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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Especially in the Jamie Morning Show when you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
No, we got you three things you need to know
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Speaker 3 (00:11):
Five.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
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think more and more comes for every week. And I
think that's the big thing with coach. She's calling great games.
And I think we got even more or less than
the tank and I think that's what we'll look back
on in that fourth quarter there to try to really
steal the game.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's not about Drake, it's not about QB one, It's
about everybody else and that's why they win.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
You love to see it.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Monday, October twentieth, Pats, number one in the AFC East,
demolished the Titans thirty one to thirteen, putting them at
five and two for the season, which, by the way,
in the NFL is a really good record.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
A lot of people are coming into these games like
one and six.
Speaker 5 (00:45):
I'm like, wait a second, that's what's going on out
here that you expect to be really good?
Speaker 1 (00:49):
You do?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I mean the Chiefs lost a couple right out of
the gate, and I was like, wait a second.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
I don't want to use the word super Bowl yet,
but I will say playoffs for sure, because the Patriots
looks better than they've looked in the last five years.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
They're fun to one there sitting at five and two.
You better believe they're about to be six and two
real quick. They're playing the Browns next weekend. And that's
I'm not trying to throw shade to Cleveland. My dad's
a Browns fan. I know what to expect. The man
is crying to me every single weekend about yet another loss.
They got one yesterday. But even a blind squirrel finds
a nut.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
But there's no way he's gonna bet the Browns on Sunday, right,
There's no way.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
There's no way he wouldn't. Okay, there's no way he wouldn't.
I will put this out there, and I have said
this a million times. The Browns ever make it to
the Super Bowl, my dad could be on his death bed.
I'm wheeling that mofo in. I am wheeling him in
with an oxygen tank. Okay, I would make that happen
for him. That is how much of a Browns fan
he is. But either way, Pats are doing the damn
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thing and it's really nice to see. And you know what,
I think its silences a little bit of the PATS
haters like yourself.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Yeah, but I admit that I was wrong. Well, not
that I was wrong, but I've changed my tone because
Mac Jones sucked. Yeah, your rod was awful. But now
we're in a good vibe here.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And shout up to Mike Rabel obviously beating the Titans
was a big one for him. All right, Brandy just
walking off stage. Her and Monica are on tour. We
know the hit, but they never even got to it.
It's called the Boy's Mine Tour. They never even got
to sing the song, so there's some discrepancies here.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
It was a huge story over the weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Brandy does this and walks off the stage.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Give me one second, talk, I gotta get.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
My look, Oh my god, No.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Give me one second, y'all.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I gotta get my And then she sounds like she
doesn't have a breath or know what to say next.
But there's other clips going vibral of her commenting that
she was having some audio issues.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Fans inside the.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Arena in Chicago tweeting, wait, what, we're all in shock?
How come Brandy left the stage halfway through the Boy's
Mind Tour. Nobody knows what happened, but Monica had to
come close the concert alone and they didn't even sing
the Boy is Mine. On the Boy is Mine tour,
Brandy was also having audio problems. Now it got weird
because Brandy then posts on IG and says, to my
dear fans in Chicago, thank you for the over overwhelming
(03:15):
love and support, most certainly for your prayers. I sincerely
apologize for the abrupt end of last night's performance in Chicago,
But after weeks of NonStop rehearsals, last night I experienced
the dehydration and feelings of wanting to faint. Everybody involved
agreed that prioritizing my well being was of the utmost importance.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
There is a video of behind the scenes.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You can kind of see Brandy walk off the stage
and it looks like she goes straight to the audio guys,
but it's also kind of hard to see. So was
it an audio issue and she was pissed or did
she really feel faint.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
If it was an audio thing, you can come back.
You can fix that like instantly right or in just
in the moment.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
But do you get so mad you're like I'm dying.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
I think you get mad, But you don't blame the
audience for that, right, you don't put it on them,
and you don't leave them there.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You're believing dehydration.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I'm believing dehydration and take a step further. The only
thing that you do that for is if you really
have stomach issues and you can't come back and you
have to take care of what you have to.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Like in that moment, who was.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
It that was performing on stage and was like, hold on,
I have to go Jason, right, yeah, and he's like
I have to poop again. That that's crazy to think about,
but I wouldn't know, but I so go ahead.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I mean, if you think about it. There have been
times through where I've had to run off the air,
go to the bathroom, and come back. But that's because, like,
I don't have the stomach bug. But if I had
the stomach bug and you're in there for a while
and you're.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Struggle, you have to bring me the stomach bug. I'm
not talking about you.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
I'm not talking about the time that you were sick
for two days and you know it was just like Lava.
I'm not saying that I'm just saying for her, what
if it's it's a situation like that, what you can't
I didn't say.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
I haven't hurt. I literally lied about that for the show.
We were dying for content.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
But I guess you can understand how one would be dehydrated,
right for sure?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
One?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
So yeah, So that's anyways, the Boy's Mind Tour. I
want to see it. The vocals sounded good until she
ran her off. It'll be fine.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Anyways, Rob Gardashian and Black China.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Do we remember the Black China and Rob show? I
remember yet.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Some reason, I'm picturing a scene of them going hiking
and she's like mad that Rob can't hike Ga Hill
and she's all mad at him.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I ad for a season, right Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
They had baby dream you know, gorgeous by the way,
But anyways, so they were done.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
We don't see Rob a lot. There's rumors and we.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Saw a quick clip that Rob will be a little
bit more of this next season of Keeping up with
the Kardashians.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Would love to see him. I wonder what's going on
with Rob.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
But Black China posted the other day on Instagram and
she essentially insinuated that her photo shoot that she did
was for Rob Kardashian. So everybody's like, well, wait a second,
are Rob and China getting back together?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Everybody's in me. I was about a lot of other people.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Were like, well, wait a second, why would she say
that this photo shoot is for Rob. He, by the way,
liked the post certainly kind of insinuating that they're back
in communications.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Well, she was at the l A women's expo. By
the way.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
She has really changed a lot. She she had had
worked done to her face. She she got rid of
all of her fillers. She has really concentrated on g
O D.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
She's with the Lord now.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
She has changed, for sure as a person. But listen
to her answer the question about her and Rob.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Sure for sure have more children. Okay, I will, I want,
I want to more. Actually me too, I do?
Speaker 3 (06:32):
You do?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
I do? I'm not man dreams not as now we're talking.
Would you did you deal with Rob or with Talia
pick one?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Rob?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Really?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
This.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Listen to my next questions. Okay, are you guys back on?
Are you me and Robert? We we're healing. My God,
I loved and we're communicating and we're just going with
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the floor. And if God, then there will be something.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
The only issue that they're going to run into is
a woman by the name of Tokyo, because Tokyo hates
the Kardashians, that is Black China's mother, and Tokyo is
very vocal on the Worldwide Web.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
So I would think that that might cause a little
bit of a rift.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
But if rob and the fan can look past that,
then maybe, well.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I think the fact is that China changed so much,
so I think that's gonna help it.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
And she listen, she knows her mother's crazy. Yeah, she
knows that because Tokyo will go off.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Is Tokyo her real name, I don't know. It can't
be told. I don't think so. I don't think so,
but I don't know for sure. Black chined my way.
I just looked up. She's thirty seven years old.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Said she won't have two more kids with rob Iteally,
all right, this three things need to know For Monday,
October the twentieth, let's do round two of hip Hops
most Haunted tickets to go see Ray and of course
we're linking those up with the two for one special.
You're also gonna go to Spooky World six one, seven, nine,
three one twenty five, Happy Halloween.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Dashy and the morning show Good Morning Boston's number one
for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Hi Babes, Good Morning.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
We are gonna talk here about the live show, So
I have I literally get butterflies even thinking about it,
because Santi just said to me off air, He's like, Ash,
we don't do this. This is not something we have
ever done. Kiss has their big Turkey Toss once a year.
It's coming up, and they do a live show attached
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to that where they're down there. But this is like
a first ever for Jam and that I can ever remember.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
The Turkey Toss is different though, because they make the
entire broadcast about the turkey.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
There's an event.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
Yes, yeah, we're doing a show from Man, we still
have to do the entertainment, do everything that we do.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
God only knows what the celebrities are going to be
doing that Friday, because we'll be talking about you know
what I mean, We're not changing what we're doing. It's
it's you will literally be watching us do the show
live action.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
Maybe the closest thing that we've done. When we broadcast
from Disney back in March, that was the closest thing.
But there wasn't an audience there staring at us. That's
the thing, that's the difference.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I already feel we already even thinking about it. But
how dope is it going to be to be able
to do the check in literally with a human body
next to us.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
And some of the characters that come on Salem and
some of the best I know.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
There's so many different elements to this and six one seven, nine,
three one five if you have any questions, but I
think let's start at the beginning.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
We are going to be.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Doing our show live from six to ten at Rockefeller's
in Salem.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
We couldn't have got a better location.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Rockefellers reached out to us asked if we wanted to
do this, and I could have cried with excitement. It
is a center central location is right across from the
Bewitch statue. It's at the top of Essex Street. It
is the spot to be at two people watch, to drink,
to have fun.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
The atmosphere is there.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I mean, just in general, this time, we are what
at that point will be one week away from Halloween
Electric in Salem. You can feel it. It's like the
Sanderson sisters are getting ready you know.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Very true.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
There's not a better place to be, and I keep
telling everybody you can make a day out of it.
Come hang out with us in the morning, get yourself
a breakfast sandwich, walk around Salem, enjoy the haunts, enjoy
the day. We're adding another element of a costume contest
to this as well. We have a thousand dollars first
prize giveaway, which is insane. If you come dressed up
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and you're the best one there, you get one thousand dollars.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
And I'm pretty sure at most of the bars when
you do these contests around like this time of year,
it's like one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
One thousand dollars is amazing.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
You're also gonna get tickets to Rockefeller's huge Halloween party.
There's no better party in Salem. Everybody is there, everyone
is dressed to the it's just so fun. The second
place will get five hundred dollars, third to fifty. When
they came to us and said, you know, we're doing
a costume contest, we were like, unless the prize is good, like,
we don't really want to do it. I don't want
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to put that on everybody. I felt like that was
kind of a force. Once we found out what the
prize was, I was like taken aback, Like can I
be a.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Part of it?
Speaker 3 (11:20):
One thousand dollars if you come dressed up and you're
our winner thousand bucks?
Speaker 5 (11:24):
But even for the second prize and the third prize,
that's still amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Absolutely, And if you are coming anyway, you might as
well dress up and give it a go.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Because the chances are you're going to win something, right,
I would.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
Think, So when to come? What's going on? You can
get there at six that's when the show starts. Anytime after.
I think we are adding that if you are going
to come dressed up and you're going to enter into
the costume contest, try to get there by eight am.
Is going to be the cutof for that, because we
certainly want to have you on air and be a
part of the show. The bar at Rockefellers will open
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at eight and we will provide a breakfast sandwich to
every person that comes. Another huge question I keep getting
asked if I don't have VIP, like, can I still come?
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Anybody can come?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
If you know people in Salem and you're coming, invite
them come get a breakfast sandwich, have have a mimosa
hit the sound.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
It's funny.
Speaker 5 (12:13):
On that note, I've had people I went to high
school with hitting me up at telling me that they're
gonna stop by.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I can't wait to meet them all.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
It's gonna be fine, but they're gonna start telling stories. Specifically,
there's one storry from me in high school when I
flip my mom's car on school property.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Then Iconic Tale tells, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I also will add in we're gonna have a special
guest on the show that day.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
AJ.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I fought for AJ to be able to come because
I said she has a dating update. I think we
can all guess what the update will be, but she
does have something she says she wants to tell. We
were gonna do it last week. I said no, honey,
you need to save that for the live show. So
AJ is gonna be there as well. We just can't
wait to see everybody in person and give you a
hug and have a drink. I just you know, I
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read every single message and I'm so pumped to be
able to meet some of you guys in person.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
It's gonna start getting crazy. When the bar starts to open,
people start drinking. They offer us drinks. How can we
say no.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
To I don't have respect for myself. I don't say drinks.
I mean, well, after ten it's Friday. Am I missing anything?
Because there's just so many.
Speaker 5 (13:14):
I think you've nailed it all. I think, just frost.
We're really excited to meet you guys and hang out
with you guys because we don't do this often. We don't,
we don't ever do this. So this experience, in this
whole event is gonna be awesome.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
If two of you show up, I will be more
than more than.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Uh. Let's do a VIP a giveaway, which, by the way,
means you get a closer shot at Santi.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Maybe he'll show you his feet. Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Maybe six one seven nine three one one nine four
five six one seven nine three one one nine five
collars twenty five. You are getting VIP tickets to our
live show, which is literally this Friday. Hi, everybody, good morning.
It's Ashley and the gam In Morning Show live from Medford.
But on Friday, I'll be saying live from Rockefellers in Salem.
Oh my god, being in Salem a week before Halloween.
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Legit Chillies Delayne is in Cambridge.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Do you want to come to the shop. Do you
want to come to the show?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
All right, well you're in honey, and your front row center.
That's the difference there with the VIP tickets verse not
I mean, nothing crazy, but you will be able to
have a closer view of the show.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Now, who will you bring and will you dress up?
All the things? I will bring my husband and yes
we will dress up.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Dollars you could be walking away with or five hundred
or two fifty either way, come.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
On, thank you, thank you, we'll take it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
You're very welcome. Now, will you guys hang and do
like a day in Salem? Or will you just come
to the show?
Speaker 1 (14:36):
I'm going to show yet I got to run it
by him and see, all right, see what was playing?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Well, listen, I can't wait to meet you. Thank you
up for coming, and we'll see you on Friday.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Thank you Friday.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Right, hang on the line there, we'll get on your
infel great part about this too, is that you're getting
in before the traffic starts too.
Speaker 5 (14:53):
The Halloween traffic starts after twelve, so you get in
the early riser exactly.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Nobody's getting up to be there that early in the morning,
So I actually think you'll be able to because I
know right next to the grocery store or like the
post office down there, there's a huge lot. You're gonna
you will if you don't get a street spot, you'll
get into one of the bigger lots that's just easy
access to everything.
Speaker 5 (15:12):
Yeah, there's a lot right around the corner from there
that's usually empty if it's early enough too.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
No, I think that's the thing about parking. Usually it's
a mess. But I think you'll be okay. The town
itself is going to be nuts because it's the Friday
before Halloween.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Back in the day, I used to have people park
at my house like all the time and they walk
down because it was a half a mile walk down
down to down downtown, so it was easy.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't think people really, if you haven't been there, understand, like,
you're gonna walk up and down Essex and you're gonna
see all your favorites. You're gonna see Freddy, You're gonna
see Penny Wise, You're gonna see Jack Skelly, You're gonna
see Witches, You're gonna see the Sanders and Sisters. You're
gonna see Billy. It it is Halloween on steroids.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
How much you think those people make like daily, Like
they must make at least a thousand bucks a day
just because.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yeah, that's what you do. You put money in their
cauldrons or whatever they have.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Little sit all right, If you need any more info,
I posted up the Little Flyer but at Ashley and
the Am two's on the Ashley or my personal at
Ashley Feldman tweeze on the Ashley if you have any questions.
Oh my god, we're literally days away from our first
ever live show for Sashy show.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Good Morning Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
I would think sond that this is a very common
conversation that whether you're a new parent or just a
parent in general, you got a.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Kid, have but also just like life changes.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Olivia Colpo, who's a model and she's married to Christian McCaffrey, handsome,
handsome man. They just had a baby, Collette, and she
went viral a couple days ago for saying like that
there's been a shift in her identity after having a
baby daughter. She said it's been scary transitioning into parenthood
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and that. You know, she said, whether or not you
want it to be there, you have somebody that's physically
dependent on you. So I'm not going to sugar.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
It's scary. It's a shift than who I am.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
Yeah, and I also think she's probably was used to
a life being a certain way. Then you had a
child and it just changes everything.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
It changes everything, and honestly obviously for the better. But
you know, the fireman, I have this conversation often and
we think back to like when we first started dating,
like what our weekends looked like, right, because now like
our weekends aren't our own. The kids own the weekends,
and I know that's just like I look at your
life and it's like.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
That's just going to continue.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
But we used to debate on like what dog park
we were going to go to, and we would watch
six seven episodes. We'd binge whole TV shows. My mother
will say to me every week, Oh, are you watching
this show? And I'm like, Mom, how many times we've
been talk about this. I don't have time for shows
like right now we're watching the Ed Gain Show and
we might watch ten minutes of one episode because we
don't put the TV on our shows. When the kids
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are around. I really don't need the baby seeing ed
Gean hanging himself and doing.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Things and cutting off like nip of dead bodies. I
don't need that in my life.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
So by the time the day is over and it's
time for me and him, we're lucky to get through
ten eleven minutes of a show of one episode ten
minutes of one episode. It might take us eight months
to finish one season of a show, because that's just
not like the era of our life that.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
We're right, and that transitions tough and it lasts for
a while. It also can affect your relationship too. If
you guys are on the same page and you guys aren't changing,
then it's challenging. I remember when we first when we
had our son, I didn't transition fast enough, where like
I was still going out, I was still partying. I
still had the same mindset as if I didn't have
any kids and my wife was bearing the brunt of everything,
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kid and all this stuff. And it took me a
lot of years to understand that. Now looking back, I'm like,
you were such an idiot, because like you weren't there
for those important moments where like you should have been
going through this with her as much as it possibly could.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
And I hear that a ton from people. I mean,
I'm so lucky, Like the fireman is like super hands on.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Yeah, like super obviously if he's working, he's working pumpkin patch,
which I never allow again, but he is just so
hands on.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
And I hear these horror stories from moms that are
like or on the opposite, and Dad's like, people are
just doing it by themselves. I don't know how people
are doing it so low. I don't get it.
Speaker 5 (19:13):
I remember we had just brought my son home. This
was within a few days, and my wife was clearly
dealing with some postpartum stuff too, like at the time,
and she was overwhelmed with everything. I still was like, well,
I'm not going to the gym, Like yeah, Like I'm like,
I'm gonna go. And I was there for super long
until I came back, and I couldn't understand, like at
the time, why she was upset, why she was feeling that.
I'm like, well, I came back. I just went to
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the gym, like I have to go to the gym,
but again not saying it was okay. But I was
like thirty at the time, I really wasn't fully like understanding.
Now forty five I get. I look at myself, I'm like,
you were such a needy you didn't deserve her.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
It's absolutely and times just change.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I mean, I am so low on the priority list,
like I do my best. I actually said to my
husband yesterday we were going to this trunk retreat thing
and I was like, thank God, I don't have to
get ready because by the time I got them ready,
the bad were packed, the snacks were packed. Those like
I don't again low on the totem pole, like it's
not I just.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
And nothing could prepare you for it because you can
tell you people like people can tell you how much
your life is going to change and all stuff, but
you really can't fully understand until something like that happens,
or even like for me, losing a job was tough too.
I had to like change as a person and to
understand that there's all these like life events yeah, that
are really tough to like accept at first, and if
you fight them, it's a whole thing, but it's tough
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to handle.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I remember, like one is hard. I'm not taking that
away because I remember times with one with just Laila
where I was like, dang, this is this is hard.
Two is just the wild West. I don't know how
you guys survived it with four little ones.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Like I hear people have three and four kids, and I'm.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
Likew because two is nothing. Trying to get two young
kids three and under out of the house, like literally,
just to grab coffee is a whole entire event. Like
I'm drenched in sweat, like it is, it's an Olympic sport.
Speaker 5 (21:01):
I guess I don't remember until I see videos from
that timeframe and realize how chaotic it was. And it
was just we were just surviving like every day and
again at that time frame, we were struggling with so
many things.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
But I think like.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
Doing that part of life together at that time when
we went from one to three kind of brought us
closer because we didn't have a choice.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
There are so many times where we just look at
each other and laugh yeah and like smile. Like yesterday,
she was mad because she didn't want to get up
off the couch to go get her snack. She needed
a snack. She wanted her snack. So I said, we're
not getting snack you. We don't get up and you
can get it yourself, like you know where the snacks are.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
So she goes to go to the candy drawer and
I said, no, no, no, that's not a snack, and
she was.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Like, I want this candy because I want this candy,
because I want this candy. Like that, she was so
upset that that was all she could get out, and
him and I are just looking at each other like
it's you have to you have to get closer in
those moments because it's the wild West is literally the
best way, because I will have friends who are like
pregnant with their second asking me how is it, and
I'm like, buckle up, bitch.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
It's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
But even you saying that, they don't understand it, because
I think you still try to hold on and forcibly
put yourself in the same situations you were in in
that moment where you have to embrace that change is
coming and big change is gonna like be really huge.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
And this is how messed up motherhood is is like
and father, yeah, I think to myself, like, man, it'll
be nice when like last night, she Daisy was taking
peanut butter and she was just like putting it in
her hair. She was eating you would et a bite
and then she'd put a piece in her hair, eat
a bite, slick some back in her hair, and I
was like, damn, like, it's gonna be so nice when
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she can eat like layla. Then all of a sudden,
not kidding, I started to get tears in my eyes.
He's like what, and I'm like, well, now I'm rushing it,
and I don't want to rush it because I don't
want to rush through these times. I read a statistic
that by the time your kid goes to kindergarten, forty
percent of your parenting is gone out the window because
at the time they spent at school.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
That made me want to literally go rip a sig. Yeah,
like it's there again.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
That that's the crazy part is like you you You're like, oh,
I can't wait for them to do this, but then
you're like, well, wait, I don't want to fast forward
time because then that means they're not a baby anymore.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
And it's just it is such a roller coaster.
Speaker 5 (23:13):
The emotional part that I've been caught on in the
last couple of months has been my oldest son is fifteen.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
He's a sophomore. Two years. I have with him until
he's gone.
Speaker 5 (23:22):
The college drop off thing I can't even think about
without getting like so emotional. I want to cry for you,
Like right now I can feel myself getting emotional.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
I think about her getting on the bus for kindergarten
and you know, less than two years and I'm just unwell,
like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
But that's parenthood for you.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Like it's the very like I mean this and of
the utmost respect in the same breath, you could want.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
To kill him and love him more than all the time.
Like I'm not trying to jail or anything, but like
that's that's what we're kneeling with here.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
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Speaker 3 (24:01):
All right, everybody that is going to do it for us.
I just want to remind you guys that Friday is
our first ever live show. And if in fact, you
don't want any of the VIP giveaways that we're doing,
that's okay. That's just a closer seat to Santi's show,
the Show of Santi, because I'm gonna be just dying
in my seat. But no anybody can come. The event
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is open to the public. We're going to be just
doing our show live. This will be at Rockefeller's in
Salem from six to ten am. We'll do the show,
we'll hang after, we'll have an adult bev. I can't
wait to see everybody. I'm so excited. I'm also so nervous.
Even talking about this makes me want to throw up.
But either way, I hope to see you there. I
want all the hugs. I want to meet all of
you guys in person. So we will do that Friday
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at Rockefellers in Salem. If you have any questions, you
can DM me.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Nobody comes. You know what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
You'll hear me do like the like, good morning everybody,
and then all of a sudden, where'd she go gone?
She's gone with the wind.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
She's in the Salem streets. It's gone like the wind.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
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and Ali Print shout out to you.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
If I missed anything today at Ashley Feldman to ease
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Speaker 1 (25:07):
We will talk to you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
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Especially in the Jamie Morning Show when you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
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Speaker 3 (00:11):
Five.
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You'll learn each other, learning the offense together. And I
think more and more comes for every week. And I
think that's the big thing with coach. She's calling great games.
And I think we got even more or less than
the tank and I think that's what we'll look back
on in that fourth quarter there to try to really
steal the game.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's not about Drake, it's not about QB one, It's
about everybody else and that's why they win.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
You love to see it.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Monday, October twentieth, Pats, number one in the AFC East,
demolished the Titans thirty one to thirteen, putting them at
five and two for the season, which, by the way,
in the NFL is a really good record.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
A lot of people are coming into these games like
one and six.
Speaker 5 (00:45):
I'm like, wait a second, that's what's going on out
here that you expect to be really good?
Speaker 1 (00:49):
You do?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I mean the Chiefs lost a couple right out of
the gate, and I was like, wait a second.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
I don't want to use the word super Bowl yet,
but I will say playoffs for sure, because the Patriots
looks better than they've looked in the last five years.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
They're fun to one there sitting at five and two.
You better believe they're about to be six and two
real quick. They're playing the Browns next weekend. And that's
I'm not trying to throw shade to Cleveland. My dad's
a Browns fan. I know what to expect. The man
is crying to me every single weekend about yet another loss.
They got one yesterday. But even a blind squirrel finds
a nut.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
But there's no way he's gonna bet the Browns on Sunday, right,
There's no way.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
There's no way he wouldn't. Okay, there's no way he wouldn't.
I will put this out there, and I have said
this a million times. The Browns ever make it to
the Super Bowl, my dad could be on his death bed.
I'm wheeling that mofo in. I am wheeling him in
with an oxygen tank. Okay, I would make that happen
for him. That is how much of a Browns fan
he is. But either way, Pats are doing the damn
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thing and it's really nice to see. And you know what,
I think its silences a little bit of the PATS
haters like yourself.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Yeah, but I admit that I was wrong. Well, not
that I was wrong, but I've changed my tone because
Mac Jones sucked. Yeah, your rod was awful. But now
we're in a good vibe here.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And shout up to Mike Rabel obviously beating the Titans
was a big one for him. All right, Brandy just
walking off stage. Her and Monica are on tour. We
know the hit, but they never even got to it.
It's called the Boy's Mine Tour. They never even got
to sing the song, so there's some discrepancies here.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
It was a huge story over the weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Brandy does this and walks off the stage.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Give me one second, talk, I gotta get.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
My look, Oh my god, No.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Give me one second, y'all.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I gotta get my And then she sounds like she
doesn't have a breath or know what to say next.
But there's other clips going vibral of her commenting that
she was having some audio issues.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Fans inside the.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Arena in Chicago tweeting, wait, what, we're all in shock?
How come Brandy left the stage halfway through the Boy's
Mind Tour. Nobody knows what happened, but Monica had to
come close the concert alone and they didn't even sing
the Boy is Mine. On the Boy is Mine tour,
Brandy was also having audio problems. Now it got weird
because Brandy then posts on IG and says, to my
dear fans in Chicago, thank you for the over overwhelming
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love and support, most certainly for your prayers. I sincerely
apologize for the abrupt end of last night's performance in Chicago,
But after weeks of NonStop rehearsals, last night I experienced
the dehydration and feelings of wanting to faint. Everybody involved
agreed that prioritizing my well being was of the utmost importance.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
There is a video of behind the scenes.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You can kind of see Brandy walk off the stage
and it looks like she goes straight to the audio guys,
but it's also kind of hard to see. So was
it an audio issue and she was pissed or did
she really feel faint.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
If it was an audio thing, you can come back.
You can fix that like instantly right or in just
in the moment.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
But do you get so mad you're like I'm dying.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
I think you get mad, But you don't blame the
audience for that, right, you don't put it on them,
and you don't leave them there.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You're believing dehydration.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I'm believing dehydration and take a step further. The only
thing that you do that for is if you really
have stomach issues and you can't come back and you
have to take care of what you have to.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Like in that moment, who was.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
It that was performing on stage and was like, hold on,
I have to go Jason, right, yeah, and he's like
I have to poop again. That that's crazy to think about,
but I wouldn't know, but I so go ahead.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I mean, if you think about it. There have been
times through where I've had to run off the air,
go to the bathroom, and come back. But that's because, like,
I don't have the stomach bug. But if I had
the stomach bug and you're in there for a while
and you're.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Struggle, you have to bring me the stomach bug. I'm
not talking about you.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
I'm not talking about the time that you were sick
for two days and you know it was just like Lava.
I'm not saying that I'm just saying for her, what
if it's it's a situation like that, what you can't
I didn't say.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
I haven't hurt. I literally lied about that for the show.
We were dying for content.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
But I guess you can understand how one would be dehydrated,
right for sure?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
One?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
So yeah, So that's anyways, the Boy's Mind Tour. I
want to see it. The vocals sounded good until she
ran her off. It'll be fine.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Anyways, Rob Gardashian and Black China.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Do we remember the Black China and Rob show? I
remember yet.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Some reason, I'm picturing a scene of them going hiking
and she's like mad that Rob can't hike Ga Hill
and she's all mad at him.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I ad for a season, right Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
They had baby dream you know, gorgeous by the way,
But anyways, so they were done.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
We don't see Rob a lot. There's rumors and we.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Saw a quick clip that Rob will be a little
bit more of this next season of Keeping up with
the Kardashians.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Would love to see him. I wonder what's going on
with Rob.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
But Black China posted the other day on Instagram and
she essentially insinuated that her photo shoot that she did
was for Rob Kardashian. So everybody's like, well, wait a second,
are Rob and China getting back together?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Everybody's in me. I was about a lot of other people.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Were like, well, wait a second, why would she say
that this photo shoot is for Rob. He, by the way,
liked the post certainly kind of insinuating that they're back
in communications.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Well, she was at the l A women's expo. By
the way.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
She has really changed a lot. She she had had
worked done to her face. She she got rid of
all of her fillers. She has really concentrated on g
O D.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
She's with the Lord now.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
She has changed, for sure as a person. But listen
to her answer the question about her and Rob.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Sure for sure have more children. Okay, I will, I want,
I want to more. Actually me too, I do?
Speaker 3 (06:32):
You do?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
I do? I'm not man dreams not as now we're talking.
Would you did you deal with Rob or with Talia
pick one?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Rob?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Really?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
This.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Listen to my next questions. Okay, are you guys back on?
Are you me and Robert? We we're healing. My God,
I loved and we're communicating and we're just going with
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the floor. And if God, then there will be something.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
The only issue that they're going to run into is
a woman by the name of Tokyo, because Tokyo hates
the Kardashians, that is Black China's mother, and Tokyo is
very vocal on the Worldwide Web.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
So I would think that that might cause a little
bit of a rift.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
But if rob and the fan can look past that,
then maybe, well.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I think the fact is that China changed so much,
so I think that's gonna help it.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
And she listen, she knows her mother's crazy. Yeah, she
knows that because Tokyo will go off.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Is Tokyo her real name, I don't know. It can't
be told. I don't think so. I don't think so,
but I don't know for sure. Black chined my way.
I just looked up. She's thirty seven years old.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Said she won't have two more kids with rob Iteally,
all right, this three things need to know For Monday,
October the twentieth, let's do round two of hip Hops
most Haunted tickets to go see Ray and of course
we're linking those up with the two for one special.
You're also gonna go to Spooky World six one, seven, nine,
three one twenty five, Happy Halloween.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Dashy and the morning show Good Morning Boston's number one
for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Hi Babes, Good Morning.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
We are gonna talk here about the live show, So
I have I literally get butterflies even thinking about it,
because Santi just said to me off air, He's like, Ash,
we don't do this. This is not something we have
ever done. Kiss has their big Turkey Toss once a year.
It's coming up, and they do a live show attached
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to that where they're down there. But this is like
a first ever for Jam and that I can ever remember.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
The Turkey Toss is different though, because they make the
entire broadcast about the turkey.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
There's an event.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
Yes, yeah, we're doing a show from Man, we still
have to do the entertainment, do everything that we do.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
God only knows what the celebrities are going to be
doing that Friday, because we'll be talking about you know
what I mean, We're not changing what we're doing. It's
it's you will literally be watching us do the show
live action.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
Maybe the closest thing that we've done. When we broadcast
from Disney back in March, that was the closest thing.
But there wasn't an audience there staring at us. That's
the thing, that's the difference.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I already feel we already even thinking about it. But
how dope is it going to be to be able
to do the check in literally with a human body
next to us.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
And some of the characters that come on Salem and
some of the best I know.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
There's so many different elements to this and six one seven, nine,
three one five if you have any questions, but I
think let's start at the beginning.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
We are going to be.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Doing our show live from six to ten at Rockefeller's
in Salem.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
We couldn't have got a better location.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Rockefellers reached out to us asked if we wanted to
do this, and I could have cried with excitement. It
is a center central location is right across from the
Bewitch statue. It's at the top of Essex Street. It
is the spot to be at two people watch, to drink,
to have fun.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
The atmosphere is there.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I mean, just in general, this time, we are what
at that point will be one week away from Halloween
Electric in Salem. You can feel it. It's like the
Sanderson sisters are getting ready you know.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Very true.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
There's not a better place to be, and I keep
telling everybody you can make a day out of it.
Come hang out with us in the morning, get yourself
a breakfast sandwich, walk around Salem, enjoy the haunts, enjoy
the day. We're adding another element of a costume contest
to this as well. We have a thousand dollars first
prize giveaway, which is insane. If you come dressed up
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and you're the best one there, you get one thousand dollars.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
And I'm pretty sure at most of the bars when
you do these contests around like this time of year,
it's like one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
One thousand dollars is amazing.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
You're also gonna get tickets to Rockefeller's huge Halloween party.
There's no better party in Salem. Everybody is there, everyone
is dressed to the it's just so fun. The second
place will get five hundred dollars, third to fifty. When
they came to us and said, you know, we're doing
a costume contest, we were like, unless the prize is good, like,
we don't really want to do it. I don't want
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to put that on everybody. I felt like that was
kind of a force. Once we found out what the
prize was, I was like taken aback, Like can I
be a.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Part of it?
Speaker 3 (11:20):
One thousand dollars if you come dressed up and you're
our winner thousand bucks?
Speaker 5 (11:24):
But even for the second prize and the third prize,
that's still amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Absolutely, And if you are coming anyway, you might as
well dress up and give it a go.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Because the chances are you're going to win something, right,
I would.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
Think, So when to come? What's going on? You can
get there at six that's when the show starts. Anytime after.
I think we are adding that if you are going
to come dressed up and you're going to enter into
the costume contest, try to get there by eight am.
Is going to be the cutof for that, because we
certainly want to have you on air and be a
part of the show. The bar at Rockefellers will open
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at eight and we will provide a breakfast sandwich to
every person that comes. Another huge question I keep getting
asked if I don't have VIP, like, can I still come?
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Anybody can come?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
If you know people in Salem and you're coming, invite
them come get a breakfast sandwich, have have a mimosa
hit the sound.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
It's funny.
Speaker 5 (12:13):
On that note, I've had people I went to high
school with hitting me up at telling me that they're
gonna stop by.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I can't wait to meet them all.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
It's gonna be fine, but they're gonna start telling stories. Specifically,
there's one storry from me in high school when I
flip my mom's car on school property.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Then Iconic Tale tells, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I also will add in we're gonna have a special
guest on the show that day.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
AJ.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I fought for AJ to be able to come because
I said she has a dating update. I think we
can all guess what the update will be, but she
does have something she says she wants to tell. We
were gonna do it last week. I said no, honey,
you need to save that for the live show. So
AJ is gonna be there as well. We just can't
wait to see everybody in person and give you a
hug and have a drink. I just you know, I
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read every single message and I'm so pumped to be
able to meet some of you guys in person.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
It's gonna start getting crazy. When the bar starts to open,
people start drinking. They offer us drinks. How can we
say no.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
To I don't have respect for myself. I don't say drinks.
I mean, well, after ten it's Friday. Am I missing anything?
Because there's just so many.
Speaker 5 (13:14):
I think you've nailed it all. I think, just frost.
We're really excited to meet you guys and hang out
with you guys because we don't do this often. We don't,
we don't ever do this. So this experience, in this
whole event is gonna be awesome.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
If two of you show up, I will be more
than more than.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Uh. Let's do a VIP a giveaway, which, by the way,
means you get a closer shot at Santi.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Maybe he'll show you his feet. Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Maybe six one seven nine three one one nine four
five six one seven nine three one one nine five
collars twenty five. You are getting VIP tickets to our
live show, which is literally this Friday. Hi, everybody, good morning.
It's Ashley and the gam In Morning Show live from Medford.
But on Friday, I'll be saying live from Rockefellers in Salem.
Oh my god, being in Salem a week before Halloween.
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Legit Chillies Delayne is in Cambridge.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Do you want to come to the shop. Do you
want to come to the show?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
All right, well you're in honey, and your front row center.
That's the difference there with the VIP tickets verse not
I mean, nothing crazy, but you will be able to
have a closer view of the show.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Now, who will you bring and will you dress up?
All the things? I will bring my husband and yes
we will dress up.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Dollars you could be walking away with or five hundred
or two fifty either way, come.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
On, thank you, thank you, we'll take it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
You're very welcome. Now, will you guys hang and do
like a day in Salem? Or will you just come
to the show?
Speaker 1 (14:36):
I'm going to show yet I got to run it
by him and see, all right, see what was playing?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Well, listen, I can't wait to meet you. Thank you
up for coming, and we'll see you on Friday.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Thank you Friday.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Right, hang on the line there, we'll get on your
infel great part about this too, is that you're getting
in before the traffic starts too.
Speaker 5 (14:53):
The Halloween traffic starts after twelve, so you get in
the early riser exactly.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Nobody's getting up to be there that early in the morning,
So I actually think you'll be able to because I
know right next to the grocery store or like the
post office down there, there's a huge lot. You're gonna
you will if you don't get a street spot, you'll
get into one of the bigger lots that's just easy
access to everything.
Speaker 5 (15:12):
Yeah, there's a lot right around the corner from there
that's usually empty if it's early enough too.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
No, I think that's the thing about parking. Usually it's
a mess. But I think you'll be okay. The town
itself is going to be nuts because it's the Friday
before Halloween.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Back in the day, I used to have people park
at my house like all the time and they walk
down because it was a half a mile walk down
down to down downtown, so it was easy.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't think people really, if you haven't been there, understand, like,
you're gonna walk up and down Essex and you're gonna
see all your favorites. You're gonna see Freddy, You're gonna
see Penny Wise, You're gonna see Jack Skelly, You're gonna
see Witches, You're gonna see the Sanders and Sisters. You're
gonna see Billy. It it is Halloween on steroids.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
How much you think those people make like daily, Like
they must make at least a thousand bucks a day
just because.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yeah, that's what you do. You put money in their
cauldrons or whatever they have.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Little sit all right, If you need any more info,
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Speaker 2 (16:12):
Good Morning Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
I would think sond that this is a very common
conversation that whether you're a new parent or just a
parent in general, you got a.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Kid, have but also just like life changes.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Olivia Colpo, who's a model and she's married to Christian McCaffrey, handsome,
handsome man. They just had a baby, Collette, and she
went viral a couple days ago for saying like that
there's been a shift in her identity after having a
baby daughter. She said it's been scary transitioning into parenthood
(16:53):
and that. You know, she said, whether or not you
want it to be there, you have somebody that's physically
dependent on you. So I'm not going to sugar.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
It's scary. It's a shift than who I am.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
Yeah, and I also think she's probably was used to
a life being a certain way. Then you had a
child and it just changes everything.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
It changes everything, and honestly obviously for the better. But
you know, the fireman, I have this conversation often and
we think back to like when we first started dating,
like what our weekends looked like, right, because now like
our weekends aren't our own. The kids own the weekends,
and I know that's just like I look at your
life and it's like.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
That's just going to continue.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
But we used to debate on like what dog park
we were going to go to, and we would watch
six seven episodes. We'd binge whole TV shows. My mother
will say to me every week, Oh, are you watching
this show? And I'm like, Mom, how many times we've
been talk about this. I don't have time for shows
like right now we're watching the Ed Gain Show and
we might watch ten minutes of one episode because we
don't put the TV on our shows. When the kids
(17:53):
are around. I really don't need the baby seeing ed
Gean hanging himself and doing.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Things and cutting off like nip of dead bodies. I
don't need that in my life.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
So by the time the day is over and it's
time for me and him, we're lucky to get through
ten eleven minutes of a show of one episode ten
minutes of one episode. It might take us eight months
to finish one season of a show, because that's just
not like the era of our life that.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
We're right, and that transitions tough and it lasts for
a while. It also can affect your relationship too. If
you guys are on the same page and you guys aren't changing,
then it's challenging. I remember when we first when we
had our son, I didn't transition fast enough, where like
I was still going out, I was still partying. I
still had the same mindset as if I didn't have
any kids and my wife was bearing the brunt of everything,
(18:38):
kid and all this stuff. And it took me a
lot of years to understand that. Now looking back, I'm like,
you were such an idiot, because like you weren't there
for those important moments where like you should have been
going through this with her as much as it possibly could.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
And I hear that a ton from people. I mean,
I'm so lucky, Like the fireman is like super hands on.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Yeah, like super obviously if he's working, he's working pumpkin patch,
which I never allow again, but he is just so
hands on.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
And I hear these horror stories from moms that are
like or on the opposite, and Dad's like, people are
just doing it by themselves. I don't know how people
are doing it so low. I don't get it.
Speaker 5 (19:13):
I remember we had just brought my son home. This
was within a few days, and my wife was clearly
dealing with some postpartum stuff too, like at the time,
and she was overwhelmed with everything. I still was like, well,
I'm not going to the gym, Like yeah, Like I'm like,
I'm gonna go. And I was there for super long
until I came back, and I couldn't understand, like at
the time, why she was upset, why she was feeling that.
I'm like, well, I came back. I just went to
(19:34):
the gym, like I have to go to the gym,
but again not saying it was okay. But I was
like thirty at the time, I really wasn't fully like understanding.
Now forty five I get. I look at myself, I'm like,
you were such a needy you didn't deserve her.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
It's absolutely and times just change.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I mean, I am so low on the priority list,
like I do my best. I actually said to my
husband yesterday we were going to this trunk retreat thing
and I was like, thank God, I don't have to
get ready because by the time I got them ready,
the bad were packed, the snacks were packed. Those like
I don't again low on the totem pole, like it's
not I just.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
And nothing could prepare you for it because you can
tell you people like people can tell you how much
your life is going to change and all stuff, but
you really can't fully understand until something like that happens,
or even like for me, losing a job was tough too.
I had to like change as a person and to
understand that there's all these like life events yeah, that
are really tough to like accept at first, and if
you fight them, it's a whole thing, but it's tough
(20:27):
to handle.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I remember, like one is hard. I'm not taking that
away because I remember times with one with just Laila
where I was like, dang, this is this is hard.
Two is just the wild West. I don't know how
you guys survived it with four little ones.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Like I hear people have three and four kids, and I'm.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
Likew because two is nothing. Trying to get two young
kids three and under out of the house, like literally,
just to grab coffee is a whole entire event. Like
I'm drenched in sweat, like it is, it's an Olympic sport.
Speaker 5 (21:01):
I guess I don't remember until I see videos from
that timeframe and realize how chaotic it was. And it
was just we were just surviving like every day and
again at that time frame, we were struggling with so
many things.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
But I think like.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
Doing that part of life together at that time when
we went from one to three kind of brought us
closer because we didn't have a choice.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
There are so many times where we just look at
each other and laugh yeah and like smile. Like yesterday,
she was mad because she didn't want to get up
off the couch to go get her snack. She needed
a snack. She wanted her snack. So I said, we're
not getting snack you. We don't get up and you
can get it yourself, like you know where the snacks are.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
So she goes to go to the candy drawer and
I said, no, no, no, that's not a snack, and
she was.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Like, I want this candy because I want this candy,
because I want this candy. Like that, she was so
upset that that was all she could get out, and
him and I are just looking at each other like
it's you have to you have to get closer in
those moments because it's the wild West is literally the
best way, because I will have friends who are like
pregnant with their second asking me how is it, and
I'm like, buckle up, bitch.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
It's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
But even you saying that, they don't understand it, because
I think you still try to hold on and forcibly
put yourself in the same situations you were in in
that moment where you have to embrace that change is
coming and big change is gonna like be really huge.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
And this is how messed up motherhood is is like
and father, yeah, I think to myself, like, man, it'll
be nice when like last night, she Daisy was taking
peanut butter and she was just like putting it in
her hair. She was eating you would et a bite
and then she'd put a piece in her hair, eat
a bite, slick some back in her hair, and I
was like, damn, like, it's gonna be so nice when
(22:37):
she can eat like layla. Then all of a sudden,
not kidding, I started to get tears in my eyes.
He's like what, and I'm like, well, now I'm rushing it,
and I don't want to rush it because I don't
want to rush through these times. I read a statistic
that by the time your kid goes to kindergarten, forty
percent of your parenting is gone out the window because
at the time they spent at school.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
That made me want to literally go rip a sig. Yeah,
like it's there again.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
That that's the crazy part is like you you You're like, oh,
I can't wait for them to do this, but then
you're like, well, wait, I don't want to fast forward
time because then that means they're not a baby anymore.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
And it's just it is such a roller coaster.
Speaker 5 (23:13):
The emotional part that I've been caught on in the
last couple of months has been my oldest son is fifteen.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
He's a sophomore. Two years. I have with him until
he's gone.
Speaker 5 (23:22):
The college drop off thing I can't even think about
without getting like so emotional. I want to cry for you,
Like right now I can feel myself getting emotional.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
I think about her getting on the bus for kindergarten
and you know, less than two years and I'm just unwell,
like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
But that's parenthood for you.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Like it's the very like I mean this and of
the utmost respect in the same breath, you could want.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
To kill him and love him more than all the time.
Like I'm not trying to jail or anything, but like
that's that's what we're kneeling with here.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
All right, everybody that is going to do it for us.
I just want to remind you guys that Friday is
our first ever live show. And if in fact, you
don't want any of the VIP giveaways that we're doing,
that's okay. That's just a closer seat to Santi's show,
the Show of Santi, because I'm gonna be just dying
in my seat. But no anybody can come. The event
(24:24):
is open to the public. We're going to be just
doing our show live. This will be at Rockefeller's in
Salem from six to ten am. We'll do the show,
we'll hang after, we'll have an adult bev. I can't
wait to see everybody. I'm so excited. I'm also so nervous.
Even talking about this makes me want to throw up.
But either way, I hope to see you there. I
want all the hugs. I want to meet all of
you guys in person. So we will do that Friday
(24:44):
at Rockefellers in Salem. If you have any questions, you
can DM me.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Nobody comes. You know what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
You'll hear me do like the like, good morning everybody,
and then all of a sudden, where'd she go gone?
She's gone with the wind.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
She's in the Salem streets. It's gone like the wind.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
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We will talk to you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
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