- What happened on Matty's date night that upset his husband?
- PJ's son took something REALLY weird to bed last night
- Matty ran into his ex with something all over his face
- What did you do without your partners permission?
- PJ has a little woo-woo manifestation chat for your Thursday
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Hits Drive with Meddi and PJ thanks to chimis
Wee House the Real House of Fragrances and.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I don't know them but love the mas a.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Now, yes, Maddie, why how are you good?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Mike?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
You would so cute today?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Really really, I feel yucks.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It's because I've taken all the big headphones that were
hiding maybe made the funning features.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Do I need to lose the big headphones as well?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Do you think you look cooler without them?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
But if it's going to cause the frustration that you
experience last time, I don't know if it's worth it.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I look cooler until you watch me try and put
those headphones in, and then I look like anything but cool.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Just do what's working for you. Just keep the big ones.
I can be the cool technical one on the show.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Paying question for you? What's what's the what's the rules
around room?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Oh ah? Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Like if you I had a.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Really good guideline. Is it true? I always like to
put things through the filter? Is it true? Is it kind?
Is it necessary?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Yeah? Okay, this is potentially not true. Yeah, definitely not kind?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Uh huh? And is it necessary?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Well, depends what you define it as necessary is it?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Is it just fodder for the sake of it, or
do you think it's there is a purpose of actually
sharing it?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I mean, there could believe that's the right question. There
could be a purpose to sharing it. But if I'm
perfectly honest, I would be sharing it for the sole
purpose of sharing it. You won't believe the story I've heard,
Oh man, I can't. It's the kind of rumor and
goss that I certainly could verify.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, okay, well don't don't spread it? Then don't spread it.
If it's going to affect other people.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, don't spread out.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
It's fun, though, Is it like intrinsically ingrained in us
as humans? Do you think to want a little bit
of gossip?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I am sure I have read, and I'm not just
saying this for my own benefit, that there are psychological
benefits for you to gossiping.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Yeah, what are they? I feel like I've read that too. Benefits.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I try not to because I always feel better when
I don't. Specifically, it appears in engaging in gossip triggers
and spike and oxytocin.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
That's what you get when you give birth.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Here we go. There might be there might be an
evolutionary advantage to gossip, as it serves as a means
to foster bonding. It facilitates the spread of valuable information
and the maintenance of community norms.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But is it valuable or is it nasty?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Well, I guess it depends. This is not all gossip.
You hear his similar goals and can be categorized into
the following types. Positive gossip speaking positively about others in
their absence and sharing uplifting stories.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, that's nice.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Neutral gossip talking about others merely to share information, is
referred to as neutral gossip, often mondaye topics to discussed
without any positive or negative judgment, and the negative gossip
spreading rumours, criticisms, or unfavorable information about others constitutes negative gossip.
It does damage reputation.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
The dirty, that's the dirty.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I love gossip, Yeah, temp to engage as it's the funnest.
It is the funnest that as an adult you have
to go. If I was on the receiving end of that.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I know, like I love Here's the thing about me.
I do love good gossip like I love a good story.
I love hearing a good story, and I gets I
get hooked into people's stories really easily. I used to
be terrible at sharing gossip. Yeah, and would like seek
it like I'd like it like a no, And then
(04:12):
I would share it with other people. I'd be like you,
you won't believe what I've heard. The older I've gotten,
the older I've gotten, the less eager I am to
shear gossip. I mean, I'm eager to hear.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
It, hear it, but you're not so kay to share it. Yeah,
it's responsible.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I do keep a lid on sharing it.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
There are some people who are really good and can
just be like, no, I don't want to know.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
I don't want to know.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yeah, it's not, it's not I want to know everything.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Keep my lips tight. I'll keep my lips tight, but just.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Start from the start and don't leave anything.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I think you just have to.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I don't know what your gossip is, but I think
you need to tighten those lips.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Maddie maclay loose lips, think chips.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Exactly, all right, write it in a journal if you
feel like you need to get it out.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Yeah, right, do you have a journal?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
No, I've got to. I do have it. I do
have a little paper. Actually, I do have a journel.
I don't write in it, but I do have one.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, don't write it in notes on your phone.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
I say, to write stuff down. Ah, it is really good.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
I find that sometimes if I'm angry at my partners,
I realize sometimes you just actually need to write down
your feelings, express it, write it in notes, and then
you'll realize, actually, I just needed to get that feeling out.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
She didn't need to tell him that.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
I remember I did that not that long ago, and
I remember writing it, being like and I wrote it
to Ryan. I was like, Ryan, this is how I'm feeling.
And I was like, I don't even know if you're
going to read this, but I'm writing it to you anyway.
And then I never gave it to him, and I
totally got over it and it was fine. But then
you do write, but the issue is it's still in
(05:56):
the book, Like I didn't rip it out and throw
it away and burn that shirt.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
You need to burn that shit.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
What I sometimes too, as I'll send like a flurry
of messages like if I'm tired or hormone or whatever,
and and then I'll look at them and I'll be like, oh,
that wasn't necessaries starting unsentd on Facebook? And then that
looks so much worse?
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Why did you unsind wouldn't be able to deal with that?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
No, hey, guys, we've actually got to do something in
one minute.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Okay, okay, all right, Well, we've got a great podcast
coming up. We talk about when you gave up on
parenting and you just chose to surrender.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
What did you slip past the goalposts without your partner realizing?
Speaker 1 (06:39):
And when did you unexpectedly run into your ex? All
of that and more coming up in the podcast.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
The podcast.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Want me to do it? Please?
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Just I want to have a window into your life
because we live and increasingly different.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Lives at the moment.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
You're going out every well every single weekend. You've got
date nights. You can wake up and do whatever you want.
In the morning, you can go and pampy yourself, have
a message.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
You know, life is a bit different for me these days.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
So then is it cruel for me to talk you through?
Speaker 2 (07:17):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
No, no, It takes me back to a place at
a time.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
So last night we did a little date night. And
this was something that I had organized months ago because
Ryan's favorite favorite comedian was in town, and I got on,
are you surprised him?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Right?
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, he didn't know and Ryan hates surprises.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, so and so how did it go when you
did the the gun veil of like I've got you
these tuckets.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
He was into it. It was into it because immediately
I had pleased him with the thing that he didn't think.
He had managed to get tickets too. Yeah, so I
think that overshadowed the fact that I was surprising him.
So that was fine. That was fine. So we went
out to dinner. We went to this restaurant in Auckland
(08:02):
called East and we I what it's obviously one of
these shared you know, shared plate restaurants. Is so many
are these days? Yes, but it's hard to it's hard
to gauge sometimes, you know, how much do you order?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
Well?
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Because often with those share plates they'll have like three
Often they come out of odd items to find that.
So if there's two of you, then you're often finding
over that final piece total plate.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
And also just knowing like how much to order? Do
you want a couple of mans? Do you want an
in one man?
Speaker 2 (08:33):
And God, talk to me, what did you get?
Speaker 3 (08:35):
We got so much? So much food to the point
where they brought it out and it wasn't. It didn't.
They didn't stagger it, which I think is their mistake,
because we ordered so much food that it got really
awkward because the waiter had to then really like maneuver
and rearrange the table to be able to fit all
the plates on it.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
How many plates you?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Well, I think we'd ordered that much, but currently we
ordered a little too much.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Okay, I run through. What did you have?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
It's a vegetarian restaurant. So we had a muslin curry,
We had a pad tie, We had a crispy egg plant,
We had y this like flat bread. Yeah, we had dumplings. Yeah,
we ordered too much.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Well, I did say, because you said that the comedy
show that you were going to afterwards started at nine thirty,
so you really needed to be prepared to be in
for a long dinner, I said to a Degas station.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
We basically it wasn't it pretty much? And we because
we went straight after work. Yeah, we finished dinner and
then we just had so much bed time that Ryan
and I just ended up walking around the city aimlessly
waiting for this comedy show to start. Didn't start till
nine thirty.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Did you know I follow a lot of health pages
and that's actually what you meant to do after every
meal you meet to go for a big, solid walk
around the block. So that would have done wonders for
your gut and your digestion and stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Yeah, and then we went to this comedy show this
amazing comedian from overseas called It's Cool. She's so funny
and she's Ryan's favorite, and we went there and I
post a little story, you know, and I see date
night on Instagram and I tagged the comedian and I
woke up this morning and this comedian who is nearly
(10:17):
a million followers, has started following me this morning. And
Ryan was furious because.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
She's his favorite, right she follow you? This is your shot,
you got to This is when you slide in. You've
got to seend a message now because you'll be hot
on the radar.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
I've already slid in, of course you have. She's seen
it and she has not to reply. Okay, not a
great stary, but should It was fun and uh and
I got some brownie points as well.
Speaker 5 (10:56):
Maddy and PJ Madian PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Oh Waite hundred the hats is, when did you just
give up parenting? When did you surrender? When did you
take the easy route and let your child win? Let
me paint the picture. Last night I was trying to
get my near two year old. He's two in like
two weeks, Charlie so exciting. It really does fly, and
(11:24):
I was trying to get him down and last night,
for whatever reason, he just didn't want a bar of sleeping,
and half an hour past, then another half an hour,
and I think it was a bar. After an hour
and fifteen minutes, I was like, do you know what,
We're going to reset. We're going to just get up
for a little bit and you can come to the
kitchen with me because I get home from work and
I just I need a bit of chill times. I
(11:46):
was like, look, just get up with me and we
can just hang out for a bit. And I was
just in the kitchen and Charlie came across a bag
of onions which were hanging from like this basket.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
He sort of discovered this bowl of onions.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
So is he in the phase where he just opens anything,
grabs anything, pulls anything out of any cupboard? Is he
in the phase like that at the moment.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
He sort of come through that, which is blissful coming
out the other side. But he is still you know,
he will still go through little phases and he would
just h incredibly incredibly curious, and for whatever reason, he
became fixated on these onions. So I was like, Charlie,
don't bite on that, because I think he's going through
another TV phase with teeth coming through us, Like, don't
(12:32):
bite in that, darling, it's going to be up anyway.
He started getting really fixated and I was getting to
the point where I had to get him to bed.
So I took him into his room and he wouldn't
leave without dragging an onion with him to his bedroom,
and I was trying to explain, no, this is not
a good idea. If you bite into it's not going
(12:54):
to taste it. And I was like, you know what,
he's going to learn screw it. This is not a
better worth five because parenting is just a series of
moments where you work out if it's worth the fight
or not.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It's just better to surrender.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Absolutely, So you surrendered. I surrendered, and we head onto
his bedroom and.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Is just so smug with this little onion in his hand,
and it.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Is one's one.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
We get into bed, and I try and like put
it on the side, and he's like no, And so
he had to take the onion into bed while I'm
reading books with him. And honestly, he had to fall
asleep with the onion and I couldn't get rid of
it until he fell asleep. When I finally removed the
onion from his bedspace, I was like, I, look, this
is bottom parenting. I should have put my foot down,
(13:47):
but sometimes you just have to let them win.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
There was no biting of the onion, though. You got
through that unscathed.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I think, well, I mean I think we'd no right now.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
You wait until tonight, though. This is going to be
the new blank. This is going to be the teddy
beer that he takes the bed every night.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
One of my dog many the podcast, I wait hundred
of the hats.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
All you need to.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Do is tell us when did you give up on parenting.
You decided, look, the battle wasn't worth it, and you
let your child win.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
You sent your son Charlie to be with an onion
last night, Peach. A few people have text in and said,
I was told when my kids were little, say no
to the important things. It wasn't just an onion. It
was just an onion. You didn't let him win. It
was just an onion.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I don't know what it was.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
He just became absolutely hyperfixated with this onion and he
had to go to be with it.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
So I let him win. I wait a hundred the
hats what happened with you? Callum?
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (14:45):
Yup hi?
Speaker 5 (14:48):
So hi?
Speaker 7 (14:49):
My son when he was about four, quite often refused
to put clothes on. And one day we were very
very like into town, and so I just gave up
and said fine and get in the car.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
And what paraded him through town.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
In the nud.
Speaker 7 (15:09):
Yeah, so he was quite chuffed. We got a calf,
we got into town, and then I think it kind
of dawned on him when I got him out of
the calf.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Yeah. They learned pretty quick, don't they. They've made an
they've made a critical error. Yeah, yeah, it's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
All's going to Sam and Christ When did you just
give up here in tang Hi?
Speaker 8 (15:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (15:36):
So my now fifteen year old, when he was was
that one and a half, We took him to the
pizza hat and crushed which when it used to be
a buffet. Yes, yeah, he held onto a pizza craft
for three days. Yeah, I couldn't for the life of
me get it off him. I tried during the night.
(15:57):
He woke up and he screamed, I was okay, not good.
He went to kindy? Was it the kindy?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Wouldn't Oh my god, good fast?
Speaker 8 (16:06):
Was it?
Speaker 9 (16:06):
Freaking thing?
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Kids?
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Kids lose their bloody sock? But he held on to
this crust for three days?
Speaker 9 (16:13):
Three days. I can't even wash the handle?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
What about? How did it finally? Late? Did he eat it?
How did it disappear?
Speaker 9 (16:22):
No, that's the thing. He didn't even eat it.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Hey.
Speaker 9 (16:26):
I went every night to try and get it off him,
and it was the third night that he was he
had let it go in his sleep and I grabbed it.
Takes a crap.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
So good, Alex wrapping up with Alana, Alana, When did
you just give up on peer and tang?
Speaker 8 (16:45):
Hey?
Speaker 10 (16:45):
So, my son, up until he was about three or
four years old, had this thing about feet and he
would call it coo chin feet and he wanted to
if there was any bare feet anywhere, he would be
drawn to them to like touch them and play with
them and rub them against his And we were constantly
trying here and we were constantly trying to get him
to like not do that, because he would kind of
(17:07):
do almost absent mindedly.
Speaker 9 (17:09):
This is the thing about toes and playing with them.
Speaker 10 (17:12):
And one day we were at a resort, quite nice resort,
and of course everybody's laid out on the some beds
with their best seat. We noticed him walking along the
some beds. People are looking at us like somebody played
this child.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
We were like, you said, someone else's problem right now.
I'm just going to let him do his thing and
he'll come back eventually.
Speaker 10 (17:41):
Call it like a free foot myself.
Speaker 5 (17:44):
Many the podcast.
Speaker 6 (17:49):
Are You.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
That's right?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
And it's time for our occupation stereotyping game.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
It's called are You Are? And this week we're on
the hunt for reciptionists. Are you really?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
So basically, you have to call us oh one hundred
the hats convince us you're a receptionist, and Maddie and I,
from our combined research and digging, have to work out
if you're lying or not.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
I will say history has proven we're not great at
this game.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I wouldn't say we're not great. I just say the
callers are really great. True, They're just they've got really
good poker.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Faces.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Okay, Helen is calling from Duned and good a Helen,
how are you.
Speaker 8 (18:29):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Oh? She sounds, she sounds, But we were four minutes.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
We were fooled by this last week with the pilots,
we were.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Okay, I'm going to start with the question, Helen, how
fast can you type?
Speaker 11 (18:44):
Like?
Speaker 2 (18:44):
How many words per minute?
Speaker 11 (18:45):
Do you?
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Reckon? You're repping sixty permid sexty sexty? I mean, I
asked that and I don't actually with conviction. She did
answer with conviction.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Asked one question, I don't know what. I don't know
the answer I'm looking for here? But what what do
you normally here for lunch? Hellen?
Speaker 11 (19:09):
I normally takes my sandwich to work with me.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
In the office.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
That's that's the receptionist thing today.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
She is a receptionist, hard, through and through. All right, Helen,
we reckon you're a receptionist?
Speaker 8 (19:19):
Are you?
Speaker 5 (19:20):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
What are you?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
What do you do for a living?
Speaker 11 (19:27):
From coach?
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Well well done, Helen, you had us full.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
All right, We're going to hook you out with a
little chemist warehouse prize. Okay, we asked questions, didn't We've
actually got to focus now, I know, but.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Don't you think like bringing your own sandwich to work?
Speaker 1 (19:45):
Just screams it is quiet reception alright, least to Melissa
and tadaha, good afterda Melissa.
Speaker 11 (19:52):
Hi lady, Hi, how are you guys?
Speaker 3 (19:54):
Very well? Melissa, very well?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Okay, okay, now you know the posty pretty well? What's
your post his name?
Speaker 3 (20:06):
Charlotte, Charlotte, Charlotte. Okay, buying it? You didn't buy it?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
She was scrambling there, I reckay.
Speaker 3 (20:17):
Okay, here's another one. That's your that's your that's your
post his name? What's your boss's name? Yeah, that's good
bread bread.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Okay, she was in there, quick, Clay. I'm not a hundred.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
I don't think I don't think she's No.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
No, Melissa, we don't reckon. You're a receptionist, are you No?
Speaker 10 (20:35):
I'm not yes.
Speaker 8 (20:37):
One.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
We're back on the board board.
Speaker 12 (20:42):
What do you do?
Speaker 11 (20:43):
I actually do ads for a radio station.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Okay, advertise on the heads.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
It's a grand station, thanks Melissa.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Alright, okay, so.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Let's get another one.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
All right. Joe is joining us. Hi, Joe, Hi, Hi, McLean,
what have you got.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
I want to run through a little scenario with Joe.
So your boss is out and I'm going to call
and ask to speak to a McKay m hm, Hi,
I'm looking to speak to mister Smith.
Speaker 12 (21:17):
Is he there?
Speaker 8 (21:20):
I know he's not here at the moment such or
is it something that I can help you with.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
She's good, She's good.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
You put too much into it.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I did feel slightly contrived. I'm just going to say that,
but I'm going to give her another chance. Joe, you'd
be rather familiar with a keyboard and your role. Can
you give us the top line of the letters on
the keyboard?
Speaker 8 (21:47):
Q W A T.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Because I reckon Joe. I think she actually is a receptionist. Joe,
are you a receptionist?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
No, we're not getting any better at this game.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
Weather, but that getting better at it?
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Joe, what do you do for a living?
Speaker 3 (22:15):
Yeah, we're in the same We're in the in the
in the right ballpark.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
We're flirting. We're flirting with the similar.
Speaker 5 (22:24):
The podcast.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I told you earlier about date night last night.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Yeah, okay, mate, we get it. You went on a
date night.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Well it is. I know you think I go out
all the time, but date night is actually rather rear.
Speaker 8 (22:40):
No.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
I know you've said that you're actually bit of a homebody.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
We just get you just get into a routine and
you go home and give dinner, you watch TV. But
last night we're like, no, no, no, we're going to
go out for dinner. We've got this comedy show to
go to. And it was so nice. It was really
really nice to.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
Be I think it is a good thing to do,
even though sometimes you can't be bothered. I think it
is a good thing to set you the end, to
make that conscious time to be a partnership, well a relationship,
you know.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
So we finished dinner and then we started walking towards
the venue where this comedy show was and we thought,
he see we could do a little sweet.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Treat, treat yourself.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Let me guess we were thinking gelato. But I kind
of looked it up and I couldn't find anywhere close by,
and we, you know, we needed to get to the venue.
So we took a gamble and we thought, we'll see
if the venue is selling any ice cream and there's
some sort of sweet treat there.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
They're probably some of my favorite ice creams at like
those shows where you get the rau of the ice
cream and they've got like the chalk and then the
little nuts on top.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, they go well, they do go well.
This was and they didn't have those, but they did
have a few different like just generic ice creams that
you would get from like the Deirya or whatever. Yeah,
and so Ryan Whenham brought us a couple and I
got a little like chocolate Memphis mountdown with like a
gooey caramel one as well.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
That's always my goal over the years, or the Magnum ego,
they're quite similar.
Speaker 3 (24:04):
Yes, but I think I've told you this before. I'm
not a good ice cream eater. I'm a very messy
ice cream eater. It's why. It's why if I go
and get gelato, I have to ask for it in
the cup because I just can't keep up with the
speed of the melt and it goes everywhere if I
get it in the cone.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
So I'm just like, per second, can't.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
It's going everywhere, streams of water a hot day when
you want the ice cream, themo's and it just runs away.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
On you know.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
So I'm a messy ice cream eater at the best
of times. And so I got this, this gooey caramel
ice cream and I bit into it and I could
already tell. I was like, oh God, I'm gonna have
to go and get like a napkin or something, because
it was just kind of I could feel it, you know,
it was everywhere all over my mind, on and around you.
As I turn around, thinking I'll go back to the
bar and get like a napkin or something to wipe
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my face. Who I'm.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Not your boss again?
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Not the boss, No, not the CEO.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
No an X. Oh you actually kidd.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
And X with his with his new pa.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
You've got the camel, the chocky, the vanilla ice cream.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
Still mouthful, and still mouthful because I've taken a massive
bite because I'm not polite about eating ice cream at all.
So here i am face filled with ice cream, gooey
caramel running down my chin, and I'm like, oh, hi, Hi,
nice to see you.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
It was so.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
You miss this, You miss all of this, this hot mess.
Do you regret breaking up with me? You kind of't
rite honestly, Honestly, it was just one of those situations
where I was like, this is not the this is
not the occasion to run into.
Speaker 5 (26:00):
Maddy, J Madi and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
When did you unexpectedly unexpectedly run into your ex after
Mattie had quite an interesting situation last night.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Yeah, ran into someone that I used to date while
I was at a comedy show with ice cream all
over my face everywhere.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Some would say it was a comedy of eras.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
Hey, I love what you did there. I don't know
what you've been comedy.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
Honestly, it's not your worst.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
It's not your worst.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Stand up comedy. I have so much for stand up comedians.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Anyway, let's talk x'es and awkward run ins, and none
is joining us on eight hundred the hats what happened
with you?
Speaker 13 (26:43):
I was at the peck and Say supermarket, so I
heard a piece of land and I've been scrub barring
all day, so I was completely green from top to
bottom with grass and the year, and thought, I've got
to get to the supermarket young boots on grassy clothes,
I mean literally like the Hulk green. And I was
really hot and sweetee, and I thought, I'm just going
to go to the supermarket. So I was in there,
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and I running around the supermarket, just about to pay,
and there he was. You have got to be kidding me.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
It's always always those times where you think I can
do this because who am I? Who am I going
to run into?
Speaker 8 (27:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 13 (27:19):
And the thing is it's a country supermarket, so there's
a lot of people in gamboats, but possibly not covered
in grass and green. And I literally had bit the
grass falling off me and I was like, I want
to look hot.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
I don't want to I wanted to wheel break up.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
Oh that was so good, Ashley one hundred, When did
you run into your eggs?
Speaker 9 (27:43):
For my husband now, he lost the trailer for sale
on Facebook and it was my high school book friend
it turned.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
Up to buy it. So did they know? Did they
know at the time or did you secretly know and
not say anything.
Speaker 6 (27:57):
So they knew that I just had in.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Fair enough.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
It's probably there's probably the place to be.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Someone who's messaged us on Facebook on our heads Drive
Facebook page page and said I was in Rome. Just
boarded a top deck tour with my best friends. So
these top decks run for what like a week two
weeks round Europe usually, and you're and you're so enclosed
in the space on the bus. My ex was on
the same top deck tour.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
What other chances, Rachel? What about you when you run
into your eggs?
Speaker 11 (28:30):
I ran into him twice, and three days before the
wedding ran I ran into him at the supermarket immediently
sort of hadn't heard I was getting married, so I
was like, oh, oh, no, no, and you.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Probably had like a nice spray hand was amazing.
Speaker 5 (28:53):
No.
Speaker 11 (28:53):
I wasn't quite that glamorous yet. And then teen years
later I was going down to see family and took
the husband and everything, and we were staying with aunt
and uncle and he was boarding with them. And I
didn't know until I walked into the lounge and he
walked in after me, and I just about passed out
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on the floor.
Speaker 3 (29:17):
Run girl, run.
Speaker 11 (29:21):
Awkward l because I was the dumper. I dumped him.
Really nice guy. He didn't deserve the treatment I gave him.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Well, Rachel, thank you for reliving in trauma with us
this afternoon.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
And the podcast.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
So we have been selling puppies for a little bit now,
some gorgeous purebred labradors.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
How many have you got left?
Speaker 2 (29:51):
We've got three left.
Speaker 3 (29:53):
You're nearly there, you nearly So let.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Me just tell you.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Times are tough right now, and I absolutely understand it's
really hard for people to part ways with cash. You know,
A lot of people just don't have you know, extra
savings at the moment.
Speaker 3 (30:06):
Are nice, so cute?
Speaker 2 (30:08):
Keep the cell up, keep it up? What else do
you like about them?
Speaker 3 (30:12):
Look great for the whole family.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Yeah, they are the golden, the gorgeous. We've got three
boys left. Anyway, I'll save the cell for another day.
But we have noticed one massive thing whilst trying to
sell these puppies.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
And we've had a lot of interest.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Right and people will come out the gates and they'll
be like, okay, tell us all about them, and so
I'll send off all the details and then they'll come
back and they're like, okay, amazing, great, give me tonight.
I just need to win my partner either and I'll
get back to you.
Speaker 3 (30:42):
And then warning, huh, that old chestnut.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
I can't tell you how many replies we've had of
people going, oh, I'm so sorry, the hobby's just not
going to let me have it at the moment. Okay,
it's just not the right time or sorry, I asked
the wife, and no, it's an absolute no for now.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
Is there some and then you can slip past the goalposts?
Do you reckon?
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Like?
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Is bringing a pet home the kind of thing you
can just do on the sly.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I just think there is a real longgoing commitment with
a part and there's like quite a lot of edmund
that goes along with there, and ongoing payments for food.
I don't know if it's just a one and done
thing that you can slip past the goalie.
Speaker 3 (31:22):
There must be those things though, where you don't ask
for permission, Like you don't have to solicit for your
wife or your partner or your husband's permission to go
and buy something.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
Well, I thought we could ask this question the same nang,
What did you do without their permission? Your partner's permission,
or maybe they did something without yours? Oh eight hundred
the hats Kendall is actually joining us. Kendall, you got
home and found something that your partner had purchased.
Speaker 8 (31:48):
Yep. My husband came home and he said, gay, guess what,
And I said yep, And he said, you're going to
be the owner of a coffee.
Speaker 12 (32:00):
I'm like, say what, Yeah, so I don't drink coffee.
Speaker 8 (32:07):
He doesn't drink coffee.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (32:11):
It's just such a random thing to tell me that
he's buying and basically telling me he's buying it and
it's done. And yeah, so that was in November last year,
and he told me to quit my job. And I'm
the one running the coffee cart now and yeah there's
a random story for two people that don't drink coffee.
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And now we're like amazing buristers.
Speaker 13 (32:34):
So you.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
Run the cart like it has tuned into a thing.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Yeah, yeah, so I.
Speaker 12 (32:41):
Kind of you know, when you know he's got both
feet in already, you know you can't pull him out.
Speaker 7 (32:46):
So he was.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
He just said, I'm in.
Speaker 8 (32:48):
We're doing it, so I know you you don't really
have a choice.
Speaker 12 (32:53):
I was a regular customer. This girl's moving countries and
I still want my hot chocolates and my pie.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
I love the story.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
We can give the little coffee card to shout out,
give it a plug.
Speaker 12 (33:08):
I have to. It's the one at the wire or
river in to Earth by the bridge, and it's called
silver Card Coffee.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Brilliant.
Speaker 5 (33:17):
Nice Maddy ANDJ Madi and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
We want to know what you did without your partner's
permission or vice versa. What did they do without asking you?
I brought this up because we're selling puppies at the
moment and the number one thing we hear from pretty
much everyone is, Hey, just give me a night to
do the hard sale and I'll be back tomorrow. Now,
whichon we can get this across the line, and then
I'll get a message and they'll be like, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
I know.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
They just they just won't let us. They won't let
me do it right now.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
The animal is a hard thing to slip slip past
the line. Yeah you can. You can't just sneak it
into the house, can you.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
It is a long term commitment. So we wanted to know, Yeah,
what did you get across the line without your partner?
Amanda is joining us?
Speaker 2 (34:05):
What happened with you?
Speaker 5 (34:08):
Hi?
Speaker 13 (34:08):
Yes, most of our pets i've got without my husband.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
You have got you, Amanda.
Speaker 13 (34:17):
Yeah, I haven't tried to hide them.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
After we've got them the time he doesn't know before
they arrive home.
Speaker 3 (34:22):
And what are we talking.
Speaker 13 (34:25):
Well, we've got a buddy that didn't get permissioned. First,
we've got two cats that didn't get permissioned. We've gone
a lot and we've actually got raped as well.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Okay, and what's the response from the partner when this happens?
Speaker 2 (34:42):
Oh my god? Another one.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Stop, Amanda, Stop, Tina is joining us, Tana, what do
you do without your partner's permission?
Speaker 6 (34:54):
Got the Mind's Clothing and because I am quite a
addicted to the Henny Collection in New Zealand. Every time
they have a sale or a new item come out, yeah,
I buy it and then I slipped it into the
washing like I've had.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
It the whole time, So it just gets added to
the washing pile.
Speaker 6 (35:17):
We did, but a few weeks ago we had to
add a cat as well, throw no choice. We were
out on a bike ride and someone had tied up
a kitten and a plastic bag and I came.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
Across it and I just couldn't not No, you've done
a good thing there. Yeah, we'll give you that one, Tina.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
Sorry, we are going on to Donna now though, Donna,
what happened without the permission?
Speaker 10 (35:51):
I bought a house?
Speaker 8 (35:52):
What what?
Speaker 4 (35:55):
We went to have a look at a house and
the market was running pretty hot. This was one hundred
years ago when people could afford to buy house. Yes,
So the land agent wouldn't let me do anything unless
somebody had seen it. So I got hold of my
dad and he came to have a look at the house.
So my dad's suggestion was, go put a ridiculous offer
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on it, and while they come back to negotiate, you
can get your husband and to have a look at it.
Speaker 10 (36:22):
Well they accepted the ridiculous Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (36:27):
So my punishment, my punishment was I had to move
us and by myself.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
Fear enough.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
Did it work out for the beast though Donner Yeah,
oh yeah it was.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
It was a good house and it was like, you know,
it had more room for the family and all the
rest of it. But you know, it was just like,
I can't believe you went. Because he came home and
he said there was something about wanting to I said, no,
we can't spend any money.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Because I bought a house.
Speaker 13 (36:55):
Money today.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
I'm like.
Speaker 5 (37:03):
Many in the podcast.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Many, what are you going to be doing to celebrate
the lions Gate portal?
Speaker 3 (37:15):
You're not, You're not? What?
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (37:20):
What?
Speaker 1 (37:20):
I need to bring something up with you because this
has been on my radar a lot. In my world,
the social media pages that I follow talk about a
lot of spiritual and woo woo things, and I do
my best to not bring them to the table because
I know I'll get the eye roll. That you're giving
me right now, But can you give me just a
couple of minutes to talk about the lions Gate.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
I've never even heard of the lions Gate. Okay, you
know the rules. Yeah, you can go woo woo, but
we have a safe word.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
If I say banana, it means you've gone too far
and you cut it off. You cut it off.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
So the lions Gate portal is the eighth of the
eighth every year, eighth of August, and this is meant
to be a key time for manifestation to sit down,
sit you intentions, and really look at your life and
what you want to achieve.
Speaker 2 (38:03):
So I've got a couple of taps on what you
can do. Can I get in the zone?
Speaker 3 (38:07):
Can I just ask? Though? Like when you hear words
like manifestation, do you even roll your eyes?
Speaker 2 (38:14):
No, manifestation there's so.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
Much science behind it, Like when you genuinely visualize, and
I'm not just talking thinking about it. You have to
put god like a mood, like a like a like
you have to feel it like there are proper, proper menefics.
There are some people who are so good at it
where you basically feel the feeling like it's already happened
and there are incredible results that you can achieve. But anyway,
(38:39):
today to tap in to the Lionsgate portal before you
want to clear your space.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
You want to smudge, declutter, allow them energy. Yeah, you
can get a little bit. You know what smudge is? Right?
Speaker 3 (38:51):
No, what is smudge like? Stage banana is so close?
But keep going.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
Okay, I'm on to number two. You want to reflect
on your intentions. You can review your goals. This is
a great time for doing that, fine tuning your intentions
so that they resonate with your soul's purpose and they
set the stage for that powerful manifestation. You know, it's
a time to really look onwards. And then number three,
practice mindfulness. This is a great time to meditate to
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quiet your mind. Now, look, that might look different for you.
You don't have to sit and be quiet. Meditation looks
different for everyone.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Number four, you want to release.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
How many minutes we got I've gone two and a half,
I'm doing well, Release and let go. This is a
time to identify and release any fears, darts, and limiting
beliefs that hold you back, and you want to make
room for new possibilities as the portal's energies to go in.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
It's serious.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
My mom at eight past eight tonight is sitting down,
she's getting the candled out, candle out, and she's taking
this very seriously. It's the idea of the port number five.
Elevate your vibration in activities spirit.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
I did well. I got three minutes out of you.
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Speaker 2 (00:08):
I don't know them but love the mas a.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Now, yes, Maddie, why how are you good?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Mike?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
You would so cute today?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Really really, I feel yucks.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It's because I've taken all the big headphones that were
hiding maybe made the funning features.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Do I need to lose the big headphones as well?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Do you think you look cooler without them?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
But if it's going to cause the frustration that you
experience last time, I don't know if it's worth it.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I look cooler until you watch me try and put
those headphones in, and then I look like anything but cool.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Just do what's working for you. Just keep the big ones.
I can be the cool technical one on the show.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Paying question for you? What's what's the what's the rules
around room?
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Oh ah? Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Like if you I had a.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Really good guideline. Is it true? I always like to
put things through the filter? Is it true? Is it kind?
Is it necessary?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Yeah? Okay, this is potentially not true. Yeah, definitely not kind?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Uh huh? And is it necessary?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Well, depends what you define it as necessary is it?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Is it just fodder for the sake of it, or
do you think it's there is a purpose of actually
sharing it?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I mean, there could believe that's the right question. There
could be a purpose to sharing it. But if I'm
perfectly honest, I would be sharing it for the sole
purpose of sharing it. You won't believe the story I've heard,
Oh man, I can't. It's the kind of rumor and
goss that I certainly could verify.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, okay, well don't don't spread it? Then don't spread it.
If it's going to affect other people.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, don't spread out.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
It's fun, though, Is it like intrinsically ingrained in us
as humans? Do you think to want a little bit
of gossip?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I am sure I have read, and I'm not just
saying this for my own benefit, that there are psychological
benefits for you to gossiping.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Yeah, what are they? I feel like I've read that too. Benefits.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I try not to because I always feel better when
I don't. Specifically, it appears in engaging in gossip triggers
and spike and oxytocin.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
That's what you get when you give birth.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Here we go. There might be there might be an
evolutionary advantage to gossip, as it serves as a means
to foster bonding. It facilitates the spread of valuable information
and the maintenance of community norms.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But is it valuable or is it nasty?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Well, I guess it depends. This is not all gossip.
You hear his similar goals and can be categorized into
the following types. Positive gossip speaking positively about others in
their absence and sharing uplifting stories.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, that's nice.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Neutral gossip talking about others merely to share information, is
referred to as neutral gossip, often mondaye topics to discussed
without any positive or negative judgment, and the negative gossip
spreading rumours, criticisms, or unfavorable information about others constitutes negative gossip.
It does damage reputation.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
The dirty, that's the dirty.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I love gossip, Yeah, temp to engage as it's the funnest.
It is the funnest that as an adult you have
to go. If I was on the receiving end of that.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I know, like I love Here's the thing about me.
I do love good gossip like I love a good story.
I love hearing a good story, and I gets I
get hooked into people's stories really easily. I used to
be terrible at sharing gossip. Yeah, and would like seek
it like I'd like it like a no, And then
(04:12):
I would share it with other people. I'd be like you,
you won't believe what I've heard. The older I've gotten,
the older I've gotten, the less eager I am to
shear gossip. I mean, I'm eager to hear.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
It, hear it, but you're not so kay to share it. Yeah,
it's responsible.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I do keep a lid on sharing it.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
There are some people who are really good and can
just be like, no, I don't want to know.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
I don't want to know.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yeah, it's not, it's not I want to know everything.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Keep my lips tight. I'll keep my lips tight, but just.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Start from the start and don't leave anything.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I think you just have to.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I don't know what your gossip is, but I think
you need to tighten those lips.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Maddie maclay loose lips, think chips.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Exactly, all right, write it in a journal if you
feel like you need to get it out.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Yeah, right, do you have a journal?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
No, I've got to. I do have it. I do
have a little paper. Actually, I do have a journel.
I don't write in it, but I do have one.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, don't write it in notes on your phone.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
I say, to write stuff down. Ah, it is really good.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
I find that sometimes if I'm angry at my partners,
I realize sometimes you just actually need to write down
your feelings, express it, write it in notes, and then
you'll realize, actually, I just needed to get that feeling out.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
She didn't need to tell him that.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
I remember I did that not that long ago, and
I remember writing it, being like and I wrote it
to Ryan. I was like, Ryan, this is how I'm feeling.
And I was like, I don't even know if you're
going to read this, but I'm writing it to you anyway.
And then I never gave it to him, and I
totally got over it and it was fine. But then
you do write, but the issue is it's still in
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the book, Like I didn't rip it out and throw
it away and burn that shirt.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
You need to burn that shit.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
What I sometimes too, as I'll send like a flurry
of messages like if I'm tired or hormone or whatever,
and and then I'll look at them and I'll be like, oh,
that wasn't necessaries starting unsentd on Facebook? And then that
looks so much worse?
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Why did you unsind wouldn't be able to deal with that?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
No, hey, guys, we've actually got to do something in
one minute.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Okay, okay, all right, Well, we've got a great podcast
coming up. We talk about when you gave up on
parenting and you just chose to surrender.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
What did you slip past the goalposts without your partner realizing?
Speaker 1 (06:39):
And when did you unexpectedly run into your ex? All
of that and more coming up in the podcast.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
The podcast.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Want me to do it? Please?
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Just I want to have a window into your life
because we live and increasingly different.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Lives at the moment.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
You're going out every well every single weekend. You've got
date nights. You can wake up and do whatever you want.
In the morning, you can go and pampy yourself, have
a message.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
You know, life is a bit different for me these days.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
So then is it cruel for me to talk you through?
Speaker 2 (07:17):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
No, no, It takes me back to a place at
a time.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
So last night we did a little date night. And
this was something that I had organized months ago because
Ryan's favorite favorite comedian was in town, and I got on,
are you surprised him?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Right?
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, he didn't know and Ryan hates surprises.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, so and so how did it go when you
did the the gun veil of like I've got you
these tuckets.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
He was into it. It was into it because immediately
I had pleased him with the thing that he didn't think.
He had managed to get tickets too. Yeah, so I
think that overshadowed the fact that I was surprising him.
So that was fine. That was fine. So we went
out to dinner. We went to this restaurant in Auckland
(08:02):
called East and we I what it's obviously one of
these shared you know, shared plate restaurants. Is so many
are these days? Yes, but it's hard to it's hard
to gauge sometimes, you know, how much do you order?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
Well?
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Because often with those share plates they'll have like three
Often they come out of odd items to find that.
So if there's two of you, then you're often finding
over that final piece total plate.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
And also just knowing like how much to order? Do
you want a couple of mans? Do you want an
in one man?
Speaker 2 (08:33):
And God, talk to me, what did you get?
Speaker 3 (08:35):
We got so much? So much food to the point
where they brought it out and it wasn't. It didn't.
They didn't stagger it, which I think is their mistake,
because we ordered so much food that it got really
awkward because the waiter had to then really like maneuver
and rearrange the table to be able to fit all
the plates on it.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
How many plates you?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Well, I think we'd ordered that much, but currently we
ordered a little too much.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Okay, I run through. What did you have?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
It's a vegetarian restaurant. So we had a muslin curry,
We had a pad tie, We had a crispy egg plant,
We had y this like flat bread. Yeah, we had dumplings. Yeah,
we ordered too much.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Well, I did say, because you said that the comedy
show that you were going to afterwards started at nine thirty,
so you really needed to be prepared to be in
for a long dinner, I said to a Degas station.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
We basically it wasn't it pretty much? And we because
we went straight after work. Yeah, we finished dinner and
then we just had so much bed time that Ryan
and I just ended up walking around the city aimlessly
waiting for this comedy show to start. Didn't start till
nine thirty.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Did you know I follow a lot of health pages
and that's actually what you meant to do after every
meal you meet to go for a big, solid walk
around the block. So that would have done wonders for
your gut and your digestion and stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Yeah, and then we went to this comedy show this
amazing comedian from overseas called It's Cool. She's so funny
and she's Ryan's favorite, and we went there and I
post a little story, you know, and I see date
night on Instagram and I tagged the comedian and I
woke up this morning and this comedian who is nearly
(10:17):
a million followers, has started following me this morning. And
Ryan was furious because.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
She's his favorite, right she follow you? This is your shot,
you got to This is when you slide in. You've
got to seend a message now because you'll be hot
on the radar.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
I've already slid in, of course you have. She's seen
it and she has not to reply. Okay, not a
great stary, but should It was fun and uh and
I got some brownie points as well.
Speaker 5 (10:56):
Maddy and PJ Madian PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Oh Waite hundred the hats is, when did you just
give up parenting? When did you surrender? When did you
take the easy route and let your child win? Let
me paint the picture. Last night I was trying to
get my near two year old. He's two in like
two weeks, Charlie so exciting. It really does fly, and
(11:24):
I was trying to get him down and last night,
for whatever reason, he just didn't want a bar of sleeping,
and half an hour past, then another half an hour,
and I think it was a bar. After an hour
and fifteen minutes, I was like, do you know what,
We're going to reset. We're going to just get up
for a little bit and you can come to the
kitchen with me because I get home from work and
I just I need a bit of chill times. I
(11:46):
was like, look, just get up with me and we
can just hang out for a bit. And I was
just in the kitchen and Charlie came across a bag
of onions which were hanging from like this basket.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
He sort of discovered this bowl of onions.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
So is he in the phase where he just opens anything,
grabs anything, pulls anything out of any cupboard? Is he
in the phase like that at the moment.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
He sort of come through that, which is blissful coming
out the other side. But he is still you know,
he will still go through little phases and he would
just h incredibly incredibly curious, and for whatever reason, he
became fixated on these onions. So I was like, Charlie,
don't bite on that, because I think he's going through
another TV phase with teeth coming through us, Like, don't
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bite in that, darling, it's going to be up anyway.
He started getting really fixated and I was getting to
the point where I had to get him to bed.
So I took him into his room and he wouldn't
leave without dragging an onion with him to his bedroom,
and I was trying to explain, no, this is not
a good idea. If you bite into it's not going
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to taste it. And I was like, you know what,
he's going to learn screw it. This is not a
better worth five because parenting is just a series of
moments where you work out if it's worth the fight
or not.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It's just better to surrender.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Absolutely, So you surrendered. I surrendered, and we head onto
his bedroom and.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Is just so smug with this little onion in his hand,
and it.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Is one's one.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
We get into bed, and I try and like put
it on the side, and he's like no, And so
he had to take the onion into bed while I'm
reading books with him. And honestly, he had to fall
asleep with the onion and I couldn't get rid of
it until he fell asleep. When I finally removed the
onion from his bedspace, I was like, I, look, this
is bottom parenting. I should have put my foot down,
(13:47):
but sometimes you just have to let them win.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
There was no biting of the onion, though. You got
through that unscathed.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I think, well, I mean I think we'd no right now.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
You wait until tonight, though. This is going to be
the new blank. This is going to be the teddy
beer that he takes the bed every night.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
One of my dog many the podcast, I wait hundred
of the hats.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
All you need to.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Do is tell us when did you give up on parenting.
You decided, look, the battle wasn't worth it, and you
let your child win.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
You sent your son Charlie to be with an onion
last night, Peach. A few people have text in and said,
I was told when my kids were little, say no
to the important things. It wasn't just an onion. It
was just an onion. You didn't let him win. It
was just an onion.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I don't know what it was.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
He just became absolutely hyperfixated with this onion and he
had to go to be with it.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
So I let him win. I wait a hundred the
hats what happened with you? Callum?
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (14:45):
Yup hi?
Speaker 5 (14:48):
So hi?
Speaker 7 (14:49):
My son when he was about four, quite often refused
to put clothes on. And one day we were very
very like into town, and so I just gave up
and said fine and get in the car.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
And what paraded him through town.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
In the nud.
Speaker 7 (15:09):
Yeah, so he was quite chuffed. We got a calf,
we got into town, and then I think it kind
of dawned on him when I got him out of
the calf.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Yeah. They learned pretty quick, don't they. They've made an
they've made a critical error. Yeah, yeah, it's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
All's going to Sam and Christ When did you just
give up here in tang Hi?
Speaker 8 (15:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (15:36):
So my now fifteen year old, when he was was
that one and a half, We took him to the
pizza hat and crushed which when it used to be
a buffet. Yes, yeah, he held onto a pizza craft
for three days. Yeah, I couldn't for the life of
me get it off him. I tried during the night.
(15:57):
He woke up and he screamed, I was okay, not good.
He went to kindy? Was it the kindy?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Wouldn't Oh my god, good fast?
Speaker 8 (16:06):
Was it?
Speaker 9 (16:06):
Freaking thing?
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Kids?
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Kids lose their bloody sock? But he held on to
this crust for three days?
Speaker 9 (16:13):
Three days. I can't even wash the handle?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
What about? How did it finally? Late? Did he eat it?
How did it disappear?
Speaker 9 (16:22):
No, that's the thing. He didn't even eat it.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Hey.
Speaker 9 (16:26):
I went every night to try and get it off him,
and it was the third night that he was he
had let it go in his sleep and I grabbed it.
Takes a crap.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
So good, Alex wrapping up with Alana, Alana, When did
you just give up on peer and tang?
Speaker 8 (16:45):
Hey?
Speaker 10 (16:45):
So, my son, up until he was about three or
four years old, had this thing about feet and he
would call it coo chin feet and he wanted to
if there was any bare feet anywhere, he would be
drawn to them to like touch them and play with
them and rub them against his And we were constantly
trying here and we were constantly trying to get him
to like not do that, because he would kind of
(17:07):
do almost absent mindedly.
Speaker 9 (17:09):
This is the thing about toes and playing with them.
Speaker 10 (17:12):
And one day we were at a resort, quite nice resort,
and of course everybody's laid out on the some beds
with their best seat. We noticed him walking along the
some beds. People are looking at us like somebody played
this child.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
We were like, you said, someone else's problem right now.
I'm just going to let him do his thing and
he'll come back eventually.
Speaker 10 (17:41):
Call it like a free foot myself.
Speaker 5 (17:44):
Many the podcast.
Speaker 6 (17:49):
Are You.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
That's right?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
And it's time for our occupation stereotyping game.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
It's called are You Are? And this week we're on
the hunt for reciptionists. Are you really?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
So basically, you have to call us oh one hundred
the hats convince us you're a receptionist, and Maddie and I,
from our combined research and digging, have to work out
if you're lying or not.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
I will say history has proven we're not great at
this game.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I wouldn't say we're not great. I just say the
callers are really great. True, They're just they've got really
good poker.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Faces.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Okay, Helen is calling from Duned and good a Helen,
how are you.
Speaker 8 (18:29):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Oh? She sounds, she sounds, But we were four minutes.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
We were fooled by this last week with the pilots,
we were.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Okay, I'm going to start with the question, Helen, how
fast can you type?
Speaker 11 (18:44):
Like?
Speaker 2 (18:44):
How many words per minute?
Speaker 11 (18:45):
Do you?
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Reckon? You're repping sixty permid sexty sexty? I mean, I
asked that and I don't actually with conviction. She did
answer with conviction.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Asked one question, I don't know what. I don't know
the answer I'm looking for here? But what what do
you normally here for lunch? Hellen?
Speaker 11 (19:09):
I normally takes my sandwich to work with me.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
In the office.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
That's that's the receptionist thing today.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
She is a receptionist, hard, through and through. All right, Helen,
we reckon you're a receptionist?
Speaker 8 (19:19):
Are you?
Speaker 5 (19:20):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
What are you?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
What do you do for a living?
Speaker 11 (19:27):
From coach?
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Well well done, Helen, you had us full.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
All right, We're going to hook you out with a
little chemist warehouse prize. Okay, we asked questions, didn't We've
actually got to focus now, I know, but.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Don't you think like bringing your own sandwich to work?
Speaker 1 (19:45):
Just screams it is quiet reception alright, least to Melissa
and tadaha, good afterda Melissa.
Speaker 11 (19:52):
Hi lady, Hi, how are you guys?
Speaker 3 (19:54):
Very well? Melissa, very well?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Okay, okay, now you know the posty pretty well? What's
your post his name?
Speaker 3 (20:06):
Charlotte, Charlotte, Charlotte. Okay, buying it? You didn't buy it?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
She was scrambling there, I reckay.
Speaker 3 (20:17):
Okay, here's another one. That's your that's your that's your
post his name? What's your boss's name? Yeah, that's good
bread bread.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Okay, she was in there, quick, Clay. I'm not a hundred.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
I don't think I don't think she's No.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
No, Melissa, we don't reckon. You're a receptionist, are you No?
Speaker 10 (20:35):
I'm not yes.
Speaker 8 (20:37):
One.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
We're back on the board board.
Speaker 12 (20:42):
What do you do?
Speaker 11 (20:43):
I actually do ads for a radio station.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Okay, advertise on the heads.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
It's a grand station, thanks Melissa.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Alright, okay, so.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Let's get another one.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
All right. Joe is joining us. Hi, Joe, Hi, Hi, McLean,
what have you got.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
I want to run through a little scenario with Joe.
So your boss is out and I'm going to call
and ask to speak to a McKay m hm, Hi,
I'm looking to speak to mister Smith.
Speaker 12 (21:17):
Is he there?
Speaker 8 (21:20):
I know he's not here at the moment such or
is it something that I can help you with.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
She's good, She's good.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
You put too much into it.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I did feel slightly contrived. I'm just going to say that,
but I'm going to give her another chance. Joe, you'd
be rather familiar with a keyboard and your role. Can
you give us the top line of the letters on
the keyboard?
Speaker 8 (21:47):
Q W A T.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Because I reckon Joe. I think she actually is a receptionist. Joe,
are you a receptionist?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
No, we're not getting any better at this game.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
Weather, but that getting better at it?
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Joe, what do you do for a living?
Speaker 3 (22:15):
Yeah, we're in the same We're in the in the
in the right ballpark.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
We're flirting. We're flirting with the similar.
Speaker 5 (22:24):
The podcast.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I told you earlier about date night last night.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Yeah, okay, mate, we get it. You went on a
date night.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Well it is. I know you think I go out
all the time, but date night is actually rather rear.
Speaker 8 (22:40):
No.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
I know you've said that you're actually bit of a homebody.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
We just get you just get into a routine and
you go home and give dinner, you watch TV. But
last night we're like, no, no, no, we're going to
go out for dinner. We've got this comedy show to
go to. And it was so nice. It was really
really nice to.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
Be I think it is a good thing to do,
even though sometimes you can't be bothered. I think it
is a good thing to set you the end, to
make that conscious time to be a partnership, well a relationship,
you know.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
So we finished dinner and then we started walking towards
the venue where this comedy show was and we thought,
he see we could do a little sweet.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Treat, treat yourself.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Let me guess we were thinking gelato. But I kind
of looked it up and I couldn't find anywhere close by,
and we, you know, we needed to get to the venue.
So we took a gamble and we thought, we'll see
if the venue is selling any ice cream and there's
some sort of sweet treat there.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
They're probably some of my favorite ice creams at like
those shows where you get the rau of the ice
cream and they've got like the chalk and then the
little nuts on top.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, they go well, they do go well.
This was and they didn't have those, but they did
have a few different like just generic ice creams that
you would get from like the Deirya or whatever. Yeah,
and so Ryan Whenham brought us a couple and I
got a little like chocolate Memphis mountdown with like a
gooey caramel one as well.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
That's always my goal over the years, or the Magnum ego,
they're quite similar.
Speaker 3 (24:04):
Yes, but I think I've told you this before. I'm
not a good ice cream eater. I'm a very messy
ice cream eater. It's why. It's why if I go
and get gelato, I have to ask for it in
the cup because I just can't keep up with the
speed of the melt and it goes everywhere if I
get it in the cone.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
So I'm just like, per second, can't.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
It's going everywhere, streams of water a hot day when
you want the ice cream, themo's and it just runs away.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
On you know.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
So I'm a messy ice cream eater at the best
of times. And so I got this, this gooey caramel
ice cream and I bit into it and I could
already tell. I was like, oh God, I'm gonna have
to go and get like a napkin or something, because
it was just kind of I could feel it, you know,
it was everywhere all over my mind, on and around you.
As I turn around, thinking I'll go back to the
bar and get like a napkin or something to wipe
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my face. Who I'm.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Not your boss again?
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Not the boss, No, not the CEO.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
No an X. Oh you actually kidd.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
And X with his with his new pa.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
You've got the camel, the chocky, the vanilla ice cream.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
Still mouthful, and still mouthful because I've taken a massive
bite because I'm not polite about eating ice cream at all.
So here i am face filled with ice cream, gooey
caramel running down my chin, and I'm like, oh, hi, Hi,
nice to see you.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
It was so.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
You miss this, You miss all of this, this hot mess.
Do you regret breaking up with me? You kind of't
rite honestly, Honestly, it was just one of those situations
where I was like, this is not the this is
not the occasion to run into.
Speaker 5 (26:00):
Maddy, J Madi and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
When did you unexpectedly unexpectedly run into your ex after
Mattie had quite an interesting situation last night.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Yeah, ran into someone that I used to date while
I was at a comedy show with ice cream all
over my face everywhere.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Some would say it was a comedy of eras.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
Hey, I love what you did there. I don't know
what you've been comedy.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
Honestly, it's not your worst.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
It's not your worst.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Stand up comedy. I have so much for stand up comedians.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Anyway, let's talk x'es and awkward run ins, and none
is joining us on eight hundred the hats what happened
with you?
Speaker 13 (26:43):
I was at the peck and Say supermarket, so I
heard a piece of land and I've been scrub barring
all day, so I was completely green from top to
bottom with grass and the year, and thought, I've got
to get to the supermarket young boots on grassy clothes,
I mean literally like the Hulk green. And I was
really hot and sweetee, and I thought, I'm just going
to go to the supermarket. So I was in there,
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and I running around the supermarket, just about to pay,
and there he was. You have got to be kidding me.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
It's always always those times where you think I can
do this because who am I? Who am I going
to run into?
Speaker 8 (27:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 13 (27:19):
And the thing is it's a country supermarket, so there's
a lot of people in gamboats, but possibly not covered
in grass and green. And I literally had bit the
grass falling off me and I was like, I want
to look hot.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
I don't want to I wanted to wheel break up.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
Oh that was so good, Ashley one hundred, When did
you run into your eggs?
Speaker 9 (27:43):
For my husband now, he lost the trailer for sale
on Facebook and it was my high school book friend
it turned.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
Up to buy it. So did they know? Did they
know at the time or did you secretly know and
not say anything.
Speaker 6 (27:57):
So they knew that I just had in.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Fair enough.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
It's probably there's probably the place to be.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Someone who's messaged us on Facebook on our heads Drive
Facebook page page and said I was in Rome. Just
boarded a top deck tour with my best friends. So
these top decks run for what like a week two
weeks round Europe usually, and you're and you're so enclosed
in the space on the bus. My ex was on
the same top deck tour.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
What other chances, Rachel? What about you when you run
into your eggs?
Speaker 11 (28:30):
I ran into him twice, and three days before the
wedding ran I ran into him at the supermarket immediently
sort of hadn't heard I was getting married, so I
was like, oh, oh, no, no, and you.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Probably had like a nice spray hand was amazing.
Speaker 5 (28:53):
No.
Speaker 11 (28:53):
I wasn't quite that glamorous yet. And then teen years
later I was going down to see family and took
the husband and everything, and we were staying with aunt
and uncle and he was boarding with them. And I
didn't know until I walked into the lounge and he
walked in after me, and I just about passed out
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on the floor.
Speaker 3 (29:17):
Run girl, run.
Speaker 11 (29:21):
Awkward l because I was the dumper. I dumped him.
Really nice guy. He didn't deserve the treatment I gave him.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Well, Rachel, thank you for reliving in trauma with us
this afternoon.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
And the podcast.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
So we have been selling puppies for a little bit now,
some gorgeous purebred labradors.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
How many have you got left?
Speaker 2 (29:51):
We've got three left.
Speaker 3 (29:53):
You're nearly there, you nearly So let.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Me just tell you.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Times are tough right now, and I absolutely understand it's
really hard for people to part ways with cash. You know,
A lot of people just don't have you know, extra
savings at the moment.
Speaker 3 (30:06):
Are nice, so cute?
Speaker 2 (30:08):
Keep the cell up, keep it up? What else do
you like about them?
Speaker 3 (30:12):
Look great for the whole family.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Yeah, they are the golden, the gorgeous. We've got three
boys left. Anyway, I'll save the cell for another day.
But we have noticed one massive thing whilst trying to
sell these puppies.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
And we've had a lot of interest.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Right and people will come out the gates and they'll
be like, okay, tell us all about them, and so
I'll send off all the details and then they'll come
back and they're like, okay, amazing, great, give me tonight.
I just need to win my partner either and I'll
get back to you.
Speaker 3 (30:42):
And then warning, huh, that old chestnut.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
I can't tell you how many replies we've had of
people going, oh, I'm so sorry, the hobby's just not
going to let me have it at the moment. Okay,
it's just not the right time or sorry, I asked
the wife, and no, it's an absolute no for now.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
Is there some and then you can slip past the goalposts?
Do you reckon?
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Like?
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Is bringing a pet home the kind of thing you
can just do on the sly.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I just think there is a real longgoing commitment with
a part and there's like quite a lot of edmund
that goes along with there, and ongoing payments for food.
I don't know if it's just a one and done
thing that you can slip past the goalie.
Speaker 3 (31:22):
There must be those things though, where you don't ask
for permission, Like you don't have to solicit for your
wife or your partner or your husband's permission to go
and buy something.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
Well, I thought we could ask this question the same nang,
What did you do without their permission? Your partner's permission,
or maybe they did something without yours? Oh eight hundred
the hats Kendall is actually joining us. Kendall, you got
home and found something that your partner had purchased.
Speaker 8 (31:48):
Yep. My husband came home and he said, gay, guess what,
And I said yep, And he said, you're going to
be the owner of a coffee.
Speaker 12 (32:00):
I'm like, say what, Yeah, so I don't drink coffee.
Speaker 8 (32:07):
He doesn't drink coffee.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (32:11):
It's just such a random thing to tell me that
he's buying and basically telling me he's buying it and
it's done. And yeah, so that was in November last year,
and he told me to quit my job. And I'm
the one running the coffee cart now and yeah there's
a random story for two people that don't drink coffee.
(32:31):
And now we're like amazing buristers.
Speaker 13 (32:34):
So you.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
Run the cart like it has tuned into a thing.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Yeah, yeah, so I.
Speaker 12 (32:41):
Kind of you know, when you know he's got both
feet in already, you know you can't pull him out.
Speaker 7 (32:46):
So he was.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
He just said, I'm in.
Speaker 8 (32:48):
We're doing it, so I know you you don't really
have a choice.
Speaker 12 (32:53):
I was a regular customer. This girl's moving countries and
I still want my hot chocolates and my pie.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
I love the story.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
We can give the little coffee card to shout out,
give it a plug.
Speaker 12 (33:08):
I have to. It's the one at the wire or
river in to Earth by the bridge, and it's called
silver Card Coffee.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Brilliant.
Speaker 5 (33:17):
Nice Maddy ANDJ Madi and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
We want to know what you did without your partner's
permission or vice versa. What did they do without asking you?
I brought this up because we're selling puppies at the
moment and the number one thing we hear from pretty
much everyone is, Hey, just give me a night to
do the hard sale and I'll be back tomorrow. Now,
whichon we can get this across the line, and then
I'll get a message and they'll be like, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
I know.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
They just they just won't let us. They won't let
me do it right now.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
The animal is a hard thing to slip slip past
the line. Yeah you can. You can't just sneak it
into the house, can you.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
It is a long term commitment. So we wanted to know, Yeah,
what did you get across the line without your partner?
Amanda is joining us?
Speaker 2 (34:05):
What happened with you?
Speaker 5 (34:08):
Hi?
Speaker 13 (34:08):
Yes, most of our pets i've got without my husband.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
You have got you, Amanda.
Speaker 13 (34:17):
Yeah, I haven't tried to hide them.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
After we've got them the time he doesn't know before
they arrive home.
Speaker 3 (34:22):
And what are we talking.
Speaker 13 (34:25):
Well, we've got a buddy that didn't get permissioned. First,
we've got two cats that didn't get permissioned. We've gone
a lot and we've actually got raped as well.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Okay, and what's the response from the partner when this happens?
Speaker 2 (34:42):
Oh my god? Another one.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Stop, Amanda, Stop, Tina is joining us, Tana, what do
you do without your partner's permission?
Speaker 6 (34:54):
Got the Mind's Clothing and because I am quite a
addicted to the Henny Collection in New Zealand. Every time
they have a sale or a new item come out, yeah,
I buy it and then I slipped it into the
washing like I've had.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
It the whole time, So it just gets added to
the washing pile.
Speaker 6 (35:17):
We did, but a few weeks ago we had to
add a cat as well, throw no choice. We were
out on a bike ride and someone had tied up
a kitten and a plastic bag and I came.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
Across it and I just couldn't not No, you've done
a good thing there. Yeah, we'll give you that one, Tina.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
Sorry, we are going on to Donna now though, Donna,
what happened without the permission?
Speaker 10 (35:51):
I bought a house?
Speaker 8 (35:52):
What what?
Speaker 4 (35:55):
We went to have a look at a house and
the market was running pretty hot. This was one hundred
years ago when people could afford to buy house. Yes,
So the land agent wouldn't let me do anything unless
somebody had seen it. So I got hold of my
dad and he came to have a look at the house.
So my dad's suggestion was, go put a ridiculous offer
(36:17):
on it, and while they come back to negotiate, you
can get your husband and to have a look at it.
Speaker 10 (36:22):
Well they accepted the ridiculous Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (36:27):
So my punishment, my punishment was I had to move
us and by myself.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
Fear enough.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
Did it work out for the beast though Donner Yeah,
oh yeah it was.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
It was a good house and it was like, you know,
it had more room for the family and all the
rest of it. But you know, it was just like,
I can't believe you went. Because he came home and
he said there was something about wanting to I said, no,
we can't spend any money.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Because I bought a house.
Speaker 13 (36:55):
Money today.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
I'm like.
Speaker 5 (37:03):
Many in the podcast.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Many, what are you going to be doing to celebrate
the lions Gate portal?
Speaker 3 (37:15):
You're not, You're not? What?
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (37:20):
What?
Speaker 1 (37:20):
I need to bring something up with you because this
has been on my radar a lot. In my world,
the social media pages that I follow talk about a
lot of spiritual and woo woo things, and I do
my best to not bring them to the table because
I know I'll get the eye roll. That you're giving
me right now, But can you give me just a
couple of minutes to talk about the lions Gate.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
I've never even heard of the lions Gate. Okay, you
know the rules. Yeah, you can go woo woo, but
we have a safe word.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
If I say banana, it means you've gone too far
and you cut it off. You cut it off.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
So the lions Gate portal is the eighth of the
eighth every year, eighth of August, and this is meant
to be a key time for manifestation to sit down,
sit you intentions, and really look at your life and
what you want to achieve.
Speaker 2 (38:03):
So I've got a couple of taps on what you
can do. Can I get in the zone?
Speaker 3 (38:07):
Can I just ask? Though? Like when you hear words
like manifestation, do you even roll your eyes?
Speaker 2 (38:14):
No, manifestation there's so.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
Much science behind it, Like when you genuinely visualize, and
I'm not just talking thinking about it. You have to
put god like a mood, like a like a like
you have to feel it like there are proper, proper menefics.
There are some people who are so good at it
where you basically feel the feeling like it's already happened
and there are incredible results that you can achieve. But anyway,
(38:39):
today to tap in to the Lionsgate portal before you
want to clear your space.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
You want to smudge, declutter, allow them energy. Yeah, you
can get a little bit. You know what smudge is? Right?
Speaker 3 (38:51):
No, what is smudge like? Stage banana is so close?
But keep going.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
Okay, I'm on to number two. You want to reflect
on your intentions. You can review your goals. This is
a great time for doing that, fine tuning your intentions
so that they resonate with your soul's purpose and they
set the stage for that powerful manifestation. You know, it's
a time to really look onwards. And then number three,
practice mindfulness. This is a great time to meditate to
(39:20):
quiet your mind. Now, look, that might look different for you.
You don't have to sit and be quiet. Meditation looks
different for everyone.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Number four, you want to release.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
How many minutes we got I've gone two and a half,
I'm doing well, Release and let go. This is a
time to identify and release any fears, darts, and limiting
beliefs that hold you back, and you want to make
room for new possibilities as the portal's energies to go in.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
It's serious.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
My mom at eight past eight tonight is sitting down,
she's getting the candled out, candle out, and she's taking
this very seriously. It's the idea of the port number five.
Elevate your vibration in activities spirit.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
I did well. I got three minutes out of you.
Speaker 5 (40:13):
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