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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dashi and the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's saw T Morning Bustin's number one for
hip hop jamming ninety four five.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
All right, everybody, we're checking in on you, your life,
whatever's going on with you. You call us and we're
talking about you. Honestly, my one of my favorite subjects.
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
That is six one seven nine three one one nine
four five calls and say what up? We're gonna kick
the check in off with Sammy and Boston. A first
(00:32):
time caller. You love to see it.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Hi Sammy, Hey Tammy?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Why why does he continue to set me up?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Tammy? I'm sorry, I'm looking at Sammy, but Hi Tammy.
Oh what's up?
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (00:49):
Nothing?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
I'm actually it's really weird because I'm like I always
used to call, like back when I was younger, and
it's like I finally got through and it's like, oh shoot.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Oh yeah, you'ren You are through and foreign tells me,
although he didn't know your name, he tells me that
you're on your way to do a little morning run.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
What are you? What are you training for or is
this just every day work?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
I just drive to go get my coffee and then
I got work later.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Now I took that as this she was going on
and draw like, but you're you're you're just doing your
morning rounds, like getting coffee, going to work, things of.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
That nature, right, got it?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, listen, what's a fun fact about Tammy? Tell everybody
something that they wouldn't They wouldn't know.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Timmy, I'm a fun person in general. I just like
to go to work. I work at Duncan, so I'm
a bubbly person.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
And I see now we're talking. Let's dig in here.
Where's your what? What Duncan location are you at?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I'm all okay?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
And last question, the most popular item, the most ordered
item on the Duncan menu.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
I always wondered this.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Unfortunately they discontinued it, but it was recently the dunk
and latte.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Daughter, what's in the dunk and latte?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
It's coffee, milk and an expresso shot, and then you
could put whatever flavor you like.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Your kids drink that drink.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
They dressed the ice one, not the well I didn't
know that that was it like in it, but yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
The kids. Oh, I thought you said the most like
the most popular.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
No, I did, but Santi just told me he lets
his like twelve year old drink that I get the
ice one.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh yeah, I'm not giving my kids expresso. That would
be scary. I got enough they got they do. What
the hell's wrong with all?
Speaker 7 (02:38):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Tammy?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Well, thank you and hopefully I get my plastic bucket
up with anybody from Dunkin Corporates listening.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
For the love of God, Thanks for the call. What's
wrong with you?
Speaker 8 (02:48):
Parent? How I want to if you disagree the call?
CPS coffee? Yeah, I knew it was coffee. I didn't
know that it had all that other stuff. And if
that seems fine. They're doing well in school, like.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
What they get good grades? H ROBERTA, good morning?
Speaker 9 (03:07):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Hi? Is your name Roberta? Probably not?
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Okay, yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:11):
It is cool?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Cool, cool because you know he's before and always sets
me up. So what what what's going on right now?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I hear you a little sad?
Speaker 9 (03:20):
Yeah, so my boyfriend just left for Camp La June
this morning. He's in the Marine Corps and he just
came out for ten days and then he left again.
So I was see if you guys at any advices
for like long distance or relationship advice. Or anything like that.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
How long is he going to be in training this
this round?
Speaker 9 (03:44):
So basically he's in that training for a month, no contact,
like absolutely, like no letters, nothing like that. And then
after this month he goes to Pensacola for almost a
whole year, so It'll be like phone calls here and there,
(04:05):
but I won't like physically see him for like a
long time.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Yeah, that's tough. How old are you, guys?
Speaker 9 (04:11):
We are eighteen babies? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Yeah, Well, first off, let me just say I myself
am married to a marine, so I love the Marines.
You made a good choice. But listen, I mean that's
not easy. That's not especially with the whole month of
not even being able to hear from him.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
That's going to be tough.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
But I think you know this is I'm sure you
knew that this is something that he wanted to.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Do, and you just got to let the man. Let
the man follow his dreams exactly.
Speaker 9 (04:40):
I'm in college right now. I'm literally on my way
to school right now, so I want to like focus
on that while he's doing his own thing.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
That's smart.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah, And if you really think about it, yes, I
guess you could use the verbiage that he's doing his
own thing, but kind of he's like giving up all
of his things to serve.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
The country, So he's a pretty selfless man. I'd say, yeah, yeah, yeah,
a keeper. But you're only eighteen, so you might meet
someone in college, like I don't know.
Speaker 8 (05:04):
Yeah, stay away from the Jody's though, that's what you
don't want.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Yeah, that's very true, all right, babe.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Well okay, keep your head up, just concentrate on school.
Speaker 9 (05:14):
Yay, all right, perfect, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
All right, and you're gonna explain to everybody, so a
Jody correct me if I'm wrong. It's when you're often
deployed and then Jody comes over and has sex with
your wife and yeah right yeah, and like I know, Joy,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I actually don't know why either, but yeah, so he's
not a good thing.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
It's not a good thing to my best friend's day.
Speaker 8 (05:35):
Yeah, but usually it's a guy. Yeah yeah yeah, and
they call him Jody.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Yeah yeah, that's so strange.
Speaker 8 (05:42):
That hurts my soul just thinking about it.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I know, I know, I know. And she's only eighteen,
so it's like, you know, well.
Speaker 8 (05:48):
I told her stay away from the Jodey's.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Smart all right, Let's continue to check it. If you're
on hold, don't go anywhere. Six one seven nine three
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one one nine four five.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Everybody, Good morning. It's actually in.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
The gym in the morning, so we're checking in on you,
your life, your world.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
How are we?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
What's going on? Lanira is in Boston, Lania, good morning.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
Good morning. How are you?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
I'm good? How are you? What's up?
Speaker 7 (06:14):
I'm great. I wanted to call it because how about
a year ago I called you and I said I
was talking to you guys from UPS Empedix and you
told me to speak to UPS and I had told
you I ma relation say sorry, and I spiked to
UPS and we've been together for a year now, and
(06:35):
what's pregnant?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Trying to tell you?
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Louie?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Youps baby? Wow, look at you.
Speaker 8 (06:45):
I know.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
I was like, actually it was right. I'm so glad.
That's a good advice.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Oh my well, I'm happy for you. I didn't know
where that was going. But that's amazing.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
How far along are you?
Speaker 7 (06:57):
I'm eighteen weeks almost faded.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Munch Oh, that is just so exciting. Are you going
to find out we're girl?
Speaker 7 (07:04):
We already did. We had a gender reveal last week
and it's a boy.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
It's a lot girl. Oh my god, this is so excited.
I love a little upsp.
Speaker 7 (07:13):
You have three girls, so he's very happy. I'm very happy.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
We're happy.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Actually, you know when somebody's talking and you can tell
they're smiling, and they're talking through their smile.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
I feel that from you, Laniara.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You're you are just you're in a great place, babe,
and that's so very exciting.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Just tell him I did that. Make sure he knows.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I actually told him. I didn't give him the whole
background in terms of you're the ones, but.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
You didn't tell him that FedEx was also an option.
Smart lady, Smart lady, Wait and listen.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
We all love a man in uniform, especially the tan one. Yes, yes,
all right, bebe congrats.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Well, thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
You're very welcome.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
We love you too. That was a roll of the
dice there. I must have been at that time. I
must have been having like good deliveries with ups.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I was like a UPS guy in my town. I
saw heny other day. Both my wife and I were like,
oh my god, that's a good looking guy. He must
get a lot of attention. Wow, yeah, like great shape,
maybe thirty. Like I even was like taking like taking
him back by him. I was like, you canna come
over again?
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Yeah, You're gonna be ordering more now, aren't you. Elena
is in Worcester.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Hi, Elena.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
So we have a special birthday shout out.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
Yeah left.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Two years here we go to two yours. Happy birthday, babe?
Is it today?
Speaker 6 (08:42):
It is today?
Speaker 10 (08:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:43):
How old are we turning?
Speaker 9 (08:45):
Thirty two?
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Thirty two years young? What are what are you going
to do? What's the big celebration.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
I'm actually right now, I'm on my way to work,
but I'm celebrating this weekend.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Okay, what what are we going to do? The plans?
Speaker 5 (08:58):
I'm gonna go out to you some friends and just
gonna carry.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Your Oh okay, low.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Key you a cake person, Yes I am.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Some call it pulling teeth.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
All right.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
We have the best birthday ever. All right, Happy birthday?
Speaker 7 (09:20):
Thank you. Bye.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Steph is in the Cape, Hie Steph.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Oh man. I hate reading this, I hate seeing it.
But you're you're you're in a little bit of fear
right now that you may have been ghosted. Why do
you say that?
Speaker 5 (09:37):
I mean even if I have been ghosted, I don't care.
I am going to be thirty eight years old tomorrow.
I've been dating for long enough. I'm not even freaking surprise.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Okay, so specifically you're worried that No, you're worried.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Not worried.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
You're good because you're thirty eight tomorrow and you're fine.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
But you you guys had sexuals and after the sexuals
he poof cas he's gone.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Yeah, I haven't heard from Adam.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
I saw him on Sunday and everything was great. And
I expressed to him that day about communication. So it's
not like I didn't tell him it's important to me.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Was everything great? Like even that aspect, like you know,
was everything good?
Speaker 6 (10:22):
Yeah? I mean I didn't think it was.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
I thought he was the one.
Speaker 6 (10:25):
That initiated me.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Like he's just the one, like wow, like I really
like you. He came down to see me, jove to me,
came down to see me like three times in one week,
and he asked me do you want to He's like.
Speaker 6 (10:37):
Do you want to date?
Speaker 5 (10:39):
He's like, I want to date you. He's like, I'm not.
He was very honest because, like I told two other
women that I was talking to I don't want to
talk to him anymore. I only want to talk to you.
He's like, do you want to think about it? And
I respected the fact that he said think about it,
because you know, yeah, I just started talking and dating.
But it's like, I don't know. And then we sleep
together and stuff and we had a great time. And
(11:01):
here we are and it's over twenty four hours later
and you haven't even.
Speaker 6 (11:05):
Reached out to me once.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
And I was held back. I wanted to talk to
him all day yesterday and say, hello, how are you
just small talk? I know he's busy, he works, blah
blah blah, okay, but I was like, no, I'm going
to hold back.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
I'm going to hold back and I'm.
Speaker 5 (11:18):
Going to see if he reaches out to me and
actually is thinking about me, because I'm not going to
always initiate conversation. I think it needs to be reciprocated.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
You guys want to weigh in from a guy's perspective.
Speaker 9 (11:29):
Here.
Speaker 8 (11:29):
I thought you were going to say longer than just
a day, a little short.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
For having sex, and then I hear it feels weird,
it's vulnerable, and you know.
Speaker 10 (11:40):
Yeah, he didn't talk to you but maybe we give
him a couple of more days and see what, or.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
We stopped playing these games and text him high you're
thirty eight.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Yeah, like you're you know, I don't want to I
don't want to play games. I'm not trying to play games.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
But you are some time you're playing a game? And
why text him and be like, Hey, what's up? How
was your day yesterday?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
And maybe he's like it was terrible, something happened something.
Speaker 6 (12:05):
I'm always the one texting first.
Speaker 10 (12:07):
But wait, a game, Let's wait. Let's wait until the
end of the week, and then by then you'll get
your answer.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
The end of the week, I already know my answer.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
You're done.
Speaker 6 (12:18):
So what if he's not gonna go If I like
somebody very much and we're interested in each other, and
I ask if you would like to date me, I
am not gonna go twenty four hours without speaking to you,
especially after we just slept at each other.
Speaker 10 (12:32):
We know he's not injured.
Speaker 8 (12:34):
How do we know he's not in hospital.
Speaker 6 (12:37):
Yeah, well that's true. That's that's happened to me before too.
When the guy's parents messaged me telling me that he
just he's collapsed at the school, it was that and
was in the hospital.
Speaker 10 (12:46):
But you see what I'm saying, So, how comes are
not giving that while we going to the negative right away?
It could be it could be that maybe he can he.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Can't communicate and steph out of curiosity?
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Did you talk to him the way you're talking to us,
Because I I'm going to be honest with you, I'm.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
Oh, no, No, I didn't talk to him that late
at all.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
You only mean to us. Good safe, that's good.
Speaker 8 (13:09):
You should reach out to him.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
Yeah, I just.
Speaker 4 (13:11):
Think shoot him attacks and be like what's up? And
I get that.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
You're like, listen, I'm on your side. He should have
reached out to you. There's no question he should have
reached out to you. But do we not think like,
you know what? At this point, enough is enough. We're
not playing these games? Hi?
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Hello, how are you? Sex? Was great? Where have you been?
Speaker 6 (13:29):
True? But I was That's all that's been on my mind.
I probably was, probably will end up doing that. But
I'm kind of just sitting back, like, let's see.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
I'm with you.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
He should have written you, no question.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I what if he's doing the same exact thing, same
thought process, same everything with the games. Yeah, that's say.
Speaker 6 (13:48):
That's That's the thing that I don't like about dating
nowadays is that it's like he's forty six years old
like you. I believe in I believe in chivalry and
courting a woman and reaching out to her and calling her.
And when you're you're interested in I'm not gonna chase you.
Women do not chase. Okay, women attack men are the
ones out are that way.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
I am fad of you. No listen, I again am
on your side. I agree wholeheartedly. But you know what,
if you like this guy.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Which you obviously do, you had sex with him, maybe
you say to him, hey, what's up, and then eventually
you can approach that conversation of like, hey, you weren't
really communicative after we had sexuals. I would have liked
to hear from you, and he could be like, oh
my god, I'm sorry, like I I was waiting for you.
And maybe maybe it's something so minor and you're in
(14:40):
your head you're concocting this big story because you're playing
the game when it's it might not be that way,
or he has a family. I don't know, but I
think you texting him is okay. Like I don't think
you're you're losing by any means.
Speaker 6 (14:54):
No, I mean I didn't think i'd be losing. I
guess I'm just really tired of feeling like in the
dating world nowadays, the women are like, we're we we
have to do it, Like I don't. I just I
don't know. I think the energy. Yeah, I mean I
could be the one to initiate it and text him
and say hey, how are you blah blah blah. But
it would have been nice if, like what if man
could reached out to me and asked me, how are you?
(15:15):
How is your day?
Speaker 4 (15:16):
A simple already get back?
Speaker 6 (15:18):
Didn't Yeah, I didn't reach out to you yesterday. I
was super busy all day at work. I would have
understood all that. Yeah, but nothing at all.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
I mean, come on, no, no, you're right. Listen again,
I am on your side. I am.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
I just think if this, if you really like him
and you're into him, that things like this don't like
happen a lot, and I kind of want to let
him go away if that's something you're invested in and
he does need a little talking too, because no, he
should have hit you up, but maybe.
Speaker 6 (15:47):
Reaching that's the thing that kind of aggregates me is
because I said it to him the day before. I
was with him that day and I said, hey, you know,
communication is really important to me. I liked you. I
like to talk to you every day and hear from you, like,
I know you're busy and you have your daughters. That's fine.
I'm like, but I just want you to know where
I'm coming from. And it's just it's important, and I
like somebody to you know. And and then the whole
(16:09):
next day nothing and I'm like, okay, so did that
go in one ear and out the.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Other and you feel like you're disappointed? And I get it. Yeah,
I know.
Speaker 8 (16:15):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 6 (16:16):
So then it starts to become a turn off. It
starts to become like it's it's just going to be
a repeated pattern. Is it the behavior that's him?
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Yeah? So and you know what, so move on.
Speaker 6 (16:26):
I think I might be Okay, yep, all right.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Well I'm glad we got here.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Then thank you.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
The next one step down on the next, all right,
thank god?
Speaker 10 (16:34):
All right?
Speaker 4 (16:37):
Is he you know he got a hint to that.
Speaker 10 (16:39):
Yeah, the other guy in and she was like, talk
to me, keep talking to me, write me every day.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
He was like the other guy got a hint, but
he use his parents until I collapsed.
Dashi and the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's saw T Morning Bustin's number one for
hip hop jamming ninety four five.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
All right, everybody, we're checking in on you, your life,
whatever's going on with you. You call us and we're
talking about you. Honestly, my one of my favorite subjects.
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
That is six one seven nine three one one nine
four five calls and say what up? We're gonna kick
the check in off with Sammy and Boston. A first
(00:32):
time caller. You love to see it.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Hi Sammy, Hey Tammy?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Why why does he continue to set me up?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Tammy? I'm sorry, I'm looking at Sammy, but Hi Tammy.
Oh what's up?
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (00:49):
Nothing?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
I'm actually it's really weird because I'm like I always
used to call, like back when I was younger, and
it's like I finally got through and it's like, oh shoot.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Oh yeah, you'ren You are through and foreign tells me,
although he didn't know your name, he tells me that
you're on your way to do a little morning run.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
What are you? What are you training for or is
this just every day work?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
I just drive to go get my coffee and then
I got work later.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Now I took that as this she was going on
and draw like, but you're you're you're just doing your
morning rounds, like getting coffee, going to work, things of.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
That nature, right, got it?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, listen, what's a fun fact about Tammy? Tell everybody
something that they wouldn't They wouldn't know.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Timmy, I'm a fun person in general. I just like
to go to work. I work at Duncan, so I'm
a bubbly person.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
And I see now we're talking. Let's dig in here.
Where's your what? What Duncan location are you at?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I'm all okay?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
And last question, the most popular item, the most ordered
item on the Duncan menu.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
I always wondered this.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Unfortunately they discontinued it, but it was recently the dunk
and latte.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Daughter, what's in the dunk and latte?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
It's coffee, milk and an expresso shot, and then you
could put whatever flavor you like.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Your kids drink that drink.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
They dressed the ice one, not the well I didn't
know that that was it like in it, but yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
The kids. Oh, I thought you said the most like
the most popular.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
No, I did, but Santi just told me he lets
his like twelve year old drink that I get the
ice one.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh yeah, I'm not giving my kids expresso. That would
be scary. I got enough they got they do. What
the hell's wrong with all?
Speaker 7 (02:38):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Tammy?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Well, thank you and hopefully I get my plastic bucket
up with anybody from Dunkin Corporates listening.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
For the love of God, Thanks for the call. What's
wrong with you?
Speaker 8 (02:48):
Parent? How I want to if you disagree the call?
CPS coffee? Yeah, I knew it was coffee. I didn't
know that it had all that other stuff. And if
that seems fine. They're doing well in school, like.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
What they get good grades? H ROBERTA, good morning?
Speaker 9 (03:07):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Hi? Is your name Roberta? Probably not?
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Okay, yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:11):
It is cool?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Cool, cool because you know he's before and always sets
me up. So what what what's going on right now?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I hear you a little sad?
Speaker 9 (03:20):
Yeah, so my boyfriend just left for Camp La June
this morning. He's in the Marine Corps and he just
came out for ten days and then he left again.
So I was see if you guys at any advices
for like long distance or relationship advice. Or anything like that.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
How long is he going to be in training this
this round?
Speaker 9 (03:44):
So basically he's in that training for a month, no contact,
like absolutely, like no letters, nothing like that. And then
after this month he goes to Pensacola for almost a
whole year, so It'll be like phone calls here and there,
(04:05):
but I won't like physically see him for like a
long time.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Yeah, that's tough. How old are you, guys?
Speaker 9 (04:11):
We are eighteen babies? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Yeah, Well, first off, let me just say I myself
am married to a marine, so I love the Marines.
You made a good choice. But listen, I mean that's
not easy. That's not especially with the whole month of
not even being able to hear from him.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
That's going to be tough.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
But I think you know this is I'm sure you
knew that this is something that he wanted to.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Do, and you just got to let the man. Let
the man follow his dreams exactly.
Speaker 9 (04:40):
I'm in college right now. I'm literally on my way
to school right now, so I want to like focus
on that while he's doing his own thing.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
That's smart.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah, And if you really think about it, yes, I
guess you could use the verbiage that he's doing his
own thing, but kind of he's like giving up all
of his things to serve.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
The country, So he's a pretty selfless man. I'd say, yeah, yeah, yeah,
a keeper. But you're only eighteen, so you might meet
someone in college, like I don't know.
Speaker 8 (05:04):
Yeah, stay away from the Jody's though, that's what you
don't want.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Yeah, that's very true, all right, babe.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Well okay, keep your head up, just concentrate on school.
Speaker 9 (05:14):
Yay, all right, perfect, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
All right, and you're gonna explain to everybody, so a
Jody correct me if I'm wrong. It's when you're often
deployed and then Jody comes over and has sex with
your wife and yeah right yeah, and like I know, Joy,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I actually don't know why either, but yeah, so he's
not a good thing.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
It's not a good thing to my best friend's day.
Speaker 8 (05:35):
Yeah, but usually it's a guy. Yeah yeah yeah, and
they call him Jody.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Yeah yeah, that's so strange.
Speaker 8 (05:42):
That hurts my soul just thinking about it.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I know, I know, I know. And she's only eighteen,
so it's like, you know, well.
Speaker 8 (05:48):
I told her stay away from the Jodey's.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Smart all right, Let's continue to check it. If you're
on hold, don't go anywhere. Six one seven nine three
one one nine four five six one seven nine three
one one nine four five.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Everybody, Good morning. It's actually in.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
The gym in the morning, so we're checking in on you,
your life, your world.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
How are we?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
What's going on? Lanira is in Boston, Lania, good morning.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
Good morning. How are you?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
I'm good? How are you? What's up?
Speaker 7 (06:14):
I'm great. I wanted to call it because how about
a year ago I called you and I said I
was talking to you guys from UPS Empedix and you
told me to speak to UPS and I had told
you I ma relation say sorry, and I spiked to
UPS and we've been together for a year now, and
(06:35):
what's pregnant?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Trying to tell you?
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Louie?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Youps baby? Wow, look at you.
Speaker 8 (06:45):
I know.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
I was like, actually it was right. I'm so glad.
That's a good advice.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Oh my well, I'm happy for you. I didn't know
where that was going. But that's amazing.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
How far along are you?
Speaker 7 (06:57):
I'm eighteen weeks almost faded.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Munch Oh, that is just so exciting. Are you going
to find out we're girl?
Speaker 7 (07:04):
We already did. We had a gender reveal last week
and it's a boy.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
It's a lot girl. Oh my god, this is so excited.
I love a little upsp.
Speaker 7 (07:13):
You have three girls, so he's very happy. I'm very happy.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
We're happy.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Actually, you know when somebody's talking and you can tell
they're smiling, and they're talking through their smile.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
I feel that from you, Laniara.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You're you are just you're in a great place, babe,
and that's so very exciting.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Just tell him I did that. Make sure he knows.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I actually told him. I didn't give him the whole
background in terms of you're the ones, but.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
You didn't tell him that FedEx was also an option.
Smart lady, Smart lady, Wait and listen.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
We all love a man in uniform, especially the tan one. Yes, yes,
all right, bebe congrats.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Well, thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
You're very welcome.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
We love you too. That was a roll of the
dice there. I must have been at that time. I
must have been having like good deliveries with ups.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I was like a UPS guy in my town. I
saw heny other day. Both my wife and I were like,
oh my god, that's a good looking guy. He must
get a lot of attention. Wow, yeah, like great shape,
maybe thirty. Like I even was like taking like taking
him back by him. I was like, you canna come
over again?
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Yeah, You're gonna be ordering more now, aren't you. Elena
is in Worcester.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Hi, Elena.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
So we have a special birthday shout out.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
Yeah left.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Two years here we go to two yours. Happy birthday, babe?
Is it today?
Speaker 6 (08:42):
It is today?
Speaker 10 (08:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:43):
How old are we turning?
Speaker 9 (08:45):
Thirty two?
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Thirty two years young? What are what are you going
to do? What's the big celebration.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
I'm actually right now, I'm on my way to work,
but I'm celebrating this weekend.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Okay, what what are we going to do? The plans?
Speaker 5 (08:58):
I'm gonna go out to you some friends and just
gonna carry.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Your Oh okay, low.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Key you a cake person, Yes I am.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Some call it pulling teeth.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
All right.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
We have the best birthday ever. All right, Happy birthday?
Speaker 7 (09:20):
Thank you. Bye.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Steph is in the Cape, Hie Steph.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Oh man. I hate reading this, I hate seeing it.
But you're you're you're in a little bit of fear
right now that you may have been ghosted. Why do
you say that?
Speaker 5 (09:37):
I mean even if I have been ghosted, I don't care.
I am going to be thirty eight years old tomorrow.
I've been dating for long enough. I'm not even freaking surprise.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Okay, so specifically you're worried that No, you're worried.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Not worried.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
You're good because you're thirty eight tomorrow and you're fine.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
But you you guys had sexuals and after the sexuals
he poof cas he's gone.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Yeah, I haven't heard from Adam.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
I saw him on Sunday and everything was great. And
I expressed to him that day about communication. So it's
not like I didn't tell him it's important to me.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Was everything great? Like even that aspect, like you know,
was everything good?
Speaker 6 (10:22):
Yeah? I mean I didn't think it was.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
I thought he was the one.
Speaker 6 (10:25):
That initiated me.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Like he's just the one, like wow, like I really
like you. He came down to see me, jove to me,
came down to see me like three times in one week,
and he asked me do you want to He's like.
Speaker 6 (10:37):
Do you want to date?
Speaker 5 (10:39):
He's like, I want to date you. He's like, I'm not.
He was very honest because, like I told two other
women that I was talking to I don't want to
talk to him anymore. I only want to talk to you.
He's like, do you want to think about it? And
I respected the fact that he said think about it,
because you know, yeah, I just started talking and dating.
But it's like, I don't know. And then we sleep
together and stuff and we had a great time. And
(11:01):
here we are and it's over twenty four hours later
and you haven't even.
Speaker 6 (11:05):
Reached out to me once.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
And I was held back. I wanted to talk to
him all day yesterday and say, hello, how are you
just small talk? I know he's busy, he works, blah
blah blah, okay, but I was like, no, I'm going
to hold back.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
I'm going to hold back and I'm.
Speaker 5 (11:18):
Going to see if he reaches out to me and
actually is thinking about me, because I'm not going to
always initiate conversation. I think it needs to be reciprocated.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
You guys want to weigh in from a guy's perspective.
Speaker 9 (11:29):
Here.
Speaker 8 (11:29):
I thought you were going to say longer than just
a day, a little short.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
For having sex, and then I hear it feels weird,
it's vulnerable, and you know.
Speaker 10 (11:40):
Yeah, he didn't talk to you but maybe we give
him a couple of more days and see what, or.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
We stopped playing these games and text him high you're
thirty eight.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Yeah, like you're you know, I don't want to I
don't want to play games. I'm not trying to play games.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
But you are some time you're playing a game? And
why text him and be like, Hey, what's up? How
was your day yesterday?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
And maybe he's like it was terrible, something happened something.
Speaker 6 (12:05):
I'm always the one texting first.
Speaker 10 (12:07):
But wait, a game, Let's wait. Let's wait until the
end of the week, and then by then you'll get
your answer.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
The end of the week, I already know my answer.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
You're done.
Speaker 6 (12:18):
So what if he's not gonna go If I like
somebody very much and we're interested in each other, and
I ask if you would like to date me, I
am not gonna go twenty four hours without speaking to you,
especially after we just slept at each other.
Speaker 10 (12:32):
We know he's not injured.
Speaker 8 (12:34):
How do we know he's not in hospital.
Speaker 6 (12:37):
Yeah, well that's true. That's that's happened to me before too.
When the guy's parents messaged me telling me that he
just he's collapsed at the school, it was that and
was in the hospital.
Speaker 10 (12:46):
But you see what I'm saying, So, how comes are
not giving that while we going to the negative right away?
It could be it could be that maybe he can he.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Can't communicate and steph out of curiosity?
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Did you talk to him the way you're talking to us,
Because I I'm going to be honest with you, I'm.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
Oh, no, No, I didn't talk to him that late
at all.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
You only mean to us. Good safe, that's good.
Speaker 8 (13:09):
You should reach out to him.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
Yeah, I just.
Speaker 4 (13:11):
Think shoot him attacks and be like what's up? And
I get that.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
You're like, listen, I'm on your side. He should have
reached out to you. There's no question he should have
reached out to you. But do we not think like,
you know what? At this point, enough is enough. We're
not playing these games? Hi?
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Hello, how are you? Sex? Was great? Where have you been?
Speaker 6 (13:29):
True? But I was That's all that's been on my mind.
I probably was, probably will end up doing that. But
I'm kind of just sitting back, like, let's see.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
I'm with you.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
He should have written you, no question.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I what if he's doing the same exact thing, same
thought process, same everything with the games. Yeah, that's say.
Speaker 6 (13:48):
That's That's the thing that I don't like about dating
nowadays is that it's like he's forty six years old
like you. I believe in I believe in chivalry and
courting a woman and reaching out to her and calling her.
And when you're you're interested in I'm not gonna chase you.
Women do not chase. Okay, women attack men are the
ones out are that way.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
I am fad of you. No listen, I again am
on your side. I agree wholeheartedly. But you know what,
if you like this guy.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Which you obviously do, you had sex with him, maybe
you say to him, hey, what's up, and then eventually
you can approach that conversation of like, hey, you weren't
really communicative after we had sexuals. I would have liked
to hear from you, and he could be like, oh
my god, I'm sorry, like I I was waiting for you.
And maybe maybe it's something so minor and you're in
(14:40):
your head you're concocting this big story because you're playing
the game when it's it might not be that way,
or he has a family. I don't know, but I
think you texting him is okay. Like I don't think
you're you're losing by any means.
Speaker 6 (14:54):
No, I mean I didn't think i'd be losing. I
guess I'm just really tired of feeling like in the
dating world nowadays, the women are like, we're we we
have to do it, Like I don't. I just I
don't know. I think the energy. Yeah, I mean I
could be the one to initiate it and text him
and say hey, how are you blah blah blah. But
it would have been nice if, like what if man
could reached out to me and asked me, how are you?
(15:15):
How is your day?
Speaker 4 (15:16):
A simple already get back?
Speaker 6 (15:18):
Didn't Yeah, I didn't reach out to you yesterday. I
was super busy all day at work. I would have
understood all that. Yeah, but nothing at all.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
I mean, come on, no, no, you're right. Listen again,
I am on your side. I am.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
I just think if this, if you really like him
and you're into him, that things like this don't like
happen a lot, and I kind of want to let
him go away if that's something you're invested in and
he does need a little talking too, because no, he
should have hit you up, but maybe.
Speaker 6 (15:47):
Reaching that's the thing that kind of aggregates me is
because I said it to him the day before. I
was with him that day and I said, hey, you know,
communication is really important to me. I liked you. I
like to talk to you every day and hear from you, like,
I know you're busy and you have your daughters. That's fine.
I'm like, but I just want you to know where
I'm coming from. And it's just it's important, and I
like somebody to you know. And and then the whole
(16:09):
next day nothing and I'm like, okay, so did that
go in one ear and out the.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Other and you feel like you're disappointed? And I get it. Yeah,
I know.
Speaker 8 (16:15):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 6 (16:16):
So then it starts to become a turn off. It
starts to become like it's it's just going to be
a repeated pattern. Is it the behavior that's him?
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Yeah? So and you know what, so move on.
Speaker 6 (16:26):
I think I might be Okay, yep, all right.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Well I'm glad we got here.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Then thank you.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
The next one step down on the next, all right,
thank god?
Speaker 10 (16:34):
All right?
Speaker 4 (16:37):
Is he you know he got a hint to that.
Speaker 10 (16:39):
Yeah, the other guy in and she was like, talk
to me, keep talking to me, write me every day.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
He was like the other guy got a hint, but
he use his parents until I collapsed.
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