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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Hits Drive with Medi and PJ thanks to Chimis
were House, the Real House of Fragrances on that I
think we're making burgers.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Actually making burgers, of getting them through the.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Drive, no making making.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Yeah, are we on the buns last night? Are we on?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
We're okay? Welcome to today's Halloween edition of the podcast
Produce a Serious Presents. I'm sorry that.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Was my spooky music.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Ah okay.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I wanted to ask you guys something about trickle treating.
I ask, Yeah, at what age did you stop trickle treating?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Yeah, I wasn't consistently going hard?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Would you.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Or would you stop?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I reckon like ten? I reckon twelve would be the
max agent. I think twelve you're getting old like twelve.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
The press if you're in your teens.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yes, yes, well every year on the it feels like
it like flashbacks to Win. I was sixty dressing up
as a slutty cat, and I knew that my teacher
lived on the street next to me, me and my
friend and we would go down an Oh, mister bib,
(01:17):
I didn't know that you lived here and would be
like trick or treating like sixteen with our little like no,
sixty cats. Now, I'm like, I just wanted to tricker
other people trick or treated at fifteen, but obviously not.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Hey, look Judgment pre Zone. Was he like the cute
teacher at school? He was? He was yeah, every every
school heads.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Goldsmith, mister Ruth, you, mister O'Sullivan.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeh was the teacher.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I think that the pa, well you was maybe your
sex teacher. What were you five guys? It was an
old girls school. He was just lovely. He was like
quite yeah, he was quite sporty, quite into rugby and stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Who was your favorite teacher at school though?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Did you have a favorite English teacher?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
I reckon? Oh oh, will you guys meet Missus Beast
from primary. She was a sweetheart. And then at high
school mister Hanson was hilarious. He always called me man child,
which in hindsight doesn't sound good now, but we have
banter and his grades. He was history in classics.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Mine was my drama teacher, Missus Nicholson. Oh yeah, she
was also our debating coach. And me and my friend
Josie hated maths and science and one day we just
we wagged science and we just went in like we
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just just didn't go. And then the next our science
each you hit usulf about it. No, that day he
came to find us because he was like, where are they?
Why are they not here? And missus Nichol would have
cried bless her lied for us, and she had to
pull us out for pull us out for debate.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Where were you wagging?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Where were in the drama room? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Not smoking outside?
Speaker 5 (03:20):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
No, no, no, no, we were like naughty, but.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
We were that wagging the toilets and just hang out
in the toilets for the whole break.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I was such a freaking goody good I don't think
I wagged once.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
That's the most one lamest thing. You think I'm going
to wag. And then you sit there and you're like
for an hour the cub and then you have to
be quiet when someone comes in in case it's a teacher,
and you're.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Like, were you at school in the days of vaving, sir?
Now you're older than.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
That, older than that. No, there was none of that.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah. I also loved sid Spanish. You did love him Spanish,
so I did. Even were you were you like your
star pupil oh? Nah? No, I probably wasn't like all
I was I was just probably a character, you know,
I probably just made him feel excited. School chair. We
(04:13):
should bring back another phone topic about schools or teachers.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, it's always it always goes off because it's just
like people love nostalgia, people love like delving back into
the and.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Just because then, because New Zealand is so small, when
you hear a teacher's name, people's ears break up and
they're like, oh my god, mister MacArthur, what's he doing now?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Totally? Oh yeah, mister Goldsmith he.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Was, yes, mister a few years. Okay, anyway, coming up
of the podcast today were talking about when oh you
had to cover up a big secret. Those calls were great.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Also when we talk my god, what are we talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Which did? Are you at past China?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Yes, Pj's your husband's been over committing.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Oh my god, yes, committing quite anxious about the weekend years.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Trickle treating as.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Well and trickle trading. You're gonna have to, You're really
gonna have to. You're I feel like you're going to
have to tell him you can't do that, you can
do that. You're going to have to.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
I can't tell him to not go fishing. It's just
a law of our marriage.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Then it's fine. He can go fishing. But there's no
way he's doing everything else that you put on the
list today. There's no way.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Yeah, it's too much. I can't wait to see how
the weekend actually goes. But I don't think he's going
to end up at his high school teacher's fiftieth. Let's
just ridic.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
I think if anything on the list, if anything on
the list was going to fall by the wayside, it's that.
Let's be honest.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Oh my god, enjoy the podcast.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
I realized the podcast.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Taylor Swift on the Heads. It's Team Past three with
Matty and PJ. Apparently she's just launched a top fans badge?
Is it on Facebook? I don't know anything about this.
I'm going to produce this. Sarah, who is Taylor's biggest
fair reporting live year?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Why did you try and start this conversation?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Well I had enough, I think, to then go to
Taylor's biggest fan in the world, so I can be like,
look and search Geneeric statement here producer herero just elaborate more.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Please so topical coming out of her song? Yeah, so
I just got notification on Facebook the other day and
it was like, you're one of Taylor Shift's biggest fans.
Here's your swifty badge. I clicked except and you've got
the bat the badge.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
So how many people get the badges?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
I think it was pretty exclusive?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Are you sure you know?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Last year I was on Missouri zero one of her
listener ship on Spotify.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Impressive. Now, look, Mary, you have just received a DM
from your dear mother, Tracy McLain, who I am still
us to hear from and to have an invite to
come for a family dinner. But that's all right for
another day.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
No, she is wonderful, and you would you two would
get along like a house on fire. But I got
a message on Instagram because I put up a little
thing on my Instagram story about some nuggets yep, And
I said, oh, should I do it? Should I eat
the nuggets? They look good? Should I have the nuggets?
(07:24):
I'm trying to be a bit healthier, but the nuggets
look and smell.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
I call them my name.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
And I got a reply to the story from my
mother saying, do not eat the nuggets? How awful? And
I just thought, in that moment, it does not matter
how old you are, how much you have done in
your life. The age stage that you are, you can
(07:53):
always be told by your mother not to do something
or be told off by your mother for doing something.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And do you think this just goes through our whole age,
I mean our whole lifetime. This is just gonna There's
no limit to being told off by your mum or
your dad.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Absolutely, And I think you either have one of two
reactions when that happens. You either bow down to your
parents or you get very very defensive. Don't you do what?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Mom?
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
My mom? So my husband always throws me out of
the bathroom in front of mum. And yes, I'm pregnant
with number two and I may or may not have
had a few cheeky drive through visits on the way
home because fries seem be the only thing that can
cater to my needs. And BJ will be like and
you won't believe we Polly went today, And I'm like,
and Mom's like, Puddy, you wouldn't dare Puddy? Did you really?
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Puddy?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
You must not go back. Don't do that for you
or the baby.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
And I'm like, bday, shall I jump in on this band? Way?
I can tell the tell your mum about the time,
you came with two burgers the other day to one.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Okay, all right, there was a one off.
Speaker 6 (08:59):
Many and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Before that. We want to know how far you had
to go to cover up a secret, because yesterday around
this time on the show, I did unveil that I
am actually seventeen a week's pregnant. And for me, it's
so hard because I'm such an open book and I'm
so transparent. I have the worst poker face in the world,
and what you see is what you get.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
You told me so early as well.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
I got that, I know, because I had guilt if
I was in here every day and I didn't tell you,
which is ridiculous I shouldn't, but I felt like you
needed to be with me on this journey.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Well, it was a beautiful thing to be let in
on the secret, and I remember vividly getting a panicked
text from you while I was out getting a coffee
one day being that I need to talk to you,
and immediately I knew. I just knew you, oh straight away.
But then, of course being let in on the secret
meant I had to help keep the secret, I know, and.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
You along with me poker faces probably the beast. I
must say you were really really great, Like there were
some situations we were in that were pretty tough, Like
do you remember when we went to that beautiful Mulbiture.
We were literally getting wined and dined around the region.
(10:19):
It consisted of a wine tour. It consisted of a
boat cruise, like over choppy water where we were within
offered fresh seafood and the glass of wine.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
It was actually that was hilarious. It was almost as
if you were being pranked, like it was.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Everything that she can't do right now, all together.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
All in one little pocket deal and see how she
handles it.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
And that is when my Sober to October line was.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Birthed, which I've got to say, but props to you, bravo.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Thank you, because it's kind of sad that we had
to come up with it. You know, it is so
embedded in our culture that people are so confused or
taken a back when you don't have a drink. But
I knew I needed a good line and the line
was Sober to October. And people were like, oh, I've
never heard that, and I'm like, yeah, it's you know,
it's that time of year where I'm like this is
(11:18):
when I can get away with, you know, just being quiet,
being a bit of a hermit, and we were just
giving a break for my body.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
We did add quite a few layers to it, though,
and I wondered at one point whether we were adding
too many layers to the lie well people keep.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Using when I started, and I was like, oh, how
long was it? After after Charlie's birthday?
Speaker 2 (11:40):
But then we had a good But I did like
the element that we added to it, which is that
because this is true, you did try and do dry
January and you failed. You've caved on the last day.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
So all right, well, if I'm going to do it again,
it's going to be in the middle.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Of the year and you have to stick it, stick
at it. So no matter what got thrown at you,
we could say, no, I caved in January, I've got
to stick it out to October.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
But then I got to October and I was like,
now I'm keeping on going sober till end of October.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
You know.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
We also had some photos that we needed to get done,
and we had to come up with an excuses to
some like potentially baggy clothing for you to wear. We
went to the Hall Ball we threw an entire hall ball,
and I had.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
To wear the most teenus dress because all these other
dresses were hugging and showing early signs of a bump.
So everyone was like, oh, that's such a nice dress,
and I was like, no, it's not arendous, but it's
the only one that is slightly covering r oh I
under the hat zoo ticks four full eight seven. When
did you have to cover up a secret? And how
(12:49):
elaborate was the cover up? How far did you have
to go? I want to hear some good white lies,
like how deep did you get in the store secrets
that you had to cover up? And how elaborate did
you go with your story.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Someone's text in in a very similar situation. They are
currently eight weeks pregnant and in the middle of a
deception at the moment because they're regularly going up for
drinks with friends and colleagues and so hard yeah, and
having to come up with excuses because she said, usually
I'd be the one buying the rounds, and I'm happy
to have a drink with my friends and everything, and
(13:28):
so the excuses have ranged from antibiotics, great one, I'm driving,
so I can't drink. I'm not feeling well. But she said,
I'm running out of excuses, like I've used them all.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Sack be sacked for two weeks, go down, Just say guys,
I'm done at least to get through or even going
for like a month, or I can just say you're
down with some sickness and then come out once you're
through the first trimester. Oh, it's tough.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
That's tough.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Har he's gonna meld oh hundred the hertz. What secret
did you have to cover up?
Speaker 7 (14:00):
My husband's now husband and I were dating and it
was really quote fresh, and I just kind of a
break up bones kind of had to keep on the
down life. We went away for a week to what
was hotels, I don't know what it is now, And
as we pulled up and unpacking our suit goes the
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couple and the shelf and next to us we both
worked with us who were doing the exact thing.
Speaker 6 (14:31):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
They came on the day like, what are the chances?
Speaker 3 (14:36):
I know?
Speaker 7 (14:36):
I just kind of went hi and then went into
our owns and never spoke of ever ever again.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Is that a couple still together?
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Secret relations?
Speaker 5 (14:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (14:48):
They little weekend worked well. Done.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
I was going to say, like, you'd either not go
out expecting them or you just both embrace the surrender. Right,
let's have a mess. Yeah, Brenda is joining us light handed,
hy Brenda, Hi, how are you guys?
Speaker 2 (15:05):
God, what happened with you?
Speaker 8 (15:08):
We were meeting house the one day and we got
my father in law my brother in law to help
us move, so obviously moving things, and there's a truck
to mean my my father in law picks up my
beats at table and it starts making the noise. You guys,
what's this? And I mean, oh, obviously no adult Yeah,
as massage, that's where it is I've been looking for.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Do you know what you could say? Massager? You could
say there's those little face if you've seen those vibrating
face cleanser.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Absolutely, before these things came out, you didn't have many options,
Like the issue becomes if you have to keep the
light going though, and your father in law then says
I'd actually love.
Speaker 6 (15:55):
To borrow them, and many and the podcast the heads.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
You and I have both had winnings in the last
couple of years, both got married to our husbands.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
And look back on the wedding photos, I'm like actually
we scrapped out pretty good.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
Oh yeah. And the thing is I now use those
photos for everything.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
Oh absolutely, Like when it's a family member's birth.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Dad roll it out. Yeah, Anniversary, Father's Day, Mother's Day. Absolutely,
I rolled those photos out because are the best photos
to last your lifetime. Are the best photos that have
ever been taken. So you and I paid good money
for those photos to be taken. Yousbelieve I'm going to
still use them. Keep your money's with Yeah. One of
(16:46):
the best things about your wedding has to have been
the dance for We had so much fun you. You
had a great, great wedding playlist. You know what.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
I freaked out in the lead up because we had
opted to go for a d and a lot of
people were like, really, are you sure, Like you can't
be the live band? And I'm so glad we committed
to the DJ head because they were amazing.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
We had a fanatic started feeling like a party and
I beata totally, so totally we had a great wedding
DJ as well. And I just saw an article that
said there's a new study has gone through and analyzed
two thousand wedding themed Spotify playlists that contained forty nine
(17:30):
thousand tracks in total, and determined what is the most
popular song for a wedding? Do you want to have
a guess.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Okay, okay, bran Aye girl Van Morrison or I want
to dance with somebody? Whitney Houston.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Are right, you're right, I'm right.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
There's the ultimate cliche when he does some songs.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Houston's nineteen eighty seven single appeared on four hundred and
eighty four playlists more than twenty four percent of the time.
And guess what. Clearly, no, no, no, clearly I'm a
walking cliche because this is the very first song that
we played to get the dance or started out at
our willings.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Hey, but look that you're safe, You're predictable.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
And that's fine, and that's nice.
Speaker 6 (18:21):
Fine Maddy and PJ, Mady and PJ. The podcasts, are.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
You all right? It is our occupation, stereotype and game.
We've had a lot of fun over the last few months.
We've had lawyers, security guards, ruck tribe, we did yeah, radies, farmers.
Today we are heading to the gym for personal trainers.
(18:50):
And all you have to do is call up. It's
convinced us that you are indeed a pt and many
and I have the workout if you're telling FIBs or
if you're actually being honest with us.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Here's the thing. And we say this every week, but
I swear it gets bigger and bolder and better every week.
They are just so good at lying, so good.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Okay, I reckon, We've got it. I've got a good
radar on. Jim is joining us. Welcome to the show.
Now you are a pet, Jim.
Speaker 7 (19:18):
Yes that's correct.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
Yeah, Okay, it's long hours, and it's split shirts, it's
annoying work.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Is it really really well? Actually? I guess that's true
because often you'll see people early in the morning and
then late at night, right like before and afterwards.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Okay, Jim, let me ask you this. What is your
protein powder of choice?
Speaker 5 (19:45):
Protein powder?
Speaker 2 (19:46):
It is really not worth the money, really okay.
Speaker 8 (19:52):
Synagrams are protein, Eggs are good.
Speaker 6 (19:55):
Eggs are really really Good's.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Got me, She's got me. We reckon, you're a pet,
are we right?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
No?
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Do you know what protein?
Speaker 6 (20:07):
Fo?
Speaker 1 (20:08):
So she just throw us the line about what are
you actually what do you actually do for a living.
Speaker 5 (20:15):
I'm a student, I've gone back to studies and you're
student doing health.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Okay, maybe you take some acting, truly, buddy, that was amazing,
well done, Jim.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Zero to go to Emily next on the phone, an
the hats. Welcome to Aya this week we're talking personal
trainers in Emily.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
That's you. Yeah, that's okay, Emily. Do you prefer leagues
or arm days?
Speaker 8 (20:48):
I personally prefer a leg day.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Okay, but yeah, okay, I'm going to follow up when
I didn't, I didn't get much from it. Then I
didn't get much, and then what was I expecting?
Speaker 3 (21:01):
You know?
Speaker 2 (21:01):
What was I expecting?
Speaker 1 (21:02):
It's true? I oh, you're cutting out about the Emily.
I'm gonna ask one more question. What time do you
get up in the morning.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
I'm got to put four m every morning, every morning.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
That's quite.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Now. I think my personal trainer. I think my personal
trainer's first client is at about five thirty.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Okay. Look, she didn't give us the most comprehensive or
thorough answer for the first one, But I are you
gonna say she is?
Speaker 2 (21:36):
I think she might be two. I think she's Emily and.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Auckland Are you a pet?
Speaker 8 (21:42):
Absolutely not?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
What what are you? I'm oh my god, we're just
we're crashing time.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
Anyone just tells us a yeah, and we just believe that.
I think we need to come back and with David
journalistic questions. All right, we are zero out of two
so far. Can we at least get one right with
Leanne and Hamilton. Welcome to the show. You're calling us
because you're a pte.
Speaker 7 (22:11):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
Okay, Leanne, I'm going to kick it off. What is
the most common question you get asked in your job?
Speaker 5 (22:19):
What's the easiest way to lose weight?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
That's convincing, very convincing. Okay, Leanne, what about this one?
Can you just say for me, get down and give me.
Speaker 6 (22:29):
Twenty Get down and give me twenty.
Speaker 5 (22:35):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
I think just because, actually, Pete, that's a like I
think that's a myth about pets, that they're they're actually
quite perky, most of them. And she had like quite
a lot of perk in her voice just then.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
I think, literally training, we just going for a little workout, Leanne,
I solidly firmly believe this time, yes, that you are
a personal trainer?
Speaker 4 (22:56):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (22:58):
No? I am not?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Oh you're jo What do you do?
Speaker 7 (23:06):
What do you do with.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
An event?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
This is our worst week? Right?
Speaker 1 (23:14):
We got meat to the during board. Maybe PTA was
a bit niche, maybe there's not enough Pty and May
and the podcast. I have a bit of a theory,
and I've only devised this theory by observing my own relationship.
But do you think that in every relationship there is
(23:35):
one who over commits to events and the other person
who kind of retracts and freaks out with over committing
to social events?
Speaker 2 (23:43):
Absolutely? Except can I tell you that that has completely
switched around in my relationship? So we're to you now.
I think I'm the one that tries to pull back
from things. But for such a long time, my husband
Ryan famously would agree to sign up for things and
then we get right up to the day and go,
(24:03):
I don't want to go. I can't be bothered going,
I can't be bothered. And now he's just completely switched around,
and he's the absolute social butterfly in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Isn't it? Because he decided he needed to get out
and about more and put himself out there is.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Absolutely And now I have Now I'm the one going,
I'm exhausted. Ryan stopped asking me to go to parties,
and I think I feel like naturally you fall into
one of the roles.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
And so BJ husband was talking about his week indo
here and he's like, Oh, I've got a busy weekend.
And I'm like, what have you ever committed to? Because
he is a serious, over committed and he's friends with
everyone and he just ends up making plans that you
don't find out till the last minute. So he was like, Oh,
I've got the fishing charter with Nick. I've got to
go sheer sheep at the AMP show. Carterton, are you
(24:48):
going to come? I think you should come with Charlie
be really cool for come much? Oh, I've got the
high school teacher's fiftieth on Saturday night. I was like,
what high school teacher? Are you tired enough? Where I've
never heard about this guy before, and all of a sudden,
he's going to his fifty year.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Hang on, So this is one of BJ's former high
school teachers. He's going to his fiftieth birthday is.
Speaker 1 (25:09):
And I've never even heard them and I didn't. I
thought BJ was in the naughty books at school.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
To be honest, I'm sure he was. And does he play?
Does he plan these things thinking he can tick everything off?
Because that to me sounds like a logistical nightmare.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Well then he goes, oh, well, I'll work out exactly
what I'm going to do closer at a time. And
I'm like, it's Thursday now, and I want to get
the Vigi garden planted, and I need you to help
me get some manure. We need to sort out the office,
and I need to go pick up this mattress and carpetee,
which is about a good four hour round trick.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
Have you still not picked up the carpety mattress?
Speaker 1 (25:42):
No, well they was sick with COVID and away. Actually,
I hope we've still got it. I have they even
sold it on? They can't do that.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
You've bought it, You've brought it. Have you paid money
for it? Then check before I.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
Don't know what we're going to do between the first charted,
the sharing sheep at the AMP show, the high school teachers,
the backup of the mattress, there's a lot going on, guys, May.
Speaker 6 (26:09):
And PJ Mady and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I just need to preface that what I'm about to
share is a one off and I am actually a
very cool, calm collected girlfriend, wife.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
You cool calm collected Those are not three words I
would choose to describe you at all.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
From the bottom of my heart. I'm not predictive, I'm
not possessive. I'm actually pretty relaxed for majority of the time,
right in the relationship sense.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
In that world. Absolutely, although you do you do often
panic if you haven't heard from BJ for like half
an hour.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Oh absolutely, hyperchondriador from way back. So something happened while
we were in the camper van over the weekend and
I was using BJ, my husband's phone. I think I
was trying to find something. He was sweet as it
wasn't like I was going for an and and then
his notifications popped up. Now BJ is still quite active
(27:08):
on stepchat. I dropped that app years ago, so I'm
not too letterate with it. I'm not the best at
working at but I got a bit of a shock
when a notification popped up from a girl called Ala
or Alice or Alie. It was a name that I
wasn't familiar with him being friends in.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
That vein something along those lines and said.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
Ala, and then next to it it said let me
show you how flexible a.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
BEJ.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
So you'd panic in that moment, right.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Absolutely, unless unless and I don't think this is the
case unless Bej has had a sudden like fascination with
yoga and has taken up like pilates or something.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
So I do the cool thing, re goo, Who's Ella?
Speaker 2 (28:04):
How did you say it? How did you say it?
Speaker 1 (28:07):
Who's Alla? Okay? I may have said it with a
little bit more.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
Forcing, yeah, And was the voice a little higher than
that as well? Who's Ella?
Speaker 1 (28:15):
So he walked quickly into Canter's like, what are you
talking about? And I'm like and I sort of like
slammed the phone's face. I'm like, Ella, and I pointed
the phone and he.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Goes, I don't know that.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
On Snapchat there are all these like accounts that pop up.
No that says true, and like he actually was top
friends with them, and it was like on the home
and it showed like all of these profiles Sarah, Sarah, producers, Sarah,
You're you're very good on stepchair. He wasn't. Actually he
had no idea who this person was. And apparently there's
(28:48):
like these profiles that pop up.
Speaker 3 (28:50):
Was it a notification though, or was it on the
stepchat app that you saw it?
Speaker 1 (28:54):
It was on the stepchat app, but it had popped up.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Like, that's kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
I feel like maybe you should have had a conversation
to us about the story before you brought it.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
But when I did go and investigate, it was a
total random and I think he just must have like
these profiles that pop up, it's like random people. Oh
my god.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
But you know what the algorithm does. It delivers you
things that you want to see.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
And she was she was just wasn't. It wasn't dodgy
or anything like. It was fine.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
I just wanted to how fast she could put in
the expect.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
Oh my god. Now it just sounds like I've revealed
on you that my husband she was cheating on me.
It wasn't. But he's just he has all these account
Oh my god. I don't know where to go with this.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Now you're fine. To know you're fine, You're fine. I
know what you mean. I know what you mean. It's
like often I'll be scrolling on Instagram and these accounts
will pop up on my phone that I don't follow,
and they're off. They often are may do you selling
you scrambling? I'm trying to help you out of a type.
Speaker 6 (29:59):
Well, I was.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I want to ask the question when did you falsely
accuse your partner of and you got it wrong?
Speaker 2 (30:07):
But now no, no, no, you're fine, You're finally honestly,
I did you.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Galah, he had no idea. Well, there's no connection. But
when did you point the finger and you got it
wrong and you looked like an idiot? Please join the show.
I'll wait one hundred the hits you can text.
Speaker 6 (30:25):
What Mary J, Mady and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I've been spiraling over here, producers here, it is actually
a thing. It's the thing.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
I was just taking the mickey out of you.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
To leave a little too hard to the joke. VIALJ
is not doing anything sinister at all.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
I've got my stamp chat up, I've got a random
called Cinder, I've got g with a heart, the only
thing I would say he needed and has notifications off
from like sedested accounts, because that just flocks his phoney.
Speaker 1 (31:06):
This is where I need to get properly comprehensive and
literate with the snapchats so I don't conclusions.
Speaker 6 (31:16):
Mary J, many MPG the podcast that.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
The same time, we want to know when you may
have overreacted with your partner pointed the finger. You may
have thought that they would being naughty and chaining, but
you got the wrong end of the stick. Mal is
joining us til.
Speaker 8 (31:37):
Hi, how are you very well?
Speaker 1 (31:40):
What happened?
Speaker 5 (31:42):
This is such an embarrassing story, but it makes sense
on both sides. So my partner been around and was like, oh,
I'm going away for two days. And I was like, oh, cool,
where you are going? And then he's like, oh, I'm
just going to be away for two days and he
wouldn't answer my question. And anyway, he went away for
two days and we didn't make contact or anything, and
I was really suss about it. And then I saw
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his location was in Napier when we're in Wellington, and
I was like, going on And then I was like,
he normally calls me when one of us goes away,
and I was like, why aren't you calling me back?
And why aren't you texting me? And what's going on?
Like this doesn't this isn't like you, you know, like
I thought maybe he was just having a break or something.
I just didn't know what was going on. And then anyway,
he came back the second day and then I was like,
(32:25):
in a bundle of tears, like are you cheating on me?
Like what's going on? And then he was like, actually,
I booked us tickets on a trip and I've organized everything,
so just come with me. And anyway, we went to
went to Napier and he had a whole proposal set up.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
So oh, I was.
Speaker 5 (32:45):
Expecting because my sister at that time recently caught her
partner's heating, so I just had it in my mind
because I was helping her through it.
Speaker 8 (32:54):
So I was just a mess, and I was like,
you know, no, I'm not going with you, and what's
going on?
Speaker 1 (33:00):
But did it make the proposal that much sweeter because
you'd gone from one like extreme end of the spectrum
to the other, or were you or like or was
it just a miss?
Speaker 5 (33:14):
I just he does he does say like he didn't
want to ruin the surprise and stuff, and I was like, yeah,
but like you could have at least see, you know, something.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
For the worst sort of scenario, Well, at least there
was a happy ending in the end.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
We're still.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Him as weird has prize coming away. Thank you so
much for joining the show.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Sounds great, exactly, I wrote the Hopeless Romantic Listen to
this page. We were very open with our social media
excess I noticed a chat between her and a mutual
friend one day, didn't read it or anything, but then
I noticed the next day it was deleted. Obviously started
to pen it. Turns out they were planning a surprise party.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
For look see don't jump to exactly.
Speaker 4 (34:08):
Exactly Mad and PJ, the podcasts, the People's Poll, the
People's Poll.
Speaker 6 (34:16):
Everybody comes together. It's the People's Poll.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
We check out People's pull love on Instagram page that
has drive with Mady and PJ every single weekday. You
can go and wait in on our poll and vote. Today.
It is Halloween. O came actually forgetting that. It's it's
not like a bit of a non event.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
Yeah I know. I mean producer Seria Different wearing the
little Devil horns horns and then she ad Hoc handed
you a cowboy hat and Mia to too.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Yeah, so she's been pretty low level this year.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
To be fair, we haven't we haven't come to the
table with our best if it's for Halloween this year,
but lots of people, you know, it's obviously very like
st in American culture has really made its way to
New Zealand over recent years.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
The question is, though, are you going to be embracing
the trick of treats tonight or are you going to
be closing up your curtains, because I like a lot
of people just decide to pretend that it's not happening
and lock up and go, nuh, we're not home. Sorry.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
Yeah. I mean, I'm lucky that I'm at work, But
I think if even if I wasn't at work, we
went out. The first year that Ryan and I lived together,
we went out. We bought Halloween decorations and we bought treats,
and then we just got so sick of all of
the people knocking on our door that we stopped doing it.
We haven't done it since.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
We just don't get them because we're so from it.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
Will be absolute to get to your hair.
Speaker 1 (35:49):
But I think if we're in the city, oh actually
maybe no, I've got to Maybe I would like have
a couple of things. I think maybe, But a couple
of years ago I would have totally turned it to
be like no, not this, Yeah, this is too much, man.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
I'll be honest. A big part of it for me
is just organization. I'm just not organized enough to think
to plan ahead.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
And there's always the people who improvise on the spot
and they're like, oh, I've got some dried apricots and
some raisins, or maybe would you like some cut up
man arens.
Speaker 2 (36:16):
We can get you that.
Speaker 1 (36:18):
Kids are honest.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
I really just wanted the chocolate, all right?
Speaker 1 (36:23):
So why you know the text machine four four eight seven?
Are you embracing the trick or traders tonight? Will you
be providing goodies for when they knock at your door?
Or are you closed up shop for the evening?
Speaker 4 (36:36):
Many MPJA, the podcasts, the People's.
Speaker 2 (36:42):
Poll, the People's Poll, everybody comes together.
Speaker 6 (36:44):
It's the People's Poll.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
Happy Halloween to all the trick or treaders out there,
and tonight our question for the People's Poll is are
you going to be embracing trick or traders? Are you
going to be opening that door and giving out treatise
or are you shut up shop for the night and
you're pretending you're art? You can text hery more force
of it.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
What's the Halloween equivalent to the Grinch?
Speaker 6 (37:07):
Because the what do you call it?
Speaker 1 (37:11):
The Oh, my gosh, like a grim reaper?
Speaker 2 (37:15):
Oh the grim Reaper? Yes, oh it is quite grim.
It's a bit grid. But I know what you mean.
I know what you mean. What I will say is
that most of our most people listening are very much
in that category. Not on board.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
As someone said, definitely not home lull hi, I am
out tonight. No, no, absolutely not no way, don't believe
in it. I put the barking dogs in the front yard,
so no one kids. Really interesting. I would have thought,
you know, our loving his audience would have been all
about it.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
Not about it in the slightest and and the text
the Facebook pole sorry, the Instagram poll reflects the text machine.
Of people said no, go away, Only twenty one percent
said yep, we'll embrace it if they come knocking.
Speaker 1 (38:06):
Oh my god, that's so interesting. Someone also just takes
us if anyone is brave enough to walk up our
drive day or getting a whole bag of lollies? What
does that mean? Like it's a long driveway, or it's scary, or.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
You've put maybe that's maybe they're like, we've got one
bag of lollies and I'm not I'm not doing this
all night. You get the whole bag if you're the
first to knock. Otherwise go away.
Speaker 1 (38:26):
First and verserve right. So okay, A lot of people
close it out their doors tonight. Good luck, Trick you treat.
This is a long sid
Speaker 6 (38:36):
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