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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Daddy and the jam In Morning Shop with d J.
Fourn It's saw Taking.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Morning Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety
four or five. Hi, everybody, Good morning April Fool's Day.
So be careful out there. Uh, we're doing beyond the
swipe right now. We're talking dating love relationships. We call
it beyond the swipe because it is it's more than
just Oh, I went on tender and the guy showed
(00:24):
me his penis on the first date, so I left.
You know, things like that. You can be in a
relationship and want some advice. You could just want to
tell us a dating story. You could call and be like, hey,
I'm exhausted, I'm trying to find the love of my
life and I don't feel like I ever will anything
you want six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. That is six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. That involves dating, love relationships with
(00:48):
the lack thereof. I got this DM from Denise. Shout
out to Denise, she said, Hey, Ash, I happened to
turn on jam In this morning and heard you talking
about Tenner Tuesday. Now beyond the swipe, she said, I
know at one point you talked about a breakup that
you had gone through and then how you met your husband.
She goes, I don't remember catching the whole story when
you did that, but I was wondering what self work
(01:09):
you did in order to get there. I have been
single for so long and would love to meet a
high quality man. I've tried the dating apps and all
that stuff, but feel like I must be putting out
the wrong vibe because I'm not attracting anybody. I give
great advice to everybody else, except for myself. I would
love to feel confident and self assured about myself, and
I am just wondering where to start. I'd love to
(01:31):
hear what you guys think. Good question, It is a
good questions.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
It's a tough question.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I think you know, what makes you feel confident is
different for everybody. First and foremost, go get a spray.
Can go get a spray, Tann, That's gonna that's gonna
level you up. You're gonna feel a little better about yourself.
Uh No, But I think I think what she's referring to,
or maybe at some point I had said, was after
I went through a breakup, the last breakup before I
(02:00):
met my now or started dating my now husband. I
was saying that, you know, time is the only answer
for that, and that I just kind of got okay
with being with myself before I started dating, and then
I was like, okay, let me, let me see what's up.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
When my girlfriend broke up with me, I made it
clear to myself that I was never going to date
a person like that again, and that was how I
worked worked on myself.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
But actually what you said is the truth. Though you
gotta be you gotta be good being by yourself. You
do a lot of people are not good with being
by themselves, and that's why they kind of jump into
any relationship so they could be somebody else because they
can't stand themselves.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
For me and to piggyback that we'll deal with exact
craziness and their relationship because they're so deathly afraid of
being with themself only.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
But you know they're not happy with themselves. You're not
happy with your life. You got to you gotta get
to love yourself first, because then you know your worth
and then nobody could just come and tell you. You know
what I mean, You're gonna stand up for some instead
of falling for anything.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
But I do think it's hard for a lot of
women out there, especially on the apps, because I think
they're dealing with this thought process of like how do
I separate myself?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Like how do I stand out on these apps?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
But I almost feel like you need to change the
mindset because you don't want to stand out. You want
it to everybody. You want to stand out to that
one person who you could potentially be with for forever.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
But also you want to be yourself to. You don't
want to pretend to be so or not. And I
think standing out is being yourself.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, yeah, you're right, because you're fake on there, and
then the guy meets you in person or she meets
you in person, like.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Who and then Sod's gone and then it's like, wait,
I don't like this person because this is the wrong
person that I met.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I bet the apps are full.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Of fake absolutely, I'm sure full of fake projecting something
that they want the public to think of. Absolutely, But
in that starting at the picture too, maybe they have
a car in the background or some some vacation that
they were just on because they want the I go
have fun and you know I'm on vacation.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I have the whole game is the first vacation they've
ever been on in their life.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Around here, I feel like they've been no listen.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
I think her question is hard because I think it
probably changes from person to person, but she's basically saying,
how do I give the advice that I give to
everybody else to myself?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
You just gotta do it. I don't know it's hard.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
But a lot of people are so comfortable in what
they've always known. I think that handcuffs them from moving forward.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah, maybe do something that you wouldn't necessarily usually do.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
Absolutely, and that's a perfect start, and stand on business.
Don't don't let nobody toll it with you. I think
you get respect from people when you do that, you
know what I mean. And it might seem like you're
you're going to be blocking and stuff on in a
bunch of dudes, but eventually the one that respects you
and what you stand for is gonna make that effort. Otherwise,
if they just there for play play, then you don't
need them anyway.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
And I think Denise should start with the spray TN.
What if it's not, I'll be dead. She's through. I'm
looking at I say this because I as well am
also is he through and when I UH come back
from life and I'm dead?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Little spray TND goes.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Long the Way, the Long Way, uh six one seven
and nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. You could
give some advice to Deniece, or you could talk about
your love life, dating relationships, lack thereof six one seven
nine three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
It's beyond the Swipe.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning, It's Ashley and the
Jam of Morning Show. We're talking dating, love and relationships.
Our way call it beyond the Swipe. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four five. Rosie says she
was miss with her baby. Daddy just wasn't a good
(05:39):
situation for you. You left him and you worked on
yourself for how long until you felt like you were
in a good.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
Space, honestly like two years?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Two years?
Speaker 2 (05:50):
See, And I think people will need to like hear
that because they might think, you know, what got out
a toxic relationship.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
It's been four weeks.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I'm good.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
Yeah, you definitely got to give it some time, work
on yourself and you know, really look for what you want.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
And where are we at now?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Well, now, I have a boyfriend, and I'm super happy.
I feel like I'm waiting, like the perfect person just
came my way. But that type of stuff you can't
really just rush into.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Where did you meet him?
Speaker 6 (06:20):
Oh my mind, him through mutual friends and kind of
just clicked.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I love that because you know, that's another big question,
you know, did you find him on the apps? Did
you roll up on him in a CBS like how
do you meet people? Because aj is she's sick of
the apps. And then people will call in and be like,
just go to the grocery store you'll find a love
of life.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
But that's a good one. You got hooked up basically
through a mutual friend.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Yeah, yeah, I mean sometimes it's not that simple. I
mean there are good people out there, but you've got
to be cautious.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Are are you?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
You? You and your baby daddy co parent healthy? Everything's
good there.
Speaker 7 (06:54):
It is so cool.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
It's getting there now. But you know he wasn't too
too happy.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Listen, that's his own fault. He lost you, not problem.
All right, I'm happy to hear it. Congrats on on
the new found love. Natalie is in Lowell, Hi, Nat,
good morning, Hello, good morning, all right, babe, so tell
us about your dating life. You have a boyfriend who
lives in Pennsylvania. You got a little long distance thing
going on.
Speaker 7 (07:19):
Yes, So I don't know if you remember I had
called last year around March saying my boyfriend got in
an accident and a motorcycle accident.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Oh my god, Yes, I do remember this, And was
there something weird about you and his family in the
hospital or something.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
It was my first time meeting his family in the Hope.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
Yes.
Speaker 7 (07:39):
So now he got his settlement, just now whatever, and
now he has to go back to work, but he
hasn't found a full time job, and now he's asking
me like, oh, we have to talk about you moving
to Pennsylvania because I'm not moving to Massachusetts. And I'm like, okay, Well,
(08:01):
like I do expect you to like kind of help
me out in the beginning, but like most important, I
need health insurance. So like I did tell him, like
I expect for him to like take care of me
in that sort of way, like if he finds a
job that offers health insurance for a significant other, I
(08:23):
do expect for him to And.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Are you saying this because you've taken care of him
for the last year while he's been injured.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Is that where this is?
Speaker 7 (08:34):
Well only because like I'm only saying this because I
tell him it has to be worth it for me
to move over there, Like I have no family over there. Yeah,
I'm gonna be starting over from zero like I have.
I'm a dog groomer, I have clients here I take
care of. I'm gonna be starting over over there. So
it's like it really does have to be worth it
(08:54):
for me to move over there. Like if he's going
to be stepping up to the place.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Does not love not enough for you? I'm just saying.
Speaker 8 (09:03):
It is.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
But well, okay, here's why that.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Sounds weird to me, just because you know, if y'all
were married, health insurance okay, but like this is just
your this is your boyfriend. I know you guys have
been through something seriously traumatic, But I don't often hear
a girlfriend Colin being like I want health insurance from
my boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
You know what I mean, Like it's just not high
on the list.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
I know, I know, it's just it's health insurance. And
it's like, okay, Like I mean, you just need a job.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
First, he come here. What's the gripe with Massachusetts? Why
does he hate us something?
Speaker 7 (09:37):
He doesn't want to come over here because he says
that Massachusetts is too crowded, then moved to.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
New Hampshire or Rhode Island.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Wait what part of Pennsylvania does this man live in?
Speaker 7 (09:48):
In Easton, he's right on the border of New Jersey.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Yeah, I know where Easton is.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Okay, Well, I mean it seems like the two of
you have like a bigger issue here, especially if he
has no ties and you have a whole business here.
Speaker 7 (10:03):
I mean, yeah, it's gonna The only thing he wants
to say is that he has a lot of cars.
He has four cars because he's a Honda guy, and
he's gonna be too much to bring it over here,
and he just has a lot of stuff.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Natally, he doesn't want to deal with this. Relationship is broken.
And this is based off the whole notion that none
of you guys are talking about love. You guys all
talking about what you're looking for financially and about the cars.
You didn't mention love at all, not one.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
And I also remember she took care of that man
when he got in a motorcycle accident and he was
down and out. Yeah, y'all were dating for how long
at that time that it wasn't that much, like.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
A year and a half. Now it's going to be
like now it's.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Like two Yeah, and it's like he was in the
hospital for a while.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
Right, Yeah, he was in the hospital. Then he went
to rehab and I took a lot of days off
of work, got to be there for him.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Okay, well you know what, maybe maybe it's time for
him to step up and maybe you just say it
to Almsten, I love you so much, but right now,
career wise, like the best play would be for you
to move here. Now, I am not a Honda person.
Foreign likes cars? Foreign is it that? Is it that
daunting to get four cars from pms?
Speaker 5 (11:23):
I don't know if you own full vehicles. You know,
he's got to move him here. He's got to be
registered them, you know what I mean, he's got to
pay transport take I can just drive. There's not full
people that can drive the car. But if you love somebody,
you'll figure if you do it. But if you do,
you could do it easily, one at a time. If
y'all really wanted to do it, y'all could drive one
call of flyback drive another one of fly back, or
like when I.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Lost my my radio drob in Saint Louis and I
moved back to PA.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
I shipped my car.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
You could do that. Yeah, I mean all cars is
going to be five six seven grand. But if there's
a will, there's a way. He just he seems like
he's attached to PA a little too much. Maybe family,
Maybe it's something he doesn't want to break out of it.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Dason, it's fine. It's not that it's fine.
Speaker 7 (12:04):
I don't mind moving over there, but like I just
feel like I am more stable here that I will
help him out in the beginning here versus me going
over there, because like I said, he has no job
and he lives with his grandparents.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
So it's like, yeah, something's up that he really doesn't
like something.
Speaker 5 (12:22):
You shouldn't be making all the sacrifices yourself, like he
needs a compromise.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
To Natalie, who do you live with?
Speaker 7 (12:29):
I live with my mom.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
I think.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
The mom.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
She's like my boyfriend lives with man and pop up.
I live with Mommy mom loves the doodles. I'm not
throwing shade, but I'm just saying, like.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
We we we gotta figure how are you now?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
That's why you don't want to move y'all.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Oh yeah, yeah, that's why can you move here? Are
you saying with your mother or you guys get your
own place?
Speaker 7 (12:58):
No, like I would. I would get my own place
once my mobile grooming business gets started, so.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
With the mom.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Yeah, and I share with him on that. And I
also stay with you for not wanting to live with
the grandparents. Like, but you guys gotta we gotta figure out.
We got we have some things. And by the way,
you're twenty five, honey, we don't really need to rush this.
I know it sucks that you're doing long distance. How
often do you guys see each.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
Other right now?
Speaker 7 (13:24):
Well, when he was off and he started to drive,
he was coming out like once maybe twice a month sometime.
But now it's probably like once a month.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Okay, so one less time.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yeah, he doesn't have a way here.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Do y'all love each other?
Speaker 4 (13:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
You know, something made a good point. Do y'all love
each other? Like for real?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
For real?
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Like do you took care of the man?
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Okay, that's cool, but do y'all love it?
Speaker 8 (13:51):
I love him, I feel like we I love him
a lot, and I just I think I'm just waiting
for something to click in him, I don't know, like
just waiting for to be like, hey, Natalie, like I
got this job.
Speaker 7 (14:03):
Like I'm getting an apartment. You know, I'm sad to
tell you you're going to be waiting.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Just move on, bro, Yeah, well, at it's a long distance.
Like there's so much against you guys, y'all don't have
your own place. Y'all can't get your own place because
he doesn't have a job and you don't make enough income.
He lives all the way in PA. And then on
top of that, like you're looking for a man to
change his ways when he cares about Honda's let him go.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Yeah, and cheers the doodles too.
Speaker 7 (14:33):
I do doodles.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I do good job.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Yeah, should take a break, and then you know, once
y'all resettle.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Maybe please with this land, Please with this land.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
See how that plays out?
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Yeah, Nat, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I think maybe we concentrate on our business right now
and put a lot of you know, effort into that
and working on that, and you know, things work out
with him in the end, things out.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
You're young, so you have time.
Speaker 7 (14:55):
Yeah, that's what I'm just going to focus on. My
business for now and then we'll see what happens.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Watch plug it while we're here.
Speaker 7 (15:02):
Oh so I'm on Facebook. It's called Natalie's at Home Grooming.
We are in the process of moving to Pelham, New Hampshire,
a minute away from the drinke It line, so I
will have a nice little spot in my house and
then once I have enough money, I'll do the mobile
groom van.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
So people can come to you and drop their dog
off for grooming.
Speaker 7 (15:24):
Yes, and it's one on one grooming, so not a
bunch of dogs barking around.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
So not because I also have a doodle and I
get my dog grooms. Talk to me on pricing. If
if if it's a you know, like mid size golden doodle,
what do you charge for grooming?
Speaker 7 (15:42):
I'd say, like all my duels start at one hundred.
The bigger they are, it could get up to like
one p fifty.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
That's a good price. That's a good price. Okay, yeah,
I think that's that's a fair price. Uh So, if
anybody wants to look into using Natalie, they can find you.
They should reach out to you via Facebook.
Speaker 7 (16:00):
Yes, Facebook at Natalie's at Home Grooming.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Natalie's at Home grooming, all right, not concentrate on that bed, good.
Speaker 7 (16:07):
Luck, all right, thank you, all right.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
And that guy just wants to mod Hondas.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
She's gonna he's gonna take all har money cars.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I don't what does a man do with four Honda cars? Like,
what are we doing with theseends?
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Maybe maybe they're parked cars. Maybe he's using them to
kind of build one big dope machine. Maybe there's there's
a bunch of different kind of Hondas he has.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
It's like fast and theory.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
So he has a girlfriend Honda.
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Yeah, he's married to the game of modern cars, and
eventually all her money is going to get funneled into
that because it's not cheap dominic torretto. If you're not
first your last, it's not a nerd
Daddy and the jam In Morning Shop with d J.
Fourn It's saw Taking.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Morning Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety
four or five. Hi, everybody, Good morning April Fool's Day.
So be careful out there. Uh, we're doing beyond the
swipe right now. We're talking dating love relationships. We call
it beyond the swipe because it is it's more than
just Oh, I went on tender and the guy showed
(00:24):
me his penis on the first date, so I left.
You know, things like that. You can be in a
relationship and want some advice. You could just want to
tell us a dating story. You could call and be like, hey,
I'm exhausted, I'm trying to find the love of my
life and I don't feel like I ever will anything
you want six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. That is six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. That involves dating, love relationships with
(00:48):
the lack thereof. I got this DM from Denise. Shout
out to Denise, she said, Hey, Ash, I happened to
turn on jam In this morning and heard you talking
about Tenner Tuesday. Now beyond the swipe, she said, I
know at one point you talked about a breakup that
you had gone through and then how you met your husband.
She goes, I don't remember catching the whole story when
you did that, but I was wondering what self work
(01:09):
you did in order to get there. I have been
single for so long and would love to meet a
high quality man. I've tried the dating apps and all
that stuff, but feel like I must be putting out
the wrong vibe because I'm not attracting anybody. I give
great advice to everybody else, except for myself. I would
love to feel confident and self assured about myself, and
I am just wondering where to start. I'd love to
(01:31):
hear what you guys think. Good question, It is a
good questions.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
It's a tough question.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I think you know, what makes you feel confident is
different for everybody. First and foremost, go get a spray.
Can go get a spray, Tann, That's gonna that's gonna
level you up. You're gonna feel a little better about yourself.
Uh No, But I think I think what she's referring to,
or maybe at some point I had said, was after
I went through a breakup, the last breakup before I
(02:00):
met my now or started dating my now husband. I
was saying that, you know, time is the only answer
for that, and that I just kind of got okay
with being with myself before I started dating, and then
I was like, okay, let me, let me see what's up.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
When my girlfriend broke up with me, I made it
clear to myself that I was never going to date
a person like that again, and that was how I
worked worked on myself.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
But actually what you said is the truth. Though you
gotta be you gotta be good being by yourself. You
do a lot of people are not good with being
by themselves, and that's why they kind of jump into
any relationship so they could be somebody else because they
can't stand themselves.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
For me and to piggyback that we'll deal with exact
craziness and their relationship because they're so deathly afraid of
being with themself only.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
But you know they're not happy with themselves. You're not
happy with your life. You got to you gotta get
to love yourself first, because then you know your worth
and then nobody could just come and tell you. You know
what I mean, You're gonna stand up for some instead
of falling for anything.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
But I do think it's hard for a lot of
women out there, especially on the apps, because I think
they're dealing with this thought process of like how do
I separate myself?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Like how do I stand out on these apps?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
But I almost feel like you need to change the
mindset because you don't want to stand out. You want
it to everybody. You want to stand out to that
one person who you could potentially be with for forever.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
But also you want to be yourself to. You don't
want to pretend to be so or not. And I
think standing out is being yourself.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, yeah, you're right, because you're fake on there, and
then the guy meets you in person or she meets
you in person, like.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Who and then Sod's gone and then it's like, wait,
I don't like this person because this is the wrong
person that I met.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I bet the apps are full.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Of fake absolutely, I'm sure full of fake projecting something
that they want the public to think of. Absolutely, But
in that starting at the picture too, maybe they have
a car in the background or some some vacation that
they were just on because they want the I go
have fun and you know I'm on vacation.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I have the whole game is the first vacation they've
ever been on in their life.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Around here, I feel like they've been no listen.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
I think her question is hard because I think it
probably changes from person to person, but she's basically saying,
how do I give the advice that I give to
everybody else to myself?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
You just gotta do it. I don't know it's hard.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
But a lot of people are so comfortable in what
they've always known. I think that handcuffs them from moving forward.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah, maybe do something that you wouldn't necessarily usually do.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
Absolutely, and that's a perfect start, and stand on business.
Don't don't let nobody toll it with you. I think
you get respect from people when you do that, you
know what I mean. And it might seem like you're
you're going to be blocking and stuff on in a
bunch of dudes, but eventually the one that respects you
and what you stand for is gonna make that effort. Otherwise,
if they just there for play play, then you don't
need them anyway.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
And I think Denise should start with the spray TN.
What if it's not, I'll be dead. She's through. I'm
looking at I say this because I as well am
also is he through and when I UH come back
from life and I'm dead?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Little spray TND goes.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Long the Way, the Long Way, uh six one seven
and nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. You could
give some advice to Deniece, or you could talk about
your love life, dating relationships, lack thereof six one seven
nine three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
It's beyond the Swipe.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning, It's Ashley and the
Jam of Morning Show. We're talking dating, love and relationships.
Our way call it beyond the Swipe. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four five. Rosie says she
was miss with her baby. Daddy just wasn't a good
(05:39):
situation for you. You left him and you worked on
yourself for how long until you felt like you were
in a good.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
Space, honestly like two years?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Two years?
Speaker 2 (05:50):
See, And I think people will need to like hear
that because they might think, you know, what got out
a toxic relationship.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
It's been four weeks.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I'm good.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
Yeah, you definitely got to give it some time, work
on yourself and you know, really look for what you want.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
And where are we at now?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Well, now, I have a boyfriend, and I'm super happy.
I feel like I'm waiting, like the perfect person just
came my way. But that type of stuff you can't
really just rush into.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Where did you meet him?
Speaker 6 (06:20):
Oh my mind, him through mutual friends and kind of
just clicked.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I love that because you know, that's another big question,
you know, did you find him on the apps? Did
you roll up on him in a CBS like how
do you meet people? Because aj is she's sick of
the apps. And then people will call in and be like,
just go to the grocery store you'll find a love
of life.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
But that's a good one. You got hooked up basically
through a mutual friend.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Yeah, yeah, I mean sometimes it's not that simple. I
mean there are good people out there, but you've got
to be cautious.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Are are you?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
You? You and your baby daddy co parent healthy? Everything's
good there.
Speaker 7 (06:54):
It is so cool.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
It's getting there now. But you know he wasn't too
too happy.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Listen, that's his own fault. He lost you, not problem.
All right, I'm happy to hear it. Congrats on on
the new found love. Natalie is in Lowell, Hi, Nat,
good morning, Hello, good morning, all right, babe, so tell
us about your dating life. You have a boyfriend who
lives in Pennsylvania. You got a little long distance thing
going on.
Speaker 7 (07:19):
Yes, So I don't know if you remember I had
called last year around March saying my boyfriend got in
an accident and a motorcycle accident.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Oh my god, Yes, I do remember this, And was
there something weird about you and his family in the
hospital or something.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
It was my first time meeting his family in the Hope.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
Yes.
Speaker 7 (07:39):
So now he got his settlement, just now whatever, and
now he has to go back to work, but he
hasn't found a full time job, and now he's asking
me like, oh, we have to talk about you moving
to Pennsylvania because I'm not moving to Massachusetts. And I'm like, okay, Well,
(08:01):
like I do expect you to like kind of help
me out in the beginning, but like most important, I
need health insurance. So like I did tell him, like
I expect for him to like take care of me
in that sort of way, like if he finds a
job that offers health insurance for a significant other, I
(08:23):
do expect for him to And.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Are you saying this because you've taken care of him
for the last year while he's been injured.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Is that where this is?
Speaker 7 (08:34):
Well only because like I'm only saying this because I
tell him it has to be worth it for me
to move over there, Like I have no family over there. Yeah,
I'm gonna be starting over from zero like I have.
I'm a dog groomer, I have clients here I take
care of. I'm gonna be starting over over there. So
it's like it really does have to be worth it
(08:54):
for me to move over there. Like if he's going
to be stepping up to the place.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Does not love not enough for you? I'm just saying.
Speaker 8 (09:03):
It is.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
But well, okay, here's why that.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Sounds weird to me, just because you know, if y'all
were married, health insurance okay, but like this is just
your this is your boyfriend. I know you guys have
been through something seriously traumatic, But I don't often hear
a girlfriend Colin being like I want health insurance from
my boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
You know what I mean, Like it's just not high
on the list.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
I know, I know, it's just it's health insurance. And
it's like, okay, Like I mean, you just need a job.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
First, he come here. What's the gripe with Massachusetts? Why
does he hate us something?
Speaker 7 (09:37):
He doesn't want to come over here because he says
that Massachusetts is too crowded, then moved to.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
New Hampshire or Rhode Island.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Wait what part of Pennsylvania does this man live in?
Speaker 7 (09:48):
In Easton, he's right on the border of New Jersey.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Yeah, I know where Easton is.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Okay, Well, I mean it seems like the two of
you have like a bigger issue here, especially if he
has no ties and you have a whole business here.
Speaker 7 (10:03):
I mean, yeah, it's gonna The only thing he wants
to say is that he has a lot of cars.
He has four cars because he's a Honda guy, and
he's gonna be too much to bring it over here,
and he just has a lot of stuff.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Natally, he doesn't want to deal with this. Relationship is broken.
And this is based off the whole notion that none
of you guys are talking about love. You guys all
talking about what you're looking for financially and about the cars.
You didn't mention love at all, not one.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
And I also remember she took care of that man
when he got in a motorcycle accident and he was
down and out. Yeah, y'all were dating for how long
at that time that it wasn't that much, like.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
A year and a half. Now it's going to be
like now it's.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Like two Yeah, and it's like he was in the
hospital for a while.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
Right, Yeah, he was in the hospital. Then he went
to rehab and I took a lot of days off
of work, got to be there for him.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Okay, well you know what, maybe maybe it's time for
him to step up and maybe you just say it
to Almsten, I love you so much, but right now,
career wise, like the best play would be for you
to move here. Now, I am not a Honda person.
Foreign likes cars? Foreign is it that? Is it that
daunting to get four cars from pms?
Speaker 5 (11:23):
I don't know if you own full vehicles. You know,
he's got to move him here. He's got to be
registered them, you know what I mean, he's got to
pay transport take I can just drive. There's not full
people that can drive the car. But if you love somebody,
you'll figure if you do it. But if you do,
you could do it easily, one at a time. If
y'all really wanted to do it, y'all could drive one
call of flyback drive another one of fly back, or
like when I.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Lost my my radio drob in Saint Louis and I
moved back to PA.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
I shipped my car.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
You could do that. Yeah, I mean all cars is
going to be five six seven grand. But if there's
a will, there's a way. He just he seems like
he's attached to PA a little too much. Maybe family,
Maybe it's something he doesn't want to break out of it.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Dason, it's fine. It's not that it's fine.
Speaker 7 (12:04):
I don't mind moving over there, but like I just
feel like I am more stable here that I will
help him out in the beginning here versus me going
over there, because like I said, he has no job
and he lives with his grandparents.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
So it's like, yeah, something's up that he really doesn't
like something.
Speaker 5 (12:22):
You shouldn't be making all the sacrifices yourself, like he
needs a compromise.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
To Natalie, who do you live with?
Speaker 7 (12:29):
I live with my mom.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
I think.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
The mom.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
She's like my boyfriend lives with man and pop up.
I live with Mommy mom loves the doodles. I'm not
throwing shade, but I'm just saying, like.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
We we we gotta figure how are you now?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
That's why you don't want to move y'all.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Oh yeah, yeah, that's why can you move here? Are
you saying with your mother or you guys get your
own place?
Speaker 7 (12:58):
No, like I would. I would get my own place
once my mobile grooming business gets started, so.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
With the mom.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Yeah, and I share with him on that. And I
also stay with you for not wanting to live with
the grandparents. Like, but you guys gotta we gotta figure out.
We got we have some things. And by the way,
you're twenty five, honey, we don't really need to rush this.
I know it sucks that you're doing long distance. How
often do you guys see each.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
Other right now?
Speaker 7 (13:24):
Well, when he was off and he started to drive,
he was coming out like once maybe twice a month sometime.
But now it's probably like once a month.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Okay, so one less time.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yeah, he doesn't have a way here.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Do y'all love each other?
Speaker 4 (13:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
You know, something made a good point. Do y'all love
each other? Like for real?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
For real?
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Like do you took care of the man?
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Okay, that's cool, but do y'all love it?
Speaker 8 (13:51):
I love him, I feel like we I love him
a lot, and I just I think I'm just waiting
for something to click in him, I don't know, like
just waiting for to be like, hey, Natalie, like I
got this job.
Speaker 7 (14:03):
Like I'm getting an apartment. You know, I'm sad to
tell you you're going to be waiting.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Just move on, bro, Yeah, well, at it's a long distance.
Like there's so much against you guys, y'all don't have
your own place. Y'all can't get your own place because
he doesn't have a job and you don't make enough income.
He lives all the way in PA. And then on
top of that, like you're looking for a man to
change his ways when he cares about Honda's let him go.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Yeah, and cheers the doodles too.
Speaker 7 (14:33):
I do doodles.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I do good job.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Yeah, should take a break, and then you know, once
y'all resettle.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Maybe please with this land, Please with this land.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
See how that plays out?
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Yeah, Nat, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I think maybe we concentrate on our business right now
and put a lot of you know, effort into that
and working on that, and you know, things work out
with him in the end, things out.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
You're young, so you have time.
Speaker 7 (14:55):
Yeah, that's what I'm just going to focus on. My
business for now and then we'll see what happens.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Watch plug it while we're here.
Speaker 7 (15:02):
Oh so I'm on Facebook. It's called Natalie's at Home Grooming.
We are in the process of moving to Pelham, New Hampshire,
a minute away from the drinke It line, so I
will have a nice little spot in my house and
then once I have enough money, I'll do the mobile
groom van.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
So people can come to you and drop their dog
off for grooming.
Speaker 7 (15:24):
Yes, and it's one on one grooming, so not a
bunch of dogs barking around.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
So not because I also have a doodle and I
get my dog grooms. Talk to me on pricing. If
if if it's a you know, like mid size golden doodle,
what do you charge for grooming?
Speaker 7 (15:42):
I'd say, like all my duels start at one hundred.
The bigger they are, it could get up to like
one p fifty.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
That's a good price. That's a good price. Okay, yeah,
I think that's that's a fair price. Uh So, if
anybody wants to look into using Natalie, they can find you.
They should reach out to you via Facebook.
Speaker 7 (16:00):
Yes, Facebook at Natalie's at Home Grooming.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Natalie's at Home grooming, all right, not concentrate on that bed, good.
Speaker 7 (16:07):
Luck, all right, thank you, all right.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
And that guy just wants to mod Hondas.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
She's gonna he's gonna take all har money cars.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I don't what does a man do with four Honda cars? Like,
what are we doing with theseends?
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Maybe maybe they're parked cars. Maybe he's using them to
kind of build one big dope machine. Maybe there's there's
a bunch of different kind of Hondas he has.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
It's like fast and theory.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
So he has a girlfriend Honda.
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Yeah, he's married to the game of modern cars, and
eventually all her money is going to get funneled into
that because it's not cheap dominic torretto. If you're not
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