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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sadly and The Morning Show with DJ FOURGN It's saw
T Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I've called social media the Devil's playground for some time
now because I I really do believe that. I mean,
there are some really positive things about social media and Instagram,
and then there's some really negative things, like, I mean,
it's it's the FAKEUS land on the planet.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
It's it's not real, it's not reality.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah, you're gonna catch a couple people who post so
real sometimes. We've discussed people who post so real sometimes
and I'm like, wow, she said what.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Or she or somebody posted a picture that's unflattering that
they just like allowed to be out there.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
And you're like, okay, good for that. But for the
most part, people are there. It's the it's the fakes
land on the planet. And I urge you to remind
yourself that when you're watching somebody do something it took
them a thousand times to do it, it's not who
they really are.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
It's not what's really going on. They might be there's
a thousand things.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'll smile up there when I'm not doing well, I'll
hit myself with the powis when I look grotesque. It
also has changed the game to for relationships, and it's
crazy invasive. There are people out here that track who
celebrities are following, who they unfollow, you know, have they
(01:34):
deleted photos? Like people spend their days doing this. I
don't know who these people are, but they do it.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah, But for us, like I love it because when
that stuff comes up, I'm captivating the.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Oh wait he followed her or something.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I say all this to say because I've gotten probably,
you know, maybe under ten messages from people being like,
have you seen the news?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Have you seen this?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Like?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
What do you think's going on on?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
In reference to my ex ex boyfriend, who is still
very popular in like the MTV world, he's married, he.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Has I think three or four like kids at this point.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
He's married to a girl who was also on the
real world, I'd like to first say that there is
absolutely no beef between me and them. I am damn
near forty. I got two kids of my own. I
am not thinking about that situation. I'm happy for him.
I'm happy that he has all these babies, and they
(02:35):
were seemingly happy, but now, just the way the internet works.
I'm getting these messages of video is being like, did
you see, Oh my god, did you see they unfollowed
each other?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Did you see she's posting her dream man and she's
not posting.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
And it makes me feel so sad, And I feel
like people are gonna I know, you'll defend me, but
people are probably gonna think like, oh, Ashley's on her
high horse right now.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Because I have made the comment.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
That I wish that all of my exes dated ugly people.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
None of mine did.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
All my exes bagged tens like it's great, good for me,
but anyway, I don't want to see the demise of
his family like that makes me sad. And if that
is really happening, if they're breaking up. One of the
girls wrote me and said she's pregnant, and that makes
me want to vomit because I know what it feels
(03:27):
like to have a kid be pregnant.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Your emotions are not your I would cry. I still
am hormonal and I'm eight months out now, so you know,
it's just weird. The internet is weird.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
And one of the videos I bit and I clicked,
and you know, they unfollowed each other and she unfollowed.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
His podcast whatever whatever.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
People are sleuthing on to figure out if they've broken
up or not. And I know people, most people just
want a reaction out of me, and you're not going
to get it because there's a family involved, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
I did see the video she is with child, and
I think she's like halfway through from what I can tell.
But I think because it's like possibly happening publicly, that's
exactly it. They want to get a reaction from you
and here and hear what you have to say.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah, And it's like, I guess technically I was the
last X of his before her, I.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Think, But again, we're talking ten years. Maybe that's right.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
When I think of you talking about next, I think
about the one before I think about him, because sometimes
I forget that you guys were together. Yeah, because that's
when we first met. You were dating him, and I
was unfamiliar.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
With him and to spend a lot of time with him.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, and he seemed like a nice dude. I mean
obviously he had you know, yeah, but like at the
same time, nice guy and he was fine, and you
never spoke bad about him on the air like that.
I would never and you've always been respectful about their
marriage and everything.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I try to be as honest as possible with my relationships.
I also have no desire to hurt anybody's feelings. I
mean I've I've made it clear, like when him and
I broke up, there was no infidel, there was no cheating,
there was no nothing. We just went our separate ways,
the last one I got cheated on.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
And now I'm.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Old and married to the love of my life with
two kids. Like I'm not, but I do think I
feel this like urge. I feel this urge from people
being like that are sending me the videos, being like
they want me to say something.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
I don't have anything to say. I haven't. I haven't.
I haven't seen him since night's funeral.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
But it's that thing though, right when you hear somebody
breaks up or it's the next like you want a
gossip about it, and you go right to, hey, did
you hear about this?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
And for a lot of these people you're that connection to,
like well, MTV.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I'm not gonna say, I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
When I got the first message, I immediately went to
one of my besties that I was on real road
with and I was like, what's going on? Yeah, cause
like again they have they might already have four kids
with one on the way or three whatever it is,
but there's like little babies involved. So I don't want
to I don't I'm putting out in the atmosphere that
it's all fake. I just think that it's just a
(05:56):
testament to the internet and the internet is crazy, So.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You actually don't think that they're up.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I'm hoping. Yeah, I don't know. I have no idea.
And by the way, he has me blocked. We've talked
about this. I don't know why. I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I I we had no bad blood, like literally nothing,
but I can't see anything.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yeah, well I looked at the video. They did a
gender reveal on February first, so that yeah, well.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I had to look because I had two weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah. So if they broke up me this time with
young kids, it's even harder.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
So, like I also think, and and for those of
you that are listening that have like messaged me about it,
couldn't it also just be that they got in a
fight over social media and they were like, you know what,
let's just not look at each other social media as anymore,
we're going to delete each other off social media.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I don't know I'm falling here, but.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
But the unfollow and then think the like to unfollow
the podcast, that's a real sign, right, Yeah, So maybe
they are going through way and they'll get back.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I just from what I've seen of them over the years,
they just seem so happy with each other, and they
wanted all these kids, and it seems like all the
things that they wanted are coming to fruition and they're
doing it. So I just again, I hope that it's nothingness,
but it is wild the way the internet works. Like
all of a sudden, I'm just getting sent all these
videos and videos, and I know sometimes people are sending
(07:15):
them with the eyeball them they want me to.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Say something, guys, don't. I don't wish that upon anybody.
I really don't like.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
When I first got out of the relationships, I hoped
that they.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
You know, went to hell.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
But after that, once you get out of that, you're like,
it would be weird if, after ten plus years, exactly
think about that I'm up here being like that, I
would be the.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Creepy And from their perspective, if you were doing that,
then they would be winning in the you know what
I mean. But you've moved on and you've matured it.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
And again I'm happy. I'm happy that they're happy, like
I don't. It's just I mean, it just really does
go back to the fact that most people get to,
like have these big breakups and the person goes on
with somebody else, and that person's not you know, they're
gross and asta.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
They aren't sorry, they aren't.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
They're all like smokes.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
All we talked about when I can say stuff and
you can't, Like I get it.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I'm the one saying it. Yes, so yeah, you know
you date me the next one ten out of ten
Sadly and The Morning Show with DJ FOURGN It's saw
T Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I've called social media the Devil's playground for some time
now because I I really do believe that. I mean,
there are some really positive things about social media and Instagram,
and then there's some really negative things, like, I mean,
it's it's the FAKEUS land on the planet.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
It's it's not real, it's not reality.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah, you're gonna catch a couple people who post so
real sometimes. We've discussed people who post so real sometimes
and I'm like, wow, she said what.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Or she or somebody posted a picture that's unflattering that
they just like allowed to be out there.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
And you're like, okay, good for that. But for the
most part, people are there. It's the it's the fakes
land on the planet. And I urge you to remind
yourself that when you're watching somebody do something it took
them a thousand times to do it, it's not who
they really are.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
It's not what's really going on. They might be there's
a thousand things.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'll smile up there when I'm not doing well, I'll
hit myself with the powis when I look grotesque. It
also has changed the game to for relationships, and it's
crazy invasive. There are people out here that track who
celebrities are following, who they unfollow, you know, have they
(01:34):
deleted photos? Like people spend their days doing this. I
don't know who these people are, but they do it.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah, But for us, like I love it because when
that stuff comes up, I'm captivating the.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Oh wait he followed her or something.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I say all this to say because I've gotten probably,
you know, maybe under ten messages from people being like,
have you seen the news?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Have you seen this?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Like?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
What do you think's going on on?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
In reference to my ex ex boyfriend, who is still
very popular in like the MTV world, he's married, he.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Has I think three or four like kids at this point.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
He's married to a girl who was also on the
real world, I'd like to first say that there is
absolutely no beef between me and them. I am damn
near forty. I got two kids of my own. I
am not thinking about that situation. I'm happy for him.
I'm happy that he has all these babies, and they
(02:35):
were seemingly happy, but now, just the way the internet works.
I'm getting these messages of video is being like, did
you see, Oh my god, did you see they unfollowed
each other?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Did you see she's posting her dream man and she's
not posting.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
And it makes me feel so sad, And I feel
like people are gonna I know, you'll defend me, but
people are probably gonna think like, oh, Ashley's on her
high horse right now.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Because I have made the comment.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
That I wish that all of my exes dated ugly people.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
None of mine did.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
All my exes bagged tens like it's great, good for me,
but anyway, I don't want to see the demise of
his family like that makes me sad. And if that
is really happening, if they're breaking up. One of the
girls wrote me and said she's pregnant, and that makes
me want to vomit because I know what it feels
(03:27):
like to have a kid be pregnant.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Your emotions are not your I would cry. I still
am hormonal and I'm eight months out now, so you know,
it's just weird. The internet is weird.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
And one of the videos I bit and I clicked,
and you know, they unfollowed each other and she unfollowed.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
His podcast whatever whatever.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
People are sleuthing on to figure out if they've broken
up or not. And I know people, most people just
want a reaction out of me, and you're not going
to get it because there's a family involved, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
I did see the video she is with child, and
I think she's like halfway through from what I can tell.
But I think because it's like possibly happening publicly, that's
exactly it. They want to get a reaction from you
and here and hear what you have to say.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah, And it's like, I guess technically I was the
last X of his before her, I.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Think, But again, we're talking ten years. Maybe that's right.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
When I think of you talking about next, I think
about the one before I think about him, because sometimes
I forget that you guys were together. Yeah, because that's
when we first met. You were dating him, and I
was unfamiliar.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
With him and to spend a lot of time with him.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, and he seemed like a nice dude. I mean
obviously he had you know, yeah, but like at the
same time, nice guy and he was fine, and you
never spoke bad about him on the air like that.
I would never and you've always been respectful about their
marriage and everything.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I try to be as honest as possible with my relationships.
I also have no desire to hurt anybody's feelings. I
mean I've I've made it clear, like when him and
I broke up, there was no infidel, there was no cheating,
there was no nothing. We just went our separate ways,
the last one I got cheated on.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
And now I'm.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Old and married to the love of my life with
two kids. Like I'm not, but I do think I
feel this like urge. I feel this urge from people
being like that are sending me the videos, being like
they want me to say something.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
I don't have anything to say. I haven't. I haven't.
I haven't seen him since night's funeral.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
But it's that thing though, right when you hear somebody
breaks up or it's the next like you want a
gossip about it, and you go right to, hey, did
you hear about this?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
And for a lot of these people you're that connection to,
like well, MTV.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I'm not gonna say, I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
When I got the first message, I immediately went to
one of my besties that I was on real road
with and I was like, what's going on? Yeah, cause
like again they have they might already have four kids
with one on the way or three whatever it is,
but there's like little babies involved. So I don't want
to I don't I'm putting out in the atmosphere that
it's all fake. I just think that it's just a
(05:56):
testament to the internet and the internet is crazy, So.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You actually don't think that they're up.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I'm hoping. Yeah, I don't know. I have no idea.
And by the way, he has me blocked. We've talked
about this. I don't know why. I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I I we had no bad blood, like literally nothing,
but I can't see anything.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yeah, well I looked at the video. They did a
gender reveal on February first, so that yeah, well.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I had to look because I had two weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah. So if they broke up me this time with
young kids, it's even harder.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
So, like I also think, and and for those of
you that are listening that have like messaged me about it,
couldn't it also just be that they got in a
fight over social media and they were like, you know what,
let's just not look at each other social media as anymore,
we're going to delete each other off social media.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I don't know I'm falling here, but.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
But the unfollow and then think the like to unfollow
the podcast, that's a real sign, right, Yeah, So maybe
they are going through way and they'll get back.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I just from what I've seen of them over the years,
they just seem so happy with each other, and they
wanted all these kids, and it seems like all the
things that they wanted are coming to fruition and they're
doing it. So I just again, I hope that it's nothingness,
but it is wild the way the internet works. Like
all of a sudden, I'm just getting sent all these
videos and videos, and I know sometimes people are sending
(07:15):
them with the eyeball them they want me to.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Say something, guys, don't. I don't wish that upon anybody.
I really don't like.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
When I first got out of the relationships, I hoped
that they.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
You know, went to hell.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
But after that, once you get out of that, you're like,
it would be weird if, after ten plus years, exactly
think about that I'm up here being like that, I
would be the.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Creepy And from their perspective, if you were doing that,
then they would be winning in the you know what
I mean. But you've moved on and you've matured it.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
And again I'm happy. I'm happy that they're happy, like
I don't. It's just I mean, it just really does
go back to the fact that most people get to,
like have these big breakups and the person goes on
with somebody else, and that person's not you know, they're
gross and asta.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
They aren't sorry, they aren't.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
They're all like smokes.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
All we talked about when I can say stuff and
you can't, Like I get it.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I'm the one saying it. Yes, so yeah, you know
you date me the next one ten out of ten
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