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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Hits Drive with Maddy and Paja thanks to chimis
Wee House, the Real House of Fragrances and on the
Hello everyone, and welcome to the podcast. I keep forgetting
the day today. I thought it was Monday, and then
I was about to say heavy Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Fucking cooked.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's Tuesday.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
It's Tuesday, which means you're recording your do we say,
do we speak about the mistress?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I mean we can talk about it. Do you How
do you feel about talking about it? Are you okay?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Okay? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
I feel comfortable enough in our own relationship that I
don't need to be thriatened by your other partnership that
goes on side.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
You shouldn't be because what we have is really special.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Thank you great.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I think so to, But you know, twenty twenty four
and exploring other options can be healthy in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Well, let's give it a little pluck because it is
in the iHeartRadio family. Once you've listened to that, don't
go and cheat and go listen before you've listened to
the median, listen.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
To this one first and foremost, because this is my
main job. This is just my little side, my side
hustle don't tell me, don't tell give him out the Gates.
You can listen on our heart radio if you get
your podcasts. Actually, I got a message today from my brother.
(01:27):
My brother lives in LA and he works over there,
and he got a message today where he works, they've actually,
sadly just had like a whole heap of redundancies I.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Know, unfortunately incredibly common, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
And this guy messaged him out of the blue, just
who This guy had obviously been made redundant in the
latest string, and he said, hey, Rob, now that we're
no longer co workers and there's little chance of us meeting,
so I don't even think of meet in person before
I just wanted to say that I've been listening to
your brother's podcast Out the Gate religiously for the last two.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Crazy.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Look at that samboy.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
We've got a little it's quite hot. We've got we've
got an American fan.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Hey, that's cool. Can you break down the stairs? I
always find it?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Really Yeah we can.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I haven't actually asked for the updated stats recently, so
I couldn't tell you what they were, but yeah, we
would be able to. This guy messaged them. Rob. Obviously
my brother obviously went back to him and said, oh funny, like,
how did you find out about it? And he said
that when when when my brother joined this company, this
(02:44):
guy looked him up to see if he if Rob
was gay? Profile and podcasts and yeah, crazy.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Oh my god, the internet is a crazy, wild place.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, you're about to hear how crazy with our group
therapy on today's podcast.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Group Therapy was yeah, fuck, it's a tough position. But
actually I feel more firm. I feel pretty just like
where we ended up. I think we ended up pretty pretty.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Good in the end.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It was a bit of a journey. I was a
bit a decisive at the beginning.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
It's a hard one, though. I can see why you
would be indecisive. It's really hard to know what to do.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Well, Okay, so we talk about I'll give you a
little taste. Someone got intel that one of their friends
maybe getting involved in dating apps.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Let's just say that a married a married man.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
A married man on a gay dating app. Okay, so
that aside, I have found out that, well, I thought
I was seeing someone and then I found out that
he had had a girlfriend, had.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Time, right, and you really appreciated the heads up, right.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Well, I actually got a heads up from a sister
of the girl. I didn't even know her, so I
got the phone called. Yes, I did appreciate the hits up.
But then I found out down the track that you know,
a few friends kind of sort of knew something was
going on, and I do remember being about gut it,
not being completely tipped off. But again I think it
was one of those situations they might not have known
all the details.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
No, I didn't want to fully.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Anyway, you'll hear the fall Dallima coming up on the show. Also,
an incredible moment happened to men Bathura in this morning.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So it was so it was just so embarrassing. So
but do you know the stupid thing is, as soon
as it happened, I just went, oh, this will be
a good story to tell peage later.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
It's the sick thing about being a radio.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Something fucked, twisted, awkward shit happens and you're like, well,
that was ship, but it's going to be great. Every
every silver lining, no, every.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Cloud, every cloud.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Every cloud, every cloud do you.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Have because because you've been doing this for such a
long time, now, do you have friends or bjor or
family who say, do you hey, don't you talk about
this on the radio, you know, like if something happens,
like if you're if they tell you something, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, yeah, the odds the odd time.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I used to get it a lot more, but I
don't get it as much anymore. Maybe is like, well,
you've got to make a crust share all of my
personal stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I don't care.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
He'll have and be like.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
This is content and I'm like, no, it's a bit
lane bab.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
He's yeah, I know, but he's just desperate for us
to talk about him more.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
He wants Yeah, did I talk about this yesterday about
how he got recognized in tomorrow?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
You did to me? I don't know if we talked
about it on the podcast, but I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Yeah, he got recognized a few times over the weekend. Anyway, Look,
we have got to go, but we so Yeah, we
talk about many story We talk about the group therapy
and something that I'm doing this weekend. I had a
few questions about the protocol regarding my new activity go there,
(06:10):
plus so much more coming up in the podcast.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Enjoy and many to podcast.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I'm always amazed by how quickly kids these days just
understand technology.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
You know, well, they're exposed to it such a young age.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Yeah, but even still, it's almost like instinctive. I've got
four nieces and nephews, and the youngest is only not
even eighteen, maybe eighteen months now, and already he knows
how to like push buttons and move things on phones
and are swiping everything.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
But think about when we like used to be on
laptops and even vones at the beginning, And how do
you remember how it would feel so foreign too, even
just our parents' generation. Yes to you know, I think
that's exactly the same. I think it's because we're adopted. Well,
I don't know, because we're exposed to a younger age
and then introduced to it later. It just seems like
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such a foreign thing.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
When my oldest niece in this family is just turned six,
and whenever we facetimeed, she's like knows how to put
on all of these filters on her face that I
don't even know, Like, I feel reasonably up with the
playing with.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
You're already starting to sound old, old, am I?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Yeah you are.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You're not even forty, mate, You've got years of you
for each of you. I know they use these these
these days.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
They just really know how to use the technology. But
I saw this video from a dead in America who
had this like mind blowing realization because he wanted to
show his kids a TV series. Yeah, but the kids
started it wasn't available on like a streaming service, so
they had to watch it free to wear. And the
(08:07):
kids had no idea what a commercial was. They didn't
know what an ad was. They thought you were able
to just skip through them, and they kept looking for
like button to be able to skip through it. And
even wilder than that, they were like they said to
the dad, oh, this is like vacation TV because the
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only concept of watching free to ear TV with ads
was when they were at the.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Of course, Oh my god, it's crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
He went, it's he just it was like mind blown.
Light bulb went off, and he went, this is the
generation gap where our kids don't even know what commercial,
what ads are and TV shows.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
But you gotta think it like the old humble home
phone now would literally be like an old artifact.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Kids growing up now like they would have no.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
No comprehension of how that works, like, but to us
that was just how we did things.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It truly was. And so I just thought there must
be so many moments like this for parents and for teachers,
and for aunties and uncles, when you're interacting with kids
and you realize, oh, this is a thing that our
kids don't even know about these days.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Could be music, could be pop culture, could be an item,
could be some kind of technology, whatever it is. I
like one hundred of the hits. What was that moment
when a kid didn't know something.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
And it made you realize, Oh you old Mary J
Many and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
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Speaker 3 (10:04):
I cannot recommend it highly enough.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
It's really just because we're giving away to tecond no.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
No, no, truly, and it's such a good movie.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Okay, see you want to one days, all you need
to do is give us a call. Eight hundred the hats.
We've just been talking about those moments where you're with
a considerably younger person, probably a kid, and they don't
know something, and it makes you realize how old you
actually are.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
A dad in America was caught short when he realized
that his kids didn't know what commercials were like. They
just had not been watching consuming television with ads in them.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
I mean, let's be honest, life is better with our kid.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
All right, let's go to Kate on the phone.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
What was the moment that you realized you were considerably older?
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Hey, guys, Yeah, I was on the balcony just string
to my children to wind down the window using the
particular motions and they had.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
No Obviously, you just put it was your button, mum.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
That is brilliant. Someone actually teaches him with a very
similar story and said, I bought an old D twenty
one Navara and went to pick it up with my
six and seven year olds. I asked them to wind
the windows in the back down and they couldn't do
it for ages until they they he realized they were
trying to push the button.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
And it wasn't the end. No, no, no, no, you
got to wind. You gotta wind. See.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
She quite a good workout for the arm.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
It's true.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
If you put enough, Molly's joining us right, one hundred
of hats? What did I kid not know that made
you realize he was super old?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (11:36):
I had a primary teacher and I had a cassette
tape that I wanted to play music on, and I said,
I asked a couple of kids to go get a
tape deck and they brought back a solar tape holder.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Oh my, I'm just going to go home.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
There is older kids and I put this sign for
numbers and they were like, why why are you paying?
Hash had three.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Number?
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Oh hey, well Molly, Molly, we we understand you. Just
so you know, thank you.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Someone takes them to four for eight seven page and
see when I had to explain to my eight year
old that Dad and I didn't have the Internet, we
didn't have devices, gaming souls or anything consoles or anything
like that when.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
We were kids.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
And then he asked what solid thing we played without?
You just go and play imagination? Yeah, make treehouses. Philip
is joining us? Hats what happened with you?
Speaker 6 (12:36):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (12:36):
So we were out of town and I said to
my youngest, hey, can you go and bring me the
phone book? I just want to check on the address
because I know these guys advertising the phone book, and
I just got this really blank blook. Is to say,
what are you talking about? I said, like the book
with phone numbers? Can you not look us up on
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your phone?
Speaker 1 (13:02):
She probably thought it was like a manual for an iPhone,
like the phone.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Oh no, so the white pages were not a thing
she'd ever come across. Philiper No.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Many in PJ the podcast.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
That the People's Poll, the People's Poll, everybody comes together.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
It's the People's Poll, all right, and it's time for
the People's Pole. Every day on the show, we like
to ask a little question. Sometimes it's hard hitting. Sometimes
it's more on the trivial end of things, and today actually, no,
it's never hard hitting.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
On mostly trivial trivial Yeah, let's be honest.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
But sometimes it's the trivial things that you often want
am most curious about knowing you know.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Well, this one is actually off a personal experience because
I just realized, I wonder if I'm in the minority
when I do this. But I will often go into
a shop and just take my phone with me, but
I don't take my wallet because I've got payWave on
my phone, and I like, is this running the gauntlet
a little bit. Because particularly we live quite ruely, not
(14:09):
all shops actually have paywaves, so sometimes I don't need
to go back to my car. But I don't learn.
I just feel like I'm always secure enough with just
taking my phone.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
I've had I've been caught short quite a few times,
have you, Yeah, Because I if I'm going for like
a big walk with otis my dog, and then we
stopped by a cafe, I haven't.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Taken my wall lugging around your wam and so I haven't.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Taken it with me. And if they don't have payWave,
I'm screwed. I've got no other option.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
And then you just have to retreat, leave the case.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
So awkward.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Order.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
So the question today is pretty simple for People's Poll.
If you have payWave on your phone, do you still
take your wallet into your stores?
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Or do you roll solo with your phone and hope
for the best.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Text four four eighty seven with your answer, or you
can weigh in on our Instagram page The Hats Drive
with Meddi and PJ, and we'll come back and reveal
the results next Maddy and PJ.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
The podcast.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
That the pe Pol's Poll, The peat Pole's Pole everybody
comes together.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
It's the peat Pool's poll.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
But I'm an age one today. But I was thinking
about my own habits when I go into stores, and
I don't know why I run the gauntlet. But when
I go into a shop, I just take my phone
because I have payWave on the air. You know, a
lot a lot of shops still don't actually have payWave,
you know, some still redect it. So I don't know why,
even though I know that I'll do that, knowing I'll
(15:39):
have to go beat with the car and make the
walk of shame to get my wallet.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Yeah, except it's kind of it's worth rolling the dice on,
I reckon.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Yeah, maybe it's interesting on the text machine. Actually a
lot of people have said I roll with it and
I hope for the best. Some also said I have
an f post card within my cakes, which seems to
be actually the smartest option those cases when you can
just have your cards backed up, yes, which yes, except
I find it quite bulky if you've got the because
(16:07):
some people attach like a little wallet or something to
the back of their phone case.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
That's quite bulky, just asking to just be lost.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
Yeah, having the card just tucked underneath the phone case,
that might be quite a.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Smart Someone said, yes, I tack my wallet inn is
my driver's license in it, and don't like living in
the car for security reasons. It's actually probably quite a
smart thing to do.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Someone said, I always take my wallet regardless force of habit,
I think, but if I've forgotten it for whatever reason,
I know I can use my phone. I just feel
really weird using my phone only. Not having my wallet
makes me feel really naked.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I sometimes just throw it to the universe, though, Like
if I go on it's if there isn't actually pay way,
I'm like, sweet, I actually don't need that thing.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
This is a side because.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Usually it's a tree, isn't it? Usually it's a tree?
Speaker 2 (16:56):
You got it?
Speaker 3 (16:57):
If we look at our Instagram page and you can
always go and and vote for the people's poll on
the Hits Drive on Instagram, it is fifty six percent
of people say, yep, I still take my wallet with
me into the store.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
But still that's pretty close. Yeah, still got a lot
of people just hoping for the best living life on
the wild side.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Wild side, aren't we crazy?
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Don't forget?
Speaker 1 (17:22):
You can text any suggestions for our people's poll to
four for eight seven. We are five minutes to four
with your news next, and right after that the juiciest
group therapy we have had on the show You Many.
Speaker 8 (17:34):
ANDPJ the podcast's Many INPJS group therapy.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Okay, all right, let's get comfortable everybody, it is time
for group therapy. And don't forget you can always get
in touch with us. We can keep you anonymous. Hit
us up at the Hats dot co dot nz. We
have a special registration page, or you can slide into
our dms on Instagram, the Hits Drive with Many.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
Yeah, if you have anything going on in your life,
because it's sometimes great to get an outside his perspective
on whatever it is that's going on for you, which
is what someone has done in this message. And I
don't think we say this lightly PG. This is maybe
one of the craziest group therapies we've had yet.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Right, I just put myself in this situation and I think,
oh my god, Water, Pickle.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
Hey, Maddie and PJ. I have a problem that I
would love some and put on. To be honest, I'm
still reeling from the fact that this has happened to me.
I noticed on Facebook Messenger a few days ago that
I had a message request from someone I didn't know.
The perfect person's profile was private and we have zero
mutual friends in common online. This person had messaged me
(18:42):
about the husband of a good female friend of mine,
and the husband himself is a friend as well. I
guess the person told me that my friend's husband was
on a gay dating app looking for casual experiences. They
then attached a few very explicit photo of my friend's husband.
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If it wasn't for the fact that it is very
obviously him in these photos, I would have just ignored
the message. But clearly the person that messaged me on
Facebook has been sent these photos. So now I'm at
a loss as to what to do. This couple have
kids together, and although you never know what goes on
behind closed doors, I find it hard to believe that
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my friend would know her husband was on this app,
let alone sending explicit photos to people. So what do
I do now that I have this information? Do I
keep it to myself or do I need to say
something to my friend about her husband?
Speaker 1 (19:40):
I would Oh, man, I guess you need to know
more information, don't you, And that's the how you go
launching in Because I had a friend. I'm sure they
got targeted with photos. They got threatened years ago online
and I can't remember how the person accessed their own photos,
but they threatened to release the to close family members
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and friends and whatever, And I just wonder, is this
one of those kind of situations.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
However, how did they how did they obtain them the photos?
And that's the thing. It feels like there's a few
missing pieces to the puzzle. But clearly this husband has
taken explicit photos of himself and then you would think
sent them to someone at some point in time, right hmmm.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I look, honesty is always my best policy. I would
absolutely absolutely want to know if I was the woman
whose husband this was. But I think this person needs
to Can they how do they dig deeper? How do
they ask for more from this person? Can they have
(20:50):
a phone conversation? Possibly?
Speaker 3 (20:52):
I don't know, maybe, But then it just feels like
this person hasn't done it, has done it for kind
of malicious reasons, right yeah, yeah, because otherwise, why would
they be reaching out to a random contact of this
guy to send them photos?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Do you go to the guy straight to the guy?
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (21:11):
I just look, this is what I have received.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
Can you tell me the truth.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
I just feel like middling in people's relationship this is
a really risky thing to do. And although it might
pain you to set on information, I don't know. I'm
kind of of the mind that maybe that this is
just something you keep to yourself.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Do you know.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I don't think I caught many Okay, we obviously a
tear of electific advice on this topic. There's so many
balls in the air, and maybe someone has been in
a similar situation to this. How did you approach it?
Do you tell the friend? How do you find out
more information about you know, the husband who was allegedly
on this dating app? Call us right now, oh White
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hundred the hats to weigh in, or you can text
four for eight seven. We've got some Helpizza arches up
for grabs. You can stand on us as though.
Speaker 8 (22:01):
Mad J, Mady and PJ the podcasts Many and pj's
group therapy.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Have I been told on the text machine that my
opinion on this is wrong. PJ, You're so wrong, mad
he is right. Well, I don't like to be right.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
This is an awful situation for the person that really
is they said I noticed on Facebook Messenger a few
days ago, I had a message request from someone I
didn't know. This person had messaged me about the husband
of a good female friend of mine. They told me
that my friend's husband was on a gay dating app
looking for casual experiences. They then attached a few very
explicit photos of my friend's husband. So now I'm at
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a losses to what to do this couple of kids together.
So what do I do now that I have this information?
Do I keep it to myself? Or do I say
something to my friend about her husband?
Speaker 1 (22:50):
I said, oh my gosh, I don't think I could
keep that. But you're right, like, there's so much at
stake here. You would be seriously meddling with a family, right,
So you want to know that you got the facts
right if you're going to approach it.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
And that's a few people who have said, is this
maybe a case of AI the forest could be manipulated
a scam? You just don't know these days, do you.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
So we obviously don't have the answers, but all hundred
the hats if you'd like to weigh in on the
sweet script therapy and none is joining us and you've
got a personal experience, Yes.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
Happened, Well, I know this person and found out, but
I approached it. I said, you know, this is happening.
Speaker 9 (23:35):
She was cheating.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
And I told the wife that she was cheating, well
he was cheating, and she just blocked me and everything
because she believed what her husband. But the proof was
there and everything was there.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Yeah, if you want to do it, just do it
enormous so they don't know who you are. I know
that's your friend, and I really didn't wanted to, you know,
end up our friendship. I was thinking I was helping her,
you know that what I was doing to try to
help her. Do you not to her husband to not
do that? But it bites back on me.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
So yeah, and that's a tough thing. You You know,
you've got to weigh it up, like is it worth
potentially ruining your friendship over it because they might absolutely
reject And that's the information.
Speaker 3 (24:23):
You do not know how someone is going to react
when they are handed that kind of information, and people
get very defensive, don't Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Graham is joining us, Oh light hundred hats what do
you reckon?
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Graham?
Speaker 9 (24:35):
So I'm going to come of this from a slightly
different angle. I know, the call or the friends said
that they they believe that is the person. But these
these the way that you can digitally alter photos, and
the ammount of guys that would have shirtless photos, you know,
on their socials, I would be questioning first off, whether
or not the photos are real because you, as the
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previous corner said, and that there's a lot of risk
involved with this. So maybe, I mean, you can either
just ignore it or maybe doing the research and go, hey,
does the sky actually have you know, sort of shirtless
and could they be? Because it doesn't take much too
I know, although.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
You've got to wonder, You've got to wonder why that
why someone would reach out to a random contact to
send these folks like.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
As though they might be sailing going give me this
amount of money or I'll go to your friends. Someone
actual messaged in saying it might be very old images
from before though I'm married. That's another thing to consider.
So true, we don't know that these images are recent.
Thank you so much for Wayne and Graham. At least
go to Chris on eight hundred hats could I.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
Chris, Hey, how are you both very well?
Speaker 7 (25:41):
Happy?
Speaker 2 (25:41):
You're not so bad? What do you think?
Speaker 7 (25:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (25:44):
In my in my opinion, I think that it could
get too messy too quickly. You know, you've got kids involved.
You don't want to break up a family, you know,
and you just don't have all the all the evidence,
you know. I mean, you've got pictures, but they, like
Graham said, they could be genetically altered or AI altered.
You know, you just have no idea and me all
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could be a really big mistake.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
I think, yeah, yeah, okay, I regret my initial reaction.
You're true, No, no, no, because I've actually thought about this.
We did not know enough information about the whole pack chat.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
I know, but that you know, I guess it's different
for everyone. If you, if you as a person could
not sit on this information without saying anything, then you
kind of have to trust your gut on what is
best for you.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Right, That is true.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
A lot of people are saying this sounds like a scam,
so I wonder if this is something that commonly goes on.
Speaker 3 (26:37):
It could be. And I think the key thing is
a lot of people said, don't say anything. But people said,
if you are going to say something, say it to
the husband.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Yeah, not to the wife, because you don't know enough.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
Yet, you don't know enough.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
You Oh that was a good group therapy this week, Jose.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
I do not envy being in that position, but thank
you so much for getting in touch with us this week.
If you would like to get in touch, you can
text us all full eight seven.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
The podcast The Head's an exciting development, medi and my search.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
For a car.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Oh, you've been looking for a very long time. First
of all, you're going to clean out your original bloody cars.
You can sell it.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Excuse me, I've still got that on trade me. What
do you mean clean it up? It's amazing, it's immecula
and it's a real catch. If anyone's after a golf getn't.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it's great. It's great. You'd love it,
You love it.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
I have been on the hunt for an upgrade because
we love on a pretty rough and ready rural road
and obviously got a toddler.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
We look in for a bit of a family wagon.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
No, I'm not trying to get car companies to listen
to this and say, oh, PJ, would.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
You like a car? But I just remember what happened
when we got when we got taken around all of
the different air agencies at the start of the year.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
Excuse me, that was a lot time ago.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Anyway, we've come across a really perfect little family megod
like little suv.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
I have found it. So my husband was like, right,
you need to go and do like a little test drive.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
You've just got to check that.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
This is all good.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
So I've arranged because this was actually through Facebook marketplace,
which is all good.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
I'm sure it is. I'm sure it is.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
You have obsessed with it, honestly, it's an addiction. So
We've planned this weekend to meet up for a little
little test drive. And I've got a couple of questions,
many just on what do you think is kosher for
a test drive? Like how long do you think I
can take it for a spurt?
Speaker 3 (28:39):
Am reckon? Half an Hour's fine?
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Have na? What if I wanted to like go and
test the country roads and do like see how it
goes on like a sort of longer haul drive.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
How long are you thinking?
Speaker 1 (28:52):
I don't know, forty five go for a little Sunday.
It's going to be Father's Day, so I feel like
col tied them for a little joy, right, Okay, No,
I'm taking the.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Plus if I go over thirty minutes.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
You RecA I reckon you could push it out to
forty five minutes. Okay, I think anything close to an hour,
and you yeah, you're taking them ackey a little bit.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Question does the salar need to come with me.
Speaker 3 (29:16):
In the car? No? But sometimes sometimes they might insist.
But I find that really annoying.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Okay, okay, because my third question was going to be
do you think I need to drive well? Because otherwise
she may not want to pass the vehicle on to me.
But if she's not watching, then it's.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
Also no skin of her nose. Whether you're a good
driver or not. She just wants to I can't.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
That's true, Okay, Okay, Well, happy days. I'll let you
know we finally it's not going to happen. I feel
like I'm eternally on a searcher and upgrade.
Speaker 3 (29:45):
I just love it. I love the idea of this
lady sitting there for like three hours, being like, oh
my god, that's still not bad. And there you are
on your picnic with your husband for Father's Day.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
Many in the podcast.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
That was pushing it fine, Matthew McClay.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Look when you gotta go, you gotta go.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
I was like, what am I going to talk about?
He's got this one. There was Dasher with Austin on
the Hurts five minutes to five with Maddy and PJ.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Hey, I saw a brilliant story about a would be
burglar in Rome. Now terrible thing to go and want
to rob someone in their own home. But this man
in Rome decided that's what he was going to do.
But he was caught mid robbery because he got distracted
while robbing this person's home with a book on their bedside. Cabnet.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
What was the book?
Speaker 3 (30:40):
The book was Iliad, which is like a really famous
old school like philosophy book.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
And well, he was like, oh mate, I love that.
I'm just going to go check out a few pages. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
I started reading it and then got interrupted by the
guy who owned the house. It was like, mate, what
are you doing? And he goes, I'm sorry, I got distracted.
I was trying to rob you. But the book is
so good. I loved Criminals. That is so good.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I was wondering it might have been like a ghost
Bumps book. My husband still had I kid you not
goost Bumps like the series of ghost Bumps by his
bed when I met him at the age of twenty seven.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
I was obsessed with goosebumps. So I get it, But
I wanted to know on the text machine four four
eight seven, what would be the thing that would distract you?
What would you be distracted by if you were robbing
someone's house?
Speaker 2 (31:34):
All right, taxs three four eight seven.
Speaker 5 (31:38):
Mary J.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Many and PJ the podcast The Heads.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
There are three facts about me, I reckon that you
should know, and you probably know them all.
Speaker 1 (31:51):
Three of these peage, you won celebrity Treasure Island, You're
incredibly competitive, and you're a labristar sign.
Speaker 3 (31:57):
No, those are three. Those are three things, but those
aren't the things that I was thinking of. One I
walk very fast, Yeah, I hate dodd linge. Two I
overheat like I'm quite a I'm quite a a sweat profusely.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Do you run hot?
Speaker 1 (32:16):
So that's why you go like full nerdy at bedtime?
Speaker 3 (32:19):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (32:20):
So often makes sense?
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
And three I'm often running late to things.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Tastes.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
Yeah, you hear me both. So this is the situation,
the predicament I found myself in today when I was
had organized to go and see my barber to get
a haircut. I was running late. I was walking from
where I part my car at work to the barber's shop,
and I was walking fast because that's just naturally how
(32:48):
I how I operate. So when I arrived at the barbers,
I was.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Very sweety already.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
I could feel the back of my shirt getting quite
wheat close. Yeah, it's it's such a horrible feeling as well,
it's gross, like.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Can you put.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Yeah, you can?
Speaker 10 (33:09):
You can?
Speaker 3 (33:10):
And I and I did do that. But when I
walked in, my hair dresser said, oh, have you run here?
You're looking very dewy, and I went, oh god, so
I so he was actually finishing up, So even though
I was running late, he was actually running late himself.
So it did give me a few minutes window. So
I thought, Okay, I'll quickly duck into the bathrooms that
(33:31):
are next door to the barbers and I'll just quickly
go into the cubicle and sort myself out. So I
grabbed a couple of paper towels and I walked into
the cubicle and I took my shirt off because I
was so wet and like sticky. Took my shirt off
and I pulled down my jeans. Basically I felt like
(33:52):
I just needed to airrate, like I needed to dry.
Why did you take a jans Because I was all over,
I was hot and I just needed to get some
fresh air all over my body. So that's the picture
I'm painting for you, Me standing in a cubicle with
my shirt off and my jeans around my ankles, with
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paper towels in my hand.
Speaker 2 (34:17):
That doesn't look great.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Its bad. What are you doing with them? And it
gets so much worse because I hadn't obviously locked the door.
Oh god, So next thing I know, someone has pushed
(34:40):
open the door to the cubicle and there I am
standing in the cubicle, jeans around my ankles, t shirt
off and hanging on the side of the toilet wall,
and paper towels in my.
Speaker 1 (34:58):
That would have been damped. You've been damning your body.
Were you at least wearing nice underwear?
Speaker 3 (35:07):
They're not. They don't have holes in them. If that's
what you're asking.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
They were tidy wies. It's even better.
Speaker 3 (35:16):
So luckily I never saw this guy again, because I
would have been mortified if I'd had to run into him.
But it was one of the more compromising situations I've
ever found myself in.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
That is so good.
Speaker 3 (35:34):
I just I wish I was the no, you don't,
And I just wonder what this guy is going back
and telling like his colleagues or whatever.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
That image you'll be living room for his year for
the rest of the year.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
He'll be like sure. I think it was the guy
that used to be on breakfast and he was standing
with his like chudes around his ankles and his top off.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
I wait, hundred the hats. I'm gonna make you feel
better right now on the phone, many when did you
get caught in a compromising position? Beddie McLain has just
opened up and she had his vulnerable experience this morning.
Have you been in a similar situation where someone walked
in and it did not look good at all? When
(36:22):
did you get caught in a compromising possession? I wait
hundred the hat.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Mady, J, Maddy and pja' the podcast.
Speaker 1 (36:32):
That Beddy has just shared an incredibly humiliating story that
happened to him in the bathroom this morning. Do you
want to real limit.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
I got to my barber's really sweaty, and I walked
fast and was hot outside and I needed to aerate basically,
so I went into the cubicle in the bathroom. I
took my top off, my t shirt off, and pulled
my pants down and was standing in there just like
trying to dry out. But I obviously not locked the
door properly and someone walked into the cubicle. It was mortifying.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
So we wanted to know, one hundred the hets, when
did you get caught in a compromising position? I told
you this three eight years back, when I was a
few years ago. I was on the plane wearing a
jumpsuit and I'd gone toilet, And any anyone who wears
a jumpsuit will know that it's not a flattering sight
where you're sitting on the low your unders.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
It dawn, everything is out and it.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Too had forgotten to fully lock the door, and a
guy proceeded to walk through. It was not a nice
time for myself, for my ego. So look, oh waite,
hundred the hets, don't be afraid to share when you
got caught in a compromising moment?
Speaker 2 (37:45):
What happened Brendan?
Speaker 6 (37:48):
So me and my mate went duck shooting. We had
to my mate's mother's car to do that.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
Oh no, you, I think you've got a bad patch
of receiver, sir. Come back, let's okay, we'll try. Are
you there, Brenda, Brendan near there?
Speaker 3 (38:10):
Yes, all right, keep going. So you were in your
your friend's mum's car.
Speaker 10 (38:14):
Yeah, yeah, so we borrowed that.
Speaker 6 (38:16):
We went duck shooting. We got covered in mud and stuff.
It was raining, so we get back to the car
and took all our clothes off from underwear and threw
them in the carsn't get covered and stuff, and the
keys were in the boot of the car on no trapped. Yeah,
(38:40):
so we're out in the rain and underwear and we
were sort of on top of a stop bank nest
to a road. Oh god, trying to break into the
car with a piece of wife and the for a
good twenty minutes.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
Yeah, oh my god, you've really the picture for us. Brendan,
thank you.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
So you can be treated in the middle of lasa
is joining us. What was the compromising possession, hiery, guys.
Speaker 11 (39:18):
So it was more that I taught my mum and
dad in a compromised spopulation.
Speaker 7 (39:24):
So it was just a speak birthday party and.
Speaker 11 (39:27):
Then everyone was downstairs party having a good time. I
wanted to a hair, stay my hair, so I went upstairs,
not realizing my mam and dad, okay. I walked into
their bed all and they were having a special puddle
on the bed. I just walked straight past him, really
poorly into the Great straightway hair, walked back past them
(39:52):
and then down to were in the party, and face
was impestial. She came down a short while later, tous
dress softly.
Speaker 1 (40:02):
I remember having one of my friends. Her parents had
a water bed though, and she just vividly remembers on.
Speaker 2 (40:13):
This son hands her till this day. Mary and Mary
and PJ. The podcast The Heads