April 11, 2025 • 15 mins
Ashlee comforts a new mom anxious about leaving her baby
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Waddy in the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's Sat Morning Bus's number one for hip hop.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
You'm in ninety four five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi everybody, good morning. We're checking in on you. What's
going on? How are we? Six one seven nine three
one one five? That is six one seven nine three
one one nine four five talking about you, your life,
your world?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Sharing is in debt hum and it is your birthday?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Oh yes it is.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
How old are we?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Doll?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
You do you remember me?
Speaker 6 (00:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Gosh? Oh you want me to tell everyone I'm going
to be fifty. I'm fifty two Todayif.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Great, that's amazing, Happy fifty second birthday?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Love that, thank you.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
I don't know if you remember I called in. It
goes last year around this time. My author name is
Music Mermaid.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
So you remember you remember the Music Mermaid.
Speaker 7 (00:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
God gave me a good birthday present. So Sunday I
have a book signing of my second books with dance
Songs at at Barnes and Nobles and Jetam.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Shout out to good Man. I love it. What's the
second book about?
Speaker 4 (01:10):
So it's called a musical murder dog Tale and it's
about my my dog.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Well, it's about me.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
It'sbout me and my dog. We know we're mermaids and
mermaids and Murdog's books. And he goes back up to
Van Lantis, which is a made up you know first
that I made in my books. Wow, and there's three
more dance songs that I made. So yeah, nice fun
book and it's for everyone.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
You're also a music teacher, right, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
On my way to go teach my kiddos seven hundred
and fifty children a week and then my twenty first year,
my twenty first year doing it, so I love it.
I love empowering kids and writing love through music and
just giving them self confidence. And we're having a good
time this year.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
That's great.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
You know, I was just saying I heard I've heard
a couple of people, females and different interviews say that
their fifties were their favorite.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So you're on the up and up.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yes, I yes, I've I've learned. I've learned a lot,
I've seen a.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
Lot, so uh yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, but thank you so much. I love listening to
your show.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
And yeah, what time is the book signing Barnes and
Noble in debtum at what time on Sunday if people want.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
To roll, it's from two to four and if you
go to Music Mermaid dot com you can see all
the info about this project.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
I have the murd dog all right, Sharon, thank you
so much.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
For the call at my rescue dog. He's eleven now.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Happy birthday and congratulations. Thanks for the call the murd dog.
I as soon as you started talking, I remember the Mermaid.
Thanks the Mermaid singer.
Speaker 8 (02:47):
You didn't know they had murd dogs.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
But that's kind of something new. I don't. Yeah, they
don't drown, which is suck. Uh. Philip is an exeter.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
I love this, Philip, that you thought to yourself, I
have a question about this specific I know where to call.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Maybe he didn't know where to call Philip here.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
I'm sorry I had to get off my viewtooth. Can
you guys can be good?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Now we can?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
We can?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
So, Philip, you had a very specific question and you
want to ask it to Santy.
Speaker 7 (03:15):
Go ahead, Yeah, so, Santi. I love hearing you guys all.
First of all, you guys are all great. I listened
to you guys ever since I was like little, But
now I'm older and I'm listening again. So I wanted
to share the question of yesterday. You mentioned using see
alis to have your you know, you be at your
best game to be the best performance for the weekend,
and you do it on a regular basis. So my
(03:38):
question was, I didn't look it up yet. I just
figured if you must have done the research yet to
find out if using it on a regular base like that,
even though it's just for the weekend and you don't
need it down the road, do you think it's going
to affect you performance wise if you stop taking it
or no, continue taking it as much of a help.
Speaker 8 (03:56):
If you stop taking if I stopped taking that, I
think it will affect me because I have been mentally
addicted to it now to the point where if I'm
not on it, I get in my head. So yeah,
it does affect you. That's that's a negative part about it.
You perform so well that when you're off, you're like, am.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
I performing well?
Speaker 8 (04:09):
Then you start getting in your head and bad things happen.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
No, I understand the mental aspect of that, but I
just Okay, So I wasn't sure if you know it
definitely physically or chemically or whatever you want to call it.
By alge.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Are you trying to ask, can you be addicted to it?
Speaker 7 (04:22):
Like physically, I just well may be addicted. But also
you know, if there is a case study I don't
know if it's been out there that you know, not
necessarily addictions, not necessarily your mental capacity of oh no,
I need this now, But physically to the body, not
necessarily you still need it. It can affect you. Nay,
that's the main thing.
Speaker 8 (04:42):
So two things, they've done, the studies out there, and
I have a close friend who's a urologist, so he's
filled me in on all of it. So physically, no,
you don't become addictive. Physically, it doesn't harm you in
any sense. And physically if you come off, you're completely fine.
It's more the mental aspect of it there where it
impacts you.
Speaker 7 (04:55):
Yeah, yeah, I know. I know. That's like cause ADHD medicine.
You know, people say that I can affect that too, and
they say, just don't think about it.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
I would also like to add and Phillip, nobody on
this show is a doctor and or has their medical license.
I probably should have started okay, okay, okay, because I
don't need you.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
But you know what, I don't want to come back
on us.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
No, no, no way, no way. I wasn't shift you
like meta eight.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I do you know?
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Asked you know? And he's like he did some research,
so yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I have a friend of zerologists and yes, yes, and Philip,
thanks for the call, and I appreciate the question. I
think one thing that is important to say is a
lot of guys would be afraid to talk about it,
and you've never you've never shied away from.
Speaker 8 (05:38):
It, not at all, because it's like it's just a
natural thing that happens to men and it's okay. But
now there's the thing. It's it's like biohacking that part
of your body and it's all good. You know, it's
all fine. Some people use botox. I use that.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Okay, my guy, do you want to how do you
want to do this?
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Play a song like I needed tone Terrors on the line.
We're gonna talk to him next. He has a little
something something going on with four this weekend.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
But in the meantime six one seven nine three one
one nine four five that is six one seven nine
three one four five call us. We're talking about you,
your life, your world, anything you want. It's the check
in only on JAM ninety four to five. Good morning,
Hi everybody, Good morning. It's actually in the jam In
Morning Show.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Son.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I think we should reverse the order, okay, just in case,
because I feel like we're gonna get a little sad
here for a second. We're checking in on you, but
we're gonna go to Jen in Dedham first, because Jen
is already crying. And I completely understand Jen, and so
will so many other moms that are listening. Today is
your last day? Or what is it today? Or the
(06:40):
next Friday? Win's your last day of maternity leave?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
It's next Friday?
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Is your Okay? So first off, deep breath, you have
a week. I know, I know, I know how old
is baby.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
She is six months old.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
So I'm so great, so grateful for the time.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
It's just this is my second I've done this.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Then they're done this.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
I know I'm going to be yeah, but you get it.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
I follow you. You got You're the best mom.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
You get it.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
I boo hooed, boo hooed both times, and I said
to myself, exactly what you're saying. I was like, actually,
you've done this before. You know you're going to get
used to the routine and you're gonna be okay.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
But it's it.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
It doesn't matter, and it's it is literally something physical
in our body. And you know, I still feel it
when I go to get my nails done. My body
is like, wait a second, I should be at home.
That the mom guilt is real. It's like built into
our DNA. But the fact of the matter is you
are going to get used to it. You are going
to get on a schedule. It is going to be fine,
(07:47):
and he is going to be so excited when you
get home, and that's going to be amazing. And you
are very fortunate that you got six months because for
the most of us it's not that long, so that
that's amazing too. That mean actually worse, I don't know,
because that's yeah, that's six full months of bonding. But yeah, listen,
(08:07):
you will get used to it. I promise you know that.
I know you know that, But that doesn't make it
any easier. And you still have one full week.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I know. So naturally, I'm going to my mom's house
right now so she can hold me and exactly, well,
then I'm going to get my hair done, So it's
gonna be okay.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
It's gonna be Okay, you got to go back to
back to work with your hair done, and when you
go back next Friday, what will your hours be.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
They're pretty good. It's like a nine, nine to five job.
You know. I will be able to drop them off
at daycare and my husband will pick them up. So
we have a great, great, great schedule. We'll get into it.
It's just going from what we have awesome right now
to just mixing it up a little bit. It's just hard.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I know it is. How sleeping going.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Oh I feel bad because I know you're not I
have right now. Oh okay, yeah, okay, they're both They
sleep like twelve hours, like it's not small.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
No, that's amazing. You know what's weird. I think Daisy
just likes to keep me on my toes. I'll have
a week of sleep and then there's a week where
she doesn't want to sleep and she's teething and all
of the things. But I just I understand the tears
so much, it like chokes me up even thinking about it.
And you know what I always like every weekend when
they get to wake up and I'm there, I feel
(09:25):
like they get used to that. For a couple of
days and then it goes back to somebody else being there.
But you know what, the they're resilient. They figure it out.
Speaker 6 (09:33):
Yes they are, they are. And honestly, just like shout
out to you, I sort of recently started following you
after you went through a lot of stuff. I went
through a lot of stuff. You know, you're at work,
you're pumping, you're doing your thing, like want I see you? Like,
I don't think you get enough credit. You're doing absolutely
amazing and you are a leader to us women.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
So my gosh, like now I've got a prye gen.
We're gonna cry together. Thank you so much that I
appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
And I literally every single thing that we do we
obviously do it for them, and it's just you know, all.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Right, babe, well keep your head.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Have you still have a whole week, you know, just
soak up those little baby snugs and have a drink.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Seven you got a gen.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
I've told you guys this, it's the weirdest thing. Like
you're it's you, it's in our it's a body thing.
It's a body thing.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
Is it's not like a missing thing, right, it's a
guilt thing. Like again, we can't understand, it's.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
All of it. It's it's all of those things combined.
It's certainly guilt. It's but like I feel this weird
thing inside of me, like in my stomach, you know,
coming back after maternity leave, it just doesn't feel right.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I mean, to think about it, You're giving birth and
then from that time on you spend time with the baby,
like you go through all that motion of being in
the hospital, and.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Then you go home and you take care of build
up what I'm saying, and the breastfeed. You're a lifeline.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
You got to leave the baby now for eight day. Yeah, yeah,
I mean, I get it.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Yeah, I get it. Yeah, No, it's it's it's crazy
out there. Well, I knew we were gonna get emotional.
That's why I wanted to go to gen first. Now
DJ Ton Terror is gonna be like stop the tears,
stop crying because we're going.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
To the club.
Speaker 7 (11:08):
Yeah, what's up, be how are we?
Speaker 5 (11:12):
I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Good morning to everyone.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I'm excited about this club thing for you guys, because
I think a complaint from a lot of people is
like hmm, I want to go, but I'm gonna feel
like I'm the oldest one there. It's just twenty year old,
twenty one year old's partying and I don't want to
be the old habit. So you guys, are you're catering
to the people in their thirties.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
Yeah, I mean that's the goal, right, I mean, we
want to open up the space and environment for people
who are you know, on the oldest side, more mature,
who just love to, you know, sing along to their
favorite song, who just wants to be around people who
are of age and I like and you know, we're
just trying to open up that space for that sort
(11:54):
of crowd to be able to come out and have
a good time still, you know.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
And I love the combo of you and Feign. That's fun.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yeah, it's different, man, So make sure y'all pull.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
Yeah, yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't happen often, so you
know what I mean. We're happy that we're getting together
for this one for sure.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
And if people want to go, where is it? How
do we do the do the things?
Speaker 5 (12:15):
Yeah? So it's it's Sojiaba Boston over in Fenway. So
it is going to be from six to eleven, so
we're you know, allowing folks to get out early. And
get home early. You know, thirty plus people, we don't
want to be out until two o'clock in the morning, right,
(12:35):
So I'm giving all the aunties and all the uncles
and everyone who got to watch watch their their nephews
and nieces the next day, you know, to be able
to come out and still be able to get home
early enough to you know.
Speaker 7 (12:46):
Do their things. So yep, so sojia.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
But Boston six to eleven tomorrow dedicated to us thirty
plus event, so you know, and and I must say
that you don't necessarily have to be thirty plus, but
you have to understand the assignment.
Speaker 7 (13:00):
Right.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
The music is going to be nostalgia, it's going to
be throwbacks, it's going to be some Mary J.
Speaker 6 (13:05):
Right.
Speaker 5 (13:05):
I know you' all giving out some tickets.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
To Mary J.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
So boom, there you go. Right, that's that's that's what
that's what it is. That's the vibe, that's the energy
that we're bringing. And if you want to come out,
have a good time, singing along to your favorite songs
and dance, you know, the evening away as to say,
not even the night because you know, like I said,
it's the early thing. Come out, support the event and
we'll have a good time together.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
For it is not even gonna know what to do
it himself because he usually doesn't get to the club
till eleven.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
So this man is going to be like, no, I
know you listen to the show, so I couldn't let
you go without being just a tad messy you if
for people that don't know, used to be on a
station called AMP m H and there was a fea listen.
I'm not going to say names here, but I don't
know if you you gon know this on there was
a female that was on AMPS.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
I do know she hated, Yes, she hated.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
I don't know because we were at the time on
in the same day parts and I had met her
out once and like ignored my presence like like it
was strange to the point where I had to reach
out to the people be like did I do something
as something going on? It was like, no, you're you're
on at the same time slot.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
There's beef. I said, what so there was real radio
beef at one time? Yeah, no reason, no reason. Whose
side were you on? Mine or her? Definitely mine? All right,
Well we'll see you at the event. Thanks for calling.
Speaker 8 (14:27):
Which, by the way wasn't because I know a lot
of people are going to assume that it's knock Koren.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Knock Koren. Corin is my girl. Karen does as Mr
makes like she has crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
So ever since you know, AM kind of went through
the change, how she ever reached out to you to
be like you know, I was coming nothing.
Speaker 8 (14:46):
She wasn't nice though she was nasty, she really was.
I've heard other things doing it.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
I'm just saying now anytime I talked to somebody from Amber,
I have like that little I think like it was strange.
We're nice people, right, But I really do love Current
and I loved Home. So I'm happy that you guys
are linking at Yes Yes Saturday.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Make sure I pull up Soldier boys a value both.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Poor guy he's gonna text for and bick. Now, why
didn't you know? Why didn't you
Waddy in the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's Sat Morning Bus's number one for hip hop.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
You'm in ninety four five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi everybody, good morning. We're checking in on you. What's
going on? How are we? Six one seven nine three
one one five? That is six one seven nine three
one one nine four five talking about you, your life,
your world?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Sharing is in debt hum and it is your birthday?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Oh yes it is.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
How old are we?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Doll?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
You do you remember me?
Speaker 6 (00:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Gosh? Oh you want me to tell everyone I'm going
to be fifty. I'm fifty two Todayif.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Great, that's amazing, Happy fifty second birthday?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Love that, thank you.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
I don't know if you remember I called in. It
goes last year around this time. My author name is
Music Mermaid.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
So you remember you remember the Music Mermaid.
Speaker 7 (00:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
God gave me a good birthday present. So Sunday I
have a book signing of my second books with dance
Songs at at Barnes and Nobles and Jetam.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Shout out to good Man. I love it. What's the
second book about?
Speaker 4 (01:10):
So it's called a musical murder dog Tale and it's
about my my dog.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Well, it's about me.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
It'sbout me and my dog. We know we're mermaids and
mermaids and Murdog's books. And he goes back up to
Van Lantis, which is a made up you know first
that I made in my books. Wow, and there's three
more dance songs that I made. So yeah, nice fun
book and it's for everyone.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
You're also a music teacher, right, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
On my way to go teach my kiddos seven hundred
and fifty children a week and then my twenty first year,
my twenty first year doing it, so I love it.
I love empowering kids and writing love through music and
just giving them self confidence. And we're having a good
time this year.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
That's great.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
You know, I was just saying I heard I've heard
a couple of people, females and different interviews say that
their fifties were their favorite.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So you're on the up and up.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yes, I yes, I've I've learned. I've learned a lot,
I've seen a.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
Lot, so uh yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, but thank you so much. I love listening to
your show.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
And yeah, what time is the book signing Barnes and
Noble in debtum at what time on Sunday if people want.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
To roll, it's from two to four and if you
go to Music Mermaid dot com you can see all
the info about this project.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
I have the murd dog all right, Sharon, thank you
so much.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
For the call at my rescue dog. He's eleven now.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Happy birthday and congratulations. Thanks for the call the murd dog.
I as soon as you started talking, I remember the Mermaid.
Thanks the Mermaid singer.
Speaker 8 (02:47):
You didn't know they had murd dogs.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
But that's kind of something new. I don't. Yeah, they
don't drown, which is suck. Uh. Philip is an exeter.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
I love this, Philip, that you thought to yourself, I
have a question about this specific I know where to call.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Maybe he didn't know where to call Philip here.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
I'm sorry I had to get off my viewtooth. Can
you guys can be good?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Now we can?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
We can?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
So, Philip, you had a very specific question and you
want to ask it to Santy.
Speaker 7 (03:15):
Go ahead, Yeah, so, Santi. I love hearing you guys all.
First of all, you guys are all great. I listened
to you guys ever since I was like little, But
now I'm older and I'm listening again. So I wanted
to share the question of yesterday. You mentioned using see
alis to have your you know, you be at your
best game to be the best performance for the weekend,
and you do it on a regular basis. So my
(03:38):
question was, I didn't look it up yet. I just
figured if you must have done the research yet to
find out if using it on a regular base like that,
even though it's just for the weekend and you don't
need it down the road, do you think it's going
to affect you performance wise if you stop taking it
or no, continue taking it as much of a help.
Speaker 8 (03:56):
If you stop taking if I stopped taking that, I
think it will affect me because I have been mentally
addicted to it now to the point where if I'm
not on it, I get in my head. So yeah,
it does affect you. That's that's a negative part about it.
You perform so well that when you're off, you're like, am.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
I performing well?
Speaker 8 (04:09):
Then you start getting in your head and bad things happen.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
No, I understand the mental aspect of that, but I
just Okay, So I wasn't sure if you know it
definitely physically or chemically or whatever you want to call it.
By alge.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Are you trying to ask, can you be addicted to it?
Speaker 7 (04:22):
Like physically, I just well may be addicted. But also
you know, if there is a case study I don't
know if it's been out there that you know, not
necessarily addictions, not necessarily your mental capacity of oh no,
I need this now, But physically to the body, not
necessarily you still need it. It can affect you. Nay,
that's the main thing.
Speaker 8 (04:42):
So two things, they've done, the studies out there, and
I have a close friend who's a urologist, so he's
filled me in on all of it. So physically, no,
you don't become addictive. Physically, it doesn't harm you in
any sense. And physically if you come off, you're completely fine.
It's more the mental aspect of it there where it
impacts you.
Speaker 7 (04:55):
Yeah, yeah, I know. I know. That's like cause ADHD medicine.
You know, people say that I can affect that too, and
they say, just don't think about it.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
I would also like to add and Phillip, nobody on
this show is a doctor and or has their medical license.
I probably should have started okay, okay, okay, because I
don't need you.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
But you know what, I don't want to come back
on us.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
No, no, no way, no way. I wasn't shift you
like meta eight.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I do you know?
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Asked you know? And he's like he did some research,
so yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I have a friend of zerologists and yes, yes, and Philip,
thanks for the call, and I appreciate the question. I
think one thing that is important to say is a
lot of guys would be afraid to talk about it,
and you've never you've never shied away from.
Speaker 8 (05:38):
It, not at all, because it's like it's just a
natural thing that happens to men and it's okay. But
now there's the thing. It's it's like biohacking that part
of your body and it's all good. You know, it's
all fine. Some people use botox. I use that.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Okay, my guy, do you want to how do you
want to do this?
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Play a song like I needed tone Terrors on the line.
We're gonna talk to him next. He has a little
something something going on with four this weekend.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
But in the meantime six one seven nine three one
one nine four five that is six one seven nine
three one four five call us. We're talking about you,
your life, your world, anything you want. It's the check
in only on JAM ninety four to five. Good morning,
Hi everybody, Good morning. It's actually in the jam In
Morning Show.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Son.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I think we should reverse the order, okay, just in case,
because I feel like we're gonna get a little sad
here for a second. We're checking in on you, but
we're gonna go to Jen in Dedham first, because Jen
is already crying. And I completely understand Jen, and so
will so many other moms that are listening. Today is
your last day? Or what is it today? Or the
(06:40):
next Friday? Win's your last day of maternity leave?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
It's next Friday?
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Is your Okay? So first off, deep breath, you have
a week. I know, I know, I know how old
is baby.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
She is six months old.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
So I'm so great, so grateful for the time.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
It's just this is my second I've done this.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Then they're done this.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
I know I'm going to be yeah, but you get it.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
I follow you. You got You're the best mom.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
You get it.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
I boo hooed, boo hooed both times, and I said
to myself, exactly what you're saying. I was like, actually,
you've done this before. You know you're going to get
used to the routine and you're gonna be okay.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
But it's it.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
It doesn't matter, and it's it is literally something physical
in our body. And you know, I still feel it
when I go to get my nails done. My body
is like, wait a second, I should be at home.
That the mom guilt is real. It's like built into
our DNA. But the fact of the matter is you
are going to get used to it. You are going
to get on a schedule. It is going to be fine,
(07:47):
and he is going to be so excited when you
get home, and that's going to be amazing. And you
are very fortunate that you got six months because for
the most of us it's not that long, so that
that's amazing too. That mean actually worse, I don't know,
because that's yeah, that's six full months of bonding. But yeah, listen,
(08:07):
you will get used to it. I promise you know that.
I know you know that, But that doesn't make it
any easier. And you still have one full week.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I know. So naturally, I'm going to my mom's house
right now so she can hold me and exactly, well,
then I'm going to get my hair done, So it's
gonna be okay.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
It's gonna be Okay, you got to go back to
back to work with your hair done, and when you
go back next Friday, what will your hours be.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
They're pretty good. It's like a nine, nine to five job.
You know. I will be able to drop them off
at daycare and my husband will pick them up. So
we have a great, great, great schedule. We'll get into it.
It's just going from what we have awesome right now
to just mixing it up a little bit. It's just hard.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I know it is. How sleeping going.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Oh I feel bad because I know you're not I
have right now. Oh okay, yeah, okay, they're both They
sleep like twelve hours, like it's not small.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
No, that's amazing. You know what's weird. I think Daisy
just likes to keep me on my toes. I'll have
a week of sleep and then there's a week where
she doesn't want to sleep and she's teething and all
of the things. But I just I understand the tears
so much, it like chokes me up even thinking about it.
And you know what I always like every weekend when
they get to wake up and I'm there, I feel
(09:25):
like they get used to that. For a couple of
days and then it goes back to somebody else being there.
But you know what, the they're resilient. They figure it out.
Speaker 6 (09:33):
Yes they are, they are. And honestly, just like shout
out to you, I sort of recently started following you
after you went through a lot of stuff. I went
through a lot of stuff. You know, you're at work,
you're pumping, you're doing your thing, like want I see you? Like,
I don't think you get enough credit. You're doing absolutely
amazing and you are a leader to us women.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
So my gosh, like now I've got a prye gen.
We're gonna cry together. Thank you so much that I
appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
And I literally every single thing that we do we
obviously do it for them, and it's just you know, all.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Right, babe, well keep your head.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Have you still have a whole week, you know, just
soak up those little baby snugs and have a drink.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Seven you got a gen.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
I've told you guys this, it's the weirdest thing. Like
you're it's you, it's in our it's a body thing.
It's a body thing.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
Is it's not like a missing thing, right, it's a
guilt thing. Like again, we can't understand, it's.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
All of it. It's it's all of those things combined.
It's certainly guilt. It's but like I feel this weird
thing inside of me, like in my stomach, you know,
coming back after maternity leave, it just doesn't feel right.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I mean, to think about it, You're giving birth and
then from that time on you spend time with the baby,
like you go through all that motion of being in
the hospital, and.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Then you go home and you take care of build
up what I'm saying, and the breastfeed. You're a lifeline.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
You got to leave the baby now for eight day. Yeah, yeah,
I mean, I get it.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Yeah, I get it. Yeah, No, it's it's it's crazy
out there. Well, I knew we were gonna get emotional.
That's why I wanted to go to gen first. Now
DJ Ton Terror is gonna be like stop the tears,
stop crying because we're going.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
To the club.
Speaker 7 (11:08):
Yeah, what's up, be how are we?
Speaker 5 (11:12):
I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Good morning to everyone.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I'm excited about this club thing for you guys, because
I think a complaint from a lot of people is
like hmm, I want to go, but I'm gonna feel
like I'm the oldest one there. It's just twenty year old,
twenty one year old's partying and I don't want to
be the old habit. So you guys, are you're catering
to the people in their thirties.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
Yeah, I mean that's the goal, right, I mean, we
want to open up the space and environment for people
who are you know, on the oldest side, more mature,
who just love to, you know, sing along to their
favorite song, who just wants to be around people who
are of age and I like and you know, we're
just trying to open up that space for that sort
(11:54):
of crowd to be able to come out and have
a good time still, you know.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
And I love the combo of you and Feign. That's fun.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yeah, it's different, man, So make sure y'all pull.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
Yeah, yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't happen often, so you
know what I mean. We're happy that we're getting together
for this one for sure.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
And if people want to go, where is it? How
do we do the do the things?
Speaker 5 (12:15):
Yeah? So it's it's Sojiaba Boston over in Fenway. So
it is going to be from six to eleven, so
we're you know, allowing folks to get out early. And
get home early. You know, thirty plus people, we don't
want to be out until two o'clock in the morning, right,
(12:35):
So I'm giving all the aunties and all the uncles
and everyone who got to watch watch their their nephews
and nieces the next day, you know, to be able
to come out and still be able to get home
early enough to you know.
Speaker 7 (12:46):
Do their things. So yep, so sojia.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
But Boston six to eleven tomorrow dedicated to us thirty
plus event, so you know, and and I must say
that you don't necessarily have to be thirty plus, but
you have to understand the assignment.
Speaker 7 (13:00):
Right.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
The music is going to be nostalgia, it's going to
be throwbacks, it's going to be some Mary J.
Speaker 6 (13:05):
Right.
Speaker 5 (13:05):
I know you' all giving out some tickets.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
To Mary J.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
So boom, there you go. Right, that's that's that's what
that's what it is. That's the vibe, that's the energy
that we're bringing. And if you want to come out,
have a good time, singing along to your favorite songs
and dance, you know, the evening away as to say,
not even the night because you know, like I said,
it's the early thing. Come out, support the event and
we'll have a good time together.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
For it is not even gonna know what to do
it himself because he usually doesn't get to the club
till eleven.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
So this man is going to be like, no, I
know you listen to the show, so I couldn't let
you go without being just a tad messy you if
for people that don't know, used to be on a
station called AMP m H and there was a fea listen.
I'm not going to say names here, but I don't
know if you you gon know this on there was
a female that was on AMPS.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
I do know she hated, Yes, she hated.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
I don't know because we were at the time on
in the same day parts and I had met her
out once and like ignored my presence like like it
was strange to the point where I had to reach
out to the people be like did I do something
as something going on? It was like, no, you're you're
on at the same time slot.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
There's beef. I said, what so there was real radio
beef at one time? Yeah, no reason, no reason. Whose
side were you on? Mine or her? Definitely mine? All right,
Well we'll see you at the event. Thanks for calling.
Speaker 8 (14:27):
Which, by the way wasn't because I know a lot
of people are going to assume that it's knock Koren.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Knock Koren. Corin is my girl. Karen does as Mr
makes like she has crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
So ever since you know, AM kind of went through
the change, how she ever reached out to you to
be like you know, I was coming nothing.
Speaker 8 (14:46):
She wasn't nice though she was nasty, she really was.
I've heard other things doing it.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
I'm just saying now anytime I talked to somebody from Amber,
I have like that little I think like it was strange.
We're nice people, right, But I really do love Current
and I loved Home. So I'm happy that you guys
are linking at Yes Yes Saturday.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Make sure I pull up Soldier boys a value both.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Poor guy he's gonna text for and bick. Now, why
didn't you know? Why didn't you
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