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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Daddy Morning Show with d J four and it's saw
Taking Morning. Sustin's number one for hip.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hop jam in ninety four or five. Hi, everybody, the
amount of there's just a lot of the kettle overflow
with today.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I got this GM.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Listen to this. They want to stay anonymous? Ashley, What
do I do? I found a girl's number in my
longtime boyfriend's phone. I confronted him. He says he only
got it because he was drunk. But then I checked
(00:40):
again and he's been messaging her after I confronted him.
What should I do? Please keep me anonymous?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, Like, what are the messages? I mean, I don't know, Like,
like's not assume the worst. What are the messages?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
You can't be friends like that, right if you're messaging
a girl that you got drunk with.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I mean I wrote her and said we're going to
talk about this right now. What are the messages?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
But if he's getting like the number thing, I can, okay,
find you shred fine, but you keep messaging the person.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
First off, if you're that thirsty and you're that pressed
to still Texas woman change her into your phone?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Is uncle Joe?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Like you did even say that? I got the number
when I was drunk, just be like, oh, it's somebody
I met. Is he not allowed to have female friends?
He kind of played that stupid.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
He really does. He really shouldn't have said that. But
here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
To me, it's associated like he's obviously doing something wrong,
and it's like he's lying, and that would be enough
for me to be like, I'm out.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
This is not really yeah, hold on, so hold on.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
So Hobby comes home, you find a phone, you find
a phone number in his phone, and he's like, yo,
the other day, me and the boys went out, I
got drunk, I got to show his number.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I'm cool. Then now we don't know what the text
is saying.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
But then I say to you, okay, that me feel weird,
like I don't like this girl's number. I don't want
it in your phone. And then the.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Next day you see messages. We don't know what the message,
We don't know what the messages are, but we see
you see messages, and you see that they communicating. Right then,
think of.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Messages that wouldn't be like maybe he says hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Oh maybe she says hey, good morning, and.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
He says good morning. Back then what are you doing pleasantries.
It's just her boyfriend. It's not a husk.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
But I know, but to for in point, I don't
think you break up like over that, but there's a
lot of conversations because something's wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
That's a quick exit unless you unless you.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
See, I'm uncomfortable that you have this phone number in
your phone. Oh I just got that girls.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Then you're texting her the very next day. You're toxic,
do something wrong. You don't know how to lie. You
can't buy it.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Number one, number two, you like you violated.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Number three a good thing. But we throw the relationship
away meeting.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I think you expect a lot more or something like
something's up and you need to get to the bottom
of what's happening.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
That's why, See, we can't act like he's not doing something.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
We agree with you, So we hooked up with her.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Let's call we see what women do know. I don't
know the hotel number. We can't just jump to that
they had sex already. That's that's that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
But the four point, are you leaving the fire man?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, okay, irregardless, he doesn't love his girl enough.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Doesn't respect enough. I am agreeing with I am with
you one hundred percent. No, no, no, we're not packing
the kids in the bags and we're leaving the fire.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
You're putting me in the cnere.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
This is this girl.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
With this boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (03:50):
Bro.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
She doesn't even allow one not even one strike. I
even think you're about to hit the ball.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
And more like, we're not talking about me on this scenario.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I don't have kids. He's a boyfriend. I tell him,
you're making me uncomfortable. Who is this girl?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I don't like this?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
And the next day he's texting Jenny talking about good morning.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
You're not wrong. But nothing physical happened yet that we know.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
She responding to my messages, because she sent me this
message yesterday at nine thirty in the morning, and I'm
writing her now and she's not She's not but say
going up in the messages, I do think there could
be a kid.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Oh really?
Speaker 4 (04:30):
And and you know what, she never did tell you
what I mean, if she's dming you about the situation,
she never did tell you that, Oh you know they're
talking about. I don't think there's anything that bad in
the text that she would have said it. She would
have been like, And now I'm finding out that they
met up at a hotel.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
They did. You know what I'm saying, it doesn't sound
like they would really like going her.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Thing is like I confronted him, I said, I don't
like this, this makes me uncomfortable for him. The very
next day, he's he's.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Something with that girl. With that girl. Yeah, something's going on,
leaving the guy. Not yet, not yet.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I'm like, I'm Zach Bryant's stude posting it on Instagram
and I'm on riot.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, because this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm begging you to stop talking and you you can't
even as much as respect me enough to do it
by my back and change your name on your phone.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
You're a loser.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
So your breaking point is way before the fact that
you got confirmation that they're cheating. Like your breaking point
is like, hey, he disrespected you.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
My breaking point is like I sat you down, I
had like the balls to like communicate this with you
that it's hurting my feelings and I don't like it.
And then the very next day you're texting her like
you don't care about how I feel.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
And the other part about this too. Clearly this girl
that he's talking to, there's something about.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Her that I love.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
How you two have like left reality and gone to
the lamb maker, But you don't think this man is
doing something in this girl.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Confirmation here everything is wrong. Yes, I'm agreeing with you,
but we don't even know what happened. Like we just
don't leave the dude immediate, like you're waking up in
the morning and saying, you know what, you're not my
boyfriend no more.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I already asked you, I don't know what happened.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
It takes I'm out with putting them in the Sickrett
Society Facebook page.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Wait, which land do you want to go to? Are
you going to reality? Are you going to land and
make believe with these two? Six one, seven nine three?
What do you guys want me to write back to
this girl? Because I'm her to lead.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I mean, I am, I'm I'm shocked, shocked at where
we're at on this that we're we're at such a divide.
I got a message from a girl yesterday. She said,
I'm mad I just saw this because I wish I
wrote her back yesterday. Maybe I could have got her on,
But yesterday she said, what should you do if you
found a girl's number in your longtime boyfriend's phone? You
(06:42):
confront him, he says he's only got it because he
was drunk, but then still messages her after you've confronted him,
Please keep my name anonymous. What he's clearly talking to
other girls, and he's clearly going out to bars and
trying to talk to other girls.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
If you met a male friend and you were talking
to the fireman's and I want your stop talking to him,
and you kept on talking to him, like, what would like,
how would you have that? What you would stop? Once
he says, don't talk to him?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
You wouldn't if okay, because here, because this is why
this I'm saying, this is the way that I am.
I wouldn't communicate that to him if I didn't feel
a type of ways he I'm sure has girl. I
know he has friends that are girls. He knows I
have guys that are friends. If he came to me
and said, hey, you talking to this guy like hurts me,
it makes me uncomfortable, I would stop. That's my best friend, Like,
(07:29):
I'm not playing these games. I don't want to hurt
I don't want to hurt him. Now. I would probably
defend myself and be like, don't worry about little Joey,
but I wouldn't go out of my way to do
that unless I really felt hurt by it. So her
doing that and then he didn't even give it forty
eight hours.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
I hate that.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
It's the crazy violation for show. But this is a
longtime boyfriend. We don't have confirmation that they even did anything.
He could have slipped up one time, like nobody's allowed
to even be a little.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Slip up, Anonymous, can you please tell them? I'd like
they're trying, They're trying to push me into crazy land
and this.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
Is Yeah, no, I agree with you. I have been
on the other side of that, so I would say
to leave him.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Also, which side were you on? Were you the girl
that he was texting?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
Yeah, recently I met somebody and I wasn't even out
of bars, just like random at work, and I was like, oh,
this is cool. I knew we had a kid, but
like he told me they were separated and everything, and
then I found out that they are together and they
have been together for like seven years. And he continued
(08:39):
to like send me text messages and like make me
believe that she was crazy and like she was gonna
ruin my life. And I have a child in my
own so like it was a it's a big it's
not a mess anymore because I took myself out. But yeah,
I would leave him.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Thank god you got out of that. My gosh, that's thing.
Most of these guys that do stuff like this, and
females do it too. Let me just say that they're
like master manipulators. They know what they're doing.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Wow, Anonymous, thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I'm glad.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I'm glad you and I are saying.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Like you put the bullet in the gun, but you
don't pull the trigger yet yet.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yeah, you get ready to Yeah, you're just what's going
on again? Longtime boyfriend? She clearly goes through her boyfriend's
phone all the time. This is the first time she's
seen a female's number.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Relax, if you listen to the show often, you'll talk
about if you listen to the show off and you'll
know what I mean when I say I pray Joe
Wanne goes to Colorado and goes on that dinner date,
and you know what, I hope, She says, he's just
a friend. I met him drunk and so I stored
his number
Daddy Morning Show with d J four and it's saw
Taking Morning. Sustin's number one for hip.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hop jam in ninety four or five. Hi, everybody, the
amount of there's just a lot of the kettle overflow
with today.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I got this GM.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Listen to this. They want to stay anonymous? Ashley, What
do I do? I found a girl's number in my
longtime boyfriend's phone. I confronted him. He says he only
got it because he was drunk. But then I checked
(00:40):
again and he's been messaging her after I confronted him.
What should I do? Please keep me anonymous?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, Like, what are the messages? I mean, I don't know, Like,
like's not assume the worst. What are the messages?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
You can't be friends like that, right if you're messaging
a girl that you got drunk with.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I mean I wrote her and said we're going to
talk about this right now. What are the messages?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
But if he's getting like the number thing, I can, okay,
find you shred fine, but you keep messaging the person.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
First off, if you're that thirsty and you're that pressed
to still Texas woman change her into your phone?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Is uncle Joe?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Like you did even say that? I got the number
when I was drunk, just be like, oh, it's somebody
I met. Is he not allowed to have female friends?
He kind of played that stupid.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
He really does. He really shouldn't have said that. But
here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
To me, it's associated like he's obviously doing something wrong,
and it's like he's lying, and that would be enough
for me to be like, I'm out.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
This is not really yeah, hold on, so hold on.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
So Hobby comes home, you find a phone, you find
a phone number in his phone, and he's like, yo,
the other day, me and the boys went out, I
got drunk, I got to show his number.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I'm cool. Then now we don't know what the text
is saying.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
But then I say to you, okay, that me feel weird,
like I don't like this girl's number. I don't want
it in your phone. And then the.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Next day you see messages. We don't know what the message,
We don't know what the messages are, but we see
you see messages, and you see that they communicating. Right then,
think of.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Messages that wouldn't be like maybe he says hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Oh maybe she says hey, good morning, and.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
He says good morning. Back then what are you doing pleasantries.
It's just her boyfriend. It's not a husk.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
But I know, but to for in point, I don't
think you break up like over that, but there's a
lot of conversations because something's wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
That's a quick exit unless you unless you.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
See, I'm uncomfortable that you have this phone number in
your phone. Oh I just got that girls.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Then you're texting her the very next day. You're toxic,
do something wrong. You don't know how to lie. You
can't buy it.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Number one, number two, you like you violated.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Number three a good thing. But we throw the relationship
away meeting.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I think you expect a lot more or something like
something's up and you need to get to the bottom
of what's happening.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
That's why, See, we can't act like he's not doing something.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
We agree with you, So we hooked up with her.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Let's call we see what women do know. I don't
know the hotel number. We can't just jump to that
they had sex already. That's that's that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
But the four point, are you leaving the fire man?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, okay, irregardless, he doesn't love his girl enough.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Doesn't respect enough. I am agreeing with I am with
you one hundred percent. No, no, no, we're not packing
the kids in the bags and we're leaving the fire.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
You're putting me in the cnere.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
This is this girl.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
With this boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (03:50):
Bro.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
She doesn't even allow one not even one strike. I
even think you're about to hit the ball.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
And more like, we're not talking about me on this scenario.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I don't have kids. He's a boyfriend. I tell him,
you're making me uncomfortable. Who is this girl?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I don't like this?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
And the next day he's texting Jenny talking about good morning.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
You're not wrong. But nothing physical happened yet that we know.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
She responding to my messages, because she sent me this
message yesterday at nine thirty in the morning, and I'm
writing her now and she's not She's not but say
going up in the messages, I do think there could
be a kid.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Oh really?
Speaker 4 (04:30):
And and you know what, she never did tell you
what I mean, if she's dming you about the situation,
she never did tell you that, Oh you know they're
talking about. I don't think there's anything that bad in
the text that she would have said it. She would
have been like, And now I'm finding out that they
met up at a hotel.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
They did. You know what I'm saying, it doesn't sound
like they would really like going her.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Thing is like I confronted him, I said, I don't
like this, this makes me uncomfortable for him. The very
next day, he's he's.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Something with that girl. With that girl. Yeah, something's going on,
leaving the guy. Not yet, not yet.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I'm like, I'm Zach Bryant's stude posting it on Instagram
and I'm on riot.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, because this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm begging you to stop talking and you you can't
even as much as respect me enough to do it
by my back and change your name on your phone.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
You're a loser.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
So your breaking point is way before the fact that
you got confirmation that they're cheating. Like your breaking point
is like, hey, he disrespected you.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
My breaking point is like I sat you down, I
had like the balls to like communicate this with you
that it's hurting my feelings and I don't like it.
And then the very next day you're texting her like
you don't care about how I feel.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
And the other part about this too. Clearly this girl
that he's talking to, there's something about.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Her that I love.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
How you two have like left reality and gone to
the lamb maker, But you don't think this man is
doing something in this girl.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Confirmation here everything is wrong. Yes, I'm agreeing with you,
but we don't even know what happened. Like we just
don't leave the dude immediate, like you're waking up in
the morning and saying, you know what, you're not my
boyfriend no more.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I already asked you, I don't know what happened.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
It takes I'm out with putting them in the Sickrett
Society Facebook page.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Wait, which land do you want to go to? Are
you going to reality? Are you going to land and
make believe with these two? Six one, seven nine three?
What do you guys want me to write back to
this girl? Because I'm her to lead.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I mean, I am, I'm I'm shocked, shocked at where
we're at on this that we're we're at such a divide.
I got a message from a girl yesterday. She said,
I'm mad I just saw this because I wish I
wrote her back yesterday. Maybe I could have got her on,
But yesterday she said, what should you do if you
found a girl's number in your longtime boyfriend's phone? You
(06:42):
confront him, he says he's only got it because he
was drunk, but then still messages her after you've confronted him,
Please keep my name anonymous. What he's clearly talking to
other girls, and he's clearly going out to bars and
trying to talk to other girls.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
If you met a male friend and you were talking
to the fireman's and I want your stop talking to him,
and you kept on talking to him, like, what would like,
how would you have that? What you would stop? Once
he says, don't talk to him?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
You wouldn't if okay, because here, because this is why
this I'm saying, this is the way that I am.
I wouldn't communicate that to him if I didn't feel
a type of ways he I'm sure has girl. I
know he has friends that are girls. He knows I
have guys that are friends. If he came to me
and said, hey, you talking to this guy like hurts me,
it makes me uncomfortable, I would stop. That's my best friend, Like,
(07:29):
I'm not playing these games. I don't want to hurt
I don't want to hurt him. Now. I would probably
defend myself and be like, don't worry about little Joey,
but I wouldn't go out of my way to do
that unless I really felt hurt by it. So her
doing that and then he didn't even give it forty
eight hours.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
I hate that.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
It's the crazy violation for show. But this is a
longtime boyfriend. We don't have confirmation that they even did anything.
He could have slipped up one time, like nobody's allowed
to even be a little.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Slip up, Anonymous, can you please tell them? I'd like
they're trying, They're trying to push me into crazy land
and this.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
Is Yeah, no, I agree with you. I have been
on the other side of that, so I would say
to leave him.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Also, which side were you on? Were you the girl
that he was texting?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
Yeah, recently I met somebody and I wasn't even out
of bars, just like random at work, and I was like, oh,
this is cool. I knew we had a kid, but
like he told me they were separated and everything, and
then I found out that they are together and they
have been together for like seven years. And he continued
(08:39):
to like send me text messages and like make me
believe that she was crazy and like she was gonna
ruin my life. And I have a child in my
own so like it was a it's a big it's
not a mess anymore because I took myself out. But yeah,
I would leave him.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Thank god you got out of that. My gosh, that's thing.
Most of these guys that do stuff like this, and
females do it too. Let me just say that they're
like master manipulators. They know what they're doing.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Wow, Anonymous, thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I'm glad.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I'm glad you and I are saying.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Like you put the bullet in the gun, but you
don't pull the trigger yet yet.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yeah, you get ready to Yeah, you're just what's going
on again? Longtime boyfriend? She clearly goes through her boyfriend's
phone all the time. This is the first time she's
seen a female's number.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Relax, if you listen to the show often, you'll talk
about if you listen to the show off and you'll
know what I mean when I say I pray Joe
Wanne goes to Colorado and goes on that dinner date,
and you know what, I hope, She says, he's just
a friend. I met him drunk and so I stored
his number
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