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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dadly Morning show with DJ four and it's saw taking Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Cousin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
We were having the debate in my house yesterday when
it was dropped that Giselle was having baby number three.
How old look up for you guys, Jazelle's forty four.
How old is the jiu jitsu trainer?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I want to say he's thirty seven, but after the
okay a little bit, Yeah, he's younger.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Yeah, and if he doesn't have any prior kids, I'm
sure that was the discussion.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
You know, I would have to have one.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
For some reason. I don't think that this one was planned.
I think it kind of like.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I could see both. I could see both both.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Things with accident shoot up on the c Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
So anyways, we were having the combo last night. I
said to the fireman, I'm like, oh, I know Tom
feels the type of way, and he's like, no way,
Like it's been two years, Like.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I don't, there's between thirty five and thirty seven.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I think that because of the way it ended, because
and I was trying to explain this to him.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
It was one of those things.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Where it was, Hey, I've given you my life for
you to go on with your football career. You've done
amazing things. It's my time now, Tom, you know what,
give me five minutes. I'm gonna go out on the beach.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I'm gonna retire. Tom goes out on the hill, it's windy.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
He makes this stupid video where he says he's retiring.
He goes back into dijail. He's like, honey, I did it.
I'm retired. Like, it's done, it's your time now. Fast
forward a month. Tom's like, I was talking to some
people and I just don't think it's and she's like,
what do you mean? I was getting ready to go
do my thing, And I think Gizelle just got to
a breaking point where she was like, I'm done with this,
(01:38):
like I'm not playing second fiddle to the pig skin anymore,
which I understand me too, But that ending isn't on
Tom's terms. That's that's all on hers. And I feel
like Tom.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Does feel a type of way about this absolutely.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Because if you like when I first announced posted some
weird subtext post about the sun.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
The sign.
Speaker 6 (02:05):
Your song, Yeah yeah, how many kids do they have together?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
They two?
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Tom has three in total, but he has one with
Bridget moynihan. So he has three, but two are Gazelle's
and now Giselle has three in total.
Speaker 6 (02:16):
Come on, put yourself in Tom's shoes, yo, Like, this
is a guy who's supposed to be my wife's personal trainer,
and me and my wife they met in twenty twenty.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
One, four years ago.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, and your mind just gonna go.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Fam y'all meet, you cheat on me or whatever happens,
and now you're pregnant and y'all ain't even married either.
Gasell upholds this thing about being you know, about family
and instruction, and here you are just y'all ain't even boyfriend.
Y'all ain't even married. You're just boyfriend and girlfriend, not
even engaged. And you having a baby. Yeah, they're having
a baby out.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Of Spie and say they didn't say Jazell never had
like an affair with him or anything. No matter what,
Tom's head is always going to be in a space
where it's like, did you like him from the beginning?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
You have to say that emotionally Tom wasn't there And
then left the door open for Joaquum, right, and Joaquim
said yeah, like, hey, I'm not available.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I want to wrestle.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
But yeah, he's definitely, he's definitely, he's definitely not loving this.
I don't even know if he's even has the baby
around him. When he has the kids, I just might see, like,
keep your baby over there, bring my children to me.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Hey, let me also add in even if and by
the way, six one seven nine three one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one one nine
four five, if you went through a breakup and then boom,
a kid is there like a day later, fireman cheats
on me, he has this whole affair. I'm already mad. Yes,
you add a kid layer to that. That's diabolical. Now
I want you to die.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
That's emotional baggage. What must hurt so much? I can't Yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
But and then I don't know what else. Then I
don't know what's worse.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Like, you guys are cool and you you haven't you
have this great relationship, you're figuring things out for the kids,
and then you go and have a baby. No, it always,
it always feels the type of way. And I've said this,
I've said this before, and I mean this. I think
about things like what is what does the person look
like are they are they good looking?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Well?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Great, Now, now you're having a baby with a hot
jiu jitsu trainer who's younger, who's got like a hot bod,
like I mean you're Tom Brady.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
But still yeah, you always want the person to like
be disgusting, Yeah, to be.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Like anybody who's like Ashley. Shut up, that's so superficial.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
No, you shut up because I know for a fact
it's made you feel better if you looked at the
person there with next and you.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Were like the other part about this too. There's no
way Tom didn't like just cut off his like feelings
for her, like he was still like in love with
her for months afterwards.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's just the way the total would have gotten back
with her, probably tried to get back with her.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Yeah, all the things.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
She was done, and then the pain of knowing that
she had a baby. I'm trying to think of it,
like now my heart is breaking.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
If we break up and want good terms and then
you go have a baby, that doesn't think to me
as well, that's different.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Right if you feel the type right okay, right now,
you you are a good really good example.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
You've been done for the kid. I'm cool, You're not
nothing bothers me.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
It's should it you are. You are far removed from it.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
She might feel a way.
Speaker 6 (05:09):
I don't know, but it was so good that it
doesn't really matter anymore. We understand that people have moved
on with their lives. You understand what I'm saying now.
If we're in the midst of a breakup. We just
broke up four years ago. It was two years ago.
Who Tom and Giselle it was two years ago? Yeah, bro, Like,
I'm like, damn, how you move on so quickly?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
When I think about it, they had pretty much one
year and then she's been pregnant the rest of.
Speaker 6 (05:31):
The Remember Tom didn't cheat. Tom might have chose his
career over you, but he never cheated on you. He
still loved his family. So not two years later you
go and have a whole nother human being.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
And she remember, she hurts in her head.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
She's like, yes, you loved your family and you loved
your kids, but you loved football.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Maybe came before me.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah, And there's a part of the about that feeling
that I understand. I understand why she fell out of
love with Tom and all that stuff. But again, on
Tom's side. Man, that must hurt you.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Life in New Orleans on bourbon right now, still just
hitting the bottle out of his mind, hurricanes on dead
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
If you've been in this situation six one seven nine
three one one nine four five, you break up.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
They move on quickly.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
And all of a sudden poof, we have a baby. Hi, everybody,
good morning. It's Ashly the Gym Morning Show. As you
what we can tell you couldn't see it on our end.
We had calls of people telling stories. But I think
it's it's a sense of subject. We dropped what you'll
have to tell about line three form, but line one
we dropped and or she hung up. But she said
(06:36):
that her ex went ahead and had another baby while
they were still married. That again, the levels of that,
like the cheating in general, is number one. But then
to know that they went on and had you feel
a type of way, there's just you can't not.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
We have to assume that she left once she found
out that he was having a baby. So some people say, though.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I think also too, like I have friends that their
ex they break up and then their exes move on
and then that's the one they marry. That's when they
have a baby with and you cannot help but think
why them and not me?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You know, like those thoughts go through your head.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Is the affair different if the person ends up being
with him for the rest of their lives? I mean,
I'm sure the affair still hurts. Like if the fireman
has an affair, but then he has he marries a
person he had the affair with and that becomes like
his person. Does it feel different for the girl on
the other.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
End, I'd rather them break up, and I'd let the
worst break up ever. But yeah, I get maybe, like,
oh he found the one after we thought that it
was maybe.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I don't know. I don't want to know.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Like as of late, this is what I don't want.
That's why I try to do everything my wife asked,
because I don't want to see her in love with
another man, because that for me would be so painful
because I know there'd be somebody else there then, like
somebody would be able to make her happy. That's what
I don't want.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
So line three wour and goes take her first, because
I can tell she's there.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
She hung up.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
She hung up.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
What happened.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
So she was together with her man for seven years
and they broke up. So I asked, was it infidelity?
She said nah, She said it just things weren't progressing.
She wanted more from him and he just wasn't doing that.
So they decided to break up. They break up. Two weeks,
he goes and get somebody pregnant. Now there's a new kid.
They got back together. They tried to work it out,
but it said it just it hurt too much for
her and she was just like, nah, I can't do this.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I can't. I can't have another kid in here.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
And look, and she was like, I respect the kid,
but every time I looked at him, at the child,
it reminded me of what happened.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
And I just couldn't move on.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
And you don't want to live your days like a baby.
The baby's fault.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Yeah, you're looking at that, but I know so sad.
Jermaine is in Boston. Jermaine, Listen, this all is complicated.
There's a there's a real family dynamic to it. You know,
Tom has to now figure out some sort of way
to accept this new baby because as his kids are related.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
To the child.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Absolutely again and you know, top of the top to
all of you guys on and the amazing job you
guys have been doing me and I just I also
want to speak on something else I feel like overlooked
from the male perspectives, from the father perspective, The new
the new father to be is going to assume the
like the head of the household, like you know, the
(09:25):
men of the household rle so to speak. And by
doing so, he's by default now is the one who
who brings forth like the morals, the principles, the values
of the family value. Half of it comes from him.
So it's going to be more difficult, increasingly difficult for
Tom to get through to his child when his child
has a new living step father who is going to
(09:48):
do things his way.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Yeah, and I didn't even think about that.
Speaker 5 (09:52):
Yeah. That also is the dynamic a lot because now
you got what dad says, but then stepdad is running
this house with mom, and so what he says is
kind of long, right, and at times it may you
may have conflicting, you know, moments for the child that
may be confused.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Now you have me thinking too, It's like.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Is there when you have these blended families, it's hard
because I wouldn't want if the fireman had a kid
with somebody else, like I would feel I am I
supposed to discipline that kid, like because they live in
my house? Like how does that? It's that's weird. But
you know what, at my house, I disciplined strangers kids.
So my house isn't a good example. But Jermaine, thank you.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
That's it. That's it because listen at the house. Walk him. Yeah,
he is that house. That's his house.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
That's his house, and you got to go about his rules.
But even think about it deeper. Right, Tom got a
kid with somebody else, had kids with Giselle, and now
he has to be stepdad kind of whatever you want
to call it to another kid. That's like three families
blended into each other.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Yeah, Like if little Vivian comes home, why didn't you
well ten or eleven and she's like, hey, dad, can
we don't know IF's to bear a girl sleep over this?
Speaker 3 (11:00):
And I want to hang out with my siblings.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I think Tom has to say yes.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
I think so too. If Tom wants to do it.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Right and the kid nice, you can't be like baby.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
But you know what, no offense to walk him because
that's dad, And that's cool, but are you kidding me?
That kid grows up, he's gonna be like, please, I
beg of you. Let me stay at Tom's