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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sash and the jam In Morning Show with DJ four
and it's sat Morning Bustin's number one for.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I don't know how many.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Times we have to investigate today, but we will get
to the bottom of everyone's relationships. We had to get
to the bottom of a woman calling earlier who's dating
a man on a TV show, but he keeps her
in hiding.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
They hike and they go to places where they don't
see anybody.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
They fish.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
You can catch up on that via the podcast, but
in the meantime, we're gonna help Brittany too.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Hi, britt.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Hi, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Britt Thanks for calling us back. You had called last week.
You're going through it a little bit. We didn't have
the time. I wanted to give you more of it
and tell us about what's going on with your boyfriend.
You guys have been together how long?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Oh god, a while, like ten ten years on and off.
We have a four year old daughter.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Now though, Well are you married?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah, nope, that's another problem I have yea yeah, yeah,
all right.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
So walk me through why you called last week?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
All right, so I got my wisdom teeth out. Also,
I'm twenty eight. So I guess that age has to
do with it. It makes the healing process like a
little bit worse. You get dry pocket, all that, the
phone stronger, stuff like that. Right, So I got my
wisdom teeth out and that happened on Tuesday morning. You know,
my daughter's in daycare. So I was like, oh, I
(01:34):
asked him. I woke up back two o'clock because obviously
I swept it off and I woke up back two
o'clock and like, horrible pay And I asked him. I
was like, oh, can you go get our daughter? And
he was like, no, I have to get my other
daughter today. I was like, okay, cool, So that happened.
I was so mad. He grabbed me stuff from the store,
brought it home. He saw he was doing so much
by doing that. I was like, all right, cool. Next day.
(01:56):
Next day, on Wednesday, still in pain, obviously, he goes
he said, oh, I'm really tired. I'm going to pick
a nap. Will you let me sleep for an extra
hour and go grab our daughter. I was just so
mad and I just grabbed her and like left the house.
And then Thursday Friday, he finally grabbed her. He did
grab her, but then brought it right to me. So
it didn't right.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You didn't get a break, not with a four year
old though.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
No, no, not at all except for when she's in school,
which is good. But and then Saturday I was also,
I'm still in pain to today. So Saturday I brought
her to the zoo and I was like, I was like,
we were getting ready for the zoo that the paint
started coming on. And sorry when I take out though,
but the pain started coming on. And I was like,
why don't you take her to the zoo and then
bring her to your mom because we pay his mom
(02:40):
to watch her every weekend. And I was like, because
I usually work, I was like, why don't you bring
her to the zoo and then bring her to your moms?
And he was like, oh no, I'm tired. I was like,
oh my god, he's just had no help, Like, it's
just me one Saturday, It's just me.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I have many questions, one of which is I'm gonna
need you to cube it to yourself that you're paying
grandma to watch the kid, because I have my mom
watch my kids multiple times a week and she listens
to this show. So let's not let's not bring that
part up again. Honestly, this is definitely off putting it
(03:15):
to me. What I hear is he's not trying to
do anything to help you feel more comfortable, like at all.
Are you guys beyond this going into you having this
wisdom tee surgery. Were you guys in a good place
or are there other things happening because it seems like
you guys have bigger problems.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
The only thing I really feel is that he just
doesn't help me enough.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Have you brought this?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Oh yeah, oh yeah, I work and I still cook
for him. He's simple, so it's not like I cook
a lot. But you know, I work and I still
cook for him, and I still clean the house stuff
like that. Oh that was another thing too. On Sunday,
I'm still in pain.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
That was it.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
No, it was Saturday at night, actually Saturday night. I
put a thing on my book I posted on my
Instagram too to get people opinion, and he asked you
to cook for him on Saturday night too, and I
was I was still in pain, and I was like no,
and then he like kind of got a little bit mad.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
And I was like, maybe he thinks you're being dramatic
about the pain. Maybe he doesn't believe.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I don't know. Yeah, that's the only thing I'm thinking.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
I'm gonna tell you exactly what it is. This is
when you date guys who get soft parenting from their parents.
He's just he's just a lazy dude who probably his
mom took care of him and did everything for him
when he was a kid. So now he don't really
know how to step up and just be responsible, that's all.
And what you gotta do is just thought not doing
for him, and he'll have to step up and start
doing for himself.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
That's all this is.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
And just how much is his mother charging you?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Fuck? So that's another one too. I had another thing
that I wanted to bring to you guys too, but
we might not even have time. But it's actually kind
of about his mom. But I don't care that she
charged it, but she charged us like two hundred and
two fifty. She watched her Friday night, Saturday day time,
and then Sunday day time and sometimes yeah, yeah, yeah knows.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
What she's doing.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Delete this from the podcast, please.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
He doesn't Me and him both uh works well, he
doesn't really work that much, like he has a business,
but he doesn't he's not like, he doesn't need to
go into work, but I work at night.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
All right, how about this, let's let's reverse this. Tell
me three things you love about this man? Because I
have someone zero, so to give me three.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Yeah, not to shut up.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I don't need you to gass me in the back.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
To think about it.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Yeah, go ahead. Three things.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Mean damn I.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Wasn't expecting now. I mean that. I mean, okay, all right.
One thing, we get along really well. We get along
very well. We don't fight a lot.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
You can find that in friendship.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
That's a great thing.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Okay, can you give me one more?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Ese?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
I feel like I'm pulling teeth here.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You know he can he can have his moments, moments
where he's you know, like very sweet, Ma, this is
not this is come on.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
The truth shall set you afraid?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, I mean okay, but here's another thing. I'm afraid
to end.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Up like a J.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
She's mad.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I got my wisdom teeth out, and my a whole
of a boyfriend took care of me.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
About it, he says, I'm not very quiet.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Left on a serious note, though it's not a j. Really,
I'm so afraid to go out and start trying to date.
Speaker 6 (06:47):
You know, so you'd rather deal with this, Okay, So
then don't complain. Yeah, you can't go get your wisdom
teeth done, do whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Just know he's pay your two hundred a week, I
mean for grandma.
Speaker 6 (07:00):
Like that's you couldn't say one thing you loved about
the guy except he has his moments.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
That's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
No, he can be good. You know, we get along.
He doesn't tell me out a lot when I'm working.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
It's just watch this, watch this, watch this, Ashley, What
do you like about the fireman?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Well, first and foremost, he's the caretaker of our family
and I literally feel safe in his presidence.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Santi, How do you feel about your wife? Say that
she's amazing. The biggest supporter I have in my life
is my wife. You see how easy you guys? Rolls
off the tongue.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I can keep going.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
We can't sit there and be like, he has his moments.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Sometimes something's going on Britain. It's not good.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
What you gotta do, it's not good. Yeah, and you're
young too, you're twenty eight.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
You have so much life having I'm the thing twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
You said you've been with him for ten years. You've
been with this man since you were eighteen.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Like, yeah, we were on and yeah on an offense
eighteen he did, he did change and start doing a
lot better. It's just apparently when I'm sick, it's terrible,
and then a lot of it's one sided. So yeah,
all right, well I think I.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
Know what I need to do.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Okay, Well I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I honestly don't think you're gonna leave him, And that's okay,
that's obviously personal preference, but yeah, I mean it's it's
tough when you're asked to name three things about your
partner that you love and you started out with you know.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
I mean, if he's listening to this.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
That's tough.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Oh no, no, I won't show him this. No, he
only listens to the podcast when I listened to it,
So he's not going to.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Be that. Yeah, he will never take care of you
a day in your life. All right, Britt, Well, you know, good.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Luck, thank you?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Yeah, all right, bye bye. Dare I say I'd rather
be a.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Yo Nana's oh you're charging two hundred pers
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Seemed like a liar
Sash and the jam In Morning Show with DJ four
and it's sat Morning Bustin's number one for.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I don't know how many.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Times we have to investigate today, but we will get
to the bottom of everyone's relationships. We had to get
to the bottom of a woman calling earlier who's dating
a man on a TV show, but he keeps her
in hiding.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
They hike and they go to places where they don't
see anybody.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
They fish.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
You can catch up on that via the podcast, but
in the meantime, we're gonna help Brittany too.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Hi, britt.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Hi, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Britt Thanks for calling us back. You had called last week.
You're going through it a little bit. We didn't have
the time. I wanted to give you more of it
and tell us about what's going on with your boyfriend.
You guys have been together how long?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Oh god, a while, like ten ten years on and off.
We have a four year old daughter.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Now though, Well are you married?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah, nope, that's another problem I have yea yeah, yeah,
all right.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
So walk me through why you called last week?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
All right, so I got my wisdom teeth out. Also,
I'm twenty eight. So I guess that age has to
do with it. It makes the healing process like a
little bit worse. You get dry pocket, all that, the
phone stronger, stuff like that. Right, So I got my
wisdom teeth out and that happened on Tuesday morning. You know,
my daughter's in daycare. So I was like, oh, I
(01:34):
asked him. I woke up back two o'clock because obviously
I swept it off and I woke up back two
o'clock and like, horrible pay And I asked him. I
was like, oh, can you go get our daughter? And
he was like, no, I have to get my other
daughter today. I was like, okay, cool, So that happened.
I was so mad. He grabbed me stuff from the store,
brought it home. He saw he was doing so much
by doing that. I was like, all right, cool. Next day.
(01:56):
Next day, on Wednesday, still in pain, obviously, he goes
he said, oh, I'm really tired. I'm going to pick
a nap. Will you let me sleep for an extra
hour and go grab our daughter. I was just so
mad and I just grabbed her and like left the house.
And then Thursday Friday, he finally grabbed her. He did
grab her, but then brought it right to me. So
it didn't right.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You didn't get a break, not with a four year
old though.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
No, no, not at all except for when she's in school,
which is good. But and then Saturday I was also,
I'm still in pain to today. So Saturday I brought
her to the zoo and I was like, I was like,
we were getting ready for the zoo that the paint
started coming on. And sorry when I take out though,
but the pain started coming on. And I was like,
why don't you take her to the zoo and then
bring her to your mom because we pay his mom
(02:40):
to watch her every weekend. And I was like, because
I usually work, I was like, why don't you bring
her to the zoo and then bring her to your moms?
And he was like, oh no, I'm tired. I was like,
oh my god, he's just had no help, Like, it's
just me one Saturday, It's just me.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I have many questions, one of which is I'm gonna
need you to cube it to yourself that you're paying
grandma to watch the kid, because I have my mom
watch my kids multiple times a week and she listens
to this show. So let's not let's not bring that
part up again. Honestly, this is definitely off putting it
(03:15):
to me. What I hear is he's not trying to
do anything to help you feel more comfortable, like at all.
Are you guys beyond this going into you having this
wisdom tee surgery. Were you guys in a good place
or are there other things happening because it seems like
you guys have bigger problems.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
The only thing I really feel is that he just
doesn't help me enough.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Have you brought this?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Oh yeah, oh yeah, I work and I still cook
for him. He's simple, so it's not like I cook
a lot. But you know, I work and I still
cook for him, and I still clean the house stuff
like that. Oh that was another thing too. On Sunday,
I'm still in pain.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
That was it.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
No, it was Saturday at night, actually Saturday night. I
put a thing on my book I posted on my
Instagram too to get people opinion, and he asked you
to cook for him on Saturday night too, and I
was I was still in pain, and I was like no,
and then he like kind of got a little bit mad.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
And I was like, maybe he thinks you're being dramatic
about the pain. Maybe he doesn't believe.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I don't know. Yeah, that's the only thing I'm thinking.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
I'm gonna tell you exactly what it is. This is
when you date guys who get soft parenting from their parents.
He's just he's just a lazy dude who probably his
mom took care of him and did everything for him
when he was a kid. So now he don't really
know how to step up and just be responsible, that's all.
And what you gotta do is just thought not doing
for him, and he'll have to step up and start
doing for himself.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
That's all this is.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
And just how much is his mother charging you?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Fuck? So that's another one too. I had another thing
that I wanted to bring to you guys too, but
we might not even have time. But it's actually kind
of about his mom. But I don't care that she
charged it, but she charged us like two hundred and
two fifty. She watched her Friday night, Saturday day time,
and then Sunday day time and sometimes yeah, yeah, yeah knows.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
What she's doing.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Delete this from the podcast, please.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
He doesn't Me and him both uh works well, he
doesn't really work that much, like he has a business,
but he doesn't he's not like, he doesn't need to
go into work, but I work at night.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
All right, how about this, let's let's reverse this. Tell
me three things you love about this man? Because I
have someone zero, so to give me three.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Yeah, not to shut up.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I don't need you to gass me in the back.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
To think about it.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Yeah, go ahead. Three things.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Mean damn I.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Wasn't expecting now. I mean that. I mean, okay, all right.
One thing, we get along really well. We get along
very well. We don't fight a lot.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
You can find that in friendship.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
That's a great thing.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Okay, can you give me one more?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Ese?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
I feel like I'm pulling teeth here.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You know he can he can have his moments, moments
where he's you know, like very sweet, Ma, this is
not this is come on.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
The truth shall set you afraid?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, I mean okay, but here's another thing. I'm afraid
to end.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Up like a J.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
She's mad.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I got my wisdom teeth out, and my a whole
of a boyfriend took care of me.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
About it, he says, I'm not very quiet.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Left on a serious note, though it's not a j. Really,
I'm so afraid to go out and start trying to date.
Speaker 6 (06:47):
You know, so you'd rather deal with this, Okay, So
then don't complain. Yeah, you can't go get your wisdom
teeth done, do whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Just know he's pay your two hundred a week, I
mean for grandma.
Speaker 6 (07:00):
Like that's you couldn't say one thing you loved about
the guy except he has his moments.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
That's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
No, he can be good. You know, we get along.
He doesn't tell me out a lot when I'm working.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
It's just watch this, watch this, watch this, Ashley, What
do you like about the fireman?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Well, first and foremost, he's the caretaker of our family
and I literally feel safe in his presidence.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Santi, How do you feel about your wife? Say that
she's amazing. The biggest supporter I have in my life
is my wife. You see how easy you guys? Rolls
off the tongue.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I can keep going.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
We can't sit there and be like, he has his moments.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Sometimes something's going on Britain. It's not good.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
What you gotta do, it's not good. Yeah, and you're
young too, you're twenty eight.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
You have so much life having I'm the thing twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
You said you've been with him for ten years. You've
been with this man since you were eighteen.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Like, yeah, we were on and yeah on an offense
eighteen he did, he did change and start doing a
lot better. It's just apparently when I'm sick, it's terrible,
and then a lot of it's one sided. So yeah,
all right, well I think I.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
Know what I need to do.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Okay, Well I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I honestly don't think you're gonna leave him, And that's okay,
that's obviously personal preference, but yeah, I mean it's it's
tough when you're asked to name three things about your
partner that you love and you started out with you know.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
I mean, if he's listening to this.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
That's tough.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Oh no, no, I won't show him this. No, he
only listens to the podcast when I listened to it,
So he's not going to.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Be that. Yeah, he will never take care of you
a day in your life. All right, Britt, Well, you know, good.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Luck, thank you?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Yeah, all right, bye bye. Dare I say I'd rather
be a.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Yo Nana's oh you're charging two hundred pers
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Seemed like a liar
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