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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sally ended jam In Morning Show with d J.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
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Speaker 3 (00:14):
We're checking in on you, on you, your life, your world,
We're talking about anything you want. We'll kick it off
with Cassie. Cassie is in Laurence. Hey, cass good.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Morning, Good morning. So you're going through a breakup?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Abe.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
When when did the breakup happen?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
The breakup ended happen on Saturday?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Oh actually, oh my god, let me okay.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
So was there a build up to it? Did you
know it was coming or was it? Were you blindsided?
Did you guys like celebrate Valentine's Day and that like
what happened?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
No, we didn't celebrate Valentine's a gay. I know this
was happened. He had done you know, he cheated last year.
So we were trying to work things out, you know,
kind of move forward. But a lot of things were
happening in the in the process of healing, and I
didn't hear properly, and I don't think that he was
ready to make those changes that he needed to make. To,
(01:07):
you know, reassuring and communicating and kind of you know,
focusing on just the home. And I don't think he
understood that. So I decided to leave Arizona and come
back home to Massachusetts to have that support from my
family and kind of reset, right, yeah, making it making
it a lot worse now we're done, and my crazy self, right,
(01:32):
because I think every woman is crazy at one point
in time when they're in love. I feel like there
may be a possibility, but I don't know, what do
you I don't know. I don't think there is a.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Possibility of what you guys getting back.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Kind of working it out. I feel like nine years
is a long time. I may be wrong, and I'm
willing to accept it and heal.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
At the same time, I'm like, oh.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, let's let's backtrack. So did you chim cheating? Did
he come to you and say I'm having an affair?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
How did that happen?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
My daughter?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I came down here to New York, my daughter had
her baby, and while I was out here, he slept
with someone else and he had asked me to cash
up someone through his phone. When I got back and
I questioned him about who the heck, is this person
just send me twenty dollars to come to find out?
He got all caught up in his lives and he
admit to it.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Please tell me that that man didn't ask you to
cash app the woman that he had slept with.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
No, he told me to cash up his son. And
you know how that that receipt still stays there. And
that's how I found out. I questioned him about who
the hell is this person and walking claim.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
What was he sending her?
Speaker 3 (02:48):
So she's basically when she cash app the son, she
saw the other cash up the other woman.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Did you know this woman?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I actually do know this person. Yeah, I do know
the person. And I mean that's what that was the
more the hurtful part where it's like this and I
was I wasn't out doing dirt. I was with my daughter.
I know this girl. She you know, whatever she does
is her business.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
But like, damn, really listen, I think this is I mean,
I think this is the disrespect for it's just beyond
you're with your daughter becoming a grandmother while she's giving birth,
and that's what he's doing while you're away, like disgusting behavior.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
But I don't I think you should.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
I think you should take a second and not feel
at fault or anything for your feelings of maybe we
should work this out. Not only has every female that's
gone through a breakup had that thought. I'm one of them,
you know. I remember when I went through my breakup.
I was like, oh my God, like, we have to
get back together, we have to make it work, because
that's the last nine years of your life, that's all
you know.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
We kind of had this conversation a little bit this morning.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
But even though that's all you know, and that's you've
given nine years to it, it does not matter.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That is not the treatment that you deserve.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
And I think that if you, if you take a
step back and really think, if if while you're doing that,
becoming a grandma at the hospital, helping your daughter, if
he would do that, then honey, he's going to do
it again and.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Again and again. He has no but he is.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
The disrespect, the levels of that is crazy. I don't
think he's worth another another second. But I again, I
can understand why you would be like, hmm, maybe I should,
you know, try to work it out.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
It's been nine years. It's not going to be easy
to be single. You're starting over.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
There's all these like scary things, but I think you
should try that first, because that's you know, you deserve
way more than that. That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah, yeah, And I mean, you know, we tried to
put the pass to the past and move forward, and
it was it became really hard for me. You know,
he has a drinking problem, and it's like, dude, like
you got to get it together so we can uh
work on the relationship on ourselves and individually work on
our and he just didn't understand it. So I agree
(05:02):
with you. It's just that that little area, that little
string of hope that you hold on to, and I
think at this point, at this point is like, Okay,
it is what it is, but like how to move
forward And yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
You're not You're not wrong for it, and I think
you'll have more moments like this. But what I'm hoping
is you're back home, you're around your people now, you
have support and you can kind of start start to
like get out of this and see the light again
and realize like that that's not for you beyond now.
And now you're telling us more like beyond the cheating.
You've asked him to curb the drinking. He's not doing
that like he's bad news. He's not a good person.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah, you know, Yeah, well you're awesome though. I started
listening to you and I've been meaning to call.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
But you're a little busy, you're going through some things.
Welcome back home.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
It's a little bit colder here in Arizona, but you
know it's for the best.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I know, I know you guys.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Keep your head up. Die a ball, diabolicle.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Hey, I'm gonna go help my daughter out while she
gives birth and I become a grandmother. I'll be back
and you're out here cheating. Then you don't even cover
up your receipts. You got the receipt right there on
cash app. The hell are you cash affing her?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
He doesn't have twenty bucks, you know, like with losers?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Why right after Valentine's Day is every call about a breakup?
What's what's going on?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
All right?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
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Speaker 1 (06:43):
We're checking in. I know a lot of people.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I was saying earlier on uh so, is it just
called February vacation?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Is that how? Well we never had that new special name. Well, no,
we never had it like winter I vacation get away
in Massachusetts.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
What do you want?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
It's just I.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Asked that because we've never had it. In New Jersey.
Ours was just called spring break. We got one week,
so I didn't know if that's what this was. What
I'm gonna do is I'm going to hold onto this
and I'm gonna remember it because because trust me, the
week is young and I will I will have a comeback.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Happy February vacation to everybody. Katrina is from.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
New Orleans, in New Orleans, Orans and your name is Katrina.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
That's crazy, that is crazy. I have got it. Yeah, Oh.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Katrina. You know I spent some time in New Orleans.
Best place ever, nicest people on the planet.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Yes, from here, so different.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
You know why people in New Orleans like care about you.
They want to know about your day, how you're doing.
And when I lived there, the lady at CBS would
say to me, Hi, good morning. How are they? You know,
how is everybody at that? Ask all the questions?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Nobody. Everybody's potting, got their headphones in, not trying to talk.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Here.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
It's different, it's totally different.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Well, you just relocated. When did you get here from
New Orleans?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (08:18):
I got here in July July.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Okay. Tell me something you love about living here?
Speaker 4 (08:26):
The money?
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Okay, fine, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
And what your least favorite thing about living here? The cold?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
The weather. I do not like the weather.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Yeah, it's really unpredictable. That that's for sure.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
Oh, we had about point of weather.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
But the snow and the ice is taking me.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
No, it's yeah, it's it's crazy. What did you move forward?
And I said, you like the money. What's your job?
Speaker 5 (08:51):
I'm working education. I'm a dean of students.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Oh, okay, dean of students a nice title. Obviously you
can't say where I'm assuming.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
No, I don't know. I was in it.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
That's fine, that's fine, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
And listen.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Welcome, and I appreciate you listening to us because you're
new to the area and you got a lot of options.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Yes, well not, it wasn't that many. When I was
scanning through I had to ask someone. I'm like, they
don't have a different station, because what is going on?
And someone from someone from New York had put me
on and I was like, okay, girl, because I was dying,
like I just had to go to my music because
this is not life.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Well listen, what tell that person?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I said, thank you for real, that's nice of them.
I actually just got a message today or yesterday from
a girl. She's headed to New Orleans. She was asked
me where to go and what to do, favorite restaurant,
favorite bar.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
In New Orleans. So I can pass along the information.
See what you say?
Speaker 5 (09:55):
She can go to the French Quarters.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
It's a nice vibe.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
It's not to or see like Bourbon Street. If she
likes seafood, I like these Exquisite. They are located in
New Orleans each so that's a big ways that she's
going to be staying downtown. It's probably about fifteen minutes
of Uber ride. But these Exquisite has some of the
amazing seafood. Ball seafood that's like real balls. Seafood Meals
(10:20):
is a nice soul food spot.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Oh okay, I don't know any of these places because
I lived there, so long ago. You know where I
always send people Becautrina to Jacamo's. That's one of my
favorite restaurants. I don't know if you've ever had it.
Also like fifteen minutes from the quarter past two Lane,
but they're famous for their alligator alligator sausage cheese cake.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
That sounds nasty, it.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Does, but it's like a sou flight. It's delicious. I
know you've had an alligator before.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
I did, but I don't really care.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
The alligator like my finger seafood.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
I really like seafood, crawlfish. I've been to a lot
of crawfish boils in my time.
Speaker 5 (10:56):
Yeah, that's that's that's it right there.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Do they have any places here?
Speaker 3 (11:00):
When I cross there is actually a restaurant that's New
Orleanian inspired right there on Newberry Street, Boylston area.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
The chef with the blue hair.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Oh, salted buttermilk and bourbon, buttermilk and bourbon Katrina.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
The biscuit that this, yes, did you like it?
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Biscuits?
Speaker 1 (11:27):
The biscuits are bomb.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
He really does a nice job of trying to each
room as kind of New Orlenean inspired. He has like
a voodoo room, a French quarter room. It's a nice
little spot if you want to, you know, fill it home. Yeah,
it is all right.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Well now I'm hungry. Katrina. Thank you for the call
and thank you for listening.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Welcome in. Uh No, I have it.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
It was you know, obviously I was there when I
was filming the Real World, so it's been a minute.
But the people in New Orleans are just so nice,
so caring. Especially having the name Katrina and being from
there though, is why that's like next level.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Sam is in Worcester, Hi Sam, Hi the morning.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
We've talked a lot about breakups on Valentine's Day. We
have yet to have anybody call and say they had
a great one and they celebrated. You gave away a
little special gift to all of your friends.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
Yeah, so I just want to give a little positivity.
I'm be honest with you. I am not a fan
of Valentine's Day, but every year I say it, I
don't like it. But this year I decided to be like,
you know what, let me think positive. So what I
did was I went to the dollar store. Nothing crazy,
they went to the dollar store. Made my own little gifts.
(12:43):
There was like the little containers that I bought colorful
things and the little baggies I thought the containers, was like, well,
like we'll like candies and stuff like that, and foll
like a bunch of little teddy bears like little wine glasses.
And now I have a couple of friends I like bourbon.
So I found a couple of bourbon glasses at the
dollar Store and all and I just made my own
little gifts, made them fancy, made them pretty, you know.
(13:05):
And my friends were all single, you know, so I
figured I gave him a gift. And guess what, they
were all excited and happy. I put a put put
a smile on their face, and you know, I just
wanted to say say, you know, I know a lot
a lot of us know people. You know, we're not
with single and we don't we don't have relationships. But
(13:25):
it doesn't always have to be negative. If you feel
like doing something nice to somebody, hey do it, nothing
wrong with it and look at.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
That doesn't it doesn't have to cost you a ton
of money. You went to the dollar Store and you
probably made their day.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Yeah, they were all laughing, happy, smiling, and you know,
we all got drunk, drunk, drunk at the end of
the night and had a little fun, and that's what
it was amazing.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
I'm gonna be honest with you, I'm I'm mad at
my own self because I see it says in my
call screener. It says Sam and Wooster gave away baggies
to friends. Like I hear the word baggy, I'm not
thinking I'm drugs.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
What kind I mean?
Speaker 3 (13:59):
I don't know what's whatever there is, but I nobody
read baggies. I was like, he's really calling to admit this,
But okay, what you did was a lot nicer.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
The candy is a lot. That's nice. But seriously, Sam,
thank you for the call. That's sweet. Happy Valentine's Day. Yeah,
I've pictured his bags. No, I wasn't thinking like nobody
was thinking. That's exactly why I wrote it that way,
because I would think that, yes, he knows I have
a drug mind.