?

(00:52):
I want to send you our Christmas card? Why can't
I just give the address and keep it moving.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Why can't you just give the address at the card
and throw it away? Facts? Right, because that's what most
people do.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
I don't even open them.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
She goes, hey, can I can I have your address?
It's Christmas card time. I said, Please don't worry about it.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
I'm fine. No, you did not, Please don't worry about it.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
I'm fine.

Speaker 4 (01:22):
I put it crying, laughing, emotions.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Okay, to soften it, she put lol, okay, and that's
all she wrote, and then we had like a mini
back and forth about something else.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
But she definitely felt the type of way, what is.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
It about the nice things that people want to do?

Speaker 4 (01:42):
Well, it's just okay.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
I've never been a fan of the Christmas cards. I
don't care that little Johnny graduated second grade, took swim
lessons and now wants to ride a horse like I.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Like my family. Some of them send newsletters, but I
don't care.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Most of them are literally a picture of the family
happy Holidays.

Speaker 5 (02:04):
They are blah blah yeah, which is because it's like,
what do you want me to do with your pictures?

Speaker 4 (02:09):
Put it in your fridge?

Speaker 1 (02:10):
No.

Speaker 5 (02:10):
No, I've walked into cribs where I'm like, oh, you
come a nice family, and they're like, oh no, that's
my friends Christmas card.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
I'm like, why do you have that on? Your cars
are lining up on the window sill. Now, there's probably
like seven up there. But what I don't know. Yes,
of other families in our circle, what.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
They do all they do is give the person you're
sending them to anxiety because they really just want to
put them in the trash can. But they feel bad
so they line them up on a window sill or
on a fridge, or they buy those stupid contraptions where
you stick them on that thing.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
It's stupid.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
What I do is I look at the pictures. I
judge them all. And that's another thing. I started looking like, oh,
that's a bad picture of all them.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
I take pictures around like I have we're doing pictures
on Monday of this week of next week. I take pictures.
I might post them on Instagram or put them for
my house. I'm not putting them like I'm not going
to shut or fly. I'm not doing it. But like
I know, listen, I don't understand why I'm like this.
I I in my head, why don't you just put martialled, like, why.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
Didn't you just put your address and keep it moving?
But I don't want her Christmas cards?

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Like sometimes it's like that with gifts too, like you
you you know somebody, like can I buy you this?

Speaker 4 (03:19):
I like nice things. I just buy them for myself.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
There you go.

Speaker 5 (03:22):
I was about to say, just give me the money
and I'll get it myself. One time, I'm kind of
like you, you know what I mean, I'm just kind
of like, because nobody really knows what you want, and
then you don't want to show this appoint well.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Listen at the end of the day. I think it's
also comes with age, Like I'm thirty eight now. If
in my head I'm like, oh damn, I really want
a purple sweatshirt, I'll have that thing Amazon by the afternoon,
Like I.

Speaker 4 (03:39):
Just buy it.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
I don't wait to be like, oh, I'll ask somebody
in six months for it for Christmas.

Speaker 4 (03:43):
That's the issue.

Speaker 5 (03:45):
Sending your family to another family is weird and I'm
putting on the window sills weird.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, we're talking about though, We're talking about somebody wanting
to do something really, you know, and she's like no.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
And I'm not that's the problem. I didn't. I was
just like, that's okay, what did I say?

Speaker 1 (04:03):
I'm sorry?

Speaker 4 (04:05):
Will still a hard blow?

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Hey?

Speaker 6 (04:08):
What her?

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Hey? What's your what's your address? Christmas card? Time meet?

Speaker 3 (04:12):
Do not worry about it. I'm fine, crying, laughing. Abouji
do you guys keep by the way, never gave the address?

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Do you keep the ones from like your family, the
fireman's family.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
I don't open them when I see that it's a
Christmas card. I put it right in the trash can.
So have I opened them before in time, yes, just
to like.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Take a peek.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
But I open them over the trash like it's not
even write in his family trash, my family trash, my friends,
even a higher level of trash.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
I don't want this. I will like it on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
Is there anything that you would take?

Speaker 5 (04:52):
Good question?

Speaker 3 (04:53):
Very good questions. So my aunt Roe God lost her soul.
She doesn't do it anymore because she's older. But for
Christmas time, instead of sending a Christmas cards, she would
make and sew candy wreaths and she would use your
favorite candy. So for mine, she would do like caramels
and Tootsie rolls and it would look like a legit
reef with a red bone in the middle, but it
was all candy. She did that instead of cards. Aunt

(05:14):
Rosa g that's iconic. Yeah, but that's that was her thing.

Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yeah, I mean I wasn't doing that.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
But I don't you guys think it's weird that now,
especially and that I have two kids. I'm like, I'm
standing on this hill like I'm not sending out Christmas
cards because I'm not.

Speaker 4 (05:31):
Spending the money for someone to literally put that thing
in the trash or on their windows.

Speaker 5 (05:35):
I think that's weird.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
Okay, I'm sorry, I disagree. Mean I don't like it,
but my wife does.

Speaker 4 (05:40):
How many family do you do you have a Christmas
card this year?

Speaker 1 (05:43):
Yes? I was just about to ask you us if
you got hours yet.

Speaker 4 (05:46):
And I don't think they got my address new one.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
Yes I do, because I have a mind and I
remember I use logic, like I heard you talk about it.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
Wait you sent me one.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
I think we're going to I don't know if the
back which by the way. Also, I'm not in love
with the picture that she picked because I think we
all look cold and miserable.

Speaker 4 (06:07):
Where is it?

Speaker 1 (06:07):
It's from Scotland and it's a nice picture, but if
you look at our faces, we don't look happy. But
you know what I mean. It's the thing that she
likes to do. I stop trying to like make them
fun and stuff, and that's her thing, and she likes it.
She claims that she likes seeing other people's families like
during the holidays. I'm like, all right, like I don't
I do.

Speaker 3 (06:26):
I would love to hear somebody who's a big Christmas
card advocate sell them to me.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Yeah, like I want to hear the cell because I don't.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
They aren't cheap too, That's that's not what I'm saying.
And then the judgment part comes into play because I
got a Chrismas card from a family that's missing half
the family. I'm like, it just gives me it's like uncomfortable.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
Yeah, and again to take a one step further, it's
it's the one the families.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
I have a couple that send out the newsletter.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
Like I don't want to know that Molly graduated the
seventh grade and she's on her way to Village Services High,
Like I don't care.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
I don't want to know that. I don't. I'm good,
Like you could just shoot me a text.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, you know what, there are people who send out
like tins of cookies that I didn't know that, and
I think it probably costs the same price if you
hire some company to do them all.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
But like yeah, six one seven nine three one one
nine four five. I realized My text back was I
could be better about this, but somebody sell me on
the actual Christmas card, Like I know half of you
listening have sent out your Christmas cards?

Speaker 4 (07:31):
What do we like? What are you a Christmas card advocate?

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Why six one seven, nine three one one nine four
five they decorate somewhere in my house.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
It's just the bottom of this rash. Everybody, Good morning.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
Sashon the jam of morning show, she's playing Christmas music
because you know what, it make sense.

Speaker 4 (07:47):
Let me just say, I realize that I could have
been a little nicer. And the response, no, I do.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
And you know what, she's listening, hi lo, And she said,
tell everybody I was happy to be able to save
my stamp. You know what.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
Emotion?

Speaker 3 (08:10):
Emotion If you're just tuning in again, I feel like
this comes up once a year during this time stepsenting
Christmas cards.

Speaker 4 (08:19):
Nobody wants them.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
What it does is it puts anxiety and pressure on
people to then feel like they have to decorate their
home with them.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
Put them out so people can see.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
Santi's wife's decorating her window sills with them. Other people
buy these contraptions.

Speaker 4 (08:34):
Have you seen those things?

Speaker 3 (08:36):
People buy things that you hang and then they stick
the cards in them so they hang down the wall.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
My not that used to do it. Stupid stupid six
one seven.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
Nine three one one nine four five. I'm looking for
a Christmas card advocate. I want somebody to sell me
on these things. Elena and Pelham. Elena, You're totally right.
Elena thinks I'm being cold. Yes, I know I'm giving
anti Christmas right now, which is not true, because I
love Christmas. I just think the cards are a waste

(09:09):
of time.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
You are insulting your family and friends who like Christmas
and they want to let you know that they're thinking.

Speaker 6 (09:20):
About you, they care about you.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
And Josh coming out and saying that PA don't open
them and throw them in the trash, yeah, or you
open them over the trash. No one's asking you to
put them on your windowsill. No one's asking you to
catch the contraption you don't like. It's so insulting and
Hurtfult and the woman that you didn't give you address.

(09:42):
It's like I got the impression that you want to
keep your address private.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
No you want no, Elena? Okay, Fine, I listen. I've
I've clearly upset you, and that's fine. I'm glad we're
doing this. I know she is my friend. Upset okay,
and she can have my address anytime. I just don't
want her Christmas card. I see her two sons every
day on Instagram and I like all of her posts
and we're so we're good there.

Speaker 4 (10:05):
I don't need to see them in their Santa hats.

Speaker 3 (10:07):
But what I'm saying is fine, you're saying I shouldn't
say it, But it's when you get your Christmas cards?

Speaker 4 (10:13):
How do you open them? Should like?

Speaker 3 (10:14):
Should I step away from the trash and then walk
up to the trash and throw them out because they're
going in the trash. So I'm just being honest with
everybody that that's how I do it. Where do you
Where do you display your Christmas cards?

Speaker 2 (10:29):
I don't display them. I open them. I might put
it on my desk at work for a day or two,
but then I recycle them. Oh you know.

Speaker 6 (10:40):
I just they like it. The people sending it, they
like it.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
They do they not like it, they like it.

Speaker 6 (10:46):
And just.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Some things that Beta left unsaid.

Speaker 6 (10:51):
And I think this was the thing.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
That was bet A left one Smash Thrust, Summer Smash Thrust.
It's all good, Elena, thank you for the all You're
right now. You know I did, Elena, I did say No.
I'm not mad either me and you me and you
were good. But I'm just saying you're right. I should
have been I could have been better with the No.
I'm just and so am I. If you send me

(11:13):
a Christmas card, I would open it over the trash.
But I think you're right about my response, like I
should have just sent the address and called it a day. Ye.

Speaker 4 (11:22):
Yeah, and I did say.

Speaker 2 (11:24):
The trash and trash and trash it by.

Speaker 4 (11:28):
Bye bye, Merry Christmas to the.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
Can I just point one thing out? Can I just
say one thing? If you keep it for a day,
then recycle it. It's throwing it away, right.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
What does she say? Recycling?

Speaker 1 (11:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (11:42):
I mean, listen, I'm recycling. I have the thing where
it has both but whatever. So she's basically saying she'll
put it out for one day on her desk and
then she throws it out.

Speaker 1 (11:50):
It's the same thing the time.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Madison is going to sell me on Christmas cards. Madison,
I'm waiting for it. Make it so I don't make
it so I don't want to throw them out.

Speaker 4 (12:07):
Please?

Speaker 1 (12:09):
All right?

Speaker 6 (12:09):
Well, I am an art teacher and a photographer, so
I guess I'm a little biased on the whole Christmas
card thing because I guess I'm taking the photos for him.
But what I do is I have a fox every
year that I put all the cards from every holiday,
like birthday, whatever, in.

Speaker 7 (12:28):
And then I look at them.

Speaker 6 (12:30):
And I know that sounds like a really nerdy thing
to do. But one of the things that's really.

Speaker 7 (12:33):
Cool was my brother in law passed away and I
was able to use like his love you and his
name can make gifts with it for his family from
the cards that he signed.

Speaker 4 (12:43):
All right, now you're talking about my heart strinths.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
Hey Devil's advocate here though, a lot of people just
are like, I'm not trying to throw shate it, shutterfly,
but I just think of them in my brain. A
lot of people's no one's writing on these like hands.
They're not handwritten. None of the Christmas cards that I
get there their computer. I don't know about you guys,
but I'm not seeing any handwritten signatures.

Speaker 7 (13:04):
All right, Okay, It's also nice to be able to
look back and here and be like, wow, these are
the people that were important in my life at that time.

Speaker 4 (13:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
No, Listen, there's obviously a ton of people in this world.

Speaker 4 (13:21):
We get I get a hundred of them, so I
know people love them.

Speaker 3 (13:24):
And you know what, Elena. Although though Elena was mad
saying it, she has a point. It's making these people
feel good to send the cards, so I should just
go ahead and let them, you know, no not Yeah,
but Madison was funny. I do the photo shoots. Like
my good friend Casey is coming to my house. She's
coming to my house on Monday to shoot some Christmas photos.

(13:46):
I just don't make the car, but I still do them.
I still love all the you. Yeah, Instagram is going
to eat those two, but you know, you know.

Speaker 1 (13:53):
But you're not sending them out. I'm not stupid to
send them out to people.

Speaker 6 (13:56):
What.

Speaker 5 (13:57):
I'm sorry, I don't agree with it. I think you
will call than I responded by agree with you. I
don't want your family my crib hanging on my fridge.

Speaker 4 (14:04):
I don't want that, Madison, thanks for the call. Yeah,
I just it is.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
It's a weird, strange tradition that people have.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
But I think you've learned it. You can just throw
them away. I don't have to tell them I don't
like a Christmas card.

Speaker 3 (14:18):
Here's the thing you want to start like, I'm being
just this, I'm telling my honest truth, because yeah, and
people aren't gonna like it, but that's the truth. That's
what we do in the show. We tell the truth.

Speaker 5 (14:28):
Smooled out the truth a little bit more so, I
shall need it. Was not necessary, No.

Speaker 4 (14:36):
Like that.

Speaker 1 (14:37):
I don't need it.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
No, I A.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
I'm good.

Speaker 4 (14:41):
Keep it, bitch,
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