June 21, 2024 • 40 mins
- After discovering Producer Sara says "Aqua" weirdly what words have you been saying wrong
- No Funny, No Money...and this time Matty & PJ didn't laugh at all of them!
- Matty went to Hot Yoga for the first time, and he has THOUGHTS
- PJ went to a serious meeting today with her husband, and what did he turn up wearing
- An inspirational piece from an athlete on why we should be ourselves!
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Heads Drive with Meddy and Paja. Thanks to Chimis
were House, the Real House of Fragrances.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
And on that.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hello, welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Okay, so do you want to go with that plan tonight?
I'll send you a message at about eight o'clock. Is
that what you're thinking? Yeah? Please do maybe eight point thirty. Okay,
So Maddie's going to a BBYO. It's a friend's birthday, besh.
But you don't want to get lit.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I actually don't even want to drink at all. I've
just had some big nights recently and I just need
to have some self control and I want to have
a nice week, nice chill weekend, speak that where I
can wake up tomorrow morning with any regrets.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
And not feeling sack.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
And will you set yourself up for a good one though,
because your husband Ryan is a sober driver tonight, so
he can't eag you on. That's good.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
He's actually pulled out what Yeah, Yeah, he's called out.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
No, he's just he's.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Had because he has he had a few drinks with work.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
No no, no, he's at home on the couch.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
He's just had a pulled out of the night.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
He's had a and I totally get it. And we
had a big weekend last weekend, so he just he
messaged me just before and said, do you.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Mind if I don't come? And I was like, totally fine.
I don't get that.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh no, your chances are looking not so great that
he's going to be your support. He was going to
be a lifeline because.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
He was sober driving.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
So here's my thing. I said the page, please can
you see me a text? And I reckon eight is
still a good time to do it?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Or do you want me to call you? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Or do I do that? Oh my god, Oh my god,
what's happened? Oh no, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Okay, I'll be there as soon as I can and
then go. Sorry, guys, I do to go with my
friends in trouble. Just I mean, what when do you
do that?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
You'll you'll suck it up.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I will.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
And also I should just have the like strength to
be able to say to my friends, I'm not drinking.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
You're grown ass man, can do this, your grown man?
Are you gonna go to your little juice box run
club this weekend?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, that's on Sunday. I think I might go.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
It'll be nice it'll be a nice thing today.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
What about you? What are you doing with your weekend?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Honestly, I don't have much planned. We've got some really
cute labrator puppies which we are in the process of
selling in the next few weeks, so just looking after them.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Is this your little plug?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
If you would like a cute little puppy, hit us
up on the heads drive on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
By all means, you can get to touch on me
pja DJ on Instagram if you want. I actually I
got overwhelmed the other day when I did that on
my story and then I kind of retreated. But we're
getting to the we're getting a couple of weeks out
from actually giving them away because you sort of give
them a way around the six week mark, I think,
so that's coming around quickly. So yeah, by all means,
slide into my dms p j DJ. If you're like
(03:00):
a little black or gorgeous golden How are.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
They doing so cute?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Do you want to do their little chunks?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Do you do much?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
BJ? Is chief pup? Look her after its wrangler because
they were just feeding off fig super Mom who had
like eleven parts. But they need to be supplemented now.
With extra food, So give them a little bit of
extra food. They're very, very cute. So yeah, other than that,
(03:30):
I haven't really got much planned. I'm quite strong. I
kind of want to get a massage because I did
my nick out this week. You know your old window
was like, oh my god, have I actually done my knicker?
But I must have just slipped awkwardly. So I'm going
to go get a message. I'm that one in the ages.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
That's so nice? Is there a good is there a
good massage place?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
And there are a couple of places, and recently there
was a tipeplace which opened, which is fantastic. Always had
a great experience here.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
My issue with messages is it goes one of two ways.
I'm I'm not great with a lot of pressure. Yeah,
but I also don't want like very gentle light touch.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yes, like I want to I want usually early on
in the message that go is that pressure good for you?
You've got to be honest, and you're not and you're
not very good at being probably open in that moment.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
So I want to come out of there being like,
oh yeah, I got had a good massage. But I
don't want to come out of there being like that
was the most painful thing I've ever had in my
life now.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
But that's why you just say, wind it back, Lindsey,
wind it back, please.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But then if it's not if it's if the pressure
is not too.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Hard, yeah, when you go wind it up, Lindsey, wind it.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Up, then it goes.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
If it's not too.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Hard, yeah, if it's like soft and gentle, then you
get excited sometimes yeah, wait, accidentally I don't mean to Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Of course. So you're lying on your stomach, do you
pop up like a tint? Like, how does that work?
If you if that there's no hole run there like
for you with your here goes?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Yeah, there was.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
It doesn't look I'm talking out of tune here. It
doesn't happen off, but it has happened a couple of times,
and I did have to apologize once.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
It would happen a lot. It would surely a lot.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I'm sure it does.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
But like, how do you deal with a boner if
you're lying down? Is it really uncomfortable?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
A little tuck? Tuck it into your end?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
And oh my god, I'm talking to being way too
honest on the podcast Tonight, be honest honest, I'm cutting
this conversation off.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Okay, okay, okay, I've just got never to make now.
I've got so many quitions I've got asked you anyway,
We're gonna write the podcast up now. In today's episode,
we talk about words that you pronounced weirdly or someone
you knows. Also no funny, no, I tell you what.
There was something in the water with the calls today, weird.
Do you reckon weird? I think it's a solstice thing
(05:59):
on the sure.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Yeah. Plus I went to hot yoga.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I talked about this on the podcast yesterday, so I
got an update for you.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
How did it go? I'll fill you in.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
And the pity revenge that you've taken on your partner,
this is where the calls really thrive.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
If no funny, no money was weird. The pity revenge
was the most bizarre phone topic we've ever done on
the show I Reckon.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So that's all coming up and more. Enjoying the podcast
and have a great weekend.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
The podcast.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
A big show this morning with John O beIN and
Megan doing the all nineties morning. Of course, they've done
bettle of the decades. This week it was nineties with
two thousands nineties took out the top spot.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
It kind of had to, right.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
I think it's just more novelty, isn't it.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
And there's so much nostalgia attached to it. I don't
It's just so different. I don't feel the same nostalgia
for the for the naughties as I do for the nineties.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I love the early two thousands R and B and
the club vibe, but yeah, there's just nothing like the nineties.
So anyway, very fun show this morning with the guys,
and we've been talking about nineties artists. I don't know
how this popped up in the show. Behind the scenes,
we were talking about one of my favorite bands actually
from the nineties, Equa, and then producer Sira said, you
(07:20):
mean Aqua, and I said no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
No, Aqua, Equa, Aqua famous.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And then sirah, you looked pretty horrified when we revealed
that it's actually how you say the word. Is that
how you've been saying aqua for your whole life?
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Twenty seven years Aqua? Wait you said you said aqua.
I think actually in your defeats, I think like some
other countries may say it like aqua, like maybe American
maybe potentially say aqua. I do try to pick up accents.
It's like I can't stop it. If I hear some
more of thann accent, I just mimic it back really bad.
(08:00):
I'm not trying to be offensive, but maybe I have
kind of picked that up. Wait, awkward. It's so hard
to know. I don't want to take the key out
of you, because I'm sure i've this before, and the
many and I did. This gave us the opportunity to
open up about another word that it's wrong no.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Because on when we get called.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
No, it's behind the scenes when you're dealing with the phone.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
When we get callers through. Sometimes some people want to
stay anonymous. And so you right right a n O
to symbol an.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
We'd say no. A non sounds like a weird little
noon like it's just.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
It's no like anonymous. You don't say anonymous, do you, So.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Whenever you say an it gives me such a fright
that we're going to have something very different. Yeah, it's fine, Sarah, Hey, Sarah,
we're always learning, and we don't we don't give you
a comic, but also anonymous, you are saying it wrong anonymous.
I thought I should open up the phones for a
Friday because so many people say words in a really
(09:07):
cocked way. Do you have a friend or someone really
close to you who pronounces a word very strangely they
just say it a bit different.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Or maybe after say twenty seven years, like producer Serra,
maybe longer you found out that you'd been pronouncing a
word wrong.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
The friend that every you wanted to like, if you
call one one one, what do you expect to get?
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Like police?
Speaker 1 (09:33):
My friend would say the Ambliance, Ambliance ambulance to take it.
The Ambliance, Yeah, oh one hundred. The hats ticks more
by eight seven? What is the word that someone closes?
You says rather straight the podcast, Sorry, producer Sierra, we've
kind of thrown you under the bus. I feel bad.
(09:53):
You don't need to get a complete complex, everyone says.
I can't ask the phones anymore now, I'm just.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Hear them an on.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
No anonymouses. So we've just been giving dear producer Sarah
but a grief because it was revealed today that she
thought the word was aqua, not aqua. I mean, to
be fair, that might ac should be how you say
it overse She also sees an on instead of a non,
which always throws many an eye off. So we wanted
to know what words does someone you know well say
(10:24):
the wrong way? Knack is joining us undred hats Hello, nack? Yeah,
what's the word?
Speaker 5 (10:32):
Friend of mine says instead of you?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Oh my gosh, it's like I just can't. It's like
it's like a Donald Trump. Isn't it huge?
Speaker 6 (10:43):
Uber?
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I feel like I know someone that sees you, But
I feel like everyone's got like a friend that says
it like that. You don't want to correct them because
they're just you know, it's.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Just some great some great texts coming in poled at
four four eighth seven. Someone said, love my mum, but
she can't say it's chimney every time.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yes. Someone also said, Siah's actually correct is Latin origin,
so you might thank you, okay, just every day like
k we slang No, it's kind of victoria, Victoria. What's
the word?
Speaker 6 (11:22):
My eight year olds is ridiculous? Actually yourself.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Call ten years time. If I'm still saying it, all right,
it's going.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
To cross hundred hurts. What's the word?
Speaker 6 (11:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (11:45):
Actually myself.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
It's just croll.
Speaker 7 (11:54):
I get a lot of crept from a partner.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Chris, you can't help it exactly.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
You're not on your phone.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Yeah, you've got dix Lex here. It's fine, it's fine.
Speaker 7 (12:06):
I can't sell it either.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Thank you so much for calling.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Mate.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
We've got a chimer Rey House prize coming away. Thank you. Hey,
we just said I'm aged in Latin at UNI. The
way you guys are pronouncing it is still correct even
in Latin. It's a short, a not long ag. The
more you know everyone, Mady and PJ.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Mady and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Been a long time since I've been single. McClain, same
with you. You met your lovely husband Ryan in the
year let me yes, it was very close to me
twenty sixteen.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
It's very start of twenty seventeen, very stat of seventeen.
So I was the end of just over seven years. Yeah,
I was the end of twenty seventeen when I met
my husband. So it's been a long time since I've
been in the dating game. I don't miss it. I
do like voyeuristically living through other people. I've been the
same also the excitement of meeting people.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
I was one of those people that when I did
do dating apps, I'd get over it really quickly. I'd
do it like when I was low self esteem. I'd
open it back up and I'd do a little flux.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
It was like and then it was like a roller coaster. Right,
you delete it and then go near it again, and
then you give it again a lonely Sunday night and
then go on. Then I'll redound it.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Move aside dating apps because I was reading an article
about the new way that people are choosing to meet
potential partners, and there's the form of running clubs. I
knew i'd speak to you that.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I this does not surprise me in the slightest for
so many reasons.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Well, you were in it. You went running like a
juice box club or something on the weekend with a
whole lot of different people run.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
I started, just started going to a run club on
a Sunday morning, and at the end of it we
get a little juice box. Is like a little celebration.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
I just love it because you're feeling good up. I mean, yes,
there's the sweety awkwardness in the midst of exercising, but
I think there's like that collective feeling of elation afterwards.
Everyone's running high.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
On indoor fin Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
People, I personally find people quite hot with the sweaty
and they've been working out, Like is that just me?
And also don't they say that it's a real indicator
of if you're attracted to someone when you can.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Smell the pheromone.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Yes, and the pheromones. So surely it's actually a really
good way of getting engauged on whether you're attracted to
that person.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Plus, like if you if you find someone attractive at
the end of like a forty minute run club, sure.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
If you can take them with they're worse, you're gonna
love them.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Please.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
So if you're single at the moment and you're looking
to mix it up, can I reckon here? Maybe you're
and a friend join a running club, even if you
hate running, like it could just just start out see
where you end up. Even just do a little yog
or a fast little walk and see who you mean.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
I would love to know if anyone has ever actually
met someone through a running club or maybe even a
different kind of club. Maybe you do a different kind
of exercise class. Yeah, and maybe that's how you've met someone.
Let us know four for eight seven, Yeah, text us.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Has there been success in the run club or is
this just an article hypothesizing what could be a good
new way love to know your experience four acts even
on the text.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Many and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
That's no Funny, No Money. In the meantime, it's time
for you to tell you jokes. Oh eight hundred hats
the is our number. If you can make Mattie or
myself laugh, we're going to give you fifty bucks to
spend at chemistry house. Okay, okay, Medie.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
I'm ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
You look, you look like you've actually started thinking about
grim things.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So when you don't laugh, I'm like the state of
the world. The state of the world, the state of
the world.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Okay, let's kind of the vines we've got. Okay, So
basically we have to really try hardest to not laugh.
Brexit is called through. Hi, Braxton, how are you good? Okay,
all right, good chat. We've got you calling through for
a joke. What have you got for us?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Knock knock, who's there?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Who's there?
Speaker 7 (16:14):
Let us let us ho let us.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Thank you for your cool break good. It's a good joke,
but you didn't make us laugh.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Thank you, Brixton.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
I mean it's a it's an oldie.
Speaker 7 (16:32):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
It's a real old thank you.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
He said lead but we seed lead us and then
he seed let us.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
He said lead us in. Oh, what's that?
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Miss that part that makes sense? Okay, let's kind of
Chris on eight hundred hits high.
Speaker 8 (16:47):
Chris, the funniest part of that.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Joe was listening to you too, trying to work it out.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
This is this is Chris. It's me trying to explain
the joke to PJ. So she gets your one, all right.
Speaker 8 (17:03):
I met with my mate and I said, he, where
is your sister go hunting? And he said Alaska. I said,
I forget it. Then I'll ask myself. Here it goes.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
That was a last.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
That's that's an acknowledgement that I did. I just wanted
to show them that I got it. But I was laughing.
Laugh you laugh, Okay, Chris, fifty bucks is coming away
to speed kiss sweet house. Thank you very much for.
Speaker 8 (17:33):
You called you got it?
Speaker 6 (17:34):
Very good?
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Thank you? All right?
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Do we have any more or are we we've got Eshton? Oh,
we've got Eshton? Okaye, hundred the hats Hello Ashton? What's
your joke?
Speaker 3 (17:46):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (17:46):
It's kind of like combined? Okay, Okay, why did the
check across the road. Why why get to the idiot's house?
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Knock knock, who's there the check in?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Because you're the idiot, because you're.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
She got there. She got there about five seekers too late,
but she's got there. You know what.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Relief laughter, It's asually relief laughter because I'm focusing so
hard on trying to get it. I got it. That
was all give you that, you guys, just it cures
your house. I have a great weekend, mate, seriously so
bad at this game.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
It's okay, That's why I'm here. I'm here to help.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
You're much better though.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Maddy and PJ Medi and PJ the podcast The Head Mistake.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Welcome to the good Side. My friend was good here.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
This was a blissful, radiant, joyful morning that I had
this morning. And I'm talking like this because I went
to yoga.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Okay, now I feel like you're mocking me.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
This was my first ever yoga class that I went
to this morning, and it wasn't just.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Blows my mind, like I feel like, You've done so
many things in your life and this is the first
time you went to a yoga class.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Yeah, do you know what it is?
Speaker 3 (19:21):
It's that I'm really wildly inflexible, right, And I don't
love not being good at things from the get go,
and so I've always kind of put it off and
I've just me.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Can I just say? And yoga it's not about going
against other people. It was about going against yourself, well
and not even going against yourself, but just you know,
embracing that. You know you don't have to be perfect.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
So my dear friend Ash said to me and my
husband Ryan, I go to a yoga class on a
Friday morning. Would you guys like to come along? And
we said, actually, yeah, that'd be a nice way to
start our Friday. What I didn't realize, what I agreed
to it was that it wasn't just yoga.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
It was hot yoga.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Oh my god, that can be a lot. It can
be a lot. Did you stay hydrated like I told
you to?
Speaker 3 (20:06):
I did stay hydrated, But even still, you get into
that room, it's blasting a furnace that's like forty degrees
in there.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
What did you end up wearing because you were sure
on your tire?
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
I immediately gone in there and went, yeah, the shirt's
not going to work because so you stripped off because
I followed suit most of the guys that were in
there were top Okay, that's good, right, So I just
followed suit and took my top off as well. It
was immediately I started dripping buckets of sweat buckets, And
(20:39):
then I thought.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
What am I doing?
Speaker 3 (20:42):
I struggle, I struggle on like an autumn day in
Auckland with the human What am I doing in a
forty degree room trying to do hot yoga?
Speaker 1 (20:50):
At least everyone else is sweating next to you, Like yeah,
because you're quite a squeaty guy, but at least you
can kind of hide that fact with everyone else's sweating
alongside you. Good.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
The immediately though, I got the giggles and I thought
there is something a little bit culty about this place
because I was standing there.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
X she goes breathing, breathing, and now exhale, and everyone.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Goes like this, Yeah, that's good. That's good. I know
it's it's it sounds a lot when you're in there,
but you've got.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
To get oh. I was like, am I only a
hot yo class? Or if I come to an exorcism?
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Honestly, it felt like they were having they were having
some sort of like demonic position.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Reminds me of the Green Mile. It reminds me of
the Green Mile when he starts blushing out all the
bad stuff.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
And so everyone's standing there doing that noise, and I
got the giggles, which.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
Was not the way I know, how how far? And
was it right at the beginning, right.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
At the beginning. And then I got into it and
I started and I did. I did enjoy it, and
I was better at it than I thought I was
going to good lady behind, because you had said to me,
what did you say to me yesterday as.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
I was walking out, as you just watch our like
the yoga fart is not a math, It does happen,
And so I.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Was so terrified. My sphincter was so so clenched the
entire time, just say.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
But the lady behind me lit one rip in the
middle of the class, and I thought, oh, it is real.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
It is a thing.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
Sometimes sometimes though it's just your stomach, your stomach can
actually get caught and like and it makes the suction noise,
and sometimes everyone thinks you've let rip, but it's actually
just the between your tummy and the mad Yes.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
And then by the end of it, I was all
about it, and I was at the end.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I was going.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
During the Deep Breath the podcast.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
That you know, relationships are complicated and sure sometimes things
happen and you partner can can piss you off. But
there's fighting and arguing with your partner and then there's
taking them to the disciplinary tribunal.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
Oh my god, I saw this headline. This happened here
in New Zealand.
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Didn't that it?
Speaker 2 (23:14):
Did? It did?
Speaker 3 (23:16):
A woman has taken her boyfriend to the disputes tribunal
after he failed to take her to the airport.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Like also, I understand from the boyfriend's side, because taking
someone to the airport sucks.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
Are such a punish.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
You're in a big city, you know, you know when
you offer that as a favor, you go, hey, let
me know if you need to ride to the airport,
and you hope, you hope you try that.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
They say no, no, I'm good, I actually need to
check him by five thirty Tomorrow's okay. What did I agree?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
What did I agree? It is a horrible job.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
But this boyfriend promised his girlfriend, Yep, babe, I'm going
to take you to the airport so that you can
catch your flight. She was going to our concert. M
he she waited, and she waited. He was also meant
to come and stay at her house and look after
her dogs while she was away, and he just he never.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Shows multifactorial and it was more than.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Off these layers.
Speaker 3 (24:12):
So as a result, she ended up missing her flight
because she just didn't get to the airport on time
because she was waiting for a boyfriend to come and
collect her and it never did. So they broke up,
and then she took him to the Disputes Tribunal because
she said, well, I'm now out of pocket for the
flights that I had to change to the next day.
I had to get an airport shuttle to get me
(24:35):
to the airport. I had to uh the cost to
put her dogs into a kennel because he wasn't staying
that weekend. And she said, we had a verbally binding
contract when you agreed to take me to the airport,
that constitutes a legally binding agreement.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
I love that he's gone the court over this.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
There is nothing better, in my view than someone that
is so petty that they will take their boyfriend to
the dispute tribute like most people will be.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
I don't want to see him again. I don't want
to have to deal.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
With him, bloody, take him.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
So touchy? Do you reckon she'll she'll get money for it?
Speaker 2 (25:17):
No, No, it hasn't Actually it hasn't gone through.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Ultimately, the court decided that although a promise was made,
it fell short of being a contract, with the promises
exchanged as a normal give and take in a relationship,
and the women's claims were dismissed. And believe it or not,
the couple have now separated.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Shock horror.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Imagine if they hadn't imagine if gone through the process
and then he had to go back and sleep at
the same.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Beard at night, A very awkward evening for the two
of them. But I do love pety revenge. I'm not
good at it. I've never been good at pettiness and
like really good revenge. I've always been of the belief
that just being happy and confident and successful in yourself
is the best form of revenge, which is lovely.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
But I want the missing toy and it doesn't need
to be It doesn't need to be serious revenge. No,
I need to have taken them to the dispute tribunal.
Maybe you just like swapped out their sugar for their
salts or something like that. And maybe it was funny
petty revenge.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Okay, so we'll keep it light and bright and tight
for a Friday. But the pitiest revenge you got over someone,
or maybe someone got over you, and now you can
laugh in hindsight.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Many the podcast, I'm so excited about that we're talking
pity this.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
We just shared the story of a woman here in
New Zealand who took her ex boyfriend to the dispute
tribunal because he didn't take her to the airport when
she needed to go on a flight.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Brilliant.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
So we wanted to know what pity revenge have you
got on someone or maybe they got on you. Adrian
is joining us on our eight hundred the hertz Hi Adrianne.
What happened.
Speaker 7 (27:01):
I lived in with actually my friend's dad, and there
was an agreement that I would get reduced rent by
doing that hooking and the cleaning. You know, we're all
good and dandy, And then his flatmate needed certainly sorry,
his cousin needed somewhere to stay, so he moved in
(27:21):
and every time the landlord needed a distance, the cousin
would say, well, yeah, you're pay so I got a
little antsy and one of my high horse because he
was living there rent free, right, and I every Sunday, Yeah,
I would get up early and do the cleaning. And
(27:44):
there's one song called fat Baby. Now I can't think, Okay,
I cannot think, so I'm apologizing now. But there's part
of the song and I would turn it up loud
and then I would be kind of yelling with it
as well. It would be going, You're just a fat,
fat fat fad that that that that that little baby.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
And that was the chorus, right, and you do that
for revenge every Sunday morning. Yes, all right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Revenge comes in every form, I would say, page, really,
it really does. Let me read a couple of texts.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
When I broke up with my ex girlfriend, she took
all my shirts and cut off the sleeves. She also
took all my jeans and cut the legs off.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Amazing. I love it.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
This is quite a common one, but my best friend
once signed his ex boyfriend up to a bunch of
spam emails, like hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of them
on all email addresses that his ex boyfriend had someone
else also text and saying that they did that? Friends
is joining us?
Speaker 2 (28:46):
Hello, Hey, good god?
Speaker 1 (28:50):
What was the revenge?
Speaker 5 (28:53):
Well, I went and had a I was heaving smoker
in a workshop, and while I was out going to
the toilet some of the guys, I bought a whole
bunch of salt in my coffee. And I came back
and I drank it and spit it all over the place,
and everyone's laughing and laughing and laughing. Right, get my
revenge on the guy who did it. And he's a
(29:13):
tea drinker, and his cup was never washed. He just
swirled a bit of water around and away. It was
brown and disgusting and horrible. And I thought, here, I'm
going to get into it.
Speaker 8 (29:23):
Here.
Speaker 5 (29:23):
I washed his cup so it was sparkling like brand new,
and I put it back where it normally drink. He
had to drink out of another cup for like two
or three weeks because he just didn't trust what I've
done with his cup.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
And all you and all you've done is clean as
his dirty, gross cup.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
All right, it's cold, getting some interesting weird.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
That's fine, let's move on.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
Let's go to Simon. Oh wait, one hundred minutes. What
was the petty revenge? Simon?
Speaker 4 (29:54):
Oh, guys, made of mind.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Dave.
Speaker 8 (29:56):
He cheated on his girlfriend and she found about it,
and she decided to get some revenge on him, obviously,
so she was all nice as pie and hey, baby,
why didn't we shave downstairs for you? And he was like, oh, yeah,
this will be a bit of fun because he didn't
know she knew. So she got the vat out and
(30:19):
she was, you know, cleaning him up, and she put
a big dollop right under his sack and.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
He's going, oh, it's getting a bit warm. You No, no,
it's supposed to be like that. You're supposed to leave
it after ten minutes.
Speaker 8 (30:33):
And she scraped everything off except this big dollop and.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
He's going, oh burns, it burns. She goes, no, no, wait,
wait wait, I'm almost done. And she kept them there
for age, and he was walking around pulling his pants
down every five seconds for about two weeks. They had
a big burn right under his neck.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Oh oh, why, Diamond, thank you very much for you cool.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
What just happened?
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
We had so many good tics.
Speaker 1 (31:06):
Friday. Maybe he's a solstice, shortest day of the year.
It's something in the something in the water.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
The podcast.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
So prior to the show kicking off this afternoon, I
met up with my husband in town. It's always a
big it's always a big event when the hobby comes into. Yes,
we love twenty minutes.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Out and she's a big drive.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
She's a big drive. I mean, I come in every
day for work, but when he comes in, you know,
it's always a bit of an event. And it's not
like he really dressed up for it though, honestly so
we had planned this accountant meeting for quite some time now,
I'd have been in the calendar for a few weeks.
He knew it was coming right last time.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Didn't you didn't you dress up? Didn't you put on
a like a blaze or anything? That's right?
Speaker 1 (31:54):
Because I was trying to them so i'd get less
text back. You say, everyone dressing up does not the
tax that you have to pay. I learned that the
hard way. Anyway, today, Yeah, BJ, my husband did the opposite.
And so he rocks in and we met in the
car park and I'm like, are you gonna get changed?
And he's like what And he's literally got this joosey
on which he's like, oh, smells like cat puson. I
(32:16):
want to take that off. So he then steps off
to this rugby shirt he's got underneath, he's got his
work pants on, which have car shite literally all up
the sides. He's got his big boots on, so he
used to rock and take his boots off. And he's
walking in with socks into this like official actency firm
where everyone's dressed quite nicely. And I'm like, okay, that's right.
(32:40):
So we go in to the meeting and we sit
down and we're trying to talk.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Like serious things.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
We're talking about potential, you know, business ideas down the
track and whatnot.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
I don't know that I've ever seen your husband talk
serious in his life.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
I know it was quite funny, and so I look
to my side and I can't help but cackle mid meeting.
I look at his hand.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
He's still got cash all.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
He's got dude all up his hands. He hasn't washed them.
He's obviously gone straight from the farm into this meeting
and he's trying to discuss serious business issues. I'm like, PJ,
you need to wash your hands.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Look, I'll give him the stubbies, like the jersey the
stubbies fine, but washing.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Rocking in and socks. All good.
Speaker 9 (33:28):
Wash your hands.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
He's usually so good at it. I think it's just
because he had to fly. I think he was running
bay and I was sorry. He usually washes when we
go out. But I thought, because I know that other
people have farmers who listen to the show, is their
partners or husbands text ind a four four eight seven,
complete the sentence you know you're dating a farmer when
(33:53):
dot dot dot so in my case, they go to
an appointment still in their farm. Gears for the airs.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast. We talk
about a lot of silly, silly things on the show.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Are you talking about We're a hard hitting, journalistic news
newsworthy show.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Absolutely we are, and so because of that, sometimes we
like to bring a little bit more of the serious
to this show. And I saw this beautiful, beautiful video
on social media. It was an Australian Olympic boxer by
the name of Harry Garside. He's a young, young, young
Olympic boxer. He competed in Japan in twenty twenty in Tokyo,
(34:44):
and he has recently been photographed wearing dresses like full
skirts dresses and it's just this really kind of I
guess jarring image, right. You see this very like manlys
Lan Boxer, and he's wearing what is predominantly assumed to
(35:06):
be women's clothes, and so it's obviously sparked a lot
of interest and a lot of conversation about why is
he doing this, what is this all for? And I
saw him talk about it on a podcast and someone
in the podcast host asked him why he was wearing
the dress, and the way that he explained it, I
just think takes a topic that is quite complicated and
(35:28):
nuanced and made it really really easy for people to understand.
Speaker 9 (35:33):
I believe that all we've been told since today we're
born is just stories upon stories upon stories about how
to live our life. And no one knows what we're
doing on a spinning rock in the middle of nowhere.
You just told stories from your parents and their parents
and your community, your teachers, and I just think that
and you just follow it. And I just think like
we should always challenge and question everything. And as I said,
I could be wrong. I don't know, like I have
(35:54):
no idea, and I.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
Think your opinion made that cannot be wrong, that's the thing.
Speaker 9 (35:57):
And I just think is if we could show more
young peop people that they don't have to form in
line and be like what they're told, they can chase
their wildest trends. If there's a young girl out there
who comes from a family who wants her to do this,
but she has a calling for boxing, go do that.
If there's a young boy who wants to do performance arts,
like go do that. Like that is your calling, you know.
And I just want to try and inspire people to
(36:18):
go inside and see what they find and then express
that to the world.
Speaker 3 (36:23):
Oh, isn't the most beautiful way of conveying that message
that you should absolutely just live your life authentically be
one hundred percent yourself because at the hard to do.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Sometimes it's so hard to do, especially when you're online
and people are telling you you should be doing what
you should be saying, and you know, it can get
really really confusing out there.
Speaker 3 (36:45):
And society has given us this idea that you have
to live your life this way or if you're you know,
if you're a female, these are the ideals you have
to live by. If you're a male, these are the
ideals you have to live by.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
Nah, you don't like.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
We should be following our own We've be making up
our own rules and following our own path. And I
just love that from Harry Garside, and so I wanted
to share its nice.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
Bit of motivation and inspiration hitting into the weekend.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
The podcast that Man.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Honestly, I thought I was young for so long, and
then the last year or two, I've just felt a
lot older. It's when they're taking over society.
Speaker 2 (37:23):
It's when you start seeing trends.
Speaker 3 (37:26):
Like for a while, even when the new trends would
come in, you would have a grasp on what they
were and you'd understand. It's when you stop understanding them
that you realize that you're old.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Yeah, and like growing up, I never got it. I
was like, you know, that'll never be me. Well, I
really think that that's starting to happen anyway. A speech expert,
a language expert, has come out basically saying, well, forecasting
the death of a well used phrase, particularly for the
younger gins. They pull this out a lot, the word
(38:00):
I'll make you guess it. The words is used to
describe anything cool, pretty, awesome. What do you think it is?
Speaker 2 (38:09):
No, not dope. That's a bit older.
Speaker 3 (38:14):
There, that slaps it's slay.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
It is the word slay, which I never fully got
on board with. I sort of started flirting with it,
like the phrase it's giving because that's what a lot
of young people say, and I only just started saying that.
But you know what, that's probably also going to start
going out too, because I'm that late to the party
with these phrases. This guy has said that in its place,
he has forecasted a new term.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
Do we like this one more?
Speaker 5 (38:46):
No?
Speaker 1 (38:47):
I don't think so, but at least we can be
like kind of a hit of the wave. Although, actually, producers, Sarah,
can you tell us if this is already a thing?
Because you don't even know me with these things. Okay,
So apparently I'm gagged is going to replace just from
the nineties or something gagged.
Speaker 2 (39:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:03):
Sorry, it's going to be used like as an expression
of endearment or general admiration. So it's like, oh, I'm gagged.
That is so awesome.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
I don't think I can't pull that off.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
I don't know if I can't either. Yeah. There was
basically a graph showing the recent uptake of Google search
terms gagged meaning in gag slang, So it's obviously on
the art uprising son. You were sound cool with your curs. Yeah, okay,
can you tell me something cool? And okay, Oh, you
won't believe the second you Oh my gosh, this paints
(39:40):
throughout there.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
Many this, I'm gagged.
Speaker 1 (39:44):
I can't do it. It sounds like you're gags. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (39:50):
I don't know about this. I'm as Sleigh Many the
podcast
The Heads Drive with Meddy and Paja. Thanks to Chimis
were House, the Real House of Fragrances.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
And on that.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hello, welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Okay, so do you want to go with that plan tonight?
I'll send you a message at about eight o'clock. Is
that what you're thinking? Yeah? Please do maybe eight point thirty. Okay,
So Maddie's going to a BBYO. It's a friend's birthday, besh.
But you don't want to get lit.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I actually don't even want to drink at all. I've
just had some big nights recently and I just need
to have some self control and I want to have
a nice week, nice chill weekend, speak that where I
can wake up tomorrow morning with any regrets.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
And not feeling sack.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
And will you set yourself up for a good one though,
because your husband Ryan is a sober driver tonight, so
he can't eag you on. That's good.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
He's actually pulled out what Yeah, Yeah, he's called out.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
No, he's just he's.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Had because he has he had a few drinks with work.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
No no, no, he's at home on the couch.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
He's just had a pulled out of the night.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
He's had a and I totally get it. And we
had a big weekend last weekend, so he just he
messaged me just before and said, do you.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Mind if I don't come? And I was like, totally fine.
I don't get that.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh no, your chances are looking not so great that
he's going to be your support. He was going to
be a lifeline because.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
He was sober driving.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
So here's my thing. I said the page, please can
you see me a text? And I reckon eight is
still a good time to do it?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Or do you want me to call you? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Or do I do that? Oh my god, Oh my god,
what's happened? Oh no, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Okay, I'll be there as soon as I can and
then go. Sorry, guys, I do to go with my
friends in trouble. Just I mean, what when do you
do that?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
You'll you'll suck it up.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I will.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
And also I should just have the like strength to
be able to say to my friends, I'm not drinking.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
You're grown ass man, can do this, your grown man?
Are you gonna go to your little juice box run
club this weekend?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, that's on Sunday. I think I might go.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
It'll be nice it'll be a nice thing today.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
What about you? What are you doing with your weekend?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Honestly, I don't have much planned. We've got some really
cute labrator puppies which we are in the process of
selling in the next few weeks, so just looking after them.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Is this your little plug?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
If you would like a cute little puppy, hit us
up on the heads drive on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
By all means, you can get to touch on me
pja DJ on Instagram if you want. I actually I
got overwhelmed the other day when I did that on
my story and then I kind of retreated. But we're
getting to the we're getting a couple of weeks out
from actually giving them away because you sort of give
them a way around the six week mark, I think,
so that's coming around quickly. So yeah, by all means,
slide into my dms p j DJ. If you're like
(03:00):
a little black or gorgeous golden How are.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
They doing so cute?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Do you want to do their little chunks?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Do you do much?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
BJ? Is chief pup? Look her after its wrangler because
they were just feeding off fig super Mom who had
like eleven parts. But they need to be supplemented now.
With extra food, So give them a little bit of
extra food. They're very, very cute. So yeah, other than that,
(03:30):
I haven't really got much planned. I'm quite strong. I
kind of want to get a massage because I did
my nick out this week. You know your old window
was like, oh my god, have I actually done my knicker?
But I must have just slipped awkwardly. So I'm going
to go get a message. I'm that one in the ages.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
That's so nice? Is there a good is there a
good massage place?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
And there are a couple of places, and recently there
was a tipeplace which opened, which is fantastic. Always had
a great experience here.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
My issue with messages is it goes one of two ways.
I'm I'm not great with a lot of pressure. Yeah,
but I also don't want like very gentle light touch.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yes, like I want to I want usually early on
in the message that go is that pressure good for you?
You've got to be honest, and you're not and you're
not very good at being probably open in that moment.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
So I want to come out of there being like,
oh yeah, I got had a good massage. But I
don't want to come out of there being like that
was the most painful thing I've ever had in my
life now.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
But that's why you just say, wind it back, Lindsey,
wind it back, please.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But then if it's not if it's if the pressure
is not too.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Hard, yeah, when you go wind it up, Lindsey, wind it.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Up, then it goes.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
If it's not too.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Hard, yeah, if it's like soft and gentle, then you
get excited sometimes yeah, wait, accidentally I don't mean to Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Of course. So you're lying on your stomach, do you
pop up like a tint? Like, how does that work?
If you if that there's no hole run there like
for you with your here goes?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Yeah, there was.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
It doesn't look I'm talking out of tune here. It
doesn't happen off, but it has happened a couple of times,
and I did have to apologize once.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
It would happen a lot. It would surely a lot.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I'm sure it does.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
But like, how do you deal with a boner if
you're lying down? Is it really uncomfortable?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
A little tuck? Tuck it into your end?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
And oh my god, I'm talking to being way too
honest on the podcast Tonight, be honest honest, I'm cutting
this conversation off.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Okay, okay, okay, I've just got never to make now.
I've got so many quitions I've got asked you anyway,
We're gonna write the podcast up now. In today's episode,
we talk about words that you pronounced weirdly or someone
you knows. Also no funny, no, I tell you what.
There was something in the water with the calls today, weird.
Do you reckon weird? I think it's a solstice thing
(05:59):
on the sure.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Yeah. Plus I went to hot yoga.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I talked about this on the podcast yesterday, so I
got an update for you.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
How did it go? I'll fill you in.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
And the pity revenge that you've taken on your partner,
this is where the calls really thrive.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
If no funny, no money was weird. The pity revenge
was the most bizarre phone topic we've ever done on
the show I Reckon.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So that's all coming up and more. Enjoying the podcast
and have a great weekend.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
The podcast.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
A big show this morning with John O beIN and
Megan doing the all nineties morning. Of course, they've done
bettle of the decades. This week it was nineties with
two thousands nineties took out the top spot.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
It kind of had to, right.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
I think it's just more novelty, isn't it.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
And there's so much nostalgia attached to it. I don't
It's just so different. I don't feel the same nostalgia
for the for the naughties as I do for the nineties.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I love the early two thousands R and B and
the club vibe, but yeah, there's just nothing like the nineties.
So anyway, very fun show this morning with the guys,
and we've been talking about nineties artists. I don't know
how this popped up in the show. Behind the scenes,
we were talking about one of my favorite bands actually
from the nineties, Equa, and then producer Sira said, you
(07:20):
mean Aqua, and I said no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
No, Aqua, Equa, Aqua famous.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And then sirah, you looked pretty horrified when we revealed
that it's actually how you say the word. Is that
how you've been saying aqua for your whole life?
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Twenty seven years Aqua? Wait you said you said aqua.
I think actually in your defeats, I think like some
other countries may say it like aqua, like maybe American
maybe potentially say aqua. I do try to pick up accents.
It's like I can't stop it. If I hear some
more of thann accent, I just mimic it back really bad.
(08:00):
I'm not trying to be offensive, but maybe I have
kind of picked that up. Wait, awkward. It's so hard
to know. I don't want to take the key out
of you, because I'm sure i've this before, and the
many and I did. This gave us the opportunity to
open up about another word that it's wrong no.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Because on when we get called.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
No, it's behind the scenes when you're dealing with the phone.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
When we get callers through. Sometimes some people want to
stay anonymous. And so you right right a n O
to symbol an.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
We'd say no. A non sounds like a weird little
noon like it's just.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
It's no like anonymous. You don't say anonymous, do you, So.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Whenever you say an it gives me such a fright
that we're going to have something very different. Yeah, it's fine, Sarah, Hey, Sarah,
we're always learning, and we don't we don't give you
a comic, but also anonymous, you are saying it wrong anonymous.
I thought I should open up the phones for a
Friday because so many people say words in a really
(09:07):
cocked way. Do you have a friend or someone really
close to you who pronounces a word very strangely they
just say it a bit different.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Or maybe after say twenty seven years, like producer Serra,
maybe longer you found out that you'd been pronouncing a
word wrong.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
The friend that every you wanted to like, if you
call one one one, what do you expect to get?
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Like police?
Speaker 1 (09:33):
My friend would say the Ambliance, Ambliance ambulance to take it.
The Ambliance, Yeah, oh one hundred. The hats ticks more
by eight seven? What is the word that someone closes?
You says rather straight the podcast, Sorry, producer Sierra, we've
kind of thrown you under the bus. I feel bad.
(09:53):
You don't need to get a complete complex, everyone says.
I can't ask the phones anymore now, I'm just.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Hear them an on.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
No anonymouses. So we've just been giving dear producer Sarah
but a grief because it was revealed today that she
thought the word was aqua, not aqua. I mean, to
be fair, that might ac should be how you say
it overse She also sees an on instead of a non,
which always throws many an eye off. So we wanted
to know what words does someone you know well say
(10:24):
the wrong way? Knack is joining us undred hats Hello, nack? Yeah,
what's the word?
Speaker 5 (10:32):
Friend of mine says instead of you?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Oh my gosh, it's like I just can't. It's like
it's like a Donald Trump. Isn't it huge?
Speaker 6 (10:43):
Uber?
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I feel like I know someone that sees you, But
I feel like everyone's got like a friend that says
it like that. You don't want to correct them because
they're just you know, it's.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Just some great some great texts coming in poled at
four four eighth seven. Someone said, love my mum, but
she can't say it's chimney every time.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yes. Someone also said, Siah's actually correct is Latin origin,
so you might thank you, okay, just every day like
k we slang No, it's kind of victoria, Victoria. What's
the word?
Speaker 6 (11:22):
My eight year olds is ridiculous? Actually yourself.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Call ten years time. If I'm still saying it, all right,
it's going.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
To cross hundred hurts. What's the word?
Speaker 6 (11:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (11:45):
Actually myself.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
It's just croll.
Speaker 7 (11:54):
I get a lot of crept from a partner.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Chris, you can't help it exactly.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
You're not on your phone.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Yeah, you've got dix Lex here. It's fine, it's fine.
Speaker 7 (12:06):
I can't sell it either.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Thank you so much for calling.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Mate.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
We've got a chimer Rey House prize coming away. Thank you. Hey,
we just said I'm aged in Latin at UNI. The
way you guys are pronouncing it is still correct even
in Latin. It's a short, a not long ag. The
more you know everyone, Mady and PJ.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Mady and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Been a long time since I've been single. McClain, same
with you. You met your lovely husband Ryan in the
year let me yes, it was very close to me
twenty sixteen.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
It's very start of twenty seventeen, very stat of seventeen.
So I was the end of just over seven years. Yeah,
I was the end of twenty seventeen when I met
my husband. So it's been a long time since I've
been in the dating game. I don't miss it. I
do like voyeuristically living through other people. I've been the
same also the excitement of meeting people.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
I was one of those people that when I did
do dating apps, I'd get over it really quickly. I'd
do it like when I was low self esteem. I'd
open it back up and I'd do a little flux.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
It was like and then it was like a roller coaster. Right,
you delete it and then go near it again, and
then you give it again a lonely Sunday night and
then go on. Then I'll redound it.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Move aside dating apps because I was reading an article
about the new way that people are choosing to meet
potential partners, and there's the form of running clubs. I
knew i'd speak to you that.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I this does not surprise me in the slightest for
so many reasons.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Well, you were in it. You went running like a
juice box club or something on the weekend with a
whole lot of different people run.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
I started, just started going to a run club on
a Sunday morning, and at the end of it we
get a little juice box. Is like a little celebration.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
I just love it because you're feeling good up. I mean, yes,
there's the sweety awkwardness in the midst of exercising, but
I think there's like that collective feeling of elation afterwards.
Everyone's running high.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
On indoor fin Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
People, I personally find people quite hot with the sweaty
and they've been working out, Like is that just me?
And also don't they say that it's a real indicator
of if you're attracted to someone when you can.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Smell the pheromone.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Yes, and the pheromones. So surely it's actually a really
good way of getting engauged on whether you're attracted to
that person.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Plus, like if you if you find someone attractive at
the end of like a forty minute run club, sure.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
If you can take them with they're worse, you're gonna
love them.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Please.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
So if you're single at the moment and you're looking
to mix it up, can I reckon here? Maybe you're
and a friend join a running club, even if you
hate running, like it could just just start out see
where you end up. Even just do a little yog
or a fast little walk and see who you mean.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
I would love to know if anyone has ever actually
met someone through a running club or maybe even a
different kind of club. Maybe you do a different kind
of exercise class. Yeah, and maybe that's how you've met someone.
Let us know four for eight seven, Yeah, text us.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Has there been success in the run club or is
this just an article hypothesizing what could be a good
new way love to know your experience four acts even
on the text.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Many and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
That's no Funny, No Money. In the meantime, it's time
for you to tell you jokes. Oh eight hundred hats
the is our number. If you can make Mattie or
myself laugh, we're going to give you fifty bucks to
spend at chemistry house. Okay, okay, Medie.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
I'm ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
You look, you look like you've actually started thinking about
grim things.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So when you don't laugh, I'm like the state of
the world. The state of the world, the state of
the world.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Okay, let's kind of the vines we've got. Okay, So
basically we have to really try hardest to not laugh.
Brexit is called through. Hi, Braxton, how are you good? Okay,
all right, good chat. We've got you calling through for
a joke. What have you got for us?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Knock knock, who's there?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Who's there?
Speaker 7 (16:14):
Let us let us ho let us.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Thank you for your cool break good. It's a good joke,
but you didn't make us laugh.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Thank you, Brixton.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
I mean it's a it's an oldie.
Speaker 7 (16:32):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
It's a real old thank you.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
He said lead but we seed lead us and then
he seed let us.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
He said lead us in. Oh, what's that?
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Miss that part that makes sense? Okay, let's kind of
Chris on eight hundred hits high.
Speaker 8 (16:47):
Chris, the funniest part of that.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Joe was listening to you too, trying to work it out.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
This is this is Chris. It's me trying to explain
the joke to PJ. So she gets your one, all right.
Speaker 8 (17:03):
I met with my mate and I said, he, where
is your sister go hunting? And he said Alaska. I said,
I forget it. Then I'll ask myself. Here it goes.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
That was a last.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
That's that's an acknowledgement that I did. I just wanted
to show them that I got it. But I was laughing.
Laugh you laugh, Okay, Chris, fifty bucks is coming away
to speed kiss sweet house. Thank you very much for.
Speaker 8 (17:33):
You called you got it?
Speaker 6 (17:34):
Very good?
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Thank you? All right?
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Do we have any more or are we we've got Eshton? Oh,
we've got Eshton? Okaye, hundred the hats Hello Ashton? What's
your joke?
Speaker 3 (17:46):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (17:46):
It's kind of like combined? Okay, Okay, why did the
check across the road. Why why get to the idiot's house?
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Knock knock, who's there the check in?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Because you're the idiot, because you're.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
She got there. She got there about five seekers too late,
but she's got there. You know what.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Relief laughter, It's asually relief laughter because I'm focusing so
hard on trying to get it. I got it. That
was all give you that, you guys, just it cures
your house. I have a great weekend, mate, seriously so
bad at this game.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
It's okay, That's why I'm here. I'm here to help.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
You're much better though.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Maddy and PJ Medi and PJ the podcast The Head Mistake.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Welcome to the good Side. My friend was good here.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
This was a blissful, radiant, joyful morning that I had
this morning. And I'm talking like this because I went
to yoga.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Okay, now I feel like you're mocking me.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
This was my first ever yoga class that I went
to this morning, and it wasn't just.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Blows my mind, like I feel like, You've done so
many things in your life and this is the first
time you went to a yoga class.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Yeah, do you know what it is?
Speaker 3 (19:21):
It's that I'm really wildly inflexible, right, And I don't
love not being good at things from the get go,
and so I've always kind of put it off and
I've just me.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Can I just say? And yoga it's not about going
against other people. It was about going against yourself, well
and not even going against yourself, but just you know,
embracing that. You know you don't have to be perfect.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
So my dear friend Ash said to me and my
husband Ryan, I go to a yoga class on a
Friday morning. Would you guys like to come along? And
we said, actually, yeah, that'd be a nice way to
start our Friday. What I didn't realize, what I agreed
to it was that it wasn't just yoga.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
It was hot yoga.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Oh my god, that can be a lot. It can
be a lot. Did you stay hydrated like I told
you to?
Speaker 3 (20:06):
I did stay hydrated, But even still, you get into
that room, it's blasting a furnace that's like forty degrees
in there.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
What did you end up wearing because you were sure
on your tire?
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
I immediately gone in there and went, yeah, the shirt's
not going to work because so you stripped off because
I followed suit most of the guys that were in
there were top Okay, that's good, right, So I just
followed suit and took my top off as well. It
was immediately I started dripping buckets of sweat buckets, And
(20:39):
then I thought.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
What am I doing?
Speaker 3 (20:42):
I struggle, I struggle on like an autumn day in
Auckland with the human What am I doing in a
forty degree room trying to do hot yoga?
Speaker 1 (20:50):
At least everyone else is sweating next to you, Like yeah,
because you're quite a squeaty guy, but at least you
can kind of hide that fact with everyone else's sweating
alongside you. Good.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
The immediately though, I got the giggles and I thought
there is something a little bit culty about this place
because I was standing there.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
X she goes breathing, breathing, and now exhale, and everyone.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Goes like this, Yeah, that's good. That's good. I know
it's it's it sounds a lot when you're in there,
but you've got.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
To get oh. I was like, am I only a
hot yo class? Or if I come to an exorcism?
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Honestly, it felt like they were having they were having
some sort of like demonic position.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Reminds me of the Green Mile. It reminds me of
the Green Mile when he starts blushing out all the
bad stuff.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
And so everyone's standing there doing that noise, and I
got the giggles, which.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
Was not the way I know, how how far? And
was it right at the beginning, right.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
At the beginning. And then I got into it and
I started and I did. I did enjoy it, and
I was better at it than I thought I was
going to good lady behind, because you had said to me,
what did you say to me yesterday as.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
I was walking out, as you just watch our like
the yoga fart is not a math, It does happen,
And so I.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Was so terrified. My sphincter was so so clenched the
entire time, just say.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
But the lady behind me lit one rip in the
middle of the class, and I thought, oh, it is real.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
It is a thing.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
Sometimes sometimes though it's just your stomach, your stomach can
actually get caught and like and it makes the suction noise,
and sometimes everyone thinks you've let rip, but it's actually
just the between your tummy and the mad Yes.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
And then by the end of it, I was all
about it, and I was at the end.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I was going.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
During the Deep Breath the podcast.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
That you know, relationships are complicated and sure sometimes things
happen and you partner can can piss you off. But
there's fighting and arguing with your partner and then there's
taking them to the disciplinary tribunal.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
Oh my god, I saw this headline. This happened here
in New Zealand.
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Didn't that it?
Speaker 2 (23:14):
Did? It did?
Speaker 3 (23:16):
A woman has taken her boyfriend to the disputes tribunal
after he failed to take her to the airport.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Like also, I understand from the boyfriend's side, because taking
someone to the airport sucks.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
Are such a punish.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
You're in a big city, you know, you know when
you offer that as a favor, you go, hey, let
me know if you need to ride to the airport,
and you hope, you hope you try that.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
They say no, no, I'm good, I actually need to
check him by five thirty Tomorrow's okay. What did I agree?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
What did I agree? It is a horrible job.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
But this boyfriend promised his girlfriend, Yep, babe, I'm going
to take you to the airport so that you can
catch your flight. She was going to our concert. M
he she waited, and she waited. He was also meant
to come and stay at her house and look after
her dogs while she was away, and he just he never.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Shows multifactorial and it was more than.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Off these layers.
Speaker 3 (24:12):
So as a result, she ended up missing her flight
because she just didn't get to the airport on time
because she was waiting for a boyfriend to come and
collect her and it never did. So they broke up,
and then she took him to the Disputes Tribunal because
she said, well, I'm now out of pocket for the
flights that I had to change to the next day.
I had to get an airport shuttle to get me
(24:35):
to the airport. I had to uh the cost to
put her dogs into a kennel because he wasn't staying
that weekend. And she said, we had a verbally binding
contract when you agreed to take me to the airport,
that constitutes a legally binding agreement.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
I love that he's gone the court over this.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
There is nothing better, in my view than someone that
is so petty that they will take their boyfriend to
the dispute tribute like most people will be.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
I don't want to see him again. I don't want
to have to deal.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
With him, bloody, take him.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
So touchy? Do you reckon she'll she'll get money for it?
Speaker 2 (25:17):
No, No, it hasn't Actually it hasn't gone through.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Ultimately, the court decided that although a promise was made,
it fell short of being a contract, with the promises
exchanged as a normal give and take in a relationship,
and the women's claims were dismissed. And believe it or not,
the couple have now separated.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Shock horror.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Imagine if they hadn't imagine if gone through the process
and then he had to go back and sleep at
the same.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Beard at night, A very awkward evening for the two
of them. But I do love pety revenge. I'm not
good at it. I've never been good at pettiness and
like really good revenge. I've always been of the belief
that just being happy and confident and successful in yourself
is the best form of revenge, which is lovely.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
But I want the missing toy and it doesn't need
to be It doesn't need to be serious revenge. No,
I need to have taken them to the dispute tribunal.
Maybe you just like swapped out their sugar for their
salts or something like that. And maybe it was funny
petty revenge.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Okay, so we'll keep it light and bright and tight
for a Friday. But the pitiest revenge you got over someone,
or maybe someone got over you, and now you can
laugh in hindsight.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Many the podcast, I'm so excited about that we're talking
pity this.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
We just shared the story of a woman here in
New Zealand who took her ex boyfriend to the dispute
tribunal because he didn't take her to the airport when
she needed to go on a flight.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Brilliant.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
So we wanted to know what pity revenge have you
got on someone or maybe they got on you. Adrian
is joining us on our eight hundred the hertz Hi Adrianne.
What happened.
Speaker 7 (27:01):
I lived in with actually my friend's dad, and there
was an agreement that I would get reduced rent by
doing that hooking and the cleaning. You know, we're all
good and dandy, And then his flatmate needed certainly sorry,
his cousin needed somewhere to stay, so he moved in
(27:21):
and every time the landlord needed a distance, the cousin
would say, well, yeah, you're pay so I got a
little antsy and one of my high horse because he
was living there rent free, right, and I every Sunday, Yeah,
I would get up early and do the cleaning. And
(27:44):
there's one song called fat Baby. Now I can't think, Okay,
I cannot think, so I'm apologizing now. But there's part
of the song and I would turn it up loud
and then I would be kind of yelling with it
as well. It would be going, You're just a fat,
fat fat fad that that that that that little baby.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
And that was the chorus, right, and you do that
for revenge every Sunday morning. Yes, all right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Revenge comes in every form, I would say, page, really,
it really does. Let me read a couple of texts.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
When I broke up with my ex girlfriend, she took
all my shirts and cut off the sleeves. She also
took all my jeans and cut the legs off.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Amazing. I love it.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
This is quite a common one, but my best friend
once signed his ex boyfriend up to a bunch of
spam emails, like hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of them
on all email addresses that his ex boyfriend had someone
else also text and saying that they did that? Friends
is joining us?
Speaker 2 (28:46):
Hello, Hey, good god?
Speaker 1 (28:50):
What was the revenge?
Speaker 5 (28:53):
Well, I went and had a I was heaving smoker
in a workshop, and while I was out going to
the toilet some of the guys, I bought a whole
bunch of salt in my coffee. And I came back
and I drank it and spit it all over the place,
and everyone's laughing and laughing and laughing. Right, get my
revenge on the guy who did it. And he's a
(29:13):
tea drinker, and his cup was never washed. He just
swirled a bit of water around and away. It was
brown and disgusting and horrible. And I thought, here, I'm
going to get into it.
Speaker 8 (29:23):
Here.
Speaker 5 (29:23):
I washed his cup so it was sparkling like brand new,
and I put it back where it normally drink. He
had to drink out of another cup for like two
or three weeks because he just didn't trust what I've
done with his cup.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
And all you and all you've done is clean as
his dirty, gross cup.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
All right, it's cold, getting some interesting weird.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
That's fine, let's move on.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
Let's go to Simon. Oh wait, one hundred minutes. What
was the petty revenge? Simon?
Speaker 4 (29:54):
Oh, guys, made of mind.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Dave.
Speaker 8 (29:56):
He cheated on his girlfriend and she found about it,
and she decided to get some revenge on him, obviously,
so she was all nice as pie and hey, baby,
why didn't we shave downstairs for you? And he was like, oh, yeah,
this will be a bit of fun because he didn't
know she knew. So she got the vat out and
(30:19):
she was, you know, cleaning him up, and she put
a big dollop right under his sack and.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
He's going, oh, it's getting a bit warm. You No, no,
it's supposed to be like that. You're supposed to leave
it after ten minutes.
Speaker 8 (30:33):
And she scraped everything off except this big dollop and.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
He's going, oh burns, it burns. She goes, no, no, wait,
wait wait, I'm almost done. And she kept them there
for age, and he was walking around pulling his pants
down every five seconds for about two weeks. They had
a big burn right under his neck.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Oh oh, why, Diamond, thank you very much for you cool.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
What just happened?
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
We had so many good tics.
Speaker 1 (31:06):
Friday. Maybe he's a solstice, shortest day of the year.
It's something in the something in the water.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
The podcast.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
So prior to the show kicking off this afternoon, I
met up with my husband in town. It's always a
big it's always a big event when the hobby comes into. Yes,
we love twenty minutes.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Out and she's a big drive.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
She's a big drive. I mean, I come in every
day for work, but when he comes in, you know,
it's always a bit of an event. And it's not
like he really dressed up for it though, honestly so
we had planned this accountant meeting for quite some time now,
I'd have been in the calendar for a few weeks.
He knew it was coming right last time.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Didn't you didn't you dress up? Didn't you put on
a like a blaze or anything? That's right?
Speaker 1 (31:54):
Because I was trying to them so i'd get less
text back. You say, everyone dressing up does not the
tax that you have to pay. I learned that the
hard way. Anyway, today, Yeah, BJ, my husband did the opposite.
And so he rocks in and we met in the
car park and I'm like, are you gonna get changed?
And he's like what And he's literally got this joosey
on which he's like, oh, smells like cat puson. I
(32:16):
want to take that off. So he then steps off
to this rugby shirt he's got underneath, he's got his
work pants on, which have car shite literally all up
the sides. He's got his big boots on, so he
used to rock and take his boots off. And he's
walking in with socks into this like official actency firm
where everyone's dressed quite nicely. And I'm like, okay, that's right.
(32:40):
So we go in to the meeting and we sit
down and we're trying to talk.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Like serious things.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
We're talking about potential, you know, business ideas down the
track and whatnot.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
I don't know that I've ever seen your husband talk
serious in his life.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
I know it was quite funny, and so I look
to my side and I can't help but cackle mid meeting.
I look at his hand.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
He's still got cash all.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
He's got dude all up his hands. He hasn't washed them.
He's obviously gone straight from the farm into this meeting
and he's trying to discuss serious business issues. I'm like, PJ,
you need to wash your hands.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Look, I'll give him the stubbies, like the jersey the
stubbies fine, but washing.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Rocking in and socks. All good.
Speaker 9 (33:28):
Wash your hands.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
He's usually so good at it. I think it's just
because he had to fly. I think he was running
bay and I was sorry. He usually washes when we
go out. But I thought, because I know that other
people have farmers who listen to the show, is their
partners or husbands text ind a four four eight seven,
complete the sentence you know you're dating a farmer when
(33:53):
dot dot dot so in my case, they go to
an appointment still in their farm. Gears for the airs.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast. We talk
about a lot of silly, silly things on the show.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Are you talking about We're a hard hitting, journalistic news
newsworthy show.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Absolutely we are, and so because of that, sometimes we
like to bring a little bit more of the serious
to this show. And I saw this beautiful, beautiful video
on social media. It was an Australian Olympic boxer by
the name of Harry Garside. He's a young, young, young
Olympic boxer. He competed in Japan in twenty twenty in Tokyo,
(34:44):
and he has recently been photographed wearing dresses like full
skirts dresses and it's just this really kind of I
guess jarring image, right. You see this very like manlys
Lan Boxer, and he's wearing what is predominantly assumed to
(35:06):
be women's clothes, and so it's obviously sparked a lot
of interest and a lot of conversation about why is
he doing this, what is this all for? And I
saw him talk about it on a podcast and someone
in the podcast host asked him why he was wearing
the dress, and the way that he explained it, I
just think takes a topic that is quite complicated and
(35:28):
nuanced and made it really really easy for people to understand.
Speaker 9 (35:33):
I believe that all we've been told since today we're
born is just stories upon stories upon stories about how
to live our life. And no one knows what we're
doing on a spinning rock in the middle of nowhere.
You just told stories from your parents and their parents
and your community, your teachers, and I just think that
and you just follow it. And I just think like
we should always challenge and question everything. And as I said,
I could be wrong. I don't know, like I have
(35:54):
no idea, and I.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
Think your opinion made that cannot be wrong, that's the thing.
Speaker 9 (35:57):
And I just think is if we could show more
young peop people that they don't have to form in
line and be like what they're told, they can chase
their wildest trends. If there's a young girl out there
who comes from a family who wants her to do this,
but she has a calling for boxing, go do that.
If there's a young boy who wants to do performance arts,
like go do that. Like that is your calling, you know.
And I just want to try and inspire people to
(36:18):
go inside and see what they find and then express
that to the world.
Speaker 3 (36:23):
Oh, isn't the most beautiful way of conveying that message
that you should absolutely just live your life authentically be
one hundred percent yourself because at the hard to do.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Sometimes it's so hard to do, especially when you're online
and people are telling you you should be doing what
you should be saying, and you know, it can get
really really confusing out there.
Speaker 3 (36:45):
And society has given us this idea that you have
to live your life this way or if you're you know,
if you're a female, these are the ideals you have
to live by. If you're a male, these are the
ideals you have to live by.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
Nah, you don't like.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
We should be following our own We've be making up
our own rules and following our own path. And I
just love that from Harry Garside, and so I wanted
to share its nice.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
Bit of motivation and inspiration hitting into the weekend.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
The podcast that Man.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Honestly, I thought I was young for so long, and
then the last year or two, I've just felt a
lot older. It's when they're taking over society.
Speaker 2 (37:23):
It's when you start seeing trends.
Speaker 3 (37:26):
Like for a while, even when the new trends would
come in, you would have a grasp on what they
were and you'd understand. It's when you stop understanding them
that you realize that you're old.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Yeah, and like growing up, I never got it. I
was like, you know, that'll never be me. Well, I
really think that that's starting to happen anyway. A speech expert,
a language expert, has come out basically saying, well, forecasting
the death of a well used phrase, particularly for the
younger gins. They pull this out a lot, the word
(38:00):
I'll make you guess it. The words is used to
describe anything cool, pretty, awesome. What do you think it is?
Speaker 2 (38:09):
No, not dope. That's a bit older.
Speaker 3 (38:14):
There, that slaps it's slay.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
It is the word slay, which I never fully got
on board with. I sort of started flirting with it,
like the phrase it's giving because that's what a lot
of young people say, and I only just started saying that.
But you know what, that's probably also going to start
going out too, because I'm that late to the party
with these phrases. This guy has said that in its place,
he has forecasted a new term.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
Do we like this one more?
Speaker 5 (38:46):
No?
Speaker 1 (38:47):
I don't think so, but at least we can be
like kind of a hit of the wave. Although, actually, producers, Sarah,
can you tell us if this is already a thing?
Because you don't even know me with these things. Okay,
So apparently I'm gagged is going to replace just from
the nineties or something gagged.
Speaker 2 (39:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:03):
Sorry, it's going to be used like as an expression
of endearment or general admiration. So it's like, oh, I'm gagged.
That is so awesome.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
I don't think I can't pull that off.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
I don't know if I can't either. Yeah. There was
basically a graph showing the recent uptake of Google search
terms gagged meaning in gag slang, So it's obviously on
the art uprising son. You were sound cool with your curs. Yeah, okay,
can you tell me something cool? And okay, Oh, you
won't believe the second you Oh my gosh, this paints
(39:40):
throughout there.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
Many this, I'm gagged.
Speaker 1 (39:44):
I can't do it. It sounds like you're gags. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (39:50):
I don't know about this. I'm as Sleigh Many the
podcast
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!