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January 9, 2025 12 mins
He left me to wear matching Pajamas with another woman
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dashy and the jam in Morning show with DJ Foreign,
it's saunt good Morning Boston's.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four or five,
Hi Bab's good Morning Foreign. Go ahead and give the
shout out for me, because I don't see it in there.
Who won the uh the tickets for the Boston Calling
Music Festival just yet? Okay, when we get one, we'll
give a shout out, and then the next shot is

(00:25):
with DJ pop Dog in the three o'clock hour. I've
been teasing this at the end of every show this week.
We just never had a chance, Like things were just happening,
and then we had to keep pushing it. The best
way I could say it to you guys before we
get into it is that if you were somebody who thought, like, eh,

(00:48):
you know, my holidays weren't that great, Like maybe you
didn't get the gifts that you wanted, or you were
supposed to do something and your planets got canceled. Whatever
it was, whatever small thing you just thought to yourself, well, eh,
holiday is twenty twenty four could have been better. It
wasn't that bad. It was not.

Speaker 3 (01:09):
That bad.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'm gonna leave her anonymous because she wants to be
anonymous and start it out with I'm way too embarrassed
to call but you guys, this is this is next
level crazy because son, we've talked about this. One of
the newest traditions that people do over the holidays is
the matching pajamas.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Absolutely, it's like a statement.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
And never would you think that matching pajamas would catch
somebody out because it's what you do with your family, absolutely, right, Dad,
your boyfriend, your girlfriend, whatever, Yeah, it's your family. You
guys are wearing your matching jams.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
I do it.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
I start buying our family pajamas probably in October.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
It's the best thing. And then the awesome thing about
is you can post it on social everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Thinkbody else? Right, all right, everybody, this is this is
great ze, she said, I'm too embarrassed to call him
with this, Ashley, but I figured I would share. It's
a doozy. I have been with my boyfriend for seventeen
years and we have two children together. I caught him
cheating about five years ago. I stayed and things recently

(02:16):
have seemed really great. I did, however, get a little
bit of a vibe that he may be cheating again,
and I had a thought on who it could be
if he was. He left our house to go to
work on Christmas Eve around sevenish. A few hours later,
I see a Facebook live video that her family posted.

(02:38):
He does not know that I have any sort of
social media. Him and the female were wearing matching Christmas
pajamas at her family party. Oh, she's twenty six, he's
forty four. His oldest kids are twenty four and twenty two.
He had just been wearing matching Christmas pajamas with his family.

(03:02):
Here's the photo less than twenty four hours earlier. So
it was not a merry Christmas for me. So I said,
oh my god. First off, I'm so sorry, and I said,
did you leave him? And also is that him in
your profile picture? Because her profile picture is what looks
to be a family in matching Christmas pajamas. She said, yep,

(03:25):
that's him. I made that our profile because I know
the girl knows my Instagram page. Unfortunately, the house is
in his name and I don't really have anywhere to go,
so right now we're in separate rooms, just not speaking.
He won't even discuss what he did, and said he's
making me seem like the bad person. Because when I
found out, I told him that I hope he dies.

(03:46):
I know I wasn't right for saying that, and I
didn't mean it, but obviously I was just so upsetsed.
Uh huh. I told one of his friends about it.
So now he's calling me a snake again, nothing about
him being the cheater. She sends me the picture. She said,
here he is our family, and here he is with
his girlfriend on the side, everybody in their matching pajamas.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
The part that cuts deep is that he went to
that party with family and to them, he's the boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
And this was planned out. Twenty six year old girlfriend
bought the matching jammis, come to our family Christmas Eve party,
will wear them. Meanwhile, he was an hour ago wearing
different family pajamas with his actual family.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
And I have to believe that he told the girlfriend
that he's getting a divorce going through all that stuff.
Maybe he even said their way until after the holiday
is the usual.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Byah, I mean, maybe he didn't know. Maybe he just
kept the road with it. But they're like, yo, I'm married,
and you know I'm not happy, but you know me
and you could do our thing on the side.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
The thing is is not. The wife doesn't know what's
going on.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
Yeah, the sidechick might know what's happening, but the wife
was blindsided.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
Bajamas.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
But this is worse than just the cheap because it's
like a relationship and it's a full blown an She.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Said, my heartbreaks for my kids. I'm sad they will
not live with both parents, but it's better to come
from a broken home than to live one. My parents
are still married and have a great relationship, so at
least they see that. I go back and forth between
I got this and wanted to just break down every minute.
The kids don't know yet. I think he is avoiding
telling them because he thinks I will change my mind
and get over it.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
I mean, you're staying so he kind of feels that way.
And let's look at the reaction. Oh you a snach
for telling my boys. You know what I mean, you'll
you'll this because you know what I mean, Like you're
being nosy, Like he's already he's blaming you and he
hasn't even taken accountability.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
She also seems to know the person too, and it
seems like they'll come from the same circles. I'm just speculating,
but I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
But she was able to pop on a Facebook live
from the family. She again like she said she had
an idea on who it was going to be. And
you call the sun.

Speaker 3 (05:45):
Also, who goes to work on Christmas Eve? Like come on, like,
I mean, obviously people are doing their things.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yeah, and listen, maybe maybe he works at a mall,
Like I'm not questioning that.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, but it seems like that that was a tell.
He probably said he has something to.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Do, like at work, at the more work. I don't
know what that man does. It's the fact that like
the pajamas, because here's the thing. He easily could have
gotten away with it, Haddie Warren regular clothes.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
I feel like, could he But what's he gonna say?
He was at a holiday party, so called going to work.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
They ended up calling off my shift. Girl. My friend
hit me up and was like, we're having a few drinks.
I don't know. I just think there's lives.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
I don't sound like wife. He's going to move on though,
I don't think. I think the kid thing is going
to be an excuse, you know what I mean? And
I think she's going to get over it or maybe
if they figure it out. But he's already he's a
very He didn't even apologize. Bro's sorry, I just got
a DM. We shouldn't encourage delusions, actually encourage. She goes,

(06:49):
the age gap alone should have told her something like
this was going to happen. Come on, I don't really
know what she's talking about.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
The girl referenced the age gap of he is forty four,
girlfriend's twenty six.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
Maybe Felicia assumes that they were hanging out before that.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah, I don't, I don't. I don't think so. But
either way, it doesn't seem like she oh, I don't know.
For she did mention to me as well in a
DM that she is looking for a lawyer and if
anybody knows, like a really good lawyer for you know,
divorce law, but also for real estate because she's trying
to figure out the house situation. She goes, I don't

(07:24):
want to walk away with nothing, having been through all
the things that I've been through, and I'm not walking
away so somebody else, well.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
He's going to cost you a good twenty thirty g's
probably you know what I mean. If if y'all can't
figure it out in mediation It's going to cost you
a little bit, but that should not deter you from
keeping your value and your worth.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
He cheated before, was with her for seventeen marry.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Her, and they were great. That's the thing. She thought
they were great. And this man was picking out matching
Christmas jams with a twenty six year old.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
Oh my god. The pain that she must feel is
like beyond I know you don't.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
We don't have time for calls or we do? We do?
We have like three minutes, okay, one seven nine three
one one nine four five six one seven nine three
one one nine four five. Imagine you thought your Christmas
was bad? Hi, everybody, good morning, It's Ashley in the
jam In Morning Show. Imagine you thought your Christmas was bad.
You and your husband, your two kids, You're celebrating Christmas Eve.

(08:18):
You're on your matching pajamas on social media. He says,
Oh my god, I gotta go to work. She's got
a call. I gotta I gotta run to work. You
have a weird feeling. You go on a Facebook live
and there he is. He wasn't at work. He went
to his girlfriend's house and now they're in matching jams.
Like when did he change? What the what is happening?

(08:39):
Eric is in Connecticut? Eric, you were with somebody for
fourteen years fourteen I was, and he would always make
it look like you were the cheater. He would he
would accuse you of.

Speaker 4 (08:54):
Cheating, always, always.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
But he was the one obviously doing it.

Speaker 4 (09:02):
I mean, I don't know for sure. I don't know
for sure, so I can't say that he did. But
after a long time with him and blaming myself for
how our relationship was going, I realized that there's a
name for that, and he was. He was a classic narcissist,

(09:22):
and it wasn't worth it in the long run. My
kids were really young at the time. They're a little
older now. But my youngest who's now eight, who then
was two going on three, who was starting to talk,
started going up to strangers and saying, oh, daddy yelled
at mommy all night last night, And that is traumatizing

(09:45):
to It's horrible. It's horrible. It is devastating to hear
that come out of your little one's mouth. Like I said,
I don't know how old her kids are. But in
the law long run, no matter how hard it is,
because trust me, I know it's hard. I was not
financially okay, I didn't even have a job because he

(10:06):
wouldn't let me go back to work after COVID.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
So, like.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
You that you got out of that, I did. I did.
I Actually it was a matter of so I wasn't married,
but like we we had that whole marriage by law
thing going because we created a home together. So checking
somebody out isn't that easy. They have rights to live

(10:34):
there because their name is on the address and such
and such. But you got to make a window of
opportunity to get rid of that person, so to speak,
and then never looked back.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
So when you heard me or you heard me read this, DM,
did it remind you of your situation?

Speaker 4 (10:52):
It did, because he's making her out to be the
like he's.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
Now the victim, right, No, yeah, he definitely The.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
Situation is person. Situation is definitely differently. She caught him
in the act and she knows exactly what is going off.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Yeah, No, it's's awful.

Speaker 4 (11:06):
He's making her to be a victim, you know, he's
making out to be the victim and that's not the
case whatsoever. And I feel, really, I do feel for her.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
No, it's terrible. Thank you. So much for the call,
and I feel bad for you and I'm glad you
got out of that situation. That's all my dms right now.
Girls just being like, oh my gosh, because imagine you
have a feeling then you then you go on Facebook
live and you actually see it there he is chopping
it up at a Christmas party in matching pajamas with
his girlfriend, like playing house with he was just in

(11:36):
matching pajamas.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
Really, he's going he's going to try to beat her
ego down, her self esteem down to the point where
she's just like, you know what, it's not worth me,
and scare her into leaving. You got to dip. Staying
in a relationship that's broken is not, I repeat, not
good for the kids. A lot of people think that
it is, but it is not. Because you're teaching your kids.
They don't see affection. They see y'all all you, and

(11:59):
this is gonna make them become human beings who treat
people the same exact way. Get out of the relationship. Yes,
it might hurt them initially, but it's better to to
raise them in that kind of loving environment away from
each other than together, because trust me, it doesn't work.
The way people think it does.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
That's why he's divorced.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
He was like
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