The Fat Cat Pt.1

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, wake it up, honey.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
I've been.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Absolutely crushing audio books on my commune.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
That's what I do now.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
And I heard somebody say this, and I thought it
was the most accurate description. If you don't like audiobooks
or you've never done them, you should try it. Somebody
said it's a.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Movie for your ears.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
I struggle with the fact of, like, you know, when
you read a book and you hold a book and
you're like reading, I feel like it triggers something in
your mind. It like keeps your mind sharp. Yeah, So
I'm like, am I not keeping my mind sharp because
I'm listening to the books on audio as opposed to
holding them. But it's like I have this time in
the car where I can really do this. So it's
like a weird thing. But I do like that a

(00:45):
movie for your ears.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I think it's important to still read something and I
kind of see how sentences are structured and stuff like that.
But I think it's more important for younger kids to
do that so they can learn that more as adult.
I don't think it's as important, but still nice. But
the audiobook world, oh my god, Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
And you put me onto the app audible because I
was spending you guys, before I started having a combo
with AUNTI about this, but before I was I mean,
audiobooks are expensive.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
They're like twenty.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Dollars per So I had read, like I guess you
could do you say read, but I had read you
can okay, So I had read five audiobooks.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
I was like, past one hundred dollars, like it was.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Gitting nuts, and even the farman was like, you can't
do that every single month.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
I was like, I know.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
So you told me about the Audible app, where you
basically pay like a monthly fee and you get credits
and you can buy. I blew through my credits in
two weeks because I listened so much.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
But you can kind of up your subscription. They also
have you can.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
Go on.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
There's another app where you can go to libraries and
rent audiobooks. It's just the line. It's a line, and
you have to wait until the audiobook's available, and sometimes
it takes too long. So I got impatient using that
with audiobooks.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
That's like the closest thing where I've like, I I
can't wait to get back in the car and like
finish this part. Or I remember being like on long drives.
When I just drove back from Florida, I've listened to
an audiobook the entire one.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Well, you have no idea the excitement. I'll be like
getting you know, my makeup done and getting ready and
being like, oh, I can't wait to see what Alexis is.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Going to do.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
I feel the same feeling, same payoff as if I'm
watching a really good TV show but I'm hearing it.
I just that's the only thing I struggle with, because
I feel like reading keeps you sharp. Yeah, and then
audiobooks are different, but it's like I have that time
and it has completely revolutionized my community.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Absolutely. The funny thing about them, they weren't as good,
like they didn't have the actors on point, like back
in the day, voices can mess. They've gotten better. And
I remember I did a couple of The Twilight Ones
on audiobook, and I hated Belda's voice because I already
had a picture what the voice was. But now if
you start them and the voice at first might feel
a little odd, but then you click right into it.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
I have had both experiences of a like right now,
the one I'm reading. It's a guy's perspective, as well
as a female, and they have two different actors. They
have a guy actor and a girl actor, which I love.
But I've also had it where it's about a guy
and a girl and the girl does the guy voice
and it drove me berserk because.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
She'd be like I went to the store and I
saw Derek and he was like, oh ho, I just can't.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
I can't.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
So it all depends, but I can usually get through it.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
And sometimes you'll catch like an A list actress or
actor reading a novel, depending.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Especially if it's their bio. I heard that Charlie Sheen
one is really good because he reads it himself, so awesome,
and he actually he actually wrote that book himself too.
He didn't have a ghostwriter comeing. He wrote it himself,
so it's in his voice. And also he's reading his
own like emotions.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yeah, that's so dope. By the way, this is all
after you listen to our podcast.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
Absolutely our podcast should be your number one most listen
and then you could get into a book.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
I also have to assume, and I've never read them,
but like the erotic books, do they have the same
appeal when you're reading them versus listening.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
I am listening to an erotic book right now, and yeah,
it's like it's funny because like the line today was
he was like, and I couldn't believe that even speaking
to her on the phone made my penis feel crazy
in my past.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
That was the line. And I looked up at the
clock and it was like four oh two, Like you
I have a problem.

Speaker 5 (04:23):
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Speaker 1 (04:33):
Five all Right Babes Tuesday, October twenty first, and the
Kettle overfloweth This morning, we should get Nick Rocko on.
I'm sure he has some inside info. But Michael Proctor
has dropped his appeal to get his job back, because remember,
this man was working hard.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
He thought he was allowed to have his job back.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
I will never forget the video of him sitting in
his kitchen table wiping his eyes with the burger king napkins,
a burger king nap because I was like, yo, he's
down and out, because that's the bottom of that.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
You're sad, You're going to burger.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (05:07):
If you were like sad, and you know things even better.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
You're hitting Mickey d Whopper. You're not well, you're hitting
the king. Anyways, we know he was fired over his
conduct during Karen Reid's high profile murder case.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
We will never forget the iconic leaky buttole.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, we can't forget that. And like the balloon, Oh
my god, so accurate.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
I didn't I never knew that that's what people called it.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Yes, I have heard that before. It's just tough having
a detective who's investigating a murder. It's texting about him too. Yeah,
and then also he's he's in her phone looking for nudes.
That was the craziest thing.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
On both sides.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
You're like, Okay, this is my daughter you're talking about,
and also like my son is not with us anymore,
Like shouldn't you be doing your job?

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:53):
But anyways, based upon this is what we got quote
based upon disclosure disclosures made available to our office on Friday,
October seventeenth, the appeal of Michael Proctor was withdrawn today.
That was his attorney who said that now we didn't
get any.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
More info on what exactly was made available to them.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
However, the date coincided with a notice from Norfolk County
District Attorney's Office regarding info from his cell phone that
is potentially relevant to other cases he investigated. So essentially
they got more cell phone records from Michael Proctor for
the other cases that Brian Walsh all of these other
cases that he's been working.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
And they were like, he's never getting his drab.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Yeah, we're letting this guy, which makes you wonder what
that information is. And also when is this going to
get leaked? Because I've if we've heard it like to
this point, now you have to assume at some point
all this information is going to get out. Yeah, and
what is it?

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Listen, I mean we've we've argued this, and we've chatted
about this.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
There is such a thing as like locker room talk
and and then you having a conversation with your friends.
But this man was doing it on his work line
to his You can't And.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
If you're a detective like that, shouldn't you just assume
and know that you shouldn't do it in that capacity?

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yeah, Like you want to go home to your wife
and sit down after a long day of detectiving and
be like.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Man, yo her balloon knot or whatever it is, right.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yo, her balloon nay ye, I don't know. Sure whatever
however you talk to your wife.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
But yeah, like that that's you. But do here you kiss,
not you doing your jaw, that's you talk And you
know what I'm thing.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
It's sad, it's so it's so true.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
I see people pull in and I'm like, they'll never
be okay, they will never recover from all right.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
We got more legal news.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
The legal team for Diddy has officially filed appeals to
overturn the moguls federal conviction and sentencing. We knew this
was coming. The appeal began yesterday. His legal team will
file like they're a little brief for the appeal within
four six weeks. They don't have to do it now
we know did. He was sentenced to a little over
four years in federal prison for those charges related to

(08:08):
the Man Act. He was acquitted on the more serious
charges of racketeering and sex trafficking. This is we just
it was really just a timing thing. And when was
it gonna happen. We knew an appeal was coming.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
Absolutely, maybe I'll win the appeal. It's really tough to
think that he's behind bars for years now, just like
really thinking about it, that it's like kind of absolute.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah right now it's four yeah. But maybe he wins
this appeal he gets some time. I don't know, we
don't know what it's gonna look like.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
We also have to assume that when he goes behind bars,
he's gonna behave he's he doesn't seem like the type
that will cause ruckus, like he just wants to know.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
It's giving AH to me. I think he'll be very
popular in there. I think he'll be you know, and
especially if he's at Fort Dix. I mean they talk
about that being if a luxury prison.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
We're going down the AH route. So maybe did he
will find a partner in there?

Speaker 2 (08:52):
Did maybe he'll find love? Man, this news is getting
the fact.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
Let me just end it with something where I don't
think we can be sexual, which is is baseball.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
The twenty twenty five World Series is happening.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
The Dodgers are taken on the Toronto Blue Jays, So
I don't know if you want to talk about this.
The Dodgers are back to defend their title, the Blue
Jays making their first appearance since I think it was
like nineteen ninety three, Yeah, something like that.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
The Blue Jay should just stay home. It's that simple.
The Dodgers had the absolute best player on the planet
and what he did a couple of games ago was
absolutely amazing. He pitched six innings like scoreless, hit three
home runs. It's the best performance in a playoff game
ever by any baseball player on Earth.

Speaker 6 (09:32):
Show.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
Hey is the best player on their planet, and the
Dodgers have this in poor games.

Speaker 2 (09:35):
So the Blue Jays should stay in Toronto. Just stay Canada.
It's beautiful.

Speaker 7 (09:39):
You know.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
They don't pronounce the second T in Toronto. So just
stay home.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
Just go back home.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Well, we'll see Game one is Friday, actually in Toronto
at eight pm. That's a late late first pitch on
Fox This reathing need to Know for Tuesday, October twenty First,
speaking of audio books and podcasts, we love that you
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Speaker 2 (10:00):
Up starts a s h l A.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
The Morning Show.

Speaker 8 (10:05):
Good Morning.

Speaker 5 (10:06):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
Hold on, guys, I haven't even had my first step
of Wow my crack cocaine.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
I have to make a sound when I put the
straw in my Starbucks cup, because it's so horrifying.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
It's not that bad.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
The sound of the straw going in the plastic is
so bad. But anyways, let me give you this. I'm
pretending like I'm shaking up like fun stuff. Inside it's
just a black cold roats. Okay, you have a problem.
We've known this about you. You have deep rooted issues. Yeah,
you leave your house in the morning at the last

(10:47):
possible second, the very last possible second to get.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
Here, is true, But there's a reason, which is what
I'm Dominican. We're on Dominican.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
But anyways, we all knew this was gonna happen at
some point. Yeah, and this morning was the time you
got pulled over.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
Well, let me just tell you this has happened before.
I'm not saying it happens often, but it it happens
probably a couple times a year. But this is the
latest time. Was this morning. You ever get tickets, I
don't ever ever, And it's because I'm nice to them,
and it's because I admit that I was speeding. But
this morning saw a cop in the middle lane. Well,
first I didn't see him, and I was coming up

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kind of quickly, not as quick as I got.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
Away, not even in the Porsche, guys, because if he
was in the Porsche, he might be in jail right now.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
If I was in the Porsche, I was probably I
usually do like one hundred. But I was going eighty
five and saw the cop in the middle lane, and
I slowed down. But then I'm already in the fast land,
so I'm like, Okay, well, I can't really now get
behind him because that's gonna look weird. So I'm like,
I might as well just pass him going to decent speed,
like going with the flow of jack.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
That is something I fight in my body too, because
it's like, you have to drive normally, right, but my
body doesn't want to pass the cop because then I
feel weird.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
My body was saying the same thing. But then I
also was like, well, don't make it obvious just to
pass him, but going on normal speed. So I passed him,
maybe going like seventy two. He may have been going seventy.
So I passed him slowly, then got in the middle lane.
Then I saw him get in the fast lane like
on the on my left side. I'm like, oh, good,
we are in clear. No, he just did it to
pass the car that was right in front of him

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and got behind me. The lights went on, like, because, yes,
what the hell is this for? Yes, I could have
been speeding up until the point, but he didn't get
me speeding. That's what I was thinking. Pulls me over.
I get to the side, I do everything. He comes up,
Hey do you know why I stopped you? I go,
I assume it was speeding.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Is that the line? Do they all say that?

Speaker 3 (12:34):
I think they do.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
I hate do you know why I stopped you? I
feel like that is just the iconic police line.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
I think it's the iconic police line. It's usually the
line that I get. But I also probably have heard, hey,
I stopped you because you were speeding. Oh yeah, but regardless,
mean I don't get pulled over a lot, so but regardless,
I always say, yes, I was speeding. And I was
really nice and polite to the guy. And then he
told me that he had me going eighty five with
his rear radar. I didn't know this was a thing.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
Nuts.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
I just thought that maybe they can guess to me
as you passed them. No, he got me coming eighty
five behind.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Him, and that means there's some sort of technology because
he can't be like holding like the radar guns, so
it must alert.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
Him built into the car, which I didn't know.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
Crazy. I did not know that either, So.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
When he told me to know, when he told me that,
I admitted that to his I admitted that to him too.
And he also asked me if I was in a
Russia and you go anywhere where I was going.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
I'm wondering about that. So did you give him the
SOB story?

Speaker 9 (13:27):
No?

Speaker 3 (13:28):
I was like, listen, I'm on the way to work.
I have no rush. I'm just like I was speeding.
You got me, and yeah, it is, it is where
it is, And I apologize.

Speaker 4 (13:34):
I have this.

Speaker 2 (13:36):
It's like a fatal flaw of mine. You've seen it
live action.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
I will give far more than his asked because I
feel like it's helping me and it's I would have
given the.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
Whole story about how we're on the radio.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
And if I'm late, people will know, like I just
wouldn't be able to end like and then it would
probably come across as like we thought we were.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
I was cool because I'm like, I'm on the radio,
but it's not.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
I was just trying to make the point of hey,
people will know if I'm late, and it just see
it's already sounding bad.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
It gets bad, it is, But I think if you
put more of the attention on the fact that what
you did was wrong, then they're finding that because I
assume what they usually deal with a lot is most
people fighting them back and like a like are just
arguing with them, and that's the last thing that they want.

Speaker 2 (14:13):
When you get a warning, did you have to give
license and registration to.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
I gave my license, not my registration, and he just
ran probably a background track see if there was any
warrants or anything. Came right back when my license and
just said just keep the speed down. I said, thank you, sir,
have a good day. It happens a lot. He's just
pulled off, dude white, Yeah, and just pulled pulled.

Speaker 2 (14:30):
It is the speed limit.

Speaker 3 (14:33):
I think technically it's fifty five.

Speaker 2 (14:35):
Funny you don't know it, but I have no idea.
I don't know it's a problem.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Yeah, but you were going one hundred through the tunnel.
That's like a different story.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
It's like a tunnel, which is really crazy to think.
On this show, I am the only one that hasn't
gotten pulled over in the morning.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
That's true. That's keep that going.

Speaker 3 (14:53):
And most of the time I'm in my car, which
is built to be driven a certain way, so I'm
just following.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Okay, Yeah, you actually really lucked out that you didn't
bring the poor shower.

Speaker 3 (15:02):
No there. You know, like the Life three sixty eight
actually tracks your speed. I get spoken to daily and
how fast I went because they'll track it.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
On ay, you are risking your life, that's what it's
telling you.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
On average. It's ninety three in the morning on average.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
That doesn't shock me.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
I'll tell you why, because I can sometimes get it
up to eighty and the jeep, and the jeep is
like not. I don't like going fast on that thing.
I don't even mean to. So if I can get
up to eighty, yeah.

Speaker 3 (15:29):
And I would look like the fifty five is way
too slow. I feel like the speed limit should be
elevated to at least seventy because I think that's what
the average person drives.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
And listen, we've talked about this.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
The people that are driving with us in the morning,
it's like us construction workers. Yeah, sometimes they make my
eighty look like I'm going eight like singular, like so fast,
so fast, up behind me, up in my grip, I
have to move over so quickly.

Speaker 3 (15:54):
Yes, yeah, it's always a pickup trucks.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Always the pickup trucks, always ripping a butt.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Yes, that's very true. Then they flick it like out
the windlick.

Speaker 10 (16:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
Yeah. So we got out of the ticket. So that's good.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
So that's a great start.

Speaker 3 (16:05):
Actually, the key to the entire thing is be respectful,
admit your fault and that and that's that. Don't fight
with him.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
Yeah, I it is funny, like the weird things that
you feel when you see the cop on the road,
Like I fight myself like, okay, I'm going the speed limit.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
He's going a little slower. It's okay to pass.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Him in the lane or else you're gonna look weird.
You're not doing anything wrong, but your body.

Speaker 3 (16:29):
Just feels odd.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
It does.

Speaker 3 (16:32):
What my wife does, which is really annoying, is if
she sees a cop on the other side of the highway,
she slows down. I'm like, what do you think he's
gonna do? Cross the media and come get you, like
grow up.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
Yeah, he's not gonna get off the exit and a
whip it, honey, you're gonna be okay. Well, you know what.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
At first, I was like, it's a bad shirt to theday,
But will you get off with a warning?

Speaker 3 (16:54):
Gucci, you are winning.

Speaker 1 (16:58):
Everybody morning. It's Ashley in the cham of Morning Show.
If in fact you're just tuning in. Santi got pulled over.
I think I got the text at like five am.
I'm gonna be late. I got pulled over, by the way,
leave it up to your boy. Set me a selfie
of him. We have to, yeah, just for a receipts
actually my Instagram. Yeah, so there he is sitting in

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the front seat with the selfie. You can see the
police lights behind him. But he told Santi, I got
you on the radar in the back of my car,
which we had no idea. My brain is them in
the cut with the gun. Yeah, that's what I picture.

Speaker 3 (17:35):
That's a universal thing that you always think of. But
I guess it's not.

Speaker 2 (17:38):
Well, we just learned from this talk back. It's definitely not.

Speaker 6 (17:44):
Ashley and Santi.

Speaker 10 (17:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (17:45):
Police car has two sets of digital numbers, one for
the front of the car in front of him and
one from behind him, so we can tell who's going whatever.

Speaker 3 (17:55):
Speed and it's right on the dashboard.

Speaker 6 (17:58):
It's no new technology.

Speaker 11 (18:00):
They've had it forever. I've been arrested many times and
been in the back of a police car watching it many.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
Times, many times, many times.

Speaker 2 (18:09):
Hey, sorry, are bad.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
We have not been in the back of a cop
car many times to know that this technology exists.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
There's probably cops.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
Listening, dying, laughing right now, like this has been around
since God only knows.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
We had no idea it could have been.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
But I feel like they keep this secret though, right, Yeah,
universally talked about now.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Danny is in Rhode Island. Danny was like, you guys
been talking about tickets. I just got one. It start
to got a warning, thank god. But Danny, you in
fact got.

Speaker 6 (18:36):
A ticket, Yes, I did. Last week Friday in darkness.
I guess there was a plane that crashed earlier in
the week. I don't know if you guys seen that
on the news, but yeah, a private plane crashed on
the highway and they were still doing.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
Waiting with baited breath. What were they still doing. I've
never had this happen before. It's like he's there and
they're crackling. Danny, Okay, you know what he dropped him
a couple times before, and now he's back. Let's see
if this could this be him just right here, Danny.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (19:23):
So in New Hampshire they have drones to catch speeds.

Speaker 3 (19:26):
They have drone.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
They definitely got fourm with those couple of times the
way they didn't drones.

Speaker 12 (19:35):
Yeah, so when you go on to like Hampton and
stuff like that, especially in the summertime, they will catch
you with a drone and then like twenty feet fifty
seed later they're pulling you over because they caught you
on the drone.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Wow, you gotta stay vigilant in New Hampshire. That's really crazy.
Thank you for that information.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
That was wild.

Speaker 1 (19:55):
Also because her name was definitely not Danny's. No way,
let's check it. Let's play again, Danny, Danny.

Speaker 6 (20:06):
Yeah, I'm back. I just I was on bluetooth with yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
Literally, yeah, and this is why you got arrested, Like
stay stay focused, will yea? All right, So the plane
crash happens, you're in Dartmouth. What did you do that?

Speaker 2 (20:17):
You got yourself a ticket?

Speaker 6 (20:19):
So I pulled out my phone to take a picture
of the plane.

Speaker 8 (20:22):
When do you see a plane on the highway and
the cop happened to see me and he pulled me
right over and he gave me a ticket, one hundred
and five dollar ticket, but just holding my phone in
my hands.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
For being on your phone while driving, because I know
they can get you for that, right.

Speaker 3 (20:37):
But it was like it was a slow traffic.

Speaker 6 (20:39):
It wasn't like I was doing sixty five trying to
hold my phone, but I got the trouble.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
One hundred and five dollars. Now were you when the like,
did you play the Santi game? Were you so nice
to the cop or were you like I did?

Speaker 6 (20:51):
I said, I'm sorry. You know, I know I never
see a plane on the highway, so you know what,
don't know.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
That cop?

Speaker 1 (21:03):
He agreed, you know, in his head he was like,
that's true. You really don't ever see a plane in
the midst of the road. But wow, one hundred and
five dollars picture. Did you at least send it to
a few people?

Speaker 3 (21:12):
Get it's worse Facebook?

Speaker 1 (21:17):
All right, Danny, thanks for the call. Danny's like, one
hundred and five dollars for a photo. That's not worth it.

Speaker 3 (21:22):
The valid point though, right, you don't see that like
every day, so we always pull on our phone for
our stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
It is illegal to be on your phone in mass right, correct.
You can get pulled over for that because I know, yes, okay.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
Yes, but if you see a car fire, I'm pulling
out my phone because it's something a body the couch.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
But is it worth one hundred and five dollars?

Speaker 3 (21:37):
It's not.

Speaker 2 (21:38):
It's it's definitely not. So there you have it. That
was a ticket. You got a warning. I would say
we're winning here, Yes, we're winning.

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Tuesday, October twenty first, and we add some news on
the Karen Reid front. Michael Proctor has dropped his appeal
to get his job back. Never forget him sitting at
his kitchen table, crying, boohooing about losing his job, wiping
his tears away with Burger King napkins.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
That's when you know.

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That is when you know, like nobody thought to put
a box of kleen X on there.

Speaker 2 (22:19):
We got to know how sad he is.

Speaker 13 (22:20):
That's that's a no, it is it absolutely is his
lawyer said, based on disclosures made available to our office
on Friday October seventeenth, the appeal of Michael Procter was
withdrawn today.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Now, no, they did not elaborate on what exactly prompted it.
You know, we what did you find out on Friday
October seventeenth, But they are saying that the date coincided
with a notice from the Norfolk County District Attorney AT's
office regarding info from proctor cell phone that is potentially
relevant to other cases that he investigated. I think that

(22:52):
was the biggest thing after he lost his job because
of the Karen Reid case. People were like, well, hold up,
because he was the lead detective on my case and
on this case, and on Brian Walsh's case, and on
a and seventy five people that are locked up cases.
And they were like, I went out, Yeah, he touched
my case.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
I went out. So god only knows that.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
Hell, they found in his cell phone again that is
relevant to other cases.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
But it clearly was bad enough that he was like, yeah, no,
I'm I'll.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
Let this go.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
You have to assume that he was talking like that
about other people involved in in other things too, especially
like females.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
It's been a while.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
There were so many players in the Karen Reid case.
I wouldn't be mad at you for forgetting one. But
Michael Proctor was blue knot leaky balloon knut because.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
If you look at it, it does look like it though,
like a blue nut.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
I didn't even know that they called it that, And
then when I realized that was what, I was like, wow, I.

Speaker 2 (23:44):
Can get Yeah, it was true.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
I can totally see it, which is upsetting I think
for everybody.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
Alright, let's talk. Did he did. He's got his appealing.
We knew what was coming. I think it was just
a matter of time.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
But he is officially filed appeals to overturn his federal
conviction and his sentence. This all started yesterday. We're still
waiting for a brief for the appeal. His team doesn't
have to file that until at least they have like
four to six weeks.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
I believe.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
We know he was sentenced to a little over four
years in federal prison, but he was acquitted on those
more serious counts of racketeering and sex trafficking. I saw
a headline today and I had asked you about it, son,
because rumors are swhirling that yeah, did he did file
for this appeal with his team, but he was knocking
on Doddy Trump's door, and they're saying there's a chance

(24:31):
that yeah, Trump commutes his whole sentence.

Speaker 3 (24:34):
The rumors are saying that Trump wants to do it,
but some of his people on his camp they don't
want him to do it. But at end of the day,
Trump's gonna make that decision. I feel like he's leaning
to doing it.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
You made a good point when we were talking about
this off air. It's like he's not he doesn't need
votes anymore. Yeah, right, Like he can't run again. He's
up out of air when this. I know people don't
think they There are some people that actually believe he's
just not gonna leave the office. But he's gonna leave
the office and he's gonna go and he you know,
he's done, he's done his two terms. But yeah, like

(25:02):
who cares if he doesn't care if you upsets some people.
Clearly he does it daily.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
And if you're asking me, I have a feeling he's
gonna do it.

Speaker 2 (25:09):
They're saying this week, could you.

Speaker 3 (25:10):
Imagine my Friday? Did he could be freaking off.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
Halloween freaking out.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
Yeah, the Joker nuts.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
Thinking about that costume as well, So we shall see,
all right. And lastly, I think this will come as
a shock to absolutely no, Bobby, And for some reason,
I think this might upset you. You just brought this
up to me the other day, Santi said to me,
Ash if I'm in the car and Thriller comes on, like,
I don't even want to hear it anymore. But guess
where Thriller is? Where number one on the Billboard charts.

(25:37):
It's every year.

Speaker 4 (25:39):
Come on.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
It's not that it's a bad song, but I can't
help but move to this. I get it, and I
actually know of the dance because I perform this all
the time.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
Mostag that's also a cry for help.

Speaker 3 (25:48):
But the problem is is that this time of year
it's the only thing that people play, So I might
just over.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
It, it says. In its most recent tracking frame. Thriller
sold over one thousand copies, with purchases increasing by more
than sixty three percent week over week. Ghostbusters and I
always feel like somebody's watching me. By the way, Michael Jackson, Yes,
but that is a rockwell song. It is, yes also,

(26:15):
but you know, let's get December. We all know who's
going to be sitting at top of the charts. Ma
Mariah's defrosting as we speak.

Speaker 3 (26:20):
But the difference in thriller right, it's the song. I
would watch the video a thousand times once I hear
the song is this on the radio?

Speaker 1 (26:26):
Like enough, Michael, even this right here makes me want
to watch the music video. What an iconic iconic video.
Also a son and we'll just stay in the Halloween realm.
McDonald's is bringing back the boo bucket. Of course you
can get them starting today.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
Which by the way, if you look on eBay, they
go for a pretty penny wild.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah, they got the ghost pumpkin and goblin boo bucket.
This takes me back. Oh by the way, there's they're
adding to a cat and a zombie. But this brings
me back. This was our childhood.

Speaker 3 (26:55):
Mine would always get filled. So it's not too big though,
that's the only thing I would not.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
I mean it, it fits the nuggets, the fries and
the toy essentially, like it's not big, but they are
cute and they're very nostalgic. They definitely have there's three
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Speaker 2 (27:20):
The Spooky World tickets have.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
To be pretty much used by Halloween because they're going
to close down November first.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
We were saying a weekend.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
It's just it's a weird, just the way I think
the date hits on a Friday. They're they're shutting it down.
So if you do win these tickets, make sure you're
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Speaker 1 (35:18):
Show, Michelle and Attleborough. Congratulations, maybe just won that two
for one special. We're gonna do it again at eight
twenty with tickets to see Mariah the Scientists as well
as Spooky World tickets. Just remember, Spooky World is closing
down after Halloween, So if you are unaveil to go
within the next week and a half, you know you
could hold out and wait.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
And let someone else win. But I know you won't,
so that's fine. I just always want to give people
the dates so.

Speaker 1 (35:45):
That they know.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
I mean, it's Tuesday, so you kind of have like
two full weeks to go, and you have.

Speaker 3 (35:49):
Like that last weekend too, which is gonna be perfect.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
I guess you also could win and pass that part
on if you want.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
If you want to go see Mariah the Scientists, and
you don't, you can't go to Spooky World. Whatever it's
up to you. Okay, we will do it again at
eight twenty. In the meantime, let's talk about your dating life.
How are we what's going on out there? We're doing
beyond the swipe right now. I will also add in
because we've had this happen. If you feel like nervous
to call, you can DM me right now at Ashley Feldman.

(36:15):
Twoe's on the Ashley and I can always read your DM.
But we're talking about dating, love relationships. Sometimes this turns
into a venting fest. Sometimes it turns into people being
like ash, I got married last weekend. What is happening
out there in the dating streets six one seven nine
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Of course you can DM me leave a talk back

(37:12):
for inanemity whatever you want. We're gonna kick it off
with Brian. We're talking dating, love relationships, lack thereof. Brian
has a question for Scigntia and I. Brian, I'm I'm
gonna go ahead and assume you're single here. You're trying
to find love.

Speaker 24 (37:29):
No, I'm like in a a in a situation.

Speaker 1 (37:33):
We're in a situation. All right, let's talk about your situation.
How long have we been together in this situation?

Speaker 16 (37:41):
Like?

Speaker 3 (37:42):
Quiet? Five? Yeah, okay, that's.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
A long time. How old are you?

Speaker 7 (37:50):
Thirty four?

Speaker 1 (37:51):
Thirty four years old? We've been together, Let's just say
since you were around thirty? And why are we calling
it a situation and not? I'm happy, I'm in a relationship,
I have a boyfriend, I have a girlfriend. Why is
it called a situation?

Speaker 21 (38:06):
Too many of the same mistakes.

Speaker 24 (38:07):
It's like, how many chances are you supposed to give someone?

Speaker 7 (38:11):
Are you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Are the mistakes infidelity or is it cheating?

Speaker 21 (38:17):
Nah?

Speaker 2 (38:18):
Okay, so what kind of mistakes are we talking?

Speaker 1 (38:20):
And then I can have a better idea of how
many times I think I could forgive it?

Speaker 2 (38:26):
Hung up? He hung Well, you know what he deserves it.
I don't know what she did, but guess what he
deserves it? Because you hung up. Let's go to anonymous.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
Anonymous called before anonymous. High Babe, So you were dating
a guy that was in prison. Tell me about your
first time calling the show. So I called.

Speaker 4 (38:47):
We were having issues and It wasn't anything super bad,
but I think it was just we never knew each other.
We knew of each other outside of him being in jail,
but we never went on a date, We never hung
out anything like that. We were going to try it.
It didn't work out, so then he ended up contacting

(39:08):
my brother while he was in there because their friends,
I want to talk to your sister.

Speaker 25 (39:15):
Okay, So we tried it.

Speaker 12 (39:16):
We were good for.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
Two years, and it was rocky, but we made it work.
I kind of just got tired of it.

Speaker 25 (39:23):
I called the show.

Speaker 4 (39:24):
I kind of had a feeling I wanted to end it,
but kind of speaking to you guys just gave me
a little more, like just end it and see where
it goes. I ended it, and I was happy. Like
I said, I have a child from, you know, like
another relationship, and he's not the dad. So it's very
hard juggling being a single mom and then being with

(39:47):
somebody in jail. So we took time apart and it
was good. He then kind of, you know, circled the
block and called back around my Stata's birthday to wish
him a happy birthday, because you know, he he knows
my brother. He knows the family, and we were together
for two years. He was just being nice about it.

(40:08):
I said, okay. He said he wanted to fix things.
This is when I just recently called. So we talked
a few times and I kind of said, like, we'll
be friends and we'll see where it goes. We're not
getting back into a full relationship.

Speaker 25 (40:21):
He was fine with that.

Speaker 4 (40:23):
Last night he called. We were having a great conversation.
He was asking me, like, you know, just upscating him,
like with my life and how things are going because
we don't talk a lot anymore. He slits the switch
and he's just like, I know you've been doing X,
Y and Z. And I said, well, with all due respects,

(40:43):
we are not together. You are allowed to feel whatever
way you do about whatever you think is or isn't
going on. I'm single, so I don't have to explain
it to you. You are allowed to be upset thinking
that I am out here doing whatever. Maybe I am,
maybe I'm not. And in the same you know, situation
roles were reversed. I could feel the same as you,

(41:07):
and I would have to respect whatever answer I'm given.
And it just got into a full blown argument and
then the pelons obviously have to turn off at a
certain time. And I'm just like, I'm not I'm not
doing this like you apologized, and I genuinely thought you
felt bad for like the four or five months that

(41:29):
we were done done, and then you're just like you
slip you like slip a light switch, and you just
go crazy. I get for no reason.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
Let me ask you something. I'm sure you told me
the last time. How long is he in for?

Speaker 4 (41:45):
Well, he's getting out in like less than two months.

Speaker 1 (41:48):
Okay, when you talked to him this last time, you
didn't feel good, did you. I can tell you didn't
feel good after that conversation.

Speaker 4 (41:55):
No, I just just like, these are the issues that
we've had. And the thing is, like I've known because
I'm you know, twenty eight. I know when I'm right
and I know when I'm wrong. And in this situation,
I'm not sitting near a line to him saying like, oh,
I don't have anybody, and I do have somepody on
the side. I'm telling him think whatever you think. Think

(42:17):
like I You're you're.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
Telling him it's not his business. He's not your boyfriend.
He's in jail. Tell him, Tell them, Hey, you want
to be a real bitch. Tell him to come say
it to your face.

Speaker 25 (42:26):
He can't exactly what the thing is.

Speaker 4 (42:29):
If I'm sitting there saying like you can you can
feel any type of way you do. You're not here,
and no matter what I tell you, you're not gonna
like the answer, because you're not gonna believe. There's nothing
I can do about that.

Speaker 1 (42:44):
You put away and you you gave him two years
of your life while he was in jail, and you
held him down for those two years.

Speaker 2 (42:51):
You guys called it quits.

Speaker 1 (42:53):
That's nice of him to call and say happy birthday
to your son, which by the way, he didn't want
to do. He did that because he knew you would
allow it. And then you opened up the or a
little bit and he used it as an inn.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
That's me just as your kid. But that's probably what
that was.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
And now he has the audacity to ask you questions
that like, respectfully, that's not his business, who you're dating,
who you're hooking up with, what you're doing.

Speaker 4 (43:17):
And I and he said to me, I'm not going
to take you serious when I get out. Okay, fine,
that's fine. Like it if like, what what what would
you like me to say, do you want me to,
you know, go to bed crime tonight? Like I'm living
my life And I told him, I said, I'm able to.
I don't care child support from my kid's father. He
hasn't seen him in four years. I'm doing it everything

(43:39):
on my own, and I'm you know, this person helped
me out a few times, which I've been grateful for.
But the thing is, if I can do everything on
my own and I don't need your help, what are.

Speaker 25 (43:51):
You able to do?

Speaker 4 (43:52):
You're not able to benefit me, then I don't need
you in my life.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
I think I think that you should give the next
two months break, let him finish out his sentence, and
who knows, when he gets out and he gets on
his feet, maybe things will be different because he'll be
physically in front of you and you guy, guys can
have a better relationship.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
But right now it just seems a little toxic.

Speaker 7 (44:11):
You know.

Speaker 4 (44:13):
It's just the way he was before he went in.
This is the type of person I feel like he
will always be. I feel like this is him, regardless
of being in our being out.

Speaker 25 (44:25):
This is who he is.

Speaker 4 (44:26):
And I don't think you know him being in our
little change it.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Yeah, well, listen, I don't. I haven't heard from him.
I don't know his side of it. He could tell
me something very different. But what I do think is
with him in there right now, there's just no point
in you having conversations with him and feeling bad every
time you guys hang up.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
So I think, stop with the calls.

Speaker 1 (44:45):
Give him his last two months, and when he gets out,
maybe maybe he's singing a different tune and you guys
can work it out. But I mean, if you're not
feeling good after getting off the phone with him, then
don't get on the.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
Phone with him.

Speaker 4 (44:57):
Yeah, well, we had been doing good. But like I said,
I'm sitting there talking about my cat, and now my
cat goes on a diet because he's overweight, and he turns.

Speaker 24 (45:06):
And just like I know, you're sleeping with people.

Speaker 4 (45:10):
I go, how did we start this conversation right?

Speaker 25 (45:12):
And now you're completely totally different like my cat?

Speaker 2 (45:17):
What are you not getting.

Speaker 1 (45:19):
Honestly, without respect to him, to transition from my cat's
fat to you're hooking up with somebody he died.

Speaker 2 (45:25):
Maybe he is a keeper after all, I don't know
how he got there.

Speaker 24 (45:28):
That's cool, you have no idea, actually, well.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
I also I don't want him on my bad side either,
So you know, I don't know. We'll see, but keep
us posting because let me tell you something, just from
judging off of this call, he's going to be back
in your life in some capacity. I think you guys,
I think there's more. We're gonna learn more.

Speaker 7 (45:47):
From the.

Speaker 4 (45:49):
I'm not going to answer the phone no more.

Speaker 25 (45:51):
That's just kind of where I'm at with it.

Speaker 2 (45:53):
All right, Well, hey, keep us posted. Good luck, and
by the way, a J, do you have any suggestions
for cat food? Thanks for a Sorry, Well, her cat
is fat, she said it. I'm mad.

Speaker 25 (46:06):
I'm trying.

Speaker 1 (46:07):
Oh yeah, but A's cat is dead. You're right, and
I'm sorry, and rest in peace to your cat. But
I know, oh my god, let me get out of
this six one seven, nine, three, one one nine four five,
six one seven nine, three one four or five.

Speaker 2 (46:21):
And I'm sure it's gonna been. That cat's gonna die.
That's all I keep thinking about like that.

Speaker 1 (46:25):
I don't know if the cat is gonna could because
she's so she's got so many other things going on.

Speaker 2 (46:29):
Single mom guy in prison. That cat, that cat's getting
fed too much.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
Cat's like eating's starving ah six one seven nine three
one one nine four five.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
We're talking dating, love, relationships, everything in between. Clearly, Brianna
is in Lynn and she's gonna bring it all back
for us.

Speaker 2 (46:48):
You have finally found some l O V E. Girlfriend.

Speaker 24 (46:52):
Yes, it's been a long time, a really hard road,
but I finally feel like I have some peace in
my life.

Speaker 2 (47:01):
Tell us about it.

Speaker 24 (47:03):
So so really, I was in a real bad relationship
for a long time. It was violent, abusive, it was
really bad. And I finally cut the cord and I seen,
canse my husband note or I just call my husband.
We're not even married. But ye, his name is Derek,

(47:24):
and I've seen him after the bad relationship. I randomly
seen him walking through CBS parking lot. I've known this
man since I was like sixteen years old. He gave
me my first tattoo and I was like, oh my god, hi,
and then he messaged me on Tree's book. We got
to talking and it's been we've been together basically ever since.
He's so kind and like, you know how people say, oh,

(47:46):
I have a Golden retriever boyfriend. Mine's a German shepherd.

Speaker 14 (47:50):
He only loves me and he'll.

Speaker 24 (47:52):
Fight for me.

Speaker 2 (47:53):
So I love this so much for you. What a
tale to tell? And how long have you guys now
been dating?

Speaker 24 (48:01):
It's been almost sorry, it's been almost a year.

Speaker 25 (48:05):
But it's like we're best friends and you.

Speaker 2 (48:09):
Yes, and do we do like good morning at night?

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Text?

Speaker 2 (48:12):
Like we're together all the time.

Speaker 24 (48:15):
Yes, like all the time. We're always talking when we're
not together, we spend a lot of the week together.
You know, my whole family loves him. My mom adores him.
She like we went apple picking together like two weeks
ago with my son, my mom and him, and oh wow,
it was just such a good time.

Speaker 7 (48:36):
Like it was.

Speaker 24 (48:36):
It was just something so simple and we had so
much fun.

Speaker 2 (48:40):
I was gonna I bet you did.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
And if he's out here apple picking with the kid
and Nana, let me tell you something.

Speaker 2 (48:47):
Keeper. That's a keeper right there.

Speaker 3 (48:49):
Yeah, Well, you.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
Went through it, and I'm sorry that you had to
go through it. That's awful. But I'm so happy that
you're finally seeing some some light.

Speaker 2 (48:58):
Babe.

Speaker 24 (48:58):
You deserve it too, and my son deserves it. He doesn't,
he doesn't deserve to see his mom unhappy.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
No shout out to Derek. That's our guy.

Speaker 24 (49:07):
Yeah, can I say one more quick thing. Sure, if
you like anybody who's going through it or you know,
in that type of bad relationship, like you can get
out and you can get help and there is fulp
and you'll find someone who loves you for.

Speaker 1 (49:19):
You, Brianna, you could have just saved somebody right there.
So thank you for saying, Matt, and thank you.

Speaker 2 (49:23):
For the call. Give Derek a hug for me today.

Speaker 24 (49:26):
I will thank you.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
Okay, thank you. That's powerful stuff.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
Yeah, it's uh to find love after that and having
gone through that is an amazing thing.

Speaker 2 (49:35):
And she's right.

Speaker 1 (49:35):
If you are going through something, you absolutely can get
out of it and you can get out on the
other side. I wouldn't say like we're the right people
to call, but if you do, if you are going
through it and you need to call us, we'll make
sure you get into the right hands. Six one seven
nine three one one six one seven nine three one
one nine five. The phones are ringing. You're talking dating,
love relationships. It is beyond this wipe only on Jammin

(49:59):
Hi everybody, It's Ashley and the gam In Morning show.
We're doing beyond this wipe. We're talking dating, love, relationships.
Jules is in Dorchester.

Speaker 2 (50:07):
Hi Jewels, Good morning, Hi, Good morning.

Speaker 25 (50:10):
HOI you doing good?

Speaker 1 (50:12):
So this is interesting because we had somebody hit us
last week who has a similar situation, not the exact,
but you're dating a guy who lives with his cousin
last week.

Speaker 2 (50:23):
Okay, because last.

Speaker 1 (50:24):
Week it was a girl who was dating a guy
who was living at home with his parents. I feel
like cousin's a little bit more. It's doable, you know.

Speaker 25 (50:36):
Well, how about he stays with his cousin. He's very, very,
very soft hearted, and I see and feel that he's
scared to even open up to her. If he's fifty
nine years old. I just turned fifty five before Teah
of this month, and I haven't seen him since his

(50:56):
mother's birthday party that he invited me to. He was
still night at my house. Says, well, a few nights
at my house and when he go home, I drop
him off and cousins outside. She custs him out because
you know, he don't report to her or whatever.

Speaker 7 (51:12):
Uh.

Speaker 25 (51:12):
To make a long story short, I haven't seen him
since his mother's birthday party on the fifth and he
didn't supposed to come to my house and on the sixth.
The morning of the sixth, I texted Mike, Michael, you
know you didn't come to my house. You know, if
there's no communication or understanding, it's not gonna work. This
friendship's not gonna work. You know, we can't even begin
a relationship if you're not open, you know, if you're

(51:35):
not true to me. You know what I'm saying. How
can I know what's going on if you don't open up? Well,
tell me why. I set outside and text and told
him I was outside. His cousin pulls up twenty minutes
later with him in the car. Did know he was
in the car? She has toned the windows and she
gets out of the car, comes to my car, tell
me to get the f away from my house. I
can excuse me, ma'am, I got to do a text
to six. I can park anybody I want. I'm not harastionalbody.

(51:57):
I'm not disrespecting nobody. I texted Michael, I'm a friend,
and he never told me he didn't want to be
my friend.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
So, Jules, I just I'm not I don't want to
cut you off. I have to ask how do we
know she's a cousin? Because it's giving girl friend energy.

Speaker 25 (52:14):
It's giving energy and told I told him that. I said, like,
she's screwing you.

Speaker 14 (52:20):
I said, literally, you should not be scared to tell
her that you have friends. You shouldn't have to He
should not have to tell her when he's coming and going,
should not paying her what not?

Speaker 3 (52:32):
At that?

Speaker 2 (52:33):
Did you say this?

Speaker 25 (52:34):
Let me say he's fifty nine. Well, let me tell
you what happened.

Speaker 3 (52:38):
She called the police.

Speaker 25 (52:38):
The police came and I'm still sitting here and uh,
she they go to her first because she called them. Well,
it was two paddy wagons and when it came to me,
they actually my name. I said, I'm not giving you
my name because number one, I'm not doing that illegal.
I'm not harassal body. I said, I'm here because I
checked Michael and let him know that I was here
because I was concerned.

Speaker 14 (52:59):
Oh, don't you know.

Speaker 25 (53:00):
Four on the fourteenth, five days ago, the police came
to my house with a summon for me to go
to court. That she went to court on the fourteenth
on my birthday. Mind, I haven't been there since the sixth,
that I was harassing her. She made him go to
court with a harassment charge against me. Well, I'm in group.
I'm a recovery coach of seventy Divine Way. Okay, I

(53:23):
got I got time under a lot of time under
my belt clean and he only got a couple of months.
I brought in the church with me. Well, tell me
why I come out of group yesterday? And his recovery
coach calls me in the office with the director and
gives me the two silver braces in the gold chain
that I bought him and tells me that he told
him that I am harassing him because I he don't

(53:45):
want He told me he don't want to be my friend.
He never told me that, And I told him if
he hadn't told me that, he didn't want nothing to
do with me, he didn't want to be friends anymore.
God said boubts to not take love nor friends. Do
you know how many people that God put him I
like and removed because of situations like this didn't be toxic.
I'm looking for love, joy, teaching happiness. And I texted

(54:07):
him that. So when I go to court on a
twenty eighth, I have to prove myself for what this
is an unnecessary confrontation when all he had to do
was tell me I don't think we could be friends anymore.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
There is no way that is his cousin because I am.
And by the way, if it is his cousin, I
feel so sad for Michael.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Free Michael, because like Michael Michael, he can't do anything.

Speaker 25 (54:36):
I mean, I met his mother, I met his mother,
I met his brother, and I met another cousin that
is definitely his cousin, and she controls that man's life.
You know why because of his money.

Speaker 2 (54:51):
Jules. Let me ask you something.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
When the cops pulled up that original time on the
six right, the cops come because she calls the cops,
did Michael ever get out of the car and say
Michael got No.

Speaker 25 (55:02):
Michael got off the car and walked to the porch,
and before after the police, one police car went one way,
one went the other way. I left me sitting there
because I wasn't doing letting legal, you know what. I
backed my car up and I said, Michael, well, you
still have outfix that I bought you at my house.
A couple of tags the wall I'm hanging into my closet.

(55:23):
You have underweere, you have boxes, you have stock. If
you want, I can bring you your clothes, and I
can go on about my way. Well, he looks at
her out the corner of his eyes.

Speaker 2 (55:34):
He was a friend.

Speaker 25 (55:35):
Never once, never once stared at me face to face. Okay,
stared at her up the corner of his eyes and
shook his head. No, put his head down a little
bit in a scared manner. My thing is when I
go to court on the twenty eight baby, what am I?
All I could do is so judge the truth.

Speaker 14 (55:56):
And I have text messages.

Speaker 25 (55:58):
I have chext messages generally where I checked Michael and
I told Michael, you know, all I'm looking for is love, joy,
peace and happiness. You know, if this is not what
you want, I should just be real with me so
I can go on about my way.

Speaker 2 (56:14):
Well, jewels.

Speaker 1 (56:14):
Listen, Honestly, here's get dodged a bullet here, because I
know you and Mike had something, and I know you're
a woman of the Lord, so I don't mean this disrespectfully,
but it seems like you and Mike maybe took it
to like a sexual place.

Speaker 2 (56:28):
And so that's fine.

Speaker 25 (56:29):
We never had sex.

Speaker 2 (56:31):
You never had You were just buying them clo one
clothes and jewels. You were buying them all these things
for nothing.

Speaker 25 (56:39):
Listen, listen, let me tell you somebody flatten my tie
and not at the time in his heart that he
fixed my tire. One hand's supposed to wash the others.
Your friends, they're not supposed to be a one way,
one weight.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (56:55):
Well, listen, you don't want to be friends with somebody
who's completely controlled in their whole life.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
And that's unfortunate, because you know.

Speaker 25 (57:02):
My spirit already told me that. Well let me, I said, baby,
I get the message. I'm going to go to the
house and I'm gonna get picked a pack your stuff, Okay,
and I pray that you inswer the phone so I
can bring you the clothes that I brought you. I
bought them clothes as it gifts out of the kindness
of my heart because of who I am. I love

(57:24):
you for who you are. Okay, Now you had to
do this, be honest with me. I should have gotten
no message from your cousin because it's not your cousin,
it's my it's my, your and yours, because this relationship
is mine and yours. Regardless of what. I'm not out
here for problems. I'm not having trouble. I just want

(57:47):
love Joge, will you get this message?

Speaker 2 (57:50):
Bless me?

Speaker 1 (57:50):
No, please, I gotta say this because we're running out
of time. My spirit tells me that you just need
to let this situation go. Don't worry about getting the
you know what, take those clothes with the tags back,
get your money back.

Speaker 2 (58:03):
Okay, let him go. I a good God. That's what
I'm talking about, Jules. You know, Let Mike go. Mike
is he needs to be freed, but he's gonna have
to do that for himself. Let him go, don't text
him anymore, don't call him, don't show up. I'm moving on,
go to court, be done with it. And and then
that's that.

Speaker 25 (58:24):
My thing is, I just don't want that against me,
because who's to say his cousin don't lie and say
I went by.

Speaker 2 (58:30):
And well, you know what, the cousin doesn't have God
on her side, you do.

Speaker 14 (58:36):
Yeah, God is good.

Speaker 25 (58:37):
And I prayed on that this morning. When I was
on praying this morning, I pray for all the all
my enemies.

Speaker 1 (58:44):
I can sense it. I have never been more invested.
So could you call me after court and let me
know what ends up happening.

Speaker 2 (58:52):
Yes, I will, honey, God, Bless you God, bless free Mike,
thank you so much.

Speaker 24 (58:58):
For the call.

Speaker 3 (58:59):
I usually don't say this, but I am dying to
hear the other side because I have a strong feeling
that the other perspective is completely freaked out.

Speaker 2 (59:10):
I would pay actual dollars, yeah,